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Michelle says she is at her wits’ end with her jobless 22-year-old grandson, Conner, who, according to her, isn’t just lazy but has “failed to launch.” Michelle claims Conner, who has lived with her for the last year, does not regularly shower, brush his teeth, shave, clean his room, or change his clothes. He also has never met his girlfriend of five years in person because, according to Michelle, “that would involve having to leave the house.” Conner says Michelle is overreacting and that at 22, he “shouldn’t have life figured out.” He says he hasn’t yet met his girlfriend in person because of finances. Conner’s mother, Jamie, says she agrees Conner is lazy but believes her mother Michelle is making matters worse by being too strict on him. Dr. Phil arranges for Conner to have a one-on-one session with life development coach Mike Bayer to understand why Conner may be struggling to launch and discusses his new book, One Decision. Will Conner accept the help offered to him? Tune in to find out!
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@drphil 3 года назад

Subscribe and ring the bell for notifications 🔔

@natiblass115 3 года назад

That’s what jack did and now yyou say that LOL YOUR CRAZY 😜

@africanman1803 3 года назад

Hey dr Phil

@sandphoenix4296 3 года назад

Stop being such a damn cry baby. You're traumatized? No you're not. You play video games and sleep all day. Children in Africa are traumatized

@thomasbirtles8632 3 года назад

Starting to question if you ever were a psychologist or a psychiatrist or whatever you claimed to be. The dude shows all the signs of depression and anxiety and all you did was berate and humiliate him.

@Thuperman788 3 года назад

I do not want to spread hate towards you, but please show some regret for the way you treated this guy... an apology at least? This dude is struggling right now and you advertise yourself as somebody who helps people, not somebody who publicly humiliates somebody with clear signs of depression and anxiety without even acknowledging his mental health. You can do better Dr. Phil....

@GomezMedia1 3 года назад

If you live in your parents/grandparents house when you’re 22, I don’t really think it’s a bad thing as long as you’re working and helping out around the house.

@ooonyxxx 3 года назад

Facts, it's ok as long as you're employed and/or in school

@richardlidster4414 3 года назад

It’s no big deal, but if you live with your parents/grandparents into your 20s AND you lack a sense of direction it can become a slippery slope. Getting a job doing menial labour and learning some basic life skills would be a good start

@unbeatabel 3 года назад

Facts. I'm an asian and it's pretty common here for a whole big family to live in a house but sometimes it went too far to the point where the son/daughter's family live in their parents' house without having a job or paying for anything💀 I mean, I'm not even married but being 22 right now makes me uncomfortable to ask for money from my parents and start making my own, I just don't understand how people can get so comfortable with being parasite to others..

@alannashaw 3 года назад

Yeah I’m 22 and out on my own but I have a lot of friends who live at home, but they’re not lazy

@rebekahlikesmusic2723 3 года назад

Right

@michaelboyle1805 3 года назад

Humiliation does not cure depression

@keyromi 3 года назад

Depression is not an excuse to be that freaking lazy dude.. hes 22 years old.. if it’s that bad he needs to go get help and that’s on him, not everyone else. This is coming from a 24 year old with clinical depression and anxiety.

@CalipsoCareline 3 года назад

@@keyromi I agree. I'm also 24 and depressed my entire life, under medication and therapy and even tho I'm a active member of society so to speak. I have a job, married, help my mother financially, have my own car...

@LJade1017 3 года назад

@@keyromi Because everyone's depression is the same as yours??? I was so depressed for so long that I didn't see the point in getting help because I didn't see the point in living. Maybe take a step back and realize that each person has different experiences with their mental illness.

@voiceofstem 3 года назад

Thank you. Boy Dr. Phil was a real dickwad in this episode. Crazy how he could act like this as a psychologist.

@MrTakashihongo 3 года назад

I was in a state of depression after i caught the virus and my father death due to the virus. I didn't do anything during my quarantine because i felt shitty and guilty for my father's death. Even thought about ending it. I get this man. I just hope he gets the help he really needed.

@carolyn9758 3 года назад

I mean being afraid to drive because of trauma IS valid but he’s doing nothing to work on that so there’s still an issue

@MBT372 3 года назад

It’s ok not to drive until you feel it is ok to do so...I started at 51! I am now 55 and still a little afraid but continue to drive because I no longer want fear to limit me. It’s nobody’s business if you drive or not...only you know.

@Hiphilmahooters 3 года назад

Exactly, there’s no effort to do anything besides get behind the wheel. He could walk, get a bike and use public transport.

@carolyn9758 3 года назад

@@MBT372 Honestly this is kind of encouraging to me, since I’m 18 and people keep nagging me to learn. I grew up in a biking family!

@kimsmith819 3 года назад

I had an aweful car accident years ago. I will drive but need to take medication before I can drive, most of the time. It really caused me a lot of trauma

@thefierceiris3158 3 года назад

Thank you!!

@Tyrosine0910 3 года назад

22 really isn't that old anymore. There are employed people 5+ years older than that who live with family. The kid obviously needs a push in the right direction, but fixating on him being 22 isn't that meaningful.

@Bxzzxd 3 года назад

Yea. He’s just going about it the wrong way by not saving up money, building credit things that are easier when living at home but he shouldn’t feel ashamed for being 22 at home lol. Most 22 year olds fully out on their own are a few missed checks away from homelessness.

@missymani 3 года назад

22 is pretty old for not having graduated from Highschool. I would understand if someone drops out because of financial or life struggles. But this dude has all the advantages in the world and he is not even actively looking for his graduation. He has time to game all day, he could be studying.

@user-su9py5qm6f 3 года назад

Yeah Dr. Phil seems to think all 22 y/o are moved out. That's far from the truth in this era where we don't settle down and get married at 18.

@anthonymendoza2951 3 года назад

@lizchesley6028 3 года назад

It's not that he's 22 and living at home. If he was in school or had a job where he is atleast trying to become more self sufficient. There are plenty of responsible 20 somethings that live with their parents and are in school full time or working full time, and that is fine as long as the parents agree to it. However, he is also complaining about his situation without doing anything about it, which Dr. Phil is trying to address that that can be changed by moving out. He most likely definitely has clinical depression that needs to be addressed. Once his mother and grandmother are gone, what is he going to do?

@DAMIENDMILLS 3 года назад

Dr. Phil did not help this guy at all. Making him a laughing stock on TV will make him more scared to be out in public now. He did more damage than good. This man came out of that experience worse than when he went in.

@Cinemaniac87 3 года назад

And phil is supposed to be a member of the medical profession

@Bryan_Kay 3 года назад

@@Cinemaniac87 he's never claimed that once. He's a psychologist and he's not medically integrated.

@sunilgupta7911 3 года назад

@@Bryan_Kay but he does not have a license to work in California where he shoots . Check out google and type ' dr Phil no longer licensed ' and there are MULTIPLE scandals against him

@B4byl0ni4 3 года назад

@@Cinemaniac87 Literally doesn't have a license

@naikosei1585 3 года назад

“Want to hear another joke Murray?”

