SO, I thought I'd finally show my face a bit better for y'all to see =) My name's Grace, and here is my face (ooh, that rhymed). So yeah, I'm genderfluid. HOORAH!
It's awesome to see someone else who just has a lot of fun with crossdressing. I have been doing it for a while, and while I am fairly open, and enjoy being girly, I have a hard time finding others who are that comfortable with it, and who dont just do it for a fetish. I actually can relate very much to you, all the way down to the personality and living situation, I just wish I had friends like you to go out with!
Hakuna Matata It's great fun! =D And I do understand that - there's a lot of people on the internet and such who really enjoy it for the sexual elements, but if you look around and about, there's always people who dress and present themselves differently because they can, and a lot of the time, to feel more comfortable with themselves too! Keep on looking! You'll find friends around you to go out with!! =D
Hi, Grace. I discovered your channel a while ago during my own quest to discover my own gender identity. I finally came to the realization that I was gender fluid, and after taking some time to feel comfortable about myself and this discovery, I came out to select friends that I trusted, and then to everyone I knew. My friends were accepting and understanding, and while my parents were, too, I could tell that they weren't as comfortable about it as I would like. I'm hoping to further explore this new side of me and hope to one day be as confident to present myself as female in public. Your videos are amazing and I can't wait to see what you do next.
I so enjoyed your first speaking video. When I saw each of your older videos I used to think - that girls got a freakin BOD on her and she's going to be deadly gorgeous if she ever grows a head. And then you did and I was right! Two more things - I'd kill to have that cute nose of yours and both your partner and sister are dolls for being supportive.
Dude that is so awesome. I am Gender Fluid as well. I was born female but sometimes i feel like i am a male so i completely under stand. I love how you truly express your self
when I try to pass as a boy, the only thing that gives me away is my voice :/ I wish I could change my vocals whenever I want. Btw, you're really pretty :)
Ahhhh I know the feeling =/ I always get worried that my voice will give away me as not the gender I want to be... You know, that would be super awesome if vocal chords just changed voluntarily =D that would be the shiz xD And thank you =3
Be girly when you can whenever you want, and play with makeup! Just play with a whole lot of feminine things =) I suppose the best thing to say here is to totally embrace it =)
I guess that's my problem. I want to, and I have (nail polish is new for me, and it's kinda fun! ), but I feel, well, odd. I am gender fluid (thanks for setting me on the road) , so when I wake up as a male, there is some remorse. Any ideas?
Ooh yay nail polish! That's always a lot of fun =) And you're welcome for helping out with the genderfluidity terms =) Ahhhhh no I know when that kinda happens, I think when you're male you still need to remember that even though sometimes it might seem strange to you, it is part of who you are and there's nothing wrong with that =) there's no reason whatsoever to feel guilty about being feminine, I think that's the most important thing to tell yourself =)
You are one of a very few gendrefludid youtubers that seem 100% natural/"normal" and don't get even a smallest "ugh, I see and don't judge but still he/she feels kinda pervert and strange" which is totally awesome. Keep up with good work and don't give a fuck about haters :) Your vids helped me a lot to understand some of my more or less into it friends so thanks a lot!
I couldn't imagine anyone to whom it would be more suitable to just decide, day by day, if she wants to live the female or the male role. There simply are people who seem to be born to be that way (and others you have a hard time to take seriously) Grace, if you were my brother/sister I would do all I could to protect you from all evil and persons trying to talk you into behaving as a monogender.
Thank you Grace for revealing yourself. Its refreshing to see someone so normal and different at the same time. People like you make the world more beautiful and interesting. I'm curious to see how your look differs as a boy. Would you consider doing a video as such?
Thanks, and that's the wonderful thing about us human beings, we all can adhere to the stereotyped beliefs of "normality", and yet be so different and interesting and absolutely fantastic at the same time =D gotta love the world and it's pretty pretty people xD WELL, you never know, I might get around to showing off as a boy, and then go to girl mayhaps =P WE SHALL SEE.
