Nothing is surprising with Meghan! She meticulously studied her targets! Meghan needs to look back how she used to hug her own family and not abandon them!
Why would anyone think it would be appropriate to be wearing ripped jeans and no shoes or socks when meeting important family members. Even if you’re not Royal, it’s definitely a good idea to show some basic respect by wearing something presentable and maybe putting some socks and shoes on. 😂 This certainly proves that money can not buy class.
I am sure there is the delicate balance called respectful informality. And also, there is the saying: familiarity breeds contempt (it shouldn't but it does). As a sensitive person, I have been surprised and hurt countless times by my siblings in terms of their utter lack of respectful attitude when it comes to dealing with family. I know for certain that they do not behave like that when they are with their friends.
She may be explaining what she thought the royals would be like. She didn't have 12 years of training like Kate did. It would be challenging to change your lifestyle. Meghan was in her mid-30s when she met and married Harry. Kate was 19 or 20 when she was very slowly introduced to royal life. Fake or not, I don't think any 30 something American woman would adjust well to royal life. People need to cut this woman some slack.
@melanieyoung Meghan was not a young girl, she was in her mid 30’s and a jobbing actress. She wasn’t a shy unsure girl but a confident woman who was used to getting her way. William and Katherine didn’t know Meghan so why would they hug her? Meghan has caused so much upset.
@@infinityinfinity2253 I don't know why so much hate is being thrown at her. Its troubling. Harry accepted Kate from the beginning. He was probably thinking that Meghan would get the same warm reception. She didn't have years of training. But why do people have to bend to the will of the royal family? I guess it's a firm before family. The public likes seeing women being tossed to the wolves. Sadly, people get so much enjoyment from someone else unhappiness or abuse. But I'm sure you'll continue to hate Meghan. So go on and keep on hating.
Only celebrity's and Royal wear mask every single times they out or else how can they fate smile to all the idiots. Oh how i love this world so many idiots think those fate people care.
Of course it does! That is the future king and queen of England. What were you expecting for Kate to take off her shoes to and sit with you on the floor braiding each other's hair? It's laughable you think this way, and it's even more laughable that you tried to fault them [publicly for being who they are..... It gives off MAJOR jealousy vibes... Get help for that megan
Well in america we are cheek kissers to friends and family and hug. So if they r her in-laws or were Harry’s family that’s odd they wouldn’t like the hug.
Being royal is nothing special. They have earned anything, and therefore not to be admired. They were simply born to a certain person or married a certain person.
Did Harry and Meghan ever TALK??? Meghan keeps alleging, "I didn't know...", "I didn't realize...", "No one told me...". Shouldn't Harry have explained things to Meghan, especially as he continuously states how concerned he was about Meghan entering the RF and all the scrutiny that brings, both from the family (which can happen with all families when a new partner is introduced), from the country, and from the world? Wouldn't his deep concern have prompted him to explain to her, and to make make sure that the others whose role is it to explain to her were doing their job, all the things she would need to know to ensure a smooth transition?
Yes, Harry would of told her she just doesn’t listen to anyone only herself. If she is not controlling the narrative then she’s not interested. When it all goes wrong for them they play the blame card. Never taking responsibility. Narcissists will lie when confronted for their evil behaviour and go to ridiculous lengths to be right..
I dont get the complaint of formality by meghan. I'm half asian and we have formality in the family. I have to address my older siblings a certain way. I had to bow to relative elders and be formal with them. I find nothing wrong with it. I guess she just wanna say --hey look at me im more relatable, not will and kate.
@@FrenchFiligood point. And even if William and Catherine are not formal with everybody, they have the right to maintain more distance from people they don’t know well or don’t like, I.e. Meagain.
That is perfectly said. Can't take the 'hood' out of her. Completely out of her depth and got so angry about her position within the pecking order. Good riddance to Bad trash.
I am mexican, my partner is german. Before meeting his family i asked him about their customs so i knew how it was appropriate for me to behave (turns out they are super relaxed 🙂). My point is, if you are getting into a new culture, and specially if you want to have a good relationship with them, it's just common sense to ask how things are done... 1. You cannot expect people to behave the same everywhere you go. That is just fully ignorant (or arrogant?) 2. It's about your partner, you want to have a good relationship with his family because you love this person, so you are the one to adapt. Its not about you! I am sorry but I find her painfully fake and annoying.
Miss International Relations degree. Tossing around the word global nonstop but can't be bothered to understand or respect other cultures. She's sickening.
I think she was trying to imply that they were somehow artificial with her in private by still behaving with “front-facing” manners- whereas she was so real and authentic in her Cali girl style, and being a hugger.
