Lady Gaga - Til It Happens To You (Official Music Video) 

^THIS

What baffles me the most is how it's so difficult for people to even understand that in the first place.

Exactly!

The dorm room scene when he walked in while she was doing her work REALLY got to me. I was like "what a fucking bastard". nobody, male or female, should have a piece of them taken away like that.

+Greenville Belle I agree

I feel bad omg

At 12 you still believed it was normal?

@@Blueboy1144 stop victim blaming. its 2021.

@@Blueboy1144 of course! you're a kid! you'll believe what your parents tell you, no matter what the rest of the world does. i believed things my parents said till i was 28. it's very hard to think differently when you've always heard one thing.

@@umchileanywaysso3780 This guy is a disgusting troll. He's been rude in other comment sections.

I'm a genderfluid 20yo female. My father, at 14, and my third and last boyfriend at 19. I felt my heart break reading this, not only because of the similiarities, but also the gender inequality that is in this. I really, really hate when people gaslightes men over abuse. Like, really, what the fuck are you talking about, get a grip. Those are people who don't deserve a single glance from you, or anybody. Those are literally the worst. But hey, until it happens to them. I would never wish someone to experience this, but my rage is building up. I really hope that you at least escaped all of that.

I'm not here to tell you that you will "just be fine". I'm here to wish you all the best and a healthy path towards recovery, freedom and happiness. I'm with you man.

I haven’t gotten over the four months of sexual assault I had received from a classmate in school when I was 15. No one ever told me it wasn’t my fault and when I refused to talk about what had happened, they said that I was “fine” and misunderstood it was just a joke or something like that. And when I started to show signs of PTSD and using extreme avoidance techniques to make sure no one could ever touch me without my permission ever again, they said it was my fault and I was doing it for attention.

@@kenthuang436 ​ it is not your fault, you did nothing wrong, stay strong , it takes time to heal, I’m sorry for what you’ve been through

@@sherimourThe worst part is that the school psychologist even blamed me. I still have a paper she wrote about me where she said that all of the bullying and also my fear of certain classmates were of my own doing. I mean what kind of woman whose job is to try to help kids would say such a thing to a kid she knows was sexually assaulted because the kid who did it was punished lightly the first and only time the school knew about it and was showing very obvious signs of trauma and hyper vigilance because they were afraid of being sexually assaulted again since it kept happening for months?

I feel your pain. I was 3 years old when it happened to me. My parents and sister believed me when I spoke at 7 years old. The rest of the family called me a liar. It's the last time I talked about something that was hurting me.

@@msanna4 I'm so sorry that happened to you, I hope you are doing okay ❤

i was 4.... and still no one has believed me after 7 years and the people who did it still deny me the sad part of it is there my family.....

@@msanna4 We love you

@@MyNameIsMissMe How am I attention seeking? Don't bother commenting if you can't say anything nice!

Same, when your 5 you don’t know what’s going on

that is at least the seventh time i read that, and it grosses me out. People are seriously sick, hope you are doing well now.

I was 6 years old, nou i am 50 years old and the dond beleve me

Fr, like when ur 5 u dunno whats going on

I hate it when they say that ! Like we were kids !!! What do you expect me to do ... I was told I was making stuff up... I felt so lost

Professor Rob I don’t know if this means anything but I’ve written a little something for you. :) Listen to me. Alright? Please just listen my friend. YOUR NOT POINTLESS. Let that sink in alright? Take those words in right now close your eyes and remember those words. “Your not pointless.” Because it’s true and I know right now you don’t believe me cause your afraid. I know you are, but that’s okay. It’s ok to be afraid. Fear is a superpower, it can make you stronger, faster. You can truly do anything you set your mind to. But even more than that you have powers you could never even dream of you can do things amazing things. I have got your back. Please don’t give up. Right now life is harsh, hard, difficult in so many ways and it is hard to see a clear answer to all this mess! It feels like sinking in a swamp. My friend committed suicide, she thought that no one loved her, thought everyone hated her and that she had no purpose. Please, don’t do this. Even tho it’s difficult to see, if you allow your mind to settle, if you focus hard on a goal, it will become clear. I know you’ve got no reason to trust me I’m just a stranger. Maybe don’t trust me, trust my words. We may lose the battles in our lives but you must never lose the battle of your soul. Your spirit may bend but never break, your soul may twist but you will never snap. I believe in you. God bless you truly, Godspeed. A new time is dawning. You can become who you really are! Find out your true potential to change the world! No surrender! You can do this, not tomorrow Not next year NOW I believe in you I believe in you I believe in you And soon you Will believe in YOU God BLESS you You know I got bullied every week for 3 years bashed up in the streets. I tried fighting back I never gave up. I was sent to hospital with an engraved face I was so ashamed of my defeat against those bullies. But I won’t give up. I know I can make a difference, I know that everyone who suffers like I did, and have gone through more, can do anything. Because anything is possible. Through the years I’ve tried to make a difference, help others like I’m trying to do now :) I even made a short film on my channel, 2 whole years of my life making it and now finally it’s out. I hope I can motivate people, and maybe you, with it. (The Kings World:Battle of the Soul) it’s called. And it’s about defeating your inner doubts and coming out on top. I know you can do just that if you believe in yourself. Anything is possible. I BELIEVE IN YOU! IN YOU! Run fast, laugh hard, be kind :)

You are not alone

same happened to me when i was 19, just meeting and getting to know my biological dad. Went to visit him, he drugged me, and told me no one would believe me he would tell everyone i was lying. i tried to tell my mom but she didnt even want to hear it.

