Man's One-Time Fling Led to 15 Years of Paying For a Child (Full Episode) | Paternity Court 

The mother is a fake & a fraud

Right, she knew it all along, judge should have went in on her. I hope he finds his biological dad.

Not even sorry to the man, wicked gal!

She should be ashamed

@@nicklawrence277 Amen

@alchemist I totally agree with you she should reimburse him for all the pain and suffering this man has endured

Exactly the man always gets fd

I agree

Exactly

Totally agree about paternity testing I have kids but this doesn’t in the least offend me or most women it’s the ones who lie/have something to hide that it does. But either way I think that this would save everyone a lot of trouble. And anyone lying about paternity should have to pay every cent back why is it ok to do this to a man knowing dang well he’s not the father.

Ditto

She knew…she wasn’t even surprised

100% of the time.

That show men get treated this young man learned a valuable lesson from this at least I hope

You're only a victim if you're a woman

​@@cookmania3465It's pretty standard to ignore the man when he's victimized. If the judge got on that woman for what she did to that man and her son AND the biological father who missed his son's upbringing because of her sexually immoral behavior. A woman should NEVER make that mistake. But this society doesn't see anything wrong the woman does.

She addresses the men sometimes mainly when they were super active and are really hurt behind the kid not being theirs or when the mom start acting a plum fool then she says something to them I think she addresses them based of their response

That lesson is to learn men in general that when they are in a relationship with a good woman to stick to her and don't get involved with no one else..

MY SENTIMENTS EXACTLY & HE CALLED A SPADE A MUTHAFUKN SPADE. OKAYYYYY ‼️‼️

Agreed... that's when I knew he was telling the truth.

You a proFESSional liar 😂

@@grantleycarrington1081 Agreed!!!

Ever seen a court level a penalty on the mother for false claims??? Neither have I.

@@timclaus8313 never....and that needs to change. Men don’t stand much of a chance when it comes to this stuff.

I always tell young men to get a dna before signing the birth certificate. Once a man signs a birth certificate it's almost impossible to be removed.

Sometimes u gotta take somebody out before they ruin ya life

@@angeleyes2941 he never signed one

She's a Narcissist!

That hurt my feelings

That made me straight up cry.

That really hurt.

💔💔💔

That made me tear up😢

What about the man. he was jailed for failure to pay child support and then pay child support for 15 years for a child that wasn't even his.

@@rashardstallworth9240 Right, lol she saw that bmw. Sometimes it pays not too be flashy.

She should have just told her son.she wasn't sure... He may never look at her the same again... Smh

Right! He looked so uncomfortable. Poor young man. He deserved way better than what his mom is doing to him. She knew that man wasn't his father.

I agree

Send these type of females STRAIGHT TO JAIL!!!! Maybe that will stop these females from putting any man down as the daddy!! Ion care who you are you know who baby daddy is!!!

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​@AbsentDay... Seems u are 🤡... Most man miss thé court coz they were not notified... How??? Adress not updated . Or they were not available ( outside thé state.. in jail... Whatever.. just they dud not get it)... Sure there IS some idiots and drugs user... That skip/ forget to go.. but anyway.. there should b a 2..3..5 th chance... U cant ruin their lives just coz they missed 1 appointement....

She should automatically be forced to pay back all that child support and go to jail for the same amount of time, if she doesn't pay.

B/c she is embarrassed and probably thought he would take her word 😥😬

And when a person keep saying I, making stuff about them...

Or say stuff like “I’m going to give my baby the world”.. And can’t even give the child the right father

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@@thecheshirecat299 🎤 DROP!!!

Apology is the very least she should do ᵀᴼ ᴮᴱ ᴴᴼᴺᴱˢᵀ - I hope he is allowed to sue or even prosecute for her fraud

The judge flat out said it wasn’t all about her. Narcissistic woman who lied to his son his entire life.

All his life she lied to him. Still lied to him in court and when the fact is out. Then she is silent.

Not even to her son.

@@moniqaf Exactly

He shouldn't be apologizing for his mom.

He is a smart very well spoken young man. I hope he does find his father but i pray more for his success in life and healing

Sad she didn't even apologize while she sat there and lied and not only embarrassed herself but everyone else in there including her husband and son with all of her lies.

