@@deborahtucker7022 a kid got assaulted and her perpetrator was acting up very aggressively, yet what bothered you the most was her vocabulary? Get your fucking priority sorted out!
@@mitzikolo one cannot simply be this dumb! No one would come up to CHILDREN and kiss them without consent (even if it's meant for greeting) and definitely no one would cause physical altercation with kids because they won't let you kiss them! That's one aggressive pervert and the way you're giving him excuse says the same about you!
@@mitzikolo Went to Thailand to get away with sexually ambiguous crimes hey? Even if they girls were of age, there's no excuse to do shit like this to people, alcohol or not.
@@johnmadrid527 It doesn't matter if he was drunk or not. He harassed those girls my age and drunk,sober,etc that is no excuse. That idea should have never crossed his mind in the first place dude.
it looks like he did it. I dont see a reason why the girls would lie. But still, there is no proof. Imagine if someone is crazy and doesnt like certain type of guy, for any reason, maybe just because he was drunk or some other reason; there are crazy people in the world who would be able to make up stories like this. I do not think it's the case, but it feels wrong to me to charge someone without any actual proof.
@@vanessaruiz4705 come on guys. I am 52 and never in my life no woman has ever come even close to accusing me of any inappropriate conduct. And the sane thing with many men I know. And you know why? Because we behave like decent human beings, not like dicks. So, don't excuse a dick because he is just that. A dick
As someone in my 20s, a grown adult, I find it weird how someone my age can grab, throw and kiss a complete stranger child over 10 years younger than me, right out in public. A teen is a kid who's not even fully developed physically and still needs supervision. He can't see what he did wrong shows how twisted his mind is. No morals. Edit: this is not about ME understanding this man/accepting his behaviour. This is not about debating logic, reason, nor common sense. This is about public safety and these girls' boundaries. I made a straightforward statement disapproving perverted behaviour. Period.
This is how the world is, thinking that everyone has common sense in their brains to distinguish the right from wrong, sadly not for the general population. Of course it is weird for someone in their 20's to harrass someone, no matter what gender or age, everyone should know about that, although even if they know, they will break the basis to do the total opposite for their personal needs, and it is extremely nauseating and gross, plus not only for assault. Sometimes even weirder of an act can happen somehere in this planet every 60 seconds, and you might not know it.
In the 80's when I was a 14 year old girl I was sexually assaulted in a movie theater and I was so scared I froze. My friend was also terrified and she later said she was too afraid to move to get help. I'm so glad people talk about this openly nowadays. Nobody deserves this
@@El-Skins Thank you for your kind words. Every time I think about what happened I get so mad at myself for not doing anything. About 10 years after the movie theater "incident" I was pinched on my bottom and rubbed his bulge against me 🤮!!!! I reacted by screaming and punching the guy. He ran away so quickly. LOL!!! I learned my lesson from the 1st assault and it felt great to be empowered. Again, thanks for your support
Amazing job girls and friends of the girls who stood by them and didn’t let this situation be swept under the carpet. It’s disgusting that some people think they can just touch others without their permission. Disgusting.
@@jeffjohnson5053 I sense sarcasm from you Jeff. This is a woosh comment isn't it. You're just trying to make a funny edgy joke, that's all that's going on here.
@@jeffjohnson5053 The child was freaked out. If she was not then she would not have talked to the police. You are not suppose to touch other peoples children without the concent of the parents. That man could have had herpes in his mouth.
This happened to me on a beach when I was 14. An older guy grabbed my hands tried to kiss me when I was in the water. Wish I had been brave enough at the time to go to the lifeguards. Mad respect for these girls. And Thankyou to the lifeguards and police for handling it so well. 👏
Well like I say to my younger cousin always travel in groups always carry a protective devise on you. My cousin: then said what do you mean devise?. I replied: what I fucking mean is this home made taser now you have all the fun of subduing and leaving your attacker in a pile of their own piss. Well she did use it and it turns out it put her attacker in hospital. I was charged for giving a minor a deadly weapon I appeared in court and I said I’m not going to apologies for giving my family members a means of defence the judge said because I show no remorse I am to serve 2 year sentence which in the end was only like what fucking 3 months I also added to the judge can I get my taser back I’m feeling rape vibes happening if I go to prison lol
@@jeffjohnson5053 are you for real Jeff? Girls are not spose to be touched or kissed anywhere without consent, there's something wrong with you and I suggest you sort it out really fast before your mindset hurts someone innocent
Good job to the lifeguards and the police officers. That man definitely deserves to go to jail. I also like how they didn't show that girl's identity when they interviewed her.
