Life in Hawaii 🌺 14 | Our Kids Plan & What About Bella When We Start Traveling the World

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Bella has been a true blessing to us, and we are filled with happiness and gratitude for the time we've spent together. Although our days with her are limited, we will cherish every moment we have. Our neighbors, who used to care for Bella while we were away, have decided to adopt her as their own. We understand that Bella is an independent outdoor cat, free to roam as she pleases. So, we have also informed the new owners of our home about Bella's situation. With two families looking out for her in her familiar territory, we know she will be a content and joyful cat.
I want to emphasize that my choice of not having biological children doesn't diminish the incredible love I've experienced as a stepmom and pet parent. I simply hope that my choices will be respected and acknowledged in the same way.
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@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

Bella has been a true blessing to us, and we are filled with happiness and gratitude for the time we've spent together. Although our days with her are limited, we will cherish every moment we have. Our neighbors, who used to care for Bella while we were away, have decided to adopt her as their own. We understand that Bella is an independent outdoor cat, free to roam as she pleases. So, we have also informed the new owners of our home about Bella's situation. With two families looking out for her in her familiar territory, we know she will be a content and joyful cat. I want to emphasize that my choice of not having biological children doesn't diminish the incredible love I've experienced as a stepmom and pet parent. I simply hope that my choices will be respected and acknowledged in the same way.

@tseringtsomo5049 Год назад

I am so glad that Bella has two families looking out for her. It's wonderful to acknowledge that Bella is an independent outdoors cat and she will be most suitable to be that way. That makes me so happy. 🥰 much love to everyone.

@dnonya5208 Год назад

You do you sweetie ❤....no one should ever tell anyone what they can do with their life, kids or anything personal ....you have a beautiful life with hubby, that's all that matters for now!!! Wish you nothing but happiness ❤❤

@julzamidala2865 Год назад

❤❤❤

@katoduck Год назад

Who was the young man who used to appear in your older videos when you lived in Texas? Brother?

@animalsarebeautifulpeople3094 Год назад

Of course your choice not to have kids is just fine! Not only does it not trample on anyone elses' rights (like "choosing" to eat someone else's flesh) but with 8 billion human animals gobbling up the earth's resources (especially if they are paying to force into existence 80 billion victims every year just for theur taste choice) bringing less people into the world is the best thing you can do for mother earth, next best to not eating animals and their secretions. 😊👍

@sylviaz1987 Год назад

There is nothing wrong with NOT wanting to have children. I have 2 kids myself but I believe it is a personal choice what others decide to do and certainly not my business if they do or do not want to have kids!

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

12 kids?! 😱 super mom 😎

@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 Год назад

@@SeonkyoungLongest No hunz, she said "2"! 😁

@blumberg1982 Год назад

Exactly!!

@CaliChronicles Год назад

I definitely remember you covering this years ago. As another woman who didn't have children, (but am raising my husband's children) I completely understand and support you. There's more to life than reproducing.

@hauckb87 Год назад

As a fellow Korean/Asian American woman, thank you so much for boldly and bravely stating your choice not to have children. It’s nice to know that I am not alone 😊. Our community is very child-centric and you know how the Ajjumas can really put on the baby pressure so it’s nice to see someone from our culture hold true to themselves and live their best life!

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

Don't argue with older Ahjummas!! 😂

@meagtoothman4872 Год назад

Thank you for this!! I have been married to my husband for 14 years and we have had zero desire to have children. We are perfectly content with it just being us. I know great love with my husband. I never wanted children. It’s not weird. It should be normalized as much as choosing to have children. STOP ASKING THE QUESTION!

@marybateman8622 Год назад

I have a 44 year old son that since the age of 2 knew he would not have children. He and his wife of 18 years have never regretted it!

@gabrielastoica1030 Год назад

No one has the right to tell you or any other woman, that you should have children! Congratulations on your plans and endeavors! 😁

@alexandraforse Год назад

As someone who has been happily married for 10 years without children, I have always thought it was intrusive and ignorant of people to ask that question. Some women are content without children and some women cannot have children or have suffered miscarriage(s). Meaning well does not mean it's acceptable or harmless.