He turned out a very upstanding young man He didn’t have to apologize for his mother’s intentions but shows an outstanding character. It’s so sad that his mother put him in this embarrassing situation by perpetrating paternity fraud. The same manner that she fraudulently placed this man on child support, she could have put his biological father on support rather than an innocent man.

Made me cry when he did that 😪

Hold up, you don't think he could have petitioned the court for a DNA test 15 years ago? He had to miss court to be named as father without signing a birth certificate and without a paternity test. So while the mother was very wrong, he could have helped himself out long ago. He went to jail because he didn't do what he should have years before.

@@Lady.B0420 yes, so true

@@Lady.B0420 No, he was not notified of the court date and was named the father by default. In America, they have what is known as a legal father and a biological father. Once a man is declared the legal father, he is financially responsible for that child till the age of 18 even if he later proves he's not the father. Cut it out.

@Lady B, so does that fact excuse her from apologizing to him? SHE knew that she was sexualy active with more than one man before she became pregnant. Why absolve her of showing a glimmer of remorse for her scandalous, lying behavior???

She needs to pay that back with interest AND do a stint in the pokey!

I agree!

I agree

That broke my heart too xx

Right that made me tear up

That was so heartbreaking 😔

Heartbreaking😔

i gotta say i gasped when he said that...he just was so real with it....he is a class act...all the way class....

YOU WHY I DONT SCROLL DOWN!!! LOL Good thing i jumped to the end because he looks exactly like him

@@williamjktkd Ok his skin tone is different. The facial shape is different. So explain how the heck someone can look exactly like someone that have no relation to? Or your Mama said the same to you and you?

@@RainWalking that's your opinion. Their facial features looked similar to me. The boy looks a lot like him. Jmo

@@kittyb275 So what we going to go on, genetics or your opinion? The man has a pointed nose and he has a wide side so how is that the same? Did your mama say you look a lot like other men that you was not related to as well?

@@williamjktkd he looks like his mom to me.

Yeah, she should've been confronted as to why she pinned the child support on him when there was another guy in the picture. She didn't even apologize to the man. That said alot about her in that moment.

Course she did no accountability

Of course the lyer is always the victim.

@@rickymcdonald2669 exactly

that man (i believe that her husband) standing beside her, better open up his eyes and his brain.

@@whatyousay9816 if they have kids together, he’s going to request DNA testing. How shameful

I know right.. woman like her make me so mad. Horrible

She didn't even apologize for her son .. she is a narcissistic person .

Maybe she honestly thought that guy was the dad!

She should go to jail, she ruined dudes life, there's no way he can get a good job with a criminal record.

Exactly

@@TheOne1media He should sue that lying witch. If he receives a judgement, he should attach a lien to any and all property that she owns until the judgment is paid in full!!

@@SJames-vl8fq AND some jail time!

@@TheOne1media You are so right!!

Some men need to do the work to discredit women. Show up to court! Request a DNA test. Men stop playing the victim.

Anyone can be fooled by lies when listening to someone who has lied so long, that they have convinced themselves that their lies are the truth.

I knew she was lying because the man seemed extremely confident

@@trappnest4490 she didn't even have the decency to apologize.

@@Richie-xr7zb this dude is a victim, stop speaking on things you would never have to go through.

They won't give him money back, because it was his responsibility to get a test. So sad.

@@clarabenson1539 nahh she probably purposely put the wrong address or his old address

I'm so mad at this episode I'm like F the son to guilty by association lol

No she wanted the money honey. She didn’t care who her sons father was

That son better be careful of that mother. Love her from a distance. She is dangerous.

Good question

@Doris Thecoder but WHY was she "trying" to hurt the man? What the f#*k did HE do to deserve ANY of this? If anything, the boy should use these events as a learning moment because he may be a boy now, but he'll be a man soon, and as soon as he becomes one he'll get demoted by women as disposable...just like THIS gentlemen. Forewarned is forearmed. Double X'ers are the "nurturers" though.

It really doesn't. Both daughters and sons need their father as well as their mother.

@@tharukkus He's already a man at 24 years old. I'm not exactly sure why the mom was so vindictive....it could have been that she wanted to be with him but he didn't want her. Who knows? It was mentioned that she came to his house and there were two women there. 🤷

Thats not a super mom character when you lie and get paid and claim i raised him by myself how about all the money she got with laying women like her should be forced to pay all their ill gotten gains. She just went home free no consequences. That's unfair for the man to suffer because of her lies.

