Matted Hair Due to Depression

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Many of our guests have recently been through depression and one of the biggest signs that they still have to live with after is looking at their hair as a daily reminder :/
Many people may say “just shave it!” Do you understand the pain and potential to spiral back into depression after that?
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@LedaFazalhair 3 месяца назад

Tone Hair Salon is located at - 808 Salem Woods Dr. STE 105, Raleigh, NC 27615, United States Online Booking is available - tonehairsalon.com or Text/Call (919) 701-7027

@froginapot 3 месяца назад

People think that not taking care of your hair because of depression is crazy but completely forget the fact that too many people kill themselves because of it as well. :(

@liverpolo 3 месяца назад

exactly ❤ mental illness is not always 'pretty'. my heart hurts for people who go through this only to be made fun of online.

@zukoshonor 3 месяца назад

reminds me of this tweet i saw a while back that said something like "'omg you get so depressed you don't brush your teeth?! gross!' people get so depressed they k¡ll themselves janet"

@antoinebutterfly8555 3 месяца назад

Exactly, if someone doesn’t want to be here tomorrow, why would they care about doing their hair

@cristycrenshaw9109 3 месяца назад

yeah and these people managed to find the bravery to go out in public with these mats to ask for help with their hair! Like BRAVO for the fight here - but also, who expects them to fight through regrowing their hair if you shave them bald?

@froginapot 3 месяца назад

@@cristycrenshaw9109 Exactly. People think that making others feel even worse when they're struggling makes anything better

@megannason3649 3 месяца назад

Yeah self care and hygiene are the first things to slip when you get depressed, every little thing can seem insurmountable when you are depressed. You guys helped her self confidence immensely!

@sharonmccann6659 23 дня назад

Yep😢

@JaymeBleh 3 месяца назад

People lose their lives to depression. It's absolutely understandable that could happen to hair. Glad she is doing better.

@familyjewelz4113 Месяц назад

It was so beautiful to see all of those women surrounding her with love and kindness during such a difficult time.

@TamelaPCosby 3 месяца назад

I am glad there are judgement free hairstylist and salons. ❤

@user-ul1xq2db4f 3 месяца назад

When I was deep in depression I didn't even brush my teeth. For months. 😢 I can easily see how hair would be neglected this much.

@DankrumStar 3 месяца назад

I appreciate you sharing this, because I am the same way. We’ve got this! 🧡

@xXJesuslovesyouXx 17 дней назад

@@DankrumStar 💖💖💖💖

@xXJesuslovesyouXx 17 дней назад

💖💖💖💖

@gerdaolivier4836 14 дней назад

I just wanted to comment the same thing. It would take a few days to brush

@lucrezia909 3 месяца назад

I feel it. Depression is a monster. It pulls you down and down in a spiral. Thank you for helping her ❤️

@anjahla9566 Месяц назад

You ladies are a blessing to many. Giving ladies back their life, confidence.❤

@TheGreta2400 Месяц назад

Y'all really are angels. I know the pit of darkness they endure. It's so hard to find your way out. Bless you for having a no judgement zone. Thank you. 💕

@anaisabelsantos4661 3 месяца назад

She didn't / doesn't have energy to take care of herself. So glad there are people like you who save the hair of people like her and give them a new reason to smile and maybe start healing, because there is no need for more trauma.

@Mochi_ow 3 месяца назад

I grew up with a sister so depressed she wasn’t taking care of herself. I saw her hair get really matted too and she did end up shaving it. Sure the hair problem was solved, but she had 0 confidence and was afraid to leave our house afterwards. It was devastating to her, and made her depression even worse. Going through the knots can give hope to the people that need it the most. So good on you for doing this! She’s doing a lot better now as well.

@spinningsauces5592 2 месяца назад

@@Mochi_ow i’m very glad to hear she’s doing better now

@momstrosity 26 дней назад

Fantastic work. That person must feel so much better. Having someone care so much and be happy to help can make all the difference.