Omfg what kind of monsters are we living with I'm sorry

i believe you

Thank you Noone ever said that to me

@@elenamartinez3340 Your Welcome. Reminder, someone out their loves you and respects you :)

+1

Hie Rachel, I'm working on a paper on Gender based violence and I would like to talk to you personally if that is okay with you

@@oliviagunda9914 it’s okay with me.

@@dunwoodie27Thank you, so how do I reach you? Any social media platform that you are comfortable with.

Love the support

its hard to stay strong but trust me I'm trying everyday and failing everyday.

@@sophiealenaa I believe in you!it'll be better ❤️

@@Milky__Way_ thank you I just wish I could feel the same, but it does mean a lot to have someone believe in me.

Что ухудашет ситуацию, так это то, что многие из них пишут, что не заявили. Преступник остался ненаказанным. И ладно, если это дети. Но взрослые блин. И тут же жалуются, что в этом обвиняют жертв. Да обвиняют. Этим молчанием они помогают ублюдкам.

Thanks. You are a wonderful person 💕

Thank you 😭❤️

💕

Thank you

It should be in one of the top 10 saddest music videos

💪✌️

Hugs

I am sorry for what happened... you are so strong and brave. Sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. You did well telling your mother, I hope you are doing ok, sending you my love 💜.

a day before my birthday too, since then I have never had the courage to celebrate my birthday because it reminds me of my trauma 😭

Thank you

I am sorry 😞 you where attached stay strong 😊

I had to repeat that to myself every day after my first day of group therapy..."it's not your fault" 🫂. Thank you. Words can't express how hurt I am that this also happened to you 😔

+Martha Redfield and songs about meaningless love and cough netflix and chill- they get all the attention. so annoying.

+Martha Redfield this won an award

because no one wants to face what's happening to our young women. we're a first world country we shouldn't be having these problems right? I was sitting in the library at my college campus and in a study room where groups have priority. these guys were in there at first they were watching porn on their laptops then it went to looking at female students online. they were describing her breasts but saying vulgar things and one was describing her vagina and what it was like. outraged I told them I was here for a education and reported it to the librarian. she actually asked me to leave and told me boys will be boys. Now I've been through worse I was also assaulted but my point is its so bad that rape culture its even apparent in the smallest form were you can even get introuble for reporting behavior that is a precursor to assault. I should be able to go to my library without hearing about how they dehumanized another human being. That unfortunately isn't what really going on. We all saw the cat call video of the woman walking down the street in New York city. People just don't want to face up to what has happened.

+Martha Redfield It doesn't get radio play because it's not a "Gaga" song. In order for it to play on the radio it has to be released from her album as a single, but this song is actually for a film called "The Hunting Ground" so there won't be radio play through her. (something like that, I don't know exactly how it works but I know when it comes to radio play there's specific criteria involved)

Andres wrong!!! Any song that is solicited to radio by a record company can get airplay. Album tracks can get unsolicited airplay..it happens all the time..it just debuted at #30 on adult contemporary radio this week..

That's so disgusting i'm so sorry justice will come one day

He's my cousin and it was long time ago and I never realised it was wrong until 1 year ago.I always thought only rape is sexual assult but its not.touching is sexual assult too

Same x

It's my dad. It's not super bad...an occasional smack on the butt but I'm a 15 year old girl. Not okay. I can relate to you. Everyone thinks my dad is a great guy.

@@allthefeelz4423 Please tell someone. There must be someone you can tell.

You are so brave to talk about what happened to you. I know all too well it is not easy to talk about. You have to believe you are a strong and beautiful Woman. Any one who survives SA are heroes because it is not easy to come to terms with.

@@oliviasmith6192 Thank you so much..

I too know how this feels I’m sorry you have experienced this pain but also knows it’s okay to know other people are with you I pray a lot and will for you as well sometimes I try not feel at all but as it is still happening we will always feel something just pray about it and shove it it doesn’t work that way and you know what it can when we fall just get up I struggle from it and still am please pray for me as well love much me too

❤

Me too❤❤❤❤❤

I'm sorry for what you went through... you are so strong. I wish you the best. Hope you are ok 💜.

Same. I waited for a while for my mom to understand and take my side. She never did. But as a mom with two girls, over my dead body!!!!!!

I hope you are doing OK x

How are you feeling now? 💗

Glad to hear it stay strong we are here to stand together through are dark past and help eachother build love and acceptance for ourselves

Heyy. Its not your fault. Please dont hate yourself.. :( im sorry for what happend to you

You are amazing ❤️❤️❤️ Stay strong!