@lunaskyfall1866 3 года назад

Ty doctor Phil for allowing the comments

@steveconn2538 3 года назад

It's been like this for about 6 months

@rebekahlikesmusic2723 3 года назад

In Dr.Phil we trust

@JesusChristTheOne 3 года назад

They’ve been on for like a year & a half

@trillnix3043 3 года назад

@@steveconn2538 been longer than 6m. Over a year

@williamo6569 3 года назад

Some videos still don't have comments enabled

@Tyrosine0910 3 года назад

Also, Mike made a bit of an a** out of himself with that comment about the bearded dragon probably having filled out more job applications than him. Humiliation is neither reliable nor ethical as a motivational tool. It'll often turn people off from listening to you.

@biohazard737 3 года назад

Yeah that was a mean comment. That's an insult to the bearded dragon!

@Lordoggin 3 года назад

ikr not very professional. made me loose some respect for him

@joelhochhalter638 2 месяца назад

And when he said no disrespect lol

@KateTries 3 года назад

I'm 23 and I lost my job due to the pandemic - It's not an excuse. You try being young without a lengthy resume looking for work amid a global pandemic. I live in NYC a place usually prosperous with jobs - nowhere is hiring. I was able to secure and work a seasonal job but the season has come to a close. I can only imagine how much harder it is for this guy to find work without a GED. I have bachelors and I'm struggling. So are most of my 20 something year old friends.

@robz75rr 3 года назад

There’s a McDonald’s Burger King Amazon all those jobs are always hiring in the meantime you look for something better.

@shikamaru281281 3 года назад

@@robz75rr For 7.25 lol. Someone with a Bachelors's shouldn't have to take a 7.25 job to attempt to survive. I'm a right-leaning person and even I see that the economy is incredibly skewed right now. Worked 7 years at an ffc to make over $15, the job went under because of a bad government decision to shut down. Even with 7 years of managerial experience, most jobs that are actually hiring, are less than half of what I made before.

@Eseerrowez 3 года назад

@@robz75rr there always hiring for a reason. Garbage pay or a garbage work environment.

@robz75rr 3 года назад

@@Eseerrowez no one is saying to stay there forever just until you find something better or what you want.

@Eseerrowez 3 года назад

@@robz75rr sometimes going there doesn't actually improve your mental state either. Its not just garbage pay but a bad environment to be in.

@DAMIENDMILLS 3 года назад

Even when I was 22 living in a house, I still needed roommates to help pay rent because I was making barely anything. Dr. Phil doesn't understand being poor, he has been rich too long, he has detached from having to start over.

@Cinemaniac87 3 года назад

Honestly id love it if connor sues phil into destitution and finally gets a job by owning his own gaming company tells phil thanks i have job now

@epoxy1710 2 года назад

Lol. His grandma has a house. This boomer will never get anything in life, biggest Beta male I have ever seen.

@kyleboyles9563 2 года назад

you do know he used to be homeless right?

@DAMIENDMILLS 2 года назад

@@kyleboyles9563 You do realize millionaires can become detached from reality, right?

@kyleboyles9563 2 года назад

@@DAMIENDMILLS how is he detached? He didn’t have the privilege of growing up in an easy time period. And the fact that this kid is struggling in todays world really shows that it’s his own fault.

@kaiiriverbell9091 3 года назад

I've been Conner. Depression and self-hatred can fuel this stuff. Your humiliating and shaming him. What helped me was small, obtainable goals and positive reinforcement. I learned to be an adult that way. This stuff doesn't happen overnight and it doesn't happen easily. Small goal posts. Build them up. Don't crush someone who's only 4 years into adulthood.

@maevedaly9084 Год назад

Agreed

@matildauebel7599 3 года назад

Uh what? What the grandson is saying makes perfect sense. of course it´s going to be hard to find a job during a friccking pandemic, of course he will be scarred of driving if his parents were in car crashes. Like wtf that´s not excuses, it´s life. And no I don´t live with my parents and I have a job.

@avawiththeflava 3 года назад

Who cares?? He disgusts me and I used to be just like him. Everyone has trauma but that doesn't excuse you from working and getting your license.

@avawiththeflava 3 года назад

@@RGBovine I mean I have depression, anxiety, diagnosed PTSD and severe ADD. Autism is different than just being lazy and it depends on where on the spectrum someone is. I have auditory stimulation problems as well from my ADD but I still get up every day and am working full time/ going to school part time. So yeah.

@vangoghsotherear4114 3 года назад

@@RGBovine i understand you may not be in a position to work but some people just like you work and have done great things. You don’t always have to work for others. You can build your business and learn to work for yourself too and make money without the pressures of a 9-5. Or you could not work and just help those around you who help you in the ways you can. There’s a lot of levels to why this guy is only hurting himself in the end. His excuses are holding him back and he doesn’t realize it.

@FaolanHart 3 года назад

Everyone has issues, people handle things in different ways. Some have it worse than others. If one person can do something that doesn't mean someone else can. They might with some actual help. You can do something he can't. Good for you. *claps* Now in a world you where actually him that might be something of note. So many people in this comment section are basically using this kid's position in life as a way to make themselves seem & feel better. While others are showing empathy, often due to having experienced similar things themselves. Putting everything like this down to laziness is frankly laziness in itself.

@joesmith9616 3 года назад

@@avawiththeflava females can't be depressed get real, you speak on something you don't know about

@DAMIENDMILLS 3 года назад

This is the most "Boomer" episode of Dr. Phil ever. He usually tries to help people, and clearly this dude has issues with trust, anxiety, social communication, emotional depression, and Dr. Phil doesn't address any of it. He just laughs at him and tells him to get a job like a Boomer.

@robinfox4440 3 года назад

I miss the Dr Phil who would look at the parents and ask them what they did to screw up the parenting.

@DAMIENDMILLS 3 года назад

@@robinfox4440 He never even talked to the mom one time

@DAMIENDMILLS 3 года назад

@@dootdoot94xo44 Such a millennial shouldn't use the term "retard" I though y'all fought for that word to be as illegal as "midget" or "the N-word"?

@DAMIENDMILLS 3 года назад

@@dootdoot94xo44 I predict you will do 1 of 8 things: 1. Say nothing 2. Make assumptions about me 3. Quote the Bible to make youself look "better" 4. Spew random articles you Google searched that only correspond to your point. 5. Tag a friend to pretend you brought in an "outside opinion". 6. Defend your point by writing paragraphs. 7. Make sarcastic comebacks. Or 8. Report me. Let's see...

@oceanguy1249 3 года назад

Anyone who tells a 22 year old to move into his own house with no money and no life experience shouldn't be allowed to be a therapist.

@DAMIENDMILLS 3 года назад

Going on TV was the worst idea the grandmother ever had. This was a terrible episode. Nothing was learned from anybody, Dr. Phil offered little to no help, and now they are worse off for it. It would have been better if each family member PRIVATELY sought out family counselling or if Connor sought out therapy.

@sunilgupta7911 3 года назад

So true , he is straight up bullying him tryna get recognition

@fascinatinglist9654 2 года назад

Not to mention that he's just ruined any chance of ever being hired by future employers now that he's all over the internet.

