Sooooo, yeah I rambled on a bit more than I thought. MY BAD. But I'm back, sorta! I hope I can be a bit more consistent! Background music made by: me! Dug it up in my old files, HUZZAH!
I'm gender fluid myself and recently told my girlfriend, she freaked the crap out... the excited way. She thought that it was really cool and wants to have a girls day out with me. your videos are great. keep posting. :)
Hi! I'm a genderfluid in America, and your videos really help me You're the first person that I've found that was born a guy and went genderfluid, most of the public ones seem to be girls gone genderfluid and its a bit annoying But watching your videos makes me feel a lot better about myself, so now if I can just get the facial hair situation under control, I'll be all set ^^
Hit the nail on the head. Its all good there girls on vids turning gender fluid BUT we already know that too much. It took abit to find a male gone gender fluid without 80% of the being a female going male etc. lol So much appreciate finding someone to inspire my own coming out as gender fluid despite being so for decades.
Hi Grace, I just want to say that you do not need to apologize for ranting. I can't tell you how much I relate. Probably every conversation I'll have with my friends I go on multiple tangents and talk too much so you are totally good. I'm genderfluid to so maybe that's just a genderfluid thing, who knows.
Hi Grace! Speaking of Blur, what are some of your favorite bands/artists/songs/albums etc.? P.S We are quite similar! You are a huge inspiration to me and one day I hope to be as confident as you!! Thanks for the great videos!
Hello! When I get around to making my Q&A video, I'll do my best to answer that for you! =D Oh that's cool! I'm glad I can be such an inspiration for you, and it's great to build confidence, it's a great key to being yourself and being happy! And you're welcome! =D
I hope I keep making more videos too! Although they are kind of sporadic, SO BEAR WITH ME ON THEM! But they come out every so often =D Glad you loved the video though!
I just want to live alone for a while so that I can 'be myself' 😊 . I can totally understand the frequency of your videos and it's completely OK. I am currently binge watching your videos 😆. So please keep making them.
I recently came out as pansexual to my parents, and they were sort of weird with it- partially because they had no idea what that was, and also because I'm only going into 8th grade. (They have had good intentions and mostly positive feedback though since.) I am confident about my sexuality, but I have recently been wondering about my gender identity. I have always identified as a cis-female and have felt fairly comfortable with the term "tomboy", but as I have been experimenting with my sense of style I have begun to notice that I don't wear anything that a "normal" girl at my school. I feel most comfortable in sweatshirts, sweatpants, or baggy clothing in general. When I wear anything that is essentially "girly" or "boyish", I feel like my family and friends are judging me. But, I have always felt like a super-masculine some days and like a super-feminine on others. I LOVE heels and dresses, but I also am DYING to have a closet full of plaid button-down shirts and basketball shorts. I also enjoy a mixture of guy friends and girl friends (Most of my BFF's are girls though). I enjoy hanging out with my water polo team (The Guys) and also having sleepovers with my girl group. I'm also torn between keeping my long hair and getting it cut really short. Social media and my online life has been a big part in my coming out process. I have had a ton of support and I'm so thankful, but I'm not sure if I want to keep the gender-questioning part of me a secret or not. I felt I might have been a bit early to come out when I talked to my parents last time, so I sort of want to keep it a secret... I don't want to confuse people even more than I already have... Idk anymore... Help! PS (I have a tendency to write really looong comments- Sorry! :P)
Just bc you wear masculine clothing doesn’t mean you’re questioning your gender. It sounds like you’re a “tomboy”, as you said. But I’m sure you know that being that you’re about 16 now.
I'm not out to anyone but my exgf Alexis and shes really supportive. I just recently found out and your videos are helping me quite a bit but I dont think I'll tell my mom(my Dad isnt around) until im like 15-16ish because shes already throwing a fit about me being pansexual so the genderfluidity might give her a heartattack. I'll be on RU-vid soooon underneath 'Kohai-Kun' and I'll mention you quite a bit(:
Angel Neko-Chan That's awesome that your ex is so supportive! =D And I'm super glad that my videos are helping out!! =D Ahhhh right, yeah that's understandable about telling your Mum too, and that's awesome you'll be on the RU-vid soon!!! =D I wish you all the luck, and thank you for mentioning me! =)
Hey. I am Luke (today). I think you doing it so well and you can clearly show the differences. I have short hair (naturely) but my girlie me often want long hair again. But I don't want to be a Boy with long hair! I've already watched your Video about extentions but my Hair isn't long enough. And I think my familie do not find the differences about them. They call me (Luke) Freya all the time. It is annoying and really tricky. Can you help me in some of these questions?
Do you have any genderqueer friends? All of mine are cis and I haven't blatantly come out to most them either. I just want friends that understand. Also I love the background music, it's so happy :)
SillyLilyis I have one non-binary friend, and they're funny and awesome, and a transgender friend, and she is amazing =D though that's about it in real life, have a few friends online though! =D And thank ya! I made it myself a few years back now! =)
Question: I have lived as a boy all of my life and I have always had these urges to dress as a woman sometimes. As a kid, I would sometimes put on my mom's heels or dresses while no one was around and have even worn a wig or two, but I have never actually went full out. I have always wanted to but never have had the chance. I have recently come to the possibility of considering myself being genderfluid but I have never had the chance to find out. k don't know what to think about it because it's all confusing and I can't experiment at all because my family most likely wouldn't support it and it would be awkward to talk about. So my question is, what do you think I should do?
+Josh Mayfield (JPanda) Maybe you could do small things like paint your nails a dark blue, black, or gun metal color then gradually do more things like wear women's jeans, then start incorporating other pieces into your wardrobe like cardigans, bracelets, etc. When you get comfortable enough then tell them. That way it wouldn't be a complete shock. It might be easier to tell relatives like cousins first, and get there opinions on how to tell the rest of your family.
