MASAYR & XAAS LABAAD OO HALIS GALIYAY QOYS SOMALIYEED  

in hal wax ka badan la guursado shuruud adag ayuu ilaahay ku xiray.Hadii la oofin waayo na cadaab adag loo balan qaaday . Ilaahay marka xuquuqda dumarka ka hadlayo wuxuu kolba raaciyaa qofka xuquuda ilaahay ka gudba naftiisa ayuu dulmiyay jazaakallaahu khayran abdihafidh

Qalbigu markuu jabo caqli ma shaqeeyo, anigaa ku burburiyey qalbi jabey dartii, ilaahey ha cadaabo nin walba oo dayacay masuulkii xaaskii hore iyo caruurtiisii hore mid kelena ku daba keeney, alahuma aamiin yaa rabil caalamiin waxaa inom balana maxkamadii ilaahey bi idni llaah kariim 💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Haa ilama guursan karo malintuu guursdo dibdaan dhigyaa agtayda soo mari maayo siduu naag kle doonatay baan nin kle u guursnyaa 🤣🤣🤣

Nin la isku haleyn karo XAASKIISA ma diideen inay la guurto, Laakiin wax ma tareyaasha , maqanaha joogo ah ayaa nagu badan. ARAGIIS KU DEEQ AYAA OONTIISA KU DEEQDAA. Naagta somali joogtane wax ku tari maayo. 100 ka dolar bes ayey ka saxaneysaa.

Haduuba u hawoodo mid 2 wa inuu si dhib yar ii fasaxa iyado wng jiro isaga hadu alle ku berey naag jaceyl anigana i illaahaa igu beerey maser ma ahan mid an aniga isku berey marka 2 denaba hanalo qiil dayo anigaba malin walbo rag ka qurux iyo karti badn ban arka umana hawodo siden isaga ugu ogolanaya marka

Afar gursad markaad leedahay adiga iska bilaaw hadad run sheegay. Adiga wad oogtahay in yurub xaq lasiminkarin. Iska aamus wax yahaw dhintay.

Runtii ninkaas wuxuu ahaa nin aan caqli badnayn laakin nasiib leh,dumarku masayrka waa wax ku abuuran waxana lagu macneeyey waali marka qof aad adigu waashay hadaa u xanaaqdo ka waran waa caqli xumo marka ragu ayagaa dumarka dambiga galiya

Cabdixafidow waxaba hana dhihin nin raga waxaa lamadhoho intii gabadhu dhahday ow kacarooday ayow noshegee gabadha muxuw kuyiri oo ayada warkaa kakeenay asaana guursaday muxuw gabadha ulatirsaa muw qanciyo wowba kamaseyrsiyee midakale meqaa gabdheheena ilma inta laga dhalo lagu inkiraaye ayagoo guursaday

Dee ragu hadii aanay daynahaynin dee anigana in aanu kala dhaqaajino waa qasab nin gabadh kale qaba lama joogi karo waxa la ii qaatay in aan dhulkayga iska maro hadii aan wax ii qalma arko aan guursado hadii kalena iska joogo oo aan caruurtayda korsado waaba madax xanuun nin reer kale haysta meel la joog qalbigu ma ogola maxaa nafta loo qasbayaa Waliba wax kasta oo qalbigiisa jabiya waan ku odhan lahaa intaan ka fogaado si aanu waxba ii yeelin qalbi ka dhaawac. Dumarku waa inay ogaadan awooda ILLAAHAY siiyey ragu way Ina xoog weyn yihiin oo jidhka ayay wax Ina yeeli karaan lknse dumarku hadalka ayay awood u leeyahiin hadalkuna waa ka ugu daran maxaa kaa galay ma isagaa asxaan kuu galay.

Yaab oo hadii la murmo miyaa lays gawracayaa

Asc cabdixafiid waa ku salaamay waa sheeko runa maalin walba dhacda hooyooyinka somaliyeedna khaasatan raga qurbaha ka yaacaya ee guursanaya gabdho yaryar caruutii iyo tii nolodha la soo jabtay dayacay 30 sano ayaan guri leenahay ciyaalkii qaarbaa 30ku dhow lacag ayuu yeeshay iyo magac xaaskaluu dhulkii ku qaba Aniga Reerka u shaweeya Ka buka Anaa daryeela Ka teenage Anaa Lacaamila ka maqna iyo ka jooga anigaa og Ka qatan iyo ka waxa cunay anaa og Waa Taa Hooyo Somaliyeed cidlaa waraabo ku cunay caruurtii Aabihiina waa Aroos Allah hayna Xifdiyo Ameen Adiguna JZK 👍👍👍