@@sweetsweet81 A 24 year old is a boy still. Men dont finish developing cognitively until later in their twenties. People need to do research on developmental stages for men and women

That part

Facts

She never lets the accused person say anything. And when she finds out that they are not the father, she never apologizes for treating them like trash. It really irks me!!

She was right by doing that

@@brandonh5383 I agree….she should have let him speak

@Daphne Birchfield APOLOGIZE?!?!? Did you see the look she gave ol' boy after the results came in and he said something about her? She gave him the "oh no you didn't" or "excuse you" look! There was ZERO signs of contrition, why? BECAUSE SHE WASN'T! She knew before she even walked into that courtroom he wasn't the father, and yet and still went down scratching and clawing (to the point of insulting and emasculating him). SHE. KNEW. She literally ruined this man's life. He. Went. To. Jail. No remorse, and yet somehow women have bamboozled society into believing THEY are the "nurturers". How much you want to bet 8 out of 10 women were like "you go sis! You did what you had to"? No contrition, at all costs no matter who it hurts. Very "nurturing" (Apologies. This is in no way directed at you specifically).

1st episode to watch I kept on Saying that is his son it looked like Him but turns out that's not his Son. Time 9:58AM Sun 2/14/21 Happy Valentine's Day Everyone

@@neddyconstant5816 yes i was thinking he kind of looked like him but as judge Lake often says you can't go by looks.

Judge let her off the hook too. What a shame. Still trying to figure out why the judge let her get away with lying.

@@traz301 that's the one thing i hate about this show. She is very biased when it comes to men and women. She will let the women get away with talking so much mess and when the man isn't the father and tries to say something she shuts them down.

@ Hannah. Not one but! Shameful.

@@sunshineflowers3320 she didn't even blink she didn't even flinch

Exactly

Not once during the entire episode did she outright say to the man “you’re the father,” but she did say general statements like “I shouldn’t have to be with a man for him to be in his child’s life” and statements like that but not once did she look at him and say “you’re the father.” However, when the judge said the mother claims that he was the father (which I believed happened three times) she squinted. She knew all along she was lying.

This one really caught me by surprise. Judge Lauren knew the results beforehand. That’s why this whole session was “about the boy” every single time. Every time. Watch the video again after the dna results. It makes sense why this man was rightfully angry, why he called her a serial liar, and why he DIDNT flinch when the results were given. It’s also why the mother kept trying to talk over him, get the boy to “speak his truth” over him, and also why the judge played poor boy card over and over. The boy was used by the mother and the judge to gain sympathy by the viewers, YOU. The man’s life was ruined and all he did was tell the Truth. He didn’t get an apology, didn’t get to speak after everyone started hugging, and didn’t get compensated for all the jobs he lost, reputation damage he endured, nothing. He was deliberately casted aside. I had respect for Judge Lauren until this episode. Seems like she picks and chooses which cases to bring “justice” to. I really liked her because she was great in all the other ones leading up to this one. She’s a Feminist who has to be in control of the situation at all times and cannot let a Man, a real man who’s been wronged, to be justified. Just goes to show you can’t trust people no matter how much you want to like them. Watch the video over and you’ll see for yourself. Truth is always plain to see for people who seek it.

Woman’s sometimes not all woman’s but majority of them sympathetic and empathetic for each other’s it’s doesn’t matter the situations these fefails

And that right there let’s you know the judge is very biased. This man was lied to, falsely accused, went to jail and not one time did she put the woman on blast for lying to both that man and her son when she knew there might be a strong possibility he is not the dad. Now she gonna have to refer to her “hoe” encyclopedia to track down the actual pookey and ray ray who fathered the child while trying to keep her husband who was giving her the evil eye calm lol

It's really a big deal, this man was made to live in a jail cell for 3 months as property of the state because she lied. Imagine losing your job, and way to earn money, and have to sleep in a jail cell because a woman won't admit she's lying about who she slept with. I dont know why he didn't ask for DNA after he found out about the default judgement though. Still this is how families and communities are destroyed. She she be punished in the same way that innocent man was because of her.

💯💯💯...but she was trying to give attention the real victim & that was the child. That man didn't show up to court and that's why he was defaulted paternity & child support he has to take some accountability especially since he knew the mom was lying on him.

@@mellocancan Are you a feminist?

@Ali Bazzi I agree. His grandmother probably raised him.