@Hanit16Assouline 3 месяца назад

this poor girl, the hair breakage and everything. i hope she’s doing better. sometimes just getting your hair done and self care really gets the ball rolling. she’s so brave

@vanillanbourbon 3 месяца назад

people who think that those who struggle to care for themselves are lazy, are extremely privileged. they should be informed how lucky they are to be able to maintain "basic hygiene" before they go shame someone who is couragous enough to reach out for help. as someone who is disabled and mentally ill, there are plenty of days (sometimes weeks) where i dont brush my hair, teeth, or change my clothes. i have a loving partner who is able to help me when i struggle, but many people don't. regardless of someone's situation, you shouldn't be commenting on how you think they should live their life. there is no set way to go through life, and a lot of people need to be reminded of that. mind your business if you cant bring yourself to be kind.

@chaozinga 3 месяца назад

I often have long periods when I don't shower, change my clothes, brush my teeth etc, only when I'm going somewhere. My family knows that I suffer from mental illness, my mother her self has had a perennial depression. I still get no understanding or empathy from them, they just think it's disgusting. I don't know what to do or say to make them or her understand, it's not like I WANT to live like this. I'm 32 years old and have lived back home again since 7 years back when I got sober from drugs and alcohol. It's gotten pretty lonely since I lost all my "friends".. You would think that at least mom would understand, but no 🙁

@KayLuckyKay Месяц назад

@@chaozinga I feel you. I’ve been there myself, and it can feel so isolating when no one understands what you’re going through and just assumes the worst about you and why you’re not taking care of yourself. I also lost all my friends after a long bout with depression because I was ashamed to let them see me in that state. It can be so hard. Hang in there and I wish for you to have better days ahead. ❤️

@brandyelainecraig9036 3 месяца назад

Love seeing people with compassion. If depression and struggling mentally is what has gotten their hair in that shape.. could you imagine how their mental health would be if you shaved their head? Shaving ones head is never the answer. Patients, kindness, and a little love...

@APTTMHYforever 3 месяца назад

Exactly! The “solution” of shaving their head is ridiculous. It would probably put them in an even worse mental state.

@Flowerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 3 месяца назад

The only reason to shave the persons head is if they ask AND KNOW THAT THERES OTHER OPTIONS

@somekats 3 месяца назад

Yes and reading thru the comments on theirs and others matted hair being brought back to life by kind hair dressers willing to help only to have ignorant judgmental ppl shame them in the comments it breaks my heart bc u just know they’ve heard it all before and tell it to themselves and don’t need strangers to say it once again

@SentencedToBeth 3 месяца назад

For some people, shaving their head and starting over is the best option. They need a fresh start and want a huge visible change to show the significance of their new start. But for most people, that would feel like giving up on the idea of being themself again. It can feel like losing something precious to them. And for them, keeping their hair is like a comfort blanket, carried over from before. From when they were healthy. It can make them feel like they have something 'normal' to hold on to, for when they're better again.

@Sunshineannatx 3 месяца назад

You heard that part in the video where she said “please stop commenting just shave it”

@rcanl3658 3 месяца назад

You ladies rock! Thank you for being there ❤❤❤

@Gr0v.e 3 месяца назад

I have struggled with depression for 2 years and I still struggle to take care of myself, this morning I brushed my teeth for the first time in months, I’m so proud of everyone who has overcome their depression or has depression, because you are all superstars and I love you ❤️❤️

@d.froggiez369 19 дней назад

🫂💚🙏🏻💚🫂 sending you love & hugs! Been struggling bad about 4yrs, since my autoimmune conditions got worse & made mobility extremely painful... You are not alone 🫂🫂

@kateysandon 28 дней назад

I can understand how that can happen. When depression hits a person it’s like all a person can do is sleep. Bravo to her for sharing her story!! These ladies are amazing