Mathilde Doucet Well, no I wouldn't say I'm a different person at all - I still feel all the same, same personality, ideas, beliefs and everything - I suppose my mannerisms become a lot more feminine when I'm a girl rather than boy, but I don't feel like a different person at all =) if anything, I just feel like I express myself slightly differently! =)
Thank you! My makeup is pretty basic, but it still looks nice I think =) And do you mean pronouns? Because when I'm expressing myself as a girl, it's 'she', and when expressing as a guy, it's 'he', easy enough to remember! =)
Thank you! That's one of my philosophies in life, just try to be a good person =) heh, and thank you about the cheekbones, I think they're quite nice =)
Thank ya, I think I don't look too shabby =D and thanks! I do too, they're really cute dresses =) And greetings back from NZ! Annnnnnd we'll see, hopefully I'll get around to them eventually =D
this is the 1st video ive ever watched of yours but i'd just like to say you have beautiful eyes...im boy and lately ive been cross-dressing not fully not had any make-up yet but yea i wear my partners clothing sometimes because she leaves it at mine a lot so im kind of stuck with it so sometimes i just feel like wearing some of her stuff XD i have told her and shes not bothered because she's a pamsexual and im bisexual so its not too weird but im really scared to tell anyone else other than her mostly because im only 16 and am quite shy and im scared of how they'll react. could you possibly give me some tips? on how to tell people that is or just cross-dressing in general XD
Glad you like the video =P but it's good that you've told your partner and she's ok with it! =) For me, the best tip would be, with close friends - they generally are quite supportive =) If you blurt it out around them they should be ok! I always joked about it with my friends at first to see how they reacted, then just came out and told them! However, I told my partner first and she helped me build up confidence (confidence is key by the way! If you don't worry about being genderqueer, then your friends won't) - and if you are quite nervous, you could write a letter and leave it for whoever you want to know - that way you can get all of your feelings out easily enough without them interrupting, and you can explain it clearly and calmly =) I hope these tips help! Also with crossdressing, just play around, go out, buy clothes, find a style you like and rock it =D Also makeup is TOTALLY amazing so you should play a lot with that too, look up a lot of makeup tip videos and all sorts, they can be so helpful =D
I am struggling with issues similar, I don't know where I stand, genderfluid seems to make the most sense. Thank you for your videos they are so inspiring
I very much enjoyed this introduction and meeting you Grace. You certainly seem happy and comfortable with who you are. That's a great blessing. I hope your very cute video helps others to see how happy they too can be if they let go of their fear and cast off those who would try to keep them in some undesired pre ordained societal mold. You have a lot to offer the world. Keep it up!
jim track Thank you! =D I'm really glad you enjoyed meeting me, and I'm really hoping to try and help lots of other people be able to embrace who they are and enjoy being themselves =)Let's make the world a better place for everyone! =D
Honestly you look really pretty as a girl and no matter what your parents say you should express yourself plus thanks to you I'm a little more confident with being newly genderfluid
Bill Cipher Plays Games Thank ya! =) I have just gone and lived my life the way I want to, which is wonderful =) and hooray! I'm super super happy I can help you with your confidence, rock on new genderfluidian! =)
***** I painted my nails an hour ago and I'm like freaking out because I don't know what my family will do if they see this and I can't find the remover agh help
Lee Dastillung if your family sees it's not the end of the world but if you want to hide it I would wear gloves or have my hands in my pockets all the time or you could even say that a sibling did it when you were asleep and if you don't have siblings say it was a dare from your friend
Lee Dastillung I hope everything is ok! =) It can be really quite scary, but it would be ok if they came across it, like Bill said, there's always a way to explain it away if you're not comfortable talking about it =)
This video is a few years old, but I just wanna say that I love you now XD. I just recently came out as genderfluid, and I'm so happy that there are others like me. I go by Rose now, and I've kind of been learning things, getting used to everything. Hopefully soon I can start getting into makeup and clothes. It's kinda hard since my parents are pastors... Anyway, you've got a new subscriber!
