Leaving FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) behind changed everything for me✨💗

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Instead of the fear of missing out, I learnt the joy of missing out.
Not giving a fig about most stuff going on has translated into finding contentment in my present moment, freedom to prioritize my own well-being, focus on meaningful connections, and cherish my time.
It's easy to lose ourselves in the pursuit of greener grass but in most cases, the grass is greener where we water it.
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@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

These days, instead of FOMO (fear of missing out), it's more like I have FOBI (fear of being included) and FOS (fear of small talk) 😂 Wishing you all a happy journey towards JOMO (joy of missing out) 🌻

@renitapuspitasari762 3 месяца назад

Yes, I relate to that. A few days ago I refused to be invited in a big family whats app group. If I talk regularly with big family it will meeting2 with them (holidays meetings) become less fun, becoz no more to talk about 😄😆😉

@matrixabandonedanddissolve9172 3 месяца назад

Jean, you describe it all too well.

@olimin50 3 месяца назад

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@monkeychops1585 4 месяца назад

Dear Jean I salute you! My grandfather, (born in 1888), was probably the happiest person I ever knew. He had a battered metal tea pot, not a cup and saucer that matched in the house, old clothes old car, but it all worked. His philosophy? “ Contentment is the key”, meaning that it’s a choice, not a destination, the clothes you wear or the money in your bank, just simply a decision to be happy. It works!

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

it really is a choice - grandpa's on to the good stuff :) .... although i am very grateful that we r privileged enough to be in a position where we are comfortable where we are also contented and can stop striving 😊

@ringotan5244 4 месяца назад

Contentment is the key! To return/bear happiness and prevent you from greed ! 👌

@TheDenbagus4usa 4 месяца назад

Your grandfather was very wise. Money is not the MOST IMPORTANT in our life, "Contentment is the key," because if you don't strive for it, you will leave behind a good happy life.

@ringotan5244 4 месяца назад

But when we are young, we face the society, encourage us be riches is successful, and strive like a cow in the farm and be scammer to get rich. We have suffer our own failure, then we look for answers, learn the hard way, unless you are very very obedient/discipline and lead by an upright obedient parent and teacher.

@TheDenbagus4usa 3 месяца назад

@@ringotan5244 I just visited Bali, and the other parts of Indonesia, these were behavior that made me think twice to live there: hedonistic life, materials lovers (big houses, and throwing money like it was never end). I like to live in Europe more after what I saw in Indonesia. GOD BLESS YOU.

@IntentionalLivingWithAnjana 4 месяца назад

Thank you Jean! I actually informed my boss the decision to quit my corporate job yesterday. And I will be moving out of the company in a month and half. I’m back to pursuing my creative passions and my writing. I’m on discussions to publish my second novel. I decided I will give my passions all. You’ve been one of the angels who have guided the way. I started watching you two months ago, may be three, and it really made sense to me. Brought back my purpose. I can’t tell you how thankful I am. ❤ Keep doing this more. Love from India! ❤ Anjana

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

Wow second novel! That’s a really big accomplishment - congratulations so happy for you! You have some exciting and formative times coming up - I am rooting for you 🌱😊 all the best

@IntentionalLivingWithAnjana 4 месяца назад

@@JeanVoronkova Thank you so much. 🤗

@Intotheout. 4 месяца назад

You’re such a beautiful human being.

@lizzie7929 4 месяца назад

It’s all about creating discontentment and anxiety! When to be happy, we just need to be happy with being alive, grateful and around the right people, friends and family !🌺🌺

@FilipinaSeniorvlogs 3 месяца назад

Peace and love from Sweden. And always be happy and wise and lovely as you are. God bless you.

@marknewton6984 3 месяца назад

Peace from Florida... The Beachcomber 😎

@xdgs567z 4 месяца назад

3 years ago, I began day trading stocks with the FOMO mentality…one month ago I transferred all my money out of my Robinhood trading account and stopped trading altogether…. I placed my money in a high interest savings account instead….during those 3 years of trading, I lived with constant anxiety with the ups and downs of the market….now one month after quitting, I feel much more relaxed and my mind is much more calm and focus….i feel much more focus and productive at work…I feel much happier by doing less ….i just needed to slow down and live a more minimalistic life 😊

