99% of woman dont knoe what the f..they want in ther life so they are pathetic and misrable ..they dont know how to coup with stress for them all is men falt they cant control ther fealings and cant undrstand shit moust of the time ..in short they are only capeble of spewing shit how other need to live and they them selfe dont know how to live so they buy all kinde of shit to make them happy and still dos not make them happy ..they want men to reed ther minde but they have nothing to read about if woman and men are book woman wood be title and story wood be men ..in short if they are not shown the way they dont know what they are or to do if they dont finde a men by 30-40 they get 10 cats and become biter and angry whole life they dont know wtf they want or who the f .they are we think they are weak i say they are predators pretending to be weak . They live a weak life whit ful of hatrede thats why no woman likes other woman and they think men is a posesion of hers.. They cant invent anything they can only mimic thats how they go true life copying other woman and espesely men .. We can see that in history espesly last 100 years you can see they didnt invent 1 thing becos they dont have brain capacity to create yust copy .. You can be ofended but its true all 1000%
5 point important point that everyone can benefit from 1.Don't give unsolicited advice 2.Understand people need space sometimes 3.Listen to people when they alk 4.It's the little thing that count 5.When someone is upset,don't take words literally-try to understand underlying issue
I’ve been a counselor since 2007 and Must tell you he is spot on. It doesn’t matter what you’re identifying as, we are wired differently, still two brains Mars and Venus. Read the book it’s still gold. Nice video though
The person sharing probably doesn't want to know. They have already made their mind up. Fact is there are only two set's of chromosomes. No matter what problem we have with being who we were born.
No. Not really. It's not like two different planets. It's more like women are a mansion and dudes are a shack. But dudes can improve themselves if they just work at it. A little bit of training as a boy goes a long way. A long way toward making us basically the same in the end. Ultimately, we are the same. We want love and understanding and respect. It's time to stop highlighting differences that are created by a synthetic social structure, and start looking at the organic way to live. The healthy way. And in that world, again, we are the same for all intents and purposes. Women are the same inside our heads as you are. Really stop and think about that. Think about how you would feel if the planet were half populated by huge g 4 y dudes and you had to interact with them. Because that's close to the way women feel on a planet with 50% men.
OnePercentBetter Behavior of a group of people will reveal trends of common traits, this is a fact. Men and women are generally different and this is seen in all species. At the same time of course we are both human.
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This book helped me understand things about men that I did not before: 🔥men pulling away and needing space from time to time. 🔥men wanting acknowledgment as women want empathy these differences were so big to understand but I am trying to remember these consciously. thanks for the great video bro
yeah I understand where you are coming from. I am a guy and I feel like a woman in accordance to some of the points in this book lol but I am a man that has a value on love. through what I have studied in philosophy, science and experience
Some women can be more masculine and some men can be more feminine. It's super okay. It's even so rare to find a perfectly feminine woman or a perfectly masculine man.
This book saved my parents marriage. And I'm glad I have read this book because it has helped me tremendoulusly not to snap at women and take them literally as I used to. In fact I gave this book to my gf and she is far more understanding now. I would say this is the greatest love advice to come out in the pre-SJW-everything-is-gay-dont-offened-me-with-violent-language-diversity-over-integrity generation the millenials have brought about.
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Millennials didn't do that, silly. That was in the works long before you had a clue of it. Lol. And yes, you don't need to take women literally all the time. We're joking at least half of the time, and dudes are sitting here like wow really you mean it? Lmfao. Grow a brain, dude.
Anthony Robbins: The most important factor in a relationship is consciously choosing your mate before you get into the relationship. Start by making a list of what you seek in a partner. Then underline your must's. Last, ask yourself: What type of person would I have to become to attract that partner, then set about becoming that person. Men are From Mars women are from Venus Will not help much if you are simply with the wrong partner.
I do not agree with him. First, he has divorced once. Secondly, after you found the one you think she is perfect for you, and after you got into relationship with her, it is very probably you will find her completely different comparing her before a relationship with you, because she now needs and sees you in another way, and at that point you come back and take the advice of this book to make your relationship better.
So you're saying that once you are with the right person, you will never have any misunderstanding with your loved one? No. This book is not about finding the right person, it's about gender differences, that's all.
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Hey all! I read this around a year ago. I've found its helped me a bunch! As I state at the end, take the advice objectively for best results. Let me know what you think. -Brandon
Really Awesome man... You are doing really great .I luvd everything in this video .Gave great understanding of this book, Keep on doing like this. Wishing and Thanking you in advance...
