NEW | Marriage in a Changing World - Facing Reality - Mufti Menk 

I am getting married this Wednesday... Please pray for a new beginning of my life 🤲🏼♥️

I'm 34 years old, I have tried to find that special someone to get married. Not too long ago I realised that I need to change my personality. Allah has guided me to become better Muslim, bit by bit I will improve.

"Allah will judge you by your repentance whilst everyone will judge you by your sin"

Soon to be revert here, I love Mufti teachings, he is a great orator and person

I have been in 2 long term relationships. Both before I became Muslim. I am going through a breakup, and I asked Allah to guide me. I am happy with his decision. Now I work on my dean, perform Salah 5 times a day, and I am happier. Allah will find me a Muslim wife when the time is right Inshallah.

I insist all my Muslim brothers and sisters to make dua for me. I feel lonely, and scared. I feel defeated. I feel There is way for me. No one loves me. Brothers and sisters, make dua for me.

I'm suffering a lot from loneliness and it affected my work and studies, please if you see this comment please pray for me.

Ya الله please forgive us of our SINS, have Mercy on our Poor imperfect SOULS and SAVE us from the Torments of the HELLFIRE! 💛🔥❤️ امين

Im 40yo and still did not find a spouse i can share my life with. Im doing my obligations in terms of my deen, i try to be just and fair and speak kind to people and i always try to serve my mum the best i can. I have a good job and good friends but im tired of being alone. Sometimes im sad bc of that and then i trust in Allahs plan. He already gave me very much. If not here then maybe in akhira he will grant me a spouse. Allahuma Amin

Where can I learn the Quran? I want to convert to Islam. Am in Qatar.

One of Your lecture saved me from ending up with a disaster . I use to turn blind eye to everyone that tried to show me the red flags until I listened to one of your lecture Can't thank enough jazak Allahu khair

Not a wedding but a weeding 🤣 Mashallah nice speech, keep it up.

This must be my favorite speech by Mufti Menk so far 😂😂

I was so depressed some time ago...but subhan Allah i prayed and did dikhr ..now i am healing... jazakAllah

More people than you know online dating. I have waited a long time, many years and now finally I have found a good Muslim man. He is wonderful from what I know Inshallah we may marry sometime soon.

I’m 38 not married .. I tried to find a good man .. the man was lieing to me and my mum saying he will come and marry me .. he kept me waiting years.. but secretly he married another woman…

Mufti always cracking halal jokes 😂😂.. Loved the speech 💜

Suban Allah may Allah guide you my friend the way he guided me as a Cuban converting 18 yrs ago and blessed me with a beautiful Afghan wife and 3 children may he give you blessings upon blessings Ameen. Allah guides whom he wills.

Thank you Allah for forgiving me of my sins. Thank you my brother for the message.

Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: “The Hour will not be established until time passes rapidly, such that a year is like a month, a month is like a week, a week is like a day, a day is like an hour, and an hour is like the flicker of a flame.” Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2332

I’m a sheikh but I’m getting married on Saturday😊

Be careful guys from arranged marrige. Our parents did have arrange marrige and not all of them were happy. Some were in abusive relationship. It is not always successful. Trust Allah and pray you have a balanced marrige.

The teachings are powerful and encouraging. From the time i started listening to teachings of Mufti Menk about the importance of tolerance up to now I'm a different person. Your teachings have helped me to the greatest extent. I'm a Christian based in Zambia. Keep it up Mufti Menk.

لقد غير الشيخ مفتي منك حياتي كثيرا بفضل الله ولقد صحح لي الكثير من افكار خاطئة الحمد والشكر لله

I am a Christian but i listen to muftimenk... I love alah

The Marriage is Sacrifice, but you need to make sure theses requirements such as: Is this person going to fit to be my wife / husband? Is he/she going to be a good father/mother to my offspring?

I'm 18 years old and By Allah I ask myself what on earth I'm doing watching this video😂 nonetheless, may Allah bless shaykh for his lecture

For RU-vid team, please activated the subtitle because not all listeners are fluent in English 🙏 Thank you

Imām Ḥasan al-Baṣrī (رحمه الله) said: “Increase in seeking Allāh's forgiveness, in your homes, at your food tables, on your pathways, in your market places, in your gatherings, wherever you are, for you don't know when the mercy will descend.” [Siyar al-Salaf al-Ṣāliḥīn 1/739]

This is something that was needed to be said! Today’s times are the most difficult for a momin.

