I just happen to run across your channel. I wanna thank you for bringing light to abuse, mental illness & so much more. May your blessings go beyond heaven's door🤲🏾💜 Ps. You're a great journalist and you truly make these sistas feel like they're in a safe space & that's ext important. Respectfully, Kmichelle❤
Man oh man 😭 when she said the whole apartment was on fire except the bedroom where the kids were, I lost it! Can’t nobody tell me there weren’t angels guarding the doorpost of that bedroom keeping those babies safe! God said not today satan, touch not my anointed! ❤
Yeah this is my reminder to talk to my teen about emotion regulation and how to just walk when a woman doesn’t want you any more. Talk to your sons!!! If u see signs of crazy…get them help now before they hurt someone or themselves!
This story took her 15 years to tell, just think about that… almost 20 years. Being vulnerable, honest & helping others through testimony is not easy. Please watch these episodes with a kind heart & thank you for continuing to trust Trappin Anonymous ❤
Wow! She is NOT lying when she said “once they put their hands on you, they will always put their hands on you” it took me loving myself more than he hated me to get up and move on. I use to get sad when thinking on the 14 wasted years…but good things have come my way and I feel that I had to take that path in order to appreciate where I am.
@maureenhuertas9264 girl that's my current situation, 15 years, 2 boys, I'm so disgusted the time I wasted but I finally woke up! Thx God for that! I don't care if I ever met another man again, as long as I raise healthy, successful boys that do NOTHING their father did to me
@@9jvfnvolkerts693 yessss, yesss! Praise God. My son was 6 and my daughter was 2. My son is stilled scarred by some things but I knew if I didn’t get out for me, I had to for them. I’m wishing you nothing but the best! Hugs from Indiana ❤️❤️
There's a lot of crazy women out there too There's a lot of really good guys out there too..... And a lot of good women...... Lets not bash ALL men ....its not right..... There are a lot of heroes out there that help people and save people every day❤❤❤...
@@BlackbettyBamdalam True. But this video isn’t about those people. Let’s not get too sensitive and stay on topic 😉 I can speak from experience. My bf almost took my life then shot himself instead. I’m a survivor. 💯
For him to not even care about his own child is crazy we have to stop being afraid to call the cops on these men we do not have to allow them to put our life and kids life in danger.
@@TrappinAnonymous they do this mind game we not supposed to call the cops we not supposed to protect ourselves we go to jail when we do it first it’s scary out here.
@@yourriderdie8472 they try to say you a rat it’s one thing to have a altercation let’s be clear there’s a difference you can tell when a man really wants to hurt you when your not being aggressive and he’s fighting you throws yours and his child sir your going to jail I would have been had a restraining order and you going to jail or I’m wiping you out sometimes the police don’t do enough.
The police dont give a damn especially when it comes to minorities but imma for SURE use em to get my paper trail if nothing else so if im forced to lay his a$$ down I have all my ish documented. Ive seen stories of victims who have restraining/protective orders ect and STILL ended up unalived. On the flip side, These situations are dangerous for everyone involved and women who play games with the men and give them any chance once its established who, what and how he is make it difficult for the police or anyone else to protect them.
@@rhondabeal7468listen to her final words “Don’t ever think this won’t happen to you because I thought this would never happen to me.” You can’t control what another person does. So please don’t act like just bc you are married this can’t happen to you!! Look for the signs and move accordingly!!
Some of these comments up here really piss me off...Nobody knows how they will react in a situation like this..its easy to say oh i wouldn't have done this or that.But the truth is you don't know
No matter the situation what he did was not warranted!!!!!!!!!! He was an evil selfish man that couldn’t control his emotions. So glad that her and her babies made it out alive that was God definitely on her side! ❤
It really DOES matter what the situation is, ma'am because breeding with dusties creates a lifetime of punishment for THE CHILDREN born of this epidemic of dysfunction in the black community. Until women take FULL accountability of our own wombs and consider our UNBORN children over our own selfish lust, the results will be the same. Look around you. Poor choices created the current state of illegitimacy, crime, poverty, abuse, violence, imprisonment and death amongst black folks from the hood. Wake up!
Obsession can play a big part in mental health as well especially when you never got any help and you can feel abandoned at times some people can become obsessed and get into that mind set of if I can’t have you nobody will. Sometimes it’s not mental health either some people are just plan damn evil and walk with the devil people love to hide behind mental health when in all actuality they are just sick, crazy mean individuals and most men can’t handle rejection it makes it worse.
She is beautiful she still has a lot of healing to do…a Man who dates her has to be super careful I wish and pray the best for her….Thanks for telling your story
It’s the fact that she never brought up her kids… not even to the paramedic. They just happened to find them? Spent more time talking about nonsense then her children.
I haven't been in a relationship in like 6 years I'm afraid of these cat's smmfh I don't even try to date it's just to much going on out here it's like I'm in the twilight zone or something wow! I'm afraid of these people I really am lord have mercy I'm so sorry this happen to her this is just horrible!!
