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As a psychology student, we get way too many cases of mother getting jealous of the child, cuz dad loves the child more than her. This is so common than you can even imagine. Mom thinks that "he doesn't love me anymore like he used to. Now his love is divided into me and child. Etc." So I'm so happy that Jess feels more love as a mom when she sees Gabriel with their daughter. They gonna be great parents. ♥️
That is so interesting. Do you think that those feelings/ dynamics come in as a mother when actual emotional needs are not met by the husband or bf. I have a friend who is in a toxic relationship where needs aren’t met, he is rude and dismissive sometimes. They’re engaged and we were talking about kids and ideally if we would want a girl or boy first and she said she doesn’t want a girl first bc she knows her fiancé would just push her to the side and just see the baby girl as the apple of his eye and won’t even care about her…. She was laughing as saying it but considering everything she goes through with him I was really taken a back by it. I think it speaks volumes that you would potentially feel that way in the future.🤔
Love the way you guys filmed this and the honesty in your answers, was so fun! I think what made it so special though was that it felt like we were watching you two experience the conversation, instead of being presented with it in a way that was addressed to us? It was really cool to just see you guys talk through it, laugh about it and be open and honest with your thoughts and reasons why. Definitely a new favourite video. Would love to see another round please. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Wow I haven't watched you guys' content for a while, but I enjoyed this video so much. I feel like the conversations that you post online now are so mature, yet still funny. This really didn't seem like a "we have to make content" video, just an honest fun activity between spouses. God bless you guys 🤗
So beautiful to watch, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i can't stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just can't, i love her so much, i don't know what i am bring this here for, i can't stop thinking about her~
it's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
This was definitely one of the most authentic videos out of the many authentic videos you have, because I felt like I was really getting to know you both more personally through these answers. I love how you both argue gently and defiantly, backing up your own thoughts with great conviction. 😂😂 It’s actually very healthy because honesty in communication makes a relationship thrive and actually get a lot closer. You both are great friends. You guys are perfect for eachother. The opposite for one another. In regards to the relationship argument question, it can be hard to not stress about what your partner is stressing about and what your partner clearly wants to sort out by themselves with God. I love to sort things out on my own too because most of the time I already know what I have to do, just need to get myself together before I do it/to do it. We should never be offended because it’s a personal choice. But sometimes there needs to be a balance, for the sake of communication and the marriage, simply because you are both “one”, no longer separate. But also to be team mates doesn’t always mean do everything together but do everything with peace and respect/understand the other persons desires in a way that produces peace for both husband and wife. It can be difficult crossing that border but God helps us bend towards one-another’s desires and show Grace. Prayer helps a lot too in letting go. I love this video and love the “serious” editing. God bless you guys in Jesus name❤️🙏🏾 love y’all !
i remember watching their first video together when i was kid, thinking that they weren’t going to last cos they were so awkward 😭. but now, look at them!! the comfort they find in and affection they have for each other is evident((: how nice
This video is just another beautiful reminder of why should one follow you guys! The values you show in respect to your marriage, your families and the honesty in the answers was just a treat to watch 🤩🤩🤩
You guys are truly couple goals seriously. The fact since day one you have put God first in your relationship and honestly did not care what anybody else thought I feel like is very humble and is very Noble and is how relationship should be with God being the Center focus of it. I have learned so much from you guys since I met you guys and since I started following you which feels like forever ago now.
The best thing about having children younger you get to enjoy your 40s. Plus you have the energy to play with them. I have pre-ordered your book Jess ordered it last week when you first announced it.
But you can‘t enjoy your 20s and 30s when that’s literally the best years for a lot of people. But yea, you’ll definitely have more energy if you re young that’s a real « plus ».