@Lola-Anderson 3 года назад

This whole episode seems to be invalidating someone’s roots. Maybe he hasn’t processed everything he’s gone through... shame on you dr Phil for not recognizing that a 22 year old being “lazy” isn’t normal. So what’s happening in that brain? You publicly humiliated this young man. Loss of respect for you sir

@johnlongtonguenogagreflex827 3 года назад

why don’t you two get married and have kids while your husband plays games all day and you doing every chores. you probably won’t last 1 hour lol

@chrislanda9950 3 года назад

did u go to el toro high skool? Lol

@amopotato7953 3 года назад

Uhhhh. I think that is the point. Dr. Phil does realize that a 22 yo playing games all day is a problem. It, actually is a huge problem in society overall regardless of age. The solution is, for him, to grow up and behave like the adult he is. 18 yo and up, you are an adult. No-one ever said being an adult was easy but we all become one.

@riopemberton596 3 года назад

If he isn't doing anything outside of home and doesn't want to have a job or get reccuring income then he is lazy

@b23beatz 3 года назад

Greatest predictor of future behavior is relevant behavior from the past, if he doesn’t change now he never will

@sixfeetundertheradar6080 3 года назад

Why are they all bullying him? Like I get that he needs to improve but negative reinforcement hardly ever works

@xsargantxshaftx7997 3 года назад

I believe they've tried positive reinforcement for years and hes a hypocrite who just wants to be taken care of his whole life - negative reinforcement is the only option now hes an adult hes gotta grow up.

@burglar42 3 года назад

He needs to be redirected. Laziness rules.

@riopemberton596 3 года назад

They need to tell him what to do then supervise what he does

@austinrichardson9687 3 года назад

I actually think it’s the opposite. He shut down from negative reinforcement.

@teenindustry 3 года назад

because this is the dr phil nodel. He exploits bad therapy

@jonbourgoin182 3 года назад

Dr Phil has had more than a few guests in this dude’s situation who are 10+ years OLDER than this guy. Him being 22 doesn’t seem that bad in comparison.

@FortressofFire9999 3 года назад

One guy was 45

@johnnyflannigan136 3 года назад

Yeah, until you hear him talk....hes beyond hope

@victoriapeay3019 3 года назад

My thoughts exactly. He’s really not as bad as ppl are making him out to be..

@philg594 3 года назад

@@johnnyflannigan136 i disagree

@NoOne-wt6om 3 года назад

Isn't 22 young to leave house? I'll graduate in 23.

@missmochiicecream 3 года назад

Ok but like, "I'm a night owl" is a legitimate thing. Some people (usually non-neurotypical) function better at night. There's a difference between an explanation for a behavior and an excuse. I really dislike that this guy's responses are all being written off as excuses rather than explanations, but that's not too surprising coming from this show.

@kelseybackus9915 3 года назад

There are jobs that have night shifts, even during this pandemic

@missmochiicecream 3 года назад

@@kelseybackus9915 but the "night owl" comment was in response to why he sleeps in so late; like damn, I sleep in until 4 or 5pm most days as of late lol but I'm still a functioning member of society. I don't think what time you wake up or go to bed has anything to do with your ability to function as a person.

@Jane5720 3 года назад

He can apply and get a night job

@Jane5720 3 года назад

@@missmochiicecream so it does read the statistics on it

@missmochiicecream 3 года назад

@@Jane5720 i don't care about what the statistics say on it, that's not what i was referring to lol they asked him why he slept in so late, and he said it's because he's a night owl - that's a thing. it doesn't excuse him for not getting a job - just because you're a night owl doesn't mean you're exempt from being able to seek employment (though due to how ableist society is, it does mean that it'll come with more challenges). this kid obviously is suffering from a lot of things and needs help with them, but his sleeping hours is not really one of them so long as he's getting enough sleep. just pointing out that they're treating every response of his as an excuse and i don't think that's fair.

@brickinterviewertv 3 года назад

these people amaze me they want him to '' get a real job'' but wont be the effort in like helping him fill applications

@riopemberton596 3 года назад

I agree, but I think he may not have any motivation and see no reason to get a job, when he can sit at home playing games all day

@brittanymeanney6564 3 года назад

Why is it their job to help him find a job? To put in more effort than he is? He’s grown and able. If you need mommy to hold your hand while filling out an application, you’re not going to get far in life. There are 16 year olds that manage to find their own jobs. This guy is just full of excuses.

@TattyDarling 3 года назад

@@brittanymeanney6564 it’s ok to need help though. Everyone needs help at times.

@pinksakuraxo6677 3 года назад

Yep and that’s pretty childish! Maybe he should follow my Instagram account and see how well I do in life, despite me having Aspergers, Anxiety and Depression. Maybe it will at least give him some motivation to grow up and do something with his life

@pjsdragonfly 3 года назад

Why should you have to help a 22 year old fill out applications? He can figure out high level games so he can figure out how to fill out an application.

@qotak5049 3 года назад

Okay so I think his trauma should be addressed or acknowledged more because that's part of him not wanting to drive

@rottensister9126 3 года назад

I also guess there is something else behind what needs to work out. My babybrother kinda like this, he has lot of bullying and misfortunes in his young years. This show really paint everything black and white.

@gvmi 3 года назад

I agree. I actually have trauma and feel it’s unfair to just say “oh grow up and realize everyone has trauma!” then have the audience laugh at this man when he’s obviously struggling with mental health issues that should be addressed rather than making all mentally ill people look “Lazy” !!

@RachelSimonDraws 3 года назад

I was in a serious car accident when I was 18. It's been around 7 years and getting in a car still makes me incredibly anxious and scared. If anyone tried to tell me that I just need to get over it, I would flip. Obviously, there are other issues here, but demanding why a 22-year-old isn't a "contributing member of society" by living on his own? Even if he had a job, he probably wouldn't be able to afford his own place right off the bat. These clips just feel demeaning and like they re making fun of this guy for admitting he has issues and not knowing what to do about it.

@shelbyberry4349 3 года назад

True. I didn't drive until I was 27 because I couldn't drive because id shake so bad behind the wheel. But then, I still had a job starting at 16. You don't need a car to get a job, there's walking, biking, the bus, and car pooling.

@RachelSimonDraws 3 года назад

@@shelbyberry4349 Totally agree on the job thing. Of course, we don't know the whole thing with him and the family - a lot of it felt like disregarding stuff that could be seen as actual points worth talking about because it was easier to paint him as a lazy millennial stereotype. By all means, he could totally be that kind of irresponsible person - the way it's portrayed in the "interview" just gives me the vibe that there's a lot being overlooked.

@cinder7183 3 года назад

He's running to another female to enable him. The girlfriend.

@unbeatabel 3 года назад

My question is, how did people like him have a girlfriend?💀

@gailwebb9619 3 года назад

They haven’t met in FIVE years.....not sure how they can say they are bf and gf....and she thinks she is going to change him once he gets there to see her? Good luck with that.

@missymani 3 года назад

EXACTLY!! Also, he sounds arrogant, condescending and I think he will be a terrible boyfriend.

@sallydum-ay7942 3 года назад

Haha agree.

