level up your life by moving in silence 

1. Listen more than you speak 2. Don't announce anything unless it's done 3. When everyone else is doing one thing, do something else 4. Don't display a lot of your possessions. Envy and jealousy are real and so is energy. 5. Moving in silence involves not having too much pride and living a private life without any shame Final note: Protect your energy, value your privacy, and recognize who has good intentions for you.

Don't tell them what you're about to do. Don't tell them what you're doing. Just show them what you did.

I "disappeared" nearly a decade ago. Silence is so regal and powerful. It allows you to transform into something better

I deleted social media awhile ago… lost touch with a lot of friends. I noticed I always had to be the one reaching out, planning, etc. A couple months ago I made the decision to pull back and it is like I have awoken! I am finally finding peace within myself and my close loved ones and value the simple things in life now. Not everything is about showing off I have a life and finding that privacy like you speak of was the best thing that happened to me. 👏🏼

As introvert I naturally move in silence that’s one pro about being introverted.

I’ve always “moved in silence “ in doing so, I’ve been labeled anti-social. Keep them guessing, is my motto.😊

There an old saying “confidence is silent but insecurities are loud.” This video is well articulated. Thank you for sharing.

DON'T ANNOUNCE ANYTHING UNTIL IT'S ALREADY DONE! You've nailed it, lady! plus, "talk is cheap." For example: when it comes to "jobs".

I’ve decided to not tell anyone anything anymore. Every time I say something about what’s going on or about myself they always give me a negative comment. So I’m just literally not going to say anything. The negativity is killing me. Better to just be silent in this situation too. Silence is golden.

When You Build In Silence, People Don't Know What To Attack.

“The pop out only counts when you’re not always out”

I resonate with this message so much. I recently went back to school for my degree and I would update my family members and friends on my accomplishments throughout my academic journey. Although my loved ones responded to my updates, they never mentioned anything about my academic successes. Instead, they would change the subject and talk about something else. I realize now that sometimes when they say nothing, it’s just as bad as them making negative comment. I decided to take a hiatus for the next six months and move in silence. I would advise anyone reading this to take the six month challenge and keep your energy to yourself. See what happens. I don’t think you’ll be disappointed.

Yup envy is real!!! As soon as I told everyone I was applying into nursing school I never got in 3 years later still haven’t got in. Ever since I’m a ghost. Don’t attempt nothing family related just keep to myself.

When you move in silence you get better results and definitely protects your energy!!!

I never thought Kelly Rowland would give me the insight I needed. 🙏🏾

I always say this ! “ STAY EXCLUSIVE”,like Beyoncé for example, she don’t show up to every award show! But when she do , she’s appreciated more!

It’s always better to exceed people’s expectations in the real world than struggle to live up to the portrayal of yourself you’ve painstakingly curated.

I quit social media in January 2020 almost 3 years ago and my life has never been better! My friends and family are always wondering what I've been up to and what not but Im loving my privacy so much!

“Nothing in this life is owed to us, everything in this life is a gift to us” ❤

Very good tips. I do most of it and I had friends that were annoyed and said "you do everything on the down low!" It just made me laugh cause they are really just haters and it feels good just keeping most things to yourself.

Matthew 10:36... "Your worst enemies will be members of your own family" So sad, but true! Stay strong and blessed! 🙏💜

Why she looks like Kelly Rowland...Good message.

I’m 15 and just recently began doing this after seeing how addicted my peers are to keeping everyone updated with what they’re doing and being in competition with each other to see who does or has the most. I just got tired of it and decided to let go of these overstimulating apps for a couple of months and see how my life improves. Also, my “friends” hardly check up on me anymore. You see who’s really there for you.

I can relate so much. I got a new car earlier this year myself & literally as soon as I posted it not a month later i could feel the energy shift from certain people. Some people( true friends) remained the same but others stopped hitting me up and wanting to hangout with me. It’s disappointing that they acted that way towards me but on the flip side I’m glad God revealed to me who needs to stay in my ife and who needs to depart from my life! Thanks for the vid… great points!

I agree! Moving in silence is key. Many people talk way to much and speak on personal matters. And are upset when they are judged for it. I also dont like talking on the phone and having friends. That becomes a headache and obligation in the long run. Moving in silence is also so important for us black women especially because people are always observing us and studying our every move.

