The insecurity in this comment section is frustrating. He is joking, but he's also making a really good point. This guy actually has done some self reflection and realized the damage that other people's expection of his performance of masculinity has done to him
Nah really his problem is his false definition of masculinity. Being a 'man' shouldnt effect how you treat other people, you dont need to show strength everyday. Like dudes funny but he seriously missed the mark about masculinity
@@sirkelendor5429 he talked about that in the joke. And even if he hadn't, he isn't doing philosophy he's doing comedy. It's a good joke with some meaningful insight that I'm sad you missed
PLEASEEEE I WASNT EXPECTING THE "toothpaste is going to come out of your ears" got me so caught off guard i snorted in laughter and hurt my sinuses and throat. Anything after that was fuel to the fire
It's funny to see all the men going "no, we are not tired! We are born men!" While this guy who kissed another guys hand moved on made money and is actually more powerful that half the 'men'
@@kingofcards9516i mean, men have opinions on how women should act, too. Doesnt make either person right-- its just an opinion which can be disregarded if needed.
Dude, as a guy who lost 3 friends in 1 year and have so many misfortunes after, I genuinely didn't know how to grieve/process anything aside from drinking in private because I felt I couldn't let anyone see how bad I was struggling. After burning out and having to hibernate twice to feel anything I had to recondition myself "it's okay to be weak - NO, it's okay to be VULNERABLE! Showing vulnerability is NOT weakness because it's hard to be vulnerable." "Sometimes the hard thing isn't to fight to keep it all together, it's to let it all fall apart" I'm still changing how I operate in day to day life like letting myself cry tears of joy and sadness. Letting myself offer my genuine opinions of my friends without ending it with "ya jackass, ya dip shit" or some other variation to avoid appearing "weak" by just showing how much I love the people in my life. Still learning every day 😅
It makes me sad to know that men feel this way and just know that good people will recognise the amazing traits you have and consider it an honour to have you care about them in such a way! I know many women, myself included who would prefer that over how we've seen some of the men in our lives grow up with the expectations they face without acknowledgement. If I'm lucky enough to have a son some day I want to teach him about real men like yourself who have the courage to self reflect and want to grow to be the best version they can be for those they love 🥰 Take care - keep your head up & all thr best from Scotland 🏴
@@gilliancarroll3655 Thank you very much for your kind words. I honestly never expected that kind of feedback, you're probably the first I've experienced being so vocal of your support. I'm still trying to find people who do welcome and support this more open type of behavior vs the majority of those who look down on it. Not easy in today's day and age 😅 Wish more people were as accepting and supportive as you, but again just thank you 😊
The comments having so many weirdos tweaking is funnier than the bit to me. The point of his joke is that toxic masculinity is exhausting and even detrimental. Be strong or whatever. There is nothing wrong with that. But legit lashing out at the joke makes you look more like the joke.
Im tired of having to act stoic around people. I was taught that showing genuine care or interest in people is weak and not manly but fuck me this is exhausting and created so many issues for me now. Im self concious about what people think of me, im anxious of the way i act and im scared to show any emotion otherwise ill get ridiculoud by other men, giving me weird looks. Fuck this, i wanna be a man of my own creation, i wanna be happy for the person i am and not supress it and pretend to be someone else. God bless you Indian comedy man. You are not a strong man because you work out and act tough around people. Youre a strong man because you are happy with yourself and proud of who you are and not afraid to be the person you want to be.
You don't have to stop being a man to care for someone. In fact, people will still consider you "manly," especially if you protect and care for those who are weaker than you.
Confidence is something I've always seen as masculine in the men around me. No, they might not always be the strongest or smartest or brightest, but my dad and my grandpa and my uncles are all confident in what they believe in and do.
@@U-tube-px4uy A traditionially maculine trait is independence. The extreme of that is not asking for help, even if you would really need it. Same with "strong" and "being unable to relay important emotions to the people around you". Most traits simply become unhealthy when pushed beyond certain extremes. That is what the word "toxic masculinity" means.
