Landlord PROBLEMS so Finding BLESSINGS in Ordinary Simple Things 

I am struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts and when I’m really having a difficult time I play your videos. Your spirit and voice have helped me get through some difficult days. Thank you for just being you. I hope you know how much light you bring to the world. Stay magical ❤❤❤❤

I feel completely in tune with your message today, Wendy. In the last fortnight I’ve been dealing with everything from a sudden family bereavement, to another close family member having a breakdown, to being stranded in a huge snowstorm. Tonight I sat in front of my bedroom mirror and thought - well, at least my earrings looked nice today, and I have a warm bed to get in. My bookcase also looks colourful and interesting. Small things to help me put one foot in front of the other. Small moments of appreciating life. Thank you for so generously sharing yours and helping me to feel a sense of community this evening 🌸🌸🌸

I am 81 and I have such a hard time wrapping my brain around the greedy unkind self-serving mentality it is so frustrating but I agree with you it is the little things that matter the most the little good things . Thank you so much for sharing and being so open and vulnerable with us. You are a very special and wise woman and I am grateful for you. Blessings and love from New Mexico

My daughter had the same issue moving out of her flat last year. They were charged because there was dust….they didn’t actually do the check until 3 weeks after they moved out so no wonder there was dust on the surfaces!!! Very crafty these landlords. I hope you get it sorted because we were all witness to your cleaning process. Xx

That's why I never knock myself out in cleaning an apartment that I am vacating. I scrub the toilet and vacuum, that's about it. David Sedaris calls it a "redecorating fee" and allows himself to do what he wants in terms of painting walls, etc. Once i embraced the idea of a redecorating fee, i have a lot more peace and satisfaction.

Just like you I moved from an apartment to a house, and I remember worrying about getting my deposit back because I had spilled a little bit of bleach which left a small white stain on the carpet in the corner of the living room. When their employee came to check the level of cleanliness before I left, I told him about the stain right away and showed him where it was. He was a super nice guy and said that this is a part of natural wear and tear and the apartment by itself looks very clean. He didn't go from corner to corner to look for cobwebs, etc, but he made a general assessment like a decent human being. Those decorated places you showed in the video are magical!

As an ex property manager - I’m gobsmacked. The condition of which you found it is the condition in which you can leave it (but I’m the same and would clean within an inch of my life), however any decent landlord would see the tenant has cleaned and provide an opportunity to go back to clean the missed spot. This is clearly motivated by money and if was he in Victoria, Australia would be thrown out of VCAT. This landlord is kidding themselves. All the best lovely. ❤

I live in Australia and rent through a real estate. Every time we have to move, we are forced to pay for professional cleaning, carpet cleaning, and pest control, and it eats up our entire rental bond. So we never get anything back. I’m like you, Wendy; we leave a place spotless, and it feels so unfair to lose our entire bond every single time. I hate having to rent! 😒 xx

I work for a commercial landlord, they are definitely trying it on. Fight it and don't give up Wendy.

I couldn't believe how hard you worked to clean your flat before you left. It is very hard to see how anyone could possibly find fault. Love and best wishes to you both in your new home, I hope you will be very happy there.

Contracts are binding by signing and dating. They can't change the contract after. That's illegal. All changes would be noted, all signed of by all parties with new dates.

Im just wondering why so many of us have depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts... I wish we all could be closer together to help each other out... I wish for all of us contentment and happiness 🙏🧡✨

I’m glad you share your stories with us. In the USA it seems people want to always portray themselves as never having bad days and they are always so productive. I know some of my family members do that. It somehow makes me feel like I’m not good enough. I try to remember it’s ok to slow down and take care of your mental and physical heath. I’m glad you are so honest!! Hope everything works out with the landlord. I don’t think they are doing the right thing. Love your paintings so much! Blessings to you and have a merry Christmas!!🌲🤗

Thanks for sharing those "little" things that help us carry on. When winter sets in I feel what you describe. Here is what helps me: Daily walk Hydrate by drinking more water. Do one thing. Depending on energy, sometimes I do two things. Be gentle with myself. Sleep as much as my body wants -- no alarms!

They are called narcissists & they seem to have come out of the woodwork, or have become more obvious since “ you know what “ & all that rubbish. I’m gob smacked at the reaction of the landlord, but at the same time, like I said before, here they are, larger than life. We know the world is a weird place right now, but shine your light even brighter & really piss them off!! “They” can’t bear it when we continue to shine our inner light for everyone to swim around in…💕💕🌸

Citizens Advice will be able to advise re landlord issues. They see exiting tenants as a way to earn a few extra bob.

