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Losing my relationship and my home (HDB resale flat) 

Chow Jia Hui
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Finally sat down to share. Asked Eugene if he was ok with me putting this up and he said he's OK too. Think we both felt that we didn't have all this info when we needed it so we hope it's useful to others. It's been a real rough patch but I trawled through and survived so if you're in a similar pickle, you'll get by!
Also, as much as the monetary losses are a huge pinch, I understand why the system is built this way and why HDB needed to penalize our change of mind/heart. It's simply adding insult to the injury since the real pains came from the loss of our relationship. Money can and will be earned back eventually.
EDIT: I do want to highlight that our net loss wasn't stated in the video and the info provided is to give a rough idea of the upfront payments required from us upon the surrender of the flat.
I couldn't provide the detailed numbers because we weren't given the exact breakdown of what was interest and what was the grant. I can't recall the exact amount of grants received either because the EHG was calculated after the submission of all the documents and wasn't a whole number given to us at the point of application.
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@chowanmushi
@chowanmushi 2 года назад
Thank you @ EVERYONE for the warmth and support you've shared with me. I am immensely grateful for your kind words ❤️ And for those who have asked questions and shared info to refresh my very cluttered memory. That being said, I have some important factual clarifications to make! 1. Overaching cost I wanted to share in the video was the upfront payments/cash out we had to do because that was the big question mark in my head back then. 2. The ~77k was NOT a net loss! Apologies if I had misphrased it. While we had to pay the money back, the break down of this cost includes the housing grants that HDB had given us to purchase the house. Enhanced housing grant = ~20k Family Grant = 50k Any additional monies paid back was accrued interest. 3. The 48k difference in purchase price, while painful considering market conditions, is not something I think HDB should've done otherwise. Since an actual valuation of the flat would've allowed us to profit off the house, making it unfair to everyone else in the same system. 4. If I'm not wrong, the flat is sold in the sale of balance of flats, and not the open market. I do not know the sale price of our flat after it was surrendered back to HDB, so I cannot confirm whether or not HDB made a profit there. On a random sidenote, if you happen to be the new owner of our old home, please take good care of it! And I still get a ton of random deliveries to that old address because people don't notify me when they send things over sometimes, so please let me know if you've been taking my parcels LOL.
@ametrinenephrite7936
@ametrinenephrite7936 2 года назад
I too am facing the same issue. We share the same values, morals and we click so well but the “in love” and romantic feelings just aren’t there. I love and care for her like a sister and like family. She is perfect but i just can’t find the feelings back. I dont think i will ever find someone as perfect as her. Many long term couples say this is normal to love each other and not to be “in love” but i dont think i can live that way. So this relates so much to me
@4794Walker
@4794Walker 2 года назад
Hi Jia Hui, have faith and I believe you will find the right man to be with in the future. It is never easy in a relationship. But be brave and take your time to recover and take one step at a time. 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Years ago, I had a 7 years relationship with my ex girlfriend. We were preparing to buy our new home and planning for wedding. Unfortunately my ex girlfriend passed away in an freak coach bus accident in Norway while she was on holidays with her friends. I was devastated at that time. It was a a very tough time of my life, especially when we were a wonderful couple. We have things planned and bought. Take your time to settle all matters and remember to move on and don’t give up in your pursuit of happiness. Life is short, you will find happiness in future. May GOD gives you strength and wisdom. Take good care 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@Briguy1027
@Briguy1027 2 года назад
Wow super confusing, but I'm glad you figured out all of the finances. I hope you get back on your feet and will eventually get another house. Luckily you're still young so there's still hope.
@Varxde
@Varxde 2 года назад
Really appreciate your candid sharing of the frustrating experience 🙏
@matinfellani8187
@matinfellani8187 2 года назад
I’ve seen many couples rushing to get married or even buying a house in Singapore. Sometimes I wonder if it was true love or just a reason to find your own space. While I was living overseas, I had the chance to live by myself or when I dating someone, we got to share a space. It was amazing cause I got to see a different perspective in life. I’m sorry to hear this happened to you, this pain… it’s just temporary. You deserve to go on a long wild adventure, see the world, experience new things in life. Start looking at flights!
@TrackerJackerrrrrrrr
@TrackerJackerrrrrrrr 2 года назад
thanks for being so raw and intimate with your feelings on the internet! its not easy going through something like that but its life and its inevitable. stay strong! supporting you from afar!