Kkk haduusan joojin inuu midakale guusado ha ogolaado wixii hadal xun aan dhahno 2 arimood la idinkama yeelimiaa aan labeysto hadal xun yaan naladihin macquul maahan

Asl C/Xafiidow waxan ahey Hooyo Sadax Caruura Leh, Alx Madiidani Inuu Guursan karo Lkin Hanooshegan Si Respect ku Jiro,,,

War caruurtiina korsada naag labaad maxay taree timirtii hore dab loo waa

Oo mawaxad ledahy waxay ragu garan wayeen dumarka hagartaan oo ayaga wax haxeriyan? Asaga maxa udidaay dhimriinta iyo inu ubadkisa kagakaro ileen wa ogyahy waxa dhici dono ee?

Walal ANAKA nugudhacday nibanka Amal maleh 15 years baa usisamrayey 15 years na wuigu gursaday I was very young 🌱 but he get another Alhamdullilah I got divorce maudulqaadankaro xataa wuxu gursaday naag afar dhal ah aniga iyo ilmihiina wanakatagay yahuu nibanka qaar amalmayaqaanan anigna goan anqaatay wuifuray hadana single baan Ahay Alhamdullilaah buuq madiinaayo maser wakaraysta

Haduu ila guursado jaceel ma yaalo tankale waxaa gubta ilmahaan ma dhalin buu naf dhan u goon,rabay ka,waran ninkaadi aa jecleed ee naag kula guursaday soo xanuun maaha waxaan qabaa aniga haduu naag kalr hamiyo aniga ha iga sabro hana i furo

Waxaan leyaha gbdh fadlan ninku marku idin noco oo naag kale raadsado ha sugin in uu idino bah dilo ama idin dilo please katashada

Asc walal maseyrku waa qatar waxaana daawo u ah quraanka iyo sunada salaada oo la badsado samirka iyo dulqaadka ducada laysku duceeyo hadii aad walwasho Alle ayaa la weheshadaa saaxiib laga dhigtaa dhibkaaga looga waramaa alxmdulillaah waa ka caafimaadee waana jiraa dumarkane waa loo qoray oo Alle ayaa raga ubaneeyay guurka xaasas kale hadii loo qoray in uu ninka guursado waxba kama qaban kartid adkayso waxaa layiri balaayo waa barasho maseerka la saaxiib oo naftaada ku daryeel is qurxi wax baro diinta iyo maadigaba alxmdulillaah aniga waa isoo maray laba mar manshaaallaah waana guulaystay xaajiga asaga ayaa iska soo noqday markuu waayay wax bursanaayo aniga dantaydii baan ka badin waayay ma nin baan xoog u helaa qurbah iyo caruur tarbiyeen ayaa howl iigu filan waxaanba ka helay janis aan naftayda ku baro masuuliyadii lay raaciyay waxaa jiro xadiis ah qof walba waa raaci waxii laraaciyay ayaa la waydiinaa, Aniga alle ayaa ila xisaabtamayo asagane alle ayaa la xisaabtamayo oo waydiiyo waxuu dayacay . Ogaadane rageena waa ku xifaaltamaan guurka qaar baa u guursada rag iska dhici oo iska bareejay faarax iyo wax kale ayay u guursadaan , dumarow dulmiga iska daaya adinku yaa la oran naagta fur oo gurigina ha duminina yaan Alle nii caroon ee samirka waa macaan ee qaata kibirkana ka fogaada oo is caawiya yaan laysku diganin oo reeraha la dumin.

Guri la burburinmayo lakiin qalbi baa la burburin macnaha loo gursanayo 2341 mayaqanaan jidkaa qodaxda le ee bilaa cadalada kusocd

Haye abdihafid hada ma guursan rabta kkkkk

Aniga waxay ilatahay ninka inu hal xaas ku ekaado hadikale waa in uu kasamra xaasii hor iyo ilmaha gabdhaha ima dulqadankaran ilalaguursada

Asc awalan alihii kala badbaadiyay ayaa mahad leh waxanse anigu ka dhihi lahaa gabar raali ku noqoneysa in lala guursado maba jirtee midii adkeysi u leh noloshaa madmadowga leh iyadoon xad gudub sameynin reerkeeda haku fara adeygto midii aan udulqaadan karina tartiib iyadoon xad gudbin ha kafaaruqdo intey cuqdad iyo isla hadal ku noolaan lahayd amaba dhiig geli laheyd banaankeedaas ha iska marto laga yaabee in ilaahey nolol macaan oo bilaa kurbo ah siiyo wsc