This book helped me a lot especially after engagement...we got married after one year..and even now I can totally understand him and also our life is wonderful 😊
This is so accurate to my relationship, its scary! I feel I am very understanding when it comes to my boyfriends needs, he needs space, doesn't understand the underlying meanings etc. I certainly will try to make him watch this and take into account the things said in hope of improving our relationship. The problems in our relationship are basically the ones listed in the video! Hope it all works out, thanks for the help
Well many of us are aware of underlying meanings but most of the time we're too tired and exhausted (because of work or other probles) to dig deeper, just choose better time to be poetic 😉
John Gray is the master at relationships! Congratulations to him and his wife Lin Wang on their marriage May 4, 2020. He never knew his true soul mate we be so close to him. (Lin was his tour guide and translator in China for many years). All of his books and teachings have led to this beautiful relationship. And they are growing family!
I read this book about 2 years ago and i just LOVE the solutions mentioned in the book. So practical. I have seen couples having issues that are described in the book. How could one say it's not worth to read? I have tried a few lessons given and they worked. I think every lesson worth a million if it really improves your life and it DID !!! One of my Favorite books. I highly recommend to everyone.
I always need space from everyone including my family. 24/7. I'm social.when i have to be or when the time comes but damn I spending time with people when i should be by myself learning and doing what i love.
Wow I have a lot of "male" behavior then...😅 I like to be direct, not speaking between the lines and also isolate myself to deal with stress. I do like sharing my feelings tho, but not always. And I often get misunderstood too for saying things too literally Am I a woman from Mars? 😂
I've found myself in the same situation. What I've even noticed is that my partner makes generalizations when he's upset and prefers to talk about what's going on in his mind. I am on the opposite side - I need space and alone time to figure out what's going on and handle stress better. I think it might depend on two things: 1. If you're an introvert or an extrovert. (i'm introverted, he's extroverted) 2. If you grew up mainly around boys or mainly around girls (I was around boys and men for the majority of my life and got along better with them; my partner was surrounded mostly by girls and women while growing up so we both had to learn to speak the other gender's language) What I want to assure you is that you're not less feminine or masculine because of the way you react to different situations. I percieve myself as a feminine woman and see my partner as a masculine man. You have the right to choose what you want to be and who you want to become. (also I hope I don't offend anyone because of all that "gender" talk)
I believe this is wrong. I believe men and women both have femininity and masculinity in them. One can choose to balance or be in tune mostly with either of them. Men can be just as caring as women. And women can be just as manly (I think this word does not fit here. Maybe, aggressive?) as men. Either way, both are needed for balance. If everybody became just ‘manly’, I do not think society would could withhold this. And the same KFH if everybody became only caring. This balance is being lost in our world.
This makes me very doubtful of benefits of a relationship. why should i spend most of my life building resources to provide for a woman that won't ever love me unconditionally or support me emotionally? it seems every time i've shared about my troubled past with someone, people freak out and leave. I just want to live a life of peace and happiness, and from experiences so far with women i become more and more cold of a human being. The white picket fence, nuclear family home dream is only that, just a dream.
First time viewer and I had to subscribe! Finished this book last week and while it may be outdated it is still filled with great knowledge like you said! I seriously consider this a good book that can help many relationships
First time seeing this but one thing I don't understand is when my wife and I argues if I stay quiet she gets even more paranoid because I'm not talking back to her 🤔
This work has been a classic for decades. There are always exceptions to any theories, but I dont find it sexist. I think the author is correct in his studies of Male and female behavior and communication patterns. I don't think it's sexist to note how genders typically respond to things. If so, we wont be able to publish any research from the social sciences. "Not all" is already understood, apply what is relevant in your own life.
Ok. if this be the reality of women, I think they are useful for only sex. for sharing feelings and problems, we must go to our man friends who can empathize and give workable solutions.
99% of woman dont knoe what the f..they want in ther life so they are pathetic and misrable ..they dont know how to coup with stress for them all is men falt they cant control ther fealings and cant undrstand shit moust of the time ..in short they are only capeble of spewing shit how other need to live and they them selfe dont know how to live so they buy all kinde of shit to make them happy and still dos not make them happy ..they want men to reed ther minde but they have nothing to read about if woman and men are book woman wood be title and story wood be men ..in short if they are not shown the way they dont know what they are or to do if they dont finde a men by 30-40 they get 10 cats and become biter and angry whole life they dont know wtf they want or who the f .they are we think they are weak i say they are predators pretending to be weak . They live a weak life whit ful of hatrede thats why no woman likes other woman and they think men is a posesion of hers.. They cant invent anything they can only mimic thats how they go true life copying other woman and espesely men .. We can see that in history espesly last 100 years you can see they didnt invent 1 thing becos they dont have brain capacity to create yust copy .. You can be ofended but its true all 1000%
I think this book is also useful, because as a woman now I know how hard it is for some man to understand my approach and behaviour during an argument. It'll help a lot in my business and private life too.
