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Matt & Rachael reunite after their controversial breakup. Matt explains why he feels they can no longer be in a relationship and why he was so upset at the photo controversy.
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@JoMama123451234
@JoMama123451234 3 года назад
I think we can all finally agree that the bachelor is no longer about love. Its about clout and IG followers.
@pepper1188
@pepper1188 3 года назад
Jumped the shark a long time ago.
@kjbennie9245
@kjbennie9245 3 года назад
I agree. But then i watch Seans season of the bachelor and him finding love with Catherine. It does happen. But rarely unfortunately
@amaaanster
@amaaanster 3 года назад
But honestly it was never about love. Such a dumb show.
@pepper1188
@pepper1188 3 года назад
@B Bean Lol..voice text.
@bushidobrown9996
@bushidobrown9996 3 года назад
Agreed!
@roter13
@roter13 3 года назад
another season wasted. Maybe we should just drop "the bachelor" and only do "the bachelorette". The women do better anyway.
@MikeSmith-ur6jx
@MikeSmith-ur6jx 3 года назад
ABC isn't gonna drop any of them. For some reason, even with the same dam script for 20 years women keep getting their cheap box wine, putting their sweatpants on, & watching these every Monday.
@Chloe-zq2yz
@Chloe-zq2yz 3 года назад
No, he’s hurt learn the difference
@NarutoUzumaki-mz3ef
@NarutoUzumaki-mz3ef 3 года назад
Period
@reneeb9487
@reneeb9487 3 года назад
Yesss
@theworldawaitstravelnow
@theworldawaitstravelnow 3 года назад
I agree!!!!!
@clintbuzzworth6669
@clintbuzzworth6669 3 года назад
They should just call this show, "Dude who dates a bunch of chicks at the same time and then bones three of his favorites"
@chloebelle4923
@chloebelle4923 3 года назад
LOL ... yeah, pretty much!
@chevon1920
@chevon1920 3 года назад
Lol, yes that’s the perfect description, lol 😂😂
@cuteanimalz1296
@cuteanimalz1296 3 года назад
Lmaooo he had to do his thing you know ??lmaooooo
@insane_wayne9499
@insane_wayne9499 3 года назад
I’m weak😂 but that’s a facts
@sweetjane7375
@sweetjane7375 3 года назад
😂🤣
@warrio961
@warrio961 3 года назад
Being on this show must be so embarrassing. These girls can get any guy they want in the real world but they end up competing only to be someone's 2nd, 3rd, or 4th choice.
@exnihilonihilfit6316
@exnihilonihilfit6316 3 года назад
lol Naive person, what they're actually "competing" for is fame and more followers on social media.
@mannie8735
@mannie8735 3 года назад
@@TheMegaelectronic past their prime? Haha you sound very sour.
@nocturnalrise
@nocturnalrise 3 года назад
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 like that matters to anyone lmaoo social media is a waste of time
@exnihilonihilfit6316
@exnihilonihilfit6316 3 года назад
@@nocturnalrise To these people, it's practically everything, oh high horse one. The alternative is invisibility, which for them is equivalent to failure.
@exnihilonihilfit6316
@exnihilonihilfit6316 2 года назад
@Norman Viking Yep, losers are a dime a dozen anyway. Wait, actually, they're free. Hm... now that I think about it, they're not even free: they come THROWING their money at you. 😂😂
@nishq_4926
@nishq_4926 3 года назад
Matt was never ready for marriage and he knew that all along
@mariedelaney7074
@mariedelaney7074 3 года назад
Just an excuse not to commit.
@jesuschrist6389
@jesuschrist6389 3 года назад
During the final rose ceremony he said he saw what a rushed proposal did to his family. If he was looking for marriage he wouldn’t have been on this show.
@shrutik9673
@shrutik9673 3 года назад
Ye he just wanted the clout
@paleriedove3333
@paleriedove3333 3 года назад
Probably happy it went the way it went so he had a easy way out!!! He ain't fooling me with his cute a**!!!🥰
@majikdivaa6199
@majikdivaa6199 3 года назад
HE SO LOST DOESNT KNOW WHAT TO DO ...
@cierralowery7096
@cierralowery7096 3 года назад
I don't even see love at any point in the season
@mnaoitb1
@mnaoitb1 3 года назад
so if you can "see" love, what exactly are you looking for LOL
@kaargilhills2140
@kaargilhills2140 3 года назад
@@mnaoitb1 Lust for money and fame is not LOVE
@mnaoitb1
@mnaoitb1 3 года назад
@@kaargilhills2140 if you are only JUST realizing that the whole franchise is fabricated then you clearly are a slow learner....
@thestrangemanreturns
@thestrangemanreturns 3 года назад
duh the show has never shown any real love. It's reality tv
@SeanFerree
@SeanFerree 3 года назад
Same!
@Katie-wn8fj
@Katie-wn8fj 3 года назад
I realized he wasn’t ready for marriage when he let Abigail go a sweet mature young woman.. and he told her “I got comfortable in our relationship that I explored others” I knew he wasn’t ready. When he said that. Lol
@kenchambers7137
@kenchambers7137 3 года назад
He said that ? Wow ....
@Katie-wn8fj
@Katie-wn8fj 3 года назад
@Ken Chambers yeppp sure did
@kenchambers7137
@kenchambers7137 3 года назад
Katherine N he’s seems to be a cold narcissistic guy emotionally unavailable
@shanice2504
@shanice2504 3 года назад
Ikr when i heard that statement i also started questioning what this guy is really up to
@vanda3393
@vanda3393 3 года назад
@@kenchambers7137 hé did say that
@Bluviolet7392
@Bluviolet7392 3 года назад
Matt wasn't ready, he and his mother need therapy. Just because her relationship didn't work out, she can't plant that seed in Matt. All those girls dodged a missile.
@tayelindsey5912
@tayelindsey5912 3 года назад
🙌 I wish he would let that go just because you didn't grow up with it doesn't mean you can't have it. He can't keep using that as an excuse for his relationships not working
@treyking1432
@treyking1432 3 года назад
Cancel Culture ruined this relationship not his mother
@johannathompson2056
@johannathompson2056 3 года назад
@@treyking1432 100% agree and I also find it weird that people pull things from years ago like people aren’t capable of growing and maturing. I posted a lot of dumb stuff in my late teens early 20s and I think most people can/should agree that you change a lot in five years when you’re in your late teens and early 20s
@phoenix-king779
@phoenix-king779 3 года назад
@@johannathompson2056 what did she post? I don’t watch this show but im curious
@nyamal1818
@nyamal1818 3 года назад
@@phoenix-king779 she went to a plantation party basically celebrating slavery/ racism at 21 years old, which should not be excused at all...
@KevinMoore5q
@KevinMoore5q 3 года назад
I think Matt was looking for reasons not to commit to any of the woman.
@cbhere
@cbhere 3 года назад
thats EXACTLY true.... he looks at love thru the lens of his Mom and dads failure... I dont think he will ever commit to Marriage... Rachel should move on as soon as she can with a new man
@nancyemery618
@nancyemery618 3 года назад
Totally agree. Then he puts it on his mom, like he hadn't already decided and known that he wasn't going to end up with anybody. If you have so many commitment issues as he does . why go on a process like this. He seemed a good guy until he wasn't. Total BS on his part.
@diggs1989
@diggs1989 3 года назад
Passive racism is a good reason not to marry someone.
@Klyon7o
@Klyon7o 3 года назад
@@diggs1989 exactly! I wouldn’t want to be with someone that was ignorant
@lasupremapersonal615
@lasupremapersonal615 3 года назад
I would racism is a good reason
@chronicstar
@chronicstar 3 года назад
Matt didn't have feelings for anyone.. seemed easy for him to walk away from every girl.
