I'm Leo's age an I never go out or date any woman over 30.. Your eyes don't start looking at 50 an 60yrs old an say ooh i want that😮. An fellas you'll be surprised how many young women throw looks your way 😊
It is not their age. It is their attitude. Imagine being married to that 30 year old speed-talker. Now imagine her clapping in your face and waving her hands at you constantly every time you spoke (or tried to). These women just have bad energy. I don't think they like themselves.
If you are a man and want kids then a 30+ woman isnt really on the plate as a choice. Its called a GERIATRIC PREGNANCY, its increasingly unsafe for her and the chance of complications (Autism, brain damage, deformities) for the child increase exponentially. If you are friends with any woman, make sure to remind her that when she hits 30 her dating pool is going to dwindle and disappear by 35.
It's also their age. If she's still single at that age, she either thinks she can still compete with younger women even though she has nothing to offer, or she's been jumping from men to men and has no idea now how to maintain a relationship longer than a year. There's no need to feel sorry for these women, they brought it on to themselves. Remember, the best indicator of if a relationship will last is these women's bodycount.
They give us a bad reputation because we ain’t all like that I’m married and happily but I still don’t like this feminist mentality men are the Man in the relationship and as I woman I have 50% say in our lives but 100% say in my own life We work at it, we learned to communicate effectively together, we respect each other and we are best friends We are each others peace amidst the storm ( Kahlil Gibran)
Don't sell yourself short. Clearly you care about your husband and bring him peace so he doesn't have to look for it elsewhere. You're better than 90% of modern women.
@@mayder1337 Why do you think Georgina is "Selling herself short" ?? The Lady just said she is grateful to her partner ?? And I am guessing he is gratful for her !
Took a woman to a average restaurant on the first date ,she told me I was cheap , let me make it up to you I said ,second date ,took her to Sam’s club for free samples , no third date ,life is good
Hopefully that is a joke. First "date" is a meetup for a walk. If that's not good for her, I just did all the verification I need to do. She's either lazy, non-athletic, or cheap and is a gold digger. And there is no second date, if she's a cvnt after the first one. Telling you, you're cheap. ROFL. You would have seen my reply to that, all across the internet, it would have gone viral, it would have been VERY HARSH.
she set the stage with "your cheap". i had my first foodie date 6yrs ago, it opened up my eyes, and judging by the width of her a ss, she wasnt missing any meals.
Me and my wife went to this burger joint. Best burgers in the state and best berry smoothies. Anyway this couple was on a date, she was in PJs and complaining it wasn't steak as if she had ever had a decent steak in her life, shaming dude in front of around 30ish people... remember she was in PJs... I felt like buying dude a burger to go and telling him to leave her and go get a beer with his friends.
Yep,as one said before me. They never got mentally aged,just physically and most of them will be stuck with it until they already on the age someone should be retired.
watched a utube about a 45yr old couple who bought broken down houses in alaska, and fixed them up. whenever her husband was around, it was us. whenever husband was not around, us turned into all singulars i, me, mine.
@donaldoehl7690 don't buy a house with someone you are married to either. You'll end up losing it in the divorce anyways. Put property in someone who is trustworthy's name or in a trust
*Yeah, it sucks that it takes so much of your life to learn how everything is a big lie.* All these 18 y/o can vote. But... Can't name 3 countries, can't do math, don't know fk all about economics... and they can VOTE. if there EVER was anything that needed a license... it's voting. ☠
The 19 year old shouldn't be allowed to drag you away from the 30 year old. Who herself had no issues with old men dating 19 year olds when she was 19.
Women value themselves way too much. They truly believe they can do better every time they are faced with a guy who is exactly what they should be looking for. It’s a shame.
For a guy, getting older ain't so bad, other than the aches and pains. I'm a 58 year old recent widower, didn't start feeling old until my wife passed away last January. In less than two years we lost the two oldest generations in our family, now I'm one of the oldest surviving. That will make you feel old. Don't feel lonely though, other than missing the wife, life is generally good.