@riopemberton596 3 года назад

@Emily Wickler He's not a manipulator, he just gets his way because people aren't bothered with him

@victoriam3652 3 года назад

The fact that he has a girlfriend and I can't get a boyfriend. Damm I have no game.😫🤣🤣💀

@stephanymary1 3 года назад

You have standards that’s why lol

@tellnobody 3 года назад

@Junior Jimenez LMFAOOOOO

@juicyd5910 3 года назад

Fine restaurants like McDonald’s or KFC🤣 At least RAISE your restaurant standards to In N Out or Chick Fil A!

@victoriam3652 3 года назад

@@juicyd5910 👏🏻

@juicyd5910 3 года назад

And that’s not even me asking you to raise the restaurant standard by much😂 When I had my girlfriend, we were eating at fancy restaurants at Disneyland. And if we weren’t eating out, I was cooking her a meal.

@jamesb7978 3 года назад

I HATE DR.PHIL’s HOLIER-THAN-THOU ATTITUDE ON EVERY EPISODE

@crazyoldlady809 3 года назад

I think this kid is way out of line. But, you’re right. Dr phil flat out acts like he is clueless about many mental illness despite the fact that he ALWAYS says I’ve been doing this for 45 years 🤦‍♀️

@probablynot1368 3 года назад

I believe Dr. Phil and his staff do a good job of ‘vetting’ a person prior to bringing him/her to the show. There have been several shows where the guests are coming off as lazy jerks; however, through questioning (and additional background history), Dr. Phil reveals past traumatic experiences have shaped their lives into being frightened, defensive individuals who have been paralyzed with indecision. I’m going to cut Dr. Phil a break on this one, and agree that this guy is lazy, shiftless, and loaded with excuses.

@margaretmccutcheon1081 3 года назад

Yeah, he does behave in a self-righteous most of the time.

@justanotherguy8296 3 года назад

Why do people feel like moving out at age 18 is a MUST?

@MBT372 3 года назад

Exactly!

@EvanOdegaard 3 года назад

Because thats what people do if they aren't losers

@123TheCloop 3 года назад

@@EvanOdegaard thats also how you lose yourself. my brother moved out at 21, got his own apartment, lost his job, couldn't afford the rent for the apartment and had to move back in. the only people who move out at 18 are the people who have high paying jobs, if your on low paying grunt work type jobs. your never going to have solidity and its been proven that leaving too early can be the worst thing to do "because you have a job" "a" being the key thing here, not every job will be a lifetime job. Do i think hes got lazyness issue, maybe. but at the age of 22, who knows when his birthday was (could have been during the pandemic) which has laid of thousands of jobs around the world. so realistically hes what, been living there unsupportive for like 2-3 years at best. if anything ide argue thats being smart and jumping the gun a little to quick.

@EvanOdegaard 3 года назад

@@123TheCloop Damn, he should have been a dentist or sum

@EvanOdegaard 3 года назад

@@123TheCloop If it wasn't a prob he wouldn't be on dr phill for playing games all day and wont leave the house

@susi9242 3 года назад

Also I pray to god this kid's not suicidal or anything ❤️ having issues is not a joke and he's not worthless bc of it. Took me until 33 to get my life together but honestly he's a very young adult with traumas probably and you shouldnt yell at him. Dr Phil is really not compassionate or percetive about this family. He lacks the understanding.

@CrimsonPriestessofMiracles 3 года назад

Conner is obviously in the spectrum. I have a similar mindset and traits that's in the spectrum, and I've seen other people in the spectrum similar to him, but I can still make a living in life. He needs to visit a psychologist.

@shelia6564 3 года назад

That’s possible, I also feel like his social anxiety is really holding him back and needs to be treated

@airconditioner7178 3 года назад

It’s not autism. What on earth points to autism? You can’t just decide someone has autism after watching a video, it is a complex diagnosis to make. This young man describes and understands his emotions, he uses good eye contact, he is expressive and uses his hands when speaking etc etc etc. I just see a young man who is more self centred than altruistic which is very common for people in his age group.

@hannahtomazic9547 3 года назад

@@airconditioner7178 autism isn't the only thing on the spectrum..

@shelia6564 3 года назад

@@zwerver6249 anxiety can go along with depression to. We really don’t know what his diagnosis is. I really don’t think he has autism, but anxiety I mentioned because to me that’s the only obvious

@Dino-rj6gq 3 года назад

@@airconditioner7178 He still could have autism, or he could not. Autistic people can make eye contact and be expressive with people, that's why it's a spectrum. And a lot of people are very good at masking and seem like any other person. Not saying you can diagnose it from a video, but saying he most likely doesn't because of describing his emotions/hand movement/etc is kind of a reach

@Cryostar_ 3 года назад

Not gonna lie, I lost all respect I had for Dr. Phil. I'm 26 and I'm just now getting my life together because of mental issues preventing me to in the past. Everyone has their own timeline, not everyone can get a job and a house and be married with children by 20 years old especially in today's economy AND during a pandemic. Everyone battles their demons differently, and tbh this family sounds super toxic and the fact Dr. Phil did this on television is even more toxic. Actual garbage human behavior. I'd love to hear Dr. Phil's "excuses" for the reason he acted towards this guy. This is the biggest boomer nonsense I've heard in my life and it honestly to say it makes me angry is an understatement. Doesn't even try to help him, literally just verbal abuse and gaslighting. Wish I could do something to actually help Connor get out of that situation if he's still in it. There is clearly more going on and no amount of bias editing is going to fool someone with at least half a brain.

@susi9242 3 года назад

YES. Me too. I hope he reads the comments, and that he can understand that if lots of ppl write it out honestly in the comments that they think something is wrong with his style and behaviour, he should have an honest think about this himself.

@Cinemaniac87 3 года назад

I cant agree more all the phony bs of him caring for people is just an act seriously if connor harms himself phil needs to be held criminally liable

@joamatheny2284 3 года назад

Agreed I honestly feel like doctor Phill should issue an apology it's stupid that as someone with diagnosed add depression and anxiety that doctor Phill couldn't see some of those signs that I and so many others could see I asked my own therapist about this episode because she loves Dr Phill and she said that's not helping that's bullying

@talonryckert6084 3 года назад

Agreed!

@c0ntra605 3 года назад

Speak on it bro🥶🥶🔥💯

@susi9242 3 года назад

You embarred youself on this one dr. Phil. It's spelled compassion. Most fundamental.

@Cinemaniac87 3 года назад

Phil exposed himself as a fraud

@carolegibbs8856 2 года назад

What is embarred? It's not in my dictionary.

@amandaaivettee 3 года назад

He definitely should start maturing and making moves to progress in is life but I don’t understand why they were so quick to put him down and minimize his feelings every “excuse” was valid and I feel for him honestly this is a tough time rn he should work a little harder obviously but I think he needs positive reinforcement and encouragement rather than everyone calling him lazy.

@Hiphilmahooters 3 года назад

Because he hasn’t made any steps to improve any of those feelings or understand them properly to still live like a human. Conner is essentially escaping from being a human being. He doesn’t make any effort and his family is tired of it. I’m sure at one point they were VERY understanding of his feelings, but at a point it genuinely becomes an excuse to stay still with no progress in life- which is what Conner is doing.