@rinallanto1859
@rinallanto1859 3 года назад
Yes
@theartofmai281
@theartofmai281 3 года назад
Agreed. I at least thought he’d struggle with letting Michelle go
@siphezizipho3158
@siphezizipho3158 3 года назад
He didn’t even show any emotion when some of the girls leave!
@elenafarah5650
@elenafarah5650 3 года назад
Agree
@atriangle3647
@atriangle3647 3 года назад
He is a robot
@TimeBucks
@TimeBucks 3 года назад
He never truly opened up to this.
@Mmeme2023
@Mmeme2023 3 года назад
Yes, it was always going to end on this couch regardless of who he chose.
@treyking1432
@treyking1432 3 года назад
He did open up to this, have you not seen the Racial Controversy surrounding who he chose??? Cancel Culture ruined this relationship. They were getting Death threats and Harrasing messages day in a day out by radical fans mad that he chose a Whte Woman.
@mikeporter4160
@mikeporter4160 3 года назад
@@treyking1432 It was very distressing to see two men picking on a woman.
@treyking1432
@treyking1432 3 года назад
@@mikeporter4160 I understand how you could of viewed it that way. But that's what happens when a dude let's Social Media dictate his life choices smh.
@dancemusikk
@dancemusikk 3 года назад
@@treyking1432 wait yall talking about the chick who took a picture on an antebellum plantation? Lmaooo
@marisaevans5205
@marisaevans5205 3 года назад
The lack of emotion with this man is concerning. It’s almost like he never actually had any kind of feelings for anyone but just went along with it for the show. He has deep rooted issues, and this shows why he’s still single
@kwanleishastevenson2222
@kwanleishastevenson2222 3 года назад
I think he had a lobotomy
@selenaherrera2028
@selenaherrera2028 3 года назад
He does seem to have narcissistic qualities, which probably stemmed from his traumatic childhood growing up.
@camillahare7855
@camillahare7855 3 года назад
You could see his eyes light up every time he was with Rachael on the show. I really think he loved her, but as he said himself, he realized he just didnt really know her. Which is understandable as you don't have enough time on the show to get to know someone 100%. But I too would loose feelings for someone who did that or hurt me in a similar way.
@Sunnysanndra
@Sunnysanndra 3 года назад
I don’t get why everyone is putting this in him, I mean it kinda is on him, but what did he expect. This would of happened with or without a show. She will never understand, u can see in her face she doesn’t get his pain, she only get said when she talks about them being a thing, they are young, this was puppy love, in the moment love
@jeannewomack7265
@jeannewomack7265 3 года назад
Absolutely.. I don't beLIEve a word of what's he's NOW saying.. This has to be political. Nothing else makes sense! He defended Rachael (and admitted he didn't even bother to ask her about the photo thinking it was a rumor LOL)....THEN after Chris Harrison explosion, all things changed and suddenly it became known to him "in real time." That's a lie. He knew about it beforehand. Prove me wrong. ;o) Word is also out from the inside that the producers got into his head which confirms his actions and common sense reasoning. ;) WHERE is Rachel Lindsay on calling him out?!!! =P
@chideraannugwu8570
@chideraannugwu8570 3 года назад
Matt was never ready for a commitment and marriage.
@ouiduran9812
@ouiduran9812 3 года назад
totally agreed :)
@treyking1432
@treyking1432 3 года назад
Yes he was, I'm pretty sure the racism controversy threw him off lol
@chrisdelagarza8048
@chrisdelagarza8048 3 года назад
Yeah and neither are you
@notjhoan
@notjhoan 3 года назад
@@treyking1432 you can clearly see he wasn't. Bro caved in to the mob. Had he been ready, he would've stayed with Rachel through thick and thin. Which he didn't.
@lmt6672
@lmt6672 3 года назад
@@treyking1432 i mean he's still friends with Hannah and she had her own recent N bomb slip and he clearly was ok with that
@pepper1188
@pepper1188 3 года назад
Lol. She doesn't care. He doesn't care. Season was a snooze.
@GandalftheWise
@GandalftheWise 3 года назад
Someone is jealous of Rachel because she is so pretty
@starrynight3363
@starrynight3363 3 года назад
Gandalf oh yeah...
@nnedi7789
@nnedi7789 3 года назад
“Rachel” is not the only pretty person in the world. *Pretty is in the eye of the beholder*
@undefeatable408
@undefeatable408 3 года назад
so was da previous seasons
@tasiarenee5392
@tasiarenee5392 3 года назад
@@GandalftheWise no way you’re talking ab the original comment. They mentioned both ppl
@bl02cs
@bl02cs 3 года назад
It’s clear Matt was looking for any excuse to dump Rachel, never proposed to her, didn’t stand by her to help through a difficult time. Guy was not ready to be the bachelor.
@bobbyekincade7133
@bobbyekincade7133 3 года назад
I agree he never loved anyone but himself. I wont be watching wi
@bobbyekincade7133
@bobbyekincade7133 3 года назад
I wont watch wi
@bobbyekincade7133
@bobbyekincade7133 3 года назад
Wit
@bobbyekincade7133
@bobbyekincade7133 3 года назад
Without chris no show.
@joyannahuang2669
@joyannahuang2669 3 года назад
EXACTLY! If he TRULY loved her and forgave her, then his actions would show it as well.
@tjackson4824
@tjackson4824 3 года назад
Omg😂😂bro doesn't even understand his blackness himself while he's coming at this chick.
@mr.samuels2404
@mr.samuels2404 3 года назад
Ikr
@willypedernales4213
@willypedernales4213 3 года назад
This Guy was never ready to get married to begin with...
@kadi5670
@kadi5670 3 года назад
Omg, Wow.
@rachaelnelson4976
@rachaelnelson4976 3 года назад
No he only worries about his blackness which in that case he should’ve fell for Michelle
@crh251
@crh251 3 года назад
Exactly. I saw it right away and decided to stop watching it. I'm now here on RU-vid to see how it ended. Yep....he never wanted marriage.
@ohitsmaiii
@ohitsmaiii 3 года назад
Him for sure and a lot of the young females that joined
@debbielente4766
@debbielente4766 3 года назад
Fame and fortune.
@dejahr8374
@dejahr8374 3 года назад
I thought Peters season was bad.....
@tracybarbara9955
@tracybarbara9955 3 года назад
Bad doesn't even begin to describe this season🤦
@shrey768
@shrey768 3 года назад
This season is pointless
@nanaamapaddy3407
@nanaamapaddy3407 3 года назад
Yea I don’t know who is casting these girls but this should be a lesson to do a background check
@naomiferreira8255
@naomiferreira8255 3 года назад
Yea, Patty was like a negative Nancy 😔
@nanaamapaddy3407
@nanaamapaddy3407 3 года назад
And by the way let’s not forget Clare’s season
@PixelStacker
@PixelStacker 3 года назад
I think we can all finally agree that the bachelor is no longer about love. Its about clout and IG followers. right
@jakewillson9387
@jakewillson9387 3 года назад
Watch love island UK the 2 newest season s
@JakeFromStatefarm00
@JakeFromStatefarm00 3 года назад
has been for a while now
@noprogressionisregression6854
@noprogressionisregression6854 3 года назад
Comment already made. Exact.. Same.. Comment.
