Let's Talk About Fornication

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In your Christian circle, are singles having sex as a way of life? Are people/are you realizing the impact this has on a close walk with God? Let's talk about it!
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@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

This is a subject that has been on my heart, that I want to discuss in love. Please....no ridicule or casting of stones. Let's have a God-glorifying discussion with honest, heartfelt sharing.

@BritKing411 6 лет назад

I remember when I got saved 3years ago, my jaw dropped when I realized that sex is so "regular", everyone is doing it, as if it's no big deal. And if you're not in a relationship people actually mock you bcz you're not "getting sex". It annoys me to be honest. But I'll honor Jesus with my body, in speech and in conduct even if I'm standing alone. We can do all things through Christ who gives us strength.

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Britney, I am so praising God for your commitment to honor Jesus with your body....in conduct AND speech. We truly can do all things through Christ! Praying the Lord's blessings upon you. May His strength and protection be strong in your life.

@BritKing411 6 лет назад

@@kimcashtate Thank you for the kind words Kim and for taking the time to read and reply❤️ blessings to you too!

@plubin123 6 лет назад

I hear this at my job all the time.. they're like " girl you're dry up and need sex" it's been 5yrs and i am fine with it. that part time Christian life is not for me. All in or nothing at all.

@BritKing411 6 лет назад

@@plubin123 in the workplace it happens alot. It really used to annoy me! kind of still does bcz its very personal. I actually prayed about it and lately my mindset has shifted from being annoyed and offended to rather educate the very same "Christian people" that God is against "sex before marriage" and that through Christ it is "possible" to live a life that pleases God. So im starting to be open about it (although it's not easy) and use it as an opportunity to inform people about what God requires of us because we are the only Bible that they're probably reading. But it also takes God's wisdom to know when to keep quiet and when to talk about it.

@EllenMHelms 6 лет назад

kimcashtate I'm been teased because I don't swear or want to hear about other peoples sex lives...sigh... So I come here and other places to get strength from other Christian women. blessedly my daughters walk with Him

@cherylcross-tucker1110 6 лет назад

It’s been a decade now. Finally got tired of all the broken relationships. Concentrated my life and time on GOD. It’s been great!!!!

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Wow, Cheryl, what a praise! Amen to concentrating your life and time on God.

@LeeLee2277 6 лет назад

That's why the Bible says don't hang with fornicaters. Hang with like minded people.

@hiimcarl6634 4 года назад

Here’s my story i was 13 when i first had sex with my girlfriend at the time of the same age, it ruined my life, you open alot of doors that you definetely wouldnt think twice of keeping closed, seek god, wait for after marriage and blessings will be bestowed upon you x100. 🙏🏼

@OmarAbdulMalikDHEdMPASPACPAPro 4 года назад

Greetings. I was ridiculed quite a bit, as a teen because I was celibate, as a Muslim. I would tell people that the BIBLE speaks of sex as a sin also. The way sex is advertised in this society, makes it VERY difficult to accept that the Lord does not approve of this. Thanks so much for sharing this. More young Christians need to hear this message. May the Lord make us strong against the tools of Satan.

@AsperiaKWogabaga 4 года назад

I was living in fornication before I gave my life to Jesus ,and after that I heard a preaching about sin,I cried lots of tears,I realized my life was not pleasant to God, I prayed ,fasted that God would speak to my husband too,he did it ,we started a battle together, and even repented ,before God and before the church,after we fled fornication by separating beds,no more intimacy, until we wedded..it was not an easy experience but God gave us his grace...thanks kim

@amongindomitila3028 4 года назад

👏👏👏wow

@Girlintheewild 6 лет назад

Loved this!! I had been battling my lusts and fornication for years but I can honestly say now since I’ve been abstinence for months now God has given me clarity and understanding thank you!

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

What a testimony, Saundra! Praise the Lord. He is so faithful! Blessings to you, dear sister, and thank you so much for sharing that.

@nyawalsimon7864 2 года назад

Amen

@rosegallant192 6 лет назад

I love that God has given you a brave spirit to tackle even the toughest of subjects. Praise God for women like you! Keep on preaching the truth. Praying for you daily. ❤

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

So thankful for your encouragement, Rose. And thank you so much for your prayers!

@Chanfb915 6 лет назад

Thank you for this. I am celibate and the struggle is real.

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Chandra, I know it's a struggle but I'm praising God with you for pursuing God's ways. xo

@PhuckHue2 4 года назад

you get any meat yet?

@michaeljohnsonsr.8034 4 года назад

Yess

@naomibrookes6915 2 года назад

Keep holding out. God is with you to strengthen you as you continue to keep that commitment to him.