Vaalekum Assalam Mufti Menk. I wish I have a strong taqwa like yours.

Masya Allah.. I agree with Allah Mufti said. It's very important before married to make sure all the little things, don't rush because of the age, make sure he/she is really your deen. Honestly I got divorced before 1 year married but I think it's gift from Allah, Allah saves me..

mashaAllah dear Sheikh. May Allah bless all of your Marriages.

Surah Al- Falaq 113 In the name of Allah, the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful. ‎بِسۡمِ ٱللَّهِ ٱلرَّحۡمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ Say, “I seek refuge in the Lord of daybreak. From the evil of that which He created. And from the evil of darkness when it settles. And from the evil of the blowers in knots . And from the evil of an envier when he envies.”

Subhanallah I was just studying Surah al Falaq today

Beautiful lecture dearest Mufti Menk!

Prophet Muhammadﷺ 💖💛

Daily dhikr Hadith whoever remembers Allah Allah remembers you no matter how small it is Allahu akbar LAILAHA ilalahu Muhammadurasoolullah Subhanallah alhamdulilah Astaghfirullah Allahumma ajirni minan naar Hasbunallahu wanimal wakeel LA quwata ila bila hil aliul Azim Subhanallahi wa bihamdihi Subhanallahil Azim LA ilalaha ilalahu Wahdahu LA sharikalahu walahul hamdu yuhyi wayumeetu biyadahil khair wahuwaala kulli shayin qadeer 3rd kalimah ayatul kursi

Wish I could like this video multiple times. May Allah bless Mufti Menk he's such a gem! Ameen.

I am a Christian I am from US my husband is from India he is Muslim I have been studying Islam it’s hard to believe that I have been on the wrong path my whole life I am ready to convert to Islam I still have a lot to learn i listen to your videos and it has helped me to understand so much and I want to thank you I pray that Allah will bless my marriage as it’s hard being from different cultures I want to be a good wife we have been married 4 years I don’t know how to convert can you please tell me?

My favourite sheikh may Allah give u long life When I feel stress I go through ur videos thanks

AWARENESS OF TRUTH SUBHANALLAH 🙇🏽‍♂️🤲🏽

Thank you mufti menk...u said what a father wud have told me.u made my heart lighter..may Allah grant ease to all those suffering,ameen.

i wish i could recite that first bit he always starts with....... it RESONATES in me!!!, though im not muslim.

Maasa-Allah I can’t love less Ya Mufti, may Allah guide you and protect you too بارك الله فيك أيدك الله ورعاك ❤🌴

Jazakullahu khairan Sheik Mufti Menk. This lecture is so significant and timely. May Allah SWT bless you and your family abundantly

As salaam alaikum, can you please turn on the CC caption cuz some have difficult understanding and while others are deaf. Please consider jazakumullahu Khayran

It was quite smelly 😂😂😂😂😂 may Allah bless you sheikh. May Allah grant us all spouses that would bring us closer to Allah and bring peace to our lives and our families.

Thankyou mufti menk Your words of wisdom are a blessing!

actually sat here and listened to this whole thing at work alhamdulilah

JazakAllah. Only if Pakistani society understood this. When Allah tells you the answer for everything why do people try to change it according to their own needs. Some men are narcissist and our society does not accept whats haq and whats right. May Allah give Hidayat

Icl Mufti Menk is serious but a comedian at the same time Allahumabarik.

Thanks for the quick talk my bro! May Allah bless you always for your constant hard work!!! Your message reaches me all they way here in TX. Alhamdulillah. I pray for all my Muslim brothers and sisters

Ya Allah please guide me to be on the right path😢😢😢❤

I'm 32 year old female. I don't think anyone can be interested in me. I tried my best but the guys are not interested. It hurts. I'm struggling in other areas as well. I feel like disappearing and I'm not good enough

This is for sure for me I was crying the whole 3 years over someone I don't even know his background alhamduliah

May Allah make us all steadfast in this deen Amin

salaam mualaykum u mufti i don't put u higher then what u are but u motivation makes me seek in everything Allah's forgiveness protectIon ppl like u are those who give us more of Deen things we never knew i learned from ur talks Alhamdudilah shukr yah Allah for sending u as a voice to give me more knowledge of Deen Marshallah 😢😢😢

May Allah continue to give u more knowledge in his way. Inshallah Amen

Everyone plaese remember me in your prayer that i get married to khan saifullah this year n everyone get agree on this aameen Plaese remember m in your prayer

Mashaa'Allah, Oustass Mufti May Almighty Allah reward you 🤲 Alhamdulillah for this Deen

Great talks! Highly motivational ......... ALHAMDULILLAH!

