The Boldness Rule: How To Be Confident And Attractive 

Having a conversation after watching these videos feels like a chess game

My sister is definitely type three. I can't tell how many times we've been talking with someone and she's gotten the "yes, exactly" or "you get it" or "how did you knew". Is so easy for her to genuinely connect with people.

Joe Rogan talking about chimps. Lol.

This channel changed my life during quarantine, I used it's advices to make my communication skills better and really I had my A game when i came back to university with people and society as a whole, thank you ❤

This man must have mined hundreds of hours to find Joe Rogan talking about Chinpanzees. I respect these artistic decisions, pulls the piece together.

I definitely recommend trying to implement all types into your charisma, find your main type, master it, and slowly start implementing different types

Aww RIP Steve Irwin. He was such a legend and had so much to offer our world. I’m so glad his kids are continuing his legacy ❤

Waiting for Lex to comment: “Thanks for including me in your list, I'm deeply grateful & honored. Love you all.”

I'm the empathetic type, but I stopped talking to two of my friends because of that. They always fight with each other and both come to me to pour their hearts out. But in normal times, they never talk to me and they never ask how I am, they just come to tell me their problems. I told them the same thing I wrote here.

I have these 3 types which resonates with me , funny type because I feel sometimes my roasting reaches a level where they might dislike me so good to learn about that pitfall and also empathetic and also authentic so thanks I will focus on improving these 3

Fascinating that I do a bit right and wrong from each charisma type.

I learned so much from this channel, and I especially appreciate introvert-specific content and actionable steps and exercise. Would you mind doing a breakdown of Dr. Gregory House some day? I know the show finished a decade ago, but it is both an influential and a complex character and I think it will be interesting to many viewers.

10000% the empathetic type. I can’t stand the energetic types because usually they are just obnoxious … most people really like me but I def notice the ones who overlook me don’t have depth or are heavily guarded so they don’t get anything from me

Oh my god, that clip of Steve Irwin nearly brought me to tears. He was a huge reason I started learning as much as I have about animals. This is a very good video I will be sharing with friends. Edit: Weirdly, I have bursts of the energetic type. I talk with my hands all the time but I get overwhelmed if I feel people are spending too much time looking at me. I start to feel like I am taking up too much of people's attention.

Key Moments Funny 00:24 I like my donuts so far their holes are closed 1:42 build up rule = when you say a joke, make the other person feel good about it too 1:57 half of your jokes = 50 percent rule = are about building others up Energetic type 2:26 hand gestures to explain your story, sound effects and accents 2:46 Ed Sheeran pops out, with a ukelele. Empathetic 4:28 you don't want to be disappointed in yourself

One of the best videos I've seen from you guys great job!

I lean authentic but have to use funny and energetic to balance it out. Makes the room comfortable for others.

#5 Is my style, I'd prefer listening than talking, The problem is people say I come off too serious & defensive, with a wall always up & always keep people at arms length. 🤷🏿‍♂️

I resonated most with the honest type first and empathetic type second. I was surprised at how much both pitfalls speak to some of my own social challenges, particularly the empathetic one. I guess it helps me focus on things I can work on.

Would love to see a video of what Hollywood movies and TV get wrong about charisma.

Being empathetic and self aware is good❤

I’d love to see a video about Kurt Caz, he travels through the wildest places and always carries himself in a way that keeps him out of trouble while still always finding cool people

5:10 What a great clip of Steve Irwin! Ive never seen that before thanks for including

Excellent. Thank you.

We all have all of these types, but it s interesting to understand how they work.

Another wonderful video 😌😁👍

This just reminds me that I have multiple personalities in a good way! lol I'm esp a regular combo of energetic, empathetic, and authentic & contextually self-assured. I like the idea that people think I'm funny just bc of those high energy traits--now I understand. TY

Well done 👏

love this channel

Great video ❤

The 4th type is the definition of Ni (introverted Intuition) in cognitive functions and their pitfall is just the same as the video describes. In N. American culture Ni is valued quite highly and often the power of having broad horizons and see through all the possibilities and prepare for the bad or utilise the good, is underrated, viewed as something that holds you back. Especially when it's combined with sensor practical-tangible realism. Having a goal and being focused on it is very important. However, we need to have our eyes open for the other paths life and circumstances can lead us to. And if possible, be able to adapt to that. Being realistic and flexible is also very important.

Believe it or not, Miss Manners has the best advice for the first type (funny), which is to remember that the only consistently safe subject of a joke is yourself. Learn to poke fun at yourself (without being self-deprecating) and you’ll charm the socks off people. The complimentary teasing suggested here works well too, as long as it doesn’t appear fake or ingratiating.