@Chanfb915 2 года назад

@@naomibrookes6915 thank you for the encouragement. Lord knows I was just saying to him this morning I wanted a certain relationship that could lead to fornication and but in the end I confessed "not my will but your will be done"

@crystalsmith4187 6 лет назад

Tell it girl, we know, and some, don't care, about going to hell. It's all about, their fleshy, pleasures. Yes don't walk by the flesh. Pursuing holiness, and righteousness. Ohh, your speaking , that truth girl, from that Bible. Our bodies, are our temple. Women, dress, like prostitutes, looking for love, in all the wrong places.

@livingwater7580 6 лет назад

she is 100% right but believers cannot go to hell but lose inheretance, and if you are not enduring the chastening God will take you home early, or you will be sickly, tired not blessed, im not condoning sin PSALMS 89 the covenent 27 Also I will make him my firstborn, higher than the kings of the earth. 28 My mercy will I keep for him for evermore, and my covenant shall stand fast with him. 29 His seed also will I make to endurefor ever, and his throne as the days of heaven. 30 If his children forsake my law, and walk not in my judgments; 31 If they break my statutes, and keep not my commandments; note 32 Then will I visit their transgression with the rod, and their iniquity with stripes. 33 Nevertheless my lovingkindness will I not utterly take from him, nor suffer my faithfulness to fail. notenote 34 My covenant will I not break, nor alter the thing that is gone out of my lips. 35 Once have I sworn by my holiness that I will not lie unto David. note 36 His seed shall endure for ever, and his throne as the sun before me. 37 It shall be established for ever as the moon, and as a faithful witness in heaven. Selah.

@sistarhymz5051 4 года назад

U better NEVER have sex at all. Unless God told you to. Its the worst sin besides murder.

@remeredzaichazi9373 6 лет назад

Thats a very sensitive topic....thank you for sharing i was really waiting for that

@lilbeth4804 6 лет назад

I agree with everything you said and the Bible. I have a tough time getting over temptation but God helps me. but I can't help but notice your use of `Regularly, are you saying that it is the number of times singles engage in sex makes it bad? I think no matter the number of times singles engage in sex, it is wrong and against the bible. to be honest, it takes God Grace to get over temptation. i pray God helps anyone deeling with this. it would be so terrible to miss heaven because of flesh and earthly feelings.

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

That's a great question and thanks so much for asking. You are right....one time would be a sin. I said "regularly" because I didn't want anyone to feel condemned who is endeavoring to pursue celibacy but fell into sin due to temptation. This video is more so focusing on the problem of not pursuing holiness at all. Hope that makes sense.

@shareewalls6032 6 лет назад

I actually had to end relationships because they thought we would sleep together. I'm saving myself for marriage, and I have "saved men" telling me I'm too deep. That nobody is waiting for marriage anymore. However I know it's not of God and I want to be pure for Him and my future husband.

@plubin123 6 лет назад

Sharee Walls what kills me is that " too deep" that's where we need to be deeper in the word of God. Pray for any Christian that think not fornicating is too deep, because that part time Christian is not for me. Part Christians are walking to hell and don't even realize it. They're all too comfortable with this world. But the word of the Lord never change.

@shareewalls6032 6 лет назад

@@plubin123 Amen!!

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

And the blessing is that you know right away that that man is not for you. smh Praise God that you've ended relationships on that basis. Your heart is to please God! Praying His richest blessings upon you as you cling to Him, Sharee!

@robinradstrom6609 3 года назад

Holy.

@drescorpio1114 3 года назад

At my job my co-workers call me a square because I choose to be celibate and you know most men think that its ok because that's what they crave, being a man and you have other men telling you somethings wrong with you if you rather wait until marriage. I may be a square but at least I have corners, and my focus is living for christ, thats why its important to watch who you let into your circle because you have those who love to satisfy the cravings of the flesh and live by it's desires. a friend saw me one day with an empty chair at starbucks and asked me where was my date and I told him I got a date with Jesus. Stay pure you're doing the right thing

@erindoyle73 6 лет назад

I once was there and now I've been transformed (for 20 years now). One of the keys is making a decision and commitment to stay pure. Without that commitment we will always waver and stumble. It's sooo worth it!!

@traumamom4338 6 лет назад

Appreciate your pearl of wisdom. I realize i need to choose to be committed which is hard for me to do. But i will try! Im desperate...

