I still can't believe Mars wrote a ton of songs about how she was being abused, then when it came out she was actually being abused, we all pulled a collective shocked pikachu face.
@@zombiecheri that's what I thought. So what does that say about Titanic? Did he not know that what he was doing was wrong? Or did he know, but couldn't help himself?
@@zombiecheri but did he feel guilty about doing it? Because he's not a sociopath, and he's not a psychopath. He's a person with narcissistic tendencies. I don't think he liked abusing, I just don't think he could help himself. I think the only way he thought he could be happy was to psychologically abuse and control.
"Someday, we'll both be older, I wonder if we'll be together looking back on the past but I don't care if I don't live to see another day, oh, i love you in the worst way" Knowing the way things ended up, absolutely breaks my heart when I hear this line.
TW I was once in a toxic relationship for about 8 months. It was mentally abusive and made me end up in the mental hospital. I tried to leave the relationship about 30 times and couldn't convince myself. This song is basically that relationship in song form. Im now in a healthy relationship with someone that makes me feel really safe and loved. But sometimes i miss the toxicity.. :/
@@Lonley_Location It's a very common thing in abuse victims..you miss the regularity of it along with the intense highs that come after the intense lows, it's really sad. No one should feel ashamed for it
@@testerwulf3357 oh, I didn't know it was so common, but it does make sense from the way you explain it. This did make me feel better about missing my past toxic relationship though, so thank you
All the people lip syncing to this song on TikTok have absolutely no clue that this song (along with a few others) is about Titanic Sinclair abusing her.
First heard this when one of my friends played it in my car and when I first heard the chorus it was like “You’re the only one, who’s making me come...” and I was like “ma’am?” 😳🕶👌🏼 Then she said “...to my sinful senses” and I was like “oh ok” 😎🤙🏼
I always felt like my ex only liked me for the affection I gave him. He just wanted someone to care for him as much as I did when I loved him. He should listen to this song one day😵💫
My best friend was like that but she wouldn't admit it..she'd fall head over heels with dudes she didn't know only after they confessed to her and after a week she'd "fall out of love" and get a new one, imo she just wanted the fresh lovey dovey feel to a relationship and to be cherished but once that started dissipating she got bored and wanted new attention; she always did change herself to get attention. It's why I no longer talk to her, the moment she admitted she used a guy I finally got enough sense to drop her (we were friends for like 10 years before, she just slowly got worse over time, and she wasn't a good friend to me looking back on it all).
Haha.. that was me. Except in my case my ex wasn't any better either.. [big rant coming skip if you dont want to read all my vent ig] I accepted the fact that I was toxic and apologized and geninually tried to be better as much as I could... but I was still villanized in the end; and he ended up as the "victim", what nobody talks about is about how, more than love, he was unhealthily obsessed with me. My appearence caught his attention and when I accepted to being his boyfriend, I think he was surprised. He got attached to me in a very toxic way, he threatened me that he'd hur7 himself if I ever broke up w him. I think he just loved being able to have a dude he considered attractive being "his". If not, then it just doesnt make sense to me why he would be so pushy with everything even when I told him I needed some space or time, and all the other things that can clearly hurt someone..
When I first heard this song, I actually thought the singer was the abusive one. She sings about having sinful ways, and using someone for pleasure, and "loving you in the worst way". I'm addition, there's that small line "I think she's coming back" which made me think she meant the side of her that becomes abusive and obsessive over people. BUT, I can respect and understand the opposite meaning of this as being her being in an abusive relationship and unable to let go as well
as someone who had an ex who used and possibly groomed me and overall using my hypersexuality for their gain, this song really hits especially with the "I love you in the worst way" which PERFECTLY describes my intrusive thoughts due to my hs. I genuinely thank you for making this song Mars
I’m proud of you for getting out of that situation, dude. Just know that I and many others hope for that to never happen to you again. Stay safe out there, alright? I love you. /p /gen
it's really painful how i relate to this song so much, happy that I got out of my toxic relationship though! :( wishing everyone who relates to this song the best really :)
YOU'RE THE ONLY OOONEEEEE WHO'S MAKING ME COOOME TO MY SINFUL SENSES I'LL NEVER LOOOVEE ANYONEE THE SAME ILL NEVER FEEL ASHAMED OF USING YOU FOR PLEASURE...
My biggest red flag is this song is how I feel like all the time with my romantic interests, and I still can’t see the manipulation that’s supposed to be shown in this song
gettin' a huge "I'm a fucking loser" vibe from the dude singing the "using you for pleasure" harmony before the last chorus. other than that i really like the song
@🍥쨍쨍미릉 no he didnt all he did was whisper using you for pleasure remove that and the song will still be a bop remove mars argo voice and it'd be nothing 💀
What's with these homies who be dissin' my boy? Do they know? I'm aggravated with the negativity and the noise They tell me "find a wealthy man" But they don't seem too happy I was afraid to put myself on the line for a boy 'Til he put me in my place and showed me how to enjoy myself I think I need your help I think she's coming back You're the only one Who's making me come To my sinful senses I'll never love anyone the same I'll never feel ashamed of using you for pleasure Am I naive to think that he could be the love of my life? There is a voice inside my head that's tellin' me that it's right I never thought I'd tell him How scared I am of losing him You're the only one Who's making me come To my sinful senses I'll never love anyone the same I'll never feel ashamed of using you for pleasure Someday we'll both be older I wonder if we'll be together looking back on the past But I don't want live to see another day Oh, I love you in the worst way I love you and I hate you and I'm losing my mind And you tell me all the time that this will pass And that I'm gonna be fine We're such a mess together You make me lose my temper You're the only one Who's making me come To my sinful senses I'll never love anyone the same I'll never feel ashamed of using you for pleasure You're the only one Who's making me come To my sinful senses I'll never love anyone the same I'll never feel ashamed of using you for pleasure Of using you for pleasure Of using you for pleasure
I think it was meant to be written like that or she would have reworded but she literally says “I’ll never be ashamed of using you for pleasure” like it’s very clear what the songs about so I wouldn’t suggest Turing it on 16 year olds for inferring what the song is about when she says it straight up