You still can Tell you storx

Anybody can be a victim or survivor of this type of abuse. Don’t let anybody tell you that your experience isn’t as bad or wrong because you’re not a girl like me. Boys and men deserve all the support in this as we do.

Im sorry what you went through, You deserve justice, None of this was your fault, You were a kid, I wish you the best in life and i wish you may heal and hope you are doing fine.

❤♡

mother monster

of course we are

I love LG

agree

Mikayla Sings don’t give up. I know you’ve probs got no reason to listen to me but I’ve written a little something for you. I really want you to know that your not just an object that can be used by other people. Your a living human being with a soul and a heart. I had a friend who was raped many times, she committed suicide...you can’t give up, you can’t give in to the darkness in this world you have to be the light. You have to believe in yourself and believe that you can go on. Learn to feel the strength within yourself. The hands and feet you control, your very sight and your mind, it is YOU. And you have complete control over your future, your destiny. You have power, you have strength. You have no limits to your strength. Many troubles and hard times will beat against us, many failures, many times we will doubt ourselves... In life we bend but we must never break Your spirit may twist but you must never snap And even though we may lose the battles in our lives You will not lose the battle in your heart God bless you, I bless you. The time has come to become who you were always meant to be! Not next year Not tomorrow NOW⚔️

@@asherpikesgoldenmoralcinem5770 thank you so much for this. It's taken me any months to realize that I can't let this control me. Thank you ❤❤

Oh my....I am so sorry!! I believe you! Sending love...

@PurpleLiza thank you. And that's awful and I'm so sorry that happened to you. I'm here if you need someone to talk to ❤

same thing happened to me but i havent told anyone yet

I am sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave. I hope you are ok 💜.

So many dislikes? There's not even a thousand. I understand that there shouldn't be even one but compared to the millions others get every year it's okay.

Yoopsen213 Did you even read what I put? What on Earth gave you the impression I was a troll? I literally put in my comment "there shouldn't even be one." How can you complain about that? Also you surely can't expect a video from someone popular to be have no dislikes.

+Lucs Sebá 68,000 vs 1,000 is over 95% approval rating.. calm down

bigfurhat bigfurhat It's astonishing how many stupid people there are on the internet. Did I ever say that no one should be allowed to dislike a video? On an ethical standpoint this video shouldn't have any dislikes because of how good the message of the song is. That doesn't mean that people aren't allowed to dislike. You're such a mislead soul. Just go off the internet. Read a book. You're clearly not intelligent enough to handle the internet. And believe me - that is an insult.

+Lucs Sebá Lack of empathy. That's why everything is so fucked.

I am so sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave. I hope you are ok, you are amazing.

There are so many of us. It's easier than ever to share a photo or video, and find yourself threatened or blackmailed. We can never blame ourselves - only live, learn, and share from our experiences. Bless your soul. I hope you are well and never stop spreading your message. I'll be doing the same. We are in it together. Thank you for sharing.

Did anything happen to them? That’s more than just an assault it’s child material out online I hope that it was all handled and stopped and taken down I send you love and healing ❤️

@@JustinaJayne My stupid child brain didnt tell anyone, and then he deleted his account

It's so hard not to blame ourselves but it's not our fault we were young and being taken advantage of by adults

I didn't let that happen; fellow survivors in my family let me down (of course, under the spell of our abusers), which forced me to accept my destruction from everyone surrounding me.

​@kittyonmydesk5532 don't ever let them gas light you or make you feel unworthy of love, happiness and self-worth. You deserve love. You deserve happiness. You deserve to get back your self-worth.

@@kallandracampbell2105 That's the thing: you're groomed to let them twist you anyway they want, so they do, and it's the worst when the only people surrounding you have done exactly that, and when organizations and others out of the circle do little to even console you

@kittyonmydesk5532 I know. I have very little support myself but I found the strength not just to get back up, but to build from it and become who I am today. I am working in mental health. I believe in you, I have faith in you. Try to seek people that are not toxic towards your healing. Find the helpline #'s

+LoveChezzabella clothes do not make her a target because they look like that, some clothes are easier to remove than others. its easier to rape, and don't say nuns don't get raped because they cover up. Long dresses can be ripped to tie them up and gag their mouths so they cannot scream for help.

+Stavol2Dual very true. I never thought about that.

+nosferotica char.txa.cornell.edu/lennon.htm

yup , its not about what we are wearing , muslims cover them selfs cause they dont want to get raped but we raped :((( .

***** you should be ashamed of yourself

+Mehdii Laghzaoui I'm pretty sure people aren't going to stop raping others just because lady gaga made a song though.......

ZebraManYouSuck she didn't make the video so she can stop the rapers, she made it for those people who can be potential victims and aware them even more about rape that's all :)

Mehdii Laghzaoui Oh sorry then

+Mehdii Laghzaoui What point is she informing on? Is she informing on the fact that men and only men rape women and only women? Is she informing on the point that women are more likely to get raped at college than not? Is she informing on the point that women aren't responsible for their own safety? Because that's what this video is suggesting. And those are all lies. She is saying nothing new or insightful, she is playing on women's fear for attention. It is an extremely old trick, and very many people are falling for it. Imagine if she swapped the genders in this video? THAT might actually be new or insightful. Or informative.