Translation : "I ignored the culture I had married into and just stuck to mine. I thought they were all just pretending to be British, I didn't believe they were actually culturally British."
@@AkireMaruhey sugar, do YOU know what the word narcissist means? If you look up the word narcissist in the dictionary you will see a picture of the zgrade Cable television actress😂😂😂
@@jessemiranda326She was in a royal residence, not California. When you make an effort with your appearance you honour your guest Basic manners wherever you dine
@@jessemiranda326A zasto to ,ja mislim da dugo ,dugo vremena NEKULTURNIJA osoba nije dosla u tu familiju ,kao slon u staklenu bastu ,znaci bilo gde da dodjes ,moras se normalno ponasati u javnom prostoru i takvo sto se ne moze tolerisati
She wanted to look humble and naive girl so the RF would think she was a good match for Harry ! Not everyone is CA is like her . I’m 🍊 county and let me tell not true ! She is just rude ! You won’t meet the president looking like a homeless not respect
I detest the way Meghan says Brits, it so disrespectful. Meghan is a big hugger because she doesn’t respect anyone’s boundaries and personal space. She demands to be too familiar too soon. Her hugging is to establish control. Disgusting 🤮.
What is that even supposed to mean? They are just Brits. They’re regular people who have generational wealth and tyranny over a nation. You pay taxes to fund their lifestyles because what, God deemed them “royals?” 🤡
We brits love to hug, we just don't hug someone the first time we meet them, especially not when we meet the future king and Queen of England, it's polite and basic etiquette.
dont worry William and Catherine did not trust her ITS CALLED BASIC INSTINCTS and yes she reminds me of Sharon Stone in that Movie ,Harry you better dodge any ice picks coming your way😅
I think that speaks for most humans. Meghan doesn't realize that people have personal space and can choose not to hug if they choose. It doesn't mean they are not nice.
She was too immature to respect another person's way. Who blabs their feelings publicly against their families. Not fit for any respectable job, especially being able to give grace to those who are different.
“Jarring for a lot of Brits” is a kind of racist comment, hugging isn’t for people in other cultures too, it’s a human preference not anything specific to Brits.
Agreed. I’m an American, and not a hugger. People who are though seem to make being “not a hugger” out to be a personality defect instead of a differing preference. Like, how dare you not want me in your personal space wrapping my body around you out of nowhere. I don’t know how a person in a situation where they are meeting new people decides that keeping their hands to themselves until they know the person well is is wrong, and touching them a bunch is right. And then going after them later to complain they didn’t want to be touched a bunch…? Wild. I used to be so on her side when they were engaged.
yes, but it goes both ways, snobbish Brits or obnoxious Americans... there is the clash. and neither sides were backing down. it has been interesting to witness. Harrys at fault for not informing her, about it all and the why behind it all, and supporting her to be respectful or at least understanding of their Royal British Culture instead of making fun of it. but then. maybe its time it does need to be scrutinized???
@@vickiegibbons8765 it was confirmed by palace staff that she received proper training for over 6 months before her wedding. She even took some classes from the Queen herself. I don't think there is any excuse to her behavior.
Meg was being aggressive. She dressed like she was doing yard work and invaded personal space. Red flags were flapping for William and Kate from the start. Meg has off putting way about her.
they are suppose to be family / close friends/ no formality needed . but i think meghan has it wrong maybe she was trying to hard to them to be seen as better - more warm and real and they didnt like her
Her saying i didnt knoe hugging is a bit jarring for a lot of Brits is like saying Brits dont like hugging they are cold and heartless? Maybe but Brits love their families especially our Dads UNLIKE YOU
@@KnockOnWood-sw3iulike Meghan isn't middle class lol probably even lower than Kate because Kate's family history has nobility in them. Her Ancestry is full of Aristocrats
Not everyone is a hugger. You may be a hugger, but if someone isn't comfortable with physical affection, you have to respect that. You are not better because you like hugs.
Indeed us Brits are not huggers we just don't.. Its a good old handshake.. I only hug my kids/grandkids.. My god I don't even hug my partner of 32 years 🤣
@@elenakosseva5064 If you try to hug me having only just met me it’s anything but a sign of affection. It’s an invasion of my space and I’ll tell you not to try again.
She is dangerously jealous of Princess Catherine.Before she even met her she had it out for Catherine and the Royal Family One of the most calculating manipulative woman on the planet.
You can see how evil she is through her eyes. She's giving word salad and is "stabbing" at the same time and thinks people can't see through that. She's a hugger to strangers as she ignores her father and causes him great harm.