@NicoleBernadette
@NicoleBernadette 2 года назад
Thank you for your vulnerability to talk about something so real and personal❤️ You’re inspiring many with your courage to share your story!
@jt8916
@jt8916 2 года назад
Thank you both, for agreeing that you share this so openly. You and us veiwers have learnt from what you went through. Yes, time to move on, and do what makes you really happy. That's the reason for our existence ! Wishing you all the best.
@rachelc7577
@rachelc7577 2 года назад
felt like giving you a huge hug after u talked about your flat being your dream.. it's really not easy to leave something that you loved so much and you are so brave for sharing your story 🥺 i'm sure many people are excited to see you find happiness wherever that may be for you!
@soph9606
@soph9606 2 года назад
It's really brave and helpful of you for telling us about this sensitive and yet real situation anyone may face, thank you!😊❤
@beny.5736
@beny.5736 2 года назад
Just a suggestion for those wanting to get a place before marriage - rent a place for a year or two to live with each other. After that, it will become clearer as to whether your relationship is built to last.
@RukiaHayashi
@RukiaHayashi 2 года назад
Man speaks facts
@whitedaisies9355
@whitedaisies9355 2 года назад
THIS
@chowanmushi
@chowanmushi 2 года назад
Yea, I think this is a good suggestion
@mary-jane
@mary-jane 2 года назад
But is it the house which caused the relationship to fail? Because you can rent or buy but if the underlying cause is not resolved then it doesn’t matter? Perhaps sometimes commitment may force a couple wanting to work harder to solve their issues eg it’s easier to walkway from a rental flat and call it quit than having to sell away a flat. Same as married couples will think twice before wanting a divorce where BF/GF easier to just breakup, Low commitment
@LadyWithAKnife
@LadyWithAKnife 2 года назад
@@mary-jane That's what people normally think imo. But reality is, divorce is still happening even after home is purchased and kids are born. The true suffering is when the kids experience trauma through their parents divorce 🤷‍♀️
@Zampy100
@Zampy100 2 года назад
Wholeheartedly agree about the pains of housing and relationships being tied together. Thank you for sharing your experience so that others can learn as well; I’m so proud of you for talking about your story, especially knowing how mentally and emotionally draining this has been for you. But things will go up from here. And I can’t wait to see you settle into your forever home in the future 💪 Got your back all the way - love you chowchuap ❤️
@mypignest1
@mypignest1 2 года назад
Love comes and love goes. I ended, or rather we, me and my partner ended our 6 year relationship and I do understand everything you’re going through. I have so many good memories to carry me through the years ahead and so many lessons learned from this relationship. Good luck to your future undertakings and hoping love will find you again someday soon.
@hsienhui86
@hsienhui86 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing your experience 🙏🏻 Indeed it is very painful, even watching you reiterating it hurts 🙁 stay strong girl 🤞🏻
@Dargoyaki
@Dargoyaki 2 года назад
So proud of you for confronting this again and sharing it for other people to learn from. You'll find your home eventually, sooner rather than later, I know it :)
@amou95
@amou95 2 года назад
Time to slide in la bro. Whack only
@tulipsandpeaches1834
@tulipsandpeaches1834 2 года назад
simp
@Marcus99998
@Marcus99998 2 года назад
Legend
@atatur123
@atatur123 2 года назад
@@amou95 What a name la mike
@nicktan4530
@nicktan4530 2 года назад
What is so proud about it?
@suyuw7532
@suyuw7532 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing this, I believe it is comforting for many to see this, especially for me as well as I gone through a breakup several months back. After watching this I want to say that You are just simply amazing. And always love your energy and honsety about flaws, really shows who we truly are instead of struggling to put up a front like what even non-influencers do. Glad to hear it had your pain to let out and managed to fully moved on and have closure Chow, will be rooting for ya:) also your singing is great.
@frostysnowys
@frostysnowys 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing your story, Chow! It must have been very painful to go through all the financial loss on top of grieving for your lost relationship. I appreciate you stick to your belief of using your platform for public education as well. There definitely should be more info out there about the housing system. You’re right that being a homeowner is not as important as being at home. Hope you have a sense of peace and belonging in your current place :)
@sawyewweng5096
@sawyewweng5096 2 года назад
Hearing this, I can really feel for you, but at the same time, this is such an honest and insightful video. Thank you very much for sharing, and I'm sure you emerge from this ordeal a stronger and better person.