@preciouspayne723
@preciouspayne723 3 года назад
What's a clout
@twooceansapart
@twooceansapart 3 года назад
110%
@autumnward3925
@autumnward3925 3 года назад
Sad to think she’s honestly never “felt a love like this” ..... like how? This dude is a robot
@jasonmomoa9661
@jasonmomoa9661 3 года назад
🤣
@daljitasa3905
@daljitasa3905 3 года назад
.he laughs like one too
@Sophia561
@Sophia561 3 года назад
She was clearly infatuated
@nancygreen3705
@nancygreen3705 3 года назад
Ridiculous. 😂😂😂😂
@slothhq1929
@slothhq1929 3 года назад
@R B Sweeting superficial people like superficial people
@ManiSha-ph6lz
@ManiSha-ph6lz 3 года назад
They promised each other so many things at the final rose. And look at them now 🤦‍♀️
@tigrezangel
@tigrezangel 3 года назад
But it's clear that he is who recanted.
@ManiSha-ph6lz
@ManiSha-ph6lz 3 года назад
He didnt have feelings for anyone. He just wanted to sleep with them. And that's sad
@leslie4551
@leslie4551 3 года назад
@@ManiSha-ph6lz I agree completely 100%. He’s a player. He wants to keep dating.
@spiwemuchemedzi7053
@spiwemuchemedzi7053 3 года назад
@@tigrezangel and rightly so
@gabrielaortiz8046
@gabrielaortiz8046 3 года назад
He needs to work on his issues or he will never commit to anyone
@bratzsnoopy
@bratzsnoopy 3 года назад
Matt needs therapy. Not a reality show.
@claudettemcleod6316
@claudettemcleod6316 3 года назад
I think he experienced a lots of racism in the past and he’s still angry from it.
@80sports20
@80sports20 3 года назад
Agree. He doesn't know how to communicate with women.
@Salutations26
@Salutations26 3 года назад
@@claudettemcleod6316 I think he grew up with his mom and compartmentalized racism but to align himself with Rachael would be a bridge too far. I don't think people understand how much emotional baggage it takes to teach someone to respect your humanity. At the end of the day he was not willing to do that and I can respect that.
@lizzy4827
@lizzy4827 3 года назад
@@Salutations26 and that's exactly why he needs therapy (?
@Salutations26
@Salutations26 3 года назад
@@lizzy4827 agree but they all need therapy. Heck we all do. If producers prodded you 24/7 your ish would come out too.
@solange798
@solange798 3 года назад
Matt needs to heal from his past because he’s projecting his hurt unto the women and it’s preventing him from moving on. That conversation with his dad sealed the deal in detecting the broken child in Matt. He can find the most amazing women, but until he’s healed it will never work in his favour
@jimdavis2385
@jimdavis2385 3 года назад
Personally, I don't give a damn about Matt, but I do think he needs to deal with his inner child so he doesn't continue to ruin the lives of the women he's around.
@flashadtheentertainer4702
@flashadtheentertainer4702 3 года назад
That's the same with me too.
@charleschichester8054
@charleschichester8054 3 года назад
What past. His Father's. Boys want to be men. Not this one.
@solange798
@solange798 3 года назад
@@charleschichester8054 growing up without a father can lead to feelings of abandonment, betrayal, and confusion. This can translate into the child’s adulthood in the form of being closed off, hesitant to be be vulnerable, not letting anybody in etc. This prevents Matt from advancing his romantic relations because relationships require intimacy in the form of vulnerability to create an emotional connections. Obviously he hasn’t healed bc this is all we’ve been seeing through the season, no vulnerability.
@gummyjellies9578
@gummyjellies9578 3 года назад
His mum must have preached all the time about men letting women down. These unrealistic expectations he puts on himself about marriage all triggered by fear of what his dad was and the constant disappointment his mum probably spouted about men. This dude is crumbling under unrealistic expectations. He looks like a triggered scared boy. well done mum 👍
@JM-xi1nn
@JM-xi1nn 3 года назад
Matt was never there to find love, he ran at the first sign of trouble, he just wanted to be on TV. Rachael dodged a bullet. He only loves himself.
@emiliaavagyan781
@emiliaavagyan781 3 года назад
Matt needs a therapist not a wife .
@gabrielfierro8729
@gabrielfierro8729 3 года назад
Both actually.
@tonybalony1811
@tonybalony1811 3 года назад
@@gabrielfierro8729 No therapy, then you don’t deserve a wife. Same vice versa.
@danpainter9314
@danpainter9314 3 года назад
Why bc you expect ppl to ACCEPT RACISM? Wow
@emmabbyreborns341
@emmabbyreborns341 3 года назад
Not to mention a spine, and a pair of balls.
@jesuschick7872
@jesuschick7872 3 года назад
Yeah he needs a therapists for sure!!!!
@dianacamacho7032
@dianacamacho7032 3 года назад
Matt seemed so monotone with every lady this whole season. No affection to any one of them. Definitely he’s no Colton jumping over fences.
@veldalyons5910
@veldalyons5910 3 года назад
Lol ... so true !!!
@danielleolivieri4838
@danielleolivieri4838 3 года назад
Eye open kiss?
@Tinyjoe19
@Tinyjoe19 3 года назад
Yes I think he wasn’t truly being himself and just doing what he thought the audience would like
@jorgepadilla9945
@jorgepadilla9945 3 года назад
No personality at all.
@butterfly2.065
@butterfly2.065 3 года назад
Agreed.
@allichiag9153
@allichiag9153 3 года назад
This sounds like a line of husband material " I don't want to be emotionally responsible for those tears" like the moment he didn't propose after saying repeatedly I believe my wife is in this room I knew he couldn't be serious.
@obitriceforlife5771
@obitriceforlife5771 3 года назад
Exactly
@doeudalin7404
@doeudalin7404 3 года назад
I don’t think he ever really cared about any of the women; the way he talks to all of them is so robotic
@sandyyyangg
@sandyyyangg 3 года назад
Matt didn’t seem to be so interested in anyone this season 😬
@journeytrials
@journeytrials 3 года назад
You actually cared?? Wow !!amazing!! So these are the people who waste time watching this crap??
@80sports20
@80sports20 3 года назад
I honestly think he was "interested" in and "attracted" to Rachel and Serena P. Those are the only 2 he told he loved. But I don't think he was ready for commitment. As soon as the controversy happened, he used that as an excuse to drop Rachel.
@lifeofneacy3891
@lifeofneacy3891 3 года назад
@@journeytrials Rachel and Michelle is way too damn beautiful for to waste their time and life for to deal with Matt James they deserve better 💯
@journeytrials
@journeytrials 3 года назад
@@80sports20 can you stop saying love! These people don’t even know what a relationship is past an organism. Cheap!!
@Justin_311
@Justin_311 3 года назад
@@journeytrials i reach organism on a daily basis
@ashleysleeth1106
@ashleysleeth1106 3 года назад
This guy has no personality
@chloebelle4923
@chloebelle4923 3 года назад
His cowardice was a gift to her. She can do SO much better than someone who drops her to appease to the angry mob of color obsessed lunatics.
@lovevideos1699
@lovevideos1699 2 года назад
Yeah, and a few months later...he got back with her and still dating today.
@adrianamuniz4282
@adrianamuniz4282 Год назад
I know they’re so cute together I can definitely see them getting married next year
@heyyohill
@heyyohill 3 года назад
Seems like Matt is looking for any reason not to commit. Ironic because he talks about fear of commitment in his dad and wanting not to be like that, but ends up being one of the most commitment phobic people I've ever seen
@tanvib.2462
@tanvib.2462 3 года назад
Matt loved his beard more than any girl on this show! 😂😂
@patricialeclair4701
@patricialeclair4701 3 года назад
Isn't a good look
@sherrie6007
@sherrie6007 3 года назад
Thinks he's incognito
@CarlosGonzalez-tr6um
@CarlosGonzalez-tr6um 3 года назад
if you can call it that...