@@maxinetaylor1611 facts I swear the mum didn't raise him

How about she caused a man to go to jail and paid thousands for child support. Foh

This heffa scandalous and a whole freak

and she is a manipulator with those fake tears.

Say that again!

Lies Or lays?

@@RainWalking I'm really lost to your question ....

@@Mrscarricom Well the prettiest women get the most laid and your Granddad says they tell the most lies.

@@RainWalking 😕

Facts

She does realize wat she done to her son. She doesn't care she let the lie continue

As Judge Lake pointed out, to the defendant it was all about "herself."

it obvious that she didn't care.

Yeah we got love for the son but don't forget about the father.. well alleged father... she possibly damaged a good dude by putting him in jail and sending them through all of that falsely...

@Chris Jackson u don't understand tht he never ws served. The woman knew this dude wasn't the dad.

@Chris Jackson what dues that mean?

@Chris Jackson u so rite. All I'm saying he alrdy knw the kid wasn't his and if he nvr got served y tke care of the kid.

@Chris Jackson Wasn't his business at end

So sad I cried a little

She knows who the father is. Always has known. When he says he had a couple of BMW's and she thought he had money this is why he was targeted by her. Women in these situations will pick out who they Want to be the father. Not who is actually the biological father.

Supported 100%...she needs to face her own music

PLAINTIFF SHOULD HAVE GONE TO COURT AND CLEARED HIS NAME WHEN CHILD WAS BORN - INSTEAD OF IGNORING IT ALTOGETHER. SO THAT'S WHERE HE WENT WRONG. HE WOULD NOT HAVE SUFFERED ALL THOSE INDIGNATIONS IF HE'D HANDLED HIS BUSINESS.

@@sheldeon it went wrong when she lied to him and said he was the father.

@@carltondavis8049 He just as much the blame as her, why wait to the boy 24? He could have done a DNA long time ago.

@@cashmoney7042 he should have gotten back into court before now but he is definitely not “as much to blame as her”… she knew she was lying and for 24 years she was able to cash checks behind it… she needs to be locked up for fraud

Unfortunately, only in a few states can a man successfully remove himself as the legal father, even in paternity fraud cases like this. It’s really frightening when you see cases like this.

He could have done a paternity test many years back, not condoning the crazy lady.

You going all out.

You say that because you are a woman, so you have that kind of right. Men in general do not, and even if they are not the father they have to continue paying. Many states have few months for the father to contest paternity, but that is a resent result.

4 real

Not shes not. Her over the topness made it so obvious she was lying. This case made me madder than ive been in a long time watching this show 🙄

But a horrible one.

Narcissist!!!! 🤞🏽

unrepentant pathological liar and if given a chance,she will lie again and still hug without apologizing 🤷‍♂️

I am so glad that I am not the only who notices that she does that. She must not like men to do that. She is probably one of those women that blame men for everything. He couldn't get a word in edge-wise. Such a shame.

I’m in wonderment. Not a single line of reprimand. I’m not happy considering what she put that man abs her lovely son through.

This judge is trifling

The pain and heartache men that go through this must always hide their emotions because " Men can handle it"

She does.....watch more paternity court. Lol

I called my dad and told him I love him after I watched it. I was a grown man crying in front of a TV and i have my dad . I couldn't imagine growing up without him.

Thank u, I've said this 1000 times, many men are suffering

This man could have a requested a DNA at any time.

@@loverules5118 in some states once you get a failure to appear a DNA test won't change the ruling with out having to spend a lot of money and sometimes the state won't change the ruling.

So, if court serves you, and you do not show up because you have moved to a different address, child support can still be put on you?

@@achirichance9543 yes and it happens all the time. It happened to my cousin and he never even slept with the woman. The kid was 4 by the time he got off child support.

This disgrace of a court does not even acknowledge that the man exists!

smhsmhsmh...

My thoughts exactly💯

Exactly

The judge really dumped on the 'dad', not even telling mom she really wronged the man.

i have nothing to add... this statement is so cold and true... 💯

This right here💯

She is a narcissist

You said it!

Im wondering also... what kind of human would do this... she is a witch. This makes me so angry

HE WILL GET NOTHING BACK...NOTHING.

Unfortunately he won’t be reimbursed a thing. He should have cleared this up a long time ago, and perhaps he would have been able to be removed as the legal father. Even better, if he would have showed up in court then he could have spared himself and the boy a lot of grief.

