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Relationship expert and life coach Matthew Hussey sits down with Drew Barrymore to talk about the 4 levels of importance in a relationship. Plus, he reveals the text he received from his now-wife that shook him and taught him an important lesson.
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@anyabelle 13 дней назад

"No one can be important to me that does not choose me."

@kiananejabat 16 дней назад

Even Matthew Hussey ghosts 😂

@brooklyn3299 16 дней назад

He’s a man so yes that’s what they do.

@jeniferkenney2984 16 дней назад

Omgosh right?! What were you thinking Matt?! Lol

@queenj.8i895 15 дней назад

lol! Funny. But…he didn’t tho 🙃

@jeniferkenney2984 15 дней назад

@@queenj.8i895 he kinda did for a little bit.

@KatieBetts 15 дней назад

Hahahaha

@carolyn6990 6 дней назад

“ You can grieve out of disappointment that they weren’t the one but you can’t grieve as if they were the one.” Wow, that statement resonated with me at a deep level. Next level advice Matthew!

@thematthewhussey 18 дней назад

Loved this conversation Drew!! Thank you everyone for watching! ❤

@CrystalDatingCoach 14 дней назад

Your the NUMBER 1 Dating Coach for a Reason? 😂❤

@KG-bliss 14 дней назад

I second that... Matthew is in a league of his own... and because of this, I understand the level I am on... admiration... everything is exciting ... but two more to go... I love Matthew ❤

@acemilondoner8489 11 дней назад

Audrey needs her own podcast, preach us girl 😂

@RMFeminine4TheWin 9 дней назад

*she sounds like a legit 'Spiritual Gangsta'. well done & best wishes to you both!!!* 🫂💍💙

@AriesAndScorp День назад

Great RU-vid video!

@thehappyproject7117 15 дней назад

She was watching his videos😂

@meesh1002 9 дней назад

Most guys wouldn’t be able to handle that message. Good for him

@ilsevdg1194 8 дней назад

Haha, it allows for an early triage 😊

@GeminianExplorer 3 дня назад

So many I dated , got numbed out on such a message... Feminized Men 😅

@NicoleBeepath 20 дней назад

The fact that they still ended up together even though Matthew didn't know immediately after that she was going to be his wife gives me hope. I like to see examples that having standards instead of playing games is what works. Be true to you. Btw, Drew is such a style icon!

@_good_for. 20 дней назад

You voted Biden right?

@NicoleBeepath 20 дней назад

@@_good_for. I'm Canadian living in Canada.

@_good_for. 20 дней назад

@@NicoleBeepath ok mam

@susannefitzpatrick9955 19 дней назад

Yes - I too wonder why Audrey chased (albeit in a subtle way) multi-millionaire Matthew!

@bm5_5_5 18 дней назад

Exactly you’ll never miss out on what’s right for you if you stay true to yourself ❤

@jessicam3707 17 дней назад

I just love that Matthew ended up with the exact kind of woman he always said was attractive. It shows that first of all, they’re meant to be, and second, he has always meant what he said. He didn’t just end up with some famous model (although she looks like one) or someone with a flashy, exciting life, he found someone who is authentic and mature and kind like himself.

@888alp 17 дней назад

Yes but he was looking for a woman who is has money and career driven. There is nothing wrong with that but I feel he wouldn’t date someone who just didn’t earn big bucks.

@Nah-ah 14 дней назад

@@888alptheir busy lifestyle wouldn’t match! They need to keep up with each other. My ex (childhood sweetheart) was a pro-footballer. That didn’t work out bc our lifestyles were completely different after his career took off! I met my now husband and had a baby which was what I wanted a few yrs later! My ex went on to play overseas for the next 10 yrs, then met and married his now wife who’s a huge traveler and they both have a couple of kids.

@foxy_k9 13 дней назад

@@888alp may I ask how do you know if Audrey has money and career driven? I didn't find anything about her online. I actually thought she was jobless because she is in his videos all the time 🤔

@TilikaVispute 15 дней назад

No one can be important to me that doesn’t choose me 👍🏻💯

@CrystalDatingCoach 14 дней назад

Ladies. Live and LEARN. Keep your STANDARDS!

