Marketing White Men to Black Women 

Jefferson and Hemmings didn't become "involved". He R-A-P-E-D her.

Thomas Jefferson and Sally Hemings were not a couple. He was a slave owner and she was his slave.

The grass is not always greener and people really need to be careful.

I wish the world see that a white man is just a man stop. Making him as this special man this society has done

From the looks of the comments, anti-blackness and the lure of white supremacy are the driving force between these relationships.

Not every black man wants a white woman. It's a mixed bag of both. We have been duped n2 believing that they are better than us and more beautiful than we are . Those people have used their media machines to help brainwash us n2 believing that. But black women are beautiful and comes in many colors and styles. Where brand X only comes in 2 colors white and extra white.. and just 1 style.

Yes, they do, most advertisements are white male, black female.

I agree there's a marketing strategy going on to promote interracial relationships, i've been saying this for a long time now yet a lot of our brothers and sisters aren't seeing it that way, that's why it's effectively working today to the point where our people thinks being a passport bro and sis is the thing to be...SMH ... They fully understand that for their race to survive in the future they need to reproduce with us and that's the main reason why they've been pushing this agenda, just seeing the way some of our brothers and sisters treat and think about each other is heartbreaking..SMH ... Mom i love that you touch on this topic but you need to be completely honest about this, if you're going to wake up our people then you need to wake them both up, because it's both men and women that are on board with this not just the men, please be an elder for them both and not just one-sided...🌹💞

It’s definitely growing. I have two friends bw with wm! Very loving, the men allow their women to stay home if they want to, and very legacy minded. Remarkably different than my friends in monoracial relationships

If you worship your enemy, you are defeated, if you adopt your enemies religion, you are enslaved, if you breed with your enemy, You Are Destroyed.

I enjoyed watching your video and thanks for sharing!🤗

Ohh now they were "a couple" 😂😂

Other races of Men need to be an option to BW. It's not working just dealing with BM. Most of them are so full of self hate and colorist so the best option is for BW to go where you are celebrated embraced love instead or just tolerated and hated on by BM. BW and WM is the power couple everyone is really scared of.

You see just as many commercials featuring BM/WW, as well as movies and real life! BM have been open and upfront with their preference of WW and other Non BW! So, the BW and non BM scenarios are light years behind!

Don't want nothing but my people

Thank you for your video. As a BW who has been married to a WM since 1985, I'm not so sure the media has been marketing WM to BW. I think it has been an evolution of awareness that BW are 1) desirable, and 2) we are now embracing our options. In general, I encourage BW to love whoever is good, kind, supportive and loving to them regardless of race. Life is short. With regard to Thomas Jefferson one little known fact is that Sally Hemmings was the half-sister of Martha, Jefferson's late wife. The age difference aside, Jefferson's attraction to Hemmings may have been that she reminded him physically of his late wife. The full story of the relationship between Jefferson and Hemming goes back a generation to Martha's father who was the father of Sally Hemmings. Sally came to Monticello with her mother as a wedding gift from Martha's parents.

Date whomever you want to date or marry as long as they meet your standards in life. Have a wonderful,blessed day!🤗

Thank you for this video, I agree with most of what was said. I used to think that BM telling BW that they don't want them was a mean thing to say, now I think it is a blessing in disguise, If anyone tells you I don't like you and I don't want you around, they have just done you a huge favor. When I understood that we as blk people are extremely different from each other and It could be that the only thing we have in common is our shared experience with racism and the history of slavery in this country. But the idea that BW are the ones in the blk community that should try to hold it together is crazy. Interracial couples are not responsible to do anything to benefit any community period and BW should go find love and peace elsewhere. When I thought about getting married and raising a family, I very quickly learned that BM would not be a good choice for me, in addition it was very easy to meet and date WM because there are more of them that are available and they want to get married and have families. In the future as BW start to realize they can date whoever they want, you will start to see more BW/WM couples.

I've noticed this agenda as well, in commercial, movies and reality shows etc. B1

I'm white man who actually love black women. I have many read many books written by Angela Davis and I can not ignore the history, the white men have terrible past wen it coms to black women ore black man. Les never forget the history.

Always on point.

Very interesting topic. And it's also safer to promote the whiteman/black woman combination.

The Holy Scriptures HaveThe Answers!!!

Let's not forget there are a lot of black women who are lesbians married to white women Robin Roberts Wanda Sykes to name a few

I’ve been stationed all around the world, and have been exposed to all races of women in those places. I was never attracted to non black women. I never could discard my mother and father’s influences in my life. They definitely impacted me with whom I would marry. Therefore, my only love was and is for an American Black woman. For me, it would be stressful to adjust or discard my culture or my way of life for another culture. Maybe, my mother and sister’s’ physical beauty had a lot to do with how I measured beauty in the real world of non black women. My black beautiful wife for 37 years was the best decision I made for a soulmate for life. We have been successful with our marriage and material wealth. My dad and mom were married for over 64 years. I do not curse people who find love in other races that include my three sons. I will always love my black wife until death. The sad thing, many blacks don’t know what a big decision they’re making that could affect them and their children for the rest of their life. Nothing stays the same including interracial marriages.

