Marriage Advice for Ray and Debra | Everybody Loves Raymond 

“Pass the beans will ya’!”…the way Debra delivered that line cracked me up.

Amy and Debra are in two different stages of life. Amy is newlywed and Debra is in the war zone of raising a family. That is real life!!!!! And Marie and Frank are amazed they survived.

Marie: You want some real marriage advice? I'm gonna give you the secret. There's gonna be yelling! There's gonna be anger! Don't fight it, accept it! You love him, you hate him. He disgusts you, look how he eats. You keep your head down, and you plow through! Frank: Amen! Amy: But Marie, you said "hate". How can hate have any place in a marriage? Marie: You make room. There's gonna be hate. Hate is real. Marriage is real. We may fight... but we're okay with each other. And you know why? We've endured, we have been through it all. And now... Frank: We're waiting for death! Marie: Not that we're in a rush. Frank: Fair enough. Marie: That's a marriage.

Robert's face at the end XD But seriously, 3 months of marriage is nothing to showboat about. I get that they're overjoyed and happy but that doesn't make their marriage more superior than others...

You know that it’s bad when even Frank says “it’s unseemly”!

“Yes, this is unseemly “ made me laugh out loud while sitting alone 😂

Marital Veterans: Marie and Frank Marital Exprience: Debra and Ray Marital Rookies: Amy and Robert

Frank's right, one chicken is not enough for six adults

Debra is mad because Amy is giving her martial advice. Ray responded, “Unless it’s more sex. How dare her?” Typical guy answer. 😂😂

Roberts face 😂 he always want to be in a competition and it always back fires on him

“90 days, the usual sentence for vagrancy” Lol such a cop thing to say

I wanted to see Marie’s speech about marriage

it was a very inappropiate gift. 😂

That look on his face 😳 says at 4:52 “Why did you do that?!”

20yrs ago, never understood wat Marie meant but now agree with everything she said!

PASS THE BEANS , WILL U. HAHAHA

Best part:- " yes, this is so Unseemly " 😅 😅 😅 😅 😅

Unless you're Kim Kardashian, three months of marriage is nothing to boast about

“This is unseemly!” Man Frank carried the show dingy single handed

I don't think there's ever an episode where debra doesn't get angry

This episode, Season 8, Episode 4 (“Misery Loves Company”) is one of my favorite episodes of Everybody Loves Raymond. What’s missing here is Marie’s speech! Marie: Now you listen to me. Maybe you could all use some advice from someone who’s in a position to give it. Debra (murmurs): See what you did Amy? Marie: You think we have nothing to offer? We’ve been married 46 years. We’ve seen the lows, we’ve seen the highs. Frank: What day was the high? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Marie: You two (looking at Robert and Amy), you’re newlyweds. You’re in love, God bless you, you know nothing. (Turns to Ray and Debra) And you two, you’re always fighting. And the reason you get so upset is because you think that there’s something wrong with that. Look at us. This is experience. This is wisdom. Frank: This is juicy. (Munching on his chicken leg) 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Marie: You want some real marriage advice? I’m going to give you the secret now. There’s going to be yelling. There’s going to be anger. Don’t fight it, accept it. You love him, you hate him. He disgusts you, look how he eats. You keep your head down and you plow through. Frank: Amen! Amy: But Marie, you said hate. How can hate have any place in a marriage? Marie: You make room. There’s going to be hate because hate is real. Marriage is real. We may fight, but we’re okay with each other. Do you know why? We’ve endured. We have been through it all. And now? Frank: We’re waiting for death. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Marie: Not that we’re in a rush. Frank: Fair enough. Marie: That’s a marriage.

Amy & Frank were my favorite characters on this show 😂

Robert face at 4:52 LOL

The lady in the front row laughed at _every_ joke!

This is like the guy who's been at the gym 3 days who keeps telling everyone to correct their form when no one asked.

When you’ve only been married for three months, you’re not in any position to give marital advice to anybody. You’re still newlyweds at that point. That’s like giving parental advice while you’re cutting your first child umbilical cord.

I think caused Frank's "It's unseemly" almost caused Marie and Ray to break.

Robert did become pretty obnoxious at times after he got married. And Amy looks at Marie and Debra's marriages and assumes she knows better? It's ridiculous. 😂

Man Robert’s face haha

It is also interesting how Debra and Amy are really good friends in this show and they are opposite from each other. Amy’s more like what people would probably perceive as uppity and Debra is more of the no nonsense type of person. Has anyone else caught this about them? Also even though Debra finds Marie overbearing Debra is actually like Marie more than she thinks. Marie is constantly nagging at Frank. Hahaha but it does make for comedy. Lol😂

I love that so much show so so much

😂fantastic

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Debra saying she should poison Ray’s food even though it is a line that was pretty extreme. That whole thing where both of them kind of argued you could tell in Ray’s face he was not happy and fed up with her attitude.

never noticed how beautiful Debra's nose is.

Amy looks soooo delectable

I will point out something that is ironic and funny. In a few episodes earlier Debra said maybe she wanted what Robert and Amy had.

It seems like here and I know it is a show but Amy seems like that person that is so eager to see if something will work for someone. Especially when she tells Debra she has to accept the park talking about the book. Her pressed lips and raised eyebrows. Lol

Very true 👍🏼, It's like I'm telling my dad how to take care, run a family and 💰save for the future. ××××× NEVER ×××××

Ooooohhhhhh nnnnooooo she didn't!!!

I once gave my last ex the same look as that one Robert gave Amy at the end. Different reason though

Anyone think it’s very strange for Robert and Amy using a marriage book 3 months into their marriage?

Ah, a sure sign of a new bride. She hasn't picked up on her husband's intentions and facial expressions yet to be on the same page at all times. Ray and Debra were right. They're idiots. Much left to learn, yet they have the gall to try and tell others with more experience how to get a happier marriage.

Is that a real book?

I don't think Amy meant bad when she gave the book to Debra. She thinks married couple can learn something from the book so she wants to share them. Not sure why Debra is so offended😢

Nothing wrong with a book suggestion everyone relax

This episode was genuinely dumb. Robert made no sense. Did the writters forget hes been married before to Joanne, and that it became a disaster? Youd think hed understand right away that marriage isnt all good stuff.

I don’t care what anyone says. Amy was hot af

Debra and Raymond were horrible here

I used to think Debra/Patricia Heaton was gorgeous... I still do when I watch the re-runs on channel 4... Obviously she's a lot older now but when she was in this she was beautiful

Funny how Amy thinks shes all wise regarding marriage when she was desperate to get married with the first guy she saw when she first appeared in the show. Honestly, I feel Amy in the long run would be like a mom to Robert. Always telling him how he shoyld behave around people and specially ray since he seems to be the focus of robert. Like we all know robert is the one jealous of ray and what he has but now says ray is the jealous one.

1:36 “These two idiots.” No, Ray, you and Debra (well, mostly you 😒) are the idiots.

There's one annoying lady laughing