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

I went through the same thing earlier in my initial nomad journey after quitting. I can’t believe u lasted 3 years! I did it for less than a year - swing trading - n the emotional costs I paid was so high… eventually I followed my instincts for more peace and less heart attacks 🤣 and went the same way u did! Less is more indeed 😊

@aquilifergroup 4 месяца назад

“High interest savings account”. 😂😂

@ringotan5244 4 месяца назад

Agreed, peace of mind, is better than having more money. Is the greed in all human mind hard to get rid! You did it ! Is a excellent change in your life ! 😮

@grigorirasputin425 4 месяца назад

@@aquilifergrouphe never heard of index funds so now will be losing money to inflation because in his world there are only two options 1. Be a degenerate gambler on Robinhood or 2. Keep money under mattress/ in the bank

@Tenjiecorner 4 месяца назад

Buy and hold $SoFi stock

@matrixabandonedanddissolve9172 4 месяца назад

Love this. So inspiring. I don't have the FOMO anymore because I know there is nothing out there worth pursuing. Happiness and love comes from within. I find myself saying "No" to many things these days while others believe I am the one missing out when I prefer to stay home and find other things to do. Seems like we live in a world where the majority are still immature in a spiritual sense and place value on things that have no value.

@beatscatmommy1735 3 месяца назад

We are all running around in a rat race knowing we are missing something. That's why these videos just resonate with a lot of us thank you for making them

@JeanVoronkova 3 месяца назад

thank you for listening 🌻😍 have a lovely sunday

@klee4969 2 месяца назад

The grass is greener where you water it! Great video Jean, thanks 👍

@Debbiesdilemmas 4 месяца назад

Beautiful inside and out.🥰 The world could learn a lot from you Jean. Thank you for making me realize just because my health is compromised and I can’t always do things or go places I’m still so blessed to have what I have at home. My amazing husband, son, daughter-in-law, cats and home. Sometimes we all need reminders.🥰🙏

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

Hi Debbie, thank you for this kind note. Actually it sounds like we could all learn a lot from you. I admire your courage in the face of your adversity. I hope your health can improve so you can have more physical freedom one day. But meantime, yes, what we have at home is so so precious! I just got a new baby Shih Tzu puppy one week ago - he's been bringing V & I so much joy in just these few mere days. I'll post a pic on the community update soon and I hope that you'll see it! Bobbi says hi to you!

@ericglasson7140 4 месяца назад

Thanks

@gailmiller302 4 месяца назад

Sister, you are brilliant! So refreshing to see someone being true to themselves and genuine. Very inspiring

@ddenzani 4 месяца назад

I don't know how to describe this in words.. i just love your video Jean.

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

Thank you so much 🤗🌱 have a great Saturday

@denise3432 4 месяца назад

Same ❤

@taramay2554 4 месяца назад

What an inspiring video, and what a lovely soothing voice you have, it’s so calming to listen to ❤

@abbyscameraventures5205 4 месяца назад

This has been very inspirational. Actually, all your videos are. I've been your silent follower for a year now. Just thought I should say hi! And thank you for making videos. Wish you happiness, always.

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

Hi! And thank you Abby, I’m very happy to know that you’ve been there all this while 🤗🌱 I wish you contented days as well 😍

@macchiatosGG 4 месяца назад

Settle down, be content, leave the rest

@darlablakes779 4 месяца назад

That moment when wisdom speaks. You are awesome Jean!

@Tatiana-em8sj 4 месяца назад

I love this mentality. I am happy I am not the only one who thinks there is more joy in a simple life 👌

@siewchintan4416 4 месяца назад

JOMO, joy of missing out!

@sascha9778 4 месяца назад

WE have unlearned to live mostly for ourselves. Living for other people's wealth in an office job, brings us money but not necessarily happiness and inner peace. But is a life possible without money possible? If yes, then i still dont know how to do. Your thoughts are so true and a true inspiration to me. Maybe we all dont need money at all. Maybe we can "pay" each other by spending time for services or goods which others benefit?! I dont know... Anyway: I love your lifestyle. Please keep on recording these wonderful videos they make me always smile. Best and warm regards from far somewhere in Central-Europe. 🙂 Peace & Love, Sascha ☮♥

@dmang0 4 месяца назад

Your voice is so soothing.

@arvindgupta3864 4 месяца назад

True

@silverwolf2643 4 месяца назад

It's undeniable that humanity has given wayy too much importance to pointless stuff. If you are not doing this, that, you are considered boring, lame and people don't want to be with you.