@alisha5617
@alisha5617 3 года назад
Honesty what is the point of the bachelor/bachelorette. Literally no one stays together
@youtubeviral7203
@youtubeviral7203 3 года назад
Trista and Ryan. Arie and Lauren. A few still are together and have children.
@jayaitch88
@jayaitch88 3 года назад
Sean and Catherine! The BEST couple ever! And the last time we saw true, romantic love from the Bachelor franchise!
@amelialopez2046
@amelialopez2046 3 года назад
True but I have nothing better to do on Mondays so 🤣
@joycew.6531
@joycew.6531 3 года назад
It is like the Jerry Springer show ........some parts are real, the rest is acting, ratings, and a chance to get 15 minutes of fame
@lucbordage7291
@lucbordage7291 3 года назад
Sean Lowe is still the only bachelor with his pick from the show. Very low success rate.
@itsjustviv1244
@itsjustviv1244 3 года назад
Why does he seem like the type to tell a girl "You are so perfect the way you are" and then tell her a little later to get some botox 🤣
@Ironclad6661
@Ironclad6661 3 года назад
Matt, "I don't want to make the same mistakes my Dad made," then goes about making the SAME mistakes his Dad made. Lol.
@exnihilonihilfit6316
@exnihilonihilfit6316 3 года назад
That's unjust. His father didn't run away from the commitment. He ran away *after* that. Matt didn't commit (even in the face of all the pressure to do it). Do you really not see the difference? He didn't ruin anyone's life. He was actually totally successful in his commitment to not repeat what happened with his father,
@kayligo
@kayligo 3 года назад
Exactly!
@Hercules751
@Hercules751 3 года назад
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 yeah cause he didn't have the balls to actually commit, he makes a good F boy and it sure looks looks like he loves playing around.
@Sasa-wv7gd
@Sasa-wv7gd 3 года назад
They could’ve picked one of the guys from Tayshia’s season. The boy wasn’t ready from on set... I must admit though , I’m not surprised
@1dismylife98
@1dismylife98 3 года назад
But imagine if they had Riley or even mike Johnson... just cuz of the fact that he was never in the show really shows..
@jill3985
@jill3985 3 года назад
They should picked Ivan.
@paulojrneto
@paulojrneto 3 года назад
The production for this season was already beginning while Tayshia's season was wrapping so that couldn't be possible. But Mike Johnson was right there.
@katherinehill2359
@katherinehill2359 3 года назад
@@paulojrneto mike turned them down
@LifeCookie
@LifeCookie 3 года назад
He's not a "boy" he's a man, If he didn't want them don't be butt hurt about it
@mstluangi3708
@mstluangi3708 3 года назад
Matt is not ready for anything to begin with.. dont know why he was the bachelor...
@yolandaramirez4649
@yolandaramirez4649 3 года назад
I totally agree!!!
@tasbar7743
@tasbar7743 3 года назад
Yep
@mollywillis9430
@mollywillis9430 3 года назад
100% agree
@yolandaramirez4649
@yolandaramirez4649 3 года назад
He needs to stay single with his confused self!!
@bkopgamer
@bkopgamer 3 года назад
Mike Johnson should have been the bachelor instead.
@cwp4eva
@cwp4eva 11 месяцев назад
And two years later they’re in a committed relationship
@crisc1454
@crisc1454 3 года назад
IMO Matt wanted to become as famous as his boyfriend Tyler, so they can both go out dating famous models and such.. Smh
@biancamichelle11
@biancamichelle11 3 года назад
Matt is not making much sense here, he is so shut down emotionally. Finally realized he was shut down the entire season too. Numbing out is a trauma response and he likely has gone this far in life not realizing he needs to work on these issues. (Trauma from childhood) I hope he gets professional help. 🙏🏼 He needs to work on himself, big time.
@maddielopez8625
@maddielopez8625 3 года назад
Both of them have work to do.
@80sports20
@80sports20 3 года назад
Agree! Even his unkempt beard, and just how he struggled to communicate what he's feeling. Even the host was encouraging him to actually talk to Rachel, but he sat there like a robot pouting the whole time. It was really uncomfortable to watch. It's amazing remembering my impression of Matt on the first episode and what he looks like now. It's like 2 completely different people. I think he does need therapy.
@Salutations26
@Salutations26 3 года назад
@@80sports20 I think he was very clear. Racism is a dealbreaker for him. He doesn't want to spend the entirety of the relationship in teaching mode when it comes to race. The problem is that I agree with you about not being ready but the Rachael situation muddied the waters. He does need counseling but heck... we all do.
@donnalynn3933
@donnalynn3933 3 года назад
He has a hard time making a commitment, his issues control the entire show, it was very unfair to these ladies especially after spending the night with them in the suites, these ladies were very hurt😔
@Salutations26
@Salutations26 3 года назад
@@donnalynn3933 this literally happens every season. Stop trying to make Matt the worst when we have Juan Pablo.
@jenpw1525
@jenpw1525 3 года назад
He never truly opened up to this. And his mom out the fear of god into him about commitments. I see a damaged child when I look at matt
@jasonbourne5142
@jasonbourne5142 3 года назад
He's being a wuss, he clearly doesn't know what love is.
@deegir3354
@deegir3354 3 года назад
so easily steered emotionally by his mother. wow. that speaks volumes
@kw9568
@kw9568 3 года назад
His mom ruined it. Michelle was a much better choice for him!!!
@madmax6905
@madmax6905 3 года назад
I see a useless piece of 💩
@daniellap8939
@daniellap8939 3 года назад
I see a guy looking for clout
@suzzyy8669
@suzzyy8669 2 года назад
Who’s here in 2022? They seem to be very much in love!
@prissylittlemissy_
@prissylittlemissy_ 3 года назад
This is what happens when your mom turns to you and say, “Love is not enough.”
@luckyrentals
@luckyrentals 3 года назад
His Mom is a negative force against love. She didnt get love so her son cant have it.
@barna_de
@barna_de 3 года назад
Love IS not enough.
@prissylittlemissy_
@prissylittlemissy_ 3 года назад
@@barna_de maybe it’s not, but maybe she shouldn’t have said that at the time she did🤷🏽‍♀️
@marsrivera8439
@marsrivera8439 3 года назад
who says that???? As a mother she should of said love can overcome anything as long as you two do it together.
@marsrivera8439
@marsrivera8439 3 года назад
@@luckyrentals cruella!
@ka-powUSA
@ka-powUSA 3 года назад
He picked her after going through about 30 women. He dumped her because he couldn't handle the social media heat. This is the equivalent of a teenager dumping a young woman because his high school buddies think she's not hot enough. Great way to show you know to treat and protect a woman, buddy. He's a baby man.
@interplanetaryspecies9488
@interplanetaryspecies9488 3 года назад
I couldn't agree more👏👏👏👏
@anneislande4705
@anneislande4705 3 года назад
Yes, not a gentlemanly move at all. It just seems as if he threw her to the wolves. Anyone noticed that Rachel has barely had a chance to say a word in her defense since this all started? She was just left to bare it all without much chance to speak. Everyone has been able to say whatever they wished about her, without her having much chance to speak for herself. How is this right or fair?
@exnihilonihilfit6316
@exnihilonihilfit6316 3 года назад
Yes, Matt's a coward and an appeaser. He didn't care much about Rachel. He decided to appease the "cancel" crowd and the current social forces and tearfully play the "I'm so hurt and a victim" role. LOL He doesn't give much of a damn about her party photo. He just cowered and decided to dump her, so he can still be loved by the (actual) racists currently in power.