@erindoyle73 6 лет назад

@@traumamom4338 Hello Dianna! Just some thoughts and encouragement... For years I would "commit" and then stumble. I realized after too many of those moments that I really had to pull back from anything that would trigger me to head down the wrong road. People, music, movies etc. It wasn't until I began hating the sin and doing a lot of self talk did things really start to change. When a thought, image or anything that triggered me started a thought process, even my body trying to speak to me, I would literally say things like... "Not today, not ever!" Or "That's not me anymore", even say them out loud. "Life and death is in the power of the tongue"! So true! This is a process and the more you stand firm and the more time you spend with God, that stronger you will become and your satisfaction with our King will grow. Hugs! You can do this!! I believe in you. Abba Father, your daughter Dianna has a willing heart to obey your word and walk in your ways. From the beginning of time you thought of her, dreamed of her creation, planned exactly how she would be. And you love and enjoy her! I ask that she would know who you are and who she is (as you see her) more fully each day! That she would know that she is your princess, strong and pure, righteous and holy, set apart for your pleasure. You are her daddy, perfect and kind, honest and just. May your strength overwhelm her when she is weak and that you would build her character as one after your own heart! In Jesus (Yeshua's) name!!!

@traumamom4338 6 лет назад

@@erindoyle73 I needed every beat of your heartbeat praying for me. Im in tears, i never had a long, deep, spirit filled, edifying and encouraging prayer like that ever! I appreciate you allowing holy spirit to minister to me in my darkest hours!!!Yahweh i ask that you grant Erin all her needs according to your riches and glory in name of Jesus!

@erindoyle73 6 лет назад

Dianna Taylor It is my pleasure to speak those words, that are so clearly our Father's thoughts towards you. You are precious in His sight and He knows you better than you know yourself. He believes in you completely and He knows you can and will overcome. I encourage you to copy it down, it is your truth. One thing I will say now is that, the sheep know the shepherd's voice. You must discern His voice from the enemy's. If you don't already know... His voice will never drag you down, even a correction will lift you up and call you to repentance. His voice will draw you closer to Him. Anything that does not do that is the enemy!! You are made in His image, all the stuff that the enemy wants to drag you down with are just layers we have added and like pealing an onion each layer can be removed. Through repentance you are washed clean and it is now as far as the east is from the west. If you head east on a globe (our fathers perspective) when do you hit west? You never do! You sin is gone. Put it down and walk away!!! You are loved beyond measure!!! Be still and know that He is God or another way of saying this is, Wait upon Him and discover He is God!!

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

This is so beautiful, Erin, and your prayer below is so powerful. Praying God's continued blessings upon you!

@marshacreary2442 6 лет назад

Can we also discuss soul ties as it relates to sex? Can we talk about the long term effects this will have on them and their children?

@charlenedeshazier1414 4 года назад

Marsha Creary yes! That’s a great topic

@markus80s 4 года назад

It is true that fornication is wrong. But one of the problems in the western Christian community is that marriage is highly discouraged among young people. So even if a young couple over the age of 18 genuinely want to do the right thing and get married, they are constantly told that they are too young and that they should wait until they are around the age of 25 or so. This is unrealistic for many people. Another problem is that many people think that a wedding has to be composed of some big expensive party reception. We should return to the concept of simple weddings so that people don't need to feel that they have to go through a big expense to get married. What would also help is to make young adults job ready sooner. Not every job requires someone to do a 4 year university degree. One can train for a trade that would take 1 or 2 years after high school, or participate in a high school/trade combo program.

@terrongreenidge7049 4 года назад

I'm struggling with the whole issue of masturbation and fornication the concept I received is like you should get some sexual experience so when you get married there will be no problems but I've been listening to hell testimonies on the subject and now I want to follow jesus 100% but it doesn't take long for the sin to come back I need deliverance and understanding in this field

@bettyewilks1187 5 лет назад

I been celibate for 5 years it feel good I'm waiting on God to send me someone who's celibate to

@catinahawkins9925 6 лет назад

Back in the day when I was 19 years old, I wast beginning to give my life to the Lord and this Brother in the Church told me you know it's a sin to fornicate. So I asked him what is fornicate? ... " What is fornication? " He told me having sex without being married. I was shocked!!! I Never heard of such thing. That's when I truly started taking the Lord seriously and applying my self more. I truly thank the Lord for this Topic today. Thank you Kim!!! You are truly God sent.

@TheTwanetta1 6 лет назад

Kim, I remember when you posted this in the reader’s group. As Christian singles, there are many pressures that we deal with daily; Fornication is one. And as a Christian, single and a virgin, it’s an even greater pressure to keep oneself holy. God is real though, He makes it known that He understands our pressures and wants us to talk to Him about it. This video is a reminder that fornication and momentary pleasure is not worth a lifetime of hell. Thank you so much Kim!! 🙌🏾❤️

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Love this, Twanetta, and amen! The Lord truly does understand our struggles, and He is faithful to keep us. Blessings to you!

@michaelcampbel7709 4 года назад

I am 22 years old and a virgin

@robertharbin6461 3 года назад

I do know that sex is for marriage

@HelpMamaRemote 6 лет назад

Awesome word, Kim. Something else prevalent is mastrabating. I was trying to explain to a woman that we're to deny ourselves not fulfill the list of our flesh. Her argument was that since it's not in scripture she didn't see anything wrong with it. ☹️

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Masturbation has come up more than a few times in comments I've gotten (more often in my inbox). Such a huge topic. It's a blessing that you were able to talk to her about it, sis.

