let men wear dresses!!!👗 

Ohhhh. This makes sense- for some reason a few of my sourcss have conflicting info on this 🤯

This is true! She also actually tried wearing shorter skirts for a while but found it annoying that they blew up on her walks and didn’t stay down so stuck to longer ones for the most part after that!

@@gremlita I loved your video though 😊 I think the research waters on this subject are really muddied by the prevalence of old timey men's bad takes, lol. I totally used to think from the comics and secondary sources that women in cage crinolines were 24/7 bumping into doors and upturning like knocked lampshades! It makes a lot more sense in context, that those men had an agenda in portraying these women as ridiculous.

We should bring back stupidly large skirts so men can back the fuck off 😂

@@marisp2588 only if we can find a way to use that idea in public transportation would be awesome

ikr

The horror of the pink over pink with hints of purple and more fucking pink

everything really just comes back to capitalism

and media....emphasis on MEDIA

Agree.

Straight man hee who'd love to wear dresses, skirtsand other "feminine" clothing . Yeah, the assumptions are nonsense.

This was a major hurdle in my early days of non conformity. I have always preferred leggings to jeans, worn with a long shirt of some sort worn in a tunic fashion. I was often confused with being into men...simply based on my attire. Over the years I have expanded my wardrobe to include dresses and skirts, heels, and hose....and NOT to be accepted as a woman. I just prefer so called feminine looks, and in the subculture I am in, androgyny is a big part...so bonus. But even in this day and age a fellow that does as myself is either "trans in denial" or gay. I really and truly wish more straight men just threw out the gender rules and started sporting such styles (tastefully), so that this absurd and sexist notion could be put to rest.

Let's not forget Taehyung and his heels and Gucci shirts (marketed as women's but I consider them for everyone ☺).

And there is nothing wrong with being gay.

@@Jemalacane0 of course there isn't...but do you like being called something you are not based on assumptions?

legit. a skirt where you can slap people 1 meter away is definitely fun.

I dislike skirts cause it makes me uncomfortableee but I don’t mind men wearing it as long as they enjoy it, probably would like it more then me 💀

@@ht1ps555 same here.

*_swoosh, swoosh_*

this year for halloween a c/k-pop boygroup i like dressed up as disney princesses, and their reactions when they figured out how some of their skirts twirled were priceless! (link for anyone interested: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-YilHzooKecE.html)

This made me so happy !!!

ok but like i need to see this kilt lolol

that's so cool wth

After seeing Dan Levy's kilts on Schitts Creek (and having recently moved to Scotland) I've decided I NEED one now.

give your brother a high five for me.

Its why cis girls go through the teen phase of rejecting femininity

@@janaekelis yep and it’s very unfortunate

yep and why feminine men get bullied

Well it so happens that femininity was viewed by most cultures as inferior, thats why in a way women had an easier transition to "male" clothes cause it was putting them on the same level as men, while men wearing a dress is still viewed as the opposite

Madonna nailed it with her "what it feels like for a girl" song when she says "but for a boy to look like a girl is insulting, b/c you think being a girl is insulting".

Lmao I love that these misogynistic poeple are making the argument as a LITERAL child! THERE IS NO REASON WHY CLOTHING SHOULD BE GENDERED

I hate when guys use "girl" as an insult. I've met people like that before and they are sooo annoying, the worst thing is that the same people call girls "one of the boys" as a compliment.

Women start using pants after first world war because they start doing men job and wasn't comfortable work using desses, is not something that we started because we wanted,pants is a piece of cloth without gender,dress has a gender,and use pants was a progress for both men and women was a progress,men using dresses is not a progress.

@@dhsf5937 no clothes have gender but you do you sis ✨

@@dhsf5937 also no one needs a reason to wear a certain clothing. if it makes you feel confident, that's the only reason you need honey ✨

People who are telling skirts and one set dresses are affecting masculinity must note it down: *Scottish* *men* *wear* *skirts* *because* *it's* *their* *traditional* *dress*. Does it really their masculinity? *A* *BIG* *NO*.

I was actually quite disappointed because they’re NOT diverse. There are plenty of cultures where men wear dresses/skirts and perhaps even outnumber those who only wear pants. Consider India, the Middle East, and some African cultures - I’m pretty sure that’s more of the world’s population of men wearing dresses/skirts than not.

