Laterras R. Whitfield Host of the Viral Dear Future Wifey Podcast Shares His Journey | Ep. 201 

Great answer Laterras “you’ll know how passionate he is sexually by how he treats you “ Straight facts 💯🙌🏽

Father thank you for Laterras R. Whitfield he is the REAL DEAL!!! Continue to use him for your glory honor and praise his transparency is an open door for help and assistance for the body of Christ. Thank you for such an amazing man.

Pre -pre marital counseling 🎉

I love His show, I have absolutely no complaints about the show, it is phenomenal❤️❤️❤️❤️... But I wonder if the show, being that it is sooooooooooo successful has created an inability to find his FUTUEE WIFEY??? The title Dear future Wifey is Epic but this platform is surrounded around him being single...could this platform be keeping him from finding his wife. Just hear me out, all his topics are dealing with the struggles of being single and he is doing so well on the show I wonder if he would struggle with letting go of being single. Because the identity that his podcast created once married would no longer fits his show title or is he holding on to being single to keep this show striving. So my final question is: How will he transition the show to fit his new life as a married man once that happens??

Also not getting over your past relationship.

This was hard to get through and had some very cringe moments but I tried to stay for Laterras , some questions and comments were inappropriate or just kind of odd, it’s okay to be transparent but how Laterras performs in the bedroom is not something all the ladies need to know

A good gem out of the many that he said in this episode “What you practice in your single life is what will spill over into your marriage”. Listen do the work!!!

The only way I can unlock my wife's heart is to get the key from God. Stumbled upon this podcast and so glad I did. So many gems. Thank you

This was a very good interview. Laterras took control of the interview and kept my attention. He’s very authentic and it shows why he’s so good at his podcast. It’s great to see a man that so transparent and I love how he knows the wife he wants. This is hopeful.

Honesty is telling the truth when asked , and transparency is informing me even when l haven't asked , when l don't need to know❤

Why would she ask him if he's a giver or taker In bed???? I think you could've asked, "how you can tell if a man is a giver or taker?" NOT directly to Laterras Whitfield himself how he is. Innapropriate. Keep bedroom talk OUT of a proper interview. Glad he answered it the way he did.

I’m halfway through this but the interviewer seems disingenuous no disrespect to her. I love how Laterras navigated this interview and provided some great gems as well.

I appreciate you respecting the boundaries he set when it came to certain questions! Speaks volumes about your character as well ❤️ protecting his peace and safety in his journey to securing eternal love. My first time watching, great episode 🎉

Great show! I had an opportunity to attend the live taping at New Birth for Dear Future Wifey last month. Mr. Whitfield's podcast is a way for me to reflect on who I am in a relationship. His podcast has me journaling weekly. I appreciate this collaboration. This is my first time listening to this channel.

This why I have been tuned into Latteras podcast since 2020 he is awesome 💯

I didn't feel it was necessary to ask how he was sexually in the bedroom. It was information I didn't need to know because that subject is one he can discuss with his future wifey. 👎🏾

34:32 I’m only about half way through this podcast and I’m enjoying it immensely. Having annual, quarterly or periodic reviews is one of the most powerful and intelligent things, in my opinion, that a couple can do in their marriage. I love that this was spoken about and elaborated upon.

Laterras is driving his own interview on someone else’s podcast. 🚩🚩Second 🚩🚩: Out the gate with the sex talk?? Smh. I am glad he steered that differently. The host should work on that.

The sexual questions were unnecessary. If a woman was asked that it would be so uncomfortable. Only his wife needs to know what he’s like sexually 🙄

I enjoyed the conversation and Laterras sounds like a man with a plan but if it's one thing I know about our Lord is that He doesn't respect those🤣When we feel like we have it have it all together we rarely leave God to do His part and it says that we are still self protecting. I find it sweet that he wants to show up as his best self; but know that if God is in the lead then you will always be your best self - it's a natural outflowing of a serious, committed relationship with the Father and that's why He tells us to first "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind..." So if it's God and Holy Spirit; we don't need to know for ourselves, using our own methods to determine if the sex gone be good because it too will come as an outflowing of already understanding how to truly serve and how to submit to someone else🙂 May we all sincerely take our hands off the wheel and allow God to do what He do🙏 All the best!

Good interview. I had to laugh, because we can trust God to bring us a husband, but don't believe that he can provide a husband, who would be a fit sexually. WoW!

I ALSO THOUGHT HE AND FALON LOOK GOOD TOGETHER!!!!!! 😁😁😁 That woman is a powerhouse for God, I just came from attending her align challenge for the past five days and I'm all the way in South Africa.