@freeagentnetwork
@freeagentnetwork 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing your personal life story with us, really feel with you and am with you on this…… Take care and look ahead for more exciting future ahead!
@alexnaama09
@alexnaama09 2 года назад
Im so sorry for all your losses Jia, its never easy to let go of things that we know to be our constant. But you are a beautiful, brave and strong person. Life is a journey that we navigate through all the ups and down. We will all be here cheering you on and lending a shoulder to cry on if and when needed ♥️ always be your true self 🥰
@flirtatiousdisses
@flirtatiousdisses 2 года назад
Hey Chow, thanks for sharing your experience. It's funny how I kinda would never expect you were going thru this cos on TSL, you've portrayed yourself to be so bubbly and cheerful. I'm glad that on this channel you can be totally raw and true with us. I totally resonate with you when you said you needed your own place to call your own and when you moved in, you finally felt peace. I too, have been on a journey with that and finally going to move out soon to rent. Keep your chin up and i'm sure that if you don't lose faith, you will def get there!
@kookmania1405
@kookmania1405 2 года назад
thank you for being brave! I pray for all things good for you and Eugene.
@janispereira1586
@janispereira1586 2 года назад
You're so strong & brave. Take one step at a time & it's ok if you encounter 5 steps back & 2 steps forward. Your life will turn out amazing, I promise you. I wish you everything good & thank u for sharing your story. I"m sure you've helped many people through this & you can be so proud of yourself. Have a great life!
@grant-music
@grant-music 2 года назад
When one door closes, many other doors open. It's scary, still, because this might've been the only door you've ever known, but whether you're aware of it or not, you're already breaking new ground. Yes, the emotional and monetary costs of this have been great, but I believe that you will eventually find a new home in many new spaces, new experiences and new people. You're a fighter, keep fighting 💪
@Dripplets
@Dripplets 2 года назад
No questions to ask but I love you, Chow - you've got people you can count on to get through this. 🥺
@kenzone
@kenzone 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing. It was an honest and heartfelt account and I appreciate it. It actually brought back my own sad memories of divorce years ago. The home we shared was a private property but it was no less painful as we had to sell it quickly and below market value so that we could get a portion of our CPF monies back and move on to look for separate accommodation. Like you, both of us felt that home we shared was really our sanctuary, and till today nothing compares to what we had then. I have had 3 different homes since my divorce, and nothing has that same feeling of home and comfort of my first home with my ex. But thanks again for sharing, and be strong and move on. After the rain there’s always sunshine on the horizon.
@lijmes
@lijmes 2 года назад
Thx for sharing. We humans tend to put a figure to our loses and I know its painful, but the measure & impact of it will truly be felt with time and how you choose to move forth. More often than not, when we look back years from now we tend to be thankful evrything happened as it did, and I wish u as such. Once again thx for sharing, you're brave and u did evryone a service by posting this. Cheers!
@blueraineee
@blueraineee 2 года назад
Agree with the sentiments about 'never having a place to call home'. I never really had my own rooms as I had siblings, and even when some finally moved out, their stuff still lingers around. Owning my own home has been my dream for a long time now too and also never felt like I had a place to call home. It's just a different feeling when you get to own your own home. It doesn't help that housing is hard to obtain in Singapore... and even BTO means waiting another 5 more years. It's so painful!!
@sohchrissohchrissohchris
@sohchrissohchrissohchris 2 года назад
Stay strong, it's very you to take a moment of personal hell and turn it into a learning opportunity for everyone else. Only when we experience the unbearable do we find out who we truly are and I'm sure you'll come out from it all the stronger 💪💪💪
@lynnbek8993
@lynnbek8993 2 года назад
No worry you will find another ever better.
@gratefultess
@gratefultess 2 года назад
“You can’t really plan everything, especially when it comes to feelings and relationships..” 💯
@jbrkjferkjbekjb
@jbrkjferkjbekjb 2 года назад
i disagree leh
@huiyinghong3073
@huiyinghong3073 2 года назад
Nah its very normal, everyone and anything is replaceable and disposable. Stop thinking that your relationship is anything special
@jbrkjferkjbekjb
@jbrkjferkjbekjb 2 года назад
@@huiyinghong3073 still can plan la, it's the reason why long marriages exist. you need commitment and clear-headedness to decide whether someone is right for you before you make that commitment.