@@aneeeesa but she did say she would only focus on the West which, as opposed to the geographic concept, usually only means Europe, North America (sans Mexico) and Australia

So, modern photographs are not historically accurate?

How would the vintage photographs NOT be historically accurate - unless they were historic photographs and inaccurate at the time they were made, of course?

Fun fact but I am not a historian os maybe dont take my word for it: apparently women do have pockets back then, but they are not attached to their dresses. It looks like a belly bag that you tie in your waist and it is REALLY LARGE. You can contain a whole book in there.

@@danielconnor8516 Oh yes! Historically, women had to have pockets, it wasn't sensible to not have them. It was a staple of their clothing just as underwear is for us today. My comment was in regards to women's clothing today, not historically. Apologies for the confusion! Bernadette Banner has a wonderful video on the subject. 😊

Tho yeah what's up with that lol. Real pockets doesnt cost that much to make. Also why bother making fake pockets lmao especially in coats. I dont think it's because companies dont want women to carry things especially because bags are a thing because ????

@@danielconnor8516 RIGHT?! Literally makes no sense! The only thing I can think of is that they (the fashion industry) think that having pockets and things inside them would interfere with the silhouette of modern fashion, which is practically skintight. Also, this forces women to buy purses or bags, which adds to that industry. I don't have any evidence of this, but I don't think it's far off. 🤦‍♀️

Can we ditch gendered clothings and instead just have utilitarian and non utilitarian binary system. Like those UT kilts vs fashion (?) Kilts afdhahdhhfs

SERIOUSLY. IT'S JUST FABRIC WE DRAPE OVER OUR FLESH PRISONS.

It's like how in many languages (including English) we gender inanimate objects with no sex, such as chairs, wigs, makeup, clothing, etc.

Exactly

@@Butterflier00 normally I hate caps but I think this time it was appropriate

@@Butterflier00 flesh prisons 😂😂😂

Same oml , it literally doesn't even matter what's she's saying . It's nice to look at her loll

She is so comforting and calming to listen to especially how calm and easy to digest she explains "radical" issues. I dont get mad at all which is stupidly refreshing to see especially how everyone just makes you mad at people for attention.

and she calls me a beautiful little dove?? I will always be back

and her smile!! i love it so much!

unrelated but some walnut tried to say us saying "gives me serotonin" is stupid because it's supposed to be melatonin. melatonin makes you fall asleep.

I think it’s that Harry Styles has a different type of persona. Billy Porter is known as a “gay icon” and people expect it from him because to be gay is already considered to be “feminine” in our society (which is silly in itself but a whole other conversation topic.) But when a well known heartthrob amongst women wears a dress it threatens their carefully planned “masculinity.” If this guy can wear dresses and frills and women still love him than what have they been doing their whole lives?

It kind of reminds me of when David Bowie wore a dress while walking around Texas

@Ami Oropeza yes! I love showing that men can be feminine without being gay, but some do it for views and it drowns out genuine guys who just wanna wear skirts

@@janaekelis yeah, I guess it’s good that the people hopping on the trend are normalizing it, but it kind of defeats the purpose if you don’t understand the significance of what your doing. I’m not sure if all those guys are doing it to say “I support men who want to wear dresses and skirts!” But I mean they’re willing to wear the stuff so... good??

This was my exact reaction when I found out about this, thank you for putting it into words

For me, COVID quarantining helped encourage me to experiment with fashion in this way as well. (It's probably something about being isolated from social interaction for months at a time, and how such a circumstance provides ample opportunity to try and experiment with such things, without fear of backlash of judgement or ridicule from fellow peers. I've been having fun with it so far.)

@@johnwalker1058 Quarantine definitely has helped! I think cutting my own hair was the first step, doing it how I wanted rather than how someone else told me I wanted it.

I actually a guy who start buying some dresses. Lol screw the "gendered clothes"🤣🙄

As a man I'm tired of it too. Why can't I wear a sweet lolita dress in peace?

@@Onnarashi AMEN! LMAO SO TRUE

Dude, *I* can't even wear sweet-Lolita dresses in peace, and I'm female, because it "isn't professional". Sometimes it feels so demoralizing when people applaud celebs for "making progress" in some area when we know (whether we openly acknowledge it or not) that it's not going to trickle-down to us plebians to effect an every-day-basis cultural and/or societal change.

@@iprobablyforgotsomething People should mind their own business and let others wear what they want as long as they're not breakng any laws while doing it.