Glad you are here Wendy! You are such a kind and generous soul and people like your landlord try to take advantage of your good nature. We have to stick up for ourselves when people try to exploit us. Hope you have a lovely week doing whatever makes you happy. x

I really struggled with landlords in the UK… I had an apartment in Edinburgh that when we moved in had awful sticky counters with dried soda stains and a literal used condom in a cabinet, and when we moved out, we got charged £20 per light bulb because we hadn’t put new light bulbs in (how could they tell?? They were all working) and a cleaning fee because there was one cobweb behind a bureau that was physically too large for us to move… The other one was in London, and I was moving back to the US, and they just refused to give me my deposit, no reason. Stopped responding to my calls and emails and just knew once I moved away, I wouldn’t be able to do anything about it. 😢

We totes got this! (Thanks to your daughter!) My "healthy habits and self-care" include starting my day gently with a cup of tea, having healthy snack options of raw veggies with a savoury, non-salty spice sprinkle, daily yoga stretching, daily reading (my choice - whether non-fiction or fiction), the option of having a half-day of "being small" (doing fun stuff with childish glee - drawing, window shopping, having a favourite meal, reading, watching videos, etc.), finding gratitude for the simplest things. Please do get some professional advice about the old landlord and what options are available to resolve the issue, so that you can move on with less internal stress. I think most of us love the colours and softness of Prismacolours, but are frustrated by the breakable leads. I had taken to using a sharpener that just removes the wood, and then using a sanding pad to get a point to avoid the breakage, with a moderate degree of satisfaction. It just takes time and care, for which i rarely have patience! But like many things in life, the results are worth the effort.😅 Many of us have long-standing health issues that challenge us - life's path is one we make, and is sometimes more like hacking our way through a jungle rather than strolling along a paved walkway. We must do what we can to stay strong and healthy, and take a breath, count our blessings, smell the roses, before confronting the next obstacle in our path. And sometimes we have to step back and sharpen our tools, and gather strength before moving forward. Sometimes its a matter of reminding ourselves that we posess our mental and emotional strength to wield our machete (figuratively, of course) and move forward on our path. Enjoy settling into your new home, find the things that fill your cup (and remember to do them - yes, smoothies!), sharpen your machete and catch your breath, cocoon if you need (it's that time of year, consider vitamin D and possibly light therapy) and even take time to be small. Sending love, light, and squishy hugs, and you can borrow my machete if you need!😂(probably feeling more like a character from The African Queen than Indiana Jones!) And, no matter if we are thousands of miles away, for those that care, a thought, a wish and a hope is always right there. Gentle hugs always to my kindred spirits 🤗

I didn’t comment after you left the flat, but I watched the entire cleaning video and what you did and the shape it was in when you left was incredible! Also expecting you to live up to a contract you didn’t sign seems basically wrong. And if the clause wasn’t in it when you signed it you didn’t agree to that clause. That’s common sense! So, don’t give up, unless you want to for your own sake!

My landlord is trying to keep my entire damage deposit because her 12 year old washing machine in our building stopped working while we were renting it, and she is trying to bring us to court for "vandalism" because of it as well, saying we are responsible for it breaking.... It feels so utterly powerless and frustrating to be in these positions with landlords. I'm only 24 and it's hard for me to rationalize these things and be able to keep moving forwards despite it. It's nice to hear someone with more experience talking about going through a similar difficult time, i really needed this video and im sending you so much love and courage to navigate your situation as well :,)

Due to my sever anxiety Wendy, I have not been out and about since 2000. So nearly 4 years now. I only go out to walk my dog from my front door, and I live in a rural place, and sold my car, as I could not drive it, due to the anxiety, so it was just a waste sitting there. I just do not seem to be able to help myself in moving forward for some reason? But I am so grateful for the life I have, and try and be positive in my outlook, and love being kind to others. But it only takes one unkind word from the few human beings I see, to make my day sad, as I am sooo over sensitive. xxx

Sorry about the landlord!!! So glad you have each other and that you always find things to be grateful for and happy about when you are right in the middle of things... I love happy lights too🥰😇🙏🕯☕🫖everything cozy🌷🌱🍀💖Warm hugs coming your way

Being creative and having divergent thinking, leads me down so many paths at home. I'm currently on summer hols. I can easily spend hours in my own world with my art and gardening if my partner has our daughter. But, once out of the creativity cycle, I suddenly realise I've been alone a little too much. Balance is very important as it gives perspective and your analogy of the tea cup is so true. Need to keep it full!