I love how you mentioned that you don’t have to say how humble you are & let your life be the living testimony of that! 🙌🏾 I’ve always asked “Are you really humble if you have to say it?”… This video is great! 💕

Valuing your privacy and what people Don’t know won’t hurt them because of what you know

I'm glad you made this video. I'm learning how to move in silence, because some people don't have your best interest. Thank you!

Truth!....I always move in silence. My Mother told me , Never let your right hand know what your left hand is doing. I learned early in life!

Especially in the age of social media where we feel obligated to update every minute of our lives, this is a welcome advice. Anyhoo to love in silence stay away from all social media !

I identify a lot with this video…I do a lot of these things naturally. I usually never post on Instagram unless I’m going out, so naturally people think I’m always doing something fun, going to “pretty places”, or just always put together…when in reality I’m a homebody. Great video!

Definitely resonate with your video. Im 32 and nvr had instagram social media or any of that stuff. Most of my energy is just spent on doing things that make myself happy and not using too much energy to curate this image of myself to the world to prove I'm anything. I'm very protective on my own energy and privacy is such a valuable thing to have ...its helped me build my own confidence in who i am ...completely outside of the ego

This has been the way I move since I became an executive director of a nonprofit. 99% of my social media content is events/programming that I'm hosting, collaborating with, or supporting. Absolutely no personal or family drama, and political posts are spare. There is so much peace when you stunt on 'em in silence, and make their jaws drop at your hard work. Don't say anything about your goals and plans until it's time. Hit the gas on 'em when they have no idea how you made big moves.

12:13- "Moving in silence involves humility." That's it right there ♡

Thank you for this video I love your energy just like mine. I cut just about alllll those talking heads and flying monkeys out of my life. I had to learn to shut the hell up literally. shut them down. I now move in silence and it is absolutely incredible what you can accomplish. I am manifesting, achieving great things and none of those from my pass know about it I can show you better than I can tell you.. I love talking, a born speaker with a gift to gab, I had to STOP. I was wondering what took my blessings so long to show up; I was talking too much and the energy vampires was right there waiting to tear my shit down. So glad I woke up. Peace and blessings to all who discovered this video YOU are a Blessing Evie ty..

You must be mu spirit twin because this is exactly how I move. You have more peace in your life when you move in silence.

Beware of people who asks you personal questions about your life! Where you live, where you work, how's the family ect.

Humility and less attention being okay and accepting was a true gem 💎 thanks 🙏🏾

Thanks for sharing this educational moment with us. Sometimes we make the mistake of announcing our next step thinking every one is going to celebrate your journey. That's not always the case.

You're never a loser until you quit trying.amen

GOD has such funny sense of humor!! I didn't even type anything but your video was recommended in my feed and I've been feeling like for the past month during this ME SEASON. It's my time to be alone and move in silence. I haven't been doing that I'm been doing too much talking. But after watching your video it has given me so much clarity and understanding and A SIGN. Thank you for taking out the time to create this video!!

Being in quarantine helped many to go into true stealth mode. Now, y'all outside, but it's super easy to maintain when the folks who needed to be out so bad, are talking so loud to overcompensate, they don't even notice you've slipped away.

I agree. Moving in silence preserves energy. 🌻

VERY powerful word today, I am now moving in Submarine silence...No more talk. Confirmation.

Thank you for sharing.❤️‍🔥🔥 This reaffirms many of my core beliefs and values. It also reminds me of the scripture Matthew 7:6. It speaks about not casting your precious pearls before swine. Over the years, I’ve completely changed how I use social media. I value my privacy and I just don’t believe in giving people a free and open window-glimpse into my life. Curiosity motivates people more than compassion, and I like to be in control of what people know about me. I also think that some people are only meant to be in our lives for a season, so I’m not really into “following” people from my past when they have no relevance in my present or future. (Ex: high school classmates) But that’s just one opinion. I loved your message. You have a new subscriber.❤️

“The pop out only counts when you’re not always out.” 👏🏾👏🏾

I am trying my very best to move in silence God , I just want the right people by my side & I trust my intuition & my discernment & I’m a chosen one woman 👩 & I been protecting my energy & my energy field & I’m listening to my intuition ; - Kim 👩🙏❤️😇

Ms. Lady, you are on target! God gave me this message months ago, as I move towards my dreams, silence and learning to love myself has given me strength, peace, clarity and real insight into how others react to your silence and humility!

