1. Stop gossiping. Speak words that uplift/encourage 2. Build credibility (stick to your word & promises) 3. Make self care a bigger priority (hair, nails, skin, etc) This was a good video! Very insightful and convicted me of a few things. ❤
Always pour into yourself when i was younger the older woman would tell me and my sisters how we should carry ourselves it's much needed in today's time
1) upping my hygiene routine, adding more scents and steps makes me feel more feminine 2) buying more fitting & modest clothes. I used to think tight is right 🤣 but investing in better clothes and looking more put together & mature definitely makes a difference for me 3) I stopped cussing as well, mainly because I’m also a Christian but i do think it’s more lady like just having clean vocabulary
Relating to the firstborn daughter topic so much.. in some homes, you are forced into that caretaker role, survival mode, masculinity, etc, typically at a young age. Therefore, By the time you are in a serious relationship, you bring "bad habits" to the table, which can harm your relationship. I had to do a lot of undoing and unlearning to decrease the unnecessary stress I was loading onto my fiancee. By the grace of God, we'll be married in a few short weeks. Also, I agree about the cursing. I don't curse with my man at all, but I even found myself limiting how much cursing I do with my girlfriends. I've reached a point in my life where I realized cursing is not a need. Anyways, Great chat!
As someone who has been watching your content since DAY 1, I have seen your growth and am always inspired by you. Thank you for sharing these tips! I am on my feminine journey myself, as someone who just turned 30!
1. Going on morning walks outside 2. Going to pottery classes 3. Throwing out all jeans; only wear dresses and skirts 👗 * as a first born daughter I felt this soooo much 👏🏾
Susu, you sound so soft and at peace. I watched you a few years ago and watching you now the transformation is evident. I’m encouraged by this. I pray you continue to glory to glory. ❤
SuSu of all these years I’ve been following you! I can definitely see a huge change from the way you talk, the way you look the way you dress and since you had your beautiful baby girl! like I always say keep your positive energy and I wish you and your family, many blessings😇
I agree with everything. However I would also add, your partner also plays a part in how your feminine energy comes out. They also need to play their part.
This video is exactly what I needed to hear. And you don’t recommend things that’ll break the bank 🏦 cus many of us don’t have income like that to afford an all inclusive spa day or expensive body and hair care products. This list was perfect, being the best you, the feminine you from the inside out, starting with outlook and habits 💖🫶🏾✨💫💐 You’ve got a new subscriber from me because I loved EVERY SECOND of this video and am bummed it’s over. I’ll be watching it reoccurring-ly though.
I forgot to add this; we are kingdom builders not idlers so as the word says don’t just be a hearer be a doer. Be as Christ, yes we all fall short none are perfect but as we grow in the word we become better daily by dropping off old habits
I appreciate this video. Life skills, Life lessons, growth, maturity, strength, courageous, intelligence. Keep climbing beloved this walk with Christ is about renewing the mind and so on….. Also, thank you for being transparent about the conversation with your husband saying he didn’t like how you communicated in the past. We as women need to be gentle, loving, respectful etc but the works we live in has caused us to have men spirits meaning projecting masculinity. There’s nothing sexy about that. We give GOD glory and praise for TRANSFORMATION. Listening to your partner and do a self introspection is the key to PEACE. Love you girl I love this post 🙌🏽❤️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I really appreciate that you focus more on the inner qualities to becoming more of a feminine woman than outer qualities. As the Scriptures points out that beauty (outer parts) fades. God bless you.
I loveee these tips & your perspective❤️ Thank you for being real about why it was hard for you to be a feminine woman at first. I felt that. 1. Drawing closer to GOD! My Maker knows me inside & out. He literally helps me not just with the external but internal things that hardened my heart. 2. Dressing more modestly. 3. Putting more time & effort into my hair, makeup, nails etc
I agree with you sooo much on all these points ❤and I love this content! I agree also with not being angry because I felt like I always had to defend myself too growing up! God had to purge me of that masculine energy and of the too independent nature I learned from my mom, I’m soo soft and feminine now and loveee it & I’m soo proud of you! ❤️🙏🏾🙌🏾