Even if these young woman were in their 20’s or older this kind of behavior is unacceptable. The fact that they are young teenagers makes it even more abhorrent.
seriously, age isn't the issue here, its an invasion of space and privacy, plus hands off anyway, regardless of gender or age, the age thing is just more time in jail and maybe a flag that follows you everywhere you go the rest of your life... you don't touch anyone in that way ever no matter what unless you are invited ... good greif
I’m so glad the accusations were taken seriously by the lifeguards and the police. The guy knows exactly the system works in his favor “where’s the proof? If you don’t have it then I’ll sue you”. And the fact that girls these learned what consent is and therefore knew this was not okay. No one should be allowed to touch/kiss you without your consent.
The system working in this guys favor is such a foreign concept to me. Where I'm from, a simple accusation might as well not even be reviewed in court, that dude is going to jail. Unless he has some pretty hard evidence that he didn't do it of course.
If they have proof and witnesses it happened, he's done. If they don't, they'll still look into it, but if they can't find anything, he's free, but even then, there's still a lot of false reports that get people, pretty much always men, sent to prison. So I wouldn't really say it's in his favour, especially with that many witnesses. What if he really hasn't done anything and those girls and the guy just lied about it? I doubt they did, but he could still go to prison even if he didn't because the courts can be biased.
I like men like Harrison. They look harmless, are nice and polite. But when it matters most, they go into an effective, controlled beast mode.^^ It's not the first time he's brought a potential criminal to his knees.
@@Rigoberto365- Did you not watch the bit where he grab the guys arm then grab his legs and lifted him up while the cop was putting the cuffs on? Shoulda gone to Spec Savers
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I was 13 when I was gropped by a 21 year old. His little sister heard about it and came after me. I was ready to fight, but I would be lying if I say this hasn't caused anxiety issues for me as a 37 year old. That wasn't the last time I was assaulted and no one came to my aid. At this point in my life, I barely want to be touched. Even hugs make uneasy
@@mo-whack6790 I'm so sorry for what you've been through. Have you considered therapy? I had trauma therapy and it really helped. It can take a while to get a therapist you gel with, but it's definitely worth doing.
well from a spiritual perspective I would say its one of your life themes, that you set up for yourself in this life. You can learn a lot from such an experience. No way am I saying the act was justified. But you can forgive the experience, forgive yourself, but forgiving the person is not required if you dont want to. Doing this will unlock the energy and you will notice you can move on from the memory. Intimacy is a buitiful thing if its someone you trust.
@@JohnDoe-jz5pr unfortenately no. Women (aussaulted victims in general) just didnt speak up that much so it wasnt that public. To this day i experienced multiple such situation in middle of europe, no matter if migrated or not🤷🏻♀️
It is not that us ladies did not know about consent....it is that, at least in the US, some do not consider that consent is necessary. We have a term for when it... Rape Culture.
All these girls coming out about older men sexually assaulting them in the comments is literally making my stomach churn. I absolutely hate how terrible some people can be
@@k.e.m4731 yeah I know. The same here. If my fiancé leaves the apartment without me there’s usually men catcalling her or harassing her. Truthfully Hate people sometimes
@@sugar_plum_fairy Surely not rape... You are not gonna tell me that every woman is getting raped at least once in her life... If that was true we would have a shitstorm going on.. Unless you live in a shithole country.. i could see it happening then unfortunately.
This show has done so much for me, I thought lifeguards were there for you when you drown but the guys really look after and care about safety in all aspects. I've never been prouder to be Aussie than seeing these guys stand up for what is right
You don't kiss someone's cheek without permission let alone a child's cheek. As a 26 year old, I will never understand why people in their 20's are even interested in teenagers. I'm very glad they spoke up and he got charged. Guys like these need to learn what consent is. I don't think the alcohol is an excuse to harass young girls.
I assume it’s because they’re older and could over-power or manipulate someone younger into keeping quiet about the act. Thankfully it didn’t work out for this sicko asshole.
