That's an instant bathroom-bail for me. She's texting or taking calls mid-date, that tells me she ain't interested in anything but my money & likes to waste time.
"What part of I'm fine, means that I'm fine?" Well you see, men will take you at your word. If you're not actually fine, be an adult and communicate properly.
There has been many videos that have stated, that women do not communicate well. There communication skills are not there. Women think and expect a man to read her mind.
I respectfully disagree and I'll give you a couple reasons why. For one, the word you referred to literally means 'adulteress'. And while yes, there's a culture of that too, most of these people sleeping around can even get close to that level of commitment. Secondly, I don't think a lot of the people are even deriving much money or pleasure from it. They're doing it because they think it's what they're supposed to do, but it makes them feel empty and that's what confuses them. If I may make a suggestion, I would suggest the word 'harlot' instead. That word originally referred to a vagabond or a person with no fixed position, and I think that's a perfect word to describe the lost and aimless youth, especially when applied to relationships and intercourse.
@@Mereologist While I agree harlot is a good word and vastly underused these days. May I suggest a compromise and call is Strumpet culture? I think we can both agree the word fits.
If you press the issue of a woman saying she's fine when she isn't... then she'd just get mad and start a fight instead. There's no right way to handle that situation, she'll be angry either way.
Best case scenario: It genuinely doesn't involve you. She doesn't want to burden you, it'd be rude to pry into her personal business. Worst case: It does involve you, but she's choosing to to play games rather than using her words like an adult. No point engaging.
The proper way to handle that is to call her an insecure liar and then leave her. She's not secure enough with herself to tell the truth. She's for someone else. Don't put up with that BS.
I have a strong feeling that women purposefully initiate fights, mainly for two reasons - firstly, to feel strong emotions; secondly, to test the boundaries you established and check if you became soft or not
The woman telling Dr. John Deloney about her infidelity, calling her affair partner a "gentleman". A guy who knowingly is involved with another man's wife is not a gentleman.
My parents taught me a Chinese proverb. “If you don’t listen to the elderly, you will have a bitter path in front of you” The elderly are not always right about everything, but to ignore their words of wisdoms is stupid. I avoided so many life problems by listening to not only elders but also experienced people
@@annie_png oh yeah! As soon as her marriage comes apart at the seams her AP will be gone like a fart in the wind. Then she’ll be left wondering why she trashed 7 years of marriage just to start all over again at ground zero.🤦♂️
you can avoid almost all of this by not dating someone that wants to post their entire lives on social media for imaginary likes from people that don't care about them.
I'm too old to understand this irrational, need to have likes or clicks or whatever from total strangers or even high school friends period it just strikes me as the stupidest and psychologically weakest way to live a life.
I made about half that my best few years, invested around 50% once my house was paid off, and have been able to retire before 50, im a silent partner in 2 businesses that provide me with more than enough to maintain the lifestyle that i and my wife want and now i get to mess around in my workshop and go on nice vacations without having to go to work every day. Im far from rich but if i want something i can go buy it and i don't have to worry about how im going to pay the bills, the problem is these guys bragging about this crap are blowing most of what they have coming in and are more worried about appearing rich than having any sort of secure future. I grew up in a poor family and knew from the start i wanted to make sure i wasn't going to be spending my later years killing myself to make someone else rich while i was living check to check like my parents did.
If a girl tried to eat off of my plate, and was on her phone on a date, I would just ask the waiter to be seated at another table. The date would be over.
First thing a young man needs to know today is if a girl that you fancy has perfectly manicured nails all the time RUN SHE WONT EVEN MAKE YOU A SANDWICH LET ALONE HELP BUILD YOUR FUTURE.
@@rexbanner7256 Excessive tattoos, facial piercings in general, overly obsessive, not natural hair color, excessive makeup all the time, always complaining about her job, dresses provocative, and public social media/content creator
1. That hubby cheating story - Sick, first because the partner knows he is wrecking a marriage and also because the wife has the audacity to say that she still loves her hubby, you wouldn't have cheated if you loved him. 2. If you try and grab my food with your fork, especially when I have said no, my fork will end up in your hand.