@interplanetaryspecies9488
@interplanetaryspecies9488 3 года назад
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 Yeah.... it's pathetic!!!
@ashleywyatt7114
@ashleywyatt7114 3 года назад
Thank you!
@theartofmai281
@theartofmai281 3 года назад
We had dates edited out, unnecessary drama, racism, and no proposal... only silver lining is our two glorious bachelorettes ✨
@lemonadeskater
@lemonadeskater 3 года назад
Who?
@lanae1146
@lanae1146 3 года назад
@@lemonadeskater Michelle and Katie
@agape101969
@agape101969 3 года назад
@ M Michelle was a good match for him!! In my opinion!
@journeytrials
@journeytrials 3 года назад
@@agape101969 none of them are real!! They all empty and dead on the inside! That’s not love! My Lord please seek out real people!! This show is like shinning corps
@Ebi.Adonkie
@Ebi.Adonkie 3 года назад
Racism where?
@emma_jeannn
@emma_jeannn 3 года назад
i honestly don’t think rachaels past is a good enough excuse for matt to not want her anymore. bc like the host said, the woman he “fell in love with” is with him. not the girl from years back. him saying she needs to work on herself, which she obviously has been. but also she chose to be on the show knowing he was gonna be bachelor. i think he just wants an excuse to not get married bc he obviously isn’t ready for commitment. so he used her past as a reason to let go. guys make excuses a lot. also he has 0 emotion towards any of these girls. the last 5 were all wife material
@suegibson3393
@suegibson3393 3 года назад
The backlash Rachael received is not remotely proportional to what she actually did.
@anneislande4705
@anneislande4705 3 года назад
Yes!!!!
@exnihilonihilfit6316
@exnihilonihilfit6316 3 года назад
Yeah, but it's useful to instill guilt and shame in your victim for the purpose of a later shakedown ("equity"). lol
@suegibson3393
@suegibson3393 3 года назад
@@exnihilonihilfit6316 Lol. Damn...if that ain't true!
@atriangle3647
@atriangle3647 3 года назад
Matt came on the Bachelor for clout, not a wife. He and Tyler are clout fame loving chasers
@Dreamllama17
@Dreamllama17 3 года назад
Honestly I sorta agree. The conversation is important. What Rachel did wasn’t right. But the dude had no chemistry with anyone, and Tyler Cameron to me used to be the most gorgeous man in the world and now he sells shirts with his picture on it. It’s weird
@tasbar7743
@tasbar7743 3 года назад
A Triangle yep i agree
@jarenobia852
@jarenobia852 3 года назад
You act like he cares about what any of y’all say, I would go in the bachelor and dump every chick for clout too😂😂, gimme my money
@joshschang4993
@joshschang4993 3 года назад
Most of the seasons end in this so nothing new really...
@jarenobia852
@jarenobia852 3 года назад
@@joshschang4993 Fr like this happens all the time irl too, people are acting so surprised for some reason, like they think Matt cares about what they say about him
@jarretw7324
@jarretw7324 3 года назад
This is the fakest thing I’ve ever seen. They’re both completely full of crap.
@deegir3354
@deegir3354 3 года назад
@@saywhatyouwantidontcare I don't think this is about "leftism" and have no idea if Matt is "leftist". I think it has more to do with a lack of perspective and a lack of true love.
@khumomogami3020
@khumomogami3020 3 года назад
@@k.c.6446 you said that before and you are wrong. There are tears there, or are they not enough for you?
@Takobella
@Takobella 3 года назад
@@saywhatyouwantidontcare lol ok you partisan hack. This has nothing to do with politics
@abeltesfaye_
@abeltesfaye_ 3 года назад
@@saywhatyouwantidontcare you are soooo ignorant
@abeltesfaye_
@abeltesfaye_ 3 года назад
@@Takobella Thank goodness you actually get it!
@rachelzaferatoscurtin5250
@rachelzaferatoscurtin5250 3 года назад
She is so genuinely sorry and he is so cold and unforgiving. I'm glad God doesn't give up on us that quickly for our ignorant mistakes when we confess our sins. This man knows nothing about love or committment.
@raiden031
@raiden031 3 года назад
Genuinely sorry for angering a bunch of strangers. She didn't do anything wrong. She owes no one an apology.
@Nyabennah
@Nyabennah 3 года назад
I agree with this comment. Marriage is not for the weak.
@Libbyyyyyyyyyyyy599
@Libbyyyyyyyyyyyy599 3 года назад
He has the right to take racism seriously and not want to be with someone who could never understand where he comes from. Sorry you have a thick skull and can’t understand that
@gottas33
@gottas33 3 года назад
🥴
@mireyacarroll4301
@mireyacarroll4301 9 месяцев назад
Lmao they were both clearly acting here. 😂
@plcumming
@plcumming 3 года назад
Why are people acting like 2-3 years are a generation? It’s not like these photos were taken when she was 12...
@kai8865
@kai8865 3 года назад
Same thing I’m thinking because I was shocked when they said 2018
@amalhussein8426
@amalhussein8426 3 года назад
That literally how I felt
@berly9397
@berly9397 3 года назад
what's the big deal? she dressed in traditional customs. I am sure you do the same, and if you are German no one tells you not to wear pre WW2 cloths.
@plcumming
@plcumming 3 года назад
@@berly9397 they might if it included a swastika. Just saying
@interesante80
@interesante80 3 года назад
@@berly9397 Exactly, Oktober fest anyone!
@roadsterrevolution
@roadsterrevolution 3 года назад
He needs to "put in the work" for himself...
@luckyrentals
@luckyrentals 3 года назад
He was projecting when he made that unkind remark and threw his exfiance under the bus. He's kinda mean.
@1grneyedgoddess
@1grneyedgoddess 3 года назад
Yasssss
@Sy340
@Sy340 Год назад
I actually really love how this story ended and how they handled the conversation. He didn't want her to be canceled and wanted to be with her, but she needed to unlearn and relearn some things. They held a dialectical conversation with compassion. He held her accountable, she took accountability and did the work to better herself. Now both of them are together again. That's growth and that's progress
@0rcd0c
@0rcd0c Год назад
"She needs to unlearn and relearn some things" couldn't sound more condescending than that. Let's be clear: he is upset because of a dress she was wearing years before meeting him and not because of something she did or say to him. Something he could have easily checked for himself before the media came with the smearing campaign - but he didn't. And instead of taking responsibility for his (lack of) actions or to look past that insignificant sh*tstorm he decides to go full ahead blaming her. That tells you more than enough about what kind of a person he is.
@saramaria-
@saramaria- 3 года назад
I hope Matt finds the therapy he needs. His father left scars that have nothing to do with Rachel or any of this drama.
@mamnoomrsyawar
@mamnoomrsyawar 3 года назад
His mom too.... like get over it already. She just dragging her boys thru her own mess too.... they all need therapy
@kadi5670
@kadi5670 3 года назад
He kissed and kissed and touched and touched. But the emotional Part of Him failed for some reason. That is scary, heart and spirit breaking.
@vanda3393
@vanda3393 3 года назад
Exactly hé need help
@aminahbercot6392
@aminahbercot6392 3 года назад
The show needs to stop getting influencers for the show. People are there for followers and exposure. As for Matt, I don’t know who convinced him to do the show. This guy is not ready for marriage.
@ihpokemonopenings
@ihpokemonopenings 3 года назад
If he didn't want to be like his dad he should have chosen Michelle.
@willa1699
@willa1699 3 года назад
Not enough likes on this!!!