I once had a landlord cheat me out of my deposit as well. And I was a single parent at the time and really needed the money. That was the only time I've never gotten my deposit back, so frustrating. Thank you for sharing, we are all struggling with something, some more than others.

If you continue to have problems please let the Deposit Protection Scheme deal with it. They will 100% find in your favour. So many LL try on this utter rubbish, and rely on people not fighting it. All you need to do is go online to the Scheme your deposit is lodged with, and open a case. It may take a while, but you are so right this is definitely a battle worth fighting. Good luck! And for future ref, LL cannot legally demand a professional clean as that is their responsibility, all a tenant needs to do is a normal domestic clean.

Fight back, Wendy. You have documented video of all your hard work.

I just had to write this as we have had the same problem.. We are clean, tidy people anyway, but when we moved out of one rental to another ,we also cleaned for hours. We didn't get our money at all...so so unfair... As for Fibromyalgia, I, too, have it... it took 20 years to get a diagnosis.... I'm taking some natural products for it. We own a health shop in the North West. If you ever need any help or just info, don't hesitate to get in touch xxxxxx

I am struggling and totally "cocooning" ...have been for a while now. But, recent medical news has me wanting to find a cave and hibernate. But, eventually I will yawn and wake up and hopefully break free. ❤

What an incredibly beautiful town or city you live / work in! Thanks for all your videos and well wishes for everyone that needs them (we probably all do).💖🍀

This video was just what I needed on this Sunday afternoon. 2 more weeks until I have a much needed break from work. You’re right, we benefit from embracing new habits straight away instead of putting them off until a new day/week/month. I hope you get your full deposit back from your previous landlord. Much love from Australia.

oooh Glastonbury is looking all sparkly in the evening light 🥰

We had the same situation with a landlord. We had paid to have the apt. cleaned, but he wanted us to pay for a new stove, not bc it was damaged but bc it was old. And he accused us of stealing light fixtures we had bought. It worked out bc his partner had already signed off that everything was ok. In NY we never paid last month's rent bc they never gave deposits back. Don't know how it is now. For 7 years I have had chronic fatigue like symptoms. They do tests, say I am ok, shrug and offer me anti depressants , which I refuse of course. My life has changed massively. Moving is one of the most stressful things in life.

In the U.S. landlords HAVE to clean carpets and paint before new tenants move in. They can't charge the prior tenant for this cleaning. There is yearly maintenance they have to do such as new furnace filters, a/c units, vents etc. I also know that some landlods do not do their own inspections, but rather depend on hired crews to do this for them. I hope you can settle this dispute to your satisfaction.

I have fibromyalgia and have had since I was about 25 and I'm now 70. The stabbing pains are bad but they come and go. Worse is the dramatic loss of energy. Some days I sleep around the clock. Fighting through that kind of tired is hard. I use the 'spoon' system. Each day you have so many spoons of energy. The number is finite. You plan your days a little more carefully. You know the things that take a toll on your energy. You know the things that don't use as much or any. Play around and figure out how many spoons (not exact - it's learning to pace yourself). When you have used up your spoons - stop with all the things that seriously drain you. Remember to take care of yourself, take breaks, have a cup of tea, take a 20 min. nap, it's energizing. When you do tons on one day and over do it, you pay a penalty. The penalty is the recovery from working too hard. It can take 3-4 days to recover from one day of overdoing it. It can take a lot longer. The more you push yourself, the longer the penalty. Maybe with the house move, going to bed a little earlier. Best of luck. God bless.

I am SO HAPPY I have found you!!!

Doing art helps with the emotional hoo-ha. A chat with a good therapist can help so very much- internal family systems can help vastly often by phone

I think there must be some universal estate agent scam going on. We vacated on a Thursday, were instructed to leave the keys on the kitchen bench because the agent couldn’t check the property until the Friday morning. Thankfully we took photos because I received an email the following day for a cleaning fee because a bird left its business on the balcony railing and apparently we failed to clean it before leaving. The photos proved the poo wasn’t there when we left 😄 Absolutely ridiculous! The certainly is a power dynamic in these situations. You really have to tick all the boxes just to ensure you don’t get ripped off. Keep smiling and creating. Life is weird sometimes.