You do know girl’s can also sexual assault/rape men. And also it’s not just girl’s that get that type of unwanted attention. It’s really laughable and pathetic hearing you say that woman can only get raped/sexual assault . 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
People in their 20's under teh age of 25 are not fully matured and still have the mindset of a teen. 18 and 19 are also teens so it's natural. But thsi was fuxked up
@@Havis_Princess some people might not fully mature until 25, yes - but they are MATURE ENOUGH to realise that being attracted to a teenager isn't right. They dn't have the mindset of a teenager.
Get ‘‘em boys! You could be saving these young women from such trauma. As a survivor of trafficking my hair stood up with this bloke. Good on ya fellas!
I totally agree with Herta. Whilst I'm so sorry that you went through the horror of trafficking, I'm really glad to see the word "survivor" in there. You are important, valued, and worth a thousand times more than the scum who hurt you. Keep your head high - you overcame and survived, and that's something to be insanely proud of 💕 Wishing you healing, safety, and happiness 💖 x
@@3500camarz What the hell has that got to do with you? If you think that there's an acceptable amount of time to be trafficked (the only logical reason for asking that question) then there's something very wrong with you... Ignore the troll, OP. You owe nobody an explanation 💕
@@3500camarz Just because someone drowns in 10 ft of water and another drowns in 100 doesn't mean they're not both drowning. She has every right to call herself a survivor no matter how long she was held for.
Harrison is the best. You can tell from his body language that he was NOT having any of it and very clearly read the man as a threat from the moment he got out of the buggy. He was prepared to intervene.
So many times things like this happens and now one ever steps up and says anything. Good for the people who reported it, good for the girls for speaking up. Them especially, that takes a lot of courage to do. They are the real hero's here. All too often girls feel shamed after having their personal space violated and keep it to themselves. Its good they spoke up and made a report. People who speak up against disgusting people like this man. This is how we put a stop to disgusting behavior.
It's amazing how if girls getting harassed report it, the issue can be fixed. It makes me laugh because if you tell someone online they should report these kind of issues, you get called a victim blamer.
@@R3WIRED No one is gonna call you a victim blamer if you encourage women to report their incident. People will call you a victim blamer if you shift the blame onto the female victim for withholding their legal reports, without any understanding of how effective the legal system in their country is to victims of sexual related crimes; whether they're in a safe environment to report the crime or not; are they going through shock and trauma caused by their perpetrator which hinders their respond. Additionally, it doesn't always work out beautifully like this, the legal process for cases like this and more serious ones is long and painful; even for the women who made it to the end of the road, it's not guaranteed that they'll receive their justice! And I think you know this, you understand how it really is! But you're just looking for an excuse to stir things up as well as an emotional pass for the next time you confronted a woman instead of her attacker because "why didn't she report it?".🙂
Exactly! As soon as he said it, I thought "yeah, you did it". Most people, if innocent, would be mortified at the accusations and would be trying hard to clear their name. They wouldn't be making threats, especially when they're being treated fairly, despite being accused of a disgraceful crime. Everything about him was shifty. I mean, who goes out for the day without a wallet or a phone? Even at the beach, most people need *something* so they can get home, or get a drink, or for emergencies, etc, and there are safe places you can leave these things. If his friend was nearby, for example, why didn't he leave his wallet there, because he still has to get home from there at some point? Only reason I can think of is that he didn't want to be identified... Not the average outlook of a normal, law-abiding citizen on a day out, is it? 🤷♀️
@@georgina-a not really. If I wasn’t falsely accused I’d definitely say I’m gonna sue everyone involved. Why would you? Tho in this instance the guy is an Arab so most likely he is guilty cos you know how that culture treats women
@@madi.rediak because Arab culture is more inclined to abuse women you fool. I’ve been sexually harrassed by 5 Arab men on 5 seperate occasions and nearly been gang raped by 3 Arab men once. Or what Germany in 2016 nye where there were 1200 reports of sexual assault in cologne alone 90 percent by Arab men. Coincidence? So yeh I’m racist towards them and it’s very well deserved because rape culture is rampant in Arab culture. Dumb white people, the only race that defends the rapists are not the victims zzz
@@mandymoore7218 Um... Have you got your negatives right there? Because that comment reads that you agree with me, despite saying "not really" (you're saying that you would sue if you were not falsely accused, meaning that you would sue if you were correctly accused, as "not" & "falsely" cancel each other out... Which is what I was saying). Not trying to be arsey, just a bit confused 🤷♀️ As for the Arab comment, that feels unfair. The guy is identified in the video as a visitor from France, so should be used to Western ways. As a result, any Arab background he may or may not have is irrelevant because it would be heritage-based and not his only life experience (in turn, making the anti-female thing quite a racist trope). Every group of people, no matter how "trusted" has their fair share of creeps. Rolf Harris and Jimmy Saville are prime examples of that.