@kingstrong5351
@kingstrong5351 3 года назад
Why? Because she's the Blk Woman??? Lol
@ihpokemonopenings
@ihpokemonopenings 3 года назад
@@kingstrong5351 Pretty Much
@kingstrong5351
@kingstrong5351 3 года назад
@@ihpokemonopenings This just proves that alot of Blk Women are just mad at him for choosing a Whte Woman lol
@ihpokemonopenings
@ihpokemonopenings 3 года назад
@@kingstrong5351 lol
@brobro34343
@brobro34343 3 года назад
This is the fakest thing I've seen all day. No normal person would take that photo seriously
@exnihilonihilfit6316
@exnihilonihilfit6316 3 года назад
Matt's a coward and an appeaser. He didn't care about Rachel. He decided to appease the "cancel" crowd and the current social forces and tearfully play the "I'm so hurt and a victim" role. LOL He doesn't give a damn about her party photo. He just cowered and decided to dump her, so he can still be loved by the (actual) racists currently in power.
@estherbutera1610
@estherbutera1610 3 года назад
Yes she was wrong n she took full ownership, but he could have confronted her but still teach and educate her on how to be better person n stuff not canceling her completely like dang. Love conquers everything. He don’t love her period.
@khumomogami3020
@khumomogami3020 3 года назад
He doesn't.
@estherbutera1610
@estherbutera1610 3 года назад
@@khumomogami3020 I need to fix my spelling but thnkx🤣
@spiwemuchemedzi7053
@spiwemuchemedzi7053 3 года назад
I guess he didn't love her then
@misiedjanarmanda829
@misiedjanarmanda829 3 года назад
Period ughh
@bandaqueenlove9134
@bandaqueenlove9134 3 года назад
True but it shouldn’t always be the job of POC to educate. She definitely does need to go on this journey of unlearning and relearning by herself. Matt still loves her and he said it himself that his feelings didn’t fade over night
@itztrinidad2705
@itztrinidad2705 3 года назад
Worst bachelor season EVER
@sadiegregory7659
@sadiegregory7659 3 года назад
Well there was Jaun Pablo
@Ink.-
@Ink.- 3 года назад
@@sadiegregory7659 That was at least entertaining even though he was a pig.
@majikdivaa6199
@majikdivaa6199 3 года назад
AM WITH YOU THERE ...HE THINKS HES ALL THAT....
@annejackielee
@annejackielee 3 года назад
I don't knowwww Peter's was pretty garbage too lol
@strawberryseason
@strawberryseason 3 года назад
I loved the filming location. Nice change from Southern California
@glendacobb2753
@glendacobb2753 3 года назад
"That's something you got to do on your own". That statement is very telling about how supportive he would be in a relationship. He doesn't deal with tough situations well.
@interplanetaryspecies9488
@interplanetaryspecies9488 3 года назад
Sooooooo true!!!!
@melaniedawn4256
@melaniedawn4256 3 года назад
Wow, girl dodged a bullet! He needs some serious help...
@peterm6927
@peterm6927 3 года назад
Right.... I’m so glad he didn’t pick Michelle... for her sake 💕
@Klyon7o
@Klyon7o 3 года назад
I don't understand why he needs the help when she clearly was in the wrong. Passive Racism is not okay.
@Libbyyyyyyyyyyyy599
@Libbyyyyyyyyyyyy599 3 года назад
As if racism isn’t a huge bullet to dodge on his behalf
@caleblowe1645
@caleblowe1645 3 года назад
@@Libbyyyyyyyyyyyy599 Exactly. This comment section is jumping on him when she is the one in the wrong.
@EricSmith-jo1lt
@EricSmith-jo1lt 3 года назад
Help with what exactly??? First you make a statement, then you fail to explain!!!
@1313sp
@1313sp 3 года назад
Rachel made a big mistake and was racially ignorant, that is all true. I see her trying to learn and grow though. If he really did love her he would have stuck out by her side encouraging her and calling her out when it's needed. Saying that he doesn't want to be responsible for her emotions is taking the easy way out. Listen buddy, women carry you dudes' emotional baggage all the time. He is a lot like his dad. A difficult moment and he's out. Next.
@CA2SD
@CA2SD 3 года назад
Preach!👏🏼
@judyvalentne1565
@judyvalentne1565 3 года назад
Matt is a wounded guy who has not gotten over the hurt of his parents split. If it wasn’t Rachael it was going to be someone else he would break up with. He is not ready to be anyone’s husband. His reasons for the break up tonight does not match the feeling Of someone who knows how to love . Rachael has started to redeem herself but Matt I think never gave her a chance and I am disappointed in his explanations. Until he deals with his issue brought on by his parents split this will be his patter. Bail and the first signs of distress
@tristarsayumwe7749
@tristarsayumwe7749 3 года назад
Fax
@niara961
@niara961 3 года назад
Love isn't always enough
@tristarsayumwe7749
@tristarsayumwe7749 3 года назад
@@niara961 yea that tru but in this situation it shouldve been. Matt just want to save his skin and didnt want to get cancelled to he didnt love her
@lmcbride7758
@lmcbride7758 3 года назад
If Matt really loved Rachael he would want to be part of her learning and he would be more forgiving, yes she was wrong. She owned it and is working on getting educated and being a better person. Matt wasn’t ready for a true commitment.
@elizehauptfleisch8233
@elizehauptfleisch8233 3 года назад
Thank you for telling the truth. Everybody is trying to analyze this and that but it is a simple as what you are saying
@justanaccident9608
@justanaccident9608 3 года назад
Exactly
@hajrahx7389
@hajrahx7389 3 года назад
Trueee. He comes across as being very manipulative and emotionless. How can you go from loving someone and seeing them as your wife to wanting nothing to do with them? What she did was wrong but if he loved her or had feelings even he’d stay with her and they’d get through it together
@justanaccident9608
@justanaccident9608 3 года назад
@@hajrahx7389 he just pulled an act all along.
@kristinalarue3866
@kristinalarue3866 3 года назад
So true!
@LeonidsStrapOn
@LeonidsStrapOn 3 года назад
"I didn't sign up to have this conversation" ...uh, yeah, you actually did when you applied for the show.
@shannonwilliams773
@shannonwilliams773 3 года назад
I think he meant a racial conversation
@bryanfrom56thst55
@bryanfrom56thst55 3 года назад
Yeah he was talking about the fact that no other bachelors have to talk about this. Also that he as a person of color comes into this world having to have these conversations that they wish they didn’t have to talk about but do because it’s a part of their lives
@angiealexis3717
@angiealexis3717 3 года назад
He would find any excuse not to be involved seriously with any woman! He is so full of it!
@sadiegregory7659
@sadiegregory7659 3 года назад
It’s okay everyone this is garbage BUT we had Tayshia’s ending. Let’s just carry it with us lol
@Kiki-uh5sj
@Kiki-uh5sj 3 года назад
Hahaha 🤣
@sabrina8436
@sabrina8436 3 года назад
@@duchessngy8454 not true. Plus, she already addressed this in her ig stories. People love to build them up to afterwards tear them down.
@nylal493
@nylal493 3 года назад
@@duchessngy8454 Tayshia went on live yesterday & said the rumors aren’t true. Her and Zac are fine
@thankunext1625
@thankunext1625 3 года назад
RIGHT! zach and tayshia were a fairytale. It's only right they would follow THAT up with this lol
@amelialopez2046
@amelialopez2046 3 года назад
@@duchessngy8454 not sure why she did that on Instagram, but Tayshia clarified that they’re good and he ring is finally being sized and Zac posted how proud he is of Tayshia for hosting so it seems everything is good again. Though I did hear he was upset that she took the position Bc he can’t see her Bc of the whole quarantine thing but that’s just a rumor
@jelenatj1825
@jelenatj1825 3 года назад
He has move chemistry with Tyler than any girls from this season. He never really had any real feelings for any of the girls. Its not a bad thing its just the truth.