I recognize a combo of all of these in personality . I find that people are drawn to me & enjoy having me around & I love people & enjoy being present, too. But I find too much socializing exhausting. I spend a lot of time alone doing “me” stuff, which is cool, too.

How much time do you guys spend finding and clipping videos to use?! Looks like a ton of work. Thanks for the awesome content!

I’m energetic and everyone loves me. I also always make it a point to make sure EVERYONE in the room feels like they’re part of the socializing. I guess I subconsciously managed to avoid the pitfalls of my personality. Thanks, this has been eye opening. I’m going to work even more on my empathy and make sure not only does everyone always have a good time, I want them to all feel like they can also use my shoulder as support for anything. Some do already, but I want everyone to trust me enough to let me be their strength. God I love people, everyone’s so magical and filled with their own stories. Edit: Hahaha! I paused during the segment that spoke about my personality and, the moment I unpaused, you mentioned being more empathetic helps my type tremendously. I guess I was on the right track!

"Oprah ~was a Master of this." *Frantically googles Oprah to make sure I didn't miss her passing She's alright, guys

Yo he's right! I'm the enthusiastic type and people don't open up to me 😅

Could you make a video on how to express what you want to say? I often have very complicated and (*in my opinion) good arguments or thoughts but I have a hard time expressing them and explaining them, without for example adding boring side notes that I realise after speaking was just and making my companions bored or and uninterested in what I just said. How do I get better at speaking and expressing myself?

Is it possible to pick and learn every strength from each of the personality types over time?

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Hi i just wanna say i love all your videos.

I like about this video is of course the information i am greatful for that but the animations are cool pointing out by spot light the person or yellow lines I like that ❤❤ thank you for giving us soo much knowledge greatful for that . ( 😂I am journaling😂 )

I'm definetely the second type!!! I am just funny but in a different way. And I can relate to enlightening the room Edit: I think I am a mix of this type and the authentic type.

this was mind blowing to watch...

I can be each one of those types (least the energetic or the self-assured ... but I can pull those off, too, if I feel like it ...) ...

Mix of energetic and authentic

Now i just have to figure which of these types I am, cause i have absolutly no idea and feel like none of them matches me

I still have no idea what I am! 😂 People always say I'm hilarious, I write so I know it's my wit and not just gestures, but also am very happy and boisterous, but only once I'm comfortable. I also have the bad habit of dominating conversations when topics I like come up. People have said I'm empathic, but I don't think it's a defining trait. So either the first or second? I know for a fact I'm not self-assured.

A lot of people were saying that the tiff between Blunt and Brand was typical British humour. Good to know that wasn't the case.

I’m a mix of 1 and 5 with a bit of 3 sprinkled in.

I always wondert why people like me so much, I always was worried I manipulate them. But all of the things you said someone should do, are natural to me because I actually value those traits in myself alot.

I identify with all 5 of these. Maybe thats why I’m so interested in people, because what ever category they are in, they mirror something in me 🤔

I am the authentic type and your absolutely right

This video is a masterpiece of psychology

I personally feel like I'm a mixture of the energetic, empathetic, a tiny bit of self-assured, and authentic personality type, with a heavy lean towards the authentic type.

I'm energetic with elements of emphathy and sometimes people think my energy is for grabbing attention but in reality its just having good time bruh

I'm an empathetic type😌 Thank you for helping me find that out

I'm the energetic and empathetic. LETSAGOO

i’m empathy & authentic.. it’s an odd mixture tbh

I was expecting this channel to be cheesy and I came out liking it more than I first thought

For the self-assured type, the keyword is they "seem" to know exactly what they're doing/wanting . Like he said in the video we all have insecurities and no one actually knows it all. This is good to know for 2 reasons, 1) don't compare yourself to them thinking they're perfect and look down on yourself 2) never just blindly follow someone or put them on a pedestal just because they seem so "self-assured" 😉 💪 (Edit: typo)

Hi! Could you guys do a video about captain Jack Sparrow's charisma? I would love to watch that and I feel there is a lot of potential in there!❤

I tend to vaccilate between Engertic and Empathic. They seem pretty opposite, but I've always been like that. Odd. I feel like so feel people understand me back, though, so many there's some of the Authenticity in there too.

3 habits that make people dislike me : me myself i

Crocodile hunter…❤I cried❤”I wanna save the ozone layer ,I wanna save the world” ❤

I've met a few people in my life that seemed to know my thoughts. You might think that was great but it really pissed me off how they could finish my sentences faster than I could.