@michelekelsey691 Месяц назад

OMG. I was so ashamed. I'm in this condition. I am embarrassed. I'm judged by family. Thank-you. I have hope. 😊

@michelekelsey691 18 дней назад

I made this comment 13 days ago. I received some feedback on how I might work things out myself because I could not afford to try to find someone to help me and then pay for that help. I couldn't physically untangle myself, but so grateful someone had tried to help that I got busy with my scissors. My daughter also helped. I now have 1 inch long hair all over my head. I feel like a new woman. I went to the doctor today and am being set up with home health to assist with bathing and grooming. I'm so grateful I am not alone. I want to thank everyone for sharing their stories. I you gave me courage.

@BWhite-b9j 3 месяца назад

Thank you! No one can understand what it is like to be alone and trapped in your head with no way out. It takes so, SO, much to ask for help. Especially from this position. Thank you for your healing work, your advocacy, and your servants' heart. May God bless you and your team and clients.

@emsjen 3 месяца назад

Yall are angels. Im literally crying right now. I barely got out of bed for 2 years... this is exactly how my hair was. When you are struggling to just convince yourself to stay on this earth 24/7, hair doesnt matter! I had ONE person that offered to try and help me. We got some out, but just cut most of it off. You cant even fathom how much you are doing for these people!❤

@Supergirl-oo5lr 3 месяца назад

We need more people like you in this world. ❤️❤️❤️

@אורלוי-ר2ט 3 месяца назад

My hair once looked like this because of the depression, and no matter how many womens I would go to, they never could fix it. eventually i had to cut it off completely and start to wear a wig. sometimes people who have depression can't get out of bed. they need to stay focused on how to stay alive and survive the day. it's not that they don't care about themselves, they simply can't get themselves to do something they don't have to do to survive, and even those are sometimes too much.

@richrich2862 2 месяца назад

It was three years long for me going through that

@Ok_Loren 3 месяца назад

I’m really proud of her for seeking help & so thankful that there are ppl who care enough to do this type of work. When I was in my last depressive episode, I had trouble getting out of bed. & wouldn’t leave the house for months. I couldn’t do anything let alone prioritize self care. One of the steps I took to motivate myself was going to a stylist/salon to have my hair done. I used to dye & cut my own hair all the time, but I lost interest in it. Now I look forward to my appointments & leaving the house. It’s boosted my confidence & helped me start caring about myself more. I’ve even started driving again. It was a 1st step that led to a lot of positive changes for me. I hope this can do the same for her.

@fairygoth-mother7341 3 месяца назад

Congratulations for making forward progress! Sending you thoughts of strength, courage, peace and joy.

@Ok_Loren 3 месяца назад

@@fairygoth-mother7341 tysm 💞

@carlawashington9464 3 месяца назад

Thank you ladies for being compassionate and joyful while caring for her❤️💖❤️

@mariebourn8317 Месяц назад

A year ago I was just like this lady. I finally got better after my boyfriend of 13 years died. I cut all of my very long hair off and moved back in my mom and I e been so happy every since. The old environment and situation I was in was killing me

@lindisamathabela3192 3 месяца назад

Important thing is that she is starting to feel better. She got up and sought help. ❤

@angelinebrasier9882 3 месяца назад

I've had depression. I get it. ❤ You are doing a wonderful job ❤

@laurajarrell6187 3 месяца назад

Hair can mat so very quickly! You all, besides being beautiful on the inside, are actually really beautiful on the outside, too.👍🏿💙💙💙🥰✌🏻

@rhywnn 26 дней назад

What you see on the outside is a reflection of the pain inside. Hopefully she gets help. Thank you for treating her with dignity and respect.