@@corneshahenderson8169 you are so lucky!! yes hold on to your husband!! I've never been married I feel i was cheated in this life I'm 40 and I've been in relationships and all that the one person that did propose to me he was in the service during 911 and when they went to war over there he was on a mission and his fighter jet was hit and he didn't survive it i was 1 year out of high school and i went to Florida to attend the home going with his family his mom and dad are sisters and brothers and nieces and nephews and grandparents it was very emotional and heartbreaking I couldn't stop crying well after that like a year later I was dating and that's all I did was date nothing serious and I'm 40 it became the babymama and babydaddy era not the my husband anymore I say i feel cheated because I didn't get a chance to see the 60's and 70's the music was much better and couples got married and stayed married we were a much stronger unit we had more unity and love for each other I know there were problems and it wasn't always peaches and cream and a cake Walk I understand there were significant issues in that time as well but nothing like this it is absolutely horrible now! these cats these days are I don't even know what to call them but not all of them but most act like they have lost their minds I mean they will do anything! back then we had more respect for ourselves and pride there was a time where the man went to work and mom stayed at home kept the house clean and had dinner on the table and raised the kids until dad came home and yes of course they did their little cheating then too that's always been going on I know but he came home kept the bill's paid and food on the table still these cats today girllll u are very lucky! keep working together and love each other and have fun together like i said I know it wasn't easy but at least you have someone to grow with and be there for you I don't have that and it doesn't look like I will u are very lucky
This is so sad 😢 this is one of the reasons that I have been single for 8 yrs now, I’m afraid to let anyone in my space to hurt harm or unalive me. I have never dealt with this type of relationship but I see it more and more from other people sharing their stories and social media. My life is peaceful and drama free, it get lonely yes but I’m at peace and sleep well. God Bless you all 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am 9 years single and happier with my son now my now-ex is out of the home. I didn't realise the stress, tension, negativity from him. And how much my son was hurting from the verbal, emotional and sometimes physical abuse. I will never trust another so prefer to be single that go through that again. **I know my story is a droplet in the ocean compared to some. Stay safe x
God has you and your beautiful sons here for a reason 🙏 I'm so sorry this happened to you, but more so I'm so happy you survived ❤️ may God and your ancestors continue to protect you and watch Over your life!! God bless you 💫
Unbelievable! this is so sad.. If I didn’t get married I would probably be single for rest of my life i’m glad she and her kids survived, I don’t know how I could date or talk to anyone AFTER this.. It’ll just be me and my 3..
A man that can't control his emotions are dangerous and shouldn't even be in a relationship she has to take some accountability on how she got with him in the first place 😬
I don't hate you. I love you for speaking up and TELLING THE TRUTH about the root of this disastrous epidemic that has wreaked havoc, destruction and decimated the black community! I will say this every chance I get: 🗣WOMEN (consensual sex) ARE THE SOLE GATEKEEPERS OF BEARING CHILDREN. I don't care what the male does or doesn't do, we must protect ourselves from creating innocent lives for sport, like trophies of every dysfunctional relationship! It's ridiculous, embarrassing, unintelligent and a recipe for failure. The evidence is all around us.
@@angelblue314both parties needed strong fathers in the homes. He wouldn't have been so emotionally unstable & she would know not to choose a man like that. And I love Dr. Peterson also. I have all of his books.
She has guardian Angels protecting her and her kids!! When she said, she should have listened to her mother, who had a bad feeling about him, MOMMA KNOWS BEST!! I disnt listen to my mom about a guy I was dating, found out later he had a few kidnapping charges,so i quietly left him. I pray that she continues to heal for herself and kids.
Every interview, every story, every traumatic event you cover shows the undeniable strength of the survivor. It is also a testimony of God’s love and power. Thank you Chris and Trappinanonymous for giving these survivors a platform to share.
Baby girl if you get a chance to read any of our comments I hope you come across mine. when I say you are a blessing. And you were meant to be here I would have thought having a iron put to my body heretic. But what you and them babies endure y'all are strong and loved❤❤❤
I don’t know what it is about New Yorkers , but the people are so hard and callous. A woman on fire is screaming and no one helped?! I always hear them say, “i just mind my business” sad …i hate getting calls at work from New York because i know they’re going to be rude and nasty. Awful place with rude people
She stated her nwighbor which happend to be her Homegirls dauvhter saw what was goimg on and told her mother and the neighbor/homegirl risked her life by coming outside with a knife which ultimately caused him to run away so......
Damn this was a great interview. I commend you for what you did to protect you and your babies... Thank you, God, for giving her 4 years' son discernment to protect his baby brother... that should be all DV victims in cases of almost death experience. If you let them out, im training killers that was a deep one there. Thank you all again for another great story ❤
Thank you beautiful for sharing you experiences!! Im sorry you webt thru this but you are a STRONG WONDERFUL OUTSTANDING MOM FRIEND DAUGHTER AND WOMAN. STAY STRONG GOD BLESS
Everything she said beside the fire I been threw every single a thing !!! She said what I been feeling for years .. but speaking about my feelings is hard for me and she said everything I been threw and felt to. Tee!!! Besides me in a fire .. but down to men and group homes and homes it’s self and lot trusting anyone down to a teee
I stopped watching at the beginning. When she said she opened the door. Why would you do that knowing it was gas? Why wouldn’t you leave him outside and call 911? You let him in? Wow…
She did not let him. Y’all need to listen and not be so quick to argue. She thought the liquid was water, when she realized it was gasoline she tried to plead with him. When he tried to force his way in to reach her children that’s when the fight ensued and he followed her in the hallway. Whether she would’ve call the police or not at that time, he would’ve still set fire to that gasoline. Her fighting him is what prevented him from pouring gasoline in the home which saved her kids because the fire wasn’t big enough to reach them.