@@U-tube-px4uy Look, "unhealthy trait presented as a masculine trait by society" is the definition of "toxic maculinity". If you don't like the word, I can't help you. Then just use descriptions. The word is not going away though.
Seriously lol, dude made a great and funny point about the dumb shit us guys have to do and how fragile masculinity actually is and I guess all these wannabe Chads are proving his point
All of those comments were made during the andrew tate sigma male trend a year back, I like to believe that the people commenting grew a lot since making their comment, because if not then we’re pretty screwed
As a woman, I love this brilliant commentary on how in society we ALL have our crosses to bear, whether we've imposed them on ourselves or they've been imposed on us by others. We need to empathize with each other. It's rough on all sides. Can't we just BE? The end, tho...😆😆😆😆😆😆
He is more masculine than anybody else commenting here as soft man while they don't know themself with no courage how soft they themselve are to leave a comment here behind fake account and not masculine enough keeping the mindset of becoming soft male by just kissing another men's hand It slowly indirectly leads yo be like Queer men cannot be a men or masculine which is quite wrong Also I think he is roasting with the Idea Reject modernity Embrace masculinity which I like .
Let them scream. It was a joke . Many guys say nasty stuff about women and they are praised for being SIGMA , and when women refute , they be like " women don't understand jokes" . 😂😂 Now they can't handle a joke about homophobia and handshake 😂😂 . Our country wasn't like this once upon a time .
He's absolutely right. If you're actually a strong man, you shouldn't care about needing to posture and project power. You should be comfortable with yourself and who you are without needing to put on a performance for people.
@@nice__craft nature only accepted people who brave and powerful or courageous. And I was not meaning Men birth with power. On this earth everybody birth for something else but men are born with a purpose not with powers.And power are finds it
He literally said that he's tired of acting like that. This means he is acting to be a man. Many in this world are like him. Full of hatred from inside and one's who lack masculinity.
Not the alpha males being all mad in the comments lmaooo. You just showed an actual power move there and they be seething cause they don't dare to do this shit. Who's strong confident and masculine now 😂
@@OswaldM_14 And what genuine criticism are there? 90% of them are literally just 'reject modernity stay strong". So dumb. You're all so weak you're threatened by a joke. It takes strength and confidence in who you are and your own gender to make jokes like this, or laugh at them. Ya'll are so insecure all you can think about is "reject modernity" lol. Then get off the internet and go farm the land like our ancestors.
@@OswaldM_14where are the criticisms? ad hominem is not criticism. the only valid arguments in my opinion are “but i do like being a man.” all the other arguments are just name calling.
@@defaultdan7923 Just off the top of my head I remember people bringing up why it is necessary to have masculine men, such as the ability to defend your family and society from harm.
fr. i cringe every time i have to read “weak men create hard times”, especially because i know that their definition of weak isn’t someone who is emotionally weak, but just someone who is physically weak, which is somehow more important to some of them in today’s age.
@@defaultdan7923You got it almost entirely wrong. By weak men they mean those that have little self-control, can't push themselves beyond a comfortable point, can't hold emotions together(often makes decisions based on emotions and immediate pleasure), do not discipline themselves, are losers by choice so on and so forth. And you know what? By extension, those men are also physically weak. It's like this:All mandarins are orange, but not all of things things that are orange are mandarins
@@What_is_a_freaking_handle_bro i agree with that completely, but i think (perhaps mistakenly) that many don’t view it that way. perhaps that’s a bit nihilistic, but i really don’t think they believe in that nuanced take.
@@legendary3638 bold of you to assume men nowadays can find a partner and create offspring when even society itself makes taking caring of children exhaustingly expensive and almost impossible to do
@@alexarmesto8844 And then there is the fact that there are rarely any good straight girls are left. So getting married to a straight girl is also a big task now let alone having kids. A few days back i got a nightmare. I was kissing my girl in my dream and then i open up her skirt and see a big dic* hanging. I immediately woke up, looked at my girlfriend and thanked god that she's a straight girl.