I’ve had to rely on my coping strategies for the last three weeks…a list of small things that I do to gently raise my vibration 💫

Okay, I wanted to comment on Fibromyalgia, but before I do. I want to thank you for taking me shopping with you. I have been waiting on my disability application to complete for 2 years now and I do not get to go out much. I do love going to the art supply store. Oh, I have plenty of supplies and then some. Before I gave up work I was teaching art. I have even given away some of my supplies to other teachers. For example who needs 35 pair of scissors at home? I have applied for disability because I have a laundry list of autoimmune diseases that keep me from doing any job properly. They did mention I was missing too much work before I left. Any fibromyalgia is on my list of auto immune diseases. What helps me most is trying to keep the same schedule every day. Today I was slow getting started because I felt just dreadful. I really do not fee much better, but a couple of hours extra in bed meditating, and listening to singing bowls gave me an attitude adjustment that I needed to get up, get dressed and brush and braid my hair. So I look pretty good. But you know fibromyalgia is one of those invisible diseases. I guess what I wanted to say is I feel you and commiserate with you. It is hard. Thank you for your video. They do help me find the bright spot in my day each week. 🤗

that landlord thing happened to me too, ages ago and it was totally what you said: a theft. I was having so many troubles at the time I didn't have the energy so I let it go. I am proud of you for not doing the same. It teaches the awful person that it might not be easy to run over people and they may remember next tenant and not be so mean. One hopes. Loving your video.

Slowing down is a strong, legit, radical way to resist what is happening in the world.

Here in Canada, the cherry on the top is a good thing. Like when you’re having a fantastic day and then you get an unexpected cheque in the mail (the cherry). I made a sort of advent calendar with a special card for the 24 days up to Christmas and I made it into a garland hanging above our fireplace. Every day, I take that card down and write one thing that happened that day that l’m grateful for. It’s been a very uplifting experience. Even on bad days, I had to find that one thing. I’m going to keep doing it into the new year. 💕

The shops there are heavenly! Lovely video as usual. Blessings to you and James! 💗❣️💗

Been feeling horribly blue this Christmas season. Had to put our 17 year dog down this year and just lost a very dear friend from previous work life. My sister moved away and just the three of us for Christmas. No desire to decorate and all I can do to wrap the gifts for hubby and son. Live in upper Midwest USA. 62 birthday is Dec 23 and I just feel old…..

Wendy you have the most genuine, sweet soul. Appreciate your honesty & that you share your stories. The struggle is real & I live it too. Watching you and listening to you is so inspiring & gives me hope. Thank you for being you. ❤

Many years ago we rented from a fellow church member. Same thing...we cleaned the duplex until it shined when we left. In the end, we got NO deposit back because we didn't clean the GASKET of the refrigerator. We protested it to no avail. Wouldn't you think they'd give you the opportunity to go in and clean the dang gasket? Needless to say, our relationship with said "friend" was forever broken. So sad all of this over money. I don't know anyone who has ever gotten their rental deposit back.

The past year ive suffered such symptoms as well...some days i feel normal, very little pain but more and more days have been debilitating fatigue and horrendous pain in my muscles and joints.. ive struggled terribly with foggy mind and migraines as well, cant seem to focus. its so frustrating as i want to get on, but just cant muster the energy. i will say that ive suffered the past 4 years with loss..of my dad, and now my mom is very ill...loss of my job and side job, car, home everything when i had to walk away to care for my parents. ..so i can't know if what im going through is my trying to deal with all that sorrow or something more...what makes it the most frustrating is that im trying to start over to move on to care for my mom but there are days i can hardly get to the restroom and back to bed... overwhelm has also seemed to steal even my desire to do somthung as simple as read a book or even bathe...i struggle with needeing to work and all the care my mom needs...its so overwhelming trying to juggle just that that i have nothing else left. i have found that if i just focus on one thing even if all I do that day is clean up dishes or just myself up helps...i try to cheer myself on in them. ..its so easy to beat ourselves down for not doing enough when in fact we are putting so much on our list that we set ourselves up for defeat. im tired of being defeated....tired of all the loss...but its me focusing on those thoughts that are part of the problem...i have found that in praise and thankfulness has done more for my spirits than anything else so have started a praise and blessing gratitude journal with a limited supply of art materials to do each day when i have a moment....to fill that time with thankfulness for the time i have with my mom to help her...for our food...for everything its funny how that cup fills and overflows with joy and happiness in contentment and peace...this is where healing begins... i still have pain and struggle but doing this is better than any medicine and helps keep me going.