Thank you so much for this video. I’ve always been like this, very private and naturally misterious (not making myself cool for that). I don’t use Instagram or social media since never and when I post is something cute with my face or whatever and no location. I don’t go to parties and I only show up to good and valuable people that genuinely love being around me, understand it and are happy with that. I always thought, until now that I’m writing this, that I was a freak weird, but always very chill and happy, valuing my time and space and keeping it to myself. The ghost mode I say 🤣🤣 Jokes aside, thank you so much again, I’m proud of us girls that we value ourselves to the most!!!

This just confirmed the way I choose to move. Everyone feels like if you don't post it, it never happened & that far from factual. Quality over quantity is truly a lost art in itself.

Beauty and brain. Exceptional beauty and I am proud to call you my African queen... .

I’m a shame of having all of my business all out on front street not because I’m ashamed of my life …but because I truly believe everyone doesn’t deserve to know about my full life💕 Private life

Ok 👍🏾 Really factual I used to be a very quiet person that lacked no confidence in communicating appropriately and when I need to communicate something But I was diagnosed with schizophrenia a couple of years ago and I don’t believe them I’m a Christian and I’ve always believed the reality of the matter is that saying less is saying more And protecting my energy People now think I’m always hiding something or holding back rather than silent It’s difficult but I think it’s important to keep an eye on the words I use and things I do Say to and around others and my energy But thanks for this this was great 👍🏾 I’ll always look for a way to keep my peace ✌🏾

My uncle still has this beautiful African tribal mask on his living room wall that looks just like her. Has those really strong facial features, hair and vibrant colors.

I just had this thought last nigh before I fell asleep. I’m on a journey to actualize my most authentic self. Thank you for sharing this powerful message.

Never announce departures, only arrivals

Yes absolutely, applying for my Phd in creative writing and keeping it totally silent.

I must I agree keep yo shit in silence. I tried to be nice and a mentor by telling friends and family about my business ventures but it only led to hate and jealousy. It suck’s that it has to be that way . Keep it to your self 😊😊

The fact that it’s Friday the 28th and it’s Halloween wknd is blowing my mind🤯😭 definitely needed to hear/see this. I get so excited at times and want to share what God is doing in and through me and a lot of times it’s not met with the same enthusiasm. God has been telling me ALL of what you’re saying. Thank you for sharing💕 stay beautiful... inside and out. Praying your channel grows in mighty ways✨

"talk is very cheap" I love you girl

It's amazing how I am hearing this so much now. I have adapted this concept over many years. I even do this in the work place.

Privacy is so underated.

“Don’t tell anyone your business”. My aunt told me that when I was 12.

*the 'exact' reason why i don't show my face online. brilliant advice!!! bravo!!!* 🤫

Silence is Golden !!

Another reason why it's very important to move in silence, is the fact that when people know that you're seeking validation for your possessions, they will exploit you! In other words, they know that you're insecure, and you seek other people to validate you. Ultimately, they will pretend to care about you, just to gain access to the resources you have.

You're so right Evie, do not let anyone know your plans. I didn't want people to know my plans, but I had to tell them my plans because I want to become a police officer and to become a cop you must tell your whole family, co-workers, former co-workers, bosses, former bosses, neighbor's, former neighbors, and former classmates because the chief of police would have to do a background check on you if you want to become a police. However, I didn't want to let any of these people know what I was up to but a police officer told me if you want to be one of us you're going to have to let everyone know and you're going to have to go searching for your old elementary, middle, and high school friends. I told my friends that I want to become a cop and they will have to answer questions to a police about me how I acted in school or would I be a great cop? And they was like "You want to be a cop?"

This came up in my feed and I'm so glad it did. Growing up, my mom taught me not to reveal all my cards and announce every move I made, which made people wonder about what we were doing! I'm going to watch this again, this is a great video, because every you said I've done something similar. I feel like too many people in my age range, basically my peers (i.e. 18 to 35) are really into posting everything they do, at all times, trying to keep up with the Joneses, keeping up with the status quo and compete with each other. That's not me at all. And one time I didn't post on social media for over a year at different periods of my life. It's definitely true I've leveled up by moving in silence. I come off as mysterious, but at the same time some of my peers wonder how i did it. I only mention things to people I trust, and I don't announce right away until the deed is done...Anywho, thanks for making this.