Hang in there man, for the sake of your remaining family. I know it feels painful to be alive when someone close to you dies. The pain is a reminder of how much we loved the people that passed away. Just don't give up on living as there are still reasons to live. Each of us has different reasons but if you are ever feeling depressed just remind yourself of your reasons for staying alive that always helped me.
@@m4rvinmartian Yeah, it's not fun at the time but it's part of the natural cycle. We all go through it at some point. I have two sons and a bunch of critters to keep me busy.
@@lilfairycupcake I hear you. My wife was mainly raised by her grandparents so we spent a lot of time with them, her grandfather was an og scoundrel. When he was 16 he got into a scuffle with a cop and ended up breaking the cop's leg. He was given the choice of enlisting for WW2 or jail. He ended up a deacon in his church but he'd still cheat you at cards if you weren't paying attention. When he was 85 years old he was fishing at one of the San Francisco piers when some young meathead started causing trouble so this little old man quietly grabbed the guy by his collar and belt, raised him over his head and chucked him into the bay. They don't make them like that generation anymore. I miss those conversations.
Why is this so hard! What is up with these women! I married a Cuban immigrant who was serving in the Marine Corp. He had very little money and could not afford a ring, but I said YES anyway! We now share four sons, and I stayed home and had everything handled! I did as my husband requested. In return, I have a wonderful husband, and my sons have a great Dad. My husband works for the FAA now, and we are not rich, but having this simple man in my life has me rich. There is all kinds of wealth, but having the love and respect of your family is priceless! I cherish this man, and I have so much respect for him, and I'm so happy he asked! ❤
I am so grateful i listened to my family when they said my husband was the ONE . I never thought the grass was greener. I stayed and supported him the way he did for me. We are so happy . It pains me to see other women my age pass up on these wonderful men time and time again. They always think they can do "better". Theres nothing better than a dependable, honest man. And Ive seen them pass up too many. Years pass and here come the videos
the classic saying, "men age like wine, women age like milk". Makeup use has made this even worse as it strips the natural foundations over time. There are exceptions but generally it holds true.
Mine did. Perhaps it just took me a long time to realize that decent looks weren't a substitute for a decent person? I have 2 ex-wives and 2 failed long term relationships, my views on all of them changed from good looking to ugly the longer I spent with them.
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4-year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without her. Despite attempts to purge her from my mind, I remain haunted by her absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back .
So they ask for men to be men since a very young age, but they dont want to be a real woman at a young age. They just want to be teenagers for the longest time.
@@lilfairycupcakePlus it's actually abuse. My "single" mother said putting me to work in elementary school, started mowing lawns for the landlord, would help make me a man. Really she just wanted someone to help supplement her income, cuz she took 90% of every earning till my father found out, when I was 16, but then I was the bad guy.
@@cathydoyle3416 That’s awesome! Sometimes, I despair of my chances of ever finding love. I’m 44 and it hasn’t happened yet. But it makes my heart glad when I see and hear other people sharing the greatest treasure this life has to offer. God bless you and yours.
I'm a 47 y/o single woman, no husband or children, but I don't reject men or children. They just never happened, and God doesn't owe me a hubby and kids. I feel frustrated with people who put off finding a spouse and having kids.
Most of the single older men I’ve met are very intelligent and wealthy, while the older single women I’ve met are pretty insane and have no job or very low tier jobs.
I wanted to marry a young lady back then she was young like 19 years old. I was the responsible one with a job, car and apartment. She wouldn’t act right couldn’t keep a job and smoking weeds so we broke up. She’s now unmarried and a single mom going from man to man. Dodged a bullet!!!
*I married an 18 year old at 44, and we've been married for 30 years. It's not your age, it's your mindset - either you're Husband or Wife material, or you're not.*
Wow 26 years is a wide gap of mental maturity and life experiences, for whichever side you're on (male/female). That being said I'm happy it's worked for you two, Cheers 🍻
Congratulations. I'm 52 and dating a SMOKING hot 25 year old Blonde ... for three years by now. SHE initiated contact back then BTW. It's called BIOLOGY.
