100% agree. Fil is very wise. It’s hard as a partner to truly listen to our partners. Don’t worry about being right & just absorb what they’re saying.💖 Being open is paramount to a healthy relationship
Best Tamara, I just love the fact that Fillipo is analyzing your personality, it’s amazing to have a supportive partner who really defends you, I totally agree with him about ignoring prejudice and jealous people. You have earned every penny you’ve earned and you deserve every single thing you own , you don’t have to explain yourself . Sending all my love and support to you both, have a nice day ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
i think that where your true personality showed was during Covid. . Your positive energy through such a difficult time spoke volumes about your integrity and intelligence. I really feel that your strength of character makes me love your videos and keeps me motivated as a woman. Merry Christmas and good health in 2024!!!
What impresses me the most about you two girls is how wise you are at such a young age. Not only that, the discussion is in a language that is not your first language. I am almost twice your age and have understood new ways of looking at things. X
Jako ti je lep Tamara kometan kontent! Ljudi koji te okruzuju, svasta lepo i kvalitetno za cuti i videti, iz svemira se vidi da rastes uz ovog coveka na najbolji moguci nacin. To covek sa kojim ces deliti zivot i treba da uoblici kod zene, i divan je primer svim mladim devojkama koje te prate. Hvala za divan vlogmas! 👌
When you ask Fill to answer questions. Can you let him talk. Chatty Tammy always want to run the show. And yes its her show, but if you want his perspective, let it be that!
Hi Tamara, I have to agree with your friend Xenia. It's good to watch a variety of videos with differing opinions and/or perspectives. Seeing how other people live life is good to know. You don't have to always agree with their lifestyle.
I totally agree with Filippo regarding confidence. You can seem arrogant to others, but in reality you know you are not trying to prove yourself. It takes time and a lot of life experience to build your confidence 😊
I love the conversation about arrogance v. Confidence. Confidence is an internal game. Arrogance tends to be one's excessive pride relating to how they are better than others.
Wow. This is exactly what I like . People chatting (to each other) because I feel that I can learn so much from them. And this is why Filippo's vlogs or this vlog with your friend (chatty one not just appearance) are my favourite.
Filippo is so wise. I agree with him. I need a Fillipo podcast. I believe we need to hear more from him. The best thing from vlogmas may have been have been his words. ❤
Dear Tamtam, please make Vlogmas 365 days long. Love you and Filippo soooo much, it makes me sooo sad that Vlogmas is almost over, it was my daily joy to watch your lovely vlogs every day. I don’t know what I’ll do without them 🥹🥲
Love this insight into who you are Tamara & your personality traits shine through in your work as well as your videos Fil is correct as confidence is feeling “sure of your abilities “ but arrogance is feeling that you are “ better than everyone else” Arrogant people look down on others but a confident person does not . Happy Holidays to you both ! 🎄🎄🎄🎅🏼🎅🏼
The chat with Xenia at the end was so enjoyable. Loved all the wisdom! I normally don’t comment on your videos, but I have been following you (silently) for so long! Since your Brighton days ❤ sending so much love during the festive season!
It Is so good to drink my afternoon coffee with the company of our girl, and her handsome husband to be, Felipe. Thank you again for giving us so much entertainment. Love you guys👏👏👏🙌🏼🥰🌴🎄
❤love the heart to heart at the end with Fil’s input . You both are very charismatic and warm people. Xenia is also very sweet. Only talking about fashion gets boring after a while. Just another bag, just another pair of shoes…. Love it when u get chatty , happy holidays 🎉
Yes he is right. You are a great person don't worry about what people think. Just have a great time being You. Merry Christmas to the both of you have a wonderful time on holiday. ❄️🎁🎄⛄
Hey Tamara I just want to tell u that I really love your vlogmas this year and I would like to see a video of Filippo giving his opinion on best and worst purchase of 2023 with your wardrobe.