He gets nothing back becuse he was listed as the father on the birth certificate...

@@MADAMB100 RIGHT BRITT. WILD HORSES SHOULDN'T HAVE KEPT HIM AWAY FROM THAT INITIAL COURT HEARING WHEN THE KID WAS BORN!

Very true!!

Very true!!

@L Nixon you shouldnt still be there if you have no ties and arent appreciated. Get out while you can.

💯💯💯💯💯

Honestly I think I agree with you Kayla.

Exactly. The mom got off the hook from the judge way too easy

The judge wouldn’t that’s how her episode is! She’s a feminist no justification for men that goes to her!

I'm honetly surprised of how sweet and humble the son is, being raised by that woman.

@@Angie-zk4ei good people will always be good

He sure was embarrassed he was trying not to go off on his mama because the way he was looking like mayonnaise man went to jail for no reason this man was paying my child support for no reason he kept saying I was not the father he wanted to say something to his mother which he should have said something to his mother is mother know she was lying she should have stopped lying stop lying tell the truth

He shouldn't be embarrassed at all the one that should be embarrassed is his lying behind mother ..I hope he finds his father because he deserves to know . He has been lied to for far to long..

Too bad the son had to go on tv and find this out. He is smart and a tech is an very awesome job. Why didn't the judge ask of there was any other potential fathers?. She should pay the potential father back his entire money he paid for child support plus something with jailtime. Feeling horrible he lost his job.

She's not a woman she's just a female

She’s a witch

No, she cleary is a real woman and that happens all the time and many real women have ensured that men don't get compensatory damages and in many cases have to continue paying even after we know that are not the father. Women are just people, and most people support their own even if they are wrong. That also means many women oppose this form of domestic violence.

She believes she is a “real” woman.

No... he is a MAN!

I disagree with what you just said because the man in the room was RIGHT about not being the father of that kid. The first word that should have come out of that woman’s mouth when she was proven wrong was sorry to the man she accused of being a father. All of your females who go around doing stuff like this is the reason why y’all do not have equality Also he does not get the money back or all the time for his suffering back even though he was proven not to be the father.

Intelligent, well spoken young man! His Mother still raised him right. ❤

@@jamesf5153 That’s not why we don’t have equality, but I agree about everything else.

@@ToLovelyJesus How come she got the benefit of doubt when the court agrees with her that the man is the father when she had no proof and she lied in court.

She probably had her son before she met her husband...

@@amandaapps6755 that still doesn't explain lying about her past. Also let's not forget that she robbed Mr Conner of 15 years, emotionally, financially, and legally.

Asking for a friend tbh you’re cute af. ok carry on lbvs

@Chris Jackson he prolly a simp so he won't care

If her husband has any good sense he'd divorce her and go on with his life. A person who lies and commits fraud like that is capable of doing absolutely anything. If I were her husband I'd be on the next thing smoking, exiting the relationship

All that "yes mamm" trying to manipulate but she met her match it's called DNA can't manipulate that.

The fact dude went to jail for nothing is crazy

I completely agree. In these cases, the mother should be forced to pay back the child support, but I also wish he would have demanded a paternity test. This lady is clearly narcissistic and only cares about herself. She is a horrible actress. I saw right through this charade. Her son turned out amazing, in spite of her.

You said it all. I'm assuming she doesn't want her current man to know she was a tryck setting up a man to pay child support for a kid that doesn't belong to him. Too late. I guess he knows now, men need to stop being afraid of child support court if they know they are innocent. Cause that's what helped her carry this out.

She said that because she did not want to look like she was sleeping around. But obviously, she slept with someone else.

She probably didn’t go off cause the son was sitting right there. She usually doesn’t when the kids are adults or old enough to understand what’s going on

Because the mother started her fake crying and hugging her son, still playing victim right till the end

Quick to jump on the man. And he was innocent. Smh

RIGHT! she got off way too easy and her husband over there looking like a simp

The judge got on her at the end. Everybody knew. It is now up to the older man to pursue justice but I think the judge was trying, in her way, to keep the peace, by focusing on the young man.

And what about the victim ?

@@jaimeduncan6167 The kid is the victim in this case.

So the father who was falsely accused by a woman he didn’t even sleep with and was sent to jail and had money stolen from him under intentional false statements through child support was not the victim….noted. 🤡 🤡 🤡

I was balling!!! My tears came out of nowhere.

Heart breaking 💔