@@Onnarashi Mood. My buddy wants to sew her own skirts? Awesome. A stranger has a beard and also eyeshadow? Awesome. I give no fucks, it's not my body, it's theirs. They put on what they think looks good. I wear black lipstick and chains cuz I think it looks nice. Not everybody thinks so, but I wear it for myself. Basically, as long as nobody's wearing swastikas/MAGA hats or flashing people in trench coats, it's all good lmao

Me too!

kilts are very pretty 🌟🌟 and classy 😎😎

@@salomew-l3897 Yes, Scottish men look very classy and handsome in those skirts. My favourite male artist is also known for his androgynous looks and outfits. Recently, he had a stage performance where he was wearing a black midi skirt. Honestly, he was looking very handsome and hot as well.

@@rishikapaul4740 which artist?? id like to check out his work 🌟🌟

@@salomew-l3897 Here is his recent dance performance ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-w4wOjOEcRZg.html His name is Lee Taemin. Now, the choice is up to you whether you liked his works or not.

Yes ‼️

@JL H how is it not

it's the worst

@JL H you are going into technicalities the original comment wasn't referring to. like clothes also differ by other categories like height and size of the person and people are not throwing a fit over it, are they? our topic of conversation here is that there should be no barrier based on gender when it comes to what an individual chooses to wear. it's really simple

@JL H People who are telling skirts and one set dresses are affecting masculinity must note it down: *Scottish* *men* *wear* *skirts* *because* *it's* *their* *traditional* *dress*. Does it really affect their masculinity? *A* *BIG* *NO*.

Really?!?

@@LadyAhro yes........

Woaaahhhh, and usually Disney likes to gender things pretty harshly

@@jinseats5466 Kinda feels like it sometimes yeah

@@jinseats5466 guess they actually payed attention to Greek mythology a bit

same

Floofy hair floofy dress heheheeeee

Don't blame it on the sunshine.. Clown smiling nect ot amother

Yes 😌

You forgot "floofy hair". Hehe.

In many countries out the US men wear skirts for precisely that reason. I'm from east Africa.

As a man I agree, Nice and flowy. I'd love to wear a skirt or dress!

As ASEAN, we actually do wear them. Tho ours are long and usually just wore at home. Coz it is extremely comfortable. That said idk about men wearing short skirts in public tho.. I mean I don’t want to see (accidentally) their ‘bits’, when legs are crossed etc. Not even in underwear, no thanks. Plus isn’t this make women uncomfortable? And could constitute as harassment if not careful.. And more importantly an honest question here while I know OP taking ‘being feminine is an insult’ angle, do women really think men wearing skirt is sexy? Coz looking sexually desirable is no 1 reason for men clothing imo. And wearing dress seems like another unnecessary barrier going against us (reminded me of Barney in HIMYM take a challenge wearing farmers attire while pick up girls at bar) It’s easy to imagine Greek gods doing it, but try imagine the usual bald middle aged men in Greek dress..

@@FP19487 I mean women have cracked the code to wearing shorter skirts and not flashing people (dark short tights basially lol) so i don't think it'll be that much of a struggle for dudes yakno? Also they don't have to wear skirts THAT short if they're not comfortable with it. Nobody has to wear things they're not comfortable with. And for the second point, maybe in the 'basic' mainstream it's considered as kinda 'sus' or unattractive but in more alt spaces and with gen z in general, girls are suuuper into guys with skirts/dresses or 'femboys'...In fact, there's a growing concern that some people are viewing it TOO sexually, ironically enough. Also, on a more general level than just skirts, the newer generations are actually becoming very critical of how boring, unimaginative and conforming men's styles tend to be. I agree with you, however, in that these new trends are generally applied to mostly young, lean, conventionally attractive males and although i DO see diversity in it every now and then, it has yet to be normalized. Baby steps, I say.