Wow this is such a beautiful message .I can sense the mix of gentleness but strength inside of you. This is the balance everyone must strive for be humble enough to know your not better than others but confident enough to know your worth and value .thank you got this video saved

You are God sent. This video is what I have been doing for the past 5 months. I used to be a very chatty person but I just stop posting and telling people alot about me. I thank God I did.

This is everything, best way to flow 🦋

10 things to quit for all Strong Men: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it) 7. Chasing meaningless relationships 8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩 9. Wasting time by scrolling social media 10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list

Love this video. Let me share a small story of mine as well. I am appearing a very important examination, and I needed to refer previous year question papers. My friend wanted to help me but she had given them to another friend from our friend circle, so she told me to get it from her. That friend said sure but is now trying to find ways to avoid me. It's just long gone question papers. There's no guarantee that I would pass by referring those papers but this little issue taught me a big lesson. When people, even friends see you working on something, they don't wanna see you win. I will be more careful and guarded around my female friends.

Well said Queen 👑. I definitely move in silence, it's the way the streets raised me at one time. Salute

Boom 💥 sooo true!!! Love this. Thanks sis

So true indeed and so wisely said. Big thumbs up girl

Thank you sooooooo much Sis, I am right where I need to be without regrets . I'm just moving in silence!

Girl, this is GOLD.

Thank you for this video my new way of living, I’m a Sag and I tend to over share everything so now I’m learning how to move silent.

Love this reminder to listen more than you speak, it's totally something I want to incorporate more in my life!!

So crazy that this video popped up on my recommendations this morning....I always 'move in silence," and will continue to do so.

Do what's good for you: mental, physical, financial, emotional . Spiritual.. do you , regardless

i desperately needed to hear this!!

Thank you for this incredible message. You're a breath of fresh air. Keep doing your thing! You're incredible.

Hello, my 1st time watching your video. I am a foodie. I love taking pictures of my food when I go out to eat. I also like my privacy and/or boundaries to be respected. I definitely post my food pics when I get home. ALWAYS! *Great piece of advice.* You look gorgeous by the way :)

I RESTRICTED ALL MY VIRTUAL FRIENDS IN MY MESSENGER ..TO PROTECT MY INNER PEACE FROM GOSSIPS AND ALL I CARE IS ABOUT MYSELF AND LOVE MY SELF WORTH..SO I COULD CONCENTRATE FOR MY HEALING AND MOVING ON FROM TRAUMA

Your words are 100% right !

This is exactly how I move! I’m glad you shared.

This is my third time watching this video. I absolutely agree with the content and will always come back for a reminder.

Thank you for this video.. I use to be very reserved growing up I don't share anything... being an adult I felt like I've been judged so I find myself explaining alot till I become the person who shares almost everything and it's depressing... even though I'm making moves feels like I'm not progressing

What an amazing lady, radiating positive energy, much love and blessings 👊

Major gems were dropped. Love all of this!

Great video and totally agree! I NEVER post anything regarding my current whereabouts. Ever. I have a very close friend who literally posts a trail of what she's doing and who with. Whenever there's an event, you can expect a photo collage to immediately follow. She knows that I do and she got to the point where she said why be on social media if you're so private? I use it to keep in touch. Honestly, I don't like everyone knowing everything I'm doing. Maybe I don't get why people feel it's very important to let everyone know every move they make or don't make. What I do is, if I find a new place to shop or eat, I'll post a photo or two of the food/products and the name of the physical stores and/or websites. Yes, it's about sharing. But, many things should be kept private. I'm with you! Too many people about, you won't see me out and about. I'm home. Yes, I love Halloween! However, not big on parties these days. Moving in silence, I definitely do. Showing off possessions is what they call these days, flexing. First of all, it's fake. They themselves can't afford these things. They buy them on credit. If one is making payments, they don't own those things. Besides, again, I don't want everyone knowing what I have or don't have. You'll end up with relatives/friends you didn't know you had! A lion never has to tell anyone it's a lion.

A woman after my own heart! Thank for this much needed discussion.

exactly! thank you! and PERFECT PERFECT timing

Your right queen 👸🏽 🥰🫶🏾 thank you for this .

So glad I found you ❤ I’m in love with your vibe. It’s given poise and elegance 💋

EXCELLENT WORDS OF WISDOM. THANK YOU SO MUCH.

Good Advice!! Sister. Stay Beautiful!✌🏾

I want people like you to be around me!