Losing yourself completely just because you have a man is definitely wrong honestly. Men these days are not to be trusted, so therefore even if you have a man sis you have to step up your game to another level
Can you talk about causally dating and how to avoid getting your feelings hurts? I think dating to see what’s out there is great, but I feel like I set myself to catch feelings when in the end he didn’t want to exclusively date me.
I honestly feel like because men and women are wired diffently, it's almost impossible for a woman not to catch feelings, but for men it's different. Many times I have seen woman go into a 'casual relationship ' but always end up really broken because in the end they fell in love (madly) but the man maintained the casual vibe.
Listennnnnnn ! Who told you you can call me out like this?! But honestly, though, this video reminded me of everything I told myself when I left my last relationship & I told myself, I would be intentional about dating. After 2 years of that, I was starting to overlook certain things, but no longer. this video just slapped me back to reality.
I honestly used to think I had commitment issues cos I have the mindset of “it doesn’t have to lead to marriage” of course I go for potential life partners but if I try my best and it just doesn’t work out “ we move”. The way you are wise sis.. “moving on feelings is not allowed on this channel” 💕
I've listening to your videos since yesterday and I'm like this intelligent young woman has to be an ARIES ♈️ 👌🏾 😌 🙌🏾 😍.....I'm like people don't believe in signs but I see so much similar qualities in myself and I'm like only an ARIES can give this aura off.....and I know not everyone will understand what I mean. It's a different confidence that only a true ARIES Queen that found herself can understand.......KEEP THE VIDEOS COMING AND KEEP RISING ✨️ 🙌🏾 💯
Lucy, I love your channel so much, you have helped me level up so much in my journey as a young woman in my early twenties. I respect so much how you keep God in the center of your videos and glorify him. Thank you for all your videos, watching them all!
Thank you, this video is great!😊 I’m a teenager and don’t want to start dating until I’m at least semi-adult and have a better sense of self, so I want to find lots of advice to meditate on until then while I work on other things. I think it will be much easier to keep myself safe and figure what I want because of women like you. I’m also absolutely blown away by how beautiful you are
Thanks so much for all your advice....I just had a break up, it was difficult but watching this has impacted my life... I made almost all the mistakes you listed.. thanks so much for this advice...
So true Sis with your very good points. I am really having problems with Communication issue.....Well it is what it is. One of the reasons why my Dating Life is very dry and uninterested.
I like NEED to meet you! Giving me mentor, big sister, best friend vibes. I absolutely love your channel and I feel like this would be great as a podcast!
Lucy, this is such a great video. You hit all the essential points on the head and told the truth. Young women, old women and all women need to hear this. Thank you and yes I welcome part 2.
Hmmm a guilty... I do know if am wasting time but seriously I need God, cause On my own I can't, cause I seem to be confused cause we always argue.. Being three years together
@Lucybenson i found your channel last month and i'm glad i did🤗🤗... I have this guy i like and it's so obvious he loves me but girllll this guy is broke🤦♀️ him being broke isn't even the problem but he is not really doing anything about it which pisses me off plus he asks for money or airtime from me a lot and this guy is multi talented. Also he is not even in school and ion think he has any plan of going(he is 20yrs) Most times he bothers me with his problem😪 Ion know what to do...whether to cut him off or not.