I hate it when people think it's ok to pick food off of other people's plates. It's a different story if someone offers you a "taste" of what their food is first. But a taste offered is just that, it doesn't mean you can just keep going back for more...
That should be the fancy/not fancy dining threshold: if you can choose off the menu, it's not fancy. Real high-end restaurants, you're served what the chef wants you to experience.
If somebody tried to take food from my plate in my younger days, they were risking their fingers......nowadays I share my food........... but only with my dogs. Humans are stil a no-no.......
It can happen. I moved to Thailand. Going out to restaurants in a foreign country, getting some advice on what to order is a good idea. They got some dishes that are satan’s asshole hot. That’s normal for them. It about killed me. Normally I would agree with you. Especially if they’re just being controlling. But when you don’t know the food it helps to have someone give you suggestions. But it would be the same if I was out with anyone, friends or a date.
@@ODB11B Ye but its steak and ribs lol, that applies to spice-centric foods though, or worse if you have some type of food allergy, gotta know what has nuts in it, dairy or w/e.
You dont even need to be making money to be a man, you need to have principles. That was the weakest man i seen all day on the internet. Money does not make the man, it breaks him
Honestly if a girl says she’s okay, I’ll just ask a second time and after that I’ll just assume she’s okay. And when she asked why I didn’t do anything I’ll just say I asked twice for clarification.
"As political and economic freedom diminishes, sexual freedom tends correspondingly to increase. And the dictator will do well to encourage that freedom...it will help to reconcile his subjects to the servitude which is their fate." - Aldous Huxley
Social media didn't damage the dating game, it's people's attitude, unrealistic expectations, and the way that people use social media that caused the damage.
Who has seen Baki? You know that face Yujiro makes after Baki hit him with a whip strike? That’s my face when I hear “I cheated but I still love my spouse”… NO TF YOU DON’T.
If she's a princess what am I talking to her for, if I want her I'll go negotiate for her dad to sell me on her with a dowry and political alliance between our houses. I'll meet her at the altar for the first time.
This is a great episode on the major importance of frame, one of the most fundamental sets of information for young men to hear actually, the word "NO" is magic
The last gal? It would have been over the moment after she pulled that crap. I believe that my departure statement would have been: "It is obvious to me that you are an egotistical and way, WAY overly entitled person. I wish you a good life but I'm am so relieved that I don't have to be in it." Then, paid my portion of the bill and walked out. TV show be damned.
One of the most meaningful and saddest compliments I have gotten from my man is that he has only experienced unconditional love from me. My love for him will live longer than I will because one of the main things I believe people will mention about me is how much I love my man and cherished him because that's one of the things I am known most for. Just like my Nana (great grandma) you can't mention her name without talking about how much she loved my papa and how much she loved taking care of him. I am inspired to be like her and I am blessed that I got to experience learning from her when I was a young child.
I wish more women shared your philosophy in life. There'd be so much less of these kinds of videos if they did. Men are hurt, some of them vicariously through their bros and men they don't even know, and don't want to risk it. It's one thing to be alone from the rest of the world, and another completely to have someone to be alone _with._
I work at IT and I discussed a raise today small talk with my boss about family life. They ask me when I’m going to date if I’m going to have a family in the future and I just didn’t wanna say out loud, Insult whatever you think _________________ and I didn’t want to say it out loud out of respect The older generation won’t understand what we need to put up with. It comes to everything.
I wouldnt give you a raise (i think thats what youre talking about) because you lack any semblence of grammar. You cant construct a coherent sentence explaining what you want to say. Im utterly unsure wtf youre trying to tell us. If english isnt your first language, fine atleast youre trying.. If it is? Elic fail.
For the average man these days it's better to rent short-term than to take the chance that he will make a lifetime commitment to a disloyal person who cares only for herself and will take advantage of him.
The realization that today: a Hooker, a cook and a maid; are all cheaper than having a modern girlfriend. And they listen to what you say, for... Money Which is ironically the thing most women want...
Better to just stay away from all of em. Std's on the rise. Been hearing sick herpes stories. These women wont ever tell you the truth and hiv. Not even worth a pump anymore.