OK a comment from a landlord: No matter what... I always charge a cleaning fee, but that is stated in the lease. I consider wear and tear from use and only expect the property to be released back to me "broom clean". Any additional cleaning the tenant does is on the tenant. I hire a professional with specifications on how I want it, so that my properties are all cleaned the same with each tenant's departure. (this is all explained when I interview and sign new leases with new tenants before occupancy). The fee I charge the vacating tenant is the fee that the cleaning company charges for the cleaning and the tenant gets a copy of this bill. It appears to me that your landlord did not give enough information about this. If you cannot resolve with satisfaction, I suggest a mediator or attorney, with real estate expertise. Unfortunately, there can be expectations not voiced between landlords and tenants. I hope this gets worked out. tfs.

Love when you talk about health.

We should never compare our life situations with others or the world’s. What we are experiencing is just as important and valuable as anyone else’s situation. I recently stumbled on a RU-vid Ted Talk video, My Stroke of Insight by Jill Bolte Taylor. Purchased her book by the same title, read it, and now diving into her book, Whole Brain Living. Highly recommend them to everyone. Sending love and light to you and James and to the world. ❤️❤️❤️

😂...while you were talking about snacks etc....I was putting a s+v crisp in my mouth - and I refuse to regret it! 😂😂😂 Hope the freaking landlord situation will get a chriatmassy resolution...look after yourself, dearest Wendy 🕯️🕯️❄️🌟🎶💕🎄

It was wonderful to be with you in Spirit again Wendy, thank you for the Lovely video and I so enjoyed the pop in the shops with you xxx

Wendy, we are on the descent to the Solstice. The energy is spiralling inwards. Like Persephone we are going into the Underworld. It is very natural to feel the need to go inwards at this time.

Thank you Wendy and all who’ve come to say positive or overwhelmed too. Yes Bonkers world! Cheers! Love and fairy blessings

Thank you dear Wendy, for sharing your videos, with us all. It really helps to know we are not alone, so many of us struggle with our emotions. In this day and age with the world going inside out, and upside down. Seems like every corner of the world is fighting about something, they are missing sight of what really matters, love and joy and peace. I try really hard especially during the holiday, trying to carve out some happiness and embrace the magic of it all. I so enjoyed your walk about at the shops, what lovely treasures! I wish you and James and your families a wonderful peaceful holiday season. And to all who watch your videos with me I wish you all the same. Find joy and peace and love. Blessings to you all! From across the pond in Sheffield Lake, Ohio!!😊 ❤🧚‍♂🧚🧚‍♀🌟🎄🎆

Thank you Wendy for your wise words, uplifting and authentic as always ❤ and for the little tour of Glasto... 😉 Wishing you peace and light 🙏

Hi Wendy.... I struggle bunches too...( I'm 67.... From Ga. USA....) I also am Autistic / Asperger's.... I read the Bible daily it's, ( as Im sure many people do) comforting.... 2Corinthians 1:3.... Go of all comfort.....,2Timothy 3: 16,17....all scripture.....beneficial....., John 17:3....this means everlasting life.....coming to know, the true God and the one whom you sent, Jesus Christ....and Psalm 37: 9,10,11,29.... The meek shall inherit the earth..... Lastly , much Hope : Jeremiah 29: 11....For I well know the thoughts that I am thinking towards you ; declares Jehovah, 'thoughts of peace, and not of calamity, to give you a future and a hope....By the way...I've seen your video on your love of trees...🌳I'm a tree hugger too.... And all things natural.... I enjoy watching your content very much.... I hope you enjoy your new home....☮️🕊️🦚

Embrace the coffee spot on the duvet 😊. This will wash, a cup is pure bliss.

Such beautiful shops! I hope the landlord reimburses you!!

Your videos bring such joy!! Currently nursing a case of covid. Sometimes I feel like you are speaking directly to me, like you just know what I'm going through. Maybe we creatives are just on a similar cycle of life or something, LOL!!! Warm hugs for inner peace and feeling wellness. Merry Christmas!! ❤

Meditating in nature can really calm people down.