@@FP19487 I mean for me personally I dont think its sexy or attractive or whatever BUT thats just because a dress doesn't suit the form of (the ppl who actually wear these new trends) men, it isn't flattering like the way jeans are or any other types of pants yk?? |plus to wear a dress or skirt outside is just super uncomfy and its harder to do average things in, even in just a flowy summer dress I feel like most men (and some females but thats personal opinions) would be uncomfortable in it, even if it is normal it would get in the way ...does the way Im tryna say this makes sense?? BUT ALSO some ppl just think its sexy because the male wearer of the dress "doesn't care what others think" but honestly I think ppl who talk about it (like how in the vid she showed what harry styles said about him wearing a dress, no shame to him tho, just everyone likes to voice an opinion yk) do care what ppl think cuz they're tryna prove a point. BUT I do like kilts because they somehow just suit the form better?? also because they are cultural and pretty but also just manly asf yk??

i dont know what else to say other than youre amazing and valid as hell

Hi there. I don't mean to be rude, but as a trans guy why do you wear hyperfeminine clothing? Isn't that going against affiirming your gender expression?

@@afroditesis4738 I’m a mostly hetero cisgender female and I still wear boxers; clothes are just clothes and if it feels nice and makes you feel nice then why not wear it ☺️

Kassiopeia Danger I think it's different for us cisgender people. I too can wear masculine deemed clothes and be fine. It's just that I hear many trans people have strong disassociation with themselves with the opposite sex traits. Like trans men that still get periods, it can be disorienting for them. Or trans women with masculine traits, it goes against what they want to present as.

@@afroditesis4738 this is heavily individualized, not all trans people equate certain activities to a gender, he seems rather open minded - so the idea of makeup and femininity likely don't add up to womanhood, gender is a very personalized thing, if he feels comfortable with dressing feminine and androgynously then it can come across as an expression of bodily autonomy. Men are men, regardless of presentation. Not all dysphoria comes across the same way because each trans person has a different end goal with transitioning. I am saying this as a masculine and androgynous trans person.

It's very similar for me. I'm a genderfluid trans guy, and usually fluctuate between somewhere in the middle of the spectrum and pretty definitively male. My body and face are pretty androgynous, when I wear masculine clothes I feel like my features and stature are too feminine and like I look more like a tomboy than a man, while when I'm dressed in a more feminine way, my masculine features stand out more and I feel like I look more like a man. So, since I feel at least to a certain extent like a man and not at all like a woman, I'd rather look like a man in a dress than a woman in a suit, if that makes sense.

Ooo regal and king like, I love that

@@ichbinben. that totally makes sense.

makes sense to me! if we are going by biological sex to determine masculine v feminine, dresses for men make way more sense. just goes to show how dumb it is :)

I feel similarly. I'm hyperfemme and I love dresses for their "killer" factor. like I wanna dress like a royal who could feed you to the lions lol

Actually yes... They adopted trousers because of a severe climate change (it got much colder) and the northern tribes headed South to avoid starvation

@@norbertfleck812 So, correlation, not causation.

Style isn't always about comfort.

Exactly. Some people just want to wear clothes that fit them, their needs, their personality or whatever.

@@ellcally508 But comfort can be spiritual, too. Everyone I know says I look more comfortable in feminine clothes, though I'm a straight man (my "other" name not withstanding).

Yes I think so too. Also, it'll be great if the fahsion industry can create unisex clothing that any person regardless of their genetilia can wear. But for male person's who don't have a feminine shape etc I think the dress, skirt or so called 'feminine clothing' needs to be able to fit their shape. Most men don't have that androgenous shape (especially their hips aren't wide, their chest a bit buff) so getting them to wear a dress shaped as a ususal female shape wouldn't be a good look on them. Although, a dress/ skirt/crop tops can be made to look good for them. In ancient times, men would wear robes like dresses and they looked great in them. For me what harry wore doesn't really suit him but that's my opinion. I think a dress that complimented his shape and skin colour so maybe a light blue loose dress would have been a better choice and one that's not too bulky looking haha PS: Just saying my opinions, I mean no offence ^^

I simp for visual kei musicians, so yes 😂

To be honest, there are a lot of things that people claim to love in the internet, but when it comes to real life people are very judgemental, men that are experimental with their style is one of these things.

@@andinho6372 speak for yourself ❤️

@@shifa444 it's not a lie tho. A lot of things get support online but in real life end up bashed and shamed. I don't know if he is speaking about himself or just clothing and style, but often things that are really popular online don't translate in good responses when normal people do in a everyday situation. Look at those Japanese styles like lolita fashion, or harajuku style people in the internet love it, but you would get a lot of weird looks in public.

@@joiceraiana Even simple stuff, for example being a part of the lgbt+ comunity, as a gay boy i always see people in the internet talking about how they love gay people & have many gay friends and support the comunity, but in real life people only associate gay men with negative stuff. Sorry for my bad english btw.

