Marriage & Relationship - Part 1 of 3 - Mufti Menk 

Recent revert from Ireland. I am getting married this year Inshallah to a Muslima in Indonesia 🙌🙌

Culture is the biggest detriment to Islam. Allah has given us so much freedom in this dunya, yet our parents and their societal rules, regulations and culture are always there to withhold that freedom. It is the most common reason of stress in youngsters like me these days. May Allah forgive us, our parents and judgmental relatives. :(

Listening to Brother Mufti Menk helped me with my marriage when it was on the brink of divorce. Thanks so much for your positive message.

May Allah grant us the best spouses who will be the coolness of eyes heart and soul

point to be taken by youth. YOU ARE EITHER MARRIED OR YOU ARE NOT, THERE IS NO IN BETWEEN..

I embrace islam .alhamduallah .i found this channel ,helps me a lot to learned more about islam..thank you..allah bless you

He has a strong personality with a beautiful mind, Masha Allah...I have learnt a lots of things very clearly about Islam,Alhamdulillah

Mufti menk actually makes my life easier. How to deal with life situations. Family issues. He is a gift from Allah to guide us on the right path.

This man helped me to taken my shahadah. Mufti Menk…your sermons apply to me completely…everything makes logical sense but my journey is so hard. My relationship has unfortunately failed. I try my best but I know at times I’m hard to live with. 2 people coming together is beautiful. The good times are really good. The bad times are really bad. I don’t know what to do. We were strangers, became friends then lovers and now we are strangers again. Looking back, I really wish I had said and done things differently and most of all I wish we would have watched your sermons TOGETHER. I know it would have made a huge difference. Was a pleasure to see you at the masjid in Preston, UK last week leading the Jummah prayers. Amazing how life turns upside down in a moment. May Allah swt and everyone I’ve pained in life forgive me.

I’m having serious issues within my marriage. We nearly going to break up. We have 2 daughters. Please make Dua for us.

Thankyou Mufti Menk, from the bottom of my heart, may Allah grant you the highest rank in Jannah. I just reverted a week ago, I’m still a young woman, only 20 years old. I thank Allah for guiding me to Islam but you Mufti Menk have been like a dad to me, you have been the best role model & I am eternally grateful 🤍ik youre only spreading the word of our prophet Muhammad (pbuh) but you explain it in an easily digestible way especially because I’m a native English speak. Thankyou so much I truly love you, you forever have changed my life🤍🤍🤍

I met the man I love at work. He literally walked into my life when I thought I was working the shift on my own. I was so nervous about doing the shift on my own that I prayed the night before that God would make it so that I didn't have to go! Instead Subhan'Allah he brought my love into my life! We clicked instantly and I truly believe that we are meant to be married. We are both in our 40's and divorced. I never thought I would fall in love with a Muslim man because I never interacted with many before the day I met him. I pray that God will make a way for us to be married insha'Allah 🙏🏻 I am educating myself on Islam and know that it is permissible for us to marry and I just pray that his family will accept me 😳 My Father died when I was 21 so the situation is very different from a couple who are younger. Thank you sir for your inspiring words 🤗

my teacher in RU-vid may Allah reward you

Dear Mufti Menk is one of the very few Islam speakers who dares to say what needs to be said. Especially when it comes to parents and marriage. It makes me feel relieved and it softens the pain that truth is being spread. May Allah bless him and his family. 💚

Ya allah- help our daughters and sons through the love of deen and guide them through life..

My father always let me do mistakes in order to teach me. May Allah bless his soul.

Alhamdulillah, right now I am in the process of getting engaged and eventually married. It is a little more complex than I hoped because the sister I have been talking to lives in Guyana and it's whole process to get her to the US where live. Plus I'M recovering from cancer so I have been keeping her posted about me and she has been very supportive thought this difficult time. If that's not a sign that she is the one, I don't know what is!

Mufti was fighting a war alone against the audience and the management Hahahaha

I embrace Islam as western women. Islam is so beautifull and wise. May Allah bless you all

I have never laughed so much by listening to his lectures. 😂😂 may Allah bless mufti menk and his family and everyone who were in this technical team. Amin!! ♡♡♡

I love watching ur video's sir may Allah give u long life to teach us Ameen ❤ U change my life & way of thinking ..

SubhanAllah, MashaAllah. This was beautiful. May Allah bless you sheikh.

When l was a teenager l had vowed and prayed to avoid going into haram relationship, but l really landed to a group of ladies who misguided my innocence of 23years telling me how childish lam , l was made to HV a relationship some thing that changed my whole life, now l hate relationships thanks to mufti menk l learned a lot from him and now and a changed person who is looking forward to a good husband inshaAllah

Lmao the audio thing was funny af

Since I became a Muslim listing to mr mufti menk help me a lot mashahallah

I wanna always heart your advice about family and relationship. .cuz i'll marriage in my future then hear your lecture is very important to me Allahumlilalh my Allah SWT blessing you dear brother Menk 🌹 🌹 🌹

Finding this channel is such a blessing ❤️ I heard your voice somewhere else or in someone else's channel yesterday and I fell In love. I fell In love with everything you said in this video. I'm so impressed. Will definitely listen to more of what you have to say and watch your other videos. GOD Bless! (I am now a follower 🙂)

Assalamualaykum sir…. My husband and I love each other so much but still we fight a lot. We argue soo much. I want to be a perfect muslimah and I try to be and my husband support me so but he himself is very liberal Muslim. As the status of a husband is high in islam i always try to make him happy and obey him but he don’t obey me back. I want our marriage to be perfect, a marriage without flaws and fighting…..what to do?How to have patience? Allhumdulillah we have a son too.

