Sitting here in a lake of tears...RIP Ben...such a tragic loss, I cannot even imagining how Mattie can breathe...I pray for her...I pray for the entire family...only GOD can soothe this kind of grief, perhaps not ever :'(
Dad's piece,,"You will always be my baby" just lead me here to this most beautiful classy wedding event only for me to get to the comments and read condolence messages! What a turn of events. May God grant Mattie and the families divine comfort and healing from the pain and grief. RIP Ben
That's the most beautiful wedding I've ever seen. They are so obviously in love. My heart breaks for the Selecman and Jackson families. My thoughts and prayers are with them all, and may God heal their broken hearts. Rest in peace Ben.
@@gailtoburen6693 Ben, Mattie's husband, Alan's SIL, died during a tragic accident. The 1st comment on this video explains in detail. SO heartbreaking for his new wife, Ben's parents & family, and the Jackson family. Truly a tragic moment..... my heart aches for Mattie. We've lost a son and I can say from personal experience, its something you never get over. God helps carry you, but the ache in your never completely goes away....
Ohhhh this beautiful video...they were so in love. Life just isn't fair sometimes, and when you're someone strong in faith, its hard to not ask WHY LORD? WHY? I know its been 2 yrs, but after losing my son 7yrs ago, it still hurts like hell. Prayers for God's constant comfort.... He's truly the ONLY one who can give us healing.Sending my condolences very late as I just learned about this tragedy tonight. Love, and Healing prayers From Indiana 🙏💙🙏💙🙏
They had such a beautiful wedding and life together even with how short it was. I pray she remembers this for a lifetime bc a lot of people never experience a love this strong.
I don't know the Jackson family, but I know by Alan's music he has a deep love for life and family. Hang on to your faith and don't let this dark time turn your sweet family away from the face of God. It certainly does test one's faith, but then it can also make us much stronger in our faith. The video touches my heart. Such happiness. What a beautiful young man to have touched your family. God bless
Beautiful wedding! With her beautiful family for her special day & his family also, plus friends. God bless you all & especially in your future. 💘love you all.I 😍❤😘💓♥💗
As a fan of Alan, I've watched Mattie and her sisters grow up. I pray she'll be ok. I can't imagine the pain they must all be feeling. God watch and keep this family.
RIP Ben.28yrs old.. Soon young.. Died while helping a woman on a boat dock in Florida Wednesday he slipped and hit his head suffering traumatic head injuries... Prayers for the families & friends that God will help ease your burden & give you strength to endure such a tragic time in your lives..
Such an absolute tragedy!! My condolences to the entire Jackson/Selecman Families. May God cover each and everyone of you during such a difficult time. GOD BLESS
I watch this from time to time ...such happiness and love ... After been married 33 years this teaches u to love deep and cherish everyday.... Mattie my hearts gos out to you.... With love
Our Deepest Condolences to Mattie, the Jackson family and Ben Selecman Parents and families. Sending Comforting Prayers to All in their time of sorrow. God Bless May you RIP Ben.
My heart breaks dearly for Mattie & for the rest of the family & friends. May God be with her during this time of need & Especially to Ben's family my heart goes out with them & to there friends also.. God Bless! "Rip" Ben
EU NÃO GOSTE DE VER , ESTE VÍDEO DE BEN AND MATTIE JACKSON, POUS FICO TRISTE E SINTO UMA GRANDE DOR NO NEU CORAÇÃO PELAS DUAS FAMÍLIAS E REALNENTE PEÇO PARA DEUS ILUMINAR LÁ NO CÉU ESTE RAPAZ TÃO LINDO E TÃO FELIZ!!! QUE DEUS EM SUA GLÓRIA GUIE ESTA SUA FILHA MATTIE LHE SANDO PAZ AI SEU CORAÇÃO DE UMA LINDA MENINA. MARIA LÚCIA RIO DE JANEIRO BRAZIL
I know that your life has been totally turned upside down. I also became an unexpected widow when I was 27. Stand strong, believe in your faith. God, your family and friends will help you get through this. Praying for you daily that you will be able to find happiness once again. God bless you sweetheart
PRAYERS for you/your family for this most difficult time.....❤🇨🇦 I've been exactly where you are my dear ....God will embrace you.... upon him! ❤ I've been saying prayers for Mattie / family every day now since his passing ....my heart is so heavy with grief for this young woman . 💔
Rest In Peace young soul , this video is for sure the most beautiful and saddest at the same time .life is so unfair . I’m so sorry for your loss. My prayers to the families ❤️
So sorry to read this story. The video is priceless and something you will have in your hearts always. May God and his Son Yahshua be with you all to help you through this.Gone to soon for sure.
I have only just seen this, and I am so sorry to hear what happened. RIP Ben, it is heart breaking :( Such a lovely family, I am in tears watching this too :( I hope that the family still take comfort amongst themselves and their nearest and dearest. Sending my love and best wishes to them all x
Beautiful wedding very lovely family I'm very sorry itdidn't last for ever.I'm sure it would have I could tell you both loved each other dearly. God Bless you all.
What?? I look down to the comments & see “RIP Ben?” this is beyond sad!!! Oh I pray for Mattie & for Ben’s parents & Mattie’s parents in comforting her!!!❤️🙏
So sorry for the family and Mattie . this is a a wonderful family . God bless Mattie and all the family . He is in wonderful hands with or Lord . God watch over the family in this sad time. Prayers to all of you
So sorry for your loss. I know we are not suppose to question things but I know it is hard. Praying that you will lean on God. He will never leave you or forsake you.
