The minute we wives stop being triggered by side chicks and deal with those ones we took vows with, the more we will have peace. Also we need to understand that if we stay with cheaters then it's our problem not the side chick's she is not obligated to protect your marriage but your husband is.
Babybaby knows her worth and boundaries. Whether or not we agree with her attitude and views. She is behaving the way men behave. Putting herself first as we all should.
Why is it always broke women, who interpret “treating nice “ as materialistic things, who always wants to share men? 🤔 Self made women, from rich families, who never had to suffer in life, seldom wants to “share a man”?🤔
@@narwellbanda7443I want to engage with you further, but now personalising this topic to “your broke boyfriend” is an indication that this won’t end well🤔🤦🏽♀️.
Now I understand what people mean when they say we live in an upside down world. People like baby baby are upheld like some kind of heros while the wives who are doing what is right in the eyes of the Lord are made to look stupid. Wrong is wrong bakwethu, if you are a believer, you need to be honest about what is wrong and what is right. I may lie sometimes to save my own ass, but I won’t start claiming that lying is right just because I know that I am a liar, it is still wrong even if I partake in it.
Who said the wives are doing right did you ask most of them how did this men married them did they tell you they went to sangomas to force this men to marry them 😮
If you leave your marriage because he cheated, and still go on to covert with another's husband, then cheating had nothing to do with your departure, but the general status of your marriage was the triĝger....PERIOD!
You find that after cooking ka that drie voet, the side chick is amongst the guests and Wena ga o itse, Wena o mosetlha from all the cooking and she has make up on fleek! Morena re hauhele!😢
@@boitshepokekana2039 I am a divorcee and still wanna get married, I am not going to paint all men with a black paint, I don’t believe I am meant to be an empty nester, my kids are over 21 and I do not want to be alone, I need a companion to travel the world with, after paying private school fees all this time, all I can do is to reward myself with the good life! I want that SUV, I need those quarterly vacations abroad, that should be a norm for me, so if you can’t work together with me on this vision, then, you’re not a member! Ka gopola LeJoy ko Ultimate Girls Trip! I am so looking forward to my 50th birthday in 2 years time, kuyoshuba!🥂🍾🍷😂🎂💃🏽
"For the love of money is the root of all evil." "Woe unto those who call evil good." "Whatever God has joined, let no one put in asunder." "Adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God." "In the last days people will be lovers of self, proud, boastful, shameless and lovers of pleasure"
True, yet it requires faithfulness from both the husbands and wives. It also teaches us single people. No one is holier than the other just because they're committing a different act.
No one is saying anything about Madam Speaker's facial expressions. Two minutes two minutes is this 😳😳 and then 🤔🤔and then clap once 🤣🤣🤣. I love you Madam🤣🤣🤣
This video made my day😂😂😂😂 Also a factor that people forgot is that Baby baby sees how her sister is suffering in her marriage which eventually became 1 of the reasons why she feels like marriage is not worth her time
nyani. I thought it was ridiculous how they kept bringing up situations to have her try to swallow her words. That lady has found her pot of gold and she won't have strangers on the internet trying to turn her head
@@fordesire9546 yea and it was supposed to be a conversation and they caught feelings and started attacking her standing, hence she had to defend herself. We all live by the choices we make.
If roles were changed and the platform was given to men to ask questions to the cheating married man or to a man who's a side piece, this conversation would be very different. Basadi mara
Baby baby’s man hates his wife because how on earth can he go 50/50 with the wife and do everything for Baby baby?! I would maybe understand if the wife was getting the same treatment but him treating his sidechick better than his wife is a character flaw
It's rough out these some cheating men are not even doing the 50, the wife is burdened with all the responsibilities while the husband spends on the side chick. I'm a teacher and the things learners tell us about the situations at home is really sad they don't even want to pay school fees.
Why are we judging baby baby . We all have choices and this is a choice she has made and it is working for her . The man is the one who should be held accountable to his wife and loyal to his wife. Baby baby doesn’t owe any loyalty to the wife. Choices guys . Some of us are sides and we don’t even know because it is done behind our backs , because banna babang cheat like pros 😂😂😂😂
If that husband was not married I don't think Baby baby would be dating him.I blame him in this situation,you cant give a whole house to a side chick now she feels entitled to this man
@@sifisosithole9631 it also didn't make sense to me how a car and a home were bought for her but when she mentioned they have a child things got clearer: he's taking care of the child
Baby baby iskhokho shame😂😂. I wish there was a way to send voice note and share my view on this topic. I don't believe in dating married men but baby baby is not wrong, indoda le eshadile e busy naye who is on the wrong. Because he approached u baby baby knowing very well ukuthi ishadile. I wish we can see as women that our husbands or partners are the ones on the wrong and stop bashing side chicks. I wish there was a way to send a voice note so that I was going to share what I'm thinking and ngiyichaze kahle.😂😂
Hi Perseverance, I tried to make myself a Bob The Builder to a guy with five kids, staying in a family home in some area I could not afford to be seen at, yoh! I got my first experience of being used through being with him! I dumped him so quickly, kante neh, he’s a professional hustler with only a high school qualification dating successful young women! Yoh!!!😢
@@pphumii I do not think we are built like that, we once went somewhere with his son and the son called me a Sponsor, did I run at the sound of that? No! The dicxxxc was dicxxing…
Men get bored very fast that is why he is with baby baby, he's bored of his wife and when he get bored of baby baby he will move to another woman that's men for you. All married men have side chicks like it or not.
Baby baby is giving her own POV as this is a discussion and her POV wont favour all of us in this platform. re tlo kwata until this 2 hours is done let's respect her POV
I'm a Swazi girl , I like my position as the other woman from 2013 up to now and I have never been happier. I love My Swazi man, polite and gentle not forgetting that he's tall dark and handsome. Marriage is not a priority for me now. Dangerous prayers my foot ! You think God will only listen to you co's you are unhappily Marriage?
All in all relationships or situationships are sophisticated. At the end of the day, it all rests on one's individual "moral values" Our experiences also speak volumes.
I dated a Swati guy I met n made a rebound. 2 3 mnths later he actually told me I was pregnant by my ex obvious coz we never did the deed He stayed until I gave birth everything everyday I still long for him...never touched me
Whatever we do today determines our children 's future. I'm not married not by choice though but i believe you can't build by someone 's tears. Personally i believe that most of the horrible things i experience today is the consequences of those who lived(bloodline) before me. As much as is extremely difficult, i pray everyday not to make my fellow women cry because I'm with their husbands. Some wives are going through a lot including the kids because of this.
Proffessional side chick your confidence will be the death of you one day dont play with a broken woman wait till she realises you are there, they say "hell hath no fury like a scorned woman"
Baby baby, i love you. Some These ladies were really projecting their issues. Also God loves all of us. They are being religious and God is not religious He is spiritual, tge sooner they become spiritual tgey will have different mind set. Also no one knows what happens beyond the grave, so to each his or her own. Just bcos they know Baby baby weakness they want to paint her as the worse person yet some of.their hearts are very filthy filthy that it would make baby baby side chick isues seem like nothing.