I'm pretty rebellious and wanting to be my own person, but even I would not wear ripped jeans and no shoes upon meeting my future husband's family for the first time. I would also read the room to determine what made them feel comfortable and respect that.
apparently (i'm no expert, i just heard this somewhere, can't remember where) that's a common technique for narcissists' - do something SO 'normal' and 'down to earth' when you meet someone the first time, and then hold it against them when they are startled by that... again, i'm no expert, i just picked that bit up sometime when someone else said this (eh - maybe even in context of meghan?)
@@rachelpeters1927 the British royal family is so ridiculous. They have absolutely no power and always act like they’re above everyone while spending the British citizens’ taxes on huge vacations, cars and luxurious events. The only reason that family still has this kind of social status is the fact that otherwise no one would visit London so think again about wether or not you should respect them
How she tries to play both sides is so irritating- like I’m the smartest person in the room yet I know nothing about meeting anyone, let alone royals and my future husbands (prince’s) family for the first time. She really is unbearable.
I have a psychology degree and this is classic passive aggressive. She makes Kate out to be the aggressor and herself to be the victim (yet again). Her jealousy of Kate is palpable.
Exactly!🙏🇬🇧 She thinks she v clever (& she really isn't) & every comment out of her mouth - no matter who she's talking about, is that others "are wrong" or "st*pid" - buy that she, Meghan "is perfect" (& just misunderstood/attacked - bc she's perfect & brilliant & marvellous & wonderful (& that others "just arent" - & so they "are jealous" It is ALL just nausea inducing & she's fooling nobody This story though - is categorically untrue - she was actually dressed up like a dogs dinner in a skin tight black cocktail dress with plunging neckline & dripping in flashy (U S Designer) jewellery & 5 inch heels - for a family dinner on a Friday or Saturday night, "in the Country" - where any Nobility types wear clean/pressed but casual clothes (checked shirts & a sweater maybe, jeans, boots/flat shoes - Pr Wm probably in cords & checked shirt - waxed jacket if they go outside etc. This story itself is laughable (they meet Actual A Listers often. They weren't going to be fazed by some Z List, glorified extra Wannabe🙏💜🇬🇧💜 & Everybody curtsies to the Queen - in private or not.. (boohoo🙄😌)
Yes it is. Jealousy is all that I see when this woman appears somewhere, or opens her mouth. Envy for what William & Catherine have literally motivates her. She has a obsession with Kate, all of the images caught of her eyeballing her sister in law prove it.
She’s dangerous in my view and capable of anything. Interesting that she has been effectively distanced whether she likes it or not from the object of her pathological envy and her children.
She's just trying to make herself sound down to earth but she's not. No one is buying your lies Meghan. When she first came on the scene and they announced their engagement I gave her the benefit of the doubt despite what people were already saying about her. Six years down the line, I can understand what people were saying.
On behalf of everyone who gave her a chance and still does, we thank you for taking the time to " give her the benefit of the doubt". YOU will be missed..... at some point.
If that were true, she wouldn’t be such an accomplished woman in her own right, be an ambassador for World Vision, and wouldn’t have the huge number of accomplished friends. Can’t say that about other members of the royal family. Oh, is that perhaps why she doesn’t fit into your royal family, and why you feel you need to bring her down?
@@heleneuntch1964 ... if you want to like her, admire her and defend her.... Go ahead! But as for me, I will call her out for being a big liar and yes.... She's SO unlikeable! 😀😀
I fully agree with you! Can’t admire such fake woman. She lies and lies to try to get what she wants, use people as disposable objects, lie thinking we are all idiots and can’t find her lies out!🤦🏼♀️ Strange still people defending her.
Respect goes both ways. H&M invited W&K to a casual, private dinner. Their dinner, their rules. Besides, being royal is nothing special. They have not earned it, and therefore nothing to be admired. They were simply born to a certain individual or married a certain individual. If you can’t be casual with your brother at dinner, it says a lot about you.
Meghan became a well known public figure after her entrance in British Royal Family. So 'being Royal' may not be special, but the Royal title can help you to catch the limelight. Nowadays she is drawing the public attention by criticizing the Royal Family, specifically the Prince and Princess of Wales.
In her head, they’re lucky to meet her. She said something similar about Harry. People said you are lucky to have caught a prince and she said ‘he’s lucky to have caught me’. 🙄
The whole purpose of this idiotic comment about curtsying is because she is unbearably JEALOUS of Princess Catherine - so much so that it kills her to think that she will one day have to curtsy to Catherine every time she sees her for the rest of her life (assuming her marriage to Harry lasts) She would rather leave the UK than have to curtsy to someone she is insanely JEALOUS of.