Thank you for sharing this. Unfortunately, this is common, and many perverts walk free without consequences. So sad to be traumatized at such a young age; I am a year older. Really sad, and the fact that HE pretended to be the victim, and didn't even know that what he did was horrid? Sad world we live in.
These lifeguards are ROCK 🌟. They took their duties to protect seriously. Great job young men. Your fast response was very commendable and I’m positive their parents appreciated the quick support with the officer’s detainment. Young girls like that should be free to enjoy the beach without being preyed on by drunk men who want to grope on young teenagers. Thank GOD for the efficiency of the group of lifeguards.
That's just gross. What on earth gives someone the right to do that. Just how disgusting can that person be. It's absolutely unacceptable and it should never happen. Never. That's the bottom line
These people are predators. They go to places where there are a lot of children they could prey upon, and yet blend in with the bunches. If it were for these young ladies, whom were taught well by reporting the incident and keeping him in their sights, he would have faded in the background and never been caught. These girls did a great job by not wondering off by themselves, and staying in groups of at least two.
@@jamesodonnell7062 The guy didn't have a shirt on, was tiny and had been under surveillance. I understand drama is needed for a show but that beach looks upper middle class and very safe to me. The little creep they're making a big deal about would be considered very weak in most places I know. It's great they got the pestering guy away from the ladies. However, he doesn't appear dangerous at all.
I was fifteen when I was first sexually assaulted at a summer program for blind children. The boy was a fellow student in the program. I wish I would've been able to report my assault, but I was afraid no one would believe me, since I'm not able to see. It would've saved me from my second sexual assault, two years later, by the same boy.
@@Mike_Hawk1 there's plenty of software for blind people that reads the screen aloud. they just use keyboards and sometimes special keyboards. its really not difficult to maneuver a computer without a mouse, so once you have software like JAWS you can browse the web and use various programs
There's different levels of blindness. Many technically blind people can read and write with the right software and figure out who's who and what they're doing using their limited vision mixed with their other senses.
These girls were taught well! These are the lessons all our girls should be taught, and taught young... it's sad that our young men aren't taught to have manners and what's right, but at least our girls can be taught safety and how to stand up for themselves and each other. Kudos to these girls and their parents 👏
I don't know what country you're from but in mine this stuff is taught to both genders in school, and I left 12 years ago so it's ingrained.. Ofc some men drink too much then lose controller of their capacity of thinking, and do this stuff.
You said "it's sad that our young men aren't taught to have manners and what's right". Really? One piece of shit on the beach and you're saying that. What about all the men there who aren't like that? Because It's about how you're raised. Most people are raised in families to respect others. That's why the vast majority of men you meet don't behave like trash. Some however come from families that have no respect for anyone and are just garbage. There are scum in this world and you'll almost always find that there family is where it's from.
A 15 year old is not a child. Not an adult, no, but capable of *some* decisions and responsibilities that you would not let a 10 year old make or have. Here in the US, 15 year olds start to learn how to drive under direct parental panic...er...supervision, and at school as well. I agree that a 15 year old is too young for intimacies, even with someone their own age, certainly not someone considerably older. But they are not children, either.
@@TehPesky A person’s brain is not even fully developed until they are 25, so if they are below 18 especially, LEAVE THEM ALONE! Child or teen, they are still minors. The best adults can do is educate and protect them.
This kind of stuff is really scary. I still remember being scared about my first sexual harassment encounter. I was 12 years old at gymnastics class and one of the father's Just kept smirking and watching me do my stretching routine which already made me uncomfortable. Then he tried asking me if i wanted to sit in his car in the middle of break time. My mom taught me about sex, predators, birth and all that stuff when i was around 6 years old so thankfully i was already highly aware of what he was trying to do. I told one of the male coaches and he forced the dad to leave the building and wait in his car for his child to finish class.
it's so fucked up how basically every woman has had these encounters. I don't know anyone who hasn't at least had creepy comments directed at them as a kid and the majority didn't stop there. I remember being 11-12 on vacation and a 20 year old guy kept "flirting" with me the whole week, getting in the pool when I did, trying to touch me in the water etc. I was so embarrassed and scared that I didn't tell anyone and just stayed away as best as I could.