I really like this style of video. It’s different what the style you normally go for. And by that I mean the way it’s edited. I really like this, it completely focuses on you guys and what you say
Jess and Gabe, I love you both so much. You both are beautiful gifts and blessings to this world. Gabe, I read your book and finished it within a week and a half. It was so beautifully written! You truly have such a talent for storytelling. Jess, I added your new journal to my Christmas wishlist. I am so proud of you both. ❤
I totally understand Jess! I don’t want to talk about it at the moment when there’s an argument, I want to go cool down first and then come back to resolve the issue
*_Everyone who’s reading this comment, Please keep on pushing in life and never give up. Can't wait to see you successful one day and May God always bless you with love and happiness!!!_* 🙏💙
This happened to me in the U.K in 1988. When I fell pregnant with my 1st child in September 1988, I had the month before turned 26 years old. When I went to my 1st hospital appointment with the gynaecologist, I was called a geriatric mother. I asked why have you called me that I’m only 26 and I was told that the average age with your first child is 18-21. I thought that was absolutely ludicrous. I think you were both sensible learning about each other and enjoying being married to each other, building your bond as a twosome before having children. I think 6 years was an absolutely fine amount of time. You both married young and waiting to your mid 20’s to take on a family was right. Make sure you keep communicating with each other and make time for each other with a date night at least once every 2-3 weeks. Remember it’s great being a mother or father, but one day your children will grow up, leave home and you will be back on your own again.
please do more of these videos you guys are hilarious !!! you guys are so in love with life and with each other it's contagious, never stop being who you are and who God want you to be 🙏❤
i love how it doesn’t feel like a video or a trend, they talk to each other and listen too their opinions whether they agree or disagree, i also love how they talk too each other and not the camera.
It's so interesting how different the society is. Jess says it's probably looked at as too young to have a baby at 25, while where i live it's considered a bit late to have one 😂 I'm 25 this year and seeing all of my peers have families just blows my mind because i personally am in the headspace of having kids around 30
I nearly unsubscribed when I saw the title of the vlog. Coz I strongly hate divorce and you guys are a couple I look upto sometimes. However,I'm grateful I watched. Thanks for being vulnerable and honest ❤️God bless you
You guys are so open about you guys' relationship and a little bit of a different way than some other people I watch so I think you guys are awesome and I really enjoy you know you're you're openness
I had my first child at 25 and my second and 28. It's perspective. I am glad I had my children when I did with my husband as we are young and been together for a long time.
when Jess said, I have to be honest about the Divorce Question and Gabe's like, when?! No, no, no, like considered what would happen if it did occur. 😂 Could they be any cuter!
Genuinely enjoyed each of your perspectives on those questions. Realistic views, and semi intimate but not too deep. I do hope you both continue to talk to one another (off social) because I feel like it’s so healthy for any relationship. Great vid 👌🏽
The too young question surprised me because my mom had her first kid at 21 so i would never think 25 is too young to have a kid i think it's all about social perspective
I love that both are mature in some ways and if someone would say their own perspective, the other would rethink their decision and would say what they have in mind rather than just agree whatever just to avoid any arguments. This is one healthy relationship we all dream to have. Despite being a public figure, both of you have a strong mindset and you support each other. I really love that.❤️
My mom had my sister at 24 and my dad was 23, I personally don't think 25 is young to have a kid. Also it's your relationship if you both think your ready for kids then do it. I wouldn't let anyone tell me when I'm ready to have a kid or not.
You two are so cute! This question "Jess starts more arguments", I think because Jess is a fire sign she's more assertive and because Gabe's a water sign he's more sensitive to the emotions. Neither start the argument, I strongly believe they both avoid confrontations. Through their humblelism, they solve debates in different manners! But neither starts !
My husband and I are very similar. We got married young but he had just joined the military and was about to move away to England for 3 years. Prior this this we had been together for a year and then engaged for a little over a year to year and a half. I didn’t want to be apart, plus I knew he was the one anyway. And here we are 18 years later lol. Also, I like to be left alone for a moment when I am upset, especially when I am angry. My husband is a right now person and it drives me crazy. I keep telling him to let me cool off for a moment and him bothering me makes it worse. I agree that flirty is cheating. You marry the person you are with for a reason. When man and woman get married they become one in the eyes of GOD. When you are flirting with other people it means that somewhere in the back of your head you find them attractive. You shouldn't be looking at anyone else that way period. Your heart is already accounted for.
I feel like they definitely manufacture these answers because everything they say is just like perfect and life is not perfect. Especially the- marriage is not hard.