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

yes... quite surprising to contemplate....

@AAAA-vu7fp 4 месяца назад

Your videos are SUPER DUPER inspirational

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

Glad you like them 💗

@arvindgupta3864 4 месяца назад

True

@deepas509 4 месяца назад

Wow what a excellent content which everyone can relate in this generation ,superb😍😍😍👏👏👏

@leechuching 4 месяца назад

You are living life to the fullest 😊

@jacobsjourneyside 4 месяца назад

Beautiful, I don’t really have a problem with FOMO, more with comparing myself to others, not just to who I was yesterday, an hour ago or just a few seconds ago. Your video went beyond that and helped me out. Jean, thank you so much, I appreciate it!!

@renitapuspitasari762 3 месяца назад

OMG, your videos fulfil my spiritual emptiness. I don't use facebook and instagram for quite a while and I feel more peaceful. I haven't gone to malls for a few years, and feeling happy by being out of date. Thank you so much for your videos 😍😍😍

@valerieong3806 4 месяца назад

5:23 “My favorite plans these days are cancelled plans” vahahahahahahaha you make me laugh out loud! thank you and xoxoxo from Singapore 🈵🈵

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

lol.... it's the 40s mantra i think. Instead of FOMO, it's FOBI (fear of being included) lolol. Hello back to you in SG!

@bumblebee_mrs 4 месяца назад

I love the visuals, Bali is beautiful.

@Anthony__420 4 месяца назад

Great video. I’m retired and still experiencing stress and anxiety. I’m in a horrible relationship with an alcoholic who won’t change. I need to leave and travel away and experience more beautiful places. Thanks for this video. Be safe

@ericafrances7110 4 месяца назад

There are so many ideas in the culture that we don't challenge and we should... be more, the sky is the limit, growth mindset, you much always push yourself outside your comfort zone, you much have goals, you much be ambitious. We push ourselves so that one day we will feel satisfied and we can rest. But we never feel satisfied and never feel good enough.

@ngjustin6248 4 месяца назад

Recently been hooked on yr videos, learning to live life simply is such an empowerment, thanks for posting regularly.

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

Thanks so much Justin, I’m very happy to know the videos have brought smtg to you 🤓🌱

@esevelina 4 месяца назад

Dear Jean, thank you for lifting us up, and showing that less is actually more and slower is better. I love how you picture your slow life, your style and sense of aesthetics, wish u amazing life you deserve in Bali. At the age of 32, I am starting from scratch and learning gratitude, learning to not define my self-worth through "title", through what I accomplished or not. Learning to look through my own lenses and leave societal expectations behind. Grass is always greener.... The moment you stop living in the past you start living in the present. Am sending💗to those who starting again...

@Foffscruffy Месяц назад

YOU ARE MY DREAM GIRL - I had to get hurt to learn what you just described!!

@paulrobertclayton5352 3 месяца назад

I like Arnold’s view “ be useful “ ❤

@zuma3334 4 месяца назад

Will be there March 20 for 2 months😊

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

So exciting! I hope you love it as much as we do 😍🤩

@edfast5893 4 месяца назад

NICE Thanks Jean! So much wisdom packed into a beautiful 8 minute montage. Hopefully more people can hear the message. Be happy with what you have and realise making subtle difference can make the world a better place for yourself and other.

@adrianafrans2049 3 месяца назад

I saved this video in my playlist and listened to it every time I feel overwhelmed with everything going on around me. Thank you for this wonderful video and the reminder it provides.❤❤

@angelo8424 4 месяца назад

Thanks!

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

Thank you for listening 🌱

@boonchengyu8506 4 месяца назад

Hi Jean, totally with you on giving priority to our own well-being and that of our loved ones in our own meaningful ways, and not be overly concerned about the distractions from outside and how the world expects us to live. It’s interesting to note that even the Bible has something to say about this: “… make it your aim to live quietly and to mind your own business and work with your hands … so that you may be walking decently as regards people outside and not be needing anything.” (1 Thessalonians, 4:11-12). Just a sharing.

