I love this message . I will also add stay away from damage individuals. No matter how you want to be there and help them heal. Its draining, it might seem like a good idea but actually it’s not ❤. Being selfish is also changing your mindset about self sacrificing yourself for others. You don’t need to be there, you don’t need to help. Stop playing God in others life and actually start being there for yourself. ❤
THIS ONLY WORKS IF YOU ARE ALONE, HAVE A HEALTHY PARTNER, AND NO CHILDREN BECAUSE UNHEALTHY PEOPLE AND KIDS WILL WORK AGAINST BEING A HEALTHY SELFISH PERSON 😢
Please do not use oil on your scalp. Would love to get into the numerous reasons. Just too lazy. They are literally scientist research done on why you shouldn't. You could use it on your hair tho
I came to the lord asking for this blessings because raising my son (Joel) was an act of courage despite all the challenges .And the lord answered my prayers with a benefiting income of $31,000 everymonth. To God be the glory, this video have inspired me greatly in many ways!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I love your take on selfishness. You’re right, at first I wanted to reject the idea, but it does make perfect sense. When I work on myself and focus on myself, I become such a welcoming and engaged person. When we prioritize our general happiness through daily decisions, we really can improve our demeanor and mental wellbeing. I do also agree to not care what others think, because I know that I’m working on standing firm on my boundaries to make me the best version of myself. If someone doesn’t like it, oh well🤷🏾♀️
Lucy am 23 year I cannot take my own decision without my guardian telling me what to do and I feel so bad about actually don't know what to do I think i actually need help
I have been practicing healthy selfishness, but I always get gaslighted for doing so...... And when that happens I always feel like I am the problem and that there is something I need to change about myself. But hearing Lucy speak about healthy selfishness really resonated with me and I will stop feeling bad about myself for choosing me all the time. Thank you Lucy. My online big sister
Lucy, I'm a new RU-vidr, and no it's not this channel I have another channel for that, my niche is self-development and I must say you inspire me a lot. Can you help with tips and/or encouragement?
Lucy this video truly openend my eyes and a dubbel check on it’s okay to live this mindset…I’ve doubted soo much, because I don’t want to come off as ‘mean’, but ahh this life you’re the only one who feels what you feel when people walk over you🙃 Thank you for this video✨✨✨
I watched this video late but I already started the changes I set a goal for myself this month, that I will stop eating out, no fast food, no fizzy drinks, cut down on food portions, and it has been working, tomorrow marks two weeks but I've already lost an inch of my waist. What prompted me to do this was, I was starting to pick up weight on my stomach and I relatively have a smaller waist but it was because of all the junk I was eating and I'm happy with my waist and what I'm doing now, can't wait to see myself month end👏🏾👏🏾