@stephanierodriguez4491 3 месяца назад

I remember I helped a client in need. She was so greatful with tears of joy after. She was in the hospital recovering for a month. She was growing out her natural curly hair from a relaxer. It brings so much joy helping someone🙏💜🙏

@katiebouldin305 27 дней назад

❤❤❤ depression can be crippling. Sending positive feeling good vibes

@morecm3322 23 дня назад

I wish her joy and love......it is hard to move forward but you must try.....good luck

@J_MHequi 20 дней назад

What a blessing to have this service in a community

@suemarlow8253 Месяц назад

Lovely to see these 4 women working on her hair. Its a simple thing but it makes all the difference. Good luck to you lady in the chair.

@feliciaziemba5898 3 месяца назад

Not me crying because I have an appointment to get my head shaved broke my back in a car accident it was bedridden for a year after that I was depressed for the next year I can't afford to get all the way out to you unfortunately 😭. Thank you so much for helping people because I know this will kill me I'm native American and we do not cut our hair I'm going against everything

@Sunshineannatx 3 месяца назад

You can make it through this. I’m so sorry.

@krystaleyezdchaosciousness 2 месяца назад

Any chance ur near sc? I'm needing mine done too and my mil tho I love her dearly is like just shave it! 🥺 If ur anywhere near close maybe we could help eachother

@Sunshineannatx 2 месяца назад

@@krystaleyezdchaosciousness she’s in Raleigh NC

@tarac7227 2 месяца назад

Thank you for doing what you do ❤ as a nurse we see this all too often as mental health affects physical health and vice versa.

@ramonaferry8075 6 дней назад

So glad there are people like you to help people having issues 🙏😇💞

@janerylatt4415 3 месяца назад

Hope she has a safe recovery❤❤

@user-pu9yy8tq5t 3 месяца назад

I have autism and adhd, and ive always struggled with brushing my hair regularly. My hair gets tangled very fast. I used to get mats in my hair all the time. Now, i try and brush or put my hair in braids, especially when in a depression spiral, though it doesnt always work. Youre doing so much for these people ❤

@BelindaCo1 3 месяца назад

Completely agree and thank you for this. I have a family full of neuro divergent people who struggle with anxiety and depression. Being apart of it and witnessing mental struggles is the only way to even try to understand how it can go sometines.

@sandybeaches1490 3 месяца назад

these videos y’all do, it gives me motivation to brush my hair. It’s been four days since I’ve had the energy to brush it. It’s getting pretty bad, but I’m going to stop doom scrolling and do something about it. I’m sure you all already know this. But you’re changing peoples lives by offering these services. You’re able to make such an impact on the quality of life for these people. You’re offering hope and confidence. You can’t put a price on that. Lord Bless your team. Thank you guys.

@grandmalisa796 3 месяца назад

Thanks for teaching us all another way to be kind

@trudicorrigan995 14 дней назад

Thank you for posting this. The empathy & compassion coming from you is unfortunately rare. I'm just about to start freeing my partner from the matted lump that started out as his ponytail. Thanx

@cindykinner7671 Месяц назад

Thank you, guys! You are all beautiful people! Thank you for taking the time to help these people!

@katt3428 25 дней назад

Thankyou for speaking on this. I've had this kind of depression and if you've never experienced this, you cannot know how hard it is to even get out of bed. Much less care for the self that you hate.

@rosiefrancis-rogerson4508 Месяц назад

I have been there. My hair looked like that once too and when I was finally ready to take care of it me and my mum spent 1 whole week brushing it out. I'm so grateful that she was there for me because it literally felt like a physical representation of my depression that I was carrying around with me. Sometimes when I get down it starts creeping back to getting like that but thank god I am well enough these days to take care of it before it gets to that stage again. Thank you for these videos, its so important for stuff like this to be seen as when it was me in that position I really felt like I was the only person in the world 'gross' enough to allow it to get that bad, now I feel a lot less alone! Xxx

@ewubs8077 22 дня назад

Thank you for helping her!!! 🫶🏼

@deniseganey6890 Месяц назад

I think during Covid many more of us have seen this . Thank goodness for all of the kind ,professionals who truly care . A neighbor had a helth crusys abd was in a hospital for months ,they took suvh good care of her but neglected her hair . A wonderful hairdresser took on the prihect with such kindness and empathy .