Obvious pseudonym we are aaall aware that men rape boys small ones young old and women with all kind there r even some sickos who violate 'animals' and bestiality stuff, but when she focuses the lights on what happens in the educational system, what lays behind ever rooms door, if the women who are potential future director or managers or any successful job they could have is actually raped in the place she goes to learn and to practice what could define her lifes path forever THEN everything will fail, it is bad that people are raped, it is bad for everyone, but it is worse for someone who's building their future.

You are so strong and brave... sending you my love❤

My body still remembers everything even if my mind forgot. the trauma stayed with me, affecting my whole life.

I'm just waiting till July when the statute of limitations runs out for a courts martial on anything that can be wringfully turned around against me. Then it's game on!

I sadly can’t do anything to my perpetrator because of the stupid statute of limitations and no one ever telling me about my rights as a victim. I missed the cutoff by two years and may never get justice unless someone else comes forward which I doubt will ever happen considering the sexual assaults happened 23 years ago.

I am so sorry for that. You never deserved that kind of treatment

You can't just "shake it off", but you can try to help yourself and replace the treatment towards your body, starting with yourself. Your body deserves love, genuine caresses, felt hugs, you don't have to feel this pain on you. You can share it. You can talk, you can be alone whenever you want, and you can, no, HAVE TO surround yourself with real people, not Monsters.

+The Antichrist Shouldn't have been raped in prison unless they raped someone else before they were arrested, but why did they end up in jail? They were a threat to innocent people. They don't deserve rape but they reserve restricted freedom.

+The Antichrist My new reply is also, men raped outside of prison do exist, and yes it is serious as well. Please don't misunderstand. I wasn't very clear in my precious comment.

Preach it

The song is important because of the issue

+Hey It's Kyla You agree they don't deserve rape? So then it's a problem? You can't justify it just because they're in prison, not everyone in prison is there because they raped someone, there are other crimes...

Omgg ! Babeee ! this that happened to you is terrible and ofc you didn't deserve anything like this !! I hope you are okey and if you ever need help I am here ! My IG is : Vasoulahappy and my snap chat : vasoulahappy

you are a brave brave soul, sweetie. I'm so glad you overcame that. *hugs*

It is to bad that song is a total FLOP --- as no one is getting the message I guess? --- It is NOT even in the top 200 songs sold on iTunes = TOTAL FLOP

+Greg alan it is so ignorant of you to say that. Its totally obvious that she is trying to put a message across and the message is pretty clear, you should probably think before you speak.

+Kuro Neko that's horrible im so sorry

Yuri Trash You are not the cause of what happened to you, these traumas May never leave you, there will be times that you will be overcome with sadness. That is normal, there’s no such thing as “get over it” or “it will be fine.” The truth is that it won’t, it’s the harsh truth and people cover life in fairy tales like it will be alright. You will be sad in life, you may never be able to move on. The best thing is to just accept what happened, accept its a permanent scar, and use the experience to make you stronger. To make a difference, help relate to others and use your strength till it happens to us....well what about after it happens? Do we just give up? No, we march on, to victory or defeat, we never surrender. Cause there’s some good in this world, and it’s worth fighting for :) YOU! Are worth fighting for! :) God bless you Our spirits may bend but we will never break!

@@asherpikesgoldenmoralcinem5770 I love you♥️ and thank you♥️

I am so sorry that is not ok and not right I believe this should be stopped if you believe it to reply to this comment with yes and i will add your name to the petition

Men AND women do it, although men do it more.

Yuri Trash I hope you didn’t forgive her.

don’t feel ashamed it’s not our fault. we did nothing to deserve this pain

God I feel you i still havent said anything because he was my uncle and i though i had done something wrong to deserve it. I was 11 and he was 37 I couldn't stop shaking

Hug

I am so sorry for what you went through... for everything. You are so strong and brave. Sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. You deserve hapiness, you deserve to live without fear and pain, you deserve the best. I hope you are doing better, if not please remember that you are amazing 💜.

You are not worthless. You didn't "invite" this, nor did you cause it. The abusers are worthless.

I hear you, it hits different when it has happened multiple times, sometimes I wonder, am I at fault or is my fate this messed up

@@lwn2021 I have spent countless sleepless nights wondering how I brought this on myself, and have spent many years questioning why it happened. Something I didn't have 7 months ago when I left this comment, was the love and support from my partner. I'm doing a lot better, although the memories still haunt me, and everyday is a challenge. It took a great deal of strength to let my new partner get close to me, but he's a good one. I'm sorry this has happened to you, and I pray you find the peace of mind and recovery that you deserve. It's not easy, and I'm here for you. It can be so physically, mentally, and emotionally exhausting. And daunting to try new things and open yourself up to new experiences.