@@mbergamin16 *Thanks. Yes, that distance required pretty regular work, but there was a positive side as well: she's my translator for things that are several generations behind me, and I'm her translator/historian for the other side! It's an awful lot of fun dissecting differences!*
im 47 and single no kids no bf no nothing and it is how i prefer it. I am introvert and think the world has gone utterly and totally unhinged and loopie with manwomen invading women spaces - and wokie ideologies that are being pushed down my throat and i just want to have a normal life. A normal calm life. I have no desire to have kids, not in this crazy world. I am totally at peace with it and caring for my parent full time. im keeping myself busy while doing my part in limiting over population. And as for future loneliness? I always been alone, that for me it will not be different.
The 60 year old grandma with no childs that blames the world for their misey - will be norm. Sadly, but true. My grandma was always content and happy. She had a bunch of kids and a family. Very simple truth. Todays 304s have all but forgotten this simple reality. Also the girl at 32 "so much else to do". Yeah, what? You have one job. Also every other girl at 20: "I don't know what I want.." - so lets get railed by Chad and Tyrone. ALWAYS THE SAME STORY. It's disgusting.
alone is a state of mind. you can be in a room with 100 people in it, none of them could care less about you. you can be in that same room alone, thinking good thoughts, and not be alone. a warm body next to you does not determine being alone. a good thought has more value than a 100 people, who could care less about you.
Because grooming exist and perversion from older men can be predatory for just turned-adult women. And think about it, why would a 40 year old man be still single and comfortable with dating a kid who just turned 18? Like when you want to build a stable family and all, you're not going to take the youngest woman who is still clueless to how long term relationships work because of their lack of experiences
@paulinelmnl Pauline, an adult woman can decide for herself. Stop using terms that are more appropriate for illegal and horrible stuff. You are actually diminishing actual grooming (of minors) by using the same terms. Its insane. An 18 year old person can vote, drive, work. get an apartment, serve in combat, get married, etc.
@@enriqueperezarce5485It's to absolve themselves of adult responsibilities. My generation loves to do that by finding a scientific or philosophical reason why we can't grow up and deal with ourselves. I offer my deepest apologies from the millennial generation, we're not all like this - only a portion of us are.
That wall hits hard when it hits. The one claims to want to be married before she has kids. Buying a house with her boyfriend practically guarantees that she won't be getting married.
See the thing is, a guy's value is built. For a woman to reach 30 and have none of those things is basically down to her choices. It should be laughably easy to be wife material, and yet...
Like, all you have to do is half of what you do when you're single, in theory. The problem is, most women think having a job means that's all they do. No cooking, no cleaning and God forbid they have to go to the store, the horror.
@sarahd3962 I'm in very good shape and look younger than my age, so yes, there are quite a few who are interested in me. It also helps that I'm a passport bro and live in Asia.
5:16 Oh wow does she not get it, "Why won't age appropriate women date him?" Lol. They'd sign up in droves, 90%+ of single women his age would date him - along with a lot of married ones too. He's NOT INTERESTED. I can't believe they don't get this.
About 30 years ago, after I got made redundant, suitable jobs were hard to come by, so my sister got me a job working in a care home for the mentally and physically handicapped. The work ranged from feeding people, cleaning up after them, bathing them to wiping their asses after pooing. I still have a visible scar on my arm from the time when the most severely handicapped woman there scratched me because she hated being touched but couldn't move without help and I was her specified carer. The pay was awful, but it came with a free apartment (if I agreed to help in case of an out of hours fire type emergency), no bills, free meals, even if I wasn't working that day, and use of the company minibus (if not being used) as long as I replaced the fuel. It meant for 18 months, almost 100% of the money I got paid was spending money, although I saved most of it. Some of my family, mocked me for doing it, asking how I could do such a job with a background in electronics, but to this day I think I learnt more about people and human nature from working there than any job I've had before or after. If asked I tell people, and I absolutely mean this, it was the most meaningful, rewarding job I have ever done. I have never be ashamed of any job I've ever done, but my experience serving, and sticking up for people who most in society dismiss as irrelevant, taught me the meaning of humility far more than the definition in the dictionary.