@cocodjones818 3 месяца назад

You found your peace, Jean...what a blessing treasure💜💯 Keep shining my peaceful, kind, intentional, sweet soul🔆

@user-vk4vw4le1c Месяц назад

Oh very much agree I think you have made a wise choice. Very true what you’re saying it’s very true. Thanks for the video.😁❤️🌅👍

@JeanVoronkova Месяц назад

cheers, glad it resonated :)

@desmonddass764 4 месяца назад

Being in my sixties , I had to Google what is fomo . Ok ok now I know and you were mentioning the term also when you were speaking 😅 . Old people just don't listen carefully 😂😂 There are people still stuck and unhappy in their lives. And they are afraid of change . A lot of reasons for that. You are aware of the reasons Jean . Good you came out of it 👍💪 Best wishes to you and Bali 🌊🌊🌊🏝️🏝️🏝️

@biancagonz-o 4 месяца назад

this makes me so happy and gives such a refreshing perspective. thanks jean

@marknewton6984 3 месяца назад

Eden's Island

@nikosniko7092 4 месяца назад

I love her! I listen to her voice after a long day @ the work grind….if doge coin goes up a bit more I will be getting closer to her path…cheers

@KinanQ-mx4iq 3 месяца назад

I love your video jean ❤

@amachtinger 4 месяца назад

For me, self sacrifice to teh ones I love gives me complete joy.

@MarthaLuciaDiazAcosta Месяц назад

Beautiful place to live :) Blessings!

@JeanVoronkova 28 дней назад

thanks Martha 😊

@HunterTalks 4 месяца назад

It's wonderful being retired early 👍 I love the backdrop locations you film at 🙏

@marknewton6984 3 месяца назад

I took early retirement. Should have been earlier.

@jeffm9227 4 месяца назад

Amen. Well said.

@sam_salu 4 месяца назад

Rahayu Jean 🌺 Love Bali!

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

Us too 😍🤩

@ubiquitousdiabolus 4 месяца назад

If you are "missing out" you are probably doing something better.

@lizzie7929 4 месяца назад

Thank you for this!🙏🤲🌺🌺I try to be mindful of this daily!

@linnysheff 4 месяца назад

Thank you so much for such a beautiful video and strong and positive message! It is very inspiring and much needed for me these tough days have been experiencing lately. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💗

@JeanVoronkova 4 месяца назад

Sorry to hear you’ve been going thru some stuff…. I hope things look up soon… Thank you for letting me know you enjoyed the video 😍🌱

@williamkazak469 4 месяца назад

Not looking to run away but I can surely limit what I give my attention to. Being helpful as possible in my current placement. Tests. It's all a test. Kindness matters.

@barrybegley5379 4 месяца назад

Jean: You exude such a Gentle, Happy all encompassing way about You. It is refreshing to view one of your videos that illustrate such a stark contrast with the "Hustle & Bustle" world that most of people reside in. Thank You for sharing that there is another way to Live, Love and Laugh. Greetings from Ontario, Canada.

@rvbalihomes 3 месяца назад

Nice! 👍

@christineskeen7252 4 месяца назад

Beautiful video, thank you! 🙏🏼💜

@MsMaureen1975 4 месяца назад

Thank you, beautiful video, wise words🙏

@thomasq9181 2 месяца назад

I enjoyed and can relate. Thank you

@savanna.phoenix 4 месяца назад

Thank you ❤

@ameliazaniewska7442 3 месяца назад

thank you for this video!☺️🤍

@Rafi2002M 4 месяца назад

Love your life ❤

@Vexoo28 4 месяца назад

Great approach, wish you all the best

@sakthiat 3 месяца назад

Hope soon I could live my life as I wanted rather getting stuck in the loop of this society has defined! Working towards it and soon I will achieve. The first step I have taken is decluttering materialistic life!

@michaelmead4306 4 месяца назад

Good inspiration. Thank you.

@dalelight8340 4 месяца назад

I enjoyed your simple, yet profound insights. Live with your heart guiding you and having self-love to refine and clarify all you do! Thank you Jean

@chinchorrero 4 месяца назад

Great video (Excellent reminder)❤👍

@Emenes333 4 месяца назад

Been a while since watching. Really love you inspirational videos 👍👍🙏🏼

@wzeng02 4 месяца назад

Love your content and it inspires to live a simpler and minimalist lifestyle instead of wasting time working and buying things doesn’t really need.

@justintan596 4 месяца назад

Your videos are getting more inspirational. Keep it up!