Wonderful job to both the lifeguards and police, and to the man who witnessed it and reported the event initially. It was impressive how the lifeguard stepped in to help restrain the perpetrator, that was so brave and honorable. If I’m going to any beach, it’ll be this one! Thank you for protecting children from people like this!
as scary to be hit on and followed by this guy these girls did so well and told the police in a calm matter even though its such a scary moment. but no one should ever go through this moment and it's incredibly scary and horrible.
I'm really impressed with the bravery of those girls and their willingness to stand up for themselves and how well they articulated the man's assault. They are being raised right. 👍
If you see an assault occurring, report it to the authorities and intervene to protect the person being assaulted and stop the assault immediately. Enlist others if they are nearby to assist in overpowering the criminal. Never tolerate criminal activity. There are societies that tolerate abuse of women. They must be stopped.
I reported an assault once My friend from school was assaulted by her uncle He threatened her with a knife She was 14 at the time I had to protect her Her uncle is now in jail he got charged for assault with a deadly weapon on a minor She's now safe
Been perved on, harassed, followed, Secretly filmed and and even assaulted by creeps since I started secondary school ( 12 ) . Its such a sad reality as a girl , im so glad to see these guys give the creeps a tough time. Because its repulsive 😞
Literally. Living as a girl nowadays feels like a crime. I cannot even go out at evening for a walk without being stared at (note- I am fully covered), everytime I wear something different than baggy clothing I always avoid crowds, to avoid being molested on. It really is pleasant to know that this creep had been stopped from his actions; God knows what else he would've done if not. Furthermore, he assaulted a 15 year-old girl. A child. That makes it even more disgusting and repulsive.
@Joe Mama I'm sure you wouldn't say that to your mother, sister or gf if it happened. Doesn't matter if they find more innovative ways, you still try to find a solution to stopping it. We can't give up on preventing crimes, just because there are more innovative ways that criminals will use. Your intelligence is laughable.
@Joe Mama Not everyone lives in a country where guns are available, not sure what methods your family uses but I guarantee they can't defend themselves in some situations.
I once got kissed by an old drunk guy without consent. I stopped him from trying again and he got the message. Even if this guy wasn't aware they were teens (possible for early bloomers), for this guy to continually harass those after they made it clear that were not interested says a lot about his character. Drunk or not.
The fact he kissed a young girl is one thing but following her and her friend in the water is enough to give anyone the creeps. Had the lifeguards not taken immediate action, who knows what would’ve happened.
I'm relieved someone stood up. And people believed and protected. I've been sexually harrassed when I was like 6 or 7. Or maybe younger. Together w/ 2 of my girl neighbours back then. I think my mom had a feeling something like that was happening but cannot confirm. And I was lying too. Then the surprising thing is, I forgot about all of it until I reached highschool. It was a huge chunk of memories missing. Now, 2 decades later, me and the girls I was with back then, we still don't talk about it. I'm unsure though if they remember. Don't take your eyes off of your kids as juch as possible, teach them what is supposed to happen and what's not. Prepare them and yourselves for the worst case scenarios.
