When I first realized I was bisexual, everyone around me told me that I wasn’t bisexual, they said I just thought girls were pretty and that it wasn’t actually a romantic feeling, they said I wasn’t part of the pride community, but I also wasn’t part of their community. It took me so long to accept that I really was part of the lgbtq+ community and I didn’t need their support because I had and still have ths support of all you fruity humans out there, happy pride month cuties🫶🏳️🌈
Hello, an openly closeted bisexual here! (open to friends not family even tho they aren't homophobic)! I came out to my aunt once(i was 11), and she said, and I quote "You're Just confused, besides you're too young to know." I don't know exactly how you feel, but my aunt and uncle made me question myself! I hope that everyone around you comes to realize that thy are just dumb, (no offence)
I just saw the NYX ad with your face in Walmart today and I was so happy for you!! The look is gorgeous and this look is gorgeous and you're just gorgeous!!
I got called a “pride flag weirdo” on the bus, which is still wrong but at least it’s more creative than a slur (I personally took it as a compliment even though I know it was meant to be an insult lol)
In all honesty the people in the online gaming community are just a different breed and specifically mean online cos talk to someone that plays games thats not online based, their as introverted as they can get and if you introduced them to online game they would be ghost and not speak to anyone and just enjoy the game, you might get a handful of sane humans in the online side but thats like 10% at most
One of my camp counselors called me and two friends her fruit flies because I am lesbian, one friend is pansexual, the other is trans and the counselor is bisexual. I miss her.
The circular lip shape thing is so cute it’s giving me the Victorian Simp vapours… someone get me a fainting couch…. My world is being shaken rn on god
I have that NYX red lipstick, and everyone seems to love it's staying power but for me it doesn't stay on, the liquid lingerie has better staying power for me... But that looookkkk you look beautiful 🥰🥰 like you're so gorgeous
O.M.G I literally watched only one video from ur channel and now I’m addicted to ur makeup looks, outfits and ur voice (Idk why ur voice is just relaxing to listen to lol) anyway you just inspire me so so so so so so much and I just love ur videos❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your makeup is beautiful and I love your style I am a trans person but my parents don’t support them and I don’t know how to come out to them but hope you have a good day ❤❤❤ love your work ❤❤❤
Too much of this comment section does not pass the vibe check. A PSA: yes it is normal to be bullied, harassed, and threatened when playing videogames. But it's still wrong. It's a huge problem within the gaming community and as a woman who games (and was verbally threatened with SA among other horrific things as young as 9 years old), I want to remind everyone that it takes strength to stand up to bullies and that sticking up for yourself and for others is not a weakness. Report, block, and don't let them get to you. If you wouldn't let someone talk to you that way IRL, don't let them talk to you that way in-game.
Exactly, just because lots of people do it, doesn’t mean it’s right. More people doing it just shows how much we desperately need to change as a community
Two of my friends are profesional level gamers and gay af and its so fun to watch them punish assholes in games for being hateful. They're so nice about it too. Like no cussing or name calling just absolute defeat and then "hey we can join your team if you're struggling." I love them.
I’ve never understood why people can’t just live in peace. There always has to be someone insulting, or discriminating against them. All humans are one species, we shouldn’t be rude just because someone is slightly different. The makeup looks amazing, I love how the glitter looks in it!
I love the fact you are comfortable showing who you are. I admire your confidence. I am an old gay man and when I grew up there was no internet, and I would have gone through worse bullying. I am in awe of you. Much love and peace
Open lesbian here, I’ve been told on three separate occasions that I would get jumped/but in our school parking lot and had to be escorted to my car by the principal…kids are cruel
A little tip: Don't put your pronouns in your bio, and don't openly say that you're trans, unless it's relevant to whatever topic is being discussed. Depending on the community you're in, you're setting yourself up as a target. If someone does misgender you, just correct them and say "I'm a dude/girl" (idk your gender) or something along those lines.