@danabrown1157 6 лет назад

Kim this was so good and very much needed in today's society! I really would like to send this to my sister who is in a new Christian dating relationship and is struggling with this! I feel that her old fleshly ways are creeping back in to her walk with Christ! But I don't want to upset her or make her feel I know more than she does! For I have had my own mistake in past before I gave my life to Christ and now I'm waiting until marriage! I believe be that's what she was striving to do but her flesh is weak! This was one of the sins she struggled with in her sinful past! What would you do? Should I share this with her? Thanks Kim! Love Your Sister In Christ! Dana

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Dana, absolutely, I would share it with her. You said she's a new Christian and she's struggling with this. Prayerfully she will be encouraged with truth from Scripture. Such a blessing that she's got a loving sister! Blessings to you!

@teresaspurlock590 4 года назад

The Bible says to flee fornication as was with the Biblical story of Joseph when he fled from Pontius's wife. We have to give our lives to the Lord. John says make straightway the paths for the Lord to give your life to Christ. Our bodies belong to the Lord and not our own. The Bible says it is better to marry than to burn with passion. Our hope is in the Lord Jesus.

@Yoshigamingchannel 2 года назад

What’s the true meaning of fornication? And adultery? Please look up other translations. You’ll be surprised what you get and it should change your view on this matter.

@LAREYNAYR 3 года назад

For if you live according to the flesh you must die but if by the Spirit you put to death the practices of the body you will live. We don't know how to exercise the Spirit. No ones how to pursue the Lord by the Spirit. Lord have mercy on us to exercise our mingled Spirit!!

@naomibrookes6915 2 года назад

I breaks my heart so much of young people are choosing sex rather than their relationship with God. The Bible talks about lacking understanding when one chooses sexy outside of marriage. We have set boundaries in dating and sex should be a #1 no no and anything that will lead you to it.

@jaydavis762 2 года назад

walking in his light fellowshipping with one another the blood of Jesus Christ his son cleanses us from all sin yes I know people say God know my heart man looks on the outside but God looks on the inside. but I can't do what I want to do if I call him Lord he paid for me he bought me he washed me I am his he is mine I am thine oh Lord oh Lord I have heard thy voice 💖 and I cry unto thee free those as you have set me free from fornication by the power of the Holy Spirit in Jesus name hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah thank you Jesus

@johnpowell1930 2 года назад

I was one of those, 'So called',, Christians. Thanks to Jesus for convicting me.

@MsEmpressneka 6 лет назад

Really?! I don’t even masturbate. And when I fell short, I was so convicted.

@sonyafreeman2295 6 лет назад

This word is on point.A sister in Christ was in seminary school and she wanted me to meet this guy she was interested in. She wanted to know if he was a good guy before they started having sex.I was a babe in Christ, so I was shocked! I said, you plan to have sex with him? She said yes, looking at me like of course!!! Wow!!!

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Wow, Sonya....so sad that you encountered that as a babe in Christ. It could've easily caused you to stumble. Lord, help us.

@sonyafreeman2295 6 лет назад

kimcashtate Amen but the Lord let me know that is not Him and I am to reain Holy. I have not had sex in 5 years for real and God has kept me! Don't get me wrong, my flesh cries sometimes but I don' t want to open any demonic doors. I love God and want to be pleasing in His sight!!!!😍😍😍🙏🙏🙏💝💝💝

@mikereitsma4817 6 месяцев назад

Saw your video fore the first time today,nice to hear from a smart person,youre very good at preaching....

@Cesspit5707 4 года назад

Im struggling with fortification, me and my fiance end up losing control of ourselves. This video helped inspire me to cut it down until it all goes away until we're married. I'm praying God still loves me for Lustful is the sin is the one sin that truly gets to me.

@danilaroche1156 Год назад

Did you two marry?

@Cesspit5707 Год назад

@@danilaroche1156 No I was charged with two accounts of stalking and domestic violence.

@cathyecooper4376 6 лет назад

Short but deep.. one of the saddest text in the Bible, to me, is Judges 16:20...Lust of any kind, and sin can separate us from the Lord. What's worst is to think we are safe when we are in mortal danger..😔

@jonasjasikevicius8780 3 года назад

Lust of any kind? So you can't have sex with your wife or husband?

@trishwragg788 6 лет назад

Thank you for bringing up this subject. As a Christian who was caught up in this lie, I can vouch that trying to continue a relationship with God while remaining in active sin leaves one in a desert. Believe me, it just isn't worth it. When I think of how easily one finds reasons, and justification for continuing to sin and it destroys your witness and I know that my lifestyle tripped up others who were seeking, not yet saved. Our lives as a Christian is not only for our relationship with our Jesus but a huge responsibility towards the world who need that very same Jesus

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Thank you so much for sharing this, Trish. So true that we have a huge responsibility not only toward the Lord but toward others. xo

@cammontreuil7509 3 года назад

It is sad even in the church women want to fornicate. Finding the right girl would be a miracle.