@callisto744 Год назад

I feel the same way as you do about having kids. I also feel sad that you needed to say this because people ask you so much

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

I thought if I ignore them, they will stop asking. 😂

@shc6783 Год назад

You are supported with whatever decisions you make about your body and your life!! No one should judge you or have any opinions on what you do as they are not living for you. I hope that people respect your boundaries moving forward!! Sending love and aloha to you and wishing you both safe travels! So excited to see where you both go and what foods you eat!

@rloeun1 Год назад

As I mom of 2, there is more than life than just having kids. I love my kids, but I wasn’t put on earth to JUST have them. Nothing wrong with not wanting kids. I also love to travel so that is my other passion.

@bkm2797 Год назад

Totally agree with you about not everyone wants to have babies, it's the hardest job on the planet to raise a child to become a healthy adult. Looks like everything is coming together, and it sounds like you have a new homeowner. You guys are such good people making sure the kitty will be well taken care of...good karma. Thanks for the update Seonkyoung and Jacob.

@kiute.c Год назад

As a huge cat lover with two of my own, I’m gonna miss seeing Bella in your videos. But I am so happy to hear that your neighbors are adopting her and that the new homeowners will know that this land is hers

@ladycapulet0662 Год назад

Nothing wrong with not wanting to have kids. You can live a very fulfilling life either way. So much love and best wishes to you and Jacob on the next chapter in your life. ❤️

@LisaTedescoVC Год назад

I have seen so much in my 40+ years of cat rescue. So many people forget about the needs of the cat. What you are doing for Bella is selfless and absolutely in her best interest. Bravo! And safe travels!

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

Thank you!

@teachercarli Год назад

Seonkyoung, thank you for being vulnerable AND for speaking up for those of us who have found fulfillment and happiness without children. There are so many reasons why people choose to not have children, and it makes me so upset that people judge you for not wanting to have children. It makes me wonder if these are the same folks who judge you for no longer being 💯 plant based. I chose to not have children due to my husband having a serious car accident and acquiring a lifelong painful injury. We are doing just fine living our "close to home" life (chronic pain can be difficult). Am I jealous of those who had children? Nope. Am I jealous of those who can travel? Nope. Do I try to tell other people how to live? Nope. But I too have been on the receiving end of comments regarding not having children, especially as I am an elementary school teacher by trade. There are enough kids around me... And they go home to their parents each night while I get uninterrupted sleep. 🤗

@ima7333 Год назад

I think i’ll stick to my comment on the previous video. The fact that i noticed Seonkyeong finally look happy and at peace with herself gives off a glowing vibe. A vibe of contentment that usually associated with being pregnant though one does not need to be pregnant to feel content & loved. Being happy and at peace is the most important in life aside from being healthy. Seonkyeong & Jacob, please stay healthy and happy. I’ll be happy to watch any part of your travel that you guys are willing to share with the internet. I love you guys since the very beginning of Asian food at home. Despite a bit hard to watch Seonkyeong struggles, i still watch your videos to support you. I’m so glad you finally come to term with whatever it was that bother you and let it go. Maybe it was the food that attribute to it, maybe it was the stress or the combination of all. I’m wishing you guys all the best wishes going forward.

@maixiong5790 Год назад

What really matters is you and your spouse are on the same page when it comes to having children. Having children is not what makes a marriage complete. Glad that you and Jacob are doing well and wishing the two of you the very best on your new journey. Cannot wait to see the vlogs from the new places you two will be embarking on. 😊😊

@Christinaanncat Год назад

Like you I have always known that I did not want children. I heard the same things as you. I am now 50 and childless. My mind has never changed. People finally stop asking about having children when you reach your early 40s.