@peonypink7943 8 дней назад

"No-one can become important to me that doesn't choose me." ❤

@vicklou 13 дней назад

"No one can be important to me when they do not choose me" when it comes to love life - love it, so important!

@tombithecat4664 14 дней назад

Audrey had been definitely watching his videos and following his advise😂 I clearly remember this topic from one his videos

@monicaduby1362 14 дней назад

Tactic = manipulation. Her message came across as honest and he honored her honesty

@TheWilDOn31 13 дней назад

He didn't. She honoured herself by sticking to her standard after that text.

@ebbyc1817 13 дней назад

it was a very interesting message. she neither ignored him, nor pandered to him. I would have ignored him. Basically I would have read the text and thought "wtf does this mean" and not replied. lol

@user-gv4bg3go2e 7 дней назад

@@ebbyc1817that’s understandable. Most of the time you set yourself up for heartbreak. They’re coming back just to see if they have access to you. It’s an ego thing

@ebbyc1817 6 дней назад

@@user-gv4bg3go2e Ha so that's why they do it. I'm somewhat naive, but what I don't like is decoding messages. If I have to ask, what does this mean, I'm not replying, unless it's part of an ongoing conversation.

@davicrockett2619 18 дней назад

I am so glad Drew found Matthew Hussey! I have been following his approach with standards and honesty for the past several years! Amazing. Just incredible.

@CrystalDatingCoach 14 дней назад

YES! She's so Beautiful and Intelligent but doesn't VALUE herself! Stop falling in love who INVESTED nothing!!!

@dg5175 15 дней назад

Just goes to show even as an expert, you can still mess up. Good for her in how she handled it though.

@KG-bliss 14 дней назад

The mess-up is human ... also I love that his wife is the woman he is teaching us to be... Have standards... know your value... she got this amazing man...

@donata7733 10 дней назад

What a surprise , she did exactly what he's teaching in his videos and books. Cool girls listen to you too Matthew 😁

@skamgodt964 19 дней назад

So he was running fuckboi game on her and she outsmarted him, using the tips he usually gives his audience🙄. Interesting... to say the least.

@CRISSGRULLON 16 дней назад

This is the real 🫖. Good on her really!

@KG-bliss 14 дней назад

She is the woman he teaches us to be... have standards, know your worth... and she did way back then...

@alexialira3839 14 дней назад

She chose to marry a dude that ghosted her in the beginning of a relationship when you're supposed to be the most ecstatic/happy about a person (he essentially rejected her) and then he came back running when no other female he wanted was giving him the attention he craved. That's settling, not "being smart." I'd never do this and would never advise a loved one of mine to marry someone like this.

@EllenNguyen 13 дней назад

@@alexialira3839 She wasn't ruthless enough. Being ruthless is just deleting his text and moving on

@shastagrant7525 13 дней назад

Agree. I liked his content until today.

@1CelloOne 13 дней назад

Wouldn’t his text that said, “ I miss you,” be considered a manipulation or tactic?

@serendipitytwo777 15 дней назад

I think it's crazy that he ghosted her, when he has so many videos about the topic....

@orsolyabende8101 14 дней назад

Probably it was his way of testing her whether intentionally or not. When you should not be testing people at least not the one you feel that way for.

@cup_o_TMarie 6 дней назад

I hear you & yet I don’t think two weeks is fully ghosting since they weren’t in a relationship, only very casually dating. But it was a pattern disruption & she addressed it as such. If we immediately feel someone is fully ghosting us, we may take more drastic measures ourselves rather than feeling it out. I define ghosting as someone who fully ignores your attempts at communication. After twice (because the 1st time there’s always a chance they didn’t get your msg), I’m out. Then it’s fully ghosting. At least that’s my definition.

@carollancianese1371 18 дней назад

THIS IS MY ENTIRE LIFE GO ON😂😂😂😂 YES it's everyone's 🤣

@ksjjs0309 16 дней назад

Drew’s clipping at the end, lmao!😂

@jeniferkenney2984 16 дней назад

Omgosh i cabt believe hes married now! I knew he was engaged a while back but didn't realize he got married just this last year. Congratulations Matthew! So happy for you and your wife! Ive started watching you on RU-vid since the beginning especially when i was going through a rough divorce then dating again. You definitely helped me out a lot. Im so glad you found your person. She is definitely one lucky gal. ❤

@TilikaVispute 15 дней назад

6:03 THIS!!! As a recovering people pleaser I so back this thought!

