Love Yourself Enough To Let Go. 

Sometimes you could be the right package, delivered at the wrong address 💯

4 months ago a friend of mine of 2 years and who's long distance ghosted me, no explanation, ignoring my texts and calls. Utterly destroyed me. The points you made are exactly what i should be doing for me. As much as it hurts and will never get that conversation from her i have to accept it, wish her the best of luck, and keep doing me

I’ve never blocked anyone, but last week I did for the first time and it was hard, but those people had to go in my eyes and I’m not in a good place right now for myself anyway so I need to focus on myself anyway so I can better in the future.

Letting go is not a sign of weakness; it's a pathway to healing and growth. Embrace the strength in releasing what no longer serves you for this is where new beginnings flourish!

needed this so bad. LOVING ME (even if i’m not there yet) is realizing THIS ISNT WORKING. this isn’t what i want for my life anymore .. i have to make that change!!!

thank you bro for ur videos. i try to watch every single one. this one made me realize A LOT. I am going through a break up and it’s so hard even though he treated very toxic

"You have to love yourself enough to not want to stay the same." Wow. I NEVER thought of improvement and respect like this towards yourself. It's frustrating, having the same results but getting ideas of ways to change, and either sticking to them for a couple days, weeks, or months, or just never having the energy to start. I've found myself being desperate for being liked by strangers or people i work with or go to college with, and tried to make this a goal in my life, meaning Ive started to people please and it seeped into hobbies such as cooking or doing art comissions. I don't get those "and-then-it-clicked" moments when something makes sense, since i can grasp the common sense behind most things and to a point, its logic. After hearing that phrase, i realize I've had enough love for myself to even consider ways to become better however i need or want to. That alone is self-love and self-improvement, regardless of action in steps to that goal, because the thought itself was an action that started your process! Just saying "I need to do/be better" or realizing the issue and addressing it mentally or verbally to myself or someone who wants to help is a form of loving myself. I'm VERY stubborn and have a mentality that's stuck in high school still with a mix of my childhood, so reaching up is hard every day since i tend to have an empty head, pessimistic life views and speech, deflating vocabulary, trust trauma, grudges, and/or obtain information without giving myself time to think. Lately ive been watching these similar videos and less of things that are intended for brain rot or the usual Gen Z audiences nowadays so I can stay how i prefer to be: out of the trends and loops, but logically & creatively assisting evolution wherever I've set myself. I've begun to show more love for myself by doing this and striving for that result, which will expand until i flatline. There are other goals I've gotten down as well, like losing weight by taking perscribed weight loss pills and trying to find an affordable gym to get a personal trainer, since working out at home leaves me discouraged and feeling isolated. And getting used to being in public, since i had to grow up as a homebody due to the environment i grew up in until we moved cities for the first time around the pandemic. This especially refers to friendships and accepting that I have to put myself first and adjust to what isn't on my level yet, like finding my first ever partner and holding boundaries and well-raised (and well-raising) standards, so i dwell onto what i can manage and set boundaries for (and boundaries themselves are a form of loving yourself). I've been so mentally and emotionally tunnel visioned on what wasnt working or the choices and actions of other people, society, and strangers, that i didn't notice how much effort I've been putting into sticking to my truth and watering it regularly by staying reflexively aware of what needs to be done. I'm getting better at not defining my life based on what people say I have a chance in, no matter how many times its brought up. But rather, i question why it is they say this, look into it myself curiously, and if I like it, am strong in that industry, and feel like i can make it work, then i will! That phrase made me realize all of this in just 10 seconds or so. Writing it? whoo 😂😂. Wow. Thank you for helping all of us, including myself, who struggle with these tasks and altered mindsets. It's helping me ground myself bit by bit every day :)

Good video, question for you though is what about working through it with the person? You dont think that your personal growth could motivate them? Even if the situation is negative? Edit: I commented before the end of the video but I love what you said about you need to get tired!

Thank you. I got to that point today and it hurts a little even though it was a long time coming. But honestly it feels like a ton of bricks rolled off me . Time to heal and that's my main focus only 🥰

Great content man, love your channel keep up the great work!

Hope yk that ur content and message doesn’t go under appreciated brother ❤

This channel came at the perfect time for me, im glad I found your content

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so true thank you