@qatarrarre30 3 года назад

Am single christian mother wit this behaviours may God help me

@jacquilinerapsang3754 4 года назад

Can a fornificator get married with the same person they had sex with..??

@Mable-gm6om 6 лет назад

Amen.Thankyou for the video.Most christian youth know that fornication is wrong,some still pursue it regardless or they use other means to gratify there sexual desires like watching pornography,masturbation, inappropriate cuddling or touching(if dating). "Its not like we are having sex...,we're ok...", they would say.We are called to purity in Christ Jesus and His precious Holy Spirit is here to help us if we submit our sexual desires to Him.

@kelsayb9675 5 лет назад

I continually feel like I’m “too far gone”. I was in a 5 year relationship, as a christian, and had sexual intimacy regularly with my bf. Then we broke up and I stopped having sex. I did this for 5 years and I feel back into fornication a few times. I’m so saddened by this. I don’t want to live this way and have since stopped. I realize that I didn’t have faith in God’s promises and blessings. am I still saved?

@leaholiver9418 5 лет назад

Never give up

@uncleken7955 3 года назад

I've never had sex and I wont do it Not until I'm married at least I'm not a fornacator

@rafaelsocorro3363 2 года назад

Thank you pray for me. I am sinners. God bless you

@brettstafford9665 2 года назад

Anyone else thought that having sex is the same as marrying your partner?

@dianaleigh4987 6 лет назад

This Blessed me tremendously. As a 52 yr old divorced woman, this subject is why I've lost quite a few male suitors especially ones that knew me before I became celibate. All, not some, that I know of n church and not are "doing it." It made me feel some type of way and I'm not going to lie, I thought to myself why not? They getting blessed and it's looks like it's all good. I'm not saying I don't sin but this topic rite here, yeah.. Keep me in prayer in this matter. Great Topic Kim

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Leigh, this is why Hebrews 12:2 tells us to keep our eyes fixed on Jesus as we run our race. If we look to the left or the right, we won't be motivated to keep pressing. Praise God that you decided to obey God by becoming celibate. Praying rich blessings upon you as you cling to Him!

@jenisebrooks4308 Год назад

Having sex vs whoredom is it a difference?

@robbiesrealtruthtalk6082 4 года назад

Thank you Kim for sharing the topic on fornication. Biblical marriage did not require a marriage certificate. If two people are in a committed relationship living together, then it would be submitting to the laws of the land to be legally viewed as married by obtaining a marriage license.

@jenisebrooks4308 Год назад

Is Celibacy a commandment??

@WickedHebrew 3 года назад

Bet she ate a ham sandwich after this😭😭😭😭

@RonPaulyGirl 6 лет назад

Kim! GREAT call out to Christians regularly having sex outside of marriage and thinking it's okay because of society's paradigm. I reposted this to my FB account, along with the scripture references and NOT ONE PERSON CHIMED IN . . . sad and very telling, indeed.

@peggyannguerra7481 4 года назад

Hey gd day I wil to ask u something so u have a #

@Mr_oluwashina 2 года назад

Team celibacy

@crystalsmith4187 6 лет назад

Hey KimCash Tate, what a Subject. LOL Gone, girl, tell it. Your so knowledgeable abt so many things. I'm listening. Said I'd check you out more, and I will. Your a good teacher. You got that right, no attempt to pursue, holiness, It's out of control. They think, nothings, wrong, with it.

@truth2478 4 года назад

Im desire to be married but it looks impossible at this point. Cant find a wife. If i dont get married you expect me to live my life with out sex? You must be crazy, you must hollier than tho... right?

@beverleybrangman2191 2 года назад

Thank you Kim for this video. I struggled with this topic, but God has redeemed and set me free from the bondage. God be praised for his grace and and deliverance. I appreciate your transparency

@daved7808 2 года назад

Thanks for speaking out on this. I wish more Churches would warn against the dangers of Sin vs being seeker friendly.

@dreamertyson4741 2 года назад

I forget the lady name but she went to the man into his tent and he became his wife so what do that mean I thought I thought sex made the marriage

@dreamertyson4741 2 года назад

After out if you was committed to only one man and one man only even if you didn't have a someone that he was your husband

@nowankersallowed2115 4 года назад

Yep I'm guilty of fornication in the past

@jojobean5382 6 лет назад

Thank you Kim. I, too, was a fornicator an have since repented.