@playkawaii2104 3 месяца назад

Back when I was unmedicated for my depression, I didnt even know I had mats, i just thought that my braid extensions were supposed to take that long to remove, you guys are life savers❤

@kyriakizafeiriadou7681 Месяц назад

Poor souls, God knows what they went through to come to this point. You and your team are doing a fantastic job to give them more of theor self confidence back by making their hair look so nice. Thank you ❤

@yoleydismatthews7371 29 дней назад

God bless you for doing this. Definitely keep everyone in prayers. People think it's easy. May the Lord give u strength and more blessings 🙌.

@charliethesquishywitch340 3 месяца назад

That happened to me during a depression episode. Sending strength and love to everyone going through this

@ministerpaulagravittbryant3615 3 месяца назад

God Bless you praying for these young ladies HELP me pray for each one of them Please Don't be ugly and talking about these young ladies this could be your daughter your sister your aunt even your mama so please be kind and love them through prayer

@SaphiraTessa 3 месяца назад

Seeing the outgrown roots are not that long, I get that in about a month, it indeed matted fast. Depression is tough, one of the last things on your mind is your hair. Hoping she feels better now!

@rebekahjimenez2808 3 месяца назад

Different people have different rates of growth, and if she was unable to care for her hair, she was probably not eating nourishing food, which would further slow growth.

@discerningtruth6848 Месяц назад

I can attest to this happening when my hair was matted....especially when I was experiencing bouts of depression and didn't realize how much you're emotional state is based on every facets of your life. 😢❤

@rlb209 Месяц назад

God bless y’all and God bless those who reach out for help! ❤

@Runner656 20 дней назад

I am so happy you guys were able her, and all the others. Beautiful hair!! And she is ready to start a new chapter

@fairygoth-mother7341 3 месяца назад

I appreciate that you help anyone in this situation without judgement. You are a blessing to people in need.

@BAPChar Месяц назад

You guys have Loving Hands and Hearts ❤

@bubblegummel 3 месяца назад

Honesty love watching these and seeing you help people. Just want to mention when i think, "shave it", thats just what i would do. Thats what would make me feel good if i was coming out of a bad depression. I often consider shaving my head just when i get too hot or have a headache. I know other other people wouldnt think that, im just explaining my (and possibly others) knee jerk reaction.

@annelierebenek4881 26 дней назад

You are doing so mutch fore this people! I have been depprest so many times, fore years sometimes. And you dont have the strength to take care of your self. You are sent from haven girl,s❤️🙏🏼

@GuenMcNeish 29 дней назад

Thank you for what you do. It means so much to those you help

@zoepszoeps5499 3 месяца назад

I sat for 2 hours today with my ma to brush out my hair since my depression has gotten worse, thank u for spreading a good message

@paintediva 2 месяца назад

I've been there. It's nice to see that y'all understand and helped her. I hope she feels better and knows that she is loved.

@maaaaaay 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much for taking care of her

@talyastevens3774 26 дней назад

Yep It DEFINITELY Happens WAY too much let's help GREAT Work ☺️

@Bella-yg5ee 3 месяца назад

Keep up the great work❤

@d.froggiez369 19 дней назад

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻May God bless you all... I totally get it 🫂🙏🏻🫂💚

@jennifergoodwin3290 3 месяца назад

🤔♥️You guys at Tone Hair Salon are amazing helping these women band together detangle their hair and restoration the women's confidence back. These women went from Salon to Salon asking to get their hair done but some of these Salons choose to turn them away. People like myself battle Mental Health Challenges for various reasons. We don't know what these women went through so have a open mind and compassion for some people who have Mental Health Challenges it could be your family and close friends maybe going through the same position.