@Frannylee1206 Год назад

Thank you so much for sharing your life with us! You're so awesome! ❤

@chokladpudding96 Год назад

I love when you speak in korean, it just feels so real and honest like you can be your true self. Also can you please share your skincare routine cause you are literally glowing?! 😍

@ratihsulaiman9122 Год назад

I am so happy to heard that Bella is safe and will be taking care of! ❤️❤️ I cannot wait to see yours new video of yours adventure! Good luck to both of you! 😘😘

@mariem6637 Год назад

People need to stop assuming all women want children. Asking such a personal question is very rude yet normalized in our society. If they decide to have children and they share then great but don’t apply pressure by asking. Having a child is a huge personal decision and everyone has their own person reasons for having or not having. I love the decision you guys made for Bella! Selfless act to consider her environment and what would be best for her.

@JohnKooz Год назад

If there are great moments of self-validation like those present in your video, then it's a superb one!

@Maoshelly Год назад

I totally agree with you! I hate when ppl ask about having children, when and why not? It's so rude! You never know what someone is going through. It upsets me alot. When i was younger i wanted children. But as I've grown up i dont anymore. If it happens unexpectedly ok but i take precautions to avoid that. And as i keep growing, the more i don't want children. Yes they bring happiness into lives but it doesnt guarantee happiness. Some people think having children will save marriages and i think that is so wrong. To bring a child into the world just for that purpose. But i highly agree with you! ❤

@newleaf_22 Год назад

Hi Seonkyoung! 👋 I always loved your recipes.... But I'm really enjoying your vlogs these days where you open up about different topics and share your life changes with us. Alot of what you share is super relatable.. And I find strength in your words. Thank you🙏 and can't wait to see your Travel adventures. Rooting for you! ❤️💕

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

Love you!! ❤

@newleaf_22 Год назад

@@SeonkyoungLongest 🫶

@sfveganfoodie Год назад

You are so right about people who don't want to have children being judged. I honestly have the exact same opinion as you about having kids. Don't want them, don't need them. I'm perfectly happy being an aunt. I'm sorry people were asking you rude questions. Spending money on traveling instead of kids is the exact way I would want to live! Have a great time! Can't wait for the travel vlogs!

@graceishikawa8736 Год назад

Soooo glad Bella has the neighbors that love her and will tahe care of her. Your decision not to have children is your right. Wishing you all the best ib yoyr travels.

@rhondasargent9960 Год назад

Congratulations on your new adventure! Looking forward to future vlogs.

@billie869 Год назад

Best wishes on ur travels. What an exciting chapter in ur lives. ❤

@GeekeryDo Год назад

I'm so glad you shared your perspective on the child-free-by-choice issue and you explained it so perfectly, even when nobody needs to know and the questions are invasive and rude. I hear all the same things from folks with children all the time and it just gets to the point that it's insulting... like somehow my life is not complete unless I do this thing that they did. We're all different!

@helenlulublah Год назад

I’m gonna miss Bella so much❤

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

Us too 😭❤️

@asynchronicity 4 месяца назад

When Jacob tries to sound like SnoopDogg it is so charming.❤

@janeshammas Год назад

Wish you both peace and happiness on your new journey! We will all miss Bella ❤

@elizabethk7295 Год назад

Good job speaking your truth and your heart! Not everyone needs to be a parent in their lives! You go girl!

@valkyrie0001 Год назад

Oh I really like the churu spoon you have for Bella, I'll have to look for one. 😊 I'm sure she will be happy with your neighbors, thank you for taking care of her.

@matchaIatte Год назад

I have one child and my MIL has been bothering me since she was born asking when we're going to have the next one! The last time I saw her, she said my H and I weren't trying hard enough!!! Ew! She feels it's her duty as a grandmother to make sure the younger generation have children (even though she only had 1!). She has 8 siblings, my H's father has like 9. The world has changed SO much in one or two generations, I only notice a lot of these comments from the elders in our family's honestly. No one our age would ever say such things, it is VERY rude and potentially very hurtful. Not only do people just decide not to have kids, some are trying and can't for whatever reason.

@Valerie_socal Год назад

I totally relate with you in regards about the children thing. I'm 42 and Korean, married to a Russian for 13 years, and we have no plans to having children. I too never wanted. To the ppl that don't understand...not everybody wants kids! Period!

@roxanbradley91 Год назад

Girl, don’t mind what ppl say. You do you. It is bad etiquette to invade a person’s space asking personal question’s.You are the Master of your destiny & only you know what’s good for you. Keep up your good work & stay blessed.

