Life after divorce ft Phidra | The Unpopular Opinion UG 

I have too much respect for women who raise their head high and say enough is enough and leave toxic marriages

Great discussions here! Here is my 2 shillings!! It would be helpful to reach out to men and get the other side of the story. These stories need to be shared in their entirety so that we get a 360 degree picture!! I'm also looking forward to seeing a healed but divorced couple come on and retrospectively talk about their failed relationship...it's possible!!

Moderators kept interrupting guest and had so many comments . Would have been nice to just hear guest story without offering too much inexperienced advice.

There is a recent decision in the case of Ambayo Joseph V Aserua Jackline where court held interalia that contribution towards matrimonial property can be monetary and or non monetary, Non monetary can be things like emotional support to the spouse, doing house chores, paying bills etc.

A child can never fix a relationship. Infact, if the relationship is not stable. Most relationships scatter when children come in. One thing i have always told my self is to always choose peace and i hope when i have a daughter one day she will always know when to leave. Went to school with Phidra back in Taibah. She was a few years ahead of me.

Attachment to your abuser is Trauma Bonding.Most Abused Women confuse it for Patience

Prim is hilarious....3am is the hour the Holy Spirit fixes men🤣🤣🤣😅

The things women go through 😢😢. A dentist just poisoned his wife through a protein shake recently he pretended to lovingly make for her. Sometimes Divorce helps avoid all this.

I wish the next conversation could be about coparenting after a divorce. Otherwise these are insightful discussions.

I went through a lot of financial crisis after my divorce, I had to raise my two kids alone, Currently I'm living smart and frugal with my money,bought my third house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me; even till now I earn monthly through passive income. I'm planning on retiring when my kids finish college,just hope it encourages someone that it doesn’t matter if you don’t have any of them right now, you can start TODAY regardless your age INVEST and change your future! Investing is a grand choice I made. Great video!

When you know you did your best,that’s all you need.that was my comfort and no regrets

These are the genuine converstions that motivated me to start a you tube channel. These conversations have to be normalised because many people are suffering silently. I walked out of a 12yr tiring relationship. I didnt know where i was going, its a year and a half now. I have settled down, the sense of independence that comes with it, the peace of mind, the self love and the detemination to move on is unexplainable. I am very sober now, and i know there is always light at the end of the tunnel. I will be streaming our full real life stories anytime soon. Women especially, need to be freed from these overwhelming stuationships.

“did they beat you?” …

Thank you ladies.

Watching this show has healed apart of me.

Thank you so much for this episode. The whole attachment syndrome is so damaging. You just feel like your life can't go on without that person. It is a month since I left a relationship where I was always being gaslighted and getting the silent treatment. I was emotionally abused but after the breakup, my heart feels lighter

I love Phidra’s voice . Also, our parents never tell us anything until we go through the same things 😭😭 i don’t understand why!!

I wish the guest was able to complete her sentences and was asked more questions 🤗but it's a comphrensive conversation I just wanted to hear her story...I cancelled my wedding two weeks before it was to happened.

For the most part, I am an effective communicator, but with an ex spouse who thrived at verbal violence when asked to engage in productive communication, silence was and is still my (plus several others) shield of self-defence and protection, not passive-aggressive behavior. I am only responsible for my behavior, not the other adult.

Wow wow wow,this was sooo great. So great. I feel like when women discuss things like emotional abuse or psychological torture,it's not seen or taken seriously as physical abuse(of which even physical abuse in some places is excused). This conversation was really really great, I wish everyone had access to therapists or counselors coz man,it's hard out here! Thank you so much ladies for this.