@jennifer5309 14 дней назад

I have been watching Mathew Hussey for years!!! His work helped me through a difficult breakup. Thank you Drew for having him on your show!

@skidrow1800 15 дней назад

Funny cause I had this happen to me except it didn’t work out. Which is fine - I’m glad it happened & I know the truth. Was texting with a guy for 4 months straight. Every single day. Then randomly got to the point where he skipped a day. Then back if became skipping another day. Then it was a few days. Then like a week. I just am not gonna play those games

$@fracaiulo6046$

@fracaiulo6046 12 дней назад

Did matthew really send "i miss you" after 2 weeks of non contact? 😅

@jeanettefujikawa 15 дней назад

Very important and powerful last statement!

@1984musicman 17 дней назад

Love Matty and love Drew!! This is so cool to watch

@Supergirl-oo5lr 19 дней назад

She basically used the answer that you told women to send when a man ghost/ disrespect them and then decide to come back because he needs attention. I am sorry but your behavior was very poor.

@thehealingfairee 18 дней назад

He talks in the book about how he used to be terrible to date, so he owns up to it

@tasleemlaila1478 17 дней назад

I think you missed the point. She doesn't give the answer he advices others to use. He got it from her great example in the text she sent him. He learned from her. And he is taking pride in his wife's ability to stand up for her boundaries, and sharing this with all of us to help empower us to do the same. That makes him a more stand up and credible coach, and human in my opinion. He could have hidden his "mistake". Instead, he is admitting it to help us. That's amazing.

$@fracaiulo6046$

@fracaiulo6046 12 дней назад

Come on. He acted poorly! Period

@blauespony1013 10 дней назад

Yes, it was. But he realised it and learned from it (and hopefully changed for the better). And that is more than a lot of people do.

@tasleemlaila1478 9 дней назад

@@fracaiulo6046 But he's admitting it, and has changed it, and recognized it and apologizes for it and uses the lessons from it to help him and others.

@nicolebrown2641 12 дней назад

I feel you Drew, I feel you! Such a great interview!!

@meadow9165 15 дней назад

Beautiful!

@valentina47734 17 дней назад

Thanks for teaching me the obvious!

@myriamhernandez8015 13 дней назад

Wonderful points ❤

@istenno7271 5 дней назад

This was deep as puddle. People think these days they fart two and that is the Sound of Music.

@amber_clarvit 16 дней назад

So good.

@heyu123 13 дней назад

One of my fave books ever! I’m going to re-read this soon ❤

@gabrielaraimondo2430 12 дней назад

Matthey is a genius!❤❤❤❤ I love Drew!❤❤❤😅😅😅

@kkibela 14 дней назад

So hold up... Matthew acting like the guy he tells us to have better standards than 😂😂😂😂😂😢😂😢😂😢😂😢😂

@brigeetalight4394 13 дней назад

Yep.

@joyabia682 12 дней назад

That's why I don't listen to him. These people will have u running in your own head. Ugh

@blueskies773 8 дней назад

You gotta watch RC Blakes, Jr.

@niomibandara4030 6 дней назад

Yes! And she took his advice 😂😂😂

@MonaLisaFace 3 дня назад

Right … seems hypocritical to me.

@jasal54 5 дней назад

Sooooo EXCELLENT 😮

@janecamilon489 14 дней назад

Great advice! Like the four levels of importance. Have made the mistake at level number 2.

@ilsevdg1194 8 дней назад

Spot on!!!! Stage number 2 is very dangerous and misleading to the heart. That's when the common sense has to kick in. But it's very hard. You tend to think that the connection is the most important thing. But you forget that there's also the degree of importance and priority that one gives to that connection, that can differ. And that life's circumstances can get in the way. And then there's also the character and the set of values of the person.... It's a ruthless game.😢 But it's better to lose early. Than to see it all go down later.

@jasonfanclub4267 11 дней назад

His wife is 🔥🔥🔥

@dforgr9257 13 дней назад

smart man :)

@SundayCookingRemix 19 дней назад

Amen

@emmaeIIe 17 дней назад

Love this. However, wouldn't checking for compatibility come before thinking of commitment?