If people don't like the song? The music? Or the rythim?

Hello dear, Do uou need to talk about it? I'm here.

i'm available to talk too okay? If you need anything, reach out love x You don't deserve this and it's never your fault.

@@sxb8246 awww thanks very much I will be sure to talk to you do you have any other social media platforms?

@@mumisha6627 thanks I needed that 🥰do you have any other social media platforms for us to talk

Tell them. Tell everyone. Scream it out loud. Because it’s always going to stay with you and it should stay with him too. I was your age and younger when it happened to me. Make it his burden.

Tsu Zu a friend of mine 14 years old. A girl called chloe committed suicide, she was very close to me to. I feel u

That is soulbreaking :'(

Tsu Zu dam rip sorry for the loss

OMG that is really hurt when you think about it,hope she is in a better place now

❤️

Okemilyv never blame but find where you may have put yourself in danger. Control what you can, accept what you can't.

I was abused as a child. Did I put myself in danger?

I said "find where you may have", and for a child rape victim I would say that you can not learn how to better protect yourself from that. My comment was meant for adults obviously. I just don't like the mentality that rape victims tend to have of " nothing I do matters, I'll be raped anyway", because everything you do matters, including who you trust, or who you trust with your kids, or your friend's kids, or your young nieces and nephews, etc. I'm not simply victim blaming here, I'm trying to be constructive and encourage a preventative mindset, rather than a fatalist one.

But you wouldn't need to watch your back with if people didn't rape. So therefore all blame is on the rapist. It's like saying a person is at fault for dying from cancer. They shouldn't have got it. Lol

I get blamed every day. I was 15 at the time it happened. I'm 18 now and i can still feel him on top of me. I felt so helpless, especially when his friends called me a "stupid whore" for trying to turn him in. I was accused for putting in a "false" rape charge by his friends. My tiny 15 year old virgin self had no idea what was going on. All i knew was I didn't want it. He's still out there today.

me too:(

Did this happen to you or are you giving an example?

Alfie H this happened to me

My friend has a similar story, you are not alone

You are not alone I promise you that.

I believe you ❤️

My ex husband used to moleste me while we were dating and I never did anything "because it's what couples do" he would practically rape me when we were married "because we're married it's not a problem" I felt completely trapped. But my current husband has helped me see I was in a toxic relationship. That's why he's my ex husband. I just hope he doesn't treat his current wife like he did me.

I do. ❤️

I understand cause my boyfriend did too but at the time I didn't understand it

Same, he tried many times and succeeded once. He would verbally abuse me, manipulate me, and gaslight me. He convinced me everything was my fault and I had to apologize with sex or a blow job. Then we broke up and my own best friend did the same to me even though he knew what I went through. He would get me drunk and have sex with me. I don't think anyone believes me anymore because it's happened so many times. I'm worried people will think I am trying to get attention but I'm not. I can't sleep. I can't even live without reliving everything.

@TimothyWright I think you'll run out of hugging energy. 😉 Too many victims. Too many sad stories. Mine included

@@FluffstirdogWhat happened with you ?? I would request you to share... you will feel better...and remember WASN'T YOUR FAULT ♥️♥️

@@meow97830 I grew up in a broken home, got bullied in school by classmates and teachers, in HS my female teacher molested me for a few years. Everywhere I went for help I got blamed and thrown around. I even got kicked out of school for my awkwardness around other girls. The abuse by my teacher stopped when I was 19. It took me 2 years after to realize it wasn't all my fault. Sje was the one person I did trust and thats where it got me.. My whole community makes me feel like second level trash. Less than. Like a pity project. So if you think sharing will make me better it only makes me more bitter. No one gets it. I wish i can share more....

@@meow97830 thank you

@@Fluffstirdog Now be very strong....raise your voice against such injustice....try to make people aware....when you speak up such creatures understand that they aren't that strong.... I'll pray that you have a very happy life ahead friend♥️♥️

Flops don't deserve an Oscar

Flops wouldn't be nominee to Oscar

+Iván Espinal she's definitely not a flop, this is something emotional and real she talked about. Sorry that she's not throwing her body around like Demi Lovato but this is real life

She is not a flop She has never flopped actually

+Iván Espinal bitch please

Me

Me too

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Me😢

@Delaney Parker I know it's hard ...💔💔💔💔 I love you ....💜💜💜

Right on Annie! Great post.

Thank you for this I really needed this.

🤗

Annie Chipps I love you too ❤️

Yes she was incredible at the oscars and is an incredible person!

love your comment cheered me up

TIHTY 😚😍

yessss. :)

All this + more and it's not even May yet...

Nothing is gone forever, unfortunately, however, we can rise up again stronger. You deserve so much more.

You're an awesome parent. I'm reading comments and in most cases parents reject their children. It is really sad.

Same for my sister

I wish my mom would believe me

I'm happy for you and your son :)

Omg, hope your son mental health recovery well

According to psychology, there is a higher percentage of men being a victim of sexual assault than women. I, myself, I am a woman, also a victim of rape and now I am pregnant with his/their child. I am tired fighting with all of these battles but i need to keep going everyday because of this little human inside me. I know it hurts but we need to be stronger than yesterday.