@stonemdrmdr8315 4 месяца назад

Bali is one place I would love to visit…..thanks for the awesome video…..

@Sikhislove 3 месяца назад

We have to be honest …. Some people do not have the courage to do what you do .. I have being doing this since leaving Darjeeling grew up with itching was not interested in the materialistic world I applaud you you make and create your life I travel left Toronto but in peace Happiness, my space much love to you ❤❤❤

@arvindgupta3864 4 месяца назад

Beautiful video,,, as usual. thankyou

@cryptolife77 4 месяца назад

Love the way you view life. This is how it should be lived, can't believe people fall for the other narraritive of great career, big house, expensive car and clothes, to after realise none of those makes them happy. Best wishes.

@ChevyLover396 4 месяца назад

I have listened to the last few of your videos for I just found you. You are So Lovely , your voice So soothing to my soul. I take your words an visions an am putting them into my life an going to live as you do. I thank you Love an sure wish you the best as you are helping me to be, Love Always... Monte

@carolajuntgen6288 Месяц назад

Thank you for this video, so helpfull 🙏😀

@dominichill1492 4 месяца назад

Jean I always love your intro to every single video that you make. Glad to see your beautiful face uploading on RU-vid Jean sweetheart. How are you doing? Jean you always give us subscribers the true meaning of life in all your messages Jean sweetheart.

@dalaov5258 4 месяца назад

Cinematography and narrative is well done. We are on our way to this, currently in the process of listing our home and getting rid of things, either trying to sell it or donate it. Been tough letting go of things, actually anxiety provoking...but baby steps I guess.

@FR3EDEN 4 месяца назад

Great and how easy it can be Thank you🌞🌎🌌💚🙏 Live isn’t suffering, holding on 2 IT is

@zizihu7887 4 месяца назад

Thank you

@willluedecke2083 4 месяца назад

I just wanted to say Thank You for sharing always. It always helps me to see through a different perspective and your videos bring me joy. Thank you again and have a blessed day!

@jannadami 4 месяца назад

Jean, I love your videos and especially this one. It's so calm and beautifully relaxed. I also prefer being inside reading.. or outside in the nature. I love the clothes you're wearing! You are one of only a few subscriptions I have..I have a minimalistic lifestyle too

@peterlloyd6337 4 месяца назад

Your whole video - refreshing. It's so easy to get caught-up in others expectations, what society overwhelmingly seems to judge as to what success and supposed happiness is. Just one small example - Linked-in is full of 'Me, me,me' ......look at me, how successful and wonderful I am - its become Facebook - full of over congratulations on supposed achievements climbing all these corporate ladders and supposedly feeling wanted and valued when in fact you are a 'robot' one of a vast number of robots. Thank you for your calming and really valuable insights and thoughts Jean - love it.

@r.j.dannemiller346 4 месяца назад

I am enjoying your minimalist channel and content, Jean. I embraced minimalism wholeheartedly back in 2013 and it has made a very positive difference in my life. I even traveled to Ubud, Bali, Indonesia (which I noticed in this video) and it was one of my favorite destinations in my world travels. Thanks!❤

@SimpleBlaire 3 месяца назад

Hello, Jean💗 I watch your videos everyday and you truly inspired me💗 I really love your house. It looks comfortable and breezy. Hope you can do a house tour💗 Take care!

@pinkorchid5661 4 месяца назад

Thank you Jean. I needed your video today. ❤

@mangalsingh4036 4 месяца назад

Great Video, been watching your videos for sometime now. I find them very therapeutic. I live in the UK, but amongst the rat race, I'm trying to live a simple life and not chasing materialistic objects. Hopefully soon would love to visit Bali, looks like paradise. Keep up the good work.

@psicologianomada Месяц назад

Thank you¡¡¡

@JeanVoronkova Месяц назад

🌻😊

@Nikkik1010 3 месяца назад

I love your videos! So inspiring ❤

@donnahogan2999 2 месяца назад

❤

@CoolKidsSJJE 4 месяца назад

I needed this bc I didnt go to a parade and party today bc I needed rest & family time. I feel such guilt missing time w friends bc I dont see these friends that much

@angeluy32 4 месяца назад

I love your content. It's inspiring. I should have embraced simplicity and minimalism much much earlier. But I know it's not yet too late. Keep on coming up with inspiring contents. 😊😊😊