@ametrinenephrite7936
@ametrinenephrite7936 2 года назад
@@jbrkjferkjbekjb what is your advice when romantic feelings are lost but still click well and values align? Does the relationship simply turn into a business partnership?
@darthsidious9814
@darthsidious9814 2 года назад
@@ametrinenephrite7936 try to rekindle the romance
@teesong6801
@teesong6801 2 года назад
Life has a lot of challenges. Appreciate your honesty and wish both of you the best.
@discopandaditz
@discopandaditz 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing Jiahui, when you said it was a dream to have a space to call your own, that was something I felt 100%. Better things will surely come your way :)
@ayleenng7130
@ayleenng7130 2 года назад
We have just celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary. Life is like a roller coaster. Ups and downs but you need to complement each other. No marriage is perfect. No one is perfect as well. Getting into a relationship is a mystery but staying in a relationship is a challenge. Good luck.
@MRBOBOTHEPRO
@MRBOBOTHEPRO 2 года назад
Completely agree. Marriage is a all or nothing game. Seems like Jia Hui is just trying to justify her actions and based on her fundamental views on relationships/marriage, she is simply too immature or does not have the temperament to maintain one for the long run. If I’m not mistaken she has been in multiple relationships prior to this and if this is probably reflective of her inability to stay grounded. Just my 2 cents + pointing out the truth. Not hating on her.
@Magium321
@Magium321 2 года назад
No one is ever build perfectly for you. No leaf or branch are ever built the same. Not even when they are from the same tree. You may feel, u need a partner that will perfectly understand you. But that will not exist. Ur partner and your may have similar goal and interest, but you two are different in some parts. Normally your partners accommodate to you to make u feel comfortable. But when it's the time you do it for him, will u?. Marriage cannot be one sided or it would not last.
@minititan
@minititan 2 года назад
You belong in the boomer generation which was easy, today rs is harder due to feminism
@ametrinenephrite7936
@ametrinenephrite7936 2 года назад
Is it normal to love each other as siblings but don’t feel romantic love/in love with each other in long term marriages?
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 года назад
@@MRBOBOTHEPRO 💪💪💪💪💪
@cassidygan159
@cassidygan159 2 года назад
You are so strong despite and in spite of what you went through. This sharing is very very helpful not only for those who are going through a similar journey of uncertainty and it certainly helps you to have a clearer understanding of yourself. Jiayou!
@akabaneaki
@akabaneaki 2 года назад
Thank you very much for sharing us this precious info! We really needed a straight forward simple system for this kind man, its just so annoying how the system is always so confusing
@debbiesim2085
@debbiesim2085 2 года назад
you’re really brave to share this online. stay strong ✨💪🏼❤️
@davidyew1978
@davidyew1978 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing. Very unfortunate regarding your relationship and your house. Be strong and overcome this adversity and believe good rewards will follow.
@teojunjie5683
@teojunjie5683 2 года назад
Youre amazing Chow! Strong, smart and so full of energy!
@jaylachia8574
@jaylachia8574 2 года назад
THANKS for being open to share so vulnerably and your very realistic advices , JY chow
@christophrobin2892
@christophrobin2892 2 года назад
It’s my first time watching your video.. I like to say, nothing is easy but time helps you to grow… what sucks is that moving on to a new journey. Glad that you’re sharing here at least you have place to share
@tayhuiyun7238
@tayhuiyun7238 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing!! I wish you nothing but the best as you navigate through ur experiences and emotions. 😊
@faithhauseofcards372
@faithhauseofcards372 Год назад
Thank you for sharing this. You make people like us feel more supported that we are not alone in this.
@yong79
@yong79 2 года назад
So sorry you are going through such hard times. The pain is not forever and you will cover your financial losses over time. Use this time to heal, don’t be tempted to go into another relationship before you are ready and be kind to yourself. You are amazingly brave and love will find you again. Be strong.
@chiatlard88
@chiatlard88 2 года назад
Thanks for being brave enough to share your experience!! There's really not much info online if things go south...
