If you don't eat then I don't cook. My daughter ate cold food for 2 days then asked for cooked food 😂. All because she didn't FEEL LIKE eating pasta and wanted chicken nuggets for the 3rd day in a row
My brother came home one night and cooked his steak, as SIL had left it so it was hot for him. He put dishwashing liquid in the pan by accident because it looked like oil. She still makes fun of him.
@@GinnysToothbrusha traditional wife was practically a slave, that’s what they mean. Because of how they were treated and what they had to do, they were pretty much a slave.
I used to think that my husband was my fourth kid. Because I had to always be responsible and take care of him, even though I’m 11 years younger than him. When I got sick due to medical malpractice in an operation and got nerve damage and SERIOUS nerve pain (needed help 24/7 and couldn’t even get up from bed, because of the constant, debilitating pain). He wanted a divorce because taking care of the kids and me was too much. I tried EVERYTHING to be the best mom to my kids despite the pain. Apparently it was too much because I got 2 strokes and am extremely lucky to be alive. He tried to come back. I said no. We’ve been divorced for 3 years now.
@@SSIGMAA-i5l He was 33 when we met. I was 22. I thought he was mature. I was wrong. 😩 He’s now 49 and I’m 38. Still single as a Pringle but a single mom. The kids were last year at their dad’s only 5 weekends (3 Friday to Sunday) and 1 week during the summer. So 22 days total out of 365. Couldn’t take them any more. 😩 I’m just mad/disappointed for my kids. Not for myself. As I’ve done everything to try and give him a chance to see the kids as much as possible. But thanks a lot for the likes and for your support! ❤️
That was my marriage too. I stopped having sex with him ever because I was more of a mother than a wife. I no longer had any attraction to him and the thought of sex with him started to feel like incest. Yes, we are divorced. He was a compulsive liar, attention whore, and most of all *lazy*
How do people not see these things before they get married? Or do y’all see them but just want the title of being married because that’s what “ you’re supposed to do”? Or do y’all see these weird behaviors and just ignore them for the sake of having a wedding party? I honestly just do not understand why people get married when all these red flags were very present…. It’s so bizarre to me. 😂
@@Leahmoonbeamflower I've never been married, but my mother has and from what she said, some people don't act like that until after they're married for some reason.
It's like the scene from Liar Liar, the one where Jim Carey can't lie. "Mommy says beauty comes from the inside." "No, that's just something ugly people say." RIP funny Hollywood, we miss you 🪦
Maybe this is TMI but I’m trapped in an abusive relationship and I can’t leave (yet, it’s taken me years to execute a plan and I’m not entirely there yet,) because I’m physically disabled and therefore dependant on him. Im also not perfect and I’ve done things im not proud of to defend myself which has perpetuated the cycle because I thought I was as bad as him until I got a little bit of professional help, & they helped me realize that defending yourself isn’t the same as being the initial abuser. I think that things like this might be factors in people staying in abusive relationships a lot more than people feel like they can say.
I hope you are safe , but I'd suggest removing the comment for your own safety. I hope one day you have the strength and resources to leave. If you're in danger go to a woman's shelter or something to keep yourself safe. I've been there, things will get better but stay strong and safe. I understand needing someone to talk to (just be careful he doesn't read your comments) Please stay safe and take care. All the best and good luck with everything In the future 💖
I hope you’re ok & doing well today. 🫶 I’ve been where you are & no matter how long it takes keep planning your exit, don’t give up on yourself. Abusers have a way of making their victims think they are the problem when in fact the abuser is perpetuating everything. There is help out there, I hope you seek it out & take advantage of all the help that is available. Your partner wants you to think that you won’t be able to make it on your own, that you need him. He’s hoping that the fear of what lies ahead without him will keep you there. Please leave. You deserve it. You deserve to be safe, happy & @peace despite what you’ve been told. 💚🙏🖤🙏
I was in a codependent abusive relationship with an alcoholic it was horrible. it took me a long time to recover and heal but I have my own life back now and you can too. blessings to you❤
@@aaliyahwilliams7794 It basically means she’s doing these skits to make fun of this kind of behavior, it’s not a hidden camera & he knows what’s going on & is playing along. At least we hope so anyway! 😂
Eh, could be satire, could not be. Not everyone cares or will change their behavior when being filmed. Won't ever know for sure unless the couple is met and interacted with
I think the past 5 - 10 years have shown us that many people really do not care about their behavior being caught on camera because they're not ashamed of it. If they were normal he wouldn't agree to it at all, especially in this ambiguous way because it makes him look PATHETIC 🤣 Unless he has a shaming kink, normal people won't do this.