@@tomferguson9250 Not even them. I had a roommate whose cat ran away. Ran away from a house full of food and people who wanted to be nice to it. But there was one person - her daughter - who tortured it as much as possible because she thought it was fun. Soon it wouldn't even come inside the house because it was afraid she would be in it, and eventually it just found another family that wouldn't torture it.
Guys, these ladies think their phone is more valuable to her than you. Their attention, validation, from random strangers is more important to her than you. But, you can be her friend-zoned simp wallet, and pay her bills. ‘Run, get to the chopper.’
He got to make her suffer and not get her way. He did the right thing. Afterwhile, she was probably crying to her girls that he was a jerk. I'm sure some of them know it was she that is the jerk.
A woman I knew, I said that when I got a new iPhone she’d get my old one. I got the new one, she tried to claim it. “But you said I’d get the new one!” “No, that’s what you said. I said you’d get the old one.” She was so frustrated, being furious and knowing her fury was groundless.
It’s like “women pick food off their man’s plates” is a woman version of something inherently masculine like “men leave the toilet seat up” and she’s chosen to fabricate it as something she “just does” as a way to say “look how girly and feminine I am.” But it’s all an act. You either want to try a bite of his dish or you don’t depending on how hungry you are or if you want to try something different. To say that you just do that every single time no matter the situation or what he’s eating, means it is just an act to try and look “cute.” Orrrrrr…. If it’s not an act to try and look “cute” by taking a common thing women do and forcing herself to make it part of her personality, then it’s straight up just a test to see how much she will be able to walk all over a man. Either way, it’s cringe.
Guy: "Honey...I'll have to cancel lunch tomorrow. I'll be watching the game with the guys...we all haven't had a chance to catch up in 6 months." Girl: "Ok...FINE!" Guy: "Honey...I'm so sorry, but I'll have to cancel lunch tomorrow. I'll be watching the game with the guys...we all haven't had a chance to catch up in 6 months. I'll make it up to you by taking you out to that nice Mexican restaurant you love and then take you salsa dancing afterwards." Girl: "Ok...FINE!" Sometimes you just can't win!
@@RobertMorgan A very desirable superpower would be having the ability to read women's minds; however, even if you read her mind, she'll still say you're wrong!
I don't know why most men try so hard. She starts over talking, forgets her space and you just open the door and let her out never to be seen ever again. Men need to understand women have a clock and there are way more women then men on the planet. Everything on the planet is based on supply and demand. Since there's less men there's a higher demand for men.
Its not impossible that she can learn to be a better person in that last clip, she's just never had anyone to teach her. The problem is that she offers zero to be attracted TO, and why stick around to teach her?
Truer words have never been spoken. After all, even your own family can easily take advantage of you despite the love being present. Perfect unconditional love doesn't exist except from animals that both know and appreciate your existence no matter what.
Dogs "love" those that feed them. I can take anyones "loving dog" with food. They don't love you, they're just single mother women looking for the meal ticket.
@@Retro-Iron11 Have you seen video of the dog waiting for his owner in Japans railway for years? Comes exactly the time the train used to arrive. All these years the dog was waiting for the food. Besides what I wrote is basically metaphor. So many geniuses in here do not get it. Did you get educated in American school you all. .diots
When women leave there husband/relationship for another man that they've been seeing, the man dumps her. He liked the fact that she goes home at the end of the day. She's always been a side chick to him, that's why you see so many women crying after their divorce I want my husband back. My boy toy dumped me, and now I'm sleeping out of my car.
Grandma is a queen and more women needs to listen to her and not ignore her. The final clip is basically, the girl is a child and acting like a 4 year old. She's not a woman, just a bratty kid that cries to get her own way and thinks she's the center of attention until an adult tells her that she's obnoxious and a child.
I'm pretty sure when people are on their deathbed, they don't wish they made more money or worked more. Think about that. Money matters for survival, but if that is your only focus, how will you be happy if the money goes away. This is why many rich men off themselves, I believe.
Being a ridiculously uncompromising and demanding woman actually works. My wife’s cousin came to the USA looking for a husband. She dated guys off apps and would send them a list of demands they’d have to be cool with for her to even consider going out with them. One of the demands was no intimacy until after marriage. She was so over the top. She wasn’t even hot. She was a 6 imo. I told me wife that no decent guy would ever be interested in that situation. Turns out I was wrong. She indeed found a guy who complied with all of her demands. He was tall, attractive and financially independent. I seriously couldn’t believe he would go for my wife’s cousin but he did. It’s seriously crazy what is acceptable for girls.