@@cq8822 Agreed. even if is the brother of William, is still the future king, and you are not even married. She never met them before and she actually expected them to jump around and ...hug her back ??? she really has her own twisted ideas about how manners and respect work.
@@KnockOnWood-sw3iu So what everyone has their own way of doing something the culture I come from people are huggers but the country where I live in people aren't huggers.
This was Meghan’s lack of understanding the British culture. It’s not just formal with royals. I married a British man and my mother in law would invite me over for dinner parties. Everyone also dressed very nicely, the table was set immaculately, three course meal of appetisers, mains and a dessert which was normally chocolate lava cakes. It’s lovely and I love these formal dinner parties. Can you imagine having a dinner party with the ROYALS and walking around barefoot in jeans?! I’m American and even I KNOW that is not what’s done. She makes us look ignorant.
That’s how I’m used to dinner parties being done as well. I know it’s individual between families, but we use it as a reason to get dressed nicely and make something that takes a bit more effort to eat. Even if it was an informal dinner I still would dress a bit more nice than I do when I’m just at home alone, just like I do when I go to work or even to the store. I live in Norway and not Britain.
Most of my family was born and raised in the UK and nobody eats at a table or dress unless it’s important like having family who they haven’t seen in a long time coming over. So its not all brits .. so i assume Meg didn’t know that she had to be so formal even in her own home.. idk about anybody else but for me if i had to do that i would feel fake and I can’t do fake last time I checked these ppl are not God.
Never said anything about prince Andrew. Don't you find that strange? Yet her supporters scream about prince Andrew but neither harry nor meghan have ever publicly said anything about Andrew. So everyone else was fair game.
MM is excruciating pathetic. I’m so cool and laid back” is that why you didn’t build a bridge to Royal family for your husband but instead he’s broken all ties and you got him to write a book dragging them thru the mud.
I’m not royal but hate for people who just met me, to hug me. Take it easy…we could well do that when we know each other better but before that time…respect personal boundaries. 😊
I never believed this story, just like so many of theirs. No way did she dress like that, she's too full of herself and wanted William. She just makes up anything in the moment. This was to make herself seem breezy and youthful and friendly, Catharine as stiff and stuffy. Doesn't work.
I am a South African and I am definitely not a hugger. In fact I hate hugs from randoms. Gurl to me you are a random and to most folk like me, who hate hugs your pawing is unwelcome. Get off people and respect personal space🙏🙏
Meghers set out to ‘expose’ Royal Fam and did so, but not in way she intended lol Never gave them 2nd glance until hearing her complain of their authenticity. Lol
It's so funny, I had no Idea that Princess Catherine was as sweet and polite in private as she is in public. now we know, she is just as respectful irl. She even gifted her personal lip gloss to this one.. Did she really expect people to take her side on all of these perceived slights? I think she just makes Americans look so uncultured and whiney 😳 I mean people usually try to be their best when meeting future in-laws (never mind, royal ones) but this chick chose to wear her best trailer trash suit 😅
Who in their right mind, when meeting relatives for the first time, would be barefoot and in ripped jeans? Add to that the fact that you are meeting a future King and Queen. Has she any sense at all, or does she think she's above behaving like other people?
@@michellemuldrew827 you don’t have to want to be british to decide that it’s probably a good idea to show etiquette to someone you’re meeting for the first time, no matter their background or status
It’s called being sincere, so she’s complaining that who they are is who they really are, not two faced, like her. Fair enough. I’ll take my people being the same behind closed doors as they are in public. It’s called integrity.
I can see them looking at each other in disbelief at the horror they just experienced And thinking ooh that's over. How naive🤣🤣 It's still going on and the rest of us are now unwillingly dragged into witnessing "This Spectacle" Someone please make it end😭
Even if my in laws were coming I would make sure to dress well. Imagine them being royals, I would do my best to play the part. It’s not that hard, it’s called respect.
@@elenakosseva5064I think it’s more about having class. If you’re meeting your future in laws you want to look presentable. You want to impress. It is a little strange, but I mean you do you.
Everyone sees the absolute insanity in her eyes, right? This one is a mad dog. Catherine is a very warm person and she demonstrates that constantly. If she didn’t want to hug a mad dog, Can you blame her?
I am not a Royal, but if anyone I didn’t know came to hug me, I would be quite stiff. This isn’t about formality, or anything like that, this is about RESPECT FOR SOMEONE’S PERSONAL SPACE!
@@patriziaschiazza9620 common sense, most people do not enjoy hugging strangers. Especially if you are worldwide known royal, of course one would keep the distance when they first meet someone.
Greeting the future king and queen in bare feet and ripped jeans is demeaning and insulting. You knew the protocol! She's showing her narcissistic behavior.