@@legendary3638 well at least you have a girlfriend because all the crushes I have had in high school ended up with them having a relationship with another man so I have never even dated once so if your girlfriend treats you right than keep her so you can have a better life than me
He is tired and it makes sense because if it was that easy everyone would be a Man! We on the other hand have other option but to be loyal to ourselves!
@@pranjalgupta9072 the only thing that prevents war is power, your power defines your country in geopolitical scale And you said something about WW1 and 2 so surely you must know it unless the only knowledge you have came from ncert and other books
@@pranjalgupta9072 also if you think becoming males would mean no war then just gain knowledge before speak , because the first thing that happens if we become males instead of men will be a war
Pick up some leggings (or any other subtly fruity clothing), they subtly remove manly aesthetic and give u some breathing room by stunting expectations of masculinity when u need it. I love them ( ╹▽╹ ) Then again idk how ingrained masculinity gets into more regular guys, could be an internal struggle more than external expectation ┐(￣ヘ￣)┌
@@ellielou52this right here. i feel like some of these people are onto something, because they realize that strength is more than just physique. the more important strength is mental. the best part, is that that transcends any given sex. it’s something we all can improve on.
exactly I'll tell you what im tired of im tired of pretending that there's nothing like masculinity and feminine behaviour... because it does it's in our genes, even tho we don't require those traits now but that's how we're programmed to be 💀
@@shamlaAK I did get his joke, I just didn't find it funny. Man is gender and male is sex. You cannot choose whether you're a male or not. You're male when you were conceived and you are male when you die. Right down to your core you are either male or you are not. Usually, males exhibit traits which are "manly" in nature. The manly traits appear unconsciously.
I'm not tired of being a man, it's fucking amazing. Great to be in my real Masculine energies, i want to be stoic, have strength and power everything that god has gifted me as MAN🥂
@@mojaxd physical strength, yes. Other then that men and women are more or less same. When talking about maturity, mental prowess... i am not talking hypotheticaly, but from experience. So other than that a few more inches and bit more strength, none of those qualities are exclusive to men.
@@archiem654 Men and women are not equal. They will never be. I'm not talking about gender superiority here. Both men and women are privileged in some aspects. Both gender have different struggles. Both gender have different societal pressure. Don't call it the same. They are not the same biologically, mentally or physically. That's why it's men and women, not men or women.
@@Camazotz-kz9wrunironically i think this guy is fine. i think it’s okay to believe in these values, but the real problem are the losers that insult the guy in the video to prove how “manly” they are.
@@echiko4932 Again a narcissistic trait to call others opinion cringe even when you don't agree with it. Keep proving my point 😂 if it bothers you so much, you could have ignored like a normal person
@@aerah76 we like back and forths here. Or at least i do. It's not narcissistic to call ur opinion cringe, since that is my opinion. Do u get triggered by other people's opinions by any chance?
@@echiko4932 It wouldn't have been narcissistic if y'all could provide your own perspectives and insights. Simply calling names because you believe your opinion is superior is narcissistic.
@@aerah76 I don't remember stating my opinion is superior nor calling others cringe. I don't see any of your point either apart from not being able to ignore my comment "like a normal person" would according to your own comment
Man ..i am.so thankful to u to really say this out...:) we are so unlucky to not have such men enough.. :( We need to understand that physical strength is not everything... bravery comes only when you learn to be vulnerable....your masculinity means nothing if you yourself cant handle your emotions.... And another thing...here his kiss is a sign of love/care...not a sign of sexuality... You men really need to learn a lot before watching this without getting triggered...grow up
The greatest strength that any man can show is kindness and decency. It's easy to be born with strength or to learn how to be strong. It's incredibly easy to just not care about how you use that power that you have either been born with or trained to obtain. But the most difficult thing that you can do is learn how to not use it and instead show compassion To show mercy. Kindness. To learn. To turn the other cheek. But I would like to remind everybody.We only have two cheeks to turn. Technically for a few count the butt. But either way, once we run out of cheeks.What are we supposed to do.