You have so much support form all of us

@@cln-ns2ci why don't you abort that cretin growing before it's too late?

@@sturg1853 i don't want to. he/she have nothing to do with this. this baby is just so innocent. i will love her/him even thought without her/his father. Even she/he comes unexpectedly and in that kind of situation. It is not enough reason for me to do that.

@@cln-ns2ci well whatever, conceiving a child from rape is automatically abortion in most eyes. I even knew a girl that had to abort twice, having the blood of a degenerate flowing through your future child's veins might come back to bite you in the ass.

So true

I wasn't conscious and may be that was my only fault

Or drunk unable to fight back

ANKITA SHARMA It IS NOT your fault. Rape is caused by one thing; rapists. That’s it. Period.

I was 18 and roofied, I am a victim.

I feel terrible for what happened to you but yes it does happen to men

Literally people this generation say all the time it happens to men. It was past generations that had this bs ideology.

That is pretty much how I was treated. No one told me or made me feel like it wasn’t my fault. The school blamed me for it and even wrote it down in a psych evaluation that everything bad that happened to me was of my “own doing.” The school didn’t separate me from my attacker or take any actions to protect me from more assaults until I was extremely terrified to go to the class where I was constantly being assaulted. It traumatized me so much that I started to self harm just to repress the memories. I lived like this for seventeen years because no one made me feel safe and that it wasn’t my fault. They all made me feel ashamed. Honestly the only person who would have supported me would have been my sister but she was away at college when it was happening and I was embarrassed, traumatized, and ashamed for it all because that’s how the school made me feel.

Jin, no, you can't blanket people like that. I'm Gen-X and am very aware that men are raped. One of the most common places for a man to be raped is in the military. 1 in 7 men have experienced sexual assault. It's a real issue, and the stigma of being victimized needs to go away for everyone...

Sexual assault is not limited to ONE type of person. Anyone can be a survivor sadly. We need to change this is society but also teach everyone that’s it’s k to show emotions. If emotions are not processed it can be very harmful.

I have been trying to get any understanding, any sort of understanding of how it feels. It's because ever since I was a child I've been romanticizing rape without knowing it, or how bad that was, either that or id think about how much i just wanted to support and help survivors. Someday, someday I think I'm going to get assaulted, I don't know why but it's just a feeling, and when it happens, my life will be at some of its worst moments. It's a terrible thing, but I have this weird "connection" to it. I hope that if I have any idea of what it's like, maybe that feeling would go away, maybe I'd stop sxualizing it in my head, maybe I'll be able to help surivors even if just a little. Because rape is a terrible thing, and if I haven't been raped I should be thankful that I have not been. I don't know, if you have any advice, I'd appreciate it.

PREACH

:3

yes!! of course!!

+Sam 새뮤얼 This song is boring, ugly and pretentious, and it won't win any Oscars because it is not from a movie.

+Mommy Guada check the news chick lol she is one nominee

God bless you for believing him and trying to do something. I'm almost ashamed to say that because it should be an automatic response from a parent but so many times it isn't.

You did a good thing that most parents rarely do.

❤️

I am so proud of him too!!! From the bottom of my heart, I feel so much love for him. I am so sorry he's had to suffer this. And I'm sorry you're having to also. You're in my prayers.

I am so sorry for what happened to your son. You are being an amazing patent for being there for your son and taking his assault seriously

I know how is...isn't easy, but just have faith, always I'm saying to myself "your faith have to be greater than your fear". You are a strong person. You not gonna forget that, but you will accept that.

@@beatricegagos8591 Thank you so much. I really appreaciate this ❤

Me too baby

felt.

I tried reporting and the police just told me that they cant do anything and to forget about it.

+NANCAY WANG this song is not an official single thats why the number of views is not really high

+NANCAY WANG Because people is so superficial. There is good music and strong social musical messages out there, but usually they don´t get to be heard by many people.

+EarthenImage That's rich! This is not a strategy for anything and falls along the lines of a GROWING concern and ACTION BY the U.S. Government to look into the issue of sexual assault on campuses. It wasn't meant to be released with anything else... it was a power ballad FOR THIS CAUSE! It's obvious to me you missed the point!

+NANCAY WANG me too i complitly agree with u

+NANCAY WANG its called lack of promotion

Shallow win

roma trend definitely. When she performed it I lost it and couldn’t stop crying for an hour.

♡

you're such an amazing person Chris! Im glad you appreciate the message as much as I do 💖💖

+SupDaily06 :D

+Iggy Izzys One in five women get sexually assaulted, they never said anything about 1 in 5 women getting raped or that women are the only victims. Still, most of the sexually assaulted victims are female, that's a fact. But yeah, I forgot: Feminists are making everyhing up, sexual assaults are no serious issues and men suffer a lot more in our terrible society that is trying to make white, heterosexual men not the alpha leaders of evertyhing. Horrible, right?