@1962Melody
@1962Melody 3 года назад
I said the same thing on another video! Lol
@jesuschick7872
@jesuschick7872 3 года назад
@Fern Green that actually is a possibility
@coachevy2851
@coachevy2851 3 года назад
The shows producers knew about that picture but they had her on for the shock value..you can't convince me that she wasn't on that show for the shock value.
@yzma6142
@yzma6142 3 года назад
It’s clear Rachel didn’t initially think there was anything wrong with those pictures....
@melanatedqueen
@melanatedqueen 3 года назад
Thank you and this is what is irking me abt her. The fact he had to even years later tell her what is wrong with tht is the problem. There is no way he shld be staying with someone like tht. And the onus is not on him to teach her abt inappropriate behaviour
@zarablue2020
@zarablue2020 3 года назад
Glad you’re psychic and totally know what she thinks..
@yzma6142
@yzma6142 3 года назад
@@zarablue2020 um Matt said it himself... he had to explain it to her THIS YEAR.
@TheFourthLetterBeats
@TheFourthLetterBeats 3 года назад
He gives her homework to do, and still won't want her after that.
@laramack7440
@laramack7440 3 года назад
@@deegir3354 he's all like you need to put the work in... No just accept her sincere apology and move on. Grudges and the victim card won't get you anywhere.
@zdelany6963
@zdelany6963 3 года назад
ii know right ....imgine someone wanting someone to be better and do better....how selfish of him
@Bo_Knows_Tecmo
@Bo_Knows_Tecmo 3 года назад
That is so arrogant in my opinion on him. People make mistakes and he is making it seem like he is perfect.
@arleneheaton6828
@arleneheaton6828 3 года назад
i know im so confused coz what work is that? antiracism101 lol
@marinae1495
@marinae1495 3 года назад
He never truly loved her. Love is forgiving and working together....not worrying about "being with her and then getting cancelled" He is too worried about his career....he wont get any sponsors if he stays with her.
@lexusbillman1670
@lexusbillman1670 3 года назад
The funny thing is, even if this whole “scandal” with Rachel didn’t happen, he still would’ve looked for an excuse to end it. He cannot commit to any woman right now. He’s not ready! He says he wants someone to stand by his side through everything, yet he can’t stand with her through this. For someone that says that he loves her and he knows her heart.. I can’t help but laugh because if you did you would know deep down in her heart that is not who she is. But he gave up anyway.
@daniellap8939
@daniellap8939 3 года назад
Yep! He could easily do the work with her but is choosing not to cuz he is non committal and there for clout.
@anandaadidevi2339
@anandaadidevi2339 3 года назад
She'll look back some day and realize she dodged a bullet. He was so quick to call it quits. He could've gone to see her in person and spent time with her talking this out. He made it all about him and was so patronizing, as tho' he doesn't have any work to do on himself to grow up and learn how to work things out.
@lexusbillman1670
@lexusbillman1670 3 года назад
@@anandaadidevi2339 absolutely. He waited to talk about it on nation television instead of to her privately. She definitely will find someone who deserves her.
@skylerchase7759
@skylerchase7759 3 года назад
THANK YOU... WELL SAID!!! He knows the true inner Rachel, and none of those terrible rumors about her were true. It's like "Matt,.. hello...go back & re-watch your season as it aired!!! Rachel did not talk mean about anyone in the house &/or in those side interviews even!! She was the nicest woman in that house/hotel!!"""" I feel so very sad for her...breaks my heart!! 💔
@lexusbillman1670
@lexusbillman1670 3 года назад
@@skylerchase7759 she was my absolute favorite from the very very beginning. But looking back she did dodge a bullet.
@b_argles
@b_argles 3 года назад
If you drink every time Matt says "Put the work in" - you'll be as drunk as the producers were when they thought bringing in Emmanuel Acho was a good idea...
@sibulelenqwelo8324
@sibulelenqwelo8324 2 года назад
Lol 😆
@Brandobear1439
@Brandobear1439 3 года назад
He couldnt even give her a hug....at that point he showed hes using her and throwing her under the bus to make up for and covering up all of his issues. Put all 30 of those woman through this just for him not to be ready
@fatinabangura4735
@fatinabangura4735 3 года назад
This was a waste of a season, he needs to grow up.
@CharisMaggieTV
@CharisMaggieTV 3 года назад
Honestly. This part seemed clout chasing to me cuz he knew all along that she didn’t understand his blackness and even he didn’t seem to wanna acknowledge it but now he wanna come with “you didn’t understand my blackness” Boy bye
@brandoncorbin1643
@brandoncorbin1643 3 года назад
@@CharisMaggieTV yep, he saw this as an opportunity to use this as a scapegoat, so he doesn’t have to man up and admit he actually wasn’t committed or ready.
@infotech6075
@infotech6075 3 года назад
@@CharisMaggieTV Girl bye, Blk Women like you just mad he chose a Whte Woman, the cats outta the bag.
@monotonya4506
@monotonya4506 3 года назад
@@infotech6075 Well he didn’t choose her did he? Lol
@elibethsantana3843
@elibethsantana3843 3 года назад
I agree with you
@justmemadison
@justmemadison 3 года назад
I think his mother has really done a number on him. He thinks he is damaged goods. He has never been married or in a serious relationship so where did he get that idea from...his mother. She put on him all the hurt and disappointment she felt from his father and he's been carrying it around all his life. It's a heavy load to carry and not his burden to bear.
@ailujd
@ailujd 3 года назад
Well you certainly took the words from my mind. As I mentioned in another reply, he needs to remove himself from her grip. I feel for him and wish him well.
@anandaadidevi2339
@anandaadidevi2339 3 года назад
Exactly.
@Jmoney133
@Jmoney133 3 года назад
Agreed. She seemed very bitter to me and projected that on him.
@user-kv6pb4xc4h
@user-kv6pb4xc4h 3 года назад
😭😭
@pookiroo
@pookiroo 3 года назад
👏👏👏👏👏 Yeah. I also didn't agree entirely with his mother when she said that feelings fade. Maybe it did in her relationship with his father, but it's not always like that. Sometimes it ripens like a fine wine.
@samanthaharper7472
@samanthaharper7472 3 года назад
“I didn’t sign up to have this conversation” ... but you did
@LeønardoHimself24
@LeønardoHimself24 3 года назад
Facts
@Honeycoupe
@Honeycoupe 3 года назад
Rachael could have easily wiped the images she posted before the season filmed... Also, for everyone saying “he was not ready for marriage”. He didn’t even get married and just continued a relationship.
@shashamarie4760
@shashamarie4760 3 года назад
Totally ditched her. That's not love. He didn't want to be associated with her and the bad press. Hurt his image too much to stick around. Weak.
@Greeneggsnblam
@Greeneggsnblam 3 года назад
💯 👏
@dinariyanti6181
@dinariyanti6181 3 года назад
💯💯💯💯
@nscholar8851
@nscholar8851 3 года назад
On point!💯
@colerichardson5535
@colerichardson5535 3 года назад
Seriously? If I were in his shoes, I would feel the same way. That changes how you see a person. Someone capable of that is capable of a lot more.