@jesicabooth9843 3 года назад

How about you invite him to live with you & do nothing but free load and buck you when asked to help out he is lazy and needs to grow up stop enabling lazy people you're half the problem in what's wrong in the world

@jesicabooth9843 3 года назад

@@zwerver6249 it did happen to me and yes I was forced to do the damn thing and it's the best thing my family could have done made me independent and I now have a great relationship with my mother and have my own home

@pinksakuraxo6677 3 года назад

@@jesicabooth9843 or he could come to live with me for a couple of days and I’ll show him what living with mental illness is really like and how motivated I am, maybe that will give it something to remember! I have mental illness and I can do a lot more than this dude here can! I have compassion for him, but it is also irritating and preposterous to see him refuse to grow up and not appreciate life! He is also free to follow my Instagram account for more inspiration!!!

@Hiphilmahooters 3 года назад

@Extreme Speeder I didn’t say the US shouldn’t. Don’t project your own insecurities on what I’m saying, and take it point blank.

@missymani 3 года назад

"I pay rent when I have a job" Nice way to phrase that you don't pay rent.

@Lexi-vp5kk 3 года назад

Sorry i think y'all were kind of unnecessarily mean here. I don't think that's helping anything. Dude needs some help but he doesn't deserve to be treated badly.

@Cinemaniac87 3 года назад

Phil lost any respect i ever had for him

@Lola-Anderson 3 года назад

If he was like 45 doing all this OKAY now it’s an issue... if he had 6 kids and 5 baby mamas and no job no ambition OKAY. But he’s right he’s not the worse person in the world.

@tangiechapman6219 3 года назад

That true

@connergarlock771 3 года назад

Yeah true, I think he just needs to put out more effort and find something he enjoys doing

@kimmyjong-un3894 3 года назад

😂

@chrislanda9950 3 года назад

Ur just as lazy as him I bet that's why you care so much about it (x lmao

@Jane5720 3 года назад

It's still issue

@BlazingShadow925 3 года назад

Dr Phil, you honestly are just bullying this kid. Yes, he does need to get his life together but none of this is even the slightest bit supportive. You're not going to get a 22 year old with obvious depression to "suddenly turn his life around" by insulting them. A minimum wage job, in most places, can barely afford any appartment. And it's absolutely atrocious how much you down played the effects of the COVID lockdown had on those 17 to 25 trying to get a job. They don't have the work experience so they're on the absolute bottom of the list to be hired when the companies are hiring those with ton of experience who were also furloughed. I'm 24 and it took me half a year to get a new job after reduced hours even with a college degree. I was putting out 10 to 20 applications a day too. There were so many months where I almost couldn't afford rent if it wasn't for my wife's job being deemed essential. Boomer's really can't comprehend that you can't go out and get a job in a week. You apply, you wait 1 to 2 weeks for a reply and then another 2 to 3 weeks for the interview process more than likely ending in a no. Instead of calling this kid a lazy piece of s***, maybe actually give a f*** and connect with him and guide him. He obvious doesn't like gardening and doesn't have the back bone to say it. Find something else! Actually parent the kid! Help him, don't just tell him why he's trash. The grandmother could have just as easily cut of the wifi he uses which clearly shows her enabling him. Dr. Phil I usually love you videos but here you just disappoint. What happened to you actually talking it out with them. And I know for a fact there are many episodes you did with this exact scenario and blamed the kid AND the parents for allowing the kid to get this way. Get this kid a friend to guide him, NOT a boomer who can't be bothered with relating to their kids and telling them that everything bad in their life is their own fault. Honestly that's how you drive a kid to suicide.

@yancgc5098 3 года назад

Well said.

@sixstanger00 3 года назад

*_They don't have the work experience so they're on the absolute bottom of the list to be hired_* You know how you gain work experience? You spend your days spamming employers with applications and resumes until someone hires you instead of spending 6-12 hrs playing video games. While I agree Dr. Phil was dismissive, you can't say "I don't have work experience" and in the same breath say you spend most of your time sleeping or playing video games. It's one thing to say "I have no work experience" if you're out everyday, knocking on doors, putting in applications, etc. But no one is going to take you seriously if you aren't at least _trying your best_ to correct the problem. Back when I was in my early 20s and my parents were pressuring me to get a job, I literally spent entire days going door-to-door. I would look at classifieds in the newspaper to see who was hiring and make a list of stops. Moral of the story: If you DO NOTHING, EXPECT NOTHING.

@TheFeatherlessbiped 3 года назад

Life coach comes on just to roast someone with depression

@starrk6966 3 года назад

U can tell he doesn’t brush his teeth

@stephaniemartin-ward4578 3 года назад

Right? So gross. He needs a job, some insurance, and a dentist.

@TattyDarling 3 года назад

Lack of hygiene, or not caring about your hygiene is a sign of depression....which this kid has hands down.

@VANITARE 3 года назад

Puke

@kimmyjong-un3894 3 года назад

🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮

@TheLovelyAtena 3 года назад

That's what depression does, you lack the will to help yourself, lack to do basic hygiene, lack to get up from bed, lack to live. Games are their to make you not be in the real world and not think of the stress life gives you

@sammurphy3343 3 года назад

The literal definition of bullying

@darceybarnes1198 3 года назад

public humiliation? lost so much respect for you and this show

@smirgalicious 3 года назад

First time I witnessed Dr. Phil and staff acting like washed up boomers

@Junginj 3 года назад

Hes struggling with depression. All this attack can lead him to suicide. This will make him feel worse than he already feels. He admited to having anxiety. Its beyond me how these "professionals" think. Yes hes very defensive, but thats because people are attacking him. I feel bad for him. As someone who struggles with depression, I was there once. Hes not lazy, hes just afraid and feels as his worth is just dependent on if he has job or money. It doesn't look like his family is close to him or love him.

@RoyalRoses 3 года назад

You have actually got to be kidding me, right?

@laurennew1432 3 года назад

Well said Lena! If you’ve been there you understand.

@rafaelavila6194 3 года назад

I disagree with you. He is someone who wakes up 2 pm during the week days. He doesn’t show any progress on becoming productive (earn money). Am I saying that earning money is the only thing that matters in life? No! But in this society, that we live in(Joker), you need to at least have a job that pays for your basic needs. Of course, he doesn’t have to have life figured out already, he is just 22, like I am, but he should have been spending a great amount of his time seeking a job (his number one priority as he admitted). Well... what if he was studying instead of working? That would be legit! But he said on the show that he couldn’t study, bc he needs a teacher “there”. I mean, he is obviously lying to himself! But I agree with you in the sense that all this exposure on live television could lead to a worsening of his depression(he may not have it - I don’t know). But, as Mike said “everybody goes though some hardships”. Bad things happens to us, but we have to overcome them and look (fight) for a better future.

@lolaminer5 3 года назад

I get what you are saying but there's a difference between understanding someones mental issues and just being enabling. I'd say this is a blunder on his guardians' part. They've obviously spoiled him and not put any sort of responsibility on his shoulders during childhood and early teens, and by the time he reached his 20s all of a sudden everybody is saying "Get out and get a job" when they didn't even mentally prepare him for those hurdles in life, they just expect him to pick it up and know it all. Adding all that on top of anxiety would just make things ten times worse. I don't think it has anything to do with his own "worth" I think it's more about being afraid of change and stressful situations in life, which is something everyone goes through as an adult.