I like that you added a note for parents/guardians toward the end. One would assume that they would instantly know when harm is being brought to their child. My mother was incredibly protective of my sister and I about it because at a young age, she had an uncle who’d molest her. Her parents never suspected a thing and would send her each Saturday to sell him cheese my grandmother would make. When my mother was busy, they’d sent my aunt who was about four years older than her. The event went on for a few years and when my mother brought herself to bring a pocket knife with her with the intention of killing him on the designated Saturday- he died on Friday in a car crash. My mother mourned the accident, not because it killed him but because her cousin died in the event as well. When her parents scolded her for her lack of mourning over her uncle, she snapped and exposed what he had been doing. When the family retorted with lack of trust, my aunt broke down and confessed that the man had been doing the same to her. She made sure to always lecture us on the limits others should have and made us know that it was not okay if someone made us feel uncomfortable within such manner. My father never had a good relationship with my mother, always just driven by his needs which he always excused as part of him being a man. He often tried touching her when she did not want to be touched, even when she was asleep but my mother pushed through it. When he started trying to touch me, she instantly kicked him out and filed for divorce. The only reason why she evaded leaving him when he tormented her was because she had fear of my sibling and I not having a father figure, but with that act of his, she determined he was no father at all. It is surprising, the thing that struck to me about your story was that you forgot about it for a while. It is very similar in my case too. I had originally blamed It on me being a forgetful person, but for a period of time I had really forgotten of the event. The sentiments of anger remained but the actions he had delivered to me vanished almost entirely
Same, what happened to me would have been traumatizing if I were older at that time (by three boys of the same age). We were maybe 5-6? Thank goodness their mother came, she sent me home and I think punished the three of them because she was yelling when I left. Next thing I know, I was just sitting beside my father, without telling him anything (I didn't feel anything about and didn't feel the need to I guess?). Until this I don't know whether the mother alerted my parents or not but no one has ever mentioned it
Sometimes it's so scary to be harassed that we don't want to go out anymore fearing it will happen again 😔 I've personally never had it happen but I've had older men stare at me and almost follow me before. Thank you very much for handling the situation, we are all extremely grateful to have people like you to help ☺
@@masenko4519 I've never seen them before, I was walking my dog back home and they appeared out of nowhere and kept about the same speed to me. They then disappeared a bit after. They had a creepy face, looking like they were very annoyed. I felt extremely concerned for the rest of the night. It could've just been a local that were also walking home though.
Similar situation happened to me but it wasn’t at a beach, it was at a funeral and it still gets to me. I wish I was as brave as these girls to say right away to my mum what happened
Gotta be absolutely fucked in the head to do that to someone at a FUNERAL. I’m incredibly sorry that happened and I hope it doesn’t hinder your dad-to-day life.
Totally random: those who's seen a lot of Bondi Rescue - did you notice how the beach view has changed over the years? In 2000s there were just a few umbrellas and now they are verywhere. Skin cancer awareness does its thing finally!
The guy was so quick and glib with his answers, I reckon he has been in trouble with the police before. The most likely reason he has no wallet is, he has dropped his wallet on purpose, knowing that by having no ID, he can give fake identity details. The police know what that's about, that's why they challenged him hard about having "no money".
Really, REALLY good job by the lifeguard there. Calmly and politely keeping tabs on the suspect (god, I hate that word when it's this obvious) until the police arrive and then assisting the police in a proportionate manner without either holding back or going over the top. Excellent work.
I have been assaulted at work as a government official in front of other colleges and they did nothing. One day I just yelled at the guy in front of everyone (he assaults in public so why not),..the guy made himself into the victim and stopped bothering me. All my colleges stopped talking and socializing to me. They knew what was happening and were ok with it, when I defended myself they weren't ok with it.
Every girl will have a sexual harassment story, even before they reach a consenting age. It's honestly disturbing. Those men KNOW they are doing wrong, hence why they prey on young girls and not older women; they target the vulnerable in the hopes that they won't stand up for themselves. We really need to arm all our young girls with knowledge and expectations, so they have the tools to protect themselves and deter these assaults.
@@holtoda5833 most women will be harassed and or assaulted through their life. While yes, men can be victims too, women and girls are statistically more likely to be on the receiving end. This is a video about young girls, so the comment was aimed at young girls, and they should be educated on how to stay safe, as should young lads, and maybe one day they'll all grow up to never harass anyone.
@@holtoda5833 yes *every* girl unfortunately will have stuff like this happen at some point you can try to downplay it all you want as a man, but if you were to ask every woman if they dealt with stuff like this you would hear from atleast 99% of them “yes”.
@@holtoda5833 Yes, every girl, every women- some of them do not talk about it, or simple have no person to talk about it, partially due to attitudes like yours, but for most it happens: not once in lifetime, but many, many times- and it doesn't imply the fact that boys and man can get assaulted.
It’s really disgusting and unsettling, that someone would think that’s ok. But it unfortunately happens everywhere. I remember volunteering at school fundraiser at the local park. Two older men stalked some classmates and i to the Starbucks across the street. We had to run in and notify the staff, we were able to get our drinks. And a couple of employees walked us to cross walk and watched us until we made it back to our teachers safely.
This is really relatable to my story I live in Australia and I was at the beach when this drugged up guy came up to me and I was litteraly 13 and started asking me all these super sexual questions I didn't answer him back and just stayed quiet I was waiting for my family to get changed in the bathroom so I was by myself than thankfully some stranger stop him and told him to leave me alone and stood up for me thank god.