Exactly!!i am a greek person living in Greece as well and something like that to me too recently when I mentioned the greeks in 1821 wearing foustlaneles(skirts ofc) they were like "ThIs dIFfErENt ,It IsN'T a SkIrT" it so sad to that people in our beautiful country still believe in homophobia, transphobia and toxic musculinity in 21th century.

I’m sorry that you were treated that way. When I was younger, I was soooo girly! I wore pink every single day. I couldn’t understand why girls liked blue because I too thought it was a “boy color”. Im now older and understand that it’s okay to like green a blue! Although I don’t completely agree with all of the “men wearing dresses” thing, I’m feel bad that you were made fun of. 😊

Agh! You just can't win! If you act feminine, people call you a slut, or a whore, or "trying to impress" If you act masculine, people call you gay or accuse you of needing to be a "lady" and "more feminine"

Yeah, the typical 'don't cut your hair, you'll regret it!!!' I have yet to regret getring my hair cut tho. If my boyfriend can have long hair, then I can have short, thank you very much

"Look like a boy" or "look like a girl" - what does that even mean? Apart from the outdated ideas how genitalia should be encoded into how we look.

I had the opposite- I had short hair for all my life, but remember wanting to grow it out since I was 6, and have always loved the color pink and twirly dresses. While no one has bothered me about pink, I had been made fun of for wearing a colorful, twirly dress to school on a day we didn't have to wear uniform. I honestly haven't been able to casually wear dresses since (even though I really want to look like a fairy who lives in the woods now). When I grew my hair out, I also remember people being like "oh, she's not being herself" or "look shes such a teenager". You can never win

As a man I agree! Let me wear a sweet lolita dress!

@@Onnarashi I support!!

@@kalina2250 Thank you.

Girls had to fight before wearing suits and pants! and guess what they’re so pretty in it!!

But yes i guess it’s more complicated for men to wear « feminine things » when feminity is deemed as something bad and shameful

Also look at the Catholic and Orthodox church... (extremely conservative, anti-abortion etc.) still wearing the robes they wore a long time ago...

and somehow middle eastern people are still against men in dresses/skirts/makeup/nail polish/ heels/ the color pink on men even though all of those were for men/ manly.

yes (in the middle east they're called thobes or long tunics) but they are designed according to their biological male body and the masculinity of the male body which in general are the broad shoulders, bigger chest, no curvy hips/ waist, have more muscle in their arms. Doesn't matter the color or the adornments it has. Male clothing is measured, designed, and styled to how the male body is naturally and the masculinity of it. You won't see them wearing the traditional dresses that women traditionally wore and still wear today because they are designed and styled differently to embrace the biological shape and femininity of the female body.

@@nakomochi3117 Arab mens' dresses are usually tighter than womens' abayas. It's mainly the fabric and the pattern (and the headdress) which makes the difference.

“A man shall not take his father’s wife, nor discover his father’s skirt.” - Deut. 22 :30

Me

same

❤❤❤❤❤

i wish you the best in life sis!!

@@buckcheep wtf dude why be so awful?

@@buckcheep judging by those birthrates you're not really doing a good job

@@buckcheep bruh fuck off

Get one for yourself! There are some pretty cheap ones on yesstyle. Look at the measurements of the length and waist to get a good fit:)

SAME.

You must live in Houston, TX. I must discourage you though, it is just as miserably hot in the dress as it is in a suit! Thank heaven for the A.C. !

Omg wear one you won’t regret it

I live in Philly where it gets hot af in the summer. I usually wear sundresses, kilts, or skirts in the summer.

They are the biggest culprits for misleading gender orientation.

@Russel Bush. I wish it were that easy but conservatives have everything in their power to keep society black and white.

@@Mrcharles. thats sadly true

That’s so stupid

I feel like gender identity is causing a lot more issues than gendered clothing, toys, and media. If people could just be themselves regardless of gender norms, then there wouldn't be so much "confusion" in youth today about what their gender identity is.

Fucking do it 🙂

They are COMFORTABLE

Go for it!!

@@seanathanbeanathan Most women have to shave their legs in order to go out in public in a skirt or dress. I'm most comfortable in pants because I don't have to shave.