@Junginj 3 года назад

@@lolaminer5 I agree that they have enabled him and probably didnt teach him any better about life while he was growing up. But it doesn't explain why he's unmotivated or lacks basic hygiene. I believe hes very stressed due to his newfound problem. Because suddenly he needs to be responsible. And its demanded of him. His mom has same problems. Its possible that depression was inherited from his mother. I do think they need counseling but also someone whos loving and inspiring. Not demanding and demeaning like his grandmother.

@ooonyxxx 3 года назад

This man is suffering from Depression, hope he gets help 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@Lumalee 3 года назад

They never said anything about depression and he doesnt show any signs of it

@ooonyxxx 3 года назад

@@Lumalee there's a previous clip they posted from the same episode, it's obvious from there he's suffering from depression

@Lumalee 3 года назад

@@ooonyxxx ive watched all 3 clips, what part is "so obvious" exactly

@Lumalee 3 года назад

@Extreme Speeder None of those are signs of depression. You literally dont know what depression is really like.

@haidernaveed5946 3 года назад

@@Lumalee Yes they are... Depression isn't one specific thing, it's different for different people

@IceyFireSpiritDragon 3 года назад

Honestly, I'm bothered by this one. Dr Phil doesn't really seem to care what the guy says and brushes off explanation As excuses. This really bothers me.

@jesicabooth9843 3 года назад

They are excuses what are you talking about he's lazy

@flyingman2633 3 года назад

@@jesicabooth9843 Humans are naturally not lazy, there is something wrong with him and "Dr" Phil should've tried to figure it out instead of berating him and yelling at him to get a job and making his social anxiety worse. And the fact he came on the show is literally a sign that he wants to do something about it, sad thing is he chose a show that doesn't do anything about problems.

@utonfrancis6085 3 года назад

Poor guy is afraid to drive because of trauma and they saying it's an excuse. Says its difficult to get a job because of the pandemic and they saying that's an excuse The gaming industry has grown immensely over the years especially since the pandemic...and no one thought "maybe we should encourage him to get serious about and try to make that his living" seeing that he is so passionate about it. I'm no doctor but a lot of times I hear of people with depression they often mention that they lose the motivation to even get up and shower...I'm just saying maybe this guy is a little depressed . Or maybe he actually is just lazy...either way I don't like how they dealt with his situation.

@oceanguy1249 3 года назад

Anyone who tells a 22 year old to move into his own house with no money and no life experience shouldn't be allowed to be a therapist.

@vitalosiute 3 года назад

He's scared to get things moving and probably needs support, you can tell he's a smart guy!

@pinksakuraxo6677 3 года назад

He is! However, the lack of motivation is irritating to some people! He needs a job program, someone with similar experiences to connect with and a PCA to help him with his hygiene!

@vitalosiute 3 года назад

@@pinksakuraxo6677 yes but as people having gone through this too, we need to be more understanding. He just needs to learn tools that he can implement himself, empower him!

@laurennew1432 3 года назад

He needs help clearly he has anxiety issues. Well done “Dr” Phil for doing absolutely nothing to help him and absolutely everything to humiliate him! Unsubscribing.

@missymani 3 года назад

Snowflake. He needs a cake up call. Not everyone in the world is going to pamper you.

@pm8401 3 года назад

Agree, many episodes involve public humiliation only, they don't even get to the root of the problems they present. Why anyone would agree to go on this bitchy show, I do not know.

@susi9242 3 года назад

@@missymani rude wake up calls is not what real therapy is about and real therapy is what he need. Not some old man yelling in his face

@Cinemaniac87 3 года назад

Good job phil is a pos

@sierra1680 3 года назад

Asking him why he does something: Answers: EXCUSES 🛎

@carlod538 3 года назад

Dr. Phil a straight up bully

@lunarxmusic5486 3 года назад

Dr.Phil always makes it seem so easy to leave the house and live on your own once you’re 18. He always mentions how his kids left the house once they were 18, that just sounds like privilege to me. Not that it’s impossible, but times have changed, it’s pretty difficult for most people these days to get there own place that young.

@RHBR01 3 года назад

His kids are 41 and 34 years old. It was definitely a different time- the younger turned 18 in 2004, and the older turned 18 in 1997.

@lunarxmusic5486 3 года назад

@@RHBR01 I’m referring to Dr.Phil’s time being different. Not his kids.

@maevedaly9084 Год назад

Agreed

@russiantroubleyakutsk1612 Год назад

It's easy to move out at 18 if your parents are rich enough like Dr Phil to rent you out an apartment for a year. My younger cousin "moved out" at 19 in college only because my rich aunt and uncle rented him out a studio.

@lanajohnson7401 Год назад

No, people can get a job and rent a place with roommates. It's not hard at all

@sssmileybtw 3 года назад

How can I join no paying bills and playing video all day

@lyannaann8433 3 года назад

Smoke me a kipper, I'll be back for breakfast.

@americanmade-1 3 года назад

@UCbeiMzUb1KGBYwomHuI_0Iw then your question makes no sense. What 14yr old pays bills?

@sssmileybtw 3 года назад

@@americanmade-1 this other guy comment but he deleted it

@jayjones2347 3 года назад

Dude, grow up and stop making excuses for EVERY LITTLE THING.

@Cinemaniac87 3 года назад

Or just stop judging people that could be suffering from depression

@aparks1437 3 года назад

"i'm not the worst person in the world" - says someone on the dr phil show

@rafaelavila6194 3 года назад

To me this was the worst part. Because, he is worried about not being terrible instead of working on being the best he can. I mean... his mentality is just to not be terrible, he isn’t thinking about achieving a higher stand.

@lucy-cd7go 3 года назад

Ikr its a bigger lie than the girl saying that she was carrying baby jesus 😂

@sallyseptimiv940 3 года назад

Well he could be worse

@Naomi-ik8my 3 года назад

I think he has low expectations for himself. To him all he needs to do is not be a bad person and he needs a new perspective to wake him up

@brandoncrusan6448 3 года назад

Nothing like shaming and laughing at him. The mother was even laughing too to seem like she was superior. Instead of guiding him through his problems, Dr Phil seems to make a mockery of him

@pm8401 3 года назад

Yes, it was cheap behavior from all these supposed adults.

@hannablackburn9237 3 года назад

The whole driving thing bothers me because I was in a wreck when I was in middle school that traumatized me. We were sitting at a traffic light and doing nothing when we got rear ended by a HUGE truck that was rolled over two cars before us and one after. We were lucky that our FJ Cruiser was built as strongly as it was because we could died. I was terrified of being in a car from that day on. I was 18 when I got my license and it was so life changing for me. I don’t think calling his fear of driving an excuse is right. He was traumatized by what he saw BOTH of his parents go through and that is okay. He needs to get help to get over that fear because I think that once he gets over that fear and can get his license that his world view will become bigger and bigger. He will see what all he has been missing and what he can accomplish.