@pohjoel1
@pohjoel1 2 года назад
The most frustrating thing is that there is no correct answer to how relationships work. To some, buying a house can be a common goal, target, commitment to work together, and for those same exact reasons, it could also tear 2 people apart. Time will heal, and money can be earned back, and when you look back on this someday, you'll probably see this as a small blip but a big lesson and experience in your life. Adulting is hard, but far from impossible. Wish you the best!
@jolenelim2116
@jolenelim2116 2 года назад
Chow, you’re really amazing and brave for making this decision!! Giving you lots of love right here ❤️
@donpatricklau
@donpatricklau 2 года назад
Lessons learn from every event in our life. You're a strong lady. Cheers! Stay safe, and God bless!!
@alvinterence
@alvinterence 2 года назад
There are so much uncertainties when it comes to relationships… even more so when a BTO is an element to it. Thank you for being so candidate in this video. Sending you love and positive energy, Chow!
@toki7111
@toki7111 Год назад
I just wanted to let you know that you're really beautiful, put together and level-headed. I hope and know you can get through this. Sending love 💛💛💛
@gnorwgnihtondidreltiH
@gnorwgnihtondidreltiH Год назад
Lol simp
@XwytreX
@XwytreX 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing your experiences! Stay strong, you’re doing great :)
@srsleysarah
@srsleysarah 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing babe. Can't be easy putting yourself out there like this!
@Sniperkiller560
@Sniperkiller560 2 года назад
Totally feel you, breaking up after a 5 years relationship for me, things for me having spiralled downward and causing my mental health. It is never easy, even though we thought we might be ok. We never are totally ok. I am still working on myself to find a way to pick myself up from where I broke down.
@whatthefitt
@whatthefitt 2 года назад
Time will heal all the pain. It’s hard as hell, but you will get back on your feet eventually. You will look back, be wiser, perhaps thankful for the experience and see a brighter future ahead. Took me 8 months. All the best.
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 года назад
@@whatthefitt Mature and Grow indeed!!!
@nav4688
@nav4688 Год назад
what was the reason yall broke :(
@lovinpickles08
@lovinpickles08 2 года назад
Big big hugs. So brave of you for sharing your experience on a video. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻🥰🥰🥰
@AinzOoalG0wn
@AinzOoalG0wn 2 года назад
ty for sharing this. it must have been tough to do so, but in sharing u have also helped others tackle issues they also be experiencing similarly to this or at learned something positive. i hope things work out for u, stay strong.
@itwillallgetbetter
@itwillallgetbetter 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing your story, stay strong ❤️
@jordanchew6495
@jordanchew6495 2 года назад
hey girl, I know how you feel when you leave a long term relationship. I have been in 2, 1 for 10yrs the other for 4yrs and the reason why they are exs is because I just cant see a future with them. as you said, we just have to move on and don't ever stop believing that you deserve better. I found my current girlfriend amidst this pandemic thru apps and she turned out to be the best for me so far. dont ever get pressured by societal view and opinions on what should be and not. everyone is on their own timeline and we travel at our own pace. I'm not young anymore and my gf is 9 yrs younger than me but we're working out fine. always believe and you will soon find a home, not a house.
@tirtakusumo
@tirtakusumo 2 месяца назад
Hey. I am 44 years old this year and I don't even know that the cost of cancelling hdb is so costly. This is a very eye opening video. Relationship is not easy. No one is right or wrong but more like a match (sounds tinder) from characters(almost no 1 in the requirement), hobbies, food to daily routines. I can only say lots of self willing sacrifices along the way but hey it will make all of us a better person in return. All the best. 😊. Thank you again for the great video, most impt great content.
@JInvesting
@JInvesting 2 года назад
Hi Chow, Keep doing what you always do best. I have been watching your content for many years and have been always a fan of yours. Please do stay strong and don't let this issue take control of your life. We all do have the power to change our life, It is only the matter of time. Please do cheer up! You're the best in my eyes! Cheers!
@okcoconuts
@okcoconuts 2 года назад
It's a hefty price to pay for ending a relationship after purchasing a house, but I really hope that it was for the better!
@edchung5273
@edchung5273 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing, the insights and what you have gone through. It's not easy but you are brave to brace through and things will get better. Wishing you well and a better tomorrow. Jiayou, take care and stay safe too!