Thank you so much for the life lesson! Don't stoop to the level of people who are not nice to you. Love this real life lesson. ❤We hope to see more videos of Tamara and Filippo visiting Switzerland with their family ( maybe for her b-day next year!)
This is by far the best vlogmas I have been following this year. I love how smart elegant and classy you are Tamara. Bringing more of yourself, your friends and Philipo to the episodes made a great content happen. Love and best wishes of a happy new year from Egypt xoxo🎉🎉
I love authentic, honest, vulnerable and loving people, sad to say that’s rare these days. What you said is true if you are like that you literally can feel and see that. I truly believe if you stay true to your authentic self and care about others by helping or giving what they need. You are the happiest. If friends or people throw hate because you make it in life by working hard, they are not your true friends or people you want in your life. I also believe in karma it might take a while but it will come. I agree with Xenia people do want to see more genuine, authentic, caring people see the real thing and not fake people content. Lovely vlog as always 🥰
Yay I just had about a hour to relax before having to run errands and perfect timing my beautiful Tamara comes on and with a 50min vlog!! Perfect! I have to say the mountains look stunning and you really got the best skiing weather very blessed I love it!! Xxx❤😊
I think you work harder than most influrencers....dont know anybody on youtube are putting up more vlogs in December? Love your intelligence and honesty❤
Looooooooooooooooooovvvvvvvveddd this video. The conversations were FIRE, superrrr gripping. The Chinese proverb was jaw dropping btw. Please create more such videos Tam, I looove seeing this side of you. Also, agree with Fil's definition of arrogance and confidence. hugs, hugs, more hugs! Big thanks to Xenia. Love, Sia (Certified Life Coach, Certified Hormone Health Coach, Spiritual Coach, Certified Energy Healer & Teacher, Tarot Card Reader & Teacher, Certified Switch Word & Energy Circles Practitioner, Certified Drawing, Signature & Handwriting Analyst, Brains behind Feeding Thy Soul Blog)
I feel like arrogance is connected to getting and expecting validation (sometimes unearned) from other people. Confidence is internal and connected to a person liking themselves, self-assuredness, and feeling capable of handling themselves in any situation. Also, with confidence being more internal, a person has more conscious command over themselves, responding to external influences, rather than reacting with ego. I love your chats with Fil and how you two communicate
Mountains are something else! A yearly mountain fix is definitely needed 😍 Loving the tea, agree 💯 with what you and Xenia are saying, always be kind x
Wow great 😍 you did such a great job - will for sure now also watch Xenias vlog - cause really I enjoy it so much - you are both successful and so true and lovely 💖 thank you very much for your honesty 💖
Confidence is owning your flaws, being humble and accepting the truth about yourself (good and bad) but not being crippled by your insecurites. You revel in who you are truthfully and wholly. Arrogance is pumping yourself up and taking a position of superiority to hide your disdain of who you are and fear of being judged. It is also a level of ignorance and choice to be delusional and not expose that you don't know things or are as good as you feign to be. Healthy confidence is honest therefore you progress, learn and are still able to grow. Arrogance keeps you from growing because it isn't honest and it's always afraid to be vulnerable.
But let him talk it’s really disrespectful that u keep on cutting him about the angle of the camera..he was so thoughtful to describe your ambition and you kept on interrupting him🤦♀️poor guy. Better opinion means having better/more information and drawing your own conclusions
I love watching content from people who’s lifestyle is totally different than mine. It propels me to another interesting universe, it starts my imagination and then I can maybe include some bits of it into my life and make it more interesting! I have 4 kids, I have a totally different lifestyle then Tamara, but adore her and love her videos! I also watch some mamas with a bunch of kids who are home steading, home schooling and having a farm 😂 And then I watch ortodox munks living in monasteries sharing wisdom from the Lord. This mix of things gives so much fullness and beautiful colors to my day!
