One thing I like about Rom Wills is that he's about self accountability. Dudes have to be honest with themselves about their strengths and weaknesses. IMO any man can get a woman but the vast majority of men cannot be players. To be a player you have to be charismatic...and charisma is something you are born with IMO. If you're a dude that's not charismatic you can still get a woman but you're going to have to play the numbers game heavily to get whatever women you get.
Eh imo the natural born charisma can never be topped but you can however improve or develop charisma to a certain degree. Personally, I wasn’t born charismatic but I developed it as I got older and improved upon it
@@jodezod I partially agree...one of the reasons I generally don't believe in labels is because most behavior is situational....nobody is one way all the time...for example someone who is characterized as introverted could be very outgoing depending on the environment and situation. Same goes for charisma. However, if a person's charisma is situational then IMO I wouldn't consider that person charismatic. To me, what makes a person charismatic is the fact that the environment doesn't matter. If your charisma comes and goes depending on the situation then you're just normal IMO. Some ppl just have a natural aptitude for understanding how to connect with others. By contrast there are some ppl that totally lack the ability to understand/connect with others and have no social intelligence. They constantly offend ppl or turn them off and they don't understand why. The vast majority of ppl are somewhere in between. Of course a person can improve on their charisma but it's not the same as being a natural. No matter how slow a person is, they can train themselves to run faster. But most likely they're never going to become an Olympic sprinter. Olympic sprinters are born. A random dude can do the same training regimen as Usain Bolt maybe he'll get faster but he'll never be as fast as Bolt.
3:55 Uncle Rom calling me out😅 I've been told this from several ladies. I'm the dude at a party who's just sitting down away from the dancefloor. Just generally not interested in being in the spotlight; it's always been an insecurity of mine. On a side note, I'm eating Chinese food while watching this and the fortune cookie reads "assert yourself-your ideas are worthwhile". ☯️😮
@@RomWills It works vise versa with me as well. If a woman looks fine as hell and I would do her in a heart beat if her personality is bad I will pass NO MATTER how good she looks.
Ayo what I just witnessed being the first time on my own in a mayor city in a hostel was eye opening. The title sums it all up,there were 2 guys in the room trying to holla at 3 girls in the same room and I don't wanna get into details but god damn what creepy and invasive behaviour they broadcasted towards the girls,some I witnessed on my own and some they told me today after me and the girls were checking out,to say "no game" is a compliment in this case. They told me "you were the only safe presence there that didn't feel predatorial and that helped me sleep" while her other 2 friends nodded in agreement and they took my contacts wishing to see each other again if our paths cross once more.
Personally me I just sometimes dont know what to talk about or just to keep a conversation going in general mostly with women tbh. Or especially trying to start one
I feel like I’m okay looking to kinda handsome. But I will tell you my assertive and lively personality has got me some women I never thought I could get. Its all about how you make a woman FEEL…Oh and I do have muscles so that helps.
Pretty much all you said was true.. I realize one thing I’ve been to nice with no boundaries and to passive, partly because I was married to a woman previously that if I said anything contrary to what she believed she would go into rage. This was a marriage that was never meant to be. towards the end, you mentioned about false belief system that might have to change,that all depends if these belief systems are dealbreaker that comes to Christian values you can’t change those you have to find a person like yourself.
Everything isn’t supposed to last forever…when a woman expressing too much sexual energy I’m usually turned off…and that drives a lot of women crazy… but just because I’m attracted to you doesn’t mean I gotta smash you… But as I get older I admire the women who knew what I was on… and didn’t let me smash… because a lot of women I did bed… I never really valued them no matter how good of woman they were to me… sometimes you gotta change the game
True... It can be vice versa i remember i liked this woman she liked me also, but it seems like she would try to prove herself to me, or try to impress me by not acting like herself... That was a turn off for me so i lost interest... She would try to act a certain way because she probably thought i would like it.
@@rasulsamad5860 hahaha, yeah, Martin would have went for the kill But he still had his chance, but wanted to be buddies and take it slow, I refuse to have a young halle in a place alone and not try to atleast grab dat 4ss