Thank you for your chat today! It felt like you were speaking directly to me… and it is this time of year! The lack of light…the lunacy of the consumerism Christmas … it all magnifies the other things that aren’t going so well. Thank you for the list of the little things that will help!!

Hi Wendy, can relate to you in so many ways ! Over last few years struggled with my health , problems with neck and back and really quite bad menopausal symptoms, anxiety being the worst ! Can’t work out if it’s menopause, covid or just the mad state of world that has made me want to cocoon in my own space , maybe all three!! Really do not enjoy crowds and would rather stay indoors or out in nature where it’s quiet. Husband has had quite a few health problems recently too and also problems with pets . Sometimes think the world has gone mad 😫. Just want to let you know though that watching you and James really helps as you seem to say it how it is , warts and all and don’t try to pretend everything is perfect but on the other hand can remind us to appreciate all the good things too ! Hope you sort things out with landlord. I personally think some of these landlords have overstretched themselves in these crazy times and are trying to claw back any money they can and as per usual the wrong people suffer! All the best to you and James and hope you can sort it out ❤x

The frog fairy for the tree!! 😍🌟 we love you Wendy ❤

Love and hugs to you both. Sadly it seems to be the way of this crazy world to try and cheat good people out of their money. Stay strong. Listen to your body , rest when you need to. Nothing is more important than your health. I learnt that lesson the hard way, never again will I compromise myself for others.❤

You are sooooooo delightful! Thank yoU for the uplift :) x0x0

l know how you feel about not wanting to leave the house, l have been struggling with this for years, l can go weeks without venturing outside, living in a city l find everything out there overwhelming, my home is my safe space, l know l need to change things but not ready yet, and thank you for talking about grace l think l will use the word grace and it's meaning for 2024, big hugs to you Wendy and all who are struggling too x

Wonderful video Wendy. The beautiful architecture of the little village windows at Christmas. So many lovely crafts that artisans have put their love into creating such treasures. I noticed old wooden floors that give places such character and charm. So enjoyed spending time with you here virtually chatting with you but alas you couldn't hear me. Ha ha. Your studio looked so beautiful. There is just nothing as wonderful as paints, brushes all the goodies to play with for an artist. So glad for you that your energy was up today. You are point on, it is really the little things that can matter but are they worth the fight. I think yes, they are for humanity and moralistic perspectives. It's not ok for people to be greedy or to be selfish or to take money from people when they know inside what really is the truth of the matter. What's right and wrong and to hail over someone because they can exert their dominance. It's a waste of time yet has to be done so often. And you have videos and proof. I think people would be happier if like you they practiced Grace and humanity. The Golden Rule. Come on, they were lucky to have you both as tenants and if any thing should give you great character references and promote great people who DO leave a place so much nicer. No one is expected to lick the floors in ever corner clean and underneath a door. Thats why they get less than stellar tenants because they don't seem to honor that which is honorable. Well, Going to go ck out your smoothie drink now so you have an enchanting evening and be warm and thank you Wendy for sharing your GRACE with us.❤😊

I understand exactly what your saying. The nature of some human beings on this planet right now is pure GREED! And yes I have fibromyalgia and it’s horrible ,not only the pain,the brain fog but the chronic fatigue when it comes is seriously depressing. Don’t get me started on menopause 🤪🤪🤪. When I push myself it’s great,but then I’m down for a couple of days recuperating. This is how I found you ,while I was recuperating. For this I’m glad. I think your my twin 😂😂😂 . Much love from a 50 something woman on a little island off the east coast of Australia 🇦🇺💗ps; I do art to keep sane and a journal.

These last few months have had its fair share bumps, potholes and cruisy moments. So energy challenging. Hibernation with servings of tea and contented tummy food is helping. I've been hoping for another video from you to help refocus and sooth the soul.Hear you on fibromyalgia.Resonated so much with your chat. Please don't feel you are alone with this.

I love the charming shops in your town. You seem to speak about where I have been in regards to stepping back from the pain in the world and reminding me we are not alone in needing to nest. Spot on as usual Wendy!