Waa nimanka somaliyed oo keliya waxa nag kale radiya oo ilmahoda dayaca Gabdho runtan idin shegaya ka carara nimanka somaliyed waa magafeyaal bilaa caqli ah bilaa damiir ah bilaa diin ah guursado Ajaanibka aad ku nolaatan nolol raaxaleh aniga ogaadey 😉😉😀

waan ka xumahay in gurigaas saas kudumo balse in gabashaas ale bad baadshay waa waxlagu farxo ale. ayaana mahadaas leh. Waxaa maata cad in rag badan oo Soomaalyeed halka reer masuuliyadiisa aysan kabixi karin laakinse maskaxdooda ay ku qufulantahay 2 3 iyo 4 inay guursadaan caruurahay dhaleena sidii wild Dogs kii jidadka qurbaha laga mari la yahay cajiib !

Cabdi- xaafid Ilaahay ha ku xifdiyo Waxaan kuu sheegayaa in Ilaahay u kala xaq qaadi doono Raga iyo dumarka somaaliyeed Dumarkuna meel walba ku dhiban yihiin

Asc Abdi xafid aalha ku xifdiyo qisadn mid u ega ayaa igu dhacadey aniga laakin alxmdulilah

Wan Ku salamay abdulhafid sxbiyal subscribe I dheh thanks

Ninanka soomaalida boqolkiiba sideetan waa dayacaan naagaha iyo carurta uf dheh

Asc nimanka somaliyed badankood ma oga inee masuliyad ka saranthy caruruta waliba kuwa yurub 4 aa ilaah ii banaye ee afka ka barten aqiro war aa jiro

Abdi cafis you really hit the point that hurt many somali family but do not bias you need to tell the Somali man who lose his role the reality and I think you are in middle of this society that suffer from the disaster that has been done by a Somali man who wreck his family and also his country

Ninkii haduu kula guursado Waa kula gudboon waa ka tag ama la joog oo ogaloow.

Jazakallaah kheer

Haa aniga laylama guursanayo wixii baba ha baabo I’m free 10 ha guursado hadu doonayo

Hagursado lomadidano lakin Markey arosan ayeyba wajikale lasobaxan kharkod lakin dadka isku mid ma ahan

Alhamdulilah, in allah kala badbaadiyey ninkaa inuu dhagartaa galo. Talo fiican ayaad siisay Ragga iyo Dumarka Somaliyed mahadsanid Abdihafid.

Baga isgana qalbiga ha ha gubto iyaduba dabku sare

Ragu joojin mayaan in ey guursadaa. Hadalkaas wey isku raaceen Anagane naaguhu furud joojin mayaan. Ilmaha lee udaran tahey

Dhibtu maaha in la gursado lkn wa dhibtu Waa qarinta iyo khiyaamada ay sameeynayaan

Ragow waanu ognahay in ay aayad rabi tahay idinkuna allaha idinku duwo in aad dhameys tirtaan aayada

Asc wll qer alle hakusiyo aniga 5 ayan dhalay 28 jir ayan ahay 2bo dumar ah ayuu ilagursaday waxan isdhahay maser wax matarayee uhili ilmahagi oo dhaxda ugujir iskunahey ilmahan iyo abahood marguu sodalo anaga ayaa udan beno uno imani

When my ex husband remarried, I had just showed him the door. It isn't acceptable when you are raising young children and financially struggling to remarry for your selfishness. Alhamdulilah I raised my children my own like so many somali mothers and we know very they abandon the first family for the sake of the second.

Ama ha qaatan ragu ama ha iska dayaan nin kulu guursaday 10 hadaad u dhasho maaad dhalin waad ku oranaysaa waayo isaguba qalbigu ka dhawacay.

Waa ku salaamay abdixafit wll aniga waxaan aaminsanahay gabadha qiimeheeda shaqsiyadeeda in la ogaado marka lala guursado binu aadamku xaqiiqatan iskuma jeclaadaan muqaalka kore waxa qofka qiimeeya waa shaqsiyadiisa gabdhaha waxaan dhihi lahaa marka la idinla guursado bishaaraysta waayo hadii ninkagu helo xoolo magac iyo mansab waad bishaaraysataa adiguna ma siin alle Wayne ayaa siiyey guurkuna waa la mid waxba kagama duwana weliba guurkaas wuxuu sifeeyaa adiga marwo shaqsiyadaada kor ayuu uqaadaa ixtiraamka xishmada uu ninkaagu kuu hayo ninka raga marwadiisa wuxuu bartaa maalinka uu guur kale sameeyo fadlan gabdho idinka qiimeeya naftiina isku kalsoonaada sheyga ugu weyn ee masayr keena waa kalsoonidaro aad naftaada ka qabto ninkan waxaad kula diriraysaa waa arin aanu waxba ka bedeli karin waayo maba awoodo in uu labeeyo sadexeeyo afareeyo waa qorshe rabbi adiga meel kuguma ogayn adina isaga meel kuma ogeyn tankaa dambaysana waa kulamid dareenka masayrka waa wax jiro lkn ku dabaq tiirka shanaad ee shanta tiir ee islaamka bi Qatari khayri wa shari