His podcast is so successful bc he is so transparent and real. I watch his podcast religiously.

I got in INTANGLED with a toxic woman.....immediately putting the blame on the woman... Every time I listen to this dude...all I hear is NARCISSISTIC TENDENCIES.

Can we pronounce Laterras's name correctly? It is not Laterrias.

He said re: celibacy "I ain't got no tricks. Each day I say "I did it." 😆 Like a 12 step program!!!

He cheated on his wife then divorced her. I'm very puzzled how he thinks this lines up with God. You have a wife. You're like the woman at the well. Youre married. You've said you dodnt have a biblical reason for divorce so you're actually married. 🥴🥴🥴

So off-topic but....I cringe each time someone mispronounces Laterras' name and he doesn't correct them.

Beautiful conversation; "you are either the problem or you are choosing the problem." "if you talk with a person over time you will definitely know their heart"

His comfort is effortless... You can tell he is 'true' to this and OKAY sharing his story.

How many times did she mispronounce his name?... He is a real one. Great episode.

excuse my ignorance but what happened to the other female host that had "dear future husband" pond cast? or am I tripping? I'm I thinking of 2 different podcast??

I like the idea of periodic reviews of ur partner...constructive feedback is paramount to growth.

WOW!!!!! Laterras that was beyond imaginable Keep up the GOD work bro. The only thing that separates you from your future wife is GOD'S fullness of TIME. I SALUTE you KING!!!!! AMAZING.

Eyyy husbands are also called to submit to their wives , submit yee to another 🎂

"lve never been loved like you love me , no one has never showed up for me like you do , and l can't really accept this ",you deserve someone who will love you like you love her " We need women like this , respect to her ❤

Love this for both of you. Continue to share because you are helping to heal so many people 🙌🏾🙏🏾 Bless you sissy !

I have been watching this podcast for some months now. I have got my husband to be watching it too. May God bless you and your podcast Laterras

Intimacy begins way before the bedroom , if he is a giver before the bed he can't be narcisistic on it ❤

I love Leteras for his honesty and transparency! He is so REAL!

One of my concerns is for God to present my husband and I’m not ready - seasons and preparation matters. Amen!

Absolutely Love the God in him, I'm a huge fan of his podcast. This is my first time watching this podcast, Love it, subscribing now to follow you also💯❤

I waited to get Married before sex. Our honey moon night was disappointed. The man had issues with impotence. We end up getting a annulment. Next time I will test drive the car before bringing it home.

Self medicate in between my legs now l self medicate at the feet of Jesus ❤

That’s what I’m talking about. Toys aren’t people. PERIODT

I love his Podcast, and he did an amazing job navigating this podcast interview!

I used to think like that, but getting to know God and what he expects of us and the way he loves us, I can't imagine him sending us a purpose partner that we're not sexually compatible with. So while I do the work to be the woman of God and wife that he created me to be, I will abstain until such a time as he sends me the man that he purposed for me. Amen

Exactly 💯 Complete transparency is the definition and honest establishment of friendship and oneness in marriage to me, Yesss❣️

I fell out laughing. He said do you want some reviews.😂😂😂

The other reason why God hasnr presented to you a spouse is because there is a single purpose you must fulfill , an Adam assignment of naming the Animals ❤

You need someone who will help you protect your self 🎉

The statements we make like “ I never will be like or want to be like” is called inner vows and become self fulfilling prophecies. We change renounce our confession to align with the truth and walk in it.

Laterras is such a great speaker lol so great at answering questions - while considering every aspect of the answer , in such a short amount of time lol he’s made to do a podcast

I love how he continues to bring up the Lord. Christ is the center of his life. He hasn't met his wife yet.

Amen 🙏🏾 I need my husband to be affectionate as well ❤

This is my first time watching this channel. It was a great episode. I have been doing the work in teams of healing and waiting on God to send me my purpose partner.

If you are the common denominator in all these relationships and they are Not working we definitely know who the problem is 😮

There's a couple that has a whole series called serving love. I went through the whole series trying to save my marriage! It didn't work but I absolutely learned so much!❤❤💜💜

Belinda running around here with martel and hes running around coleslaw n shei(n)ree. YALL LOW SELF ESTEEM WOMEN LOVE TO BE COMPETITIVE. WHO IS YOUR COMPETITION????? THATS RIGHT NOBODY. YALL NEED SELF LOVE. YOU ARE NOW STALKING MELODY PAGE. WIERD.

This was AMAZING ‼️ if only more men knew themselves through Jehovah as this man does a lot more of us virtuous women wouldn’t be unmarried. I absolutely adore the God in him

I think the two of you make a great couple estheticly. Maybe???