@willjones2052 2 года назад

Amen I in total agreement to this word without holiness no one will see the Lord we need you Jesus. 🙌

@arethawebster1817 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing I needed this. Thank you God

@goldie99 6 лет назад

Wow YES Kim ! Your so right. "Heb 10:26 for if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remain no more sacrifice for sins" which means open your eyes people.! On a deeper level.. Mat 19:5-6 they 'twain' shall be one flesh = this tells you that a spiritual exchange occurs with the other person..! We are living in that adulterous generation..! Kim your right we need to pray for strength to overcome the physical desires cos the enemy will drag you down with lies. Cling to the most High and always remember "1Joh 1:9 he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins." Repent with a pure heart is a must. 💕 great lesson sis!

@crystalsmith4187 6 лет назад

Amen1

@ladyshenna967 6 лет назад

This was wonderful. I've been celibate for almost 2 yrs now. I'm happy about it. The Lord has been keeping me, protecting me. I don't want to compromise my relationship with God. He gave his life for me. I belong to him. I love you Jesus!

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Praise God! Praying the Lord's blessings upon you as you cling to Him!

@malebogonkgabane6407 6 лет назад

Thank you for proclaiming the word of God with such boldness and love... I'm touched... May God bless you sister for this encouraging teachings!

@prajrao 2 года назад

Amen

@prajrao 2 года назад

Nothing is too difficult for LORD GOD, he loves us, forgives us if ask for his forgiveness sincerely and repentance and reconciliation. Ask for his grace to help overcome your lust , greed,

@mhofu02 6 лет назад

Thanks Kim I have been waiting for this and I can show my children your video because you are young and Sincere in the Lord God bless you 🙏🏽

@Apauline 6 лет назад

Ive had my struggles as a single christian and i wont lie and say sexual desires havent come upon me. What keeps me is being honest with myself God and having a discussion with people who are spiritually mature to guide me. Sex is a beautiful gift given by God but outside the sanctity of marriage it is a sin. God bless you my sister for sharing your testimony and providing this discussion for people who struggle with sexual immorality

@ms.bizlady2956 6 лет назад

Thank you for this teaching.I encourage singles to get in the word of God on a daily basis it helped me to come out of a sexual relationship. As one friend said to me who do you love more God or that man?

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Amen & amen!

@youdeserveit3677 5 лет назад

I didn't know its a sin.. Thank you so muchhh

@crystalsmith4187 6 лет назад

Loved this Kim, very good video, and much needed, in today's society. I've never been wild and a sexual being, human of course. I've had maybe, 3 sexual partners, in my whole, life, and I'm 58 yrs, Old. I've always believed in one on one relationships. Never believed in dealing, with married men. Stay away from that. My mom, as I said is deceased, and I learned, somewhat how to be me through her. She wasn't a church goer , that much, but believed in God, and raised me, to respect myself, not so much in words, but watching her. Her and my Dad , died of Cancer. I pray to God I never get that Dreadful, disease. I don't smoke or drink. My mom, and dad smoked. Don't mean anything their, killing us with food now. With MSG, high fructose, Corn Syrup, . Theirs something called BHT and VHT in Italian Sausage, that cause Cancer. Yet they still are allowed to sell it, . I try not to eat, food anymore, once I find out it's bad. My Dad died, way back when I was 11 yrs old, he was much older than mom, didn't appear to be but was very active. Hate didn't get to grow up, with him being around, but for the short time he was with us. He was Good to my Mom, and to Me. She never, got another man after him. It was just her and I and I miss her soooo, much, outside of God she was All I had. So to speak, phony folks, family and friends. God Bless, glad your back. Love you, Sister, Have a wonderful, blessed, Day.

@traumamom4338 6 лет назад

Thanks for sharing your story. May the lord continues to keep you. Sweet spirit

@EllenMHelms 6 лет назад

I was floored and speechless when our former Christian Ed. director told me that she and her pastor husband lived together before they were married 😥 She said they felt it was ok because they weren’t hurting anyone!! WHAT??? This was the Director of Christian education!!! I’m sorry if that’s casting stones 😥

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Ellen, no, not casting stones at all. (I was thinking more of towards others who are commenting.) But wow, what an example of how standards are changing, even amongst the leadership. It's truly sad.

@sharoncolley2345 3 года назад

how do you pull a fellow Christian back who has left the church to be with a man without the danger of judgement (me being judged). I once lived the life of sin, but this young woman was a major part of bringing me to Christ. I pray that she returns to our Lord.

@honesthose 4 года назад

Wearing jewelry is a sin too, In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; 1 Timothy 2:9

@rixmohay1924 4 года назад

I found this video during a woman wanting to trade sex for spice to smoke (bug spray). I figured the video would drive the demon away and it worked. How many times church girls wanted to break the fornication laws saying God would forgive. The Torah states a difference in willful sin and those committed in ignorance. We all know sex outside of marriage is wrong but many seem to think a few magic words will save them forever (OSAS). Great message!!! 21 years celibate.

