I lost my wife of 15 years four months ago. And everything you said rings true. Thank you for sharing and God bless. It helps knowing that we are not alone going through this mess.
I just happen to run across your video this morning. I lost my wife, my high school sweetheart of 15 years on May 26th, 2022 after a short and very traumatic battle with brain cancer (GBM). We were in the prime of our lives and seeing your video, I can relate to everything so it is reassuring that my feelings and actions at this time on my grief journey are normal. I look forward to hearing more tips and updates from you. ❤
Im 5 months in lost my wife of 24yrs to breast cancer. We have 4 children they give me strength each day to carry on without their mother I miss her so much 😭 thank you for your advice.
My husband passed away 2 years ago and I still struggle to ask for help. I keep to myself most of the time. I really understand you about weddings, I get there drop the present and when it gets too much I just slip out and drive back home. We have two girls 10&5 yrs and they are soley my reason for breathing and for trying harder every day to get back to normal whatever normal means
Thank you so much for sharing this with us. My boyfriend died about five months ago. Technically I'm not a widow, but I have lost the love of my life and child's father (my child was only a week old). It is not easy at all. I feel like no one understands my pain. I've been struggling to connect with people who share my experience. It feels good to hear you basically speak my feelings. Thank you.
My husband died of aspiration pneumonia exactly one month ago today. There are days where the only reason I get out of bed is to use the bathroom or get something to fill my stomach, usually just a bowl of cereal. Two days after he died it was my birthday. Three weeks after he died was our 40th anniversary. Thankful I am retired and my kids are grown and gone so there's nothing putting pressure on me to do anything, I couldn't imagine how impossible it would be otherwise.
I need this, I have been a widow and year in a few days and it sucks!!!! We were together 18 yrs, raised three daughters and he passed before the last two graduated from high school. One graduated last year and the other one is graduating this year, we had so many plans and now I don't know what to do with myself 😥😥
Tosin, Don and I took Kiswahili together at LSU for four years. He was such a kind and gentle person. About a week ago, well after midnight, he fell on my heart for some reason.I checked to see if he was still on Facebook, didn't find him. I googled his name, stumbled upon his obituary... my heart was broken. Ya'll were meant to be and I thank God that he joined you two together! Be blessed and may peace always be with!
Thank you for sharing. I just became a widow After 36 years of marriage. You validate what I am Going through. It is a hard To explain feeling. I am Alone. Trying to figure out How to move forward. I reconnect with people And accept help. Thank you.
This is where I am right now I noticed that this was posted some years ago but thank you for posting it but this is exactly where I am. I was up for two days trying to sort through the mail and write letters and clothes out accounts that they're telling me I need to be put as the person of executive of a state I thought when you were married you automatically would be executive of the state.
I just subscribed to you. You strength is amazing and you're so uplifting and honest. Thank you for sharing this. I am only 3 months in to my husband passing and I don't even know how I get out of bed. God Bless.
Thank you so very much for sharing this with us. My husband also passed away in June this year and I've been just going through the motions. I especially relate with the mail situation. I have a mountain of mail that I pass by and know I have to get to but don't have the energy for it. After my husband passed I couldn't get out of bed or eat or ANYTHING for three days. I ended up in the hospital for severe dehydration, etc. We were married for 30 years and I feel so lost without him. I've been holding back my tears and forcing myself not to cry, but seeing you talk about it let the flood gates flow for me. I'm so very sorry for your loss and know your pain. We will get better day by day. Thank you again, and be blessed, Tosin.
I am so sorry for your loss. You have my sincere condolences. I, too have been suffering since my husband has passed. I've had to take a leave of absence from work twice and it's been 2 years since he's passed. We were together for 25 years. It's different for everybody. I didn't have much support and lived far away from home. I was in shock at first. But then the tears started to come like a flood. I'm a little better than I was. But it comes and goes. It's hard to know what to do without him when we were so very close. People try to talk me into dating. But I'm not really ready for anything like that. It's hard for me to imagine myself with anyone else for various reasons. I still cry, at times and I get grief counseling. It helps. I hope that you are starting to better cope. May God Almighty be with you and bless you with comfort and peace.
You. Are. Beautiful. (And I don't JUST mean physically) I feel Christ speaking through you. You have no idea how many people you are touching Tosin. No idea.
I lost my husband, Scott, December 6, 2019. I'm struggling as well. I miss him so much. We were married for 32 years. He still gets mail. Not much else to say. Just hurts.
@@Murlo. it is so hard I was only married a year and seven months I finally found my personhe he literally was taken away. My heart aches every day I understand your struggle and I pray we both be at peace one day because this is not easy.
This so good, I'm a widow too, I loss my husband, and after 10 months I loss my job too.I want start an organization for young widows, I got an idear but I didn't have that courage to come out public, and share my pain and experience. Please I need help from fellow widows.
My husband passed away 2 years ago and I still struggle to ask for help. I keep to myself most of the time. I really understand you about weddings, I get there drop the present and when it gets too much I just slip out and drive back home. We have two girls 10&5 yrs and they are soley my reason for breathing and for trying harder every day to get back to normal whatever normal means