Drunk, no cash, no ID, no money to get home seems suspicious for more than the obvious. Even his "friends" didn't want to hang out with him at the beach.
I've been sexually abused by the same older man since I was about 9, I'm 20 now, I'm still too scared to tell anyone Thank you for taking abuse seriously
I’m so sorry this has happened to you. You can tell or not tell on your own timeline. Please keep in mind statute of limitations and the fact that he may be doing this to others. Hope you come forward one day but that’s your decision obviously.
Bloke went on holiday, had a few drinks on the beach then thought he was anonymous and he could behave unchecked. When Harrison said, 'he was on the defensive straight away..' bloke knew he was caught out. Kudos to the young women and to the team involved.
I was followed by a 2 meter dude for a whole hour when I was 16 in the middle of the day, I am still afriad to be alone at 30. I will never forget that day. Thank you for doing this.
I'm 38 now but I can think back to so many times in my childhood and as a young pre-teen/teen where I felt extremely uncomfortable around a man but I either went along with it or tried to make it seem like it was no big deal, laughed nervously, that kind of thing, when it was not OK. As women we are taught from a young age to go with the flow, don't rock the boat, smile and be cooperative and friendly. Be polite at the expense of your feelings. We were taught to not take up space or be loud or have strong opinions, and because of these sorts of things so many of us grew up to allow awful situations to happen because we didn't want to seem RUDE, or cold, or bitchy. I'm so glad that the younger generation aren't learning these same things. As Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark say; "Fuck politeness!"
I think you can be taught politeness as a cover for steel. I think that's how my parents taught me. I can be naturally very loud, outspoken and it was important for me to learn how to reign that in and listen to others. But when it comes to justice and safety, I try to use my loudness and boldness not just for me but for others. I am actually in a situation now with an elderly friend where the nursing home staff is not taking great care of her and aside from helping out where, I am considering how and when to most effectively speak up.
Always look out for the safety of young kids, women and our elderly. If you have a heart you can make a difference in a world with so many terrible people. When I take my niece to the park I often find myself making sure the parents are watching their own kids! It truly is a scary world. Bless you and much love!
@@Mike_Hawk1 if you’re on a temporary visa then you can get deported(like a tourists visa). not if you are on a permanent visa working there for example
@@Mike_Hawk1 Most countries deport foreign visa holders if they commit a crime/crimes and indecent assault is a pretty serious charge, the fact it was a minor makes it much worse. Absolutely disgusting behaviour that has no excuse or justification! Send him packing and ban him from coming back, child predators aren't welcome here.
@@Mike_Hawk1 Not really comparable considering I was born here and this guy wasn't. I acknowledge that Australia always was and always will be Aboriginal land, but I haven't committed a crime by being born here 😂
The best thing to do when this happens is make sure you file a report with the police, because otherwise not only will this guy do it over and over, he will go further and further and think its ok. Thats true for every situation, and everyone who witnesses something should come forward. Otherwise nothing will change.
That's a job well done, I'll say. If there are multiple witnesses/ victims and the guy thinks he can get away with indecent behaviour, other pervs like him have got another thing coming. This is how we prevent damaging incidents from occurring again and teach everyone that acting this way is not acceptable and will not be tolerated. Compliance with sexual harassment against a person's will is not okay.
@BluEclipse you're replying to the wrong person. The original poster asked why people say huh when asked a question and I answered that they're stalling so they could think up a lie. That's who you should be directing this to. I just gave the reason they do it, as was requested.
"I'm gonna sue ya!" Love how people think that's the way to get out of everything now. People have watched a little too much TV if they think this is the way things work in life.
Great work by all. If he is a tourist, he will go to court, be found guilty, hopefully some jail time but best of all, he will be deported & NEVER get another visa to visit our country again!
I always cringe when I hear encounters in the water. I was literally almost drowned by a male friend of mine when I was younger. He had started making advances and I always just kind of ignored them. But he started acting in exceedingly angry ways. At the public pool we had actually all come together (we had pretty much grown up together). He dunked me.. but instead of letting me up after, he put his knees on my back with his hands on my neck and head and kept his weight on me to keep me under. At first I was like oh he plays rough, then I started to run out of air and he still wouldn't let me up. Some random guys a little older than us actually came over and shoved him off pretty roughly and surrounded me. He went red face enraged seeing me surrounded, pulled up, cared for and defended by them.. as I was actually coughing and sputtering and really dizzy. And it was a weird rage. Not even like how dare you stop me. But a weird jealousy! Really damaged our friendship and made me so weary of him.