@Slaiy-ll5xu 3 месяца назад

people really don’t understand how terrible depression can get, i didn’t brush my teeth for a few years because of it. my hair only got done because other people scheduled appointments for me and drove me to them. when you’re living in that kind of state, taking care of yourself/your hygiene stops mattering.

@lorettawhittleton6664 18 дней назад

This is very nice of you guys to help her and this is absolutely true 😢😢😢❤❤❤

@trickydiscoiscool 3 месяца назад

I hope she is doing better mentally :(

@Bambi_thepainter Месяц назад

I’m so sorry that you went through that woman 😢 I can’t understand a little bit on how or why But you appear to be climbing back up from rock bottom ❤you got this you can’t stop now I know it must be hard but you do got this

@TheAethusa 3 месяца назад

You and your team provide such a beautiful service ❤

@bellahawthorn4575 3 месяца назад

I feel that so hard. Depression plus sensory issues has gotten my hair in some unfun places. I’m doing alright with it now, but it’s still a struggle to wash it and I don’t brush it everyday. I really hope this helped her get a fresh start, or at least feel somewhat better ❤️

@yellownics Месяц назад

Most people dont know what depression really is like. You cannot even do the simplest thing, no strenght or motivation. She must have been so depressed to not even have the strenght to comb her hair. Courageous to go to the hairdressor to ask them to help her! Her hair came out great!

@foolsupright8512 3 месяца назад

Genuinely, at my lowest points, I just gave up and shaved my head. I'm starting to take care of my hair more now, but it's still hard to just get up and take care of myself. Depression and disability are rough to go through and just know that there are people out there who are willing to help

@thecraftycyborg9024 3 месяца назад

These videos give me an insight into how they saved my neighbors hair. I’ve been curious for years but have more of a clue now. :) (neighbor was caught in a house explosion/fire. She was less injured than you’d expect but being a teenage girl, was horrified that her hair had fused to itself from the heat. It took 3-5 people working 10 hours but they managed to only need to shave a thin strip.)

@MaineCoonMama18 2 месяца назад

I'm taking a mental health class, and keeping up with self-care habits is a super common struggle with depression. Learning that has helped me feel less ashamed that I'm dealing with it myself right now.

@starta._riot 3 месяца назад

i hate how people can understand that it gets bad enough to want to end your life but won’t understand that, while in that mental state, you won’t have the motivation to take care of yourself

@Arielle_NC 2 месяца назад

Bless her heart ❤

@styl1shl1v Месяц назад

only reason my hair didn’t end up like this when i was depressed was because i was a 6th grader scared to be judged. i had smaller hidden mats in my hair but i always got them out before it got noticeable because i was scared. however other unseen hygiene disappeared during that time. i showered maybe once every 2 weeks and brushed my teeth even less, even only using water when i did. i had to have the rest of my baby teeth pulled because of how bad the cavities were, the cavities were visible holes in my teeth that caused me pain day and night. it was terrible and i still struggle with personal hygiene today but i’m glad there’s people like this salon helping people through it ❤️

@Super_Nova739 3 месяца назад

And when depression is the cause of the knots, shaving the hair is a huge self esteem hit and can make it so much worse. Depression is fought with small wins and big wins, not defeats, failures, or giving up. And shaving the hair would be the opposite of a win.

@nicknamess232 3 месяца назад

For years i never understood why people stop to take care of themself. Until i got a taste of deppresion myself. You really only can understand if you experienced.

@theatretrix 3 месяца назад

This reminds me of when I was 7 and I got my Nana's tiny round brush stuck in my hair to the scalp and the wonderful woman my mom took my to took 5 hours detangling it while I sobbed about losing my hair. She was an absolute angel

@sonia94ist 3 месяца назад

With my curly hair and now chronic depression that's one of my greatest fears. I've definitely gone way too long without washing or brushing my hair, just sticking them up in a bun. And there was a time that I could afford to go to the salon every other week to get it washed and have a plain blowout. But the last time I did that, the stylist was very displeased with how tangled my hair was. She was new to that salon and clearly annoyed with me. Didn't go back there again. I'm doing everything in my power to not let my hair go without care for more than 2 weeks. But I understand how this can happen... there have been times that I didn't want to get out of bed at all, not even for food.

