Lover, Stalker, Killer | Official Trailer | Netflix 

I'm thinking this isn't the show to watch when the new person you are seeing comes over to your place for the first time to Netflix and chill.

I watched it today and I’m still in shock. True stories are always better than fiction.

Without expecting it I got emotional at the very end when we saw the archive footage of Cari being happy with her young children. It reminded me of my mother, who died in similar circumstances when I was a kid. Those precious moments were taken away from us. How anyone can decide to take the life of a mother for his own ends is beyond me. I will never understand. This world is so brutal.

No one talking about how she burned her own house with her PETS inside????????? Its been an hour since i finished this and i am still shocked how she could have done that

What a story! These 3 playing billiards near to the end of the docu are brilliant and their dedication in this case is beyond words! Actually, if I want to know more about this story is all about the surgery of the IT expert that worries me. He is literally the key to give this case a path towards clarity! If he didn’t go and intricately study all these messages and pictures- it’s all dim! I hope he’ll be ok after his brain surgery. We have few of him in this field that’s truly excellent! It’s a wonderful docu made of the 2024! Salute to these men and their dedication! With love from Italy 🇮🇹🫶🏽

The moment Liz appeared on Dave's doorstep the minute Cari was inside his apartment, I knew who the killer was!

Netflix always kills it with their docus, can't wait to see this

Can we just point out the fact how much better a person can look with a beard and a different hairstyle!

I don’t get how they didn’t figure things out earlier. Cari’s mother had reported her missing. The whole situation is so bizarre and nonsensical - the cops should have picked up on it much sooner

Still don’t get it why the investigators didn’t trace the IP and phone calls at the first place.

Took about 45 minutes into this show for there to FINALLY be a government employee that actually thought "You know what, maybe we should attempt to track the IP address of this person who keeps sending these emails and text messages."

One of the better True Crimes currently on Netflix. Up there with Sins of Our Mother. 👏🏼

As soon as they revealed that the girl wasn’t heard from for a while it’s a very likely someone was impersonating her. I started to believe surely she wouldn’t do that to her animals but jealousy is one hell of a drug. These cops and IT guys are the very good side of law enforcement. Nothing but respect for them. It’s so cruel that the guy had a brain tumour. He was destined for that unique role.

This is definitely one of the downright creepiest stories I have ever heard in my life. Way back when I saw the 20/20 episode I had trouble sleeping afterwards. Too bad the book wasn’t very good.

The original investigating officer was not much of a detective or it could have been solved early on.

I hope Dave will consider his approach towards dating, as it seems to me he was bored and only entertained himself using these women. I wonder how Dave did not notice anything wrong about Liz, as they "rekindle" after Cari was gone. Just hope Liz will tell what happend with Cari. Such a tragic story.

I know Dave kroupa he’s my friend. Me and him met at Corwin Toyota we were automotive technicians. He is a great guy very humble guy and a hard worker.

I will forever be obsessed with the Farver case. How sick does one individual have to be? Thats the real question.

Watching this in the middle of the night creeps me out man, especially those music in the background

One crazy story. A must-watch even if you already know it. You'll probably stay off the dating apps awhile.

This documentary is a killer, but if the Police focused on this earlier on a lot of heartbreak could have been avoided. Exposes the wild wild west of dating apps. A magnet for psychopaths looking for their fun.

Spoiler alerts here. Okay, the one thing that is very odd to me is the original text Dave got at his shop from who he assumed was Cari (staying at his place that night) that said 'we should move in together'. If that is not an embellishment of the real first text, then we must assume that Cari was maybe already dead, and Liz was texting, no? Why text that particular question? And what if Dave had said sure, let's move in together. What would Liz's reaction be (as Cari)? Would she say I'm just joking, or would she lure Dave and maybe try and end him! That was a very strange first text from Liz (as Cari). Just my opinion. It seems if Dave had said yes this case could have gone in all sorts of other crazy places, different kind of crazy as it was extremely bonkers as it was. Liz burned down her own house and killed her own pets (after killing Cari). And then she moved out of Dave's daily life (except for the stalking and threatening Amy). I think Liz was absolutely gonzo. Humans can be and go crazy...

JUST SCROLLING NETFLIX AND DECIDED TO WATCH THIS AND OMG I WAS MINDFUCKED... THIS IS SO GOOD!!!!

This is why you shouldn't trust dating apps. You never know what kind of sicko you end up with.

Liz came 1st then Cari and then when Cari was leaving one day Liz saw her! I’ve seen this story so many times on different shows!

The Dateline episode they did of this was really good. Don't botch it, Netflix.

Omg i was glued to the screen the whole time. Whatta nail-bitting movie/docu So sad for the dogs… 😢😢😢 So sad for Cari and her dad who said “she’s with me”

Right in time for Valentines Day. Sweet

Can we all just admit that hookup culture is Russian roulette? 😬

Oh, I just watched this case on YT true crime chnl. This story has twists and turns man! The way the narrator described the case, it was a mystery... and I kept going back and forth on my suspicion of what actually happened while watching with my mother. In the end, my suspicion was right. This should be a flippin movie.