That woman is really weird to post videos like that of her and her husband. Making him out to be some creepy basement dwelling man-child, and her not wanting to be around him to the point that they don’t sleep in the same bed for 5 months. It’s strange on so many levels, like first of all, if the marriage was as bad as what she says, then they need a divorce. Second of all, if she’s making stuff up or exaggerating what’s really going on, then she’s just a drama queen that wants attention. Third of all, if they have kids, then how gross for her to make videos for all the world to see, making their father look like a loser. I don’t get it, I don’t understand why people think it’s ok to make crappy videos like that.
Yeah this is really creepy. If she's just exaggerating it for social media then it's weird. Cause why would you? But if this is genuinely how their relationship is that is so f****** weird to post it on social media like that. Idk...just creepy vibes
I think you missed the huge part where he IS a loser spending all his time in the basement. Nothing in her videos was rude toward him it was just her feeling lonely and awful because he's like another child..
@SolidSiren somebody is going to work and earning a plush enough income to finance that big house. For all we know he works tons and is home for 2 hours/day when not asleep and chooses to spend it relaxing in his man den. Who knows tho... we're only seeing 1 perspective and a snapshot at that.
I pretty much won the lottery with my husband ❤ Been together 23 years and despite going thro trauma after trauma, and ongoing physical & mental health issues, we're still best friends & love each other more than ever ❤
@dinasings Jesus lady. Based on your comment history.. you are an extremely miserable human being with a sad excuse for a marriage. Just because you like to run around the internet letting everyone know what an impotent slob your own husband is.. doesnt mean everyone else feels the same way about theirs. Is it honestly THAT hard to believe that some people actually like their spouses? The way you speak about your husband is disgusting, and I hope you seek the help you clearly need. Instead of calling everyone else liars, and saying they're only happy because they live in ingnorant bliss, due to mental health issues. Why lmao? Because you couldn't possibly comprehend that some people actually love the person they married, and like spending time with them? Unlike you.. some people appreciate their spouses, and dont feel it necessary to run around the internet bashing them to complete strangers. Lmao wtf? You're the one with issues here, stop the projection.
Thats the life, guys want a "traditional" woman but don't know how to be a "traditional" man or they crave a independent woman but get mad because she's Too independent 🙃
That's not "the life" - that called, certain abusive relarionships. Not every guy that wants to have a traditional wife is an asshole. Stop trying to generalize it.
my parents had this exact relationship when i was growing up, except theirs turned into physical violence and led to a divorce before my dads passing in 2018. my mom never once spoke out about it to my family, let alone social media. hearing her admit my dad was toxic and he was abusive at times took years, even after his death. this woman lied about abuse for views, lied about a toxic dynamic for views, when these kinds of relationships are very real and traumatizing, especially for kids involved. it’s a mockery of real abuse and for what? views and strangers concern from the internet? this makes my blood boil.
My parents have the exact same relationship too. My dad was never violent though like yours. He refused to do ANYTHING. It was easier for my mom to stay married than be divorced because of medical insurance and other financial stuff. I have been really sick for the past few years and his refusal to help while I was in the hospital or needed care was the last straw for my mom. That's when she kicked him out
Can't judge people based off of their food choices... It's just immature to think that somehow YOU make the BEST choices. For yourself, you most definitely make the best food choices because of YOUR own personal preferences. But nachos for dinner isn't an indication of NUTTIN! I might be biased, though, because I would totally eat Nachos for dinner. I often choose appetizers over entrees at restaurants because I have a small appetite and am also super cheap.
@@dinasings I totally understand that we can’t eat healthy all the time, sometimes we do fancy chocolate or nachos and there’s nothing wrong with that at all! :) However I don’t think it’s immature to acknowledge that that on its own on a consistent basis isn’t good for anyone’s overall health as they’d be missing out on important nutrients, like I said no shame on having the occasional treat but it’s also important to eat healthy to :)
To be fair, having separate beds and/or your own room separate from your partner *can* be a great idea, if you discuss it and you still have lots of bonding time. It can help with sleep and having your own private space is always healthy. But just drifting apart because you dont like each other anymore...?