@Paula-fd6lj 16 дней назад

Commitment is about deciding you want to commit. Exclusivity. Compatibility is about merging lives, making sure you both want the same things.

@janeryan2709 15 дней назад

You can't really confirm compatibility until the commitment is already there...

@KG-bliss 14 дней назад

Commitment to the relationship not to marriage... so, compatibility comes before commitment

@skoolie_life3261 14 дней назад

I agree that compatibility comes before commitment. I made the mistake of getting the two backwards and it didn’t end well. Lots of heartbreak.

@Paula-fd6lj 13 дней назад

@@skoolie_life3261 you can be extremely compatible and yet the guy/girl not be ready to settle down and ull still waste time. At least if he/she is committed to the relationship u won't get cheated on/gaslighted. You'll just part ways cuz u want different things (not compatible?

@amber_clarvit 16 дней назад

Would love to know more about compatibility

@ss87935 14 дней назад

Pause. You weren't in a relationship, you were dating. Have things changed so much that dating is no longer a relationship???

@KG-bliss 14 дней назад

I have always known that dating is getting to know people... not a relationship... 😂😂😂 this world

@Lisa_M_V 10 дней назад

Dating is people just spending time together .. a relationship has commitment. Don’t commit before you get to know someone .. could be a mass murderer 😂

@amieamie6268 12 дней назад

Oh my word. I love Drew! Where can I watch this show 😱😍

@amieamie6268 12 дней назад

I live in Europe btw. Not American, so it's not on tv for me 😂

@verpul165 5 дней назад

1. What happened after that message? Pity that Drew interrupted him… pity! 2. Credits to Matt that even tho he is the “Relationship expert” and did what he did, he comes out and tell his story to “his followers and all”. It craves guts to do that, he is showing that he is a normal person, not a God (people want to see him like a God). 3. Matthew @thematthewhussey how to do when you have a relationship abroad? (Very very far away). Thank you for your openness!

@valeriekaroline 14 дней назад

Ahh now I wanna know how the story continued 😄😄

@writerbynite 13 дней назад

Attention is not Intention!

@shastagrant7525 13 дней назад

In his past videos he has constantly provided guidance on how women can address this kind of behaviour from someone. Turned out while he did that he was engaging in exactly that kind of low value behaviour. He has nice advice, but using himself as an example here is just annoying.

@SmileKT68 13 дней назад

This example is intended to spotlight HIS WIFE (not himself) and her exceptional standards, which validated exactly what he coaches women to do. He just happened to be the guinea pig in this case so to speak. He never claimed to be the exemplary guy or the perfect catch. He's always had his own demons and trauma to work on, he is now vulnerable enough to share with the public. Good for him!

@ramzy-6566 19 дней назад

nice..

@gargikulkarni8764 10 дней назад

Pause. Her expression. She changed topic😂.

@acemilondoner8489 11 дней назад

Audrey, preach us girl!

@hipnhappenin 12 дней назад

I don't get why he was trying to slow fade her to begin with?

@saputramaulana7731 19 дней назад

👍🏼👍🏻❤

@jennifertrask 16 дней назад

What's the end of the story?!? Is there a clip on what happened after that text from Audrey? @thematthewhussey, we need to know what happened next!

@xxShesARebelxx 15 дней назад

They have a whole joint video on what happened. Search is RU-vid

@janeryan2709 15 дней назад

@@xxShesARebelxx They have a lot of joint videos. Can you give the title of the video where they talk about it?

@Lisa_M_V 10 дней назад

They went to vegas and got married on next date 😂

@marionenzer1947 10 дней назад

@@xxShesARebelxx Do you have the name of link to the video please ?

@julia-eg2xh День назад

@janeryan2709 did you find the joint video please?

@Methequeen 15 дней назад

Did Matthew finally get the girl?? Congrats!!

@Squirreler359 52 минуты назад

Oh goodness what a complicated way to conduct yourself. Define your values. Behave in alignment with them. Connect with people who do the same.

@iindahammermueller9865 13 дней назад

Take risk and enjoying the ride also vulnerability..

@AussieGirl235 11 дней назад

Wife??!? When did this happen???! And how the heck has he ended up on the Drew Barrymore show

@kritigoel5922 16 дней назад

Is there a reason why the host sits so close to all her guest?

