Hey Sis, Thank you for sharing your reflections and experiences. It's inspiring to hear about your journey towards maintaining a calm and unbothered nature, especially considering how personal growth and self-awareness have played a significant role. It's interesting how you've observed changes in your reactions over time, from feeling the need to react strongly to becoming more composed and measured. It's a testament to your self-awareness and the effort you've put into understanding and controlling your responses. It's also commendable that you recognized the impact of your interactions with others, like the incident with the attorney. Such moments can indeed serve as powerful mirrors reflecting aspects of ourselves that we might want to change or improve upon. I appreciate your honesty about occasional flare-ups, especially in situations involving racism. We have all been there. Good Vlog.❤
ppl commenting mean comments on positive posts are strange and they need to look at themselves and create a" happy new you" journey for themselves! loved the video
It's admirable that you have a strong sense of independence and feel that you should be able to achieve your goals on your own merit at such a young age, sometimes, the more someone pulls away, the more others may feel the need to draw them in. It's a curious dynamic that can stem from various reasons, including a desire for validation or a sense of control. It's good that you've maintained your own path and stayed true to your principles
Where in the world were you with your wisdom when I needed it back in the day?!?! That woman just about got on my last nerve and everyone encouraged me to go along to get along. I wasn't called independent then, I was called crazy. 😂 Thankfully I've been delivered and we've found each other. I always look forward to your comments.
@@kymberlybonet my journey towards wisdom and self-assurance, was shaped by older women in my life, who shared their experiences and guided me through the ups and downs. I’ve made my fair share of mistakes along the way, and those lessons have been invaluable in building the confidence I have today.
Love this message! Definitely have to take the position of being unbothered in content creating! lol Im the same way about kissing up… I can not fake it! It has never been in my personality! The only thing that bothers me is when I am genuinely close to a person and they switch up and start acting funny with me I tend to get bothered. Working on that this year for sure because I tend to shut completely down and ghost when I start feeling weird vibes from friends. It’s always ball in their court at that point. lol Great sit down video! ❤
Usually when someone switches up on me, I ask in a nonconfrontational way, "What's going on with you, girl? You seem a bit different right now." What shuts me completely down is when I ask someone a question and they tell me a bald faced lie. I mean, what can I do with that? Speak to the lie like it's worthy of my time? Nah. Thanks for watching!
Good morning! Wait a minute who wrote that??that person was bothered 🤣🤣 smh. Get your life in order. Love it. That kissing butt don’t fly with me at all at work. It doesn’t add an extra dollar to my paycheck. 🤣 great video. Keep them coming ❤