@mackblack8341 4 года назад

what if I don't know how to pray to God perfectly about my sexual addictions and how to pray to him about it.i don't know how to pray to God perfectly and what is prayer and how is it truly done?I don't know how to pray to God perfectly..i am lacking bad and I really need help trying to break this hell condemning sexual condition.🤔😞😞😞

@stevewiddows 4 года назад

The Lord left his Father, and home in heaven, and came down to earth, for one purpose: to lay his life down for his bride, the Church. There is nothing as holy as that. When i was 12 year old boy, i remember i had the thought that one day i would meet a woman that i would love enough that i would be willing to lay my life down for her. That is holy. - a man would leave father and mother and be joined unto his wife. I'm thinking that idea of holy commitment is in all of us - at first. But if you're careless with it you can lose it. The demons whisper, "...Go ahead; he's expecting it; that's normal..." A man shouldn't be touching out of bounds, none of that; it's all intimate, and intended for one person: your wife in marriage. and then when that most intimate moment... holy. and what comes forth from that most holy moment, - is holy too. holy from God. a new life. You think you can't keep all those things holy. . but you can. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-xOjWzpAjjWw.html

@philipbuckley759 4 года назад

how do you get the definition, of consensual sex, instead of sexual immorality....

@catinahawkins9925 6 лет назад

Awesome !!! Thank you JESUS !!! Finally the truth 😇

@tammyevans5799 6 лет назад

As a Teacher I often have to Re-do (Or) re- visit a topic or subject to make sure my students get the essence and the truth from the subject. ...so as teacher's have to clarify and make sure a topic is CLEARLY UNDERSTOOD By THE Students BEFORE THE ACTUAL TEST .... OUR SPIRITUAL LEADERS/ TEACHERS HAVE THAT SAME OBLIGATION!! SO YOU ARE REALLY CLARIFYING A SERIOUS TOPIC AND MAKING IT CRYSTAL CLEAR SO THAT THE " ETERNAL TEST of LIFE WILL BE PASSED! CARRY ON....

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

So good, Tammy, amen!

@dianaleigh4987 6 лет назад

Oh Kim, Can u cover scripture on sex once divorced (if you didn't initiate) or remarriage. Pray about it, Thanks

@rubiesdaughteriam3479 6 лет назад

I’ve been saved 9yrs I’ve been faithful, not perfect in all things for only 6yrs. It was difficult as that thing had a serious hold on me. Then one day I looked at things from Gods perspective concerning my worth , desire and need. It became painfully apparent that I had traded sex for intimacy and in that moment the picture of intimacy with my Savior and I became the desire for that closeness in marriage-and nothing less. The two were so very similar that I knew I couldn’t trade one for the other but that the two levels of intimacy were a matched set. Trying to date in church was abysmal due to the reasons you spoke of , so now I serve and wait. I’m 46yo a saved kingdom single that’s it take it or leave it. Sister and friends it can be done. I’m studying with some one right now who is struggling. Sister Friend Ms Kim right on time again! God bless you.

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Thank you so much for sharing this, Rena. I'm rejoicing with you in how the Lord led you to seek intimacy with Him alone. And what a praise that you're studying with someone who is struggling. Praying the Lord's strength upon you both. Blessings to you, sis!

@johnuzoka6124 4 года назад

If one regularly practices fornication and they are later married, they will never practice fornication again, so will they previous sins not be accounted for?

@chirstinejones1121 3 года назад

Girl you're so right. Sad the church and members is dping living in sin not no marry and to them it's ok without. a conscience mind they're even holding circ position as leaders that make me so angry

@divaesther6254 6 лет назад

It has been my struggle, and I pray for God's intervention.

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Praying for you right now, Sylvie.

@MrsBee-uo2lc 6 лет назад

First off let me start off by saying I think this was a great video and a much-needed video... But I was wondering if you could do a video covering masturbation, I know it's a controversial topic but I would love to know how you interpret the scriptures about that. Now obviously masturbation when you are watching p*** or lusting over other people that you're not married to is obviously a sin but what if you're married and you masturbate but when you do your thinking of your husband / wife? Would that then be considered a sin... Would love to hear your input. Have a blessed and wonderful day thank you

@namgospelandpraisevideos705 4 года назад

Good question

@swpministry 6 лет назад

I'm 27 & just as shocked as you. Just because something is socially accepted, doesn't mean God is pleased! Many think that because they're using protection & that they're not hurting anyone else, that it's okay. I'm reminded of 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 in regard to this discussion.

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

I'm so with you....socially accepted does not mean God is pleased! And yes -- 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8 is so on point!