Mashaallah I like your videos alott Plz make a video on husbands who are staying away from their home for job sake and left their wife alone with in laws just to take care of their parents

JazakAllah Mufti for all your advice and inspiration. I wish u could be here to sit one on one with my spouse and I and give all this advice. Really need it right now

I really appreciate you uploaded these videos, for someone that’s unable to attend im glad I can still hear your amazing advice.

Always listening to your preachings. Would love to hear about interfaith and interracial marriages where parents are not happy with it. May Allah bless all of us.

I make dua every minute mufti thought me how to make dua....

As salaamu alaikum. I had to stop to comment @7:26 timestamp into your video. I love watching and hearing the synchronicity that was displayed during your request to adjust the volume to your liking and the patience that you displayed while they were adjusting the volume and the outcome of the result was beautiful, Alhamdulillah! May our Marriages disagreements have the same outcome, Ameen!

Whenever i listen to Mr. Ismail menk i feel motivated and sort my lots of problem by listening him!AlhmdulilAllah

May Allah be pleased with you and bless you here and the hereafter with peace and happiness, may Allah bless you with good wisdom and inspire many and many people to live in peace and harmony. I love you for the sake of Allah.

Just his looks one just fall in love 😍. He is a good teacher

Hi Mufti i will be glad if you respond my question. Can you marry a girl that you had a child with, in islam its good or not

So walk up to a random girl ask her to marry you? What is the right way then? If you don't know any good girl?

Dua before sexual intercourse بِسْمِ الله اللّهُـمَّ جَنِّبْنا الشَّيْـطانَ، وَجَنِّبِ الشَّـيْطانَ ما رَزَقْـتَنا Bismillāh. Allāhumma jannibnash-Shayṭān, wa jannibish-Shayṭāna mā razaqtanā. With the Name of Allah. O Allah, keep the Devil away from us, and keep the Devil away from that which You provide for us. [Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6388]

I could wish I got married with my boyfriend from Pakistan who revert me in Islam during Ramadan in Sha Allah 🤲 ya Allah bless him and guide him and his family 🙏 Allahu Akbar 🤲🙏

Marriage is about forgiving and accepting the positive and negative .. and our children are example showed by Allah SWT how we were at their age . There is something .. we always talk nicely to our parents , friends , and relatives but to not our spouse.. we raise our voice scold and argue all the time .. but those people were not around when we needed the most but our spouse will be there for us . If the husband and wife understand this marriage will be perfect .

I would like our Haram relationship to be Halal because I feel guilty about it. He told me that he won’t make it Halal for me. It broke me.

Masha Allah the sound troubles in the beginning brought such a smile on my face, he's a very cheerful man even in troubles Alhamdulillah

One of the main reasons I love listening to mufti menk is how comfortable he makes his listeners and audience feel. I am not a perfect Muslim yet I don’t feel like he is judging me. This is so important because that’s why a lot of people don’t listen to sermons . May Allah bless him and forgive his sins as he’s also not perfect . Bless him though 💐

Mufti saab i am in a relationship since 7 years and we both love eachother. But her parents are just refusing because they don't want to be taunt by their relative that their daughter did love marriage. And i this case they forced her daughter to marry a boy who she didn't even see and engaged. Till now she is going to be married in few days but she even dont know who the boy is and how he looks like. Just parents know who they are. Wallah i am in a situation where we dont know what to do. And she is doing just in respect to her parents.

Assalamualaikum sir..may Allah fullfill our all dream and give us right life partner

Hi brother mufti menk I am 12 yrs old I live in Saudia Arabia jeddah city I wanna give charity I have saved 7 or 6 Riyals I wanna give charity but how to give charity I wanna know

It is a pity that there is a lot of racism in the Ummah when it comes to intermarriages.

Masha Allah Ya Allah grant our children good spouses Ya Allah accept all our duas Ya Allah grant the best in this world and the next Ya Allah forgive all our sins

I wish u could come to India@ hyderabad ....I really want to meet u

I would like to know how does it work when one gets married to a man who has 2 kids already what's the responsibilities toward the marriage and the stepchildren.. How does it work is Islam

The event organizer not a professional that's why Mufti always complain. Subhanallah i hope i could be the organizer for him someday🙏🏻

I really need mufti menk to talk to me seriously me and my 3 kids are really suffering me and my husband are married for ten years but he doesn't stay with us he never comes to my house sorry CNT go into details

Note to self: don’t mess with mufti menk’s sound

Assalamualaikum Brother. I have a personal question to ask to the Shaik. how can i find the email id ? Please help.