My cat? And yeaaahhh, I didn't get a chance to properly show it off because I didn't have much time =P Maybe in another video! I enjoy rambling, it's fun =)
U seem alot like me! XD sometimes a boy sometime a girl..... but im trying to start crossdressing as a female like u as well! ^o^ anyways loved seeing u in a video again! XD
I'm glad you can relate! =D Hahaha it's great fun being a bit of both at times =) I wish you the best of luck with dressing as a female! =) It was lovely to hear from you! =D
Manga Games Brad That's all good! =D Hahaha, the clothes are simultaneously the best, easiest, worst and scariest parts of dressing if you're not out xD Heh, it's surprising how many people in the world can be both, yet we almost never see it!
Ahhh clothes are absolutely brilliant!! I do agree with you there, people talk (god I know people talk). I think I'm lucky, because mainly, if I don't open my mouth people assume I'm female! At least from my perspective at least!
Hey Grace. I recently told my best friend that I'm gender fluid and tried explaining it to him. He doesn't understand how I can be a gender other than boy or girl though. I call my girly side Alyssa and my masculine side Alyn and he says he "strongly dislikes" Alyn since he doesn't really believe I can ever be a boy since I have female parts. How do I deal with this? I just can't seem to get him to totally accept or understand.
Elizabeth Haile Hey, that sounds like quite a difficult thing to try and explain to him, but I think it's important to stress that gender isn't JUST a biological idea of what's between the legs.. But I think in this case it's really really important to really try and help him understand what gender is, and really try and help him understand - education is key to help anyone understand - but if he can't understand, taking it in your stride is also good, for your own sake, try not to take it to heart - there are a lot of people whose world views don't always fit right, and often times when confronted with something they find different or scary, they lash out - but, if you try and normalise it, make it more understood and accepted, even over time - just little things here and there, he might come round to it eventually =) I do hope that he does come to accept and understand you one day!
Victoria Flores That's fair enough! You can message me direct on my Facebook page ( facebook.com/pages/Grace-Robertson/762928817118665 ) and you can talk about the personal stuff there =)
You blow my mind. You almost make me run out of words :D you're genuinely beautiful. This makes me look at people in a different way, including myself. I want to kiss you. 😊✌🏼️
Hi Grace! I'm a relatively new crossdresser on RU-vid. You are a inspiration to me. I consider myself genderfluid too! If you want, I just uploaded my first crossdressing video onto my channel. :)
Hi Lindsay! I'm glad I can be an inspiration to you!! =D It's pretty awesome being genderfluid I reckon, I hope to make a proper video about it at some point! =D I might just check out your channel! =)
youre like my friend who also crossdresses, and living down here in SD CA, he was known as a cholo by most of us but he came out to us and his girfriend, she was cool with it, i aint no gangbanger but all i can say is everyone was cool with it so be yourself as much as you can, because i never thought there would be the day were our latin community would accept my friend for who he is, so go out and let people know that this is what you want and this is what you like...my homie did, so you try haha
That's a really awesome story! =) I'm so pleased that your friend was able to come out and be himself =D I'm glad everyone was cool with it, that's largely been the reception that I've gotten from people too! That's fantastic that the community was accepting, ahhh I'm always so happy to hear about stories like this! * faith in humanity restored *
Ooh geez. Wish you're my big sister :D we can dress up together and doing lots of fun together :3 anyways, I'm a 15 years old CD which I guess... still in dilemma. Being a secret CD really sucks :( I need some advice from you :) maybe we can keep in touch by giving me your email or something? It would mean a lot to me :D btw, going to visit New Zealand this Holiday XD I guess u can show me fun places there ? Thanks Grace :D
Quick question and don't take offense to it because I am just genuinely curious. Are you gay, bi or straight? And are there straight guys who are gender fluid?
Jeffery Potato No offense taken - and the answer to this... well, TECHNICALLY, biologically speaking I'm straight - I like girls - buuuuuut then when genderfluid, I suppose when I switch over to girl I'm gay! Basically, end of the day I'm a person who is only attracted to girls =) And to answer your second question, technically yes, there are straight genderfluid guys =) buuuuuut then it's not quiiiite that simple as per the example of moi above xD
Come out now because it will hurt you very much when you get older in life. I came out late and my dreams went out the window I could of done better if i would came out earlier. P.s. stop calling yourself queer because you're not. Love sissygirl.
Was totally gonna do that, and then I didn't have time so I was like MAYBS NEXT TIME Y'ALL. (although if I did it in an accent like that I'd feel compelled to line-dance out of the room, so I probably won't do it in that accent)
same here,my parents doen't like it it when I turn into ah boy btw I'm also genderfluid,and I'm a girl and when i told them that im genderfluid they thought i was a lesbian like no! I'm not I'm genderfluid it's really hard to explain it to them arghhhh!!!...
Hahaha thank ya - I'm not sure, these are just things I hear through friends and family who've been to Walmart (I've never actually been to one), but apparently there are some gigantic ones that you can, apparently =P
Ahhhh that's fair enough! I live in a city, buuuuuuut it's basically a town compared to a lot of the cities around the world xD And no, I wouldn't put it past Walmart either =P they are scary big!
I can't wait until you are able to be yourself without having to deal with your parents. Small mindedness babe, all i can say. Slavery used to be thing.
I meant like a lesbian when your with a girl lol bt it's cool bt I was just wondering don't mind me I am weird and at the same time extremely intelligent bt the same not jk jk bt yeah was just saying because if I didn't know you was a guy I would of been like uh so jk jk bt anyway it's cool I think I said that twice. Lol