R.I.P. beautiful Cari❤

I JUST WATCHED THE DOCUMENTARY AND I'M LITERALLY IN SHOCK, I DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW SOMEONE CAN BE SO TWISTED, DISAPPEAR SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE HAVE AN OBSESSION? IT'S REALLY SAD!!!.

watched it today. love this show. felt sad for the real victim 😢

Superb. The 2 IT investigators are phenominal...in their work and their personal stories. I hope Carla's mom and her lovely son have been able to thrive in life, and everyone else whose minds and lives were seriously affected by the stalking murderer. Excellent outcome and jail sentence. ❤

But there’s one thing that’s still weird. Dave had moved again after all the stalking and logged into another dating website. He had matched with a woman and had decided to meet. But she never showed up. She initially texted that she was running late but then suddenly another text came in stating that it was Liz. I mean how??? What are the odds that he matched with same person again?? Was it really her or is there another victim?

I remember seeing this case on dateline or 20/20 and is seriously messed up! Can't wait to see it on Netflix

It’s unreal how the first cops involved didn’t get the IT side cleared or do luminol test on Cari’s car . I mean that’s damn basic thing to do . What’s stopping you to figure out an IP address and locate the supposed missing person ?????

I can’t believe they didn’t fire the original detective handling the case. The texts were serious threats that went on for years then the house fire. Still the idiot didn’t bother to get IT involved to trace the sender.

Feels like it would make for a good adapted movie thriller

The first investigation officer is useless . When we were watching the show we were both screaming at the tv : check the ip address! Check the phone location!!!

I watched it ... at the end I was wondering ... she was on a dating app, how many times did she do that?

Dave talked about having paranoia 24/7 when he was being stalked and I thought -wow, this is what women deal with all the time on a normal day.

I have read a lot of articles now that people, nowadays, are *choosing* to be single. It looks like this particular case would be more evidence doing so.

THIS is why I do NOT date via the online format. Call me old fashioned, but meeting in person via friends of friends or friends of coworkers or family friends works for me.

Every time I saw Cari's mom blankly staring out of the window, it broke my heart. She was waiting for her to come back home :(

Happy Valentine’s Day everyone! 😂💁🏻🥂

So weird to see a story from your hometown on Netflix. This story was crazy!!!

I'm so absolutely thrilled to have acted in this!!! It was such a joy to work on! 🥰

This was much better than expected. Well done.

Just finished watching this. So good

I knew the case before so the plot twist didn’t really get me, but this documentary is still very fascinating to watch. They filmed it like a movie. The plot, organisation, music etc are very well put together for this creepy story. I particularly like the way they shot the reconstruction scenes. They let us took a perspective of a stalker where u have to look at all the interactions far away. By that they planted the idea that there was a real stalker out there into our mind. When it got to the point that everything began to be uncovered, it became more shocking to the audience. It is a really good presentation of this case.

Watching this and i already knew it was all LIZ from the beginning.

I’m glad I’m old!! And I don’t hv to date anymore. Seriously . I was married. Then I lived with someone for many years. Then I had a couple of relationships with men. I am DONE!!! I watch Dateline and 20/20! Now this? Forget it!! I feel sorry for younger ppl looking to meet someone. Social media ruined things. Ppl don’t know how to interact anymore. You hv to be so careful.

When you venture on dating sites, you run the risk of encountering the disposed of, leftovers. As soon as I saw her blue tinted hair, middle finger pose, drinking it up in bars, that should've been a red flag. What I don't understand is how psychotic one could be to bring harm on their pets. Innocent creatures. That's a true Psycho. All that aside, he's no Prize Hog. Can't understand what all the fuss was about over him. Average, at best.

This title sounds like a summary of that series “You” lol.

damn, they making my dating life story a movie without my consent?

It's a really good true-crime documentary, you should absolutely watch it!

SPOILER!!! Took me 5 minutes to solve the case, how slow are these detectives? It was clear from the start that Liz had Cari's phone. And Dave is the one to blame. He shouldn't had brought Liz to his place while he was with a new woman. Then went back on to the dating app after all. Damn!

Brilliant story. The one thing I didn’t understand the though was how Liz’s SIM card was in Dave’s old tablet. Sounds like he had only been seeing Liz for a brief period. And if she had taken photos of Cari’s body, why had she left the SIM with Dave (ie in his tablet)?

I'm very familiar with this story as it's been covered by tons of true crime podcasts, and I think that guy is full of it. He led her on and should admit that much. That said, she was crazy and nothing she did was ok.

So glad the comments agree with me. He seems a lot happier since the 20/20 episode for sure.

The women who complain that their ex wont let them move out of state with their kids all need to watch this. And men, when you meet someone who you might have kids with, realize that if it doesnt work out, and they want to move out of state, you either move where they move, fight it, or pay a lot to travel to see your kids. It just occured to me after watching this, he was really cool to just move to Nebraska.

That first text that he allegedly got from Cari that they should move in together after only 2 weeks made my skin crawl

What was her true motive? Some of her actions are really hard to explain. Never heard of anything like it. Thats missing in the documentary i think.