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: "Whoever constantly seeks forgiveness (from Allāh) (saying "astaghfirullāh | أستغفر اللّٰه"), Allāh will appoint for him a way out of every distress and a relief from every anxiety, and will provide sustenance for him from from sources he does not expect." [Abū Dawūd] Make it a constant habit to say Astaghfirullāh | أستغفر اللّٰه (I seek forgiveness from Allāh) with a sincere heart and you'll see the blessings and positive effects of that habit in your daily life. We have witnessed people being relieved from the darkest and most difficult of situations through this habit, others who were blessed with unimaginable wealth and blessings through this habit, and others whose hearts found contentment and true happiness through this habit. May Allāh 'Azza Wa Jall make us of those who continuously seek His forgiveness and accept from us - āmeen Love from Mauritius 🇲🇺

I really want to get married sigh I hope Allah forgives me for my misdeeds

This brother is so humble his spirit draws you too ALLAH I believe him

Thank you so much for providing full lecture. May Allah bless you all involved.

My in laws contributed to separation from my husband. They made my life hell. But now I'm thankful because there is a nice plan from God for me

I love your preaching mufti Menk may Allah protect u.

jzk this video is really helpful , first seek the relationship with ALLAH Swt first because he's way more important people can come after him please make dua for me everyone my life is really challenging these days jzk x

Have been listening to this many times n every time I listen I get a new understanding alhamdulillah.. may Allah bless you always mufti

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Mashallahh..all he teaching us very meaningfull and valuable

AssalamuAlaikum sir. Sir I have question regarding my fiancé as I'm soon marrying him. The question is my fiancé is my father's sister's daughter's son. Can I marry him? Is this kinda marriage permissible in Islam? Is our relationship halal? Your answer and reply will help alot. Thankyou.

Dr Menk is a Reall Muslim. . I'm so happy when i listen your message and you Dr Menk say you love your wife Masha Allah. . That's beautiful to say "Love wife " or "Love Husband " for much People to hear. . Really i aprecciate the Sir. .

Islam brings happiness joyful to our life when we be sad Allah here to keep us happy 😃 aways

MashaAllah I wish u could travel to Dublin we would love to have u here please ❤️

I love mufti menk for the sake of God wallahi

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May Allah bless our marriages and mk everything easy upon all

Brothers and sisters I have some questions please give me answers with logics. 1. Is it a sin to celibate in islam? If it's sinful then why? 2. Will I go to jannah if I don't commit illegal private sins don't get married willingly? ( I don't want to marry and have kids because I want to spend my whole life as an army person in battlefields) 3. Is it a sin to do self-harm in islam? If it’s sinful then why?( Actually I used to do it to prevent me from being lazy, careless, and sinful)

My parents isolated me so much that not much people ever came ask for my hand in marriage. I had to study and work,take care of my sisters kids and parents and siblings. I was getting depressed and angry after that way to long timeframe some guys asked after me trough my sisters husband instead of my parents. Guys i didnt match with looks wise nor mental wise. Until now im single,34 years,depressed to not have a husband whom i match with just as many people match on many levels. For me it was always forced or arranged,i refuse, cuz i deserve mutual love as well. I have no family further so on. ill probly die alone.

Allah rehm karay...or hidayah de....passing through such circumstances these days....Allah tamam mamlat mai asani karay....do remember me in your prayers. In laws are worst in our society. I'm sorry but they are!

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Subhanllah Allahmdhullillah Allahu akbar Astaghafirullah

Mashallah

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Amazing lecture i wish I could send this lecture to my mother. But the lecture does not even have any urdu subtitles. I wish she could know this without me asking this from them. Parents thay were made parents at an early age they were put in this situation without knowing how to even be a parent or a good wife nor a good husband. Sadly the children suffer as they r not close enough with the parents

Gifted menk may Allah grant you more knowledge and more years so that more people benefit

Please my apologies for the gift you have given me please my lovely brother hope you are feeling better sure help ❤❤ Mashaallah tabahrak Allah piehkuhm alhamdulillah rabbilallamiehne hascbieiallah whniehmalwakiehle Allah is insufficient for me and you and everyone else ameen yah rabbilallamiehne ❤ ❤❤

Asalamualaikum Good evening sir I want to ask a question that when a man ask a lady in marriage and the father of the lady didn't accept the proposal which the lady loves the man The father wants his daughter to finish her education before marriage. What can the lady do?

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MashaAllah. May Allah bless you

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That why we do our part as Muslim we should lots of good deeds

Assalamualaikum ,we were planning to do aqeeka of our grandfather and we have marriage of our relative who has financial crisis and handicap so is it permissible if we sacrifice one goat here and one on his reception (walima)?

❤❤Subhanallah whalhamdulillah whlaiellah illallah whallah akbar Mashaallah tabahrak Allah piehkuhm alhamdulillah rabbilallamiehne hascbieiallah whniehmalwakiehle Allah is ❤❤ ❤❤ ❤❤

Remember we need to follow our beloved Muhammad peace upon him

Mufti you are a legend in every essence of the word may Allah bless you give you guidance and the ability to teach mashallah.