Legitimately if I ever moved in with a partner I'd need a separate bed. I give off a ton of heat and am such a light sleeper so any movement wakes me up. On top of that, I work strange hours and need a lot of space to sleep.
My parents have the exact same relationship too. He refused to do ANYTHING, and they didnt sleep in the same bed for almost 8 years. It was easier for my mom to stay married than be divorced because of medical insurance and other financial stuff. I have been really sick for the past few years and his refusal to help while I was in the hospital or needed care was the last straw for my mom. That's when she kicked him out
Been married for 16 years at the age of 36. My husband is my best friend and we literally hang out all the time. Even though we have 2 beautiful kids. This just makes me so sad!
@@Katelynzzz it ok but i really need to know does her husband do anything with the kids and the single mom comment is that single moms do every thing for their kids
I’m lucky enough to be with my best friend. 3 kids together and still going strong. No it’s not perfect but the love is real, there’s plenty of laughs and I couldn’t ask for a better man. He’d do anything for us ❤
@@jasjassschances are he's just mentally disabled. this isn't uncommon for them. They both could do a lot better however the being a picky eater isn't the worst part imo
He's like my ex husband. My current boyfriend(we live together) helps a lot around the house, works a lot and is a gamer. To think I could have ended like her definitely dodged a bullet.
yup same, everytime i start to deepclean he instantly gets up (without me asking for help) and starts cleaning up as well. He works 8-6 so he never really does anything around the house while i cook for us everyday & clean the kitchen (working 7-3) But weekends are our time to tidy up the mess WE made together, get intimate & play video games all day long.
@@videowatcheriAlberta I married before living together so I had no idea he was like that even after 7 years of relationship. That is why now I find it important to get to know partners(live together) before marriage and having kids. My family is hispanic and religious so I felt I had no choice as I was very young.
I complained to my mother about dinner once and she said “I don’t cook for you, I cook for your dad who works hard every day so we have food to eat”. Humbled. Never complained again.
I know someone who actually did slip some (unspecified downer) in her husband’s hamburger helper on the night she escaped. Sometimes a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do. She escaped and lived to tell. ❤️
There’s nothing more unappealing than someone else’s baby man. If the relationship works then great, but that’s something that’s best kept private. Side note, I think “a quick 9” usually refers to 9 holes of golf. But who knows here.
On her day off while getting a coffee, was she wearing scrubs? I assumed she must have been a stay-at-home-mom (hence the whole 'the house is my responsibility' schtick) but it looks like she works too?! How can any lazy husband expect their wife to do ALL of the housework and all of the childcare while also working as he sits around playing games all day?
I’m married! My husband helps with the cooking, cleaning and laundry room. We both have good jobs and everything is great. Marriage is not all bad. You just have to find the right match.
Kudos on your production values, Layze ! The double mustache/lip slug saga had me laughing my a** off 😂 I find it weird that this guy kind of looks like a 3 year old with a Chucky vibe. He is like a third toddler for his wife. Even though the videos are probably satirical, many a true word is spoken in jest, in my opinion. But hey, I once lived with a man for 3 years and whenever I cooked, which was most of the time, I had to ask him to set the table, because the thought obviously wouldn't occur to him. And he was in his forties. So who am I to judge.
This is why I left my ex. 30, jobless, lives with his mother. She does his laundry and brings him all his meals to the bed as he lays in bed 24/7 watching twitch streams 😑
Okay this is super weird to me. My fiancé and I have lived together for 6 years and I cannot sleep without him in bed. If he works late I am up waiting for him to get home. ❤ I hope when we have kids nothing changes and we still want each other the same amount
It is hard. You guys will have to work to find the time cuz you'll be tired and busy. But if you love each other, you guys will find a way to make it work. This lady is right though sometimes you just need time to yourself after being with kids all day. And the only time to get it is usually after the kids are all asleep. So you have to choose between time to yourself and time together. I am the type to choose time alone but that might just be cuz have 3 kids 3 and under and it's exhausting and demanding so I need to just be by myself and go to sleep. But if my bf was more in tune with my love language I'd probably wanna spend more time with him lol.