@MT-kb8df Год назад

Children are overrated so if you guys are not interested good for you. I have three kids and they are all grown but they will not be taking care of us when we get old. We are on our own and they have their own priorities in their lives which are not concerning us. Hey! It is what it is with this generation. We took care of them and now they take care of their children. Enjoy your life together and be happy.

@yonyeezzoo8486 Год назад

오늘 브이로그 너무 공감하면서 봤어요..!! 저도 정말 같은 마음이에요 특히 아이를 낳지 않으리..이부분!ㅎㅎㅎ 아직 미혼이지만😂 굳건한 맘은 똑같아용! 아이 없이 행복한 삶을 살아가는것을 왜 설명해야하는지도 모르겠구요! 조금 민감함 주제여서 이런 말들도 별로라고 느끼실수도 있지만ㅠㅠ그런 의도는 아니었구오 너무 공감되어서 댓글 달아봤습니다ㅎㅎ!

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

공감받지 못할거라 생각했는데 저와 같은 생각이신분들이 생각보다 많으신 것 같아 왠지 안심☺️

@ftakenouchi1464 Год назад

Haven’t seen your channel in a long while p, I have to say the love and chemistry between you and your husband just so sweet and amazing it comes through! Both of you also look amazing and so fit. Congrats and keep up the great content!

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

Welcome back! Thank you so much!! 🫶🏼

@tanjaadrian7733 Год назад

I was wondering about Bella too. The food in your video looks amazing, as always ❤

@shannonperry9530 Год назад

I know, after losing 3 of my pets, that Bella was a such a gift for you! And girl, kids are all that but they are allot! I say it with love so people wont think I’m evil, but they are allot, they are human, ideas, feelings, actions… it goes on and on.. so just do you! That said as hard as it was I wouldn’t change it, I would just try to make it easier on the kid… real life sucks and we get it, but those adolescent years are HARD! I can’t wait to see what y’all do next!

@luci4087 Год назад

so excited for you and this new chapter in your lives. hope you guys stay safe and healthy.

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

Thank you!

@theblisteringdessamar8282 Год назад

Having kids is all about sleep deprivation and sacrifices. It is okay that not everyone wants kids. I hope some viewers understand this.

@TamVeeAK Год назад

Thank you for sharing your journey with us! I've been watching you since you lived in California and it's been awesome watching you follow your dreams and adventures. Your the same age as my oldest 2 kids and I treasure you and your beautiful spirit. I look forward to the next adventures you take us on!!❤😊 I totally agree with your decision on Bella thats her home and space plus I'm sure neighbors will keep you posted on her and you can always FaceTime when you're missing her❤

@rpaula3460 Год назад

Congratulations on the new life adventure! OMG! I went exactly through the same thing with my cat while living in Spain. But I move a lot and I can only try to go see how she´s doing once a year. The last time I went she was as happy and healthy as before, with the neighbors taking care of her for me. Before leaving I left a letter on the mail for everyone nearby so they knew the situation because she was also mostly an outdoor cat. I guess it was harder on me than on her because I miss her every single day!! But, life changes and we must accept the setbacks and be grateful! Good luck for you and Jacob

@lanel-2904 Год назад

Good for you for speaking your truth. Being a parent isn't the only way to find immense joy in life. Everyone deserves to the right to manifest happiness in their own way.

@daisycloud2855 Год назад

that lemon chicken pasta looks fire!! much love to you and Jacob!♡ been watching you for years, your vlogs and recipe videos are awesome, thank you for what you do. ♡♡

@Eunhyex3 Год назад

Girl you do you!!! Honestly you guys are making the MOST of your lives and I am here for it!!!! So so excited to witness all of your travels on RU-vid 💖 also love your Korean speaking voice!! 완전 걸크러쉬 뿜뿜이에요 😍😍😍 넘나 털털하시구 매력짱!!! 💘

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

좋게봐주셔서 감사합니당~ 😁🙏🏼

@chihuahuasrule1175 Год назад

It is rude for people to ask if you're pregnant or about having kids. I'm sorry you went through that on such a large scale. I think you handled them well.