My cousin has always dated white men. She was married to a white man for over 20 years. they divorced now but they are still the best of friends.

True love doesn't look at ethnicity, skin color or culture. Just be who you are

Let me say this. Nature takes the path of least resistance. If you have to spend BILLIONS of dollars to market something to any group of people, the question that needs to be asked is *why.* I'm not against any union as long as it's beneficial for both but WHY is it being marketed? After all that we've been through, after all the disrespect and social conditioning, why now? I already know the answer but will not say it on the internet. This is for the rest of us to ponder. Excellent content, by the way.

Fascinating and eye-opening. Isn't this a predicament. Good thing i enjoy a challenge. Thank you, Lady Boule

On this one, i think people should just marry whomever they fall in love with - as long as that person is off sound mind and over 18, it's all good with me...

i love black women

This is my first time watching this episode. Thank you Lady Boule, it was very informative. African American women are very sought after by Caucasian men. I can attest to that fact. I am approached more by them than any other men. I think they have become more relaxed and less intimidated by black men. I've subscribed and look forward to all that you bring to the table. Peace.

One fact people don’t know is Sally would not move back to the US unless Jefferson promised their children would not be slaves, he agreed. Weather you don’t like the relationship or not, he did love her. She is the is the Queen of hegemony.

It's important for American Black women to consider dating and marrying interracially to expand their options. There are many great men of all races who appreciate and value them. A Pew Research Center study showed that Black American men and White American women were the top two groups interested in interracial dating. It's time to break down these barriers and not limit oneself. If you possess qualities such as kindness, intelligence, sweetness, and fun, you will attract men of all races who are interested in you. Don't hold onto the idea of having the "perfect Black American Family" as it's not a reality for many of us. It's time to explore and embrace the possibilities.

Videos documenting your visits to plantations may be interesting.

Im white. My girl is black. Ive loved black women since i was a baby. Singing along to Whitney, Tina. Etc. My girl said she was never into black men

There is nothing wrong with your new theme song but this one is my favorite.

We have a Bed Buck & Bed Wench problem in Black society nowadays. Historically its never been to our benefit.

Excellent information is very informative and accurate again I would say it was excellent information that was given

I agree it is marketed everywhere. Even the stock photographs that come with picture frames are of IR couples. I wouldn't do it but I am older and not in the market. I think it is an easier move for young women to make because they are divorced from our history, don't have living relatives who were adults pre-1965 and many young men have already jumped the fence like Le Bron's son for example . I think I am the only person who has not watched Scandal. It just didn't appeal to me.

I don't believe anyone has the right to talk negative about BW/WM. They have been the only ones passing laws to make sure we are okay when BM leave. The WM already know what the BM is going to do, and that is NOT take care of his Black family. They don't have to market. BW need options.

To each it's own, as for me I never believe in sleeping with the enemy..just my opinion..Peace

Like I said before Lady Boule I can't agree with you on the interracial stuff. You black women see these wm, bw movies as sweet and loving protectors of bw. So that's all the wm has to do to get you BW to accept him for relationships. Then when it doesn't work out, what are we suppose to be waiting for our turn. What if you get pregnant? You want us to mine a white man's baby. How would you feel about a black man with no pride.

You forgot the movie A Bronx Tale. Here is the thing that is just my opinion. Statistics show WM/BF marriages are the most successful. My opinion is that while it is much more acceptable today, there is still some taboos. If a couple can fall in love and overcome those together, they become a stronger couple. As for the marketing? I think it’s not being marketed to destroy the black family, I think it’s more about the fact that since the Gen x generation, interracial marriages have become more acceptable and they are trying to them. My theory is within 100 years, Both the US and Canada will see so many interracial marriages that they will become a new racial group that will become the majority.

WM are pimping out his WM to BM and it’s all by design!

In Something New she wasn't simply picky (imo), she actually had standards. Also, interestingly Shonda Rhymes said she would deal head on with the subject of Sally and Thomas Jefferson...it was one of the best scenes written and acted to perfection by Kerry and Tony.