If I have to watch one more woman applying her false advertising mask I'm going to have to turn into a Karen myself. Come on ladies. We KNOW you lie. Can you please at least be honest about it?
"Tell him everything, divorce, and don’t take anything.” Hahaahahahahah. She already robbed him, is robbing him, and she will work it around in her fickle little brain to feel guiltless about taking every penny she can. But why? "Well, it might not work out with Chad so, I need the money. I deserve the money. He owes me the money. That’s why."
It is not the social media market, it is yourself what you do with it. Also if you are weak to follow bad habits from other persons, also if you are a person who use the words „all do this and it is normal“
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Any woman, hell any person in general that's going to try to tell me what to do on a 1st date is going to pay for that whole meal because I'm going to the restroom and not coming back
I love the "I'm Fine! statement from women.... it is usually extremely true. Frustrated - Insecure - Neurotic - Emotional If they say "I'm fine!, perfect time to just walk away.
8:57min, Men, a 'Walk and Talk :First Date/Interview' is Essential! This is Greatly Needed to expel Lunatics from your dating enjoyment. Casual talking and assessing is key, then sitting at an inexpensive diner, for a Coffee and/or Tea, will expose more hidden horrors.🤔😧
If I tell hubby "I am fine" he just slowly backs out of the room and goes away for a little while. EXACTLY what I want to happen when I say that. If I want to discuss it I tell him "No, I am not ok" and he hugs me and we discuss it.
Grandmas say the smartest things. I saw one comment a while ago that said something like this.... "keep his stomach full and balls drained"......I can fully attest to this after 20 years married
As a blue collar man I wake up anywhere from 2:35AM to 4:50AM depending on where the job is I’m working. I provide for my family and just think that society as a whole needs more Jesus…….
love is for children and poets. never expect anyone to be true and faithful to you. find someone who you can be around for more than an hour without choking them. you will always be happy that way.
NOOOOOO!!!!!! Don’t listen to these fools. You are the owner of that lie that could emotionally destroy your family. You hold onto that lie, it’s your cross to bear. You have two choices at this point. 1) divorce your husband, keeping the real reason to yourself. 2) breakup with your affair partner. Spend the rest of your life making it up to your family while never confessing to them. Confessions are between you and god. So is forgiveness!
If your girlfriend has another man, it’s no big deal just move on until you meet a lady who’s willing to stay with you, no need for marriage, I’ve been given the ultimatum when I was younger if I didn’t get engaged she was gone,, lol I picked the door and I was gone,
If I were the guy at the end, after long enough, I would tell her "You're like a dog that needs training, and besides, I think you'd look cute in a muzzle. There's no reason for you to be talking the way you are. Should I call my friends to help you learn how to act?"
Only unconditional love is towards your children (and even that might be conditional, haven't experienced that yet). Women, they come and they go but children are yours forever.
@@jeffgutierrez8796 let me snip a part of my statement: "and even that might be conditional, haven't experienced that yet." Just what part of that evades you?
With filters and such I don't know why anyone would use a dating app. Realistically what jobs would pay $600k a year? Is everyone supposed to just own their own business? How are you going to make $600k a year if everyone else is also trying to make $600k a year running their own business? Also if every American made $600k the total combined income would be over $200 Trillion which is 10 times more then it really is.
These people are simply out of touch with reality: we are living a global economic crisis caused by late-stage unrestricted capitalism, where less than 0,0001% of the population owns more than 80% of the wealth and (thanks to feminism) women are antagonizing men for the scraps that are left and yet the majority of women are still looking for someone who earns significantly more than themselves... Delusional? Yes. Popular trend among women? Yes. Good luck with that.
Some millionaires HAVE to stay on that treadmill earning as fast as they can because they fritter it all away just as fast. The second they pause they're going to be eating out of a dumpster. Some 'poor' people are fully self-sufficient on their small, isolated plot of land with a well and a small farm. They may own almost nothing, but they are whole and want for nothing. In my experience, the latter group is MUCH happier than the former.