@@transpersonslayer1139 maybe instead of forcing people to hide who they are we should teach people to start being nice to others and show them how to act like decent human beings…trans people shouldn’t have to live in fear.
@@livdoeswhatever I fail to see how my suggestion is considered to be hiding. I'm only saying that if you don't wanna be bullied, it's best to do away with the labels. If you flat out say you're trans a lot, then that's what people will see you as. A trans person and nothing else. And people who have prejudices against that stuff CAN and WILL bully you for it, it's the cold reality of life. And it'll be easy for them to, considering that by using that label you're automatically attracting the transphobes' attention. The key is to talk about it less. You can still mention that you're trans at the appropriate times, like for example, explaining why your voice is so high-pitched as a dude. But try to keep it to a minimum. One more thing, preaching "acceptance" and forcing it down other people's throats only makes homophobes and transphobes even MORE hateful towards LGBTQ people. I've seen it with my own eyes. "Pride Month" has given them ammunition against us, further fueling their hatred. And when we keep continuing to push and promote Pride Month, like for example, in elementary schools, people will call us groomers and be even more resistant. Just accept that some people will be assholes no matter what, and just move on with your life, instead of trying to force them to accept you. It'll only make things significantly worse. -essay ended
No matter who you are what you've been through no matter you're sexuality or gender I hope every single one of you has a happy and safe pride month rember the LGBTQIA+ community and it's allies stick together always and forever happy pride 🏳️🌈❤️✨
I was gonna say, i love the term fruity, its funny to me and i often refer to myself as fruity, fruitcake, etc. But i dont like how often its used as an insult.
fr. boys in my school call each other fruity or zesty to make fun of each other (they’re all homophobic practically ) and it’s so frustrating. my friend group (were literally all queer in some way, trans man, bisexual, aroace, asexual, and we have an ally too) and we all use that term to be funny with each other rather than offend each other and it makes us all so confused when people call each other fruity and they get into an argument about it, because it was an “insult”
@@nhntnjby the way, often the boys who say fruity or zesty to make fun of each other don’t use it to make fun of people outside of the group. There are exceptions of course, but usually it’s more of calling someone something they arent
@@dragondudedubahh 1 John 4:20-21 - If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?
@@dragondudedubahh 1 John 4:20-21 - If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?
Oh totally. There's the people who are just there for the game and will call you a slur for being bad at the game and then there's the people who are deep in the fandom who are still patiently waiting for comic #7 (one day guys 😭) while drawing fanart and writing queer headcanons
@@dragondudedubahhI hope you realise that what your saying is wrong and that (i'm assuming your religious) if you do this you go to hell,harassment is real bitch :))
If you are a minor and you feel unsafe, don’t come out yet, but if you are over 18 and moving out, then she can’t do anything if you don’t live with her anymore. Just come out to her when/if you feel safe.🫶🫶🫶
edit: ok so I worded this completely wrong! what I actually mean is how it makes no sense that some people in the lgbtqia+ community can’t except trans people sorry for the confusion I am also not trying to start a war in the comments and not trying to gate keep the community hope this helped! edit: thank u for all the likes 💜
I feel like some people won't accept other people, because that might make them look "weak or gay" themselfes. Why can't we normalize admitting that something is beautiful and fantastic the way they are. Being preading negativity and hate, that's weak and ugly.
@@jrhayes6901 ??? What? I’ve never understood how people just use the word “groomer” so randomly. How on earth would gay people be grooming children just because they have a month about their awareness?
Yep! The most manly men are the ones who feel so comfortable in their masculinity, they don’t feel hurt by wearing dresses & makeup & traditionally feminine things.