@pm8401 3 года назад

Agree, they were just ridiculing him and making bitchy comments, so unprofessional and low.

@missymani 3 года назад

To me it seems like an excuse, he was not a small child when it happened and the parents who are the ones who suffered this supposedly "horrific" accident are totally fine and driving him everywhere. If the parents who were the victims of the crash stepped up, so can he. He should be helping them because he is the one healthy.

@brodyerb1999 2 года назад

23 years old and I don’t have a drivers license. Working on it now

@SarahChapstick 3 года назад

I feel like at this point Phil does not have a current view of psychology in our current culture especially regarding gen Z

@grumpydumpster7064 3 года назад

Damn I'm not a doctor but 1- pretty sure shaming somone doesn't cure depression proably just makes it worse 2- many jobs aren't hiring because of the pandemic. Most places AREN'T getting MUCH BUSINESS which makes everyone hours be cut short so everyone getting hours without LABOR going over 3- some people are actually more active at night and instead of shaming him for it maybe suggest him to get a night job or best way to use that time instead of being on video games 4- playing games does reduce stress for people just because it wouldnt work for you doesnt mean it doesnt work for everyone. Most people have odd ways to reduce stress not always coloring drawing and taking deep breaths everyone different 5- definitely try to look more into the excuses to have a better mindset of how to solve the problem instead if just saying "oh you're lazy" because most of the stuff does affect him and you as a doctor can help get through that and overcome his fears or calm them down so hes atleast able to get a job get a GED get a driver license Not saying let the dude live and let him play games all the time he needs to eventually get his life together and not depend on his grandma and mom but what you did doesn't really seem like it helped the situation kinda disappointed that you didnt try to understand more of what was going on and to help solve the problem because shaming somone when they dont really deserve it doesnt fix the problem

@SCIUReaper 3 года назад

@DrPhill most ppl are going threw this and the us has the highest unemployment rate for over 50 years and on top of that his mom lives with her mom like gezzz Im really disappointed in u dr phill.

@Nico-pk1hc 3 года назад

The audience in the background are annoying!!!!

@psychedelicblueberry8080 3 года назад

I'm surprised this dude has a girlfriend. Girl run!

@CalipsoCareline 3 года назад

Online girlfriend it's not actually a girlfriend. Online dating it's pretty common when the person does not want to put any effort in anything.

@psychedelicblueberry8080 3 года назад

@@CalipsoCareline true

@johnub4 3 года назад

@@CalipsoCareline I respectfully disagree because I met my ex fiance and my current girlfriend online. Yes I have met them both in person. Nothing wrong with online dating. It's a great tool to create relationships.

@Cinemaniac87 3 года назад

I agree i met my wife of almost 5 years online

@krazyworld6433 3 года назад

This episode was just an average convo between me and my therapist

@joamatheny2284 3 года назад

Same

@leahparry4166 3 года назад

Amazing that Connor is being ridiculed for all these 'excuses', of which some are reasonable responses and reasons for his actions, when none of the other family members are also being told the same thing on their responses blaming others. Where do you think this kid has picked it up from if you're going to label all his responses like that?! There are so many things wrong with how he is treated! As a fellow 22 year old, none of the things that Dr. Phil, the life coach or his family are doing or saying to him would help his current situation. "Why don't you just get a job?" - I'm sure the millions of people who have been left unemployed and those coming out of education trying to find work during this pandemic find this extremely helpful, thank you Dr. Phil.

@JackieOwl94 3 года назад

Depression is a serious condition. This dude reminds me of how I was right before I was pushed to the edge and went to a treatment center with my husband’s help. The thing about depression is that your brain lies to you so much that you don’t think you need help because you aren’t worthy of it. Even when I was adapting to my meds, doing laundry as my only chore was a challenge; each time that I did it, it felt like an achievement. This “tough love” won’t help. Medication and maybe a trip to a clinic to give him some rest from that tension to refocus may be what is needed. With treatment, he can improve and thrive. I did, and I am still adapting, but in an upward trajectory.

@kirkretter9034 3 года назад

First off I do have a decent paying job and my own house but I see a lot of me in Connor. He wants to take better care of himself, he wants to get a decent paying job and he wants to move out on his own. However I think that it’s very obvious that every time he starts to make progress towards those goals the people close to him say that’s not good enough because you aren’t there yet instead of encouraging him to continue pursuing those goals and Phil just did the same thing. P.S. I purposely didn’t include Dr because he’s not one and he hasn’t been for a long time and this episode shows why.

@Katsunimoon69 3 года назад

This is why you need to stop coddling your sons. Don’t treat me like a child, goes and plays games all day.😒

@riopemberton596 3 года назад

Games aren't for children, they're for bored people

@Katsunimoon69 3 года назад

@@riopemberton596 but that’s all he does other than video calls with his ‘gf’.

@enjoyingmyvodka1013 3 года назад

I’m 33 live with the parents but I do way more than him, I pay my own car insurance, gas, medication, own cleaning supplies etc

@population-_-420 3 года назад

Liar

@enjoyingmyvodka1013 3 года назад

@@population-_-420 excuse me?

@Jane5720 3 года назад

@@enjoyingmyvodka1013 why are you still living you with your parents? I hope you pay rent and food, cell phone. I can't think of a single reason why somebody 33 should be living at home other than Failure to Launch

@Jane5720 3 года назад

@Extreme Speeder they should have made them Independent by now they obviously didn't do a very good job grooming them to be independent at that age

@sophiam1384 3 года назад

Dr.Phil belittles his guests. He’s horrible.

@jwillautomobiles 3 года назад

In all fairness, I lost my job in Denver from the pandemic and had to apply to 25+ jobs to get just 1 interview.

@fascinatinglist9654 2 года назад

Same

@cjham5272 2 года назад

"ExCUsE"

@TheDrew4288 3 года назад

If you watch the entire show, this kid had an answer for EVERYTHING. At the end of the episode, Coach Mike refused to take him on as a client

@burglar42 3 года назад

He has to wake himself up.

@pm8401 3 года назад

Coach Mike failed

@sonias9722 3 года назад

He seems scared that he can't make it in the real world. Most people his age aren't afraid of doing anything partly because they are naive. He has internalized that everything can be ruined by one small mistake which is paralyzing him. He needs to go step by step and be allowed to also fail. Everyone is blaming him as it is and that makes him even more reluctant to get moving.

@kaneclarke4825 2 года назад

This show does nothing to help people. It creates an audience for these people to judge them. Awful awful show.

@Window4503 3 года назад

“The world isn’t fair” is the summary of the Gen Z perspective. And who fed us that line? For a lot of us, our parents. I’m 23 and moved out and functioning, but life was always portrayed as this scary unforgiving thing and sometimes it still feels that way when I have to take care of things. There’s been little reassurance for many of us who have had to step out into the hellscape in the name of growing up. The fact that older adults don’t get that and then wonder why some of us can’t emotionally handle it is beyond me. You didn’t toughen anyone up by saying “Life isn’t fair.” You just told us that we have to face it alone.