@mandywint1016
@mandywint1016 2 года назад
stay strong Chow. There will be the better future which u deserve and god is working on it. Trust the universe and have a strong faith in it!😘we all support u and can feel the same way u pass thru.
@sleepy_dobe
@sleepy_dobe 2 года назад
Stay strong girl. I could tell, even before your tears started flowing, that you were still really hurt by the breakup. A house is not a home. Home is really where your heart is, be it yourself, in your partner's heart, or some religion, or whatever. The ideal place would be your own heart. Make it full first, complete yourself first, then find a life partner who's also a complete person himself, then build a new home with him.
@gobfranklin6759
@gobfranklin6759 Год назад
Thanks for being honest. We have all been through this. You will recover and grow stronger. Keep you heart open for love in the future.
@larrychua1129
@larrychua1129 2 года назад
Stay Strong and Be Positive everyday, keep doing your best and take a step back to appreciate the things that happened and loved it when you said not to dwell on it and I feel that its the most important point
@kelleychongjiaqing1629
@kelleychongjiaqing1629 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing this. Let others know of the implications and things to learn from. Hope that you will pull through this difficult time.
@misskarenang2109
@misskarenang2109 2 года назад
Thank you Chow for this video. Yes it’s scary and not many can move on.
@gabrielliew455
@gabrielliew455 2 года назад
Scars make us stronger for life. Keep on keeping on Jia Hui. I enjoy your presence in TSL Videos. Cheers.
@JANnified
@JANnified 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing! I agree that housing in SG has gotta change somehow, maybe someday. I hope you’ll find that dream home someday, with or without a partner 💜
@lazytofat
@lazytofat 2 года назад
Very brave for you to share such personal things. Stay strong!!
@angiemf9033
@angiemf9033 2 года назад
Covid has caused many relationships to end. Hope all who have gone through this will grow stronger n find peace & joy soon. God loves you. Amen
@niclyndalim3370
@niclyndalim3370 2 года назад
:(( just broke up after getting back with my previous partner and my heart really aches for you, thank you for being so brave and sharing your experience! Keeping you in my prayers
@snehathiru
@snehathiru 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing your story...hope you will heal from your wounds💖💖💪💪
@vinivnbul
@vinivnbul Год назад
Take it easy and do your best for yourself with your life. I had been staying all over Singapore in rental rooms since the age of 25 and now I am 42...still staying in a rental room. I refused myself in purchasing a resale unit but it depends on each individual. Now I am waiting to collect my keys for my BTO 2 Room Unit as a Single. I appreciate that one day I shall have my own unit to call my home. I learnt to keep it simple and at the same time I learnt and understood the entire HDB process, rules and regulations. Bottomline - Do what you can and be prepared to go through the Psychological process in Life. Wishing you all the Best.
@EytheriaNoCopyrightMusic
@EytheriaNoCopyrightMusic 2 года назад
hope everything works out for you in the end...but am still shocked that the financial cost is seriously harsh when this sort of thing happens!
@judyc294
@judyc294 2 года назад
Your honesty, courage and authenticity is most admirable, Chow! There will always be trials and tribulations in life but it's how you pick yourself up and push on that matters. Clearly, you are one that will succeed; how can you not with that impressive level of intelligence, maturity, articulacy and determination. I am a fan!
@chowanmushi
@chowanmushi 2 года назад
Thank you so much, Judy!
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS
@HumdrumSingaporeanREACTS 2 года назад
@@chowanmushi 😌😌😌😌😌
@asdfkie
@asdfkie 2 года назад
One of the worst feelings is setting up and creating your own space, and having to give it up to someone else for a lowball price. I’ve been through this for a business close to my heart, although it’s not even close to giving up a home, but you just have to look forward, have better things ahead and move on. Good luck!
@LynnKiyomi
@LynnKiyomi 2 года назад
Breakups are one of the worst to go through, however I'm glad you are at a place of acceptance, and are focused on self care and moving on. Take care!
@user-tn8ev9tk4j
@user-tn8ev9tk4j 3 месяца назад
Hi Jiahui, just stumbled upon this video and realized its been 1 year... look at how much have you grown! I believe you are doing very well now based on your collabs with (Samsung and other large companies?) You are a strong, smart and confident lady and always supportive of your work. Remember that you had been through the lowest point of your life and the only way is UP. All the best in your future endeavors!