@@dragondudedubahh omg 😂 how many more comments am I gonna find you pressed in on this short man, find some kinda hobby u clearly don’t wanna be here and are raging inside
@@dragondudedubahh The fact that in every reply you make, saying to "switch back to default settings" like a broken record obviously shows you're pressed about someone's sexuality that badly lol You sound like you'll evaporate and have multiple seizures for someone existing and having their own preferences. Not sure why a weeb who probably prefers the english dub in anime and sitting in their mother's basement covered in cheeto dust with an IQ level of a pebble like yourself think of commenting multiple times on a channel they do not like. What's the matter? Home life a bit hard on ya that you gotta project your insecurities on a channel who probably won't even notice you except a few people because you're that irrelevant and got humor as dead as Jaystation's channel? Might as well call the ashes of your dead ancestors at 3 AM to help with your homophobic self. Not sure what you were thinking, but please cope harder lol
I recently went to buy some new eyeliners and saw your photo from the ad at the store and I was just struck standing there for a couple minutes in awe. I was absolutely stunned by how gorgeous you looked, and furthermore that you were there in the public! It made me so unbelievably happy! I live in a really conservative and unkind place, so seeing you being gorgeous and fun and positive there gave me hope. Thank you for everything you do. I hope you have the very best of days!
What does strawberry mean in this context? I looked it up and the only meaning I found was somebody who does s*x work for drugs. That feels like the wrong meaning in the context 😅
Damn, you in the Matrix or something? Dude your a glitched Npc I swear. Bro make it simple and just switch back to default settings, it’s that easy. 🤦♂️
Been scrolling through the comments for awhile now and I do hope all the Christians remember that god says to love everyone even if you do not agree with what they are doing, that being said most of y’all are not following that making you no better then the “freaks” you’re making fun of. Happy pride month everyone! Love who you want! John 15:12-13 “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” Matthew 7:1 “Do not judge or you will be judged” 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs." John 15:12 My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you."
I bet you go to the wrong church. Also God said to have a wife if you were a man and to have a husband if you were a woman. It’s that easy bro. I’m 12 and I know something. Just switch back to default settings and make things simple.
@@dragondudedubahh look man could you just become gay by choosing to? Just start liking men? No? It’s the same for queer people you can’t just not be gay lmao. Just leave people alone and let them do their thing, it isn’t that big of a deal. Nice naruto pfp btw🫶
@@jrhayes6901 And what makes you say that? Based off of a stereotype cis people induced just because they don't believe gender dysphoria exists? What the fuck
one time i was playing nicos nextbots on roblox and some random girl (her avatar looked like an ro-dater's 💀) dmed me when i never even acknowledged her or ever said anything to do with being gay, she just keysmashed like a child (not a laugh keysmash, just like she dropped her phone in the toilet or some sht LMAO) and then later said "imagine being gay." and left LIKE GIRL who tf are you talking to 😭 i never mentioned a THING about being gay and i didnt even have pride stuff on my avatar the way she left before i could reply was just goofy LOL
there was also another time some guy was harassing people + he was being homophobic so i tried to just joke around at him light heartedly and said "you should try liking men i think it would be better for you" AND HE REPORTED ME FOR THAT AND I GOT BANNED RIGHT AWAY FOR A WHOLE DAY BUT THE GUY WAS GENUINELY HARASSING PPL LIKE WAHTTT 💀
I don't know what it is to be trans but i fully support it! It's sad how people don't mind their own business but starts to be mad of other people. By the way, i am not makeup fan but You look amazing with it!
Being trans is being born one gender, and living as another. This gender can be binary - woman, man, demigirl(part woman, part something else), demiboy(part man, part something else) - or it can be non-binary - agender(lack of gender), gender queer(a synonym for non-binary, out of the norm), xenogender(identifying with something that isn’t a gender identity) - or it can be multi gender - bigender(two genders at once), genderfluid(that’s me, fluctuating between multiple genders), genderflux(fluctuating between agender & a gender). It doesn’t have much to do with this video, though. This person is a cis man, although he’s accused of being trans a lot just for wearing makeup!