The thing I note off the cuff about women in mind is Romantic Love. Without resources to protect, I believe, as a black man, I cannot marry whom I like, especially since I'm the provider and the protector. It's best to focus on the practical. People can adjust to one another over time should they make the effort. I don't believe much in Romantic Love because it's driven by expectations that may or may not be met. As for marrying white people, I believe that the population of whites as a whole is against it. And since we live in a society wherein the children are vulnerable, we must consider whom we marry. The world does not belong to us. Our choices, for the most part, because economics are limited. The older I get, the more I am convinced that Romantic Love may not be the way to go for men. Above all, I consider relationships and finances as practical matters overall. On the chart of love, Romantic Love is not at the top of the list for me. In the past, thinking this way worked (or didn't, according to your politics), but nowadays, Romantic Love is a fantasy.

Lady Boulé I truly appreciate you for speaking on this topic. "Damn I never realized it was marketing. Thank You Madame 👍🏾

Your channel has changed. Your topics have been mostly on gender war nonsense... Anyways, I'll always be thankful that you did the video on Jack and Jill when I asked. Good luck with everything!

What about the slave master's wife's that had relations with the male slaves when their husband's were away?

Im trying to figure out what is the underlying reason to making this video?

What wall? BW should date men who will provide/protect and love them

I’m with a BW, and have never been happier. My experience with WW has been awful, they are entitled, controlling, and manipulative. Im an Italian American and I think maybe my Latin values and upbringing maybe responsible for that.

Well Now, You did a fantastic job summarizing something I've noticed over the years, My sister (Black) has been married to a white man for 44 years, I a black woman married a white man who passed away, then married my first love also white from 34 years ago, His white parents encouraged the break up I wasn't white enough to be married to him apparently. However we've been married for 2 very happy years going on forever. Thank you for your point of view.

Scandal was the second t time i liked that male character. I first saw him in the movie with Whoopi Goldberg ... GHOST. IN THAT MOVIE he was the villain. In Scandal, he was the lover. Lol

I have been to Monticello as well. Nice house! I think it is haunted though.

I love this topic. My opinion is that yes black women should date white men just as well as black men should date white women because at thee end of the day it is no ones business who is in your bedroom. I mean this topic has been going on in the black community for years and we act like we so pro black but date out. Wm and bw have been dating since slavery as well as bm and ww. There is nothin new bp are every where all over the continent and have survived through the worse. This interracial push for wp and bp is just a cover up for the hatred they have for us and the white man is no savior he literally buried a bw image to the world as below all women groups. All in all the history still stands till this day no matter how they try to glamourize it wt interracial love like Netflix Bridgerton or Queen Charlotte or even How to get away wt murder ect. Interracial relationships are everywhere its no secret its in the media as well in the commercials and you would think that america has ended racism and put up laws to protect bp. But divesting is a big issue in the black community cause we were never invited to the white table where every other minority was able to benefit from it and on top of that u have white washing of america where certain stereotypes are being pushed about black Americans. I can go on and on about the history of bp and wp but long story short date who or whom makes u feel comfortable but please dont despairingly bring the black community down cause u feel as though its better on the otherside because iam going to tell as a black person that your still a slave and interracial marriages and children do not change laws or end racism. You can never escape who u are and the world we live in is gonna remind u of that till the day u die. But that's to show u we as black people got alot of work to do.👀☕☕☕

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I don’t think most black women can keep up with growing old with any partner different than black. This is apart from theories of black men cheating as it would be in some of their systems due to slavery. The older a couple get, the more confronting the differences might get. Thats what I noticed observing

Whether Black Men, or White Men

You see It in movies these days, black women marrying white men

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The most important is to increase rate of women so we get better mental health. Women need to create more girls.

Everything that you are talking about you are absolutely right and I have to say you're doing a great job keep it up 😘😘😘!

Ridiculous! Absolutely ridiculous!

I was born 40 years too late, but........

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I Really Enjoyed This Video And Want To See More. I Believe That Life Would Be Better If We As People That Love God Would Stop Holding On To What Happened In Slavery Years, Yes It Did Happened And It Was Not Right. But Go On With Your Life Learn How To Love People As God Want Everyone To Do. I Refuse To Live Back Years Ago And Miss My Every Day Blessings. Please Let Hate, Racist, Prejudiced, Slavery. Go And Put Love In Your Heart. My Prayer To God That Black Men's Married A White Woman And White Men's Married A Black Woman This World Would Be Better. Love Will Change People Life. Yes I Love People That I Have Never Met Before Because Of The Word Of God. And If God Bless Me With A White Man I Will Be Greatiful. A Heart Of Love Means So Much. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

That's all I see on TV

There aren’t enough WM to go around to fully support this strategy though. Generally speaking, BW who are pleasant, physical fit and feminine don’t have problems finding a good man of any color.

Looking at television for the last couple of years shows the agenda, I'm just amazed how individuals fall for it.

Wow! It is always about marketing!!!