@suey8227 3 года назад

It seems to me he's not used to the word NO. maybe has been bit spoilt, is entitiled to a degree.. Both my kids have been independent from 18. not because i forced them, but because they wanted to get out there and do it themselves. The door is always open and they ve both come back for short stints, but always contributed and helped out.

@susi9242 3 года назад

Maybe you helped them grow that way. People do not become less than by themself, if they are loved and treated right its natrual life goes better.

@michellehunter7452 3 года назад

Dr. Phil you're a bully.

@brickinterviewertv 3 года назад

if they want him to get a job then they should help him more the grandma should stop yelling and help him fill out applications

@rottensister9126 3 года назад

This was horrible to watch and even more horrible to read comments.

@mybawls69 3 года назад

When you find out dr.Phil is a trumpet

@courtenaysturgill5951 3 года назад

How on EARTH did this guy get a girlfriend?? I couldn't spend 5 minutes with this guy.

@gc8328 3 года назад

You don't even know him you weirdo

@courtenaysturgill5951 3 года назад

@@gc8328 I don't have to know him to know how annoying his attitude is. He should be grateful and happy to help his grandmother. He's lazy by his own admission, entitled, and full of BS excuses.

@bobot.chimpanzee8612 3 года назад

She hasn't even spent 5 minutes with him. Not sure if she could either.

@courtenaysturgill5951 3 года назад

Yea I saw that on the next video. A 5 year online relationship and they haven't met because of "scheduling"..... and he's unemployed 😂

@courtenaysturgill5951 3 года назад

@Extreme Speeder what? Did you even watch the videos? He pretty much admitted he was just lazy.

@GomezMedia1 3 года назад

I just wanna let you guys know you can’t date someone you’ve never met.

@Lumalee 3 года назад

You absolutely can

@biancaaniculaesei5609 3 года назад

how's the single life going?

@Lumalee 3 года назад

@@biancaaniculaesei5609 exactly

@GomezMedia1 3 года назад

@@biancaaniculaesei5609 i don’t know you tell me, how did you feel when NoobMaster69 broke your heart?

@rudrank819 3 года назад

Unsubscribed. Not that anyone is reading this, but eh.

@devonhead1524 3 года назад

I am

@rudrank819 3 года назад

@@devonhead1524 Epic

@dhdhdbgsb215 3 года назад

To the early squad reading this: sending virtual hugs to who needs it. always stay safe,read my name btw

@terraalbritton6405 3 года назад

If they kicked him out, pretty sure getting a job would become his top priority!

@pinksakuraxo6677 3 года назад

I recommend him attending a job program if he has so much trouble finding a job! At least he’ll get the help he needs

@missymani 3 года назад

Mooching from the girlfriend will be the number one priority when they kick him out, I suspect.

@TheDemoniusX Год назад

Doubtful. I knew a guy who got the boot and ended up killing himself. That could very well be what Connor does if ejected.

@RamonaRayTodosSantosBCS 3 года назад

He 22! Good grief, I wasn't supporting myself at that age, I don't even know wha I want to do at age 70 lol. I just do it however, am building my own house with pretty much zero money. I just found a person who is going to walk me through wiring my breaker box! I get free things, and am looking for young persons 3 who want to learn how to build with Cob, aka Adobe, using Mexican lath from a palm tree! That's free. And here in Mexico children live with their parents until they get married and leave. Traditionally the boys will bring wife to parents home until they can get on their feet. But everyone either works or goes to school or stays home and helps run the household if your a woman. Sorry but that's how it is, however it's been changing and has changed.

@youtubesucks4613 3 года назад

This isn't Mexico. Why do you dopes always think that we do things the same way as y'all? At least we have drinkable water. How are those drug cartels treating you?

@aquari_2344 3 года назад

I mean the pandemic is a decent excuse. 40 million people arent being evicted because theyre lazy lol

@jesicabooth9843 3 года назад

He's been an adult for 4 years we've not been in a pandemic for 4 years he's lazy

@aquari_2344 3 года назад

@@jesicabooth9843 let's be honest at that age you're still a child. Why has he been an adult for 3 years but has no GED or diploma? Sounds like a problem with his parents neglecting his education

@reaper6995 3 года назад

If they tell him to clean his room, bet he is gonna break his legs and say he cant because his legs are broken.

@Rebecca-hc5ju 3 года назад

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣

@Cinemaniac87 3 года назад

His room was clean

@couldbekalopsia4478 3 года назад

I got a job & got a roommate. Because of my job, I can't live on my own, my funds aren't reliable enough to live on my own. I'm 30 & dependent on a roommate. I didn't get a drivers license until I was 25, because I was scared & my parents didn't make me do anything. I've had a job since I was 16, but it's been the same thing - I've only had two jobs, & both have been at a daycare. I have a GED, & that's all the schooling experience that I've had. I get Conner, but at the same time, he's actually not doing the least bit that can be done.

@Barbie_All_The_Way 3 года назад

This episode is PISSING ME OFF. IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHY he's living with his parents. NONE

@cybercats2823 3 года назад

There's nothing wrong living with family as long as you are contributing and working towards being a good person who contributes to society as a whole

@katieblue6053 3 года назад

Bearded dragon applying for geico's position

@zacksnodgrass1204 Год назад

Ole philly cheese steak coming in hot at the end

@daxelrl9824 2 года назад

I'm honestly baffled by how many people are defending Connor and misinterpreting what dr phil is saying. Conner is making excuses. Conner has no direction. He doesn't want to get a job, because he doesn't want to stop playing video games day in and out. Conner isn't a night owl, he sleeps in until 3pm and then games until 5am. Of course he can't fall asleep at night. Connor dropped out of high-school, refuses to go out and get his ged, he refuses to work, he expects his family to stop nagging him when he's living completely rent free with no goals. Maybe he's depressed, but that is no excuse to have everything handed to him. I'm also not saying its easy to become self sustainable, but dr phil is simply saying why aren't you working? Why haven't you gotten your ged? If your living with your grandparent rent free, why are you spending all day every day gaming instead of bettering yourself? Hes saying it in this kind of way to try and kick him into gear. I joined the military directly after high school. After that I worked one job to this day while attending online college. I like to game. Its one of my favorite hobbies. But it has never kept me from making money to support myself. The goal is not to work 9-5 your entire life, but you have to start somewhere. And before anyone uses the boomer comeback, I'm 24 years old. 2 years older than Connor.

@Wormy8457 3 года назад

This guy just got roasted on live tv

@LadyCaspar 3 года назад

It’s gotta be exhausting keeping up with all those excuses. No wonder he can’t work. The poor dear is worn plum out.

@maevedaly9084 Год назад

I’m 21 and I live with my parents even though I have a job because I can only make minimum wage and I’m doing school at the same time. My parents aren’t going to help me move out of the house and yes I do game and slack off at times but too much pressure doesn’t cure depression. This guy is 22 and that’s not too old, he has time to figure out his life

@Justin-td4bb 2 года назад

Dr Phil is taking the bully approach 🤣. Nice and professional.

@MyNameIsGhost 3 года назад

Lol tbch phil's demeanor here isnt the best way. It makes good tv and yea it is tough love but u can tell it comes from a place of emotion and not therapy