I feel like I needed this video. I'm stuck in a really busy time right now; Moving, family lives far away, quitting my job because of a toxic environment, etc. Listening to you hit a point in me where I feel like I found a small spark of peace and calm. Thank you for that

Landlords can be the pits sometimes... We have encountered both good and bad... we are lucky to not have to worry about them at the moment... As you say, life has been slightly unhinged at the moment and a lot of us are feeling it.. We have a cyclone bearing down on us here in North Queensland, Australia and all our focus is there at the moment. But, even this unnerving event is a break from the normal woes and tribulations we have all been experiencing... Prayers to all in it's path by the way... You always make me think about things differently and for that I thank you so much... Cheers for sharing your thoughts with us all... x

I'm a "landlord" in Scotland. I'm gobsmacked. You are an exceptional tenant in my books. If the system is similar and the landlord had to lodge your deposit with an approved third party, then it shouldn't be too difficult to prove you're entitled to receive it back in full. To have part or full deposit withheld, a bit of skirting missed by the hoover and a cleaning cloth is not going to cut it. Find out who the company that holds your deposit is (your landlord should have copied you in on those details) and give them a call, explaining your position and that you have all the evidence. Unless the story is substantially different (you've left huge stains on the carpets requiring a carpet cleaning company, the oven's a mess or the bath looks like a body's been dissolved in there), I think he's wasting his time. The problem is, of course, that the Government is making it so hard for the "landlords" they encouraged, when it suited them, to become "landlords" in the first place, that a great deal are not only not "raking" it in, they're often paying for the tenants to live in the properties (what with mortgages, insurances, agency fees, safety checks, registration, voids, repairs, etc, etc, never mind the tenants who think they can live free of charge, often bankrupting good people who don't deserve that), so, sad though it is, it's hardly surprising that some are taking their lead from Government practice of trying to wrangle more cash out of the public where they can. Doesn't mean it's right, though.

This was such a sweet heart warming and nurturing video. It felt like a big hug. In the bigger picture there is so much sorrow to be witnessed that, all more frequently, it is easy to be overwhelmed. Taking refuge in the present moment and the beauty surrounding us is really a survival skill! I noticed on social media a new idea cropping up...to counteract the triggers we encounter every day by looking for the 'glimmers' that are also present. The glimmers being all of the positive, magical, and beautiful things of life. Today my glimmers were cuddling with my cats, going for a walk with a friend and drinking a chai tea together at the farmers market. Also finishing painting a Christmas card and, now, watching your video. Thank you so much.

I’m trying to be kind to my future self by making sure I don’t leave loose ends and things undone . You know, stuff that wastes my time and me anxious. It’s work to be alive sometimes. But everything struggles , we see the glory of blossoms, but seldom consider what the plans went through going from seed to plant.

Oh my!all those cute fairy in the shops and singer. Looks so festive

I can't help but notice how superior your art stores are in the UK. They're actually stocked and you even have choices!! Wow! Here in Canada (Vancouver Island, Victoria, B.C. NOT Vancouver), the standards that were already pretty low in our shops, has diminished further since post-covid. Stocks just have never returned and choices are very slim. Even sketchbooks have not returned! It's so pathetic here in Canada (Victoria, B.C.), that we're forced to overpay and wait for months by ordering on-line. I can't help but realize that our small businesses are suffering so badly. Our poor country is falling quickly before our eyes. I see your shops are still nicely stocked over there. Also, I watch a woman in Asia and she recently took us into an art store there and I was blown away at the stock, organization and sheer size of the store. Incredible! We have three art stores here and they are all in such a sorry state that I'm not sure how they're surviving to pay their leases. It's so bad and even Christmas has not spurred them onto fresh stock. I don't live in a large city (Vancouver Island, Victoria, B.C. NOT Vancouver), so maybe that's the reason?! Not sure. I'm very frustrated. I've travelled plenty in England and France to a lot of their small cities and their art supply shops are incredible, everywhere!

Thankyou for your latest video Wendy, I enjoy watching you paint or draw, it's always interesting to see the end result. I have quite a few of the pens you mentioned they do dry out quite quickly. It's unbelievable what some landlords think they can get away with. imagine how landlords would react if anyone did leave the property just as they found them. uproar for sure. Keep safe and warm, I hibernate each winter for a few weeks simply restock food etc, batten down the hatches, people are used to me not being around for a while , I enjoy my own company and find lots to do indoors or not as the case may be. It's recharging the batteries , Following natures way , We are not machines after all, Hugs and Blessings to you .💚🌹

Hi Wendy loved this video! The little shop tour at the end was fabulous. I love how all the shops just seem magical and old world. Thanks for sharing. Hoping your whole landlord thing gets worked out! I agree totally with all that you said. Its ok for them to break part of a contract?? NOT. Take good care-Hugs from Az🏜️🥰❤️

A good way to adopt new habits is to habit stack. So get something that is already a habit and add a new habit to do at the same time as the old habit

Thank you Wendy for sharing all your news. It is a struggle this time of year for sure but just hearing we are not alone in this makes a big difference.😊❤

I understand. My daughter lived in apartments in a college town and getting any money back from a deposit no matter how you much you cleaned was just not happening. Such a distressing situation!