Aren't we humans an interesting species? Its like being three things in one. There's gender identity, genitalia and sexual orientation. And when we are born, we are totally at the mercy of nature as to what combination of the three we end up with. And to make it even more interesting, one person can posses both genders, or both orientation and sometimes even both genitalia. Just an observation.
Humans are an incredibly interesting, fascinating, complex species - simultaneously why I love and hate them =P You make a very good observation! There's actually three aspects to gender alone (sexuality is separate) - there's biological gender (or genitalia as you said), gender identity, and gender expression, which is how we express our gender(s)/lack of gender. What's also fascinating is how much gender relies on society in order to deem what is male and female! If you look at a male and female who both have no hair, facial hair, makeup etc, it can actually be quite difficult to tell which gender is which! Crazy, huh?
***** Yes it is crazy....sometimes I think that Mother nature is simply having a good time with us. Masculinity/Femininity,... Society makes the rules of distinctions. And since we are a part of society, we can help to redefine those distinctions. As a closet crossdresser myself, I can relate to your feelings and experiences. Stay strong. And I know you will be ok. Judging by your responses to the comments i've been looking at. Lets just say that i've noticed that you have a..... "Ahem" healthy self esteem. lol
aloquicious heh, Mother Nature really just went to town on the human race, I think. But in terms of masculinity and femininity, it's all so divined by society and societal expectations, but then of course there are genetic factors! Oh gosh, what I love about today's world is how accepting and understanding it is becoming =) being closeted can be so difficult, but I think the huge relief that comes from coming out is wonderful. And you stay strong too, being closeted isn't easy in the slightest. Hah, yeeeeaaahhhhh, well I like to respond to people, and most people say how pretty I am. Also vanity. Let's face it, I am kind of slightly horribly completely vain =D
Thank ya! I'm not sure when I'll get a chance to upload next, so don't keep toooooooooooo higher hopes, but hopefully it'll be somewhat more regularly =)
I stumbled onto this channel when I realised I was gender fluid.. You helped me with so much , I came out to my parents after seeing your videos.. Your such an inspiration to me, for everything including my wardrobe.. Used to just wear shorts and tights now I got pretty dresses and I look well cute xx +Seadresa I love you and your channel !!!
HOLY SHIT I IDENTIFY SO STRONGLY WITH YOURE EVERYTHING fam this is helping my a lot! theres not much genderfluid stuff on the internet other than the odd article here and there and a fuckton of bigotry My gender doesn't remain static, so when its on one point of the spectrum or the other, its just one kind of dysphoria or the other...I don't change my presentation because Im afraid of judgment of others. But seeing you being true to yourself...it does another human a lot of good! I thought I was a binary girl when I began transition over 2 years ago, and the weird days were just my not being used to them. And then they became more regular. Im still female most of the time, but the rest of the time Im agender. Thank you for living your truth, and thank you for sharing it with the world
You're prettier than me (Not hard to do.) I'm jealouuuussss- Absolutely beautiful. And you're v inspirational for me! I am Genderfluid, my mum says it's just a phase so she wont let me buy a binder or have any sort of alternative... And my 'friends' say it's stupid and i am just looking for attention... But Hai!!! I'm glad I found you!
wow, your soooo amazing. your so lucky. Your beautiful as a girl or boy. I'm so jealous. Thank you for sharing your experiences and yes heels will kill you. The first time I wore heels out all night dancing I was sooo sore I could barley walk for 3 days. Stairs killed me. my legs were rubber. They were total stripper heels tho Lol. Thank you for all your post ;)
Greetings Grace I started identifying as genderfluid five years before you were born and for the reason you do, how I feel day to day varies, probably a bit more female than male. BTW there are an increasing number of young transgender individuals identifying as GF.