@apathybronson 3 месяца назад

Also telling them to shave is just so so rude. If they (as a depressed, or recently depressed person) managed to get their butt to that salon and sit there for a full work day (you couldn't get me to do that now, and I'm fine) they clearly deeply, deeply care about having their hair like it is.

@teapartywitch 3 месяца назад

people will judge someone for being depressed and not being able to take care of themselves, BUT DEPRESSION KILLED PEOPLE!! they’re trying to survive!! brushing their hair is the least of their worried

@Mary-h2b 9 дней назад

You guys are amazing ❤ well done

@briannanutcheerios 20 дней назад

Hair really is the first thing that's neglected. I remember going 2-3 weeks without doing anything to mine but throwing it up into a bun or ponytail. It was hard to detangle so I couldn't possibly imagine these lovely ladies pain.

@ivyprof3n 3 месяца назад

I am a teenager and I know what it feels like to not want to take care of myself. There has been so many days where I have not wanted to brush my teeth, my hair, take a shower, or do anything. Depression is such a struggle when it comes to just about anything. I’m so happy for her and I hope that she doesn’t have to go through that again.

@Hexepresso 3 месяца назад

I've had some bad mats because of my depression and just not wanting to take care of myself, let alone take care of my hair. I did have most of it shaved off but that's because I wanted it shaved. I now do undercuts and with my amount of super thick hair it is best for me. I also do not get mats like that anymore. Thank you for caring.

@ScribbledCrayon 3 месяца назад

A question out of the blue - how are you liking your undercut? Does it genuinely help with reducing some of that thickness at the nape and overall make things easier to manage on a day to day basis? Do you have to go back in for reshaving often? I ask because I am in a similar situation and have been sitting on the idea of an undercut for a few months now. Super duper thick curls, spotty mental health, and used to treating a hair wash with the same enthusiasm as changing multi-cat litter boxes. Just wanted to get real thoughts who actually went through with the cut for the same reasons I want to. 🥰

@ceatonbusch 3 месяца назад

I'm not gonna lie, there's a part of me that gets a little happy when I realize that someone doesn't understand how depression feels. I've hated being here since I was around 12, and I've had anxiety since I was born. Ik that sounds crazy, but my mom has told me so many stories of how badly it would come out, even at 2 years old. And that depression comes out in a lot of different ways. I couldn't take my own life, but I did things to make it shorter, and now that I want to be here finally, I dno how to reverse the damage I've done. I just needed to be here long enough to make sure my daughter was okay. My hair is thin AF, my teeth are fucked, my health is fucked. I just wish I knew I was gonna find happiness at 34 years old.

@AcestarArtworks 3 месяца назад

Depression shows itself in many ways it can be leaving the housework to pill up for maybe even years, it can cause ocd, it can make you not love/ hate yourself to the point where you don't look after yourself and end up like this poor woman. Depression is insidious, it changes your brain chemistry. It's hard to be kind to yourself when you hate yourself. You do an amazing job for these people who probably expected their only option would be to shave it ❤

@nikookb210 3 месяца назад

depression is debilitating i had gone through the same for a month . but due to my childhood habit of always braiding my hair for sleep my hair didn't get matted at all and I'm so thankful for that but i seriously didn't brush my hair ,didn't brush my teeth nothing and I'm a skin care girlie i didn't even do my skin care so yeah i understand how this can happen and I'm so happy that she is feeling better and getting help 🫂🤍

@Lizard4678 3 месяца назад

Everyone on your team is a superhero beauty queen

@AubreyShelton-rr7yy 21 день назад

I could easily get that depressed I sometimes I have to actually force myself to brush my hair and then I can go weak sometimes when I'm in the middle of going through a depression and it comes in waves