Respect for Cari and her mother and Son. 😢

What a twist!

They had an episode on 20/20 about this. I’m interested to see the new doc!

She's nuts, but he comes across like a jerk. Just wanted to do his thing with no commitment

I haven’t watched this completely yet but I hit the pause button just felt so compelled to leave a comment. I chose the trailer because I didn’t want to accidentally see a spoiler that would’ve sucked. As intrigued as I am it’s very bittersweet because these are the style of documentaries, movies I would always watch with my everything who was my Grammy and let me tell u when she was right she was always right it may have some to do with her being clairvoyant but I believe the majority that came into play they always figuring out the mystery regardless to how complex it was she would always know how was at fault even when the individual would be the last to be suspected she would call it. I miss her more than could never be explained in mere words. All I can say is the moment I found her and my Kermit of 12yrs I stopped living I only exist and it’s never changed to this day and I know it never will, but I deserve this because I should have been there. Suicide is a daily daydream and if I believed that god would forgive me for that action I would have done a long time ago. Anywho talk about veering off the main road, I guess when u have nobody to talk to this is always the outlet I use, sometimes I will type such a long comment only to then delete never getting the chance to even be read. I just wish so much that I could watch this with her, so I’m gonna say to my Grammy if she were still with me that something tells me it’s Liz doing this I’m sure I’m wrong but how I would love to know what she would have thought because whomever she said would be the guilty party. I ❤ u so much Grammy and I miss u bunches

Mind blowing amazing full of suspense and twist❤.

From the very early of the show, i knew it wasnt Cari, it was Liz, maybe i have a good sense and experoence in dating app. Dating app isnt always bad, but you need to be really really careful. Match just for fun might not a really good idea though, it increase the chances you meet with someone problematic such Liz.

Pmg yes. I remember that happened when I lived in Omaha Nebraska. That girl was CRAZY 🎉🎉

Not even 20 min and I KNEW it was Liz the whole time and that she killed Cari. Anyone else not stupid?

WE ARE NOT READY TO DATE/MARRY WE ARE ALL LUSTFULL AND LOOKING FOR OTHERS APPROVAL. WE NEED TO KEEP EACH OTHERS SOUL PURE.

Song name? Been tryna find the one at 1:23 for a while but can't find it

He's lucky it didn't get as bad as it could. I've had 2 stalkers and it's the scariest thing I have ever experienced.

The guy with the glasses that did all the computer work I liked him from the beginning but I fell in love with him @ the end

This documentary is crazy ! Crazy

“If I can’t have you, nobody will.” Classic toxic narcissist line. (And Trump’s message to America.)

It is such a shame and annoying that it took the police 4 years to find out that Liz was behind everything. I had the feeling from the beginning that something wasn't right and that it couldn't be Cari

I'm normally a scaredy cat wimp when it comes to true crime, but this one really piqued my curiousity. I watched the whole thing and kept grabbing my boyfriend and thanking him for not being crazy. I could NOT imagine living through this scary chaos.

One thing that doesn't make any sense and I don't know why everyone is not asking this question. But if Liz is so obsessed with him why did she move away and cut contact for a year after burning house down ? Doesn't make any sense

This is what crazy girl friends get up too. If the Man was married it’s even worse. He wants to stay married and have his cake and eat it too.

When the trailer drops it should be available to watch because I just forgot or loose interest

It never crossed this guy's mind that a prettier woman wouldn't be jealous of Liz... That maybe he should see Cari in person to settle things like adults. Smh. He walked right into a psychopath's web.

These officers and detectives have to be the most incompetent humans I've ever seen.

Netflix, did it again - another good one. Man, the plot twist..! Kudos to the investigators and the IT guy👏

Brilliant crime docufilm and is technically very well made too; be it the cinematography or sound design...creates the suspense throughout.

Just watched it - INCREDIBLE Story!

Does anyone know what song is playing during the trailer? Wonderful.

I remember seeing this story on Oxygen that chick was nuts

i’ve heard of this case wayyyy tooo many times

Ohhhh yes this case is bonkers. I first listened to it on a podcast and crazy how the story went.

"Describe yourself in three words"

intriguing case but already covered many times. i hope this has new perspective.

I knew it was the ugly date when the stalking begun

I never sleep with people I barely know, guys usually give up the chase after a month, honestly you have to work people out, be a bit more f-king wiser in your late 30s fool.

Imo, I felt the investigators/police jumped the gun a bit too soon. It sounded if they held off longer, Liz might of given the location of the body thru all those msgs she was sending to herself. I was practically screaming, "Noooo, DON'T ARREST HER YET!" Now we may never know 😢. That being said, the IT tech was amazing and so were the investigators. I hope all went well for him on the surgery. God bless you all ❤

I didn’t finish this docu yet but reading the comments I already guessed right even when I was not totally focused on it. Why was this case so dragggged!

That woman is utterly insane, this reminded me so much of Fatal Attraction and using the soundtrack of Basic Instinct was a very nice touch. Great documantary👌🏽