+Simba G I think you don't understand the basis of feminism

I'm sorry for what happened... you are so strong and brave. Sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. I hope you are ok 💜.

+Emily Walsch For the beginning... I apologize,for the end, I Must Say... Good Job!

+Boo Berries thank you! I think the best feeling other than truly being proud of myself for the first time in such a long time, is knowing that my loved ones can actually sleep now. Nobody is consumed by fear and worry for me. That was the last thing I ever wanted to do but by hurting myself I was hurting those around me. Everyday is a new adventure! 😀

+Emily Walsch So proud of you

So glad for you x

+Emily Walsch hey emily, we all love you and so proud of you

Thank you! I agree with you 100% :))!

Because modern day examples of "Feminists" like Beyonce are just a bunch of man bashing, pretentious jerks who haven't the slightest clue of what real Feminists are.

girl thank you!! these people are retarded

+kats938 who exploit it for money

+Sarah E AMEN. If you can find my other LONG comment within this mess of comments, read it. The people who are trying to dilute the topic are usually MRAS. I explain in my other comment in more detail.

I am so sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave. You deserve hapiness, you deserve to live without fear and pain, you deserve the best 💜.

FINALLY SOMEONE, WHO EXPLAINS THIS!! You are right!

thank you!!! Omg people need to read this.

+HausofJon It's so sad that most ppl are too biased.

True, well said

thank you

OMG IM SO SO SORRY IS HE OK?!

My best friends brother had the same thing but it was an older man he has severe PTSD

I'm so sorry. I hope your brother feels better

I'm soo sorry. .how's he now Can I talk to him😢😢

How can woman rape man if his d is not up

I am so very sorry this happened to you. Most women I spoke with their own moms or mother figures had been assaulted and had no support. Small communities are hard as the doctor/nurse/spiritual counsel or guidance counselor is known to you or your parents. Don't just get on with it seek counseling with a female counselor. Keep trying till it feels right. For some it takes more than one try to find the right person. I read the Bible daily something I never did while I was younger and could have used some wonderful messages without the preach feeling

+jeremias matos according with you

true

+jeremias matos she is a good vocal artist

+jeremias matos eh maybe not in this clip but the rest of her career especially the start uve just describe very well lewls

jim jacobs She does not call for their attention being naked but for his talent, so do not care to undress or not

shame on him you made me feel emotional

I am really sorry for everything. You are so brave and strong. Hope you're doing better. We are with you, you deserve the best ❤

@@onthiscouncilbutnotasajedi2000 thank you you're a good person

@@amalkavautrin6653 No thanks needed. Keep dreaming for your life, even I don't know you, I know that you can achieve great things ❤

I'm really sorry about everything. You're strong and brave.

I did report it, but I don’t know they feel cause it was a female, and yesterday.

@@madisonwilliams9555 I'm so proud of you, that was an incredibly strong thing to do. I hope you are doing good.

@@madisonwilliams9555 Emma that was immensly bravr of you. Hang in there sweety 🧡

I am so sorry to hear that. I hope you are doing ok right now.

Same I was assaulted by a female when I was 6 to 8 by my own family my family still doesn't know about it

+Ana Fernanda de Regil Uribe find the police, try something

+Ana Fernanda de Regil Uribe Online. Assault. Did he stick his dick through the computer screen. I mean are you kidding right now -.-

+Andrew L hey! play nice. bullying is still bullying no matter the type. people hurt over these things! be more sensitive

wait what? how did you get sexually assaulted online? if you dont mind me asking

Andrew L Are YOU kidding me? Having Gaga as your icon and bullying someone like this, she would be ashamed. SEXUAL ASSAULT can come in different ways. It still HURTS. You CLEARLY didn´t get this song and the message AT ALL. You don´t know, till it happens to you.

I'm sorry for what you went through... you are so strong and brave. Sharing your story it takes a lot of courage. I hope you are doing ok, if not please try to remember that you are an amazing person 💜.

I was 15 when I became a victim and no one ever told me it wasn’t my fault or that I had rights as a victim or that I could ever press charges against the kid. The school didn’t even try to help me until I had entered the hyper vigilance state of mind and did everything I could to make sure no one could ever sneak up behind me and sexually assault me ever again and then came the victim blaming.

Thank you so much. I don’t know you but you seem so lovely. And this really brought a tear to my eye, even though I hardly ever cry. No one else would believe me, so thank you. I wish happiness for you too, I hope you have a great day. You deserve the world

@@xo_lexie of course Darling! 🖤 Thank you so much. This world is a cruel place but there still love out here. You also have a great day and continue to wish you nothing but the best and love! 💜💜

@Brianna Morgan 💜💜💜 Of course

@@xo_lexie I hope you fine happiness and joy in you life

Tnx for believing, I lied. Haha got em!

you're not alone.

Me neither...

well i listen to this song while masturbating..... this video kinda hot actually

+Shawn Rishwan looool

such a sadist!