Beautiful place! I know what you mean, the mountains are very relaxing for me, more than the ocean. Maybe it’s all of the trees. Thanks for taking us along. I’m sure the DHL truck was there for Tamara as well 😂😂That was hysterical ❤
The intro reminds me a lot of some superhero movie. Especially because of music. And Tamara is getting ready to save the world with her Vlogmas😂 Thank you!!!
It’s admirable how you both share similarities and respect your differences. Effective communication always wins💯… I trust my person will find me soon too🙏🏼💫love you guys soooo much ❤️❤️
Tomorrow thank you so much for inspiring me. I really had to come on your channel just to escape everything that I’ve been dealing with today. I appreciate you so much you have no idea it’s more than just looking at new items that you’re showing it’s just about connecting with someone that is so genuine thank you for being that for me today.
I just love the introspective conversations you show Tamara! whether it's about toxicity, friendship, relationships or work! 🥰 selfishly I also enjoy watching people agree with my same thoughts and observations😏🤣 (jk) Thanks for such an incredible vlogmas
arrogance is i am the best and look down upon others. we look thru others vs confidence. i will do my best and if i fail, i will continue to work on myself and better next time with due respect to counterparts. appreciate others as well. Filipo and you r 100% right. Tamara,love you n filipo. goal couples
Angel I Agree with Filippo 💯. My 2cents and my experience is that you can be good , nice and kind and powerful as well as mean and powerful. It works both ways. Love that quote. Lol you also need to be respected. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Liebe & Sympathie bekommt man geschenkt, Vertrauen muss man sich verdienen, Respekt einfordern, Macht (selbstbewusst seinen eigenen Weg gehen) sich nehmen.
Hi Tamara...i never comment your vlogs...but now i must tell you that you both ara an amazing duo and lovely persons. The love between you an Filipo is amazing. And i love the comment from Filipo about confidence and arogance !! Thank you to share a lot of things..! I also love you beauty tips....Sorry for my bad english. Wish you all the Best❤ Liz
1st time disagreeing with you Tamara. Arrogance is an exchange between interior and exterior (other people). Confidence is internal. Otherwise, you’re a cool chick. Even when you were younger, and I thought your fashion wasn’t quite right, I could see you growing, and it was a pleasure to see. I wished I had your determination and spark when I was younger. Nothing that I feel bad about, but I enjoy cheering you on! 🎉👍🏾👍🏾
Lots of influences have nice things but they’re not Tamara. So it’s not only you’re things we’re interested in, it’s the fact that you’re real. And yes, Fillipo is right, you’re exposed and everyone gets to comment on everything. Welcome to show business. Enjoy your success 😘
Wasn’t it the pizza that you guys loved that made you guys sick? I remember you guys got it a lot, and it always looked so good. I loved your Covid lock down vlogmas’ so much….lots of organizing at home and self care. But honestly every video is a blessing. You guys are amazing. I hope you have the most wonderful Christmas, and please know you’ve made at least one guys December a lot better. Lots of love from Omaha Nebraska!
I love that first of all, you’re a bright and educated person. Completing pharmacy school proves that you’re not just a clothing hanger. I am a veterinarian and also have a BSN. I understand what it takes. I love to see your clothing buys and try ons although it’s really not applicable to me. Even if I could afford what you spend on clothing, I’m only 5’2” and could never wear most of what you rock. I’m loving you and Filippo, he really adores you but is very definite on his opinions, lol. I really enjoyed seeing the skiing. I have never been, and the views were stunning! But there were a bunch of skiers ⛷️ on those slopes. That would make me a nit anxious! Glad you made it home safely.
It is funny when you said you don’t like styling videos. SAME. I have been on youtube for + 10 years I never came across cross someone who styles and dresses better than you. Even your makeup is relatable
Omg needed to hear the chat with Xenia today. It’s a sign! I literally found out today ex friends said horrible things about me and I decided to not lower myself to their level. All the quotes you said, mostly Taylor quotes 😂, are my mantras!! Haters gonna hate, shake it off!!