I'm so sorry for your loss Mattie and families. You looked to be so in love on your beautiful wedding day. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God grant you serenity 🙏.
Amazing! Wasn’t that a blessing to be had before these young people parted ways. God bless this family. We will meet at The Father’s table one day soon. Can’t wait to hear the singing up there!🙏🏻❤️🕊🎼🎻
I've had to stop playing the music when I watch this. The video is so beautiful, their love jumps out of the screen. My heart breaks for Mattie and all who loved Ben. She is so inspiring in her strength and faith, Alan and Denise are surely proud of the strong woman she has become. I pray for Ben's soul, and for the broken hearts to heal. My fondest hope is that Mattie has love like that again in her life.
Fan of Quebec: R.I.P. M. Ben Selecman. My most sincere condolences to Mattie and all the family of Alan Jackson as well as the family Selecman and all his close friends our prayers are with you all. GOD BLESS
What a tragic thing to happen to your lively husband saving g someone's life cost him his life. God bless you Mattie and your family. Your story had me in tears. I know what your going through I lost my wonderful husband on our honeymoon.your husband will live on in your heart and memories and I bet he's watching over you from heavenxx
So touching! Beautiful wedding. Beautiful people. They owned the world for such a short time.I’m sorry life was cruel to them. We never understand why these things happen. I pray for all those involved. May God grant you peace and happiness. Others do care.
like Ben said in tyour wedding video, appreciate each day.. We never know... I know that I wouldn't pray my husband back from Heaven even if I could. I pray that you will come to peace in that same knowledge of his even greater happiness where he is now, Mattie. I'm so sorry your time together was so very short, but when you meet again it will be like having never parted, but with greater love. God bless your families with comfort and peace. Thank God you married a Christian Mattie. The only way you can now grieve and rejoice at the same time.
My thoughts and prayers go out to Mr.Allen Jackson and his beautiful family in the loss of your Son In-law May God be with you all at this very sad and difficult time in your lives.😥❤🙏
So beautiful and now so incredibly sad... Having lost my beautiful son at age 25, I can only pray that these families find comfort in the arms of a Living God who somehow “makes all things work together for good for them who love Him...,” I’m so sorry 🙏
Thanks for sharing your special day. My heart is so broken up bu this gone too soon. I believe God is on control but when o get to heaven I think I will ask God why. ? This is so above my pay grade. You are young and beautiful. I only rembemember one this?st my husband's comittal service. HE SAID TRUDY YOU KNOW WAYNE CANNOT BACK. BIHS. BUT LIVE FOR JESUS?AND YOU WILL SEE HIM AGAIN. Rip Ben. Maddie I know your pain . My prayers are?with you. I know it has been only a few yrs but that?wedding day you will remember always. NO one can explain why but God has a plan. We don't like this but I really believe He is?safe on Gods arms. Live for Jesus and you will be with him again. Prayers for you all. Like me it has been some very hard yrs. It is something we don't understand but some day we will know what this precious young man was taken especially while he was heping someone. . Hugs and prayers.
It’s amazing how you have build yourself on the Lord’s rock and even through the trajectory event you are still able to stand strong. Good luck with Nasheville.
Mattie & Ben...Ben was so estatic, you could feel him s love for you.. I could tell he was such a great person maybe he was too good for this Earth... Some people never know love that great, God bless you and ben r.est in peace with our dear Lord
TUDO NA VIDA PASSA... AQUI SÓ FICA AS AÇÕES BOAS QUE PRATICAMOS NA LEMBRANÇA DOS QUE NOS AMA DE VERDADE. DEUS ABENÇOE VOCÊ E TODA A SUA LINDA FAMÍLIA E QUE LÁ NO CÉU, DEUS ACOLHA EM SEUS BRAÇOS ESTE JOVEM QUE ELE CHAMOU PARA ENCANTAR O PARAÍSO.
MISERICÓRDIA SENHOR PELA ALMA DE BEN... QUE ELE ESTEJA COBERTO PELO MANTO SAGRADO E A BELA MATTIE SIGA A SUA VIDA COM MUITA PAZ, ALEGRIA E AMOR... SÓ DEUS SABE O PORQUÊ DE TUDO NESTA VIDA...
I never knew and I am so very sorry but it is no wonder God showed me Alan Jackson as a greater teacher than some and most... May the blood of Jesus cover this family always.
I has accidentally gave this a thumbs down sorry. I have never seen a more beautiful wedding video. So sorry for the loss to you and all the family and friends.
It is almost like there are dark forces that cannot handle beauty and happiness... Ben looked like a great guy, lots of fun and love for Mattie - amazing wedding, everything to look forward to in the future... Why couldn´t he stay on earth longer? And in such a freaky accident? I can´t even imagine what Mattie went through - one thing is never having it for one reason or another, another thing is to have it all and see it taken away from you in a split of a second, it beyond what any human being can stand... I hope Mattie´s family helped go through this tragedy... so sad... very very sad...
Life is not fair. I send my deepest sympathy to Maddie. No young Bride should have to deal with being a Widow. I became a Widow at 47 years old. I cannot imagine the strength she must have to be moving on with her life. So very sad!