+Renato Judas Hair: Telling others to accept you for being your self ;)

Can we please boost this comment because it actually makes sense unlike most of the others

Spot on!

and Mariah too dahhhling. :)

+Renato Judas tambien pienso lo mismo y me da gusto que hayas hecho eso muy bueno te amo gaga

Alex Farrell i'm so sorry because it happens to you. me either...he is my teacher Maths and my boyfriend. it such, right??

Alex Farrell Thank you for sharing your story it will help others like you come forward

Stay Strong and love yourself Alex, Your a brave and Strong Boy, Through the bad You have fought, Very Brave

Don't feel embarrassed, you didn't do anything wrong she did. I'm sorry that you had to go through this, you're very strong and brave.

Alex Farrell I'm literally tearing up hang in there

+iCoNiC-Gaming this comment is amazing, people like you give me hope for the world i am growing up in...THANK YOU

Holy shit, finally someone spoke up about it. Thank you!

+iCoNiC-Gaming: My 2 cents --- I've noticed a disturbing trend on the internet over the last several yrs (maybe longer) that anytime an article about any kind of women's issue is brought up for intelligent discussion, the article comment section or message thread is almost immediately bombarded by throngs of men who subscribe to the ideology of the MRAs (mens rights activists). I won't get into a detailed description here of their ideology, as the term is easily googled -----( MRA or return of kings). If you have a strong stomach, google read and learn, BUT... FAIR WARNING, it's BRUTAL stuff and if you are a woman who has been raped or abused or is extremely sensitive in any way shape or form, DO NOT go to their website because you will literally feel sick to your stomach, depressed, and in despair for days). Basically they are men who literally loathe women and say the most heinous vile horrific things about them, and they think abuse of women is a lie perpetrated by "feminazis" ( I see someone above already used the term feminazi -- oh goody the MRAS are here!!). I am speculating, but I would say that is where the 9000+ dislikes for this video came from, and most of the criticism as well. I didnt even need to read the comment section to know it would be filled with woman hating nonsense and I was right. Instead of focusing on the message in the video and the issue at hand (date rape on college campuses being ignored), the thread has turned into ... "all you people who think men can't be raped are a**holes" and "the statistics that more women than men are raped are a lie!!!!" and other similar garbage . This is what they (mras) do. They troll the internet looking for women's issues and they come onto a forum and prevent any kind of meaningful discussion from taking place by disrupting the entire comment section and posting purposeful flaming inciteful hateful misogynistic garbage, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, they turn every discussion about women into.... "THAT HAPPENS TO MEN TOO!!!!!!!" And that is just what started this entire comment section. Good job MRAS. You've done it again. The rest of my comment is not directed at Iconic Gaming but to all the whiners about male rape ------- Just for the record, no one denies that men are RAPED TOO. This video is about COLLEGE CAMPUS RAPE (not prison rape, not gay bar rape, not stranger jumps out of the bushes to rape you rape, not my uncle/father/cousin/brother/mother/sister/aunt raped me rape.....but COLLEGE RAPE.... which by stats (that mras will say are made up and a lie) is MOSTLY WOMEN who are raped in college. No one is saying those other kinds of rape are not as important , but Lady Gaga CHOOSE THIS TOPIC. If you wanna talk about male rape then YOU write a song about it and leave her song and video the F*** alone and let the rest of us who want to discuss college campus rape talk about it. MKay? Bye.

+iCoNiC-Gaming thank you for the positive comment unlike some ignorant heartless fools who DONT KNOW that need so stfu. if you dont know dont speak period.

+Kevin Jordan are you saying, that no one should speak about it?

That sucks really bad, did you tell the police everything? Because I'm pretty positive that if there was any penatration at all (fingers, foreign objects, body parts) then its 1st degree Sexual Assault. And if the police dont do anything you could send a letter to the state you live in

Whatsername not to be rude but they most likely won’t do anything. That’s what they are suppose to do but unfortunately there is so many sexual assault cases that they just tell you something will get solved but nothing will.

If you didn’t consent to it it’s still assault and you can press charges. Don’t listen to these people in the comments, i know from experience from people In my life, there’s doesnr need to be penetration it’s still considered assault and and it’s wrong! It’s not your fault and it’s fucked up if nothing is done for you. Stay strong !!

Always tell someone. Even if you feel in the slitest that the person will sexually assault you because if you don't say anything the situation will only get worse...You are a very mentally strong person.....stay that way.

same with me, but the most disturbing thing is that he is my uncle and i was afraid to tell someone because i didnt want to ruin his family (even tho is known the fact that he cheated on his wife, they re still together) and im afraid of how my parents will react.. i mean i think they will believe me but hes friend with my father and everytime he come at my home i tell my parents that i dont like him at all but they never knew the reason why and they think that im kinda joking.. idk how to tell them. this happened when i was little and sometimes i try to convince myself that it didnt really happened because its fucking disgusting when i think about it. im afraid that he will make people believe that i am lying and nothing really happened and that everyone will see me different or nothing will change at all.. it really sucks and i dont think that i'll be ever brave enough to say something.