Good read. Most of the points stated are very relatable but it focuses on what men should do and accommodate rather than what the women should do. Nevertheless, this book will help me in my relationship.
Women these days prefer men with massive cash the book is inaccurate when it comes to wealth only sincere women prefer things he is talking about not for gold diggers
Really good video, I read the book a few months ago, but I feel that this book is a little bit outdated but still has some good advice like the one you mentioned. Great Video!!
+OnePercentBetter The best one that I took from the book was probably to not take a woman's word literally, but instead I look at her body language and hear her tone, to understand what she means.
+LonelyBookaneer Oath to the tone of voice! Over the past 2 years Ive found my girl's tone of voice reveals everything. We were playing a trivia card game the other day and she wpuld read out 3 possible answers to me. By paying attention, I noticed she would put less emphasis on the two answers that weren't right, which would leave me with the correct answer! In real life situations when she asks something like - "Brandon, do you want go to the movies, or the beach?" She already knows exactly what she wants but its up to me to pick the right one xD I listen to her tone of voice yet again, and the order in which she says the options. I swear she always says her perference as the first option... Hehe, girls are funny.
No single thing is a panacea. 5 fruit and veg per day; 10,000 steps, BMI of 35; BP= 115/75. Taken together, risks are reduced, not eliminated. Add in 'The 5 Love Languages', and we have half a chance of becoming better people.
Don't give unsolicited advice to your partner ?? Don't try and solve her problems ?? Give praise and re-assurance ?? ... Try and read through what she is really saying ??? ... Man, Men are from Mars but Women are a pain in the backside
I have read this book recently and find it so relatable. What we see as correct attitude apparently is not the case. Overall, its a fun read and a great learning experience
I just view my wife as amazing when she is interested in interacting instead of viewing her phone and fighting my affection. If I can't get her to talk because her phone is more important. There is something lost.
I think there are differences between men and women that nobody can fight against them. We are different, there are some things that men do that us women can never do and viceversa.
That's okay Sarah :) I may be doing a review on 'The Way of The Superior Man by David Deida' - Personally I think this 'Alpha Male' stuff is bullshit. Whether you're biologically male or female, many of us have feminine and masculine tendencies. I can relate in a sense - I'm quite feminine myself. When I'm with my girlfriend, we equally share the role of small spoon and big spoon when cuddling xD That's just one of many examples. Anyway, it's important to work out how you operate on an individual level and then try your best to communicate with your partner! That's my two sense.
John Gray has sold a massive amount of books for NOT having a higher rating with his peers!? Are other professionals in his field JELLY?......jus sayin? In my opinion his insight and analysis is spot on in many areas of male-female communication and connectivity. His analysis shouldn't be interpreted as a one size fits all for every relationship, but there are many take aways from his research and advice. He obviously connected with, and still connects, with millions of people, and that speaks volumes about his personal and professional charecteristics.
THESE BOOKS & SOCALLED MOVEMENTS HAVE SOCIALIZED WOMEN TO THINK THIS WAY..MY GRANDMOTHER WAS ALWAYS DIRECT IN COMMUNICATION! ITS HELPFUL TO LEARN HOW TO COMMUNICATE WITH EVERYONE IN EVERY CULTURE . BUT ALL THESE PEOPLE DO IS NORMALIZE THE INDIRECT BS...IF MY CHILD IS LOST HER MOTHER WONT FEEEEL BETTER BY JUST TALKING ALONE!!..MOST PROBLEMS NEED SOLUTIONS
This book was very interesting but I wonder how it holds up today with the whole gender debate. I'm a dude and whilst I certainly can relate to the whole man cave thing I also like to vent ALOT. And I definitely know how annoying it is when you're venting to someone and all the other person wants to do is tell you what to do. I also don't think it's just me either, I've seen guys on RU-vid who like to rant about stuff for entertainment.
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Thank you for this brief on the book. I am reading it now for the first time have avoided because thought it generalised too much. However would agree with common behaviour differences. Though I have known men who would talk all day long so they obviously feel this need too not just women. I like the main points you made as in some ways this book is more complicated than it needs to be. Peoples attitudes can really have a big affect in any relationship not just close relationships which I don't think John Gray goes into.