If you are alone and no longer have the option of a partner you should embrace the solitude. Do all the things YOU CAN do because you're alone that others CAN'T because of their partner. Stop focusing on the negative. EVERYONE HAS NEGATIVES. Work to improve them but keep your focus on the good things in life.
Many wise 30+ years married couples have told me. - Date to marry - Dont have sex before marriage - Move in together after being married The good ol way...still works.
There are very few, I know a lot of conservatives like to think they haven't fallen for the BS but it really is the vast majority, they just lack the understanding to perceive.
I really didn't date until i was thirty had some money, a good job, a car and a nice place to live. I would have liked to start dating in my twenties but most girls at that age weren't interested in someone who didn't have much money or time to spend with them and they were looking for chads. By the time I was forty I had big bucks my own home, but all the woman my age had high body counts (i.e. not wifey material) so I kept my money and just dated for fun. In earlier generations a man and women hooked up when they were young and both worked together to build a family. Now a days women are looking for a man who is already completed. Now I have 7 figure assets and six figure salaries, but I am not going to share it with some who didn't help me build it.
And this is why you are single ma'am, because you sound like a guy. You literally just described a man's mindset. 😐🙄🤨 Sorry if I'm being blunt I'm not meaning to be disrespectful, just a casual observation that after reading your post I felt compelled to respond. I wish you a peaceful life and pray you find what you seek 🙏👍😎
Boom! Same here, mid 30s high six figures and multi mill net worth. Why do i now have to just spoil and invest in one woman? Most women weren't looking to settle in their prime. America is backwards and why marriage rates are rapidly declining.
Have your fun, brothers. Travel the world and hookup with women across the globe. There are great women here in America but they are tough to find. Overseas women tend to be more traditional and nurturing. But there are no guarantees even overseas, so be sure you always protect your heart. My experience as a "nice guy" was that-through trial and error, attrition, and constantly trying to learn how to be a more attractive man-I had to take the long hard road out of hell to learn the outward confident player ethos while still being the nice guy underneath the humor and bravado. My "nice guy" perspective (and experiences with women along the way) would make me say to younger men: 1. Get your money dialed in. 2. Exercise to have a great body. 3. Become a master at sexual techniques. If you are physically in shape, financially solvent, and can rock a woman's world in bed, then you will be in control of your destiny and your happiness.
I'm 16 and honestly I think this media has given many young people an image on how the opposite gender is how "every guy or girl is", two years ago I used to be scared of men I had that image everyone made of them and thought every man is like this, yup my father left when I was young and it wasn't like he was the nicest to my Mom, My mom is very miserable so I swore to myself to never end up like this. So that went around for two in a half years then, I had this video popping up from from the Whatever podcast. Yeah, something clicked in my brain, then I just started looking into more different views about this modern feminism and so much more and you know I'm glad I could see it. Not everyone is unloyal, there's bad AND good, I'm glad that I saw it early instead of ignoring it, they said that marriage is jail and something horrible. Trust and commitment isn't jail it's growing with a person you trust and hold to your dear heart, you grow together. Obviously since good and bad exist, you still should be cautious. Especially these days, you never know who might take everything away from you where you have nowhere to go and leaves you with a person that needs two, but you're one.
I am a single (never been married, no kids) 42 year old guy. I only date girls that are 18-24, with no kids. I have no issues doing this. I love life. If you listen to the internet, you’ll be stuck in purgatory until you free yourself from the B.S. There ARE nice girls out here, if you’re not a complete tool.