Don't only serve outserve 😍

Work begins with you 🎉

But, did you get your podcast from his inspiration? Did you see his podcast before you began?

That's right sir tell her

Great interview! Mr.Latarras....love love love your transparency and passion for God. Blessings on Blessings to you and your family.

I love the Dear future wifey podcast. I love your show too. I just subscribed. I am married. I watch these shows because I love LOVE! I also catch gems of wisdom from watching too. My husband & I are even MORE transparent wt one another… to the CORE lol. #Lovelanguageknowledge is AMAZING. Keep up the good work y’all. I thought I was waiting for mad long..but I am glad I got married “Late” 🤷‍♀️ #Godstime.

Honestly I thought the same thing about Falon. The story about what happened with her husband and his ex and then your fresh situation. I thought God himself was setting you two up, but I kept it to myself. Time will tell

Radical acceptance, I love how I showed up... Wow

Happy he took over because she was dragging the conversation. L

Man of God, I absolutely loved your raw and uncut transparency. I love hearing you express to your Purpose Partner who you are, what you want, and how you will submit your overwhelming love. My heart smiles for you as you await. 🙏🏽

Talking about sex desire is a must. Because I stepped out for that reason.

I have a question....Laterras you stated that a wife has a sound. I have a friend that I really adore. She has finally been placed in position to be married. On more than one occasion I have attempted to encourage her to handle disagreements with her fiance in a more feminine way instead of masculine. It's like she couldn't wait for something neg to transpire before as she says putting him in is place by stating...."he don't won't none of this!" So when I challenge her in regards to how the Lord is instructing her handle the situation, she shuts me off and continues with how her feelings are valid and he needs to understand that he can talk her "like that!" Any suggestions on how I can "again" try to help her, encourage her to move in a different mindset???

Wonderful episode and I need to get your book. Can you put the juice companies info in the description or reply to me here?

Pornography objectives your spouse rather than personify them , so you look at them as an object rather than a person You so much think your needs must be met by this superhuman person that has no feelings of her own cause to us it's presented by people who are high on drugs and have this endurance 😢

Eyy let's have quarteer annual reviews and see how our company is doing , w we are lackiing and how we can improve as we go forward 😮

I’ve learned to tell guys that we are not talking about Sex until we know that we are going to be together.

Dating is data collection 🎉

Laterras I love every part of this but not the toys not doing that at all

Great show will watch other episodes!

🤣🤣 “that’s not going to be MY testimony!!”

I throughly enjoyed this episode!! May you both continue walking in purpose and marry well and beautifully!!❤️❤️

Love him!!!! I have to say I’ve been writing to my future husband before this really became a thing, I love to journal❤️🥰 Still waiting on him Lord🙏🏽🖐🏽 Great interview!

Laterras always gives! Great show.

This was a great episode. It was refreshing to hear the authenticity of Laterras and the visionary of Dear future husband.

Great interview! 😊

Transparency is vital in getting to know someone. Trust is the glue that holds a purpose filled relationship together🙏❤️

Why do we blame our mistakes on generational curses, why don’t we just accept the fact that we have made mistakes of our own?

TWO YEARS ONLY BLOW UP!!!! DEAR FUTURE WIFEY!

I really like when you spoke on the 5 star service.

REAL talk, 🎯THIS PART!🎯

This was really good. GOD is going to bless you both with your hearts desires.Thank JESUS in advance. Praise GOD now.🔥🙏🏽❤️

Soulties don't only exist via sex 😢

You need a conversationalist can you guys last through a conversation 🎉

This was so enlightening. Continued blessings!

AMEN!! We are the common denominator and need to work on ourselves to heal❤❤❤

-💙------💙---💙 “May he give you the desire of your heart and make all your plans succeed.” - Psalm 20:4 -💙------💙---💙

Laterras is so funny😅

This was such a great episode! I’m glad I found this channel/podcast I’m going to definitely be binging episodes. I love the honesty and transparency and wisdom that was shared.

This was good 👍🏽. I'm divorced. Not good but good. Lol. I hate divorce. My ex husband married a woman after me, actually two, but the next one. She used to tell my daughter that she needs to go to her ma! She met my daughter living with him. My children are grown and on their own at the present. I've been single and not rushing into having a man or getting married again. My ex husband was abusive to me. He belittled me. He was a good father but horrible husband. Yes, you would know how intimate a man is by how he treats you. I'm glad I realized I need healing and restoration. I'm on my road to recovery. God is good! God bless you 🙌🏽🙏🏽. Love from Freeport, The Bahamas ❤️🇧🇸💯