@@ellcally508 you don't have to shave no matter what, it's a matter of preference. It's your decision, and if you *"can't"* wear a skirt without shaving your legs, you're the one limiting yourself. However if you *prefer* to only wear skirts when your legs are shaved, that's a different story.

That’s not really true. Tradition is about respecting you ancestors and culture. It’s important to show respect to the ones that came before you.

@@gabby5018 I mean that’s pretty much dead people telling u what to do, but I was just quoting some random tumblr post I read a while ago so it’s whatevs

@@gabby5018 I depends on those beliefs and the culture itself just because my ancestors did it doesn't mean its deserving of my respect or attention

@@degeneratequeen3559 that's a real good take

@@degeneratequeen3559 but ancestors are the culture

Her idea of East and West is traditionalist propaganda of the 50s she has no clue about what she aims to talk about.

yeah the hypocrisy inside of that bus is astronomical....either that or ✨internalized misogyny✨ lmao

You like many others are misinformed about the topic candace is presenting. It's not about the clothes it's about the societal and political attacks on men, traditional masculinity and conservatives. I encourage you to dive deeper into the subject, candace has some very good guests on her show that explain it better than what you hear in the media.

@Sunset Onyx if you find a man wearing a dress sexually attractive, have at it but the majority of women do not but praise it in the name of " social justice"

@@janeEyreAddict maybe... JUST maybe...he doesn't do it for you and your fellow trumpets to find him sexually attractive, karen? Just like women don't do the shit they do for men. People can exist and do things they want and if you find that existence a "societal and political attack" then maybe you should read the dictionary definition of freedom and then the urban dictionary definition of "a fucking snowflake"

@Sunset Onyx facts>feelings, use your head and you'll have better discussions. it's easier to fool someone then convince them they have been fooled. Merry Christmas snowflake

Harry is the biggest example at the moment because he is currently more popular at this day and age than the examples you gave. To younger generations, Harry is more recognizable than Prince and Boy George.. I feel like Harry looked amazing in the photoshoot and I usually enjoy his clothing choices so I guess thats just a matter of opinion.

Ill fitting? Harry looked incredible every single time he donned a dress

I think harry is more recognised because he was put on vogue. For Prince it was kinda seen as a stage costume, if ya know what I mean, so it wasn’t as recognised. Billy porters main example was at MET where people are expected to dress extravagantly plus only people interested in fashion and high celebs payed attention to that. Whereas vogue gets around and Harry is a household name, even if your the most conservative “manly man” on the planet you know who Harry styles is not to mention the influence of social media in spreading it, most people (especially those against men in dresses) probably found out about Harry on vogue because it was trending on Twitter, I know I did.

I get what you're saying. Harry goes for less tailored and glamorous looks, which can sometimes come across as poorly fitting or half-hazard. Besides wearing "feminine" clothing Harry doesn't have much in common with either of the artists you mentioned, in terms of style or persona, so it's a bit of a reductive comparison.

@@conray1907 I think they're in poor taste ESPECIALLY the vogue one. it doesn't look good at all

Except the irony is how most women who are calling for men's fashion freedom are only suggesting that men should be able to wear "dresses" -- even though there are some 80+ other garments that are considered taboo for men to wear, some way more than dresses (like panties, booty shorts, leotards, etc.) There's not so much freedom of expression, if it's limited to just one garment.

It’s because they aren’t happy with their selves.

The Abaya is a womans' garment. But yes, the Thobe/Kandura/Dishdasha/Galabbya is very much the same sewing pattern.

Abbaya is only for women, the men's Thawb is drastically different even if they have similar sewing structure. If a man wears an Abbaya in these cultures he will be made fun of to no extent honestly.

^^ SO much this. The author really glossed over this point, and made it sound as if women always have it worse than men (with respect to oppressive gender role norms), which is a huge distortion of how these systems actually play out. I would argue that gender nonconforming men still face significant oppression in many ways (including in the United States). I can't tell you how many times I've read stories of guys on Reddit describing how terrified they are of just leaving the house dressing feminine. Constantly fearing harassment and violence to me is effectively comparable to it being illegal. Yet the author makes it seem as if men can just wear whatever they want, since crossdressing is no longer a crime.

Candice owns needs to get a job !

@Sophie Hart .... Your point Sophie?