@poppygirl09 Год назад

Love your vlogs! They are always so comforting to me. This one was especially so when you voiced your feelings and thoughts about having/not having kids, letting me know that someone else out there actually have been feeling and thinking the exact same things surrounding this topic. It is rarely talked about and therefore easy to feel very alone and not at all understood in. Being constantly questioned, since the norm to have babies are so deep rooted, is sometimes hard. Thank you so much for having the strength to shed light on this topic which also have brought others who share the same sentiments to comment, letting me know that I am not alone in it.

@Colette_Leroux Год назад

I am 30 years old and tied my tubes when I was 25 because I don't want children. It would also anger me when people assumed you were pregnant or always asked you if you were pregnant or going to have kids. Not all women want children. Not all men want children. Both my husband and I are child-free and his family sometimes doesn't understand and will keep asking when we're going to have kids. It's very rude and frustrating. Women are not reproduction machines. We don't all want children! And you're right about all those things people say. About not knowing "true love" until you have children and blah blah blah. So f*cking annoying. I've heard it all too. Our minds won't change so leave us alone! Greetings from Oklahoma! I'm excited for your future travel journeys!

@Howlingkorean Год назад

As a woman without a child, I feel relieved and free that I made the right choice for me and only me. It's crazy to know how strangers keep asking you about having children. I'm sorry you have to experience this, I sympathize with you and hope you continue to live your best and happy childfree life. 🥰☺

@bethsummerfield9855 Год назад

You spoke so delicately and eloquently on really personal topics today - I am sorry you are being berated with questions of children. Though you owe your viewers nothing, thank you for what you had to say on the matter! I love your vlogs and always get excited to watch them. Can not wait for future videos and to follow along on your next chapter! Wishing you the very best!

@MH-kj2ij Год назад

It’s nothing wrong with not wanting to have children. This is not the desire of all women and I totally get it

@michelleotani8901 Год назад

I remember when you first moved to Hawaii and moved into that beautiful house and showed off the vegetable garden and then introduced Bella for the first time! How you said Bella adopted you guys! 🤣 Well, now I look forward to watch your traveling vlogs! Can’t wait to see where you travel to first! Happy trails!!!!

@meganngeorge Год назад

It’s every woman’s right and should be *every* woman’s choice, whether or not to have children, without interference or judgement from others.

@kaylawolff4382 Год назад

Dang lady. You cook so amazing!🤩 Seeing everything you made and my mouth is watering. I’m loving the different ideas for cooking/eating for health. One of my huge blessings was a coworker deciding to move back to Japan and she had Mr. Cat. She loved him but left him in the United States because it’s so stressful for travel. I adopted Mr. Cat and he’s doing great. Life takes us in different places and that’s ok. My boyfriend and I keep talking about your videos and it’s been so joyful and entertaining for us both💕 I feel that we can relate on a lot of levels plus…we love your recipes.

@pacemarshall9358 Год назад

I've known since I was 4 years old that I didn't want children. Everyone laughed and said "that might change." At 14 I still didn't want children. Everyone laughed again and said "well, you're young! You'll change your mind when you're older." I didn't want children at 24 and people still didn't believe me. I'm in my 30s now and while my close friends and family are totally fine with this choice, I *STILL* have people in my life telling me I may change my mind or regret not having kids. Just know that I support you and the choices you make, just as much as I support those who do choose to have children. Every choice is valid.

@AnnieP-e5e Год назад

Felt the same way since I was a teen and got the same responses you did from family, friends and strangers. I love kids but motherhood just never held the same draw it had for other women. Decades later, my husband and I share a happy life together with no regrets about never being parents.

@TruthInADarkWorld Год назад

Thank you Seonkyoung Longest for sharing your thoughts about kids and you and Jacob's decision for not wanting children. 🙏🏼 💕 I am so happy to finally know your thoughts and decision on it. I hope I wasn't one that offended you by my curiosity but If I did I apologize. Thanks again for sharing! 🙏🏼 💕

@lornacrystal9784 Год назад

Well said about you and Jacobs views on not having a desire to have children. I respect your words so much! I’ve followed you for many years and love your food and personality ❤️

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

Thank you so much!