@@KayTalkNYC if you go back and listen she says the liquid came UNDER THE DOOR! She touched and smelled it THEN OPENED THE DOOR TO PLEAD WITH HIM! I went back and listened AGAIN
@@KayTalkNYC okay ma’am kmsl… ain’t that important to me. Like I said she OPENED THE DOOR! Call the cops and let them deal with it. YOU WERE SAFE BEHIND THE DOORRRRRRRR😂😂😂
@@tamekadouglas638 Well you need to go back and listen again. She didn’t open the door to let him in. She opened it to plead with him, to talk some sense into him. When she realized he was trying to get to her kids, she pushed him out into the hallway and locked the door again. Then the fight ensued. Like I said before had she not done that the fire would’ve been worse. What do you supposed she had done? Since you have all the ideas? Keep the door closed and allow him to pour gasoline under the door, into the apartment, then the whole apartment would be engulfed and she wouldn’t be here to tell the story?
This by far is the WORST SCARIEST SO “put myself in the shoes” interview out of all of your interviews…. All I could do was put myself in her shoes and I’m like my god that it SCARY Frightening , I’m soooo hurt she went thru this ….. domestic is no JOKE !!!! This interview got me …. This is the most scariest real interview ever , different from the others this is what you need !!! More ppl like this need to come forward this is soooooooo sad I am hurting right now for her I really am
Whew, this was super tense. Probably one of the most tense stories I've heard. The fact that she survived, came out of insanity, etc, all I can say is, God! To Him all glory is due! I pray Latesha, will be completely delivered and healed from her traumatic experience. That you will know fully the love of God the Father. And experience Jesus joy. IJN 🙏🏾
Ladies the first sign of aggression LEAVE! I’m sorry this happened but we have to love ourselves and have boundaries with EVERYONE and non negotiable. We teach folk how to treat us
How you never got back with him after he almost killed your baby at 2 months while being in the car seat but yet you was pregnant again by him the day he burned your house down ? 😏😌🕵️♀️
I just watched that part she said the baby was 2-3 months in a car seat in the house and he beat her up and the car seat flipped and the baby was face down in the carpet. She managed to flip the baby back up and the baby gasped for air. If she never got back together with him there should be no 3rd kid unless he ain't the father 💯
When did she say HE was the father? Even when mwntioning how he was willimg to harm/kill his own kids she said "one of those kids are yours " she never added she was pregnant with his child also. I was listening to see if that was the case. So unless shes just keeping that part discrete then.....
This story literally has me crying! MAN, girl bless your heart, soul, and body! Lord no one deserves this- this is the most evil thing you could do to someone! How evil can you be! I’m so sorry, I know you do not date anymore! You’re beautiful, I pray you learn to love and trust again! Bless your children! We will die for our kids, I’m so happy to hear god protected those babies!
I’m so confused.. why she didn’t call 911 as soon as she noticed he threw alcohol all in her house before he came back in instead trying to reason with him
My eyes welled up when she said if my kids aren’t here what’s the point to live . My son has kept me balanced ever since he was born and I believe her babies kept her alive and fighting ❤️❤️❤️
Wow I had her on my social media for yeeeeeeaaaaaars.. that's wild crazy wtf. never knew about this ever she don't talk about it on there.. She seems very outgoing judging by her posts.. vacations, shopping and taking care of her kids... 🙏🙏🙏🙏
You are such a beautiful amazing and strong woman. You fighting for your children saved your children’s lives. You did not deserve that. I pray for your healing, recovery, and safety. I am glad that he will never get out of prison. Please leave a gofundme page link. I would love to help and support your goals, your dreams, and help out with any hardships. God bless you. Thanks for sharing her story.🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾💯💯💯💜💜💜💜💜
Sending over continued prayers for her healing n to not place blame on herself... he's the one who had the problems n was projecting whatever past traumas he had on to her! Thank God the court system actually did right by her.
I feel her I begged the judge to keep me in lock up too didn't wanna go home they were my family I felt safe there Structure Etc She was not gonna be a victim anymore After a 5 year Dv Relationship R*pe M*lestation etc I wasn't gonna be either neither were my kids I feel her in my heart wish her well
I tell all the ladies when God show you red flags about a person you better run like never before. Sometimes women like the bad boys until something happens.
I'm so glad this baby knew that God saved her babies because there's no one like HIM GOD knew what he was doing and I'm so thankful for her and her babies GOD is SHONUFF MERCIFUL and GOOD ain't HE Y'ALL AMEN 💙🙌🏾