I love your gentle ways.your videos are a balm to my spirits

I was diagnosed last year at age 56, with Parkinson’s disease which has lead to anxiety and depression. I have taken up art and it has really helped. I just found your site today and you have really cheered me up. Thank you

In BC, Canada we have a Tenants/Landlord office to present all these issues to. I hope you have something of equal value where you are. When I drew up contracts for my job they were to be accepted as what was agreed to. If the clause is changed they should have had you sign an updated version. Don't let them push you around. As for FM, I've had it for over 35 years and diet is the main way I've found to handle the condition. No gluten, meaning no grains, no oats, no rice unless wild rice. No dairy. Getting your allergies tested will also help. Also, stress definitely has in impact and can bring on a flare for me.

Hi Wendy. I understand. I lost my job two weeks ago~my whole department was let go. What does a single woman of the ripe age of 61 do? This happened on the morning I was driving to TX. (21 hour drive).You see, I purchased a little tiny tiny camper and spending the winter here. So, no job, no friends, huge state, and although my son lives here, he travels a lot. So, reading then watching your video, reminded me, "Beth be thankful you have a good severance package, you are still talented and something will open up. Maybe I only want to work part time? I don't know. TY for always inspiring.

I just wanted to say that I have only watched a few of your videos so far Wendy. Maybe 10 I think?? Anyway, I agree that the little things make a big difference. I find my solace in my art work and creating in whatever form it takes. Every day I make sure I do a little of something, even if it is only 5 minutes. You definitely make me feel calmer, more at peace, and as if I am communicating with a dear friend. So, thank you for what you do. Keep doing it. 😊 Rochelle x

I understand what you are saying Wendy. Be good to yourself and allow yourself to indulge in those treats like salt and vinegar chips. My fav too. My escape is my art room and watercolor or painting is so relaxing. I am using a spare bedroom for my art room. I get to stay in my cozy cocoon. Love and hugs

The menopause tunnel never ends. Begins 30 to end of life fir some. The fibro pain is our bodies releasing trauma both ours and ancestral. Stress will cause more Imflammation, hence more pain. No need to suffer! They must be done daily "mudras" hand yoga, indeed for all health issues. Natural pain relief options failed after a time but mudras never have. They are such an amazing aid even with re-establishing good digestion. Important to have a couple of good books particularly in these time when online options may be interfered with. These 2 are excellent, "Healing Mudras" by Yogi Nataraj and "Mudras Yoga in your hands" by Gertrud Hirschi. ❤

Fibromyalgia is a mental battle as much as a physical battle. ❤ Thank you for being an inspiration! ❤

Thanks for sharing the lovely shop window displays. I love your music as well, so comforting.

Hi Wendy, just discovered your channel. It picks me up. I feel I relate so well to everything you are saying. Living in Queensland, Australia, I struggle with the heat, not the cold. It really drains me. Oh for a cold climate. I love your suggestions about the little things, that's how I am living right now. Your life seems very similar to mine, even down to the daily green smoothies.Have a wonderful Christmas 🎄 🎉❤

I hope you are feeling better on all levels soon Wendy and just WOW! Those floral paintings are GORGEOUS. Your current physical and landlord woes are not damaging your creativity that is for sure. All the very best to you and James ❤

I would love to stay to tea! Like your Norwegian friend, i live where "cold" means something different. It "warmed up" to 11 above (Fahrenheit) today, from yesterday's -17. It was even colder Saturday, but i don't know exactly what the temperature was then because i did not leave my house! I really get the comfort food problem! AND it's pretty hard to talk myself into healthy activity like taking a walk in Alaska's cold (and DARK) winter. But i can watch your videos and have a cuppa and paint and remember to eat my greens...and spring will come again! Hugs!

You look very well despite the struggles.😊

Be gentle with yourself and give yourself grace. Hugs

I have fibromyalgia too. I have been going through a flare for a few weeks. I think it's the time of year. I also have Menopause issues too.. Blessings to everyone who is suffering right now.

So many whimsical shop windows!!! Loved this ;)