I love the intro Nasheed.

Love love mufti mens talks! Mashallah Allah bless you more. .

From 🇧🇩Bangladesh

Wa alaikum salaam wa rahmathullahi wa barakhathuhu. Barakallah fee Kum. Welcome.... till then... Waiting with beautiful patience....

mashallah very well informed lecture

اللهم صل وسلم عليك يا رسول الله ❤

Alhamdulillah, I really enjoyed listeningto this talk. May Allah bless you. Very clear and insightful. Jazak Allah khair

Mufti Menk please come to South Africa Cape Town 🙏

Dear Sir, I hope you will visit Stockholm soon inshaAllah. May Allah give you and your love one's jannatul firdaws inshaAllah.

I am in a courtship with a Muslim man, we worked together and started talking before I converted to Islam (from Catholicism). Before I converted he did not show interest in getting married and after I have converted, his intentions are still unclear. Inshallah I pray that I find a good man and that we deserve each other, whether it is this man or not. I am also grateful that by being with this man, whether we marry or not, our courtship and friendship has brought me closer to Allah.

Sometimes being single is better then being married

Islam is a Complete could of life.❤️

بارك الله فيكم... اللهم اغفر لوالدينا و ارحمهما و اجمعنا معهما في الفردوس الأعلى مع الأنبياء و الشهداء و الصالحين و جميع موتى المسلمين.. اللهم احقن دماء المسلمين و انصرهم على من عاداهم.. رب إني مسني الضر و أنت أرحم الراحمين... لا إله إلا أنت سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين..... ......

Bismillah Alhamdulillah Don't loose what is coming. Keep on doing what we have to do. Lahaula walla kuwata illa billah

Mufti Menk is the best

What’s the difference between arranged marriages and online? At online you get to know their personality

may the wise lord guide me on his right course

If anyone wants to convert to Islam, you say with your tongue and believe with your heart that: There is no God except Allah And Muhammad is his servant and messenger. Say in Arabic: “Ash-hadu an la ilaaha illa Allah wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan ‘abduhu ua rasuluh” To keep learning and improving in your religion, please visit your local mosque. Welcome all. May Allah grant us His Mercy. ❤️🌙

Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakaatuh Menyimak syeikh

i didnt know mufti menk is somewhat commedian, "it wasn't a wedding but a weeding". may Allah help us and give u longer life.

I have self-care and changes to make

Assalamualaikum Sheikh Mufti Menk Masha ALLAH tabarakallah all your symposium I really love to hear...As UMMAH there's something happened in ma lief I'll never experienced before really painful and so very emotional 😭 but as human sumX I feel so weak but I will do I prayed to ALLAH for every10 All I want to do now is trustand believed ALLAH wat is written for me and having Hope and Faith in ma heart 💖💖💖🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲😭😭😭😭🤲🤲🤲😭😭😭🤲🤲🤲

The size of your words big help to the people may Allah bless you more

Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu, please do more talks about marriage, points you haven't mentioned, it's a vast topic , I understand time is limited 🤲 jazakallah, it's very interesting to listen too 🤲🤲

Masha’Allah ❤. Great Khutba. Thanks for navigating us. Your jokes are amaaazing and true at the same time.

اللهم باعد بيني وبين خطاياه كما باعته بين المشرق والمغرب

Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu everyone 💕✨

Very beautiful & insightful lecture

Salaam alaykum, im 44 no kids or marriage ever ,at first i stay sad because my brothers married w kid's but now ,MashAllah

If your husband is being rude to the wife and the wife is always nice and the husband always ignores and she’s the first one to say sorry what does Allah say about that.

May Allah grant us righteous spouses

I Smell RASHID EVERY DAY and he is a good spirit

15:38 never too old or too young 33:11 keep trying with ur parents

Islam is a Beautiful. ❤️‍🩹

Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh Bismillah Astaghfirullah alladzi laaillaha illa huwwal hayyul qoyyumu wa atubu ilaihi May Allah make everything easy.. Aamiin

الله يعافيك ويقويك

ماشاء الله شيخ جزاك الله خير الجزاء 👏👏💯

I'm not Muslim but that was a good talk.