@_em_onade Год назад

Those earrings are stunning & suit you 🤌 And I’ll never get sick of watching your meal times. I want to reach through the screen and eat too. Continued best wishes to you and Jacob as you prepare to leave Hawaii ❤️

@JohnKooz Год назад

I, and from the looks of it, most all commenters, validate your ambitious life and support your decision to not have kids. Congrats on being centered and placing your own desires and dreams first. Another great vlog!

@lizziemarie5590 Год назад

Girl, I love that you are being honest and true to you regarding having children. It's hard especially for women because this is the societal norm. I would like to have children and I am constantly taken as be someone who chooses not to and am given a hard time because of it.

@michellefang6342 Год назад

Love ❤it! Thank you!

@lalalisafortuna8466 Год назад

I really like watching your video ❤ love from Madagascar ❤️🇲🇬

@wolf_ceit_witch Год назад

At 57 I have never ever wavered on my determination to not to have bilogical children. I have a fur baby and I am very happy.

@colleenkendallpeters1800 Год назад

Those nachos and the rest of the food looks delicious ❤️.

@golnaz.shoush Год назад

Honey u r beautiful inside n out, u r hardworking n wise❤ I’m a fan for yrs now, u r brave n honest ❤️❤️ just continue being u 🌈🌈🌈🌈 best wishes for ur travel life 💫💫

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

Thank you so much 🤗

@eprohoda Год назад

Hello- Bravo~ that's amazing , Seonkyoung.

@asianleo24 Год назад

I appreciate this video and speaking of not wanting kids. I’m 39 and I feel pressure all the time to have them. The video is relatable❤ love watching your journey:)

@Buttercookiesssss Год назад

I have 2 children and while I don't regret it, looking back my life would be a lot more different with no kids or just 1. It's a personal choice and sometimes I really envy my younger sister and hb who don't want kids. They can live wherever, travel whenever they want!

@MichelleNagir Год назад

It’s not easy to have it all but some of us could have children and travel. It’s not good to be jealous of anyone. I’m sure you have made the right choices.

@marijkeschellenbach2680 Год назад

There is nothing wrong or bad about not wanting to have a child. You know better than anyone how you feel and no one has the right to tell you what to do. Be happy together, enjoy your life and share the joy with us. Safe travels you two!!!

@csdesjarlais9779 Год назад

Cheers to you for standing firm on not having kids. I think it’s getting more and more common and young women are rightfully questioning their reproductive choices. I’m proud of you! I am extra sad about gorgeous Bella but I know you love her and are doing the absolute best for her. I just feel emotional for some reason.😢

@manexiong9400 Год назад

Been counting down the days to Maui so we can visit you at It's Cherry! OMG i'm so sad but so happy for your new journey!!!!

@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 Год назад

Those dishes alL looked so dang gooD! Would you kindly share your "It's Cherry" 🍒 burgers recipes with us? 😊

@Empowerjunction28 Год назад

OMG! I am with you on having children and why/when will you have children topic! I am now in my 40s, my family had given up now asking me this question lol. I have never wanted a child. I do love children and adore them, but do NOT want to have one of my own. For some reason, people feel that it is “wrong” to think this way. But guess what, we have freedom to choose what we want and how we want to live our lives! :) I am of a Korean/Japanese descent and our Asian culture is centered around kiddos, which is great, but not for me and my hubby :)

@nehj6102 Год назад

I've been a fan of yours truly. I've made some of your recipes. As well and I love them all. I've made them for my family and they loved them as well. So sad not to see you doing your regular cooking show anymore but I'm so happy for your new journey. I will definitely be following every vlog you make for your travel as I like to travel myself. Best wishes and travel well with Jacob 🎉✈️❤

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

Oh, I will keep up with the cooking videos!! 🥳

@AraYuannn Год назад

As an aromantic and asexual girl I’ve been told my whole life that I just haven’t met the right person my whole life and growing up my biggest fear is being alone unhappy without a romantic partner. I know that I’m aroace ever since I was in high school and no it does not change even when I get older, but what changes is that I realised I don’t need romance to live life and be happy. Everyone is born different and we all have different life so you should do what makes you happy 🥰

@BettyFeeler Год назад

That nachos and spicy pork loooks awesome!! Great video! I completely agree with everything you said!