@valshiro515 16 дней назад

She has very poor boundaries. Some guests look super uncomfortable when she's almost on their lap. As an abuse survivor, I would not be ok with her being so close.

@EveKatharsis 15 дней назад

What yall 😢 that's a leap!

@KG-bliss 14 дней назад

This time I thought that's too close... I would be uncomfortable because personal space is a thing

@Dancediva240 5 дней назад

she is a creepy annoying host, really cringey

@jessicaibada5728 11 дней назад

I need to learn from his wife 😅

@angelapapa410 7 дней назад

And how did they get together again and married?

@robertamarcantoni9524 13 дней назад

Drew looks thiner and younger

@tarakylie727 17 дней назад

Relationship Expert - but still fumbled in real life 🤨🤨🤨

@JeanBrink1971 17 дней назад

Yeah 😄, but he's still just a human.

@Marina-wi3rs 16 дней назад

Doctors aren’t 100% healthy either

@EveKatharsis 15 дней назад

Or therapists haha how do you think we got here 😂

@dg5175 15 дней назад

That's what I thought lol

@ninastar5285 15 дней назад

Experiences were their teachers...

@David-yu5bz 16 дней назад

Love you drew, but not taking it in 😮

@JulentesDing 5 дней назад

Drew looks very confused 😅😅😅😅🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

@joanquattrocchi8023 17 дней назад

This is just too much

@jrb4347 9 дней назад

Really grossed out by his text from a professional dating coach - he’s lucky she married him

@thestorybehindthat5236 14 дней назад

He's going to cheat on her.

@KG-bliss 14 дней назад

Wow... that's what you got out of this or just projecting your experience?

@thestorybehindthat5236 12 дней назад

@@KG-bliss haven't been cheated on. Not that I know of. So it's not that. Something's off about him. Can't put my finger exactly on it. It almost feels like a mother child dynamic between them or something. It's the way he talks about her like she's the wise "mother" who's consoling and "fixing" him and he's the childish one in the dynamic. From what he shared at least, that seems to be his main draw to her aside from her being beautiful of course. I just see him cheating and acting out childishly behind her back at some point. He doesn't seem to have a sense of "mature manliness" to look out for her in a certain way a developed man has for his wife. It's all about him. Just my opinion.

@Lisa_M_V 10 дней назад

No he’s not. He’s not a douche

@thestorybehindthat5236 10 дней назад

@@Lisa_M_V time will tell.

@krjk07 23 часа назад

He was giving advices 😅 which he didnt follow.

@iindahammermueller9865 13 дней назад

This sounds crazy.. txt world in love is stupid . Get real in person and off the txt.. pathetic... Too much analyzing... Crazy

@lauravitti5252 17 дней назад

It's not revolutionary.... Seems like a bit of that English type nicety and under-lying " SMACK IN THE FACE"! 😅😅😅 That would be a very different conversation with two Latinos or Italians. It would be fireworks and volcanoes. 😂 Lol❤

@sugarspice8650 17 дней назад

Biggest scammer

@user-nz8vd7es7k 6 дней назад

No clue who this guy is and I’m ok with that! Getting old has its at vantages! Pay less attention to celebrities who make no difference in your life! (Assuming he a celebrity)

@LoveChild71 19 дней назад

This is the most bizarre topic.

@hirsch4155 18 дней назад

No it’s because you have a different approach to dating , and that’s ok, he has stuff that makes a lot of sense for some of us.

@emmaeIIe 17 дней назад

What's bizarre about it?

@KG-bliss 14 дней назад

@@emmaeIIeI would also like to know...

@michelle5460 8 дней назад

Trying to sell books....

@MessagesFromAurora 19 дней назад

Drew i am curious and confused why you didnt have your hands all over him like you do all your other guests? do the guests fill out some sort of limits contract before the show?

@KG-bliss 14 дней назад

Does she do that with married males too? Or am I missing something?

@MessagesFromAurora 14 дней назад

@@KG-bliss so the boundaries of a person only matter if they're married or have a partner who wouldn't like it?

@MonaLisaFace 3 дня назад

Unpopular opinion but their getting together story isn’t goals.