To many women without children, replace the children with cats and dogs. I went to the grocery store and the aisle with pet food and paraphernalia; has a big sign at the beginning of the aisle that says: "Welcome Pet Families." You mean pet owners 🤣
The idea of Pet Families is repulsive. A dog is in no way equivalent to a child and it's insulting to compare all the hard work my wife did carrying our two kids to a filthy dirty mutt.
The young girl will elevate herself using you and then when you’re too old she’ll leave you for a man her own age. Women don’t like old men, they like old money. 😮
High body-counts (100+), doing the "Buzz Lightyear" thing between being ran through by Chad. Why would they NOT be considered "expired?" No accountability, forget about responsibility. Why should men NOT say, "PASS!", yo?
Isn't it Strange Tik Toks not riddled with 30/40/50yo men posting videos like this... I'm 55, I stepped out of looking for a new partner at 47yo. Any woman legitimately in my age bracket, is so broken. Let alone their baggage, thing is...I logically know my value. I also have learned to spot red flags a mile away, I don't have time for Drama. The greatest peace, has been the last 7.5 years. Sure, I miss intimacy & sex (2 vastly different things) but haven't had to deal with the inevitable rollercoaster ride of a middle aged women, who's now got unattainable expectations, whilst also bringing none of the youthful value.
No guy is ever going to get a 30 year old woman as their first pick, the guy will just know that there HAS to be a REASON WHY you're still single at this point.👍
Women have their preferences (6 foot tall, makes over $100,000 a year, six pack) Men have their preferences too (20 something). edit: reposting the remaining text in a seperate post.
Well, I'm in my 40s. I've dated a lot of women over the years (I realize now) and all my gfs have been about my age. I've slept with women 15 years younger than me and it's just annoying trying to have a conversation with them. Even if they are physically attractive.
@@nneislerI agree. If you are going age gap, it’s either for fun or younglings. If the latter, your conversations should be mostly the same as with older XXs: kids and family affairs. Most often an XX who “shares your interests” is actually pretending just to hook into you.
NGL, Id bang some of them for sure, Some look great and are in great shape. I would NEVER wife one though, theyve already shown they cant make the right decisions.
40s is for flings, especially when you're divorced. I've had a bunch of flings the past few years and never lead any woman on. But yet they still act shocked when you stay the same and say you don't want a relationship LOL, can't change me!
They think because they've hit menopause that you should be slowing down too 😂. But from what I'm seeing there's a whole world of 40-80yr old guys out there riding motorcycles all over the US mostly by themselves enjoying their solitude and some well deserved adventure.
I’ve been experiencing this in my 30s it’s been fun but I’m kinda burnt out from it all…but the memories were sure great…i think this is going to be my new way, not get attached, date for fun n do my own thing.
5 foot 6 inch, 155 pounds, waist length brown and grey hair(started getting grey at age 9), glasses, and an introvert. Single lived alone, but I WAS NOT LONELY!! I turned down the guys who asked me out. It was movies and my place, picnic and my place, go out to eat and back to my place. They figured I would be easy and grateful to jump into bed with them. NOPE THEY ALL WERE TURNED DOWN!!! I was raised you wait for your husband. I wasn't even looking for a guy. Met the guy who was to be my husband walking home from work one day. I was 32 when we got married and a Virgin. Will be married 33 years come November 2024. Had our daughter 4 years later when I was 36. Mom had 6 boys and then had me when she was 41.
If feminism means anything, it means women can date who they want. Likewise, Leo, being a man, does not have super adult powers that an 18 year old does not have. They are both equally adults.
Ya, when you get old old, you'll still find 20 year olds attractive. Just because you get old doesn't mean your vision of reality changes. You don't find a 60 or 70 year old women attractive at 20, you don't find them attractive at 50 and you don't find them attractive at 60 or 70. Why younger women are attracted to older men is up for debate but I imagine it's not for their looks. As someone who used to be a young man many years ago I can assure you that older women most certainly find 20 year old men attractive and will do just about anything to try and acquire one.