I love sleeping in the same bed with my husband, but he has times where his snoring is so disruptive & loud that I cannot deal with it anymore. I’m such a light sleeper that I hear everything, & he’s a deep sleeper & unbothered by everything.
I have had my own room for the past 12 years and we have a GREAT relationship. We both get good sleep and enjoy our time together and rarely have disagreements. A good life. So happy. Alone time is great.
Most people I know shame me because I'm a working wife, they tell wives should be stay at home doing chores. Well, my husband will never EVER treat me like the woman in the video, he works as I work, he does chores as I do chores, 50-50. I wonder how and why women choose that kind of partner
Learned helplessness that’s all I can say, no we can’t control what other people do but we can control what WE do, she has a choice in this. You don’t do it for him and he will find it in himself to do it eventually, and if he doesn’t? He’s a grown man. His body, his responsibility.
I been married 25 years. Right now we are in the "WORSE" stage of my vows, but I did committ to "For better or for worse". I live in the Basement. I love it!!! Haven't slept together for 5 years...still loving that part too (he's impotent anyway). I could get a divorce, but that wouldn't be an improvement on my life. We both work full time and make around $120 grand a year combined. We have our own spaces. We share bills. We have a decent lifestyle as far as income is concerned. All of that will go out the window with a divorce. Hoping that the "Better" part comes back to us at some point, but for now, this is life. I am not THAT mad about it.
For those particular women who dated men who FARTED on you or disrespected you like that with Dutch ovens and other gross behavior, and you were all like, "Mm! It's my man's scent..😍." Or even just whiney how gross that is... This is what you will get if you marry him.
Tbh. I think its quite healthy for couples to sleep apart, as long as everything else in the relationship is going well. For example, when any my ex's snored (male or female) it would cause arguments, as i just couldn't settle. Our relationship florished when we slept alone. Were both bankers, so its stressful enough. Humans need their sleep. But everyones different. ❤
My favorite part of being married is having a partner. My husband cooks like a chef, does laundry, etc. Neither of us is perfect, but we try to help each other out. Team work makes the dream work. Til Tok marriages sound terrifying.😅
Honestly their entire relationship is built around being bitter with one another and hating each other. Just divorce already and move on with your lives. Because this is an implosive relationship that lowkey feels like it’s gonna turn into a true crime documentary…. 😬😬😬😬😬
We totally eat nachos for dinner! OU!!! You should try this. It's our favorite junk food dinner: Make Rice. Make ground beef, with added taco seasoning. Mix rice and meat. To serve: Put 6-10 Doritos (nacho cheese, is my preferred) in a bowl, put a scoop of mix on top. Crush chips and mix together. Enjoy!
I know this may seem harsh to say, but honestly if the person your with, wether a friend, a partner, or a family member If they are not benefiting you emotionally, physically, and mentally than theres no point in investing in them What i mean by investing in them i mean by spending time with them, helping them mentally, physically, and emotionally. If you are investing in them with no benifits in return, its best to leave them, theres no point in investing in someone if thier not giving something in return
i am someone with sensory issues when it comes to food and i cant eat certain textures/tastes or foods with certain smells because it will make me gag, but even i have the common decency to politely apologise and get my ass up to microwave/cook myself my own food. if i was lucky enough to have a wife who would get up and do that for me PERSONALLY, id literally cherish her until the end of time
Yeesh! My husband is such a clean freak, I barely even get the chance to clean things! I go to do it and it’s already done… I don’t know how he beats me to it so fast! hahaha😂
My husband has a fulltime job, I can’t work unfortunately. I have a couple of psychiatric disorders (officially diagnosed), and some physical issues, which means I can’t take care of the household on my own. I absolutely hate it, it makes me feel useless. My husband does the groceries, he cleans the bathroom, takes out the trash, helps out with doing the laundry, vacuums, etc etc. I am SO thankful for everything he does, I always do my best to let him know how much I appreciate him. We’re together for 7 years, married for 2 but we sleep separately. My husband is a somewhat “violent sleeper”. I can’t remember how many’s times I woke up because he hit me in my eye with his elbow, he kicks me, he slaps my face with his flat hand. Once I woke up in panic, because I felt something heavy pressing on my head and everything was dark…my husband was laying with his head on his pillow ON TOP OF MY HEAD/FACE. I don’t mean that the pillow was resting on my shoulder against my face, nope 100% pillow and head on my head/face😂😂😂😂