@julyxoxo3838
@julyxoxo3838 3 года назад
@@colerichardson5535 She made a mistake. If he loved her he would forgive the mistakes of the past and be with her. But he really did not so he dipped when the going got tough
@jacquelynnjones1372
@jacquelynnjones1372 3 года назад
my blackness? what an odd thing to say.
@skye8751
@skye8751 3 года назад
Okay I get it she’s was ignorant of the picture she posted, but the fact how Matt promised her family and Rachael that he’d stay by her side no matter what. And how he’d see her as the mother of his kids and as a wife, then can’t even look at her!? I’m sorry but all that awkward silence from Matt seems to me like he’s putting on a show. Let’s be real here, he wasn’t ready for marriage. All he kept saying was “thank you for your response” when the girl poured her heart out. All these bachelors ask for honesty and when they get it they don’t care, they just shut them up by kissing them. Like fr?! Bri, Michelle, Racheal all deserve so much better.
@tgml2141
@tgml2141 3 года назад
EXCUSES!!! He had no intention to get married.
@kimgrant8445
@kimgrant8445 3 года назад
This show isn't even enjoyable anymore. Not like it began. Where's the love and fun??
@samm3890
@samm3890 3 года назад
Yeah it’s over politicised now ugh
@ev446
@ev446 3 года назад
They went from getting married to never seeing each other again. Glad they dodged that bullet geesh.
@krystalneal6427
@krystalneal6427 3 года назад
He honestly thought she would understand his blackness 😭😭😭 yeah okay.
@greciaescamilla7148
@greciaescamilla7148 3 года назад
I don’t find Rachel or Matt genuine. The ending didn’t feel honest. I feel like Rachel knows how the bachelor works
@rogue_ingenuity
@rogue_ingenuity 3 года назад
What do you mean? Like she anticipated Matt was only on the show to propagate his social media career?
@Ink.-
@Ink.- 3 года назад
I didn't believe any of it either.
@daniellap8939
@daniellap8939 3 года назад
@@rogue_ingenuity hahaha this!
@yolandalewis6684
@yolandalewis6684 3 года назад
I think they are still secretly seeing each other. Just waiting for things to cool down. Watch!!
@journeytrials
@journeytrials 3 года назад
You think this show so real?? You think these superficial people are real?? Wow ok!! Nice!!
@Piscoandmartinis
@Piscoandmartinis 3 года назад
I like this host, he's asking the great, hard questions Chris never asked...
@lammmf
@lammmf 3 года назад
Totally agree! Chris always only ask superficial questions
@pepper1188
@pepper1188 3 года назад
@@lammmf that's because it used to be a light-hearted superficial show where almost nobody ended up staying together because you can't marry somebody in the span of a couple months...now it's manufactured drama.
@elena.366
@elena.366 3 года назад
yes! love him already
@majikdivaa6199
@majikdivaa6199 3 года назад
THIS HOST TOO BIG AND BULKY....I THOUGHT HE WAS DOCTOR LOVE OR DOCTOR PHIL ...HAH HAH
@blakecoston2225
@blakecoston2225 3 года назад
@@pepper1188 some of them stay together and had kids but show is corny. and it would be hard to fall in love. that fast.
@hilaryvancleve1149
@hilaryvancleve1149 3 года назад
Relationships and love arent about being perfect.. they're about helping one another become the best versions of themselves. He's telling her she needs to do work as if he has no work to do on himself learning some forgiving and healing
@fabainful
@fabainful 5 месяцев назад
I am glad there are still together
@maureenatieno007
@maureenatieno007 3 года назад
The women are better off without him. Seems like the kinda guy who should never get married to anyone. Such a snob.
@zeynand4039
@zeynand4039 3 года назад
the presenter is the best guy to host this conversation. maybe this girl and matt will get together eventually...
@tigrezangel
@tigrezangel 3 года назад
The best thing for Rachel is to focus on healing her heart and letting all this mess behind. Matt could not stand with her, proclaiming that she has to do the work on her own. I hope she can find a man that is willing to stand with her be a leader and a true partner, in good and bad. Matt chose the easy way out by breaking up with her than to be there and fight with her. At the end He was what I expected he would be.
@juliannatrure
@juliannatrure 3 года назад
AMEN to this comment, this just shows matts true feelings about her and his views on marriage as well
@khumomogami3020
@khumomogami3020 3 года назад
What makes me cry is when she said she doesn't think there is anyone out there for her. I pray she doesn't close the door to love because she deserves love and love in abundance
@Ryan-ym9bc
@Ryan-ym9bc 3 года назад
Couldn’t have said it better myself! When you find a potential wife, you stick with her through the fire. What he did makes him a poor excuse of a man.
@kristinalarue3866
@kristinalarue3866 3 года назад
Exactly
@Crea05
@Crea05 3 года назад
So true, I find him emotionally immature, he also needs to work on himself because no woman will be emotionally satisfied being with him.
@averymorgan3721
@averymorgan3721 3 года назад
The problem I have is the fact that Rachel clearly isn’t the same person she was. She signed up on this season for a reason. Matt’s justification for why they can’t be together just bothers meee
@trevin1770
@trevin1770 3 года назад
Bothers me too. Give her a chance to grow out of her ignorance.
@marithao7530
@marithao7530 3 года назад
FYI.... funny cause his best friend Hanna attended a same kind of party as well!
@vanda3393
@vanda3393 3 года назад
And shé use the n word
@Made4more1432
@Made4more1432 3 года назад
This scandal gave him the out he needed
@JessBaeLee
@JessBaeLee 3 года назад
💯👏🏾
@merrygabeni3219
@merrygabeni3219 3 года назад
True
@RavensFlock9592
@RavensFlock9592 3 года назад
What scandal? Her being in a photo with a dress on from 1800's? LMAO!!! No. Matt is a beta male and this whole debuckle proves that.
@DaniEl-lv7hi
@DaniEl-lv7hi 3 года назад
100% agree
@Libbyyyyyyyyyyyy599
@Libbyyyyyyyyyyyy599 3 года назад
@@RavensFlock9592 the pic was from 2018 on a plantation love. Racism in America runs rampant
@sueshe5953
@sueshe5953 3 года назад
Matt stay single.
@dylan_clt06
@dylan_clt06 3 года назад
he’s just like his dad
@sal768
@sal768 3 года назад
That was his plan. Bachelor nation is just turning into a meat market. With lots of variety for the players. I couldn't watch his episode it was actually gross
@jessym5583
@jessym5583 3 года назад
Y’all saying he wasn’t ready for marriage.... who goes on a tv show or even date for two months and decides they want to get married that soon. Y’all weird and desperate. I didn’t want to marry my husband until after 2 yrs of dating. We enjoyed each other and became best friends for those two years
@jaye5490
@jaye5490 Год назад
And now we find out that this was all staged 🙄🙄🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️
@zoeb.72
@zoeb.72 3 года назад
Matt was never ready for marriage and he didn’t love anyone. If he loved her, he would be standing by her and helping to educate her. Not dumping her because of her past.
@amalhussein8426
@amalhussein8426 3 года назад
You can only understand if you were in his shoes it is simply what you can’t experience btw if someone cannot forget what she didn’t it is better to end soon than later
@ngyingloong
@ngyingloong 3 года назад
I absolutely agree!!! She is already apologetic!!!
@milwaukeemotor5995
@milwaukeemotor5995 3 года назад
I agree, one hundred percent!
@jordansimone8209
@jordansimone8209 3 года назад
He’s not obligated to educate her on anything especially at her big age. She should’ve known right from wrong racism isn’t just something you can forgive and move on from. He had every right to not choose her.
@Lex-qm9gj
@Lex-qm9gj 3 года назад
@@ngyingloong how?
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