@2:18 if bm would be fully transparent they would also tell you that there were Bm in america as sl@ve owners.. and they were very successful at it. Like William Ellison of SC. So based on their reasoning we shouldn't be with them either based off what they did to our grandmmama

I know yyou can find a lot of videos on. Line of wyt cops and wyt men beating the hell out of black women with their fist. I think they still see them as part animal.

How does this apply to a black French and white French. This matters are limited to western history not applicable to all. Thats sad. Blessings 💜

But what both relationships have whether it's a black man with a white woman or vice versa it's a slave master relationship the black man messes up once with that white women while you see what happened in the media with that Marvel Comics Superstar the court is against you

I don't necessarily agree with you about the White man being seen as the great protector of Black women, My Dad a Black American worked two jobs so Mom didn't have to work so she'd be there at home when we came home after school. I know a lot of Black women who married a White man for love and nothing else, some exclusively after being messed over by Black men. As a retired senior military officer I've seen a lot of military couples in mixed marriages Black women with White men and beautiful children. A minister friend of mine was a dark skinned Black man married to a White woman because the young Black women of his day said he was too dark for them. Well he met a beautiful White woman who could've had any White man but she loved him and they celebrated 55 years of marriage until his death leaving behind a widow and four beautiful middle age adult children and 13 grandchildren.

Omgoodness. Not sure if like your new music. As for mixing for BW and WM can't get away from it especially BmWw have no issues for themselves. BW grab your Own happiness because most BM don't want us. Put you 1st.❤🎉

Can't believe what I'm hearing 🤢

Ok so here is my take. I think beautiful black women should be loved and happy. But the answer is not always in a white man. I myself have been charmed by the gentleman persona of a white man. Its so nice to be treated with gentleness and nice to have someone to share interests that some black folks make fun of. But just because a white guy is quiet you dont know whats trulynin his heart look at Lacey peterson. Pray to God for the right spouse. And then to what about mating with the descendants of slave owners do u really want your children cursed? They got to pay for that evil per GOD

I mean, yea. Like it's okay haha.

u should go to the mines in Africa where wp were enslaved and talk about bringing that back to alot of us that's also a good idea.

Marketing lol? 😂 What?!

WM/BW relationships is nothing Taboo. Its always been accepted

Interesting perspective. I’m sure how the media markets WM to BW plays a large role in perception no doubt but the reason there’s so few WM w/BW is because BW are the least marketable women and WM are the most marketable men. This isn’t gatekeeping by BW doing this, it’s on WM to open their hearts more.

Let them get a white man, and save a brother. Yeeehaa!!!

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Good observations. Still, you seem bitter toward black men. We do not necessarily get “on board“ with the interracial dating phenomenon. Often, it is because we have to contend with bad attitudes encouraged by the flattery you receive from white supremacy. I’m not saying it is always justified, but we have to reckon with all of the facts. All of them. we must consider the survival of our family units. That is survival in itself. Gender sniping is childish.

Thank you for sharing your video. I absolutely love it and am all for interracial marriage. I never heard of the movie "Something New." Now I have a movie I can watch this weekend! I can't wait! ❤🥰

I never see strong representation for black men and woman. Everything now in loves and tv shows shows white men with black woman. I find that very strange you already see rarely a black man with a white woman however one is marketed to us one more than another

I WOULD LOVE TO DATE A BEAUTIFUL SEXY ATTRACTIVE BLACK WOMAN AND MARRY HER TOO IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT COLOR 2 PEOPLE ARE JUST AS LONG THEY LOVE 😍 AND CARING FOR EACH OTHER

Good luck with that.

If a race war broke out today I wonder what would happen within interracial relationships

Sistah!!! You lost me when you said, “…because black men are already on board (with that.)” With that meaning destroying the black family agenda? Sistah, tell me I heard you wrong! If not, then what black man hurt you like this?! Where are these black men at?! Cause I’m surrounded by plentiful, bountiful black men that value and cherish our black women, kids and families! WE ARE HERE!!! Don’t be fooled!

After all Serena Williams

I refuse to believe the hype

I'm not racist but I've never been attracted to white men when i dated many years ago. So nobody could ever market a white man to me.

Though black men marry out more than women, black women do date outside of their ethnicity or lineage. There are endless examples, into the millions, where black women are having babies for Caribbean and African men. Many of these arrangements are far more destructive to FBA lineage.

Life is nuanced, even the life of a slave, it’s entirely possible that she loved Jefferson, it’s entirely possible that he loved her and they are the only ones who truly knew the dynamics of their relationship…love has a funny way of breaking social norms and tradition. The problem with relationships for all people is the fact that most have forgotten what real love is and they give too much thought to the “options” they have rather than focusing on keeping what they’ve already got.

Wow from reading these comments, I gather WM are the perfect partner and the the holy grail of dating. Hopefully BW can find one being they are in such high demand