That isn't quite the full picture though. If you're a single man it's correct, all men, married or not, can all look at 20 year old women and admire their beauty. However if you're married to a wonderful and you've been with her for since she was 25, you might not see the 25 year old any longer but you don't see a wrinkled old woman either. A lifetime of working, being and striving together makes the reality of old age fall away, you see the woman you've loved your entire lifetime and there are time when both of you will be 25 again. But I agree with you, I've never looked at an old woman and thought - she's hot!
@@jaidee9570 I will give you that being married to the same woman for 20+ years doesn't make you feel any different about her and you don't notice the changes because in your mind she's still the 20 year old you fell in love with. But if that woman of 20+ years decides to leave you and you have to go out and find another woman. I guarantee at 50 or 60 years old, you're not going to find old women attractive. It will be the 20 and 30 year old women that you find attractive. And if you do get with an older woman it will be because you settled and don't think you can do any better.
I am 35 and I find women in their 30s and 40s attractive, but I deffinitelly didnt find such women attractive when I was younger. About your next comment, I can assure you that there is nothing less attractive to older women than much younger guys. What universe you just got teleported from ? :D
They woke me up 10 years ago and I haven’t had a girlfriend since: I do what I want, travel, make art and avoid these jezebels at all cost. ✝️🚫💁🏼♀️💁🏻♀️💁🏽♀️💁🏾♀️💁🏿♀️
The numbers have been run repeatedly over the years and stats don’t lie, the optimum ages for successful marriage are - Man 28 woman 18. This is the primo time frame for healthy parents and childbirth both physically and emotionally whilst establishing a healthy home life for the family unit. The main impediment to this statistically proven formula is finding an 18 year old female who is mature enough and sane.
Quick tip to you young men. If the woman is divorced because she thought her marriage was going nowhere, that is key word for she got tired and was not satisfied with what she was getting from him. In other words, if a man who was married to this woman for years could not please her, what makes you think you are going to please her now? You are not, women like that are always chasing the fantasy.
I really can relate to being mad about not being allowed in the ball pit anymore. They're like "sir you can't be in there" and " what's that drunk guy doing in the ball pit". Stop jud me!
Its not that complicated really, our ancestors figured this out:: Women supposed to give their best years (18-25) to their husbands so their husbands can give back that loyalty in women's worse years... These days women give their best years to every men but their husband, then expect men to be loyal to them in their worse years... Edit: Had to write about the Asian girl at the end. Please don't assume she actually was a proper women who brings out the good in men. Women never ever take accountability or their bad behavior and never ever admit their wrongdoings. The fact that the next women brought out everything good in that man, proves the Asian girl didnt come proper to begin with.
When I was a kid one day I was leafing through the European version of Time Magazine and saw a photo of a stunning, beautiful young woman in some article. However, her age was: 28. My 9-year old's brain first thought: wow she looks good for 28. Next thought: but 28 is nearly 30. And while I didn't have much life experience to speak of at the age of nine, I somehow knew that women over 30 were probably married with kids.
"Age appropriate" women will date Leo. He just doesn't want them. Lololol Im over 60 and have women in their upper 20s hitting on me all the time. I would have to think hard about dating a 35 year old.
@m4rvinmartian, it depends on where people are in life. People aren't gods, people read books. Your comment is basically just propaganda, you're not doing anything here. Nobody, has any right to live. The Christian can be born wealthy and take twelve wives if he wishes. That's okay.
@@andreakatz6109 lol that's what I was thinking, some of these men on this comment thread are full of s*it. Old men pretending they are desirable to 18-25 year old women...in their deluded fantasies maybe.. most younger women see them as old men their fathers or even granddads age. Hell a 60 man will be in his grave before then can even say "I do" let alone thinking of settling down and having a family with one. Clearly these men don't get out in the real world enough and think that 20, 30, 40 year age gaps are way more common than they really are. My advice to them is if they don't get out there enough watch some street walking videos on here where someone films themselves walking around different places, and then make note of the couples walking around together...usually all are around the same age because the vast majority of couples the men are only a few years older and certainly less than 10 years older. The trouble is they watch too much red pill content online that just tells men what they want to hear rather than the realty.