She doesn’t respect boundaries in typical narcissistic fashion. She brings her LA tree hugging culture and manipulative flattery around people who are different to her and projects all of her rejection and insecurity onto them if they don’t make infinite space for her. She’s very rude minimally.
@@hswan ..Oh she reads them all right 🤣🤣 They spend every day surfing youtube trying to take chanels down for stating facts about their diabolical behaviour 🤣🤣
Well I always thought that the royals would be acting to their family members the same way I would act to my family members. And I would not curtsy to my grandparents or parents or siblings- I would hug my siblings spouse when meeting or congratulating. But those things are cultural also. Some countries you wont hug, but you give kisses on the cheek or something else.
Many people have a more formal approach towards strangers until they feel comfortable enough to let go (especially in this case where they don’t know if you’re not just someone trying to infiltrate and capitalize on your stories with them).
I love how Meghan didn’t realize the contrast between her looking like a hillbilly in a truckers hat and Kate looking regal in a clean dress isn’t doing Meghan any favors 😂
I mean I’ve been to and helped family out with dinner parties and though I don’t always dress the nines I try to look presentable. Of course I probably have more scruples about my dress now that I’m older and I would never dress down to meet the in laws. It is weird.
I m a moroccan and when we invite someone for dinner even if it's my brother and his wife, we dress properly and we serve the best dinner. It's just good manners... I m shocked about being barefoot with jeans with ROYALS !
What William and Catherine have is dignity , and respect for their own personal space …. Its called healthy boundaries……., this snarky mocking of their care for personally boundaries is a predatory move to dismantle their character.
What a terrible person. She is so condescending. I’m an American and I find it very hard to believe ANYONE is fooled by Megan and Harry Markle. Im not a gushing fan of any of the royals but, WOW. These two grifters are something else.
Meghan really thinks that every public figure is a fake. That’s what I’m taking out of this. So Meghan, how are we supposed to believe you’re genuine, caring, loving individual when that’s only you when the cameras are on you? If anything, you’re only proving to all of us that Kate and William are honest people, with class and respect, something we all can safely assume is the protocol for royalty.
First meetings are always a bit formal. SHE is a hugger, but a hugger cannot be storming her way into the private space of someone. That’s very uncomfortable. What is wrong with being formal? For crying out loud, she married into a royal family. You might consider this.
When I first met my non royal boyfriends family I made sure to dress well and be respectful of boundaries. We are a lot more causal now and we hug as well at this point. Its just common sense to be a bit more formal with people you just met.
Do you think retailers talk to their family members the same way they talk to their customers? People appear one way at work, and another at home. Meghan treated this role has a job, why? Because it is. She's a "working royal". Doesn't make her any less genuine or the other royals any more genuine.
@@kessa892 but when you look at it that way you also don’t work with your family everyday or go on public engagements with your family day in and day out and she was a working Royal till her and Harry officially left being working Royals they wanted to live a private life where their children wouldn’t grow up as in the public eye as what either Harry or William did. Also did you not hear or see anything about the ridiculous proposal they made to Justin Trudeau about if they make their permanent residence Canada if the country of Canada would pay for their entire security
@@tazm2820 Yeah but the OP is arguing that somehow the other royals are more genuine than MM because their public and private behaviours are similarly sanitised (except for Andrew, as far as we know). I say not, for the fact that millions of genuine people go to work everyday and adopt a slightly different persona to help them navigate their jobs. Doesn't mean they're less real than people who work alongside family and are finding it difficult to disentangle the public and private spheres. Yeah, I just googled it. Apparently the Canadian govt was in 'discussions' about it 2 years ago, but it never came to fruition. Also, H&M didn't make this proposal to Trudeau. 'Security experts' (whatever that means) said that the Canadian government may have a legal obligation to bankroll security for H&M because of their royal status. So no, no need to upset yourself over it, it obviously didn't happen and H&M didn't ask.
@@tazm2820 your kidding us right? Choosing to live in a peaceful life yet you throw out huge BOMB, CRITICIZING YOUR SUPPOSED TO BE FAMILY. She's trying to live her life on her imagination. Everyone knows, being royals or highly socialite people knows how to behave in formality. Manners. I don't hate , but i don't really like she's using the legacy of Princess Diana on a wrong perception. She's truelly a fake.
@@kessa892 I don’t know how you figured I was upset by stating facts and my own opinion on it the OP was saying if MM is describing how they act in public (concerning formality) is how they are in private and all she’s saying is that if that’s how they really are then why is it terrible in my view of her comment she’s talking about William and Kate just like MM did everyones allowed to have their own views and opinion on the matter.