@@AngelDustBrainrot I know what trans means. But i didn't knew that there are those things what You listed. Thank You for teaching me this! I have difficulty understand people and often misread the body language or just the texts. My grandma is also LGBTQ phobic but she didn't affect me. I just want to be good person and understand the people differend to me, if they don't try to force some things to me like religious people do. Can i ask You some questions about your gender? Sorry if it was personal. If yes then let me know when i become too personal with the questions. It's alright if You say no too.
@@carmodelplaytimeOf course you can ask questions! Sorry for assuming you didn’t know what the general term is lol, but I’m glad I helped with the subcategories. Ask all the questions you want - as long as they come from a good-natured place, questions are good!
@@AngelDustBrainrot Well, I like to write original stories and fanfictions. Lately i have added non-binary characters. I know how to write them, mostly. But how to write genderfluid characters? Should i put the notes in the beginning of each chapter to tell what pronouns they are using in the chapter if the character is like one of important characters? Or is it better to explain it in the description of the story to say that this character is genderfluid? Another thing. I heard that there are masculine and feminine non-binary people. Is it true? I don't remember where i heard it thought.
@@carmodelplaytime 1. As a fellow writer, I feel your pain. Writing people with experiences you don't have is tough. If I was writing a genderfluid character, I would not introduce the character as "my genderfluid friend". You can definitely tell the readers the character is genderfluid within the first scene of theirs, but it shouldn't be the first thing you know. And for actual pronouns, there are a variety of ways to put it into the text! Mentioning pronoun pins, character correcting others about their preferred pronouns, and even gender expression can sometimes indicate pronouns - although use that one lightly, as that's not always the case. Overall, think of ways to subtly include their pronouns for the scene! Or you can include their pronouns in the notes - that's definitely an option, and it's not a bad one at all! I would just say be careful to not draw too much attention all the time to the fact the character is genderfluid. And there ARE masculine and feminine non-binary people. Some masc & fem non-binary people use masc/fem pronouns as well as they/the, or their masc/fem features are purely in gender expression! Generally, it's a safer option to go for masc/fem gender expression or entirely neutral non-binary people, but the representation will definitely be appreciated if done right! For non-binary people with she/her or he/him pronouns as well as they/them, I'd advice the useage of they/them more often than she/her or he/him. Just to be safe. Writing gender identity is difficult, even for me! Definitely ask questions and do a lot of research. You're doing good, and keep it up! I appreciate the fact that you're trying to learn and include representation in your work. I hope your readers appreciate it, too.
fredric, F dawg…. i saw u on the street a couple months ago but was too shy to say anything (you were in a beige trench coat in the UES), so ima comment it 💗 fredric you are such an inspiration to me to keep expressing my transness and gayness, you make me feel so proud of our community and i cherish our all pronoun bond 💗 thank you for spreading good vibes, cute fits, amazing makeup, and a happy outlook 💗 love u lors
Can someone tell me how to use that red nyx lip without it becoming super gummy after my bottom lip touches my top lip? I love the vibrency and feel so much and I'm pretty sure it's user error. Love the short and message in it as always! Just trying to make the product look as good as you do
I have to use a gloss over it so it’s not gummy, if u don’t like gloss then immediately blott it off or just use one for and spread it over the whole lip
So you have to shake the gloss a lot and when you put it on ABSOLUTELY DO NOT TOUCH YOUR LIPS TOGETHER. It's not lipstick! You have to let it dry completely before you close your lips together. And yes, the gloss really helps keep it from sticking but if you don't let it dry then it will stick no matter what
@@FredericChenpriDEMONth 👈🏻 open your eyes you've been deceived. You still have time to give your life to God and accept him as your lord and savior. Lucifer was cast out from heaven because of his pride and now he's infiltrated the rainbow flag which was Gods Promise to never flood the earth again. Jesus loves every single one of you
the makeup looks so good!!!! it's so fun and colorful!!!!! don't listen to these dumb homophobes and transphobes. you are amazing just the way you are!!!!!!!