Any words uttered from candace Owen's venomous tongue deserves to perish. She makes no sense and doesnt have any evidence to her ignorant, bigotted claims. She needs to be stopped

She never know what’s coming, she insulted all the victims of police brutality do you think she’d care about the repercussions of talking about someone wearing a dress? I don’t think so, she does that for attention and she frankly got it

Nah she totally did, she was betting on it. Her whole career is based on stirring shit up so ppl talk about her 😂

*vogue

Well...not trying to be rude or anything but men can wear dresses but to me with them wearing dresses like huge puffy ones with bows is kinda weird

@@user-yd3sp9fd2d but why does it matter... it's the years of stereotypes that occur in our culture. it shouldn't matter what a person wears as long as they enjoy wearing it. hopefully we can agree to disagree

@@alexandrasavescu I said it looks weird to me, I never said that they shouldn't, I'm sorry but the fuck are you coming at me for?

@@user-yd3sp9fd2d so sorry if i came across as aggressive, that was never my intention! hopefully we can agree to disagree

In fairness, I don't see much publicity being given to cis white men for crossdressing. Harry Styles is one of the first to even get any significant fanfare which merely showcases just how far behind we still are. There are definitely plenty of cis white males that struggle every single day having to suppress their femininity. It's also worth noting that two of the most famous crossdressing male celebrities in the world are actually black: Billy Porter and RuPaul.

Asexual also means lack of sexual dimorphic traits.

^^^

Asexual can also mean absence of sexually dimorphic traits.

I don't care for Zayn as a person but it's insulting when people name any other 1D guy as the hottest--like, you know that's a damn lie!

He don't look that great now. Harry looks better.

@@LittleDogTobi ✨😅

she spilled tbh

I agree

So would you go out with a guy if wears dresses?

@@chadeller4541 If he had a cute personality to match the dress, totally :)

Not to be upsetting but are you a natural girl or in transition? Just curious.. ....I know someone who wears dresses hose n heels

@@chadeller4541 I’m a cis woman, if that’s what you’re asking. If it’s not your personal preference to date a guy who is comfortable wearing dresses, that’s fine. For me, I just don’t care either way. I’m mainly attracted to masculinity in men and women and wearing an item of clothing doesn’t take away their masculinity to me. Harry Styles, for example, is very attractive to me and he is comfortable wearing feminine things like dresses and I still see him as very masculine. He’s even more attractive because he’s comfortable expressing his true self through fashion and doesn’t buy into all the labels that come with his gender expression. He’s just a man who enjoys wearing pink sparkly outfits and wore a dress in a magazine to prove that it’s not a big deal. He also is comfortable embracing his feminine side (because everyone has a masculine & feminine side).

@CaptainCreek they are so comfortable and easy to wear in the summer.

Maid dress is also my favorite 🤣

It's not a big deal to design masculine dresses.

@@norbertfleck812 There’s no such thing

@@EmilyHernandez-jt4cs Tell that the Egypt, the Sudanese, the Emiraties or the Arabs. In all these countries a kind of dress is a traditional male outfit. And once you go back in history, you will find the Chinese Hanfu dress, and a lot more

@@norbertfleck812 Yes, it’s made for males, but woman can wear it that’s what I mean.

Shouldn't the real solution be to just let people wear whatever they want rather than making clothing less gendered? After all many trans people actually get euphoria wearing feminine or masculine coded garments. And in the end, the real problem is society enforcing binary gender stereotypes, not whether clothing is masculine or feminine.

Not to be that guy but it's agender* xD Asexual is the lack of sexual attraction to others

@@henriquevasconcelos5919 it was a quote from the video that I was referencing :)

When I was a child, I kept telling everyone I am asexual like a plant because I really hate it when people treat me "like a guy". I just want to cut papers and make paper sculptures 😔.

It’s probably better to embrace your baby’s gender instead of trying to shove it into a cabinet. Let them be who they are when they are older but, ignoring a babies gender is something that I don’t think should be done. I respect your opinions tho. What you want to do with your own life is your choice. Just sharing my opinions. Have a great day!

@@gabby5018 I dont think we are trying to shove the child's gender in the closet. If a child ask if they are a boy or a girl, I will answer them honestly. This is more of "I will treat both gender as the same". Like ok sure a boy and a girl can play with barbies. A boy and a girl can play construction together. A boy and a girl can roughhouse. A boy and a girl can wear frilly clothes or utilitarian clothes. Personally I would want to dress my child as either, but mostly gender neutral. If my child wants to wear something, sure why not as long as it is aproppriate.