Gabdho khaladka raga kaliya maleh ee aan khaladkeena qaadano jooji fakar ka ah la ilama guursan karo ku fakar sidee baan xaqayga u helaa oo ninkaan anan isku raacin ninku waa guursan Like it or not

Maseerka.wawacgirah.oowalidakamidha.dumarkaqabtoo.wey.wareeran.kuwanahmskalajelah..qabashomaleh.hadalka.qofmasersan.

I only have one question: why did he marry another woman without his wife knowing? I think that's is considered cheating . So when she said that he may not be the father why would he want to kill her ? Does that mean that he is entitled to cheat ? I know you will all say that he us allowed to have up to 4 wives,well he is by religion but the point I'm making here is : what about her ? Is she willing to be part of polygamous relationship? He did it all wrong. The dude sounds like Narcissist lol 🤣

Abdixafid it’s okay if they can support the family financially but most of them they took the first woman salary (Ayooto) and go to Africa to get married, Allah said if you can’t get full responsibility to the first house don’t build second house. Thanks

waa arin naxdin leh allah dilaa dhinta laakiin dembiga waxaan saaraya ninka waayo dumarku marka ay maseyraan waa dejaa ilaa adaa gabarkale ka dabs keenaye ma aha in aad la googosato raaligeli labo khalad ha isku darin in aad la guursato iyo in aadan dulqaadan

Maanshaa Allah Abdihafid, thank you waa qiso wanaagsan oo wax lagabarto ilaahey ayaa u soo diary.

Walahi 3maalin kahor baan lahaa Maad dhalin caruurta ee DNA kaqaad walhi ana aad ayaan uxanaaqsanaa. Waayo isagaa naag uu xidhidh la lahaa kudhahay xaas iyo caruur malihi

Asc wllo illah ha soo xanuuniyo raga somaliyed taas iyo mid ka daran baa nagu dhacadey ragani wey ina dhibeen runti illah qeerkoda hana siiyo Aamiin yaa rabi

4 aya raga loo baneyay lkn iyagu hakafikiraan sidey xasaskaas ugu cadaalad falilahayen naag ladhaqanayo la ogsonyhy iyada iyo awladeda maxa kagalay naagkale oo lalaqabo

Every sadly and allah protected by the best control will help us to be a good deal and we will not have any more of them in our case of our own . Thanks for your giving advice 👍 🙏

Illaahow maser iyo dulqaad la Aan ama caro badni adaa ka magan galay

Maha qasab in u gursado wayo ale qasab kagama dhigin rabiyow adunka ha ijoojin hebel oo naag qabiltu yidhi

Masha'Allah, walaal AbdiHafid TALO waad na siisey dhamaanteen Rag iyo Dumar May Allah Swt Shower you with his blessings jizakallah Khair

Asc wrx ninku hadugursado.dumarow. amausamra.ama.kataga.lakiin dagaliyo.dhibato.carurta.hadhborok.kudhacaya. anigu.waxan samaynlaha.magelikaro.sheer. kabahaygan hore.ugashan

Waa kukalatagena ma xamilikaro nafteda iyo nin binidan nafteda ka qalisan ilmahega ana hesana

Waxaan Sameyn lahaa inaan ku kala tagno dhulka illahay wuu weyn yahay naceyb iyo dagaal iyo indha adeyg maxa leyskula hor fadhiyi inuu tashadey wayba muuqataye

Abdixafit you are excellent and experienced jornalist I liked Al your hows especially this emotional parental education that you experienced about this family and you gave them a tangent advice to both Somali parents. It's was really necessary advice, and well said. Thank you.

mahadsanid Cabdi Xafiid talo iyo tusaale fiican baad na siisay

Asaga qudhiisa xaguu ku socday gabadh yar oo labo dhal ah markuu ka daba keenay? Ragu way waasheen

See ku diidi karaa hadal gabar caraysan tiri asaguba ficil wadnaha jaray ayuu sameeyay