@chowanmushi
@chowanmushi 3 месяца назад
Wasn't expecting this at all. Thank you so much, I am full of appreciation
@hoknevets
@hoknevets 2 года назад
Wow! Thk u 4 sharing in your openness & vulnerability.
@WilliamRandomUploads
@WilliamRandomUploads 2 года назад
Brave of you to share this. Hope things get better
@emmanuellow116
@emmanuellow116 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing. Stay strong!
@raymondhartono
@raymondhartono 2 года назад
Can’t wait for your content! Ty for sharing!
@huixuanmichellechua7979
@huixuanmichellechua7979 2 года назад
thanks for being so open !
@mavcly
@mavcly 2 года назад
Thanks for the insight Chow, it was very brave of you to do this video! jyjy 💪
@edwardgaughan822
@edwardgaughan822 2 года назад
You have shown us how Strong and levelheaded you are are all the best for your future
@eseetoh
@eseetoh 2 года назад
This is the 1st video of your channel I've watched, and I think I will only watch videos of yours from this point onwards because this sharing feels like a fresh start or rebirth towards a turning point of life for u. Take Care, Take Stock n Be Kind to Yourself.
@wencii806
@wencii806 2 года назад
Stay strong chow… always Love your positive attitude when u are at TSL show..
@damienlee927
@damienlee927 2 года назад
It's unfortunate, but this MOP period plus certain heavy monetary loss is there for good reason, to prevent abuse. Stay strong, money can be earned and your efforts are very evident in the work you do. Important thing is to acknowledge it was the right decision. Jiayou!
@zinahsdiary4433
@zinahsdiary4433 2 года назад
I can relate to everything you just shared on this video...thanks for sharing...i feel less alone 🙏
@chiawjm
@chiawjm 2 года назад
You are still young, stay strong and positive! 💪🏼💪🏼
@tysoh3061
@tysoh3061 2 года назад
Tks for sharing yr story.. Glad that you made the decision to move on.
@kennykhoo1504
@kennykhoo1504 2 года назад
Be strong! Always believe that after every storm, there a big rainbow waiting for you. Be positive! =)
@cy3970
@cy3970 2 года назад
whyd this show up on my recommended and why am i so invested. Stay strong queen
@rysten7474
@rysten7474 2 месяца назад
When I first watched your video on 18 Mar 24, I empathised with your story. Then 8 days later on 26 Mar, my husband suggested a separation. I was devastated. We have just moved into our BTO 6 months ago and haven't even settled down properly. I am not sure why this video got recommended on my feed, but I now fully understand your pain, going through the process myself.
@jaank8982
@jaank8982 2 года назад
im sorry to hear abt this, you're a strong person and you'll get through this! all the best jia hui
@zanzan3807
@zanzan3807 9 месяцев назад
I'm going through this, thank you for sharing. It's been rough.
@xantheanne4668
@xantheanne4668 2 года назад
Hey JiaHui, i've always enjoyed watching your content and your ig is so aesthetically pleasing- im so sorry to see you go through this, but i genuinely believe that better things will come your way and that you're a lot stronger than you think. Be kind to yourself! please take care. We're all rooting for you xx
@ogazmo
@ogazmo 2 года назад
Best of luck hope you will get over it soon, there's always take 2 person to contribute and work together to make relationship grow
@kiwi16171
@kiwi16171 2 года назад
Hard to overcome the grief of losses. So impressed of how u get up on ur feets fast
@WizardEric72
@WizardEric72 2 года назад
Stay strong and move on, you are still young. As long you don't give up and believe in yourself, you will be able to have a breakthrough.
@shawnlee108
@shawnlee108 2 года назад
Don't stress yourself out, you know you can pull through!! And you know we are always here for you. Cheer up, and don't cry, look forward and work towards a better self. Love you
@KelvinSG
@KelvinSG 2 года назад
Thanks for sharing the feels.
@hsx9300
@hsx9300 2 года назад
You tried hard, no regrets, you grew from this, which will make you happier in life
@lildevil872
@lildevil872 2 года назад
Things like these are hard but it's part of life. You're gonna grow stronger from this experience but this hurt will probably take time to heal. Ps you deserve way more subscribers i love your videos
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