The top 12 basic list for me are: 1. honesty & consistent 2. love to laugh, 3. spiritual Christ fearing, 4. trustworthiness, 5. ambitious with good credit 6. good hygiene health/ mental health 7. can cook 8. good listener/conversationalist 9. no baby mother dramas 10. loves to travel 11. value virtue, family oriented, character, respect 12. speak & dress properly can be updated
I tested this man by cooking only rice and peas with vegetables salad as side.... the boy man has the nerve to ask where is the protein (meat). lol, that was a red flag and got rid of his backside, that same day.
Both of us, committed needs to see about each other if within three to six months, if not talking about marriage, then the relationship is a no no, don't say around to collect red flags after red flags, hoping things will change
I concur with the caller, I am not looking to give any scholarship or be in any sponsorship to no man however, I would want a man to be a man, with more old school values than this new age slackness. Both of us as to be committed and he be the leader he ought to be Every now and then, I would love for my man to assist me with my upkeep and maintenance as to keep my self upkeep to be of s better and quality service to him as man. If not, he better love and accept me as I am, and days when I look unravel, especially going out in public and around friends and family. Upkeep like you be doing as a husband.
I have my house, car, job and pursuing my PhD; but the male who whether I know them for a while or just met them, gets red eye and too comfortable, like I should take care of them. heck no, where are the leaders called a man, rather loser boys, looking for a sugar sweety. I tell them from jump, I am not here to collect red flags, to baby or spoil them, as a good Christian woman, I will not be sleeping with him without the intent of marriage (better yet not sleeping with him until marriage, that is how I was raised, not going to let no man test the car between the legs and then go)