Asc hadi u gursado wan uga tegiilah farxadisa ha qato carurtada wan korsan laha

ADKAYSTA IDINKUBA WAX WALBA WAAD NAGU TIDHAAHDAAN QAAR BAA YIDHAA MAAN DHALI BA ADAA DHALAYE CIDII DHASHAY U GEE

A s c cabdixafid hagursado waxalarm hanqaràrac lug umadhutiyo

Hadii lo qoray kama celin karo Lakiin aniga i can’t stay with him

Masha Allah waanadaada kuwo waxku qaato rag iyo tumarba allaha kadhigo

Adiga cabdixaafid ahaan majeceshahay walashayy mise habaryartaa inlala guursado

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Niminka maseer kulullaa oo guursasho badanaa 😅😅😅😅 please. naga yareeya guurka

Waa arin adag ilaahay kamagangalnay naag kale salaamad

Xitaa hadaan 10 caruur leenahay haduu midkale nagadabo keeno haburburo gurigaas

If I was the wife of mr Abdixafiid i would be worried 🤣

Haduu qofka iquursado oo ixumeeyo waxkasto aan ku xumeen karo Ayaa uga Aarsanaa. Naag Haduu guursado oo kibir kudaro joogis majiro

Masha alaaaaaah xafidullaaahi Mami 🥰 wa sheeko cajiib ah shiib iska dhah maserka wa mida xuun ah alaah ha badbadiyo soomaali

Yaakuusheegay inan lagu dhihiikarin hadu dayaco

Asc abdixafid, my own story is tiny bit similar in terms of relocation. I don't mind sharing it with you as my story is quite unique. Was 19 when i got married and nearly 10th anniversary he messed with my life. Now I'm paranoid with somali guys, and this guy was much older than me. My story is so UNIQUE to the point anyone who hears it, says i should consider making it a movie.

Anaguna hinaase ma deyn karno Abdihafiidoow ee maxaa talo ah?😃

Nin 2ba naag dhiqi kara maskax ahaan jismi ahaan iyo caqli ahaan yahay nin xushmad ii haya ii og halgankii aan la soo maray iyo juhdigii aan dhismaha reerka soo galiyey haduu yahay aabe reerkiisa iyo ubadkiisa jecel oo u jajaban hal iska dhaafee 3ayaan u ogolaan lahaa shaqada ayaa iga yaraan Russ

shukran walal

Walahay hadii aan awoodi lahaa dumarka soomaliyeed iskul ban u furi lahaa say wax iiga bartaan sida aan reerkayga ugu faro adaygay iyo sida wax kasta saan rabay ilahay iiga dhigay 17 sano ayan reer nahay Alxamdulillah u malayn maayo ama way yartahay farxada kalgacylka aan reer kayaga ku dhaqano awlaad faraxdan mansha Allah ilahay baa intaas bixiya lkn in gabadh yar oo rooraysaa reerkaga ka dumiyso waa guul daro wayn oo adiga kaligaa ku haysta dumarow iska ilaaliya dhexda xidha naftaada caruurtaada wakhti geli

Asc cirka iyo dhulka wuxu baladi afgar

Anigana kucusub ban laaqal galagaa markastaba

Ubad ka dartii baan isku dayicii wa khlad naftada depression iyo haliis ina isku galisiid wa laga ficanyahay .. allah no sahlo guurkena😑 horey usocda dumaroow

Asc abdixafit walaal mcn taga waadamac 60 haduu doono haguursado inigu waxaan noqodoonaa salbalaar oo caruutayda iyo nafsadayda iyo caafimaadkayga

Waan soodhawaan lahaa ninja markuu guursado

Raga lasafan tahaya wayab cade sheekh yada xat rag lasafanyihin

Kubkub iga fur la yaqaan Somalia dhaqankeena waana dad jecel inkastoo hada lakala cararo qarabadii is nacday

Wee fiicantehee in loo ogolaado 4 taba balse maskaxda ayaa diideesa

Ilahay naguma kenee udub dhaxaadkan qabsan hhh

Rag lako oran adiga adiga taa dhahaysid uma jeedid miya

Reergayga ma udumiyaan ninka baa guursaday

Maseyrku waa cadho qaan gaadh ah Mana garaneysid waxaad ku hadleyso

Subxaanallaah illaahow illaahow na astur aduun iyo aakhiraba

gurigu ma halqof buu kaburburayaa? hadii aabihii uusan lexejeclo kuheen gurigu gabadhu maxay kaqab kartaa?

Waa nin edabdaran waana iskafurilahaa

Waa run raga hadalkaa lagumadhaho waana sababta loo dhaho hooyadaa unbaa kugu dhaarankarta

Nin naag madeynaayo ha oran ninki ku jaceyl naag kale Ma aadayo