Keep in mind, you can actually have multiple personality types of who you are, some may contrast more then the others, but if you are an enthusiast its possible you can also be the self assured type, while being an enthusiast might be more of what people see you as, you also show traits of someone that is self assured

Do one on Garand Thumb! I swear that guy has some sort of charisma cheat going on! scoring natural 20s all over the board...

During the graham norton interview with Brand, he had just gotten divorced and Norton mentioned that Katie perry had been on the show the week before. Brand got offended and told him off. The clip was cut from the televised show but it made the news here in the UK (you might be able to find the article on google) . Brand was a bit off for the rest of the show and i think thats why his interaction with emily blunt was a little tactless.

Can you explain the last point a bit better please ? What exactly is supposed to happen during that pause and what if it doesn’t?

So, it turned out I'm none of these types. Well, #5 I guess. Though it's hard to find someone to listen.

Where I go for a good personality test ?

Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.

I think I'm the authentic type. I work in a makeup store, and just a few days ago my coworker was whispering about a client who was super "orange" with a very dark tan. I saw who she was talking about, went up to the client and announced, "Are you darker than last summer?!" I talked with both the client and my coworker, talking about how I found foundation to match her fake tan a few times. We both knew it was a fake tan because her palms and wrists were as white as I am (I also joke about being the color of paper to anyone with dark shin) Apparently, she gave up fake tanning because of maintenance, and was doing tanning bed once a week. Anyways, after the client left, my coworker told me she was worried about me at first, because she thought I was too blunt. I assured her that this was someone I've had plenty of interactions with. I think the hardest part of being "authentic" is that, especially in a work environment like the one above, you must learn to pull that honesty back, and let yourself build up a relationship before being free. Some people really respond to honesty, and clients have called me "efficient" because I'll tell them if a perfume smells bad or if a foundation is wrong for their skin type, and I don't focus on it and suggest something else. But I know it's off putting for some, even disrespectful, and my biggest weakness is reading other people's cues.

5:13 the way she's looking at him I wanna someone like that 🖤

i am definetly the energetic type.

I feel like i fit into 4 outa the 5 styles and that too to a good extent What should be the right way to build my charisma?

R I.P. Steve Irwin, his conviction truly shined in everything he was trying to accomplish.

What is a brutal truth about life that needs to be said? Stop hoping for wrong things. No matter how hard the bird tries, it can never fly in the ocean. All your dreams are valid but most of your hopes aren't. The world won't believe in you until you believe in yourself. All the accomplishments in life start with self-belief. No one cares enough. Even your own reflection never hugs your own Shadow and you think others care for you. No one cares enough about your problems except your family. Stop searching for things you already have. We live in a world where people always are so desperate to find happiness when they already have it. Little joys aren't that little. People assume those who cry are the weakest. Even the mighty sky that holds the sun, moon and stars cry rain. For me they are the kindest ones. We live in a world where strangers can become best friends as easily as best friends can become strangers. Graveyards and temples(churches, mosques, gumbas) are mostly filled with people who fears the most . Listen to every advice but interpret the meaning of only few. Some people are gonna criticize you for doing what's unexpected from you even if its a noble deed. Don't criticise me for writing 9 points instead of 7.

I want to stop the ozone layer! 😂😂😂

5 is cool, but what about my 11 other personalities?

Can you do a video on Anakin from TCW?

can you mix the honest and the self-assured type, because i act like both them most of the time

I feel that self assured types can also be arrogant if they take it too far

I can identify which ones I'm not, but not which type I am predominantly.

I tried being type 1, but I ended up as type 2. But I ended up in type 2 pitfalls waaay too many times until I realised where I made my mistakes.

You should look at Patrice o Neal. He is the honest type that would be perfect for a deep study

I like how we have theo having a seizure pretending to be chris delia in the authentic category lol

I’m a mixture of all of these

I think imma engage with 3 and 5

Most of the times I just doesn't watch the videos and just read all the comments . There are some real gurus in the comment section

The Charisma-Types link doesn't work. I get to some epically long website with all sorts of info about this "Charisma-University" but not the charisma-types test mentioned at the beginning of the video. Hmm.

yeah and most of these people are just really good looking or sexy tbh and they have built their confidence on the back of that. They maintain their confidence even as they age, it's how they are used to being in the world.

yeah there can be too much of a good thing

Pedro Pascal is almost perfect. He is charismatic, funny, builds up people and shy all at once.

Number 5

I was always the authentic type, no wonder people didn't really like me. I am just bland in terms of talking about things we love.

I can’t tell whether I’m type one or type five honestly. I pull aspects from all five tbh

what if you are a combination of all 5 and yet everyone you talk to leaves after a month?

Being a type 5 is actually hard sometimes