I'm constantly harassed on Among Us when I have my trans flag banner, they'll call me slurs and tell everyone to vote me off and shit (yes, the slurs are censored but you can still tell what they mean)
Sounds like a bunch of 20 year Olds who live in their moms basement and tiny 12 year olds who think their cool. Dw they're just a bunch of morons who have too much time on their hands🤣🤣🤣
because the government is so scared at the sheer amount of magnificence, that they immediately shrivel up and faint, then wake up and forget what happened.
priDEMONth 👈🏻 open your eyes you've been deceived. You still have time to give your life to God and accept him as your lord and savior. Lucifer was cast out from heaven because of his pride and now he's infiltrated the rainbow flag which was Gods Promise to never flood the earth again. Jesus loves every single one of you
I'm a gamer, and once someone got wind that I was pan, he told a whole 40 pop server and would invite me to a party with 10+ men in there to ridicule me. I had a lot of fun ridiculing them back, but I definitely left feeling harassed and hated for something that I can't, and wouldn't want to change ❤
If people call me a fruit, I reply with "damn right i am" Its similar to the gay thing. Gay technically means happy, so whenever people use it as an insult like "ew youre so gay" i again just reply with, "yeah im happy!"
I've been told I'm going to hell for being LGBTQ+ and my one and only response to that is "Well thank goodness! At least all me and my friends get to stay together in the afterlife! Wouldn't want to imagine how grumpy and horrible it would be in your afterlife without any fun people." and it shuts them up real quick
No, listen I want you to know that you will end up burning in a fire to death again and again and it’s not a grateful experience as said in the Bible. I don’t know why you would be glad.
@@dragondudedubahh because we DO NOT BELIEVE IN GOD. Why would we believe in an entity that “created everything” it makes no sense and on top of that, who would want to believe in an entity that says you are going to burn for eternity for simply existing. Be fr
honestly you slay in everything, i wish i could flaunt my fruitiness but my whole family (other than my trans cousin that the family isn’t aware of her now identifying as female) are massive homo/transphobes. people like you, and this is a probably a huge stretch, could one day help every accept us for who we are ❤ thanks fred
Well fruit is delicious AND good for you - what would the person calling other people fruits be? Probably a half eaten stale bag of Funyuns with mold on ‘em
Your channel really is an open place to breath in after everything. I openly supported lgbtq community in my social media (insta) and quickly when I opened my Facebook account I got to know how homophobic people are. I was bearing a burden of whether I did the right thing or not. I know I didn’t do anything wrong. The same people that are homophobic are the people that are sexist, their whole feed is of mocking posts for different people or communities. It makes me feel unsafe now, will I suddenly get attacked for openly being supportive to this community… that’s what I keep thinking about. And as someone who has anxious thinking pattern it’s quite hard so right now what I could do is stop posting anything about it. I never wanted to be extremist, I don’t tell anyone “BE SUPPOTIVE OF WHAT I SAY OTHERWISE YOU ARE DEAD”. It’s more like try to understand what I am saying then decide what you have to say, and if we do not agree on it then that’s fine. Go live in your own life I will live in mine. But yeah I am done with the rant
Fellow fruity guy here, I love all your videos! You’re so awesome, and you really make me feel a lot more proud of who I am. Seeing you not have a care in the world about how others think of you gives me a little boost for my own self esteem. :] Happy pride! 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈❤️
This pride month doesn’t even feel like pride, it literally started with target having to pull a majority of the pride stock from shelves due to threats of violence. I really never expected us to be going back to the stonewall type of pride but damn
I myself was just voted president of GSA and was told I can’t get visibly mad when people harass me and always have to be the bigger person when it comes to harassment. At my school people will yell slurs at you, throwing their half eaten food at you, or stealing the pride stickers you hand out. Two of these have happened to me just because I was holding a pride flag and it wasent the stickers one. This happened in California. I’ll let that sink in.