@valariecaple1148 6 лет назад

Yes, it is a huge problem! Practically every single man I meet who is in the church wants to have sex. That's why I am not dating anyone. An older man in his early 60's told me things would not work out between us. Everything between us was great, but he wanted sex. No, I am going to please God and make it into heaven!

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Wow, Valarie, that's so sad. Praise God for your convictions! Blessings to you as you cling to Him

@sassygorgeous 6 лет назад

I really feel accountability helps when it comes so close to attempting to slip into fornication. I pray that I don't fall into that trap because singles are usually tempted when they're isolated from family and friends with biblical values. For single women being provoked for being unmarried, I hope there's strength from God to endure and overcome this temptation. Can you believe prayer can make a single person miss out on fornication. Years ago I was in a city with a guy friend, prayers from home; family and pastor made the guy jump ship before I came so close to committing fornication. So prayers from parents, grandparents and church family always works! #prayforthissistery'all

@kimcashtate 6 лет назад

Amen, Grace, so much power in prayer!

@pritamsah2650 4 года назад

I came to here from GOT ,held trial for cersie by high sparrow

@shannanharper9396 6 лет назад

I must be naïve as well, I wasn't aware that single Christians were actively engaging in sexual activity, speaking as a single Christian myself.

@sharonhunt5256 6 лет назад

Are you the same woman from "Too Saved"?

@biullakamberipa 4 года назад

thanks i learn something from your word...

@BOBJONES-cx2ht 4 года назад

I need help here Am a christian who gave my life to Christ Jesus 9 years ago , so along my way of Christianity i got a girl friend who is also a Christian , after 1 year of dating we decided to move in and co-habit because we couldn't afford either Traditional marriage or Church Marriage but we really love each other apparently we have 3 children with the consent both parent we have paid dowry but pending traditional marriage which we are planning . QUESTION 1. Is co-habiting sin ? 2. Is co-habiting same as Fornication ? 3. What can we do to make this right before the Lord our God? thanks for the message.

@danilaroche1156 Год назад

Yes its sin. Get married but I also suggest you get good Godly counsel.

@IrmaPereira 6 лет назад

This is a message that I should sent to my niece, she is a member of a Church were she met this man, they were in the choir and praising the Lord while fornicating, this man eventually stop seeing my niece and going to Church. Many times I told her I feel inside that this man is not right for you, and she would get annoyed with me, and won't admit that because the flesh is weak she sinned and wants Him back, but we serve a mighty God and I know He's protecting her. Thanks Kim always love to hear your messages, sometimes I'm late, but I hear them. Be blessed sister 🙏❤⚘

@minamartina254 5 лет назад

So when Christians never marry they can never have sex?? How should they do this??? Good preaching sister, but it's easier in theory...

@jayleeds2006 5 лет назад

A Christian must be married to have sex. There can not be sex outside of marriage for a Christian. The 1st person you marry has to be your husband or wife. If you are not married to the 1st person you have sex with, as she says, according to 1st Corinthians 6:9 you will not inherit the kingdom of heaven. In other words, you will burn in hell forever if you aren't married to the 1st person you have sex with. You can repent, which is to ask for forgiveness. God might forgive you. But I don't know how many chances he gives you to fornicate, repent, fornicate again. Especially if you know you're sinning when you fornicate. Maybe he gives you 7 chances to knowingly have sex before marriage and be forgiven,.... and on the 8th time you fornicate he stops forgiving. I was not able to find in the in the Bible. I guess there has to be some limit to the number of times God forgives you, otherwise this creates a loop whole where a you can simply ask for forgiveness immediately after having sex- and wipe your record completely clean. If this is true, you could have sex 100's of times with 1000's of people, ...but then ask for forgiveness and become as sinless and innocent as a virgin. This does not seem fair to virgins who have never had sex in the first place. If there is no limit to the number of times God forgives you for fornicating, then I'm not sure why sex outside of marriage is a sin in the 1st place. So I guess there is a limit. Marriage can also be quite expense in the US. Average cost of Wedding ring $6,500 Wedding ceremony $30,000 Divorce $15,000 Alimony $15,000/year It can be dangerous to get married, from a financial perspective. I don't think is was as perilous from a financial perspective to get married during Biblical times. The point I'm making is that some religions make sex very convoluted and unnecessarily confusing.

@fashionbeautyandothers5971 5 лет назад

I thank you for this video, she is so precious for young people like me. I don't talk english and i understand. So thank you.

@r.a.2977 3 года назад

I am a Muslim man and have a lot of respect for this sister. She's on point.

@superlifestc30maryann38 6 лет назад

Sex has been a major problem with me in my relationship. Anytime I tell my admirers no sex, the run. Am just believing God to bring a God fearing man that can accept me with out complain. My best friend married with out sex in her relationship and they are happy together. Sex is a major problem we have. I wish God can remove our sex organs until we marry so that major sin can stop.