In Toronto, divorce is such an established process, there are public transport ads for Separation Pathways which is essentially a divorce planning service to cut out the lawyers. Make of that what you will.
I ACTUALLY just turned 39 last month and I’ve never had kids or been married or divorced and I’m perfectly fine with it. No joke. People always want to look at me though and throw the usual lines like oh how sad and you must be so lonely but no I’m good with my peace. Society has done such a 180 since I was younger. To a lot of woman I’m a total catch due to the fact that I’m 6’1” and have a clean slate but honestly they’re still not worth it enough. Maybe one day I’ll meet the right one but I’m good either way.
I don’t know if I could be content leaving no legacy, not fulfilling gods will, and being merely a consumer. Not implying you have, but that’s how i would feel.
A lot of these are just sad....they're convincing themselves they're happy when it's obvious just by looking in their eyes that they're absolutely miserable.
My mom is almost 60 and she has a photo of her and I as her profile photo on her dating profile. She gets a lot of matches but then doesn't understand why they stop talking to her when they realize they are talking to her and not me...
@@GUITARTIME2024 60+ dudes are going for 40’s women not 60+ and they aren’t marrying them. For women after 35 the chances of you getting married are about 5%
getting a 30 year-old woman, court down clock. everything needs to be rush, married and get a child before 35..etc, no time to plan.... on the other hand, getting a woman in early 20, there would be a lot of room to growth without rushing anything. So, dating with the woman after 30.... obviously not good choice in general..
The problem is that the older people get the more they know they like and the more picky they get with dating and the bad habits they've developed over the years, all this combined in woman or a man who's been run through or running through others in their 20's makes for a poor partner later in life because they think themselves better than they are, this is more prevalent in women though since men don't mind settling for less as long as the person is tolerable overall.
Best comment here It's sad for people. I'm in a stable relationship since 15 years and still happy with him. People don't realise that a relationship depends on the character of both parties. If one is an egoist nothing will go well. A big sad part is that throug the internet people don't date in their areas anymore. Sad World.
Thank you, people forget that a player in their 20s wouldn’t make a good partner lol. We gotta remember their are red flags for men as well. I know some but not a lot of them cause I ain’t into men
@@kona8832 right. Everyone just search for a "the best deal". This whole concept of casual meeting people, or casual Sex is bullshit. I'm not religious but i think people where better of if they would only date someone wirh the intension of a serious comitment.
For all the people that don't have much drive or ambition. A couple kids will motivate you like nothing else. If you find a good woman to have them with.
For every younger woman complaining about her lack of prospects, there's an older woman doing a divorce diary online that completely justifies the mindset of men not taking women seriously.
All these geniuses keep talking about, "I have so many things I want to do." Look, modern girls. You can tour Europe and sleep with 80 guys in one summer your senior year. There, the bucket list crossed off. It is not men's fault if you want to drag out 8 weeks into 20 years.
In the old cop show "Hill Street Blues (1981-1987)," the Captain's ex-wife is told in court by an expert (she was 'harassing' the judge because they were dating but then he suddenly ghosted her) that a woman over 40 has a bigger chance to witness a murder than to remarry.
Barbara Bosson (November 1, 1939 - February 18, 2023) was an American actress and writer. She is best known for her roles in the television series Hill Street Blues (1981-1986
I’m 32, never married, no kids. I’ve been single for almost 2 years. I don’t want kids and I’ve pursued love and it didn’t work out. I took monogamy and commitment seriously but I also took my career seriously. I don’t feel like I wasted my time. Sometimes things don’t work out. This guy doesn’t have a very nuanced view of women.
I'm 50 and started to get interested in this whole dating business again. Those stats are pretty brutal, but let's see what's going on. Hopefully women who are in their 40s are more mature than most of the lunatic gals who show up on this show.