Jesus! That would have been terrifying. If he tried to drown you and is becoming aggressive, are you sure you still want to stay friends with him let alone still in contact?? You deserve better than that!
Attempted murder you mean..he's nutso. Hope you filed a police report? You're not safe with him in the vicinity. Radically off in his thinking and behaviour, nothing normal there. Get some self defence lessons and don't be caught out on your own if possible. Stalker type for sure. May God bless you and keep you safe. Hope you have friends you can call to escort you if and when necessary yeah? Keep your back covered when out. So no suprise pouncing on you unawares. Stay alert.
This happens more often than you think. Near schools, in parks, on uber/taxi rides, etc. Most of time no one will believe the victim or even care when there’s no witness/camera. I’m glad these guys took this seriously.
It's not acceptable in France (where this man has citizenship). Even though this man's face is blurred out, it's obvious he belongs to a cultural group that has 'unusual' ideas about Western women.
I want to give a round of applause for the people who witnessed and helped. When I was sexually assaulted one of my best friends at the time saw it, and instead of helping me, he made a joke about it. He continually would make me sit next to my assaulter, since he thought it was funny, and gave my phone number to the guy. When I later went and reported it, he refused to talk about what he saw, since he didn’t want to get in trouble.
I saw a grown man assault a little girl before. He was screaming at her and he threw dirt right in her face. It got in her eyes. It was so shocking. I just stood there dumbfounded. I couldn't believe what I just saw. I have always wished I had reacted differently because ..no matter what she did... He NEVER should have done that. He was grown.. she was just a little girl. YOU DONT THROW DIRT IN SOMEONES FACE!!
Absolutly love these guys all of them are amazing people... i cant swim and always fear my kids will drowned i panick everytime i go beach here in the uk. There is no lifeguards at all its scary, so to see all these amazing men do what they do is brilliant they deserve a medal....binge watchin for days love them all so kind and caring aswell.... And i must say i have a lil soft spot for all of them but harrison, jesse and jethro lol my favs... well done guys
After lifeguarding and having to deal with more and more drunk people, I got a good job in coaching. Being a guard on the beach is cool but having to deal with drunk people sucks. Well, then they made drinking on the beach illegal anyway.
@@Aliciae411 nah, I think it’s it’s socially acceptable to approach a woman. So long as it’s respectful and the guy is comfortable with taking a “no”. Otherwise we would never procreate. If you’re terrified of human interaction then just stay home but don’t ruin the fun for the rest of us because you lack basic social skills.
@@codgamefreak602 did you not watch the video? he grabbed her, threw her into the water and kissed her without consent. That’s not ok if it’s a 15 year old or 35 year old 😒 no woman wants that. He wasn’t respectfully approaching anyone and flirting he was drunk and trying to get pleasure from whoever he could. But ok try and insult me when you know nothing about me and it’s totally unrelated to my comment 😂 the video is literally titled man assaults 15 year old child and your response is leave the children alone there’s hundreds of other woman to go after…
@@Aliciae411 I think what @codegamefreak602 MEANT was yes, its ok to approach WOMEN as in GROWN UP ADULT WOMEN on the beach, as that guy is a grown man and should stick to women his age.
@@Aliciae411 ye she guy is an ah but the commenter is probably talking about normal men. Not perverts who do this bullshit. They probably mean normal guys who wanna talk to women qnd not force them jnto shit or throw them
Sure sign of someone doing something wrong is if they ask you, "What did I do wrong?" They know what they did but like to put the blame on the victim so the victim questions their own behaviour. Good on those girls for speaking up.
It's disgusting how there's actually people that do this. Back when I went to public school (no this is not at the beach but it's still pretty close to the topic of the video) there were boys who kept touching me. Touchy touching. They never apologized and the punishments were barley anything. And there were a lot of pervy kids. Always climbing over bathroom stalls and peeking. Another at a pool, when I was changing, a family was walking through the lady's changing room, and they boys of the group were staring through the cracks of the stall doors as they walked by. 😓 I wish I was braver back then.