Men get success,women & fame men get to save the world..there is nothing to gain by a handshake(not toothpaste ofcz) but everything to do with your value of oneself displayed..men provide & admire..even the mere act of kissing the hands is still masculine in alway! Yes its exhausting but its life changing & there is nothing wrong in being masculine..thankyou!
I think a lot about this. I usually describe myself as male instead of as a man because of this. The power comes out when I have a debating stand until then I really can't be bothered changing the tone of my voice anymore just so people are respectful
Define weakness and define "showing strength". A handshake isn't strength. Needing to "prove" yourself is insecurity. But STRENGTH is more like being faithful to your partner. Supporting your family. Loyalty, brotherhood, confidence. I'm not at all tired of being a man. Nor am I exhausted by it. It's exciting. If this guy thinks being a man is exhausting he's definitely doing it wrong.
no one talks about squeezing hands hard , we talk about discipline and physical and mental strength. ofocurse you can have discipline as a female too. and the reason we have to show strength in physical activities is because we were given strength. we have all the right to embrace our birth right. "effects the way you treat other people" yeah it does , in a good way, it encourages the other to be harder and work harder and improve them selves . humans dont learn to be better with kisses and softness in all cases. it is hardness and disciplining makes humans stronger and better
I am tired, very tired. But like my father and his father, and all the generations before him, I take it like a man so that the women in the family can have an easy life.
@@AntiExtrimistkeep it up man, sincerely. thats what “being a man” truly is. it’s an idea that transcends sex. being mentally strong. remember that it’s okay to feel tired. the fact that you are pushing through says leagues about you.
That's honestly really sweet of you. Although it is okay to rely on them too sometimes. You know like helping each other out. It doesn't make you any less of a man to receive help 👍
Well !!! It's a unconscious and psychological thinking,a strong handshake shows yours interests and confidence,if u want to bash it,so better leave job and move to mountains, cuz the world we have created there is no space for u and me And It's a irony that while making this joke, he is wearing three piece suit which is also a part of ecosystem where this handshake exist
@@Guys_Love_Each_Other Yeah all the men in the comments too weak to take a joke is sad, I agree. It's nice seeing a man confident enough in himself to make jokes like in the video.
That is so-called "woke" gender ideology explained really well. What is the purpose of so many "manly" things we're expected to do as men? I like this clip a lot
Yeah, kids in the comments haven't understand sex and gender yet. He is saying that he is okay with his sex, male, but doesn't like the gender and its expectations. He is braver than anyone hiding behind toxic masculinity.
Because strength helps in enhance your quality of life and improve your ability to do everyday activities. Strength training can also protect your joints from injury. Building muscle also can contribute to better balance and may reduce your risk of falls.
on the behalf of the indian masculine men community, i'm extremely sorry to my fellow international giga chads that you have to watch this keep grinding brothers.. sooner or later we'll be successful
Yeah all the men in the comments too weak to take a joke is sad, I agree. It's nice seeing a man confident enough in himself to make jokes like in the video.
Tell me you don't understand toxic masculinity without saying you don't understand toxic masculinity. Masculinity is NOT the same as toxic masculinity. Though since this is your reaction to a joke... you yourself probably are a toxic person lol.
It's not like being a man is tiring or I hate it, I just realized that human are not that cool shit, man and woman are not that cool and it's silly to act like what others see us is the most important thing in the world. I do what i want without caring what others think, if i want to follow social norms I will. But if I don't then I'm just... Don't care man. A man is just a label not a compliment, it's not a role, it's not a job. Just like being a woman is not an honor or a job, not a role. We are just people man. I am what I am even if no one acknowledge it It's so childish really to act and try to be strong because if not we are afraid we will fail that 'man' shit. If i am strong then I am, it's not because I'm a man that I want to be strong or because I am a man I should be strong. There are other things more important in life. I don't change the way i am no matter what happened or what other says. I have no problem in life and I really don't get it why the supposed 'rational' sex are so obsessed with what others see them, you are you and I am who I am I'm a guy, a man in the end of all this. I don't get it why other guys act like being a man is some sacred titles, it's just you bozo it's not a good or bad thing. Some narcissistic mentality here