@greenwoodreid3796 Год назад

I think when people know they don’t want children is empowering! Knowing you don’t want kids or wouldn’t be a good parent is better than having a child just because you’re expected to. I know if i had kids the child wouldn’t have a life it deserves. I also knew since being a teenager that i never wanted to have children.

@joey888 Год назад

Thank you for sharing your life with us! I started watching you about 10 years ago, trying to learn some korean recipes. Enjoy your life, your amazing travels, can't wait to watch the vlogs ❤️🙏👍

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

Thank you so much!

@krishnnapuican5667 Год назад

I respect your choice of not having children. I have 3 wonderful kids that I can’t imagine being without but I see this world has gotten harder and will keep on with so much evil, sadly to say. I see so many people not just children suffering and it breaks my heart to think my kids could suffer. Enjoy life while you can because you never know what’s instored for tomorrow. But please keep sharing you wonderful adventures with life and food ❤

@karenbenavente1124 Год назад

Im so happy Bella will be cared for and i hope they will love her alyays as much as you did And to have children or not is No body's business eccept yours and your husband's 🤗💞

@animalsarebeautifulpeople3094 Год назад

I must have missed what happened to the two adorable pigs that were in the farm when you first moved in? Can anyone tell me what happened to them? 😢

@MermaidmomUP Год назад

And for the second day, I'm crying again watching one of your videos. I'm so happy to hear of the plan for Bella. And sheesh, what's with people? I'd like for them to enjoy your content and stop the intensely personal questioning, wouldn't that be wonderful?☺️❤

@MermaidmomUP Год назад

And omg, that kimbap and jjolmyeon looked soooo good! 😍😋

@anwiel Год назад

I am in the same side as you with kids question. I am way over 30 and I still do not have any desire to have any, quite opposite I have to say. I ma more and more sure that having kids is not for me. And it is ok, nobody should be push into something that that person do not feel. It is personal choice. Also, I am happy that your neighbor will take care of Bella ❤

@SingLadyCaitlin88 Год назад

Thank you SO much for addressing that some women just do not want children. It is not what everyone wants and that's perfectly fine! You are happy and enjoying a fulfilling life with a wonderful partner and that's all you should continue to do, no matter what that means. I'm enjoying seeing your videos again and wish you all the best in your next chapter 💜

@SeonkyoungLongest Год назад

Absolutely!!❤️🫶🏼

@tinamisner1322 Год назад

Of course you should live your life as you see fit. Everyone has a different idea of what the meaning of life is and you should never be forced to live someone else's point of view.

@pamelahowe9138 Год назад

TY so much for sharing Bella's future , and looking ahead to following yours, your choices are yours, I also decided many years ago not to have biological children as had 3 stepchildren was enough for me, stay safe and God Bless

@eunvivianlee5275 Год назад

많이 힘들어보여요 맘에 평화를찾길바래요 응원할께요 🎉

@hello_randi Год назад

언니, 이비디오 넘넘 환영. 땡큐. 우리도 똑같은 의견이에요. 이해 헤주시는 분들이 믾이없네요. 삼부인과의사까기 볼떼마다 아이 얘기를 꺼넨단말이에요. Anyway, thanks again for this video, sis. Wishing you and Jacob all the best in your next chapter. A hui hou!

@carmelallador Год назад

I'm so sad Bella is not coming with you,I cried but thankful for your neighbors who will adopt her. I'm a cat parent too,I have 8 and counting...Anyway, good luck to the both of you. ❤️🙏

@cinnamonthomas6950 Год назад

I have been a fan of yours for years and although I don't watch all the time somehow this video mad me sad. I feel like your leaving for good. As for Bella I'm sure you made a good decision that I could never do I have 2 cats. As far as kids whatever you choose it is your life. Safe Travels cant wait to see your journey. Hope one day you can make it to Miami. I would love to meet you'll 😊