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Not just crazy = crazy + what else? AND your crazy causes me misery -- how can I interact with your crazy, so as not to drag you down, and or not get miserable myself?
Understanding the biochemistry of relationships utterly validates his insightful, and often comical, explanations of behaviors. The reality and lightness with which he addresses so many issues is hugely helpful. Thank you, John Gray.
Love listening to John Gray. I've always had questions about a couple of failed relationships in my past. And now I understand why, Because everything he explains and teaches us makes 100% sense! Thank you for the answers. 🙏💖
I agree 100% with him. He is not politically correct but he is right. You may dispute on theoretical grounds but if you observe people and are honest with yourself - that's what you get. I think we should redefine equality in a few ways - instead of pushing women into the choice between women's world (emotionally happy but underpaid, not appreciated, not recognized) and men's world (well paid, successful but unhappy) - we should leave women more ground to create their own ways, to merge the two. That's true respect and that would solve the problem.
@Sophie It seems to have it's origins at the universities, which have become toxic due to feminism. The feminist professors of the past few decades have successfully brainwashed the graduates who are now running media and teaching future generations.
I agree 100%. As a feminist and stereotypical strong woman I avoided this book after reading the complaints in the reviews but after the dissolution of my last relationship I realized everything he said was true despite how much I didn’t want to believe it and was taught the opposite in society and school
@@dbsk06. Brave of you to admit that. Interesting how it can take a crisis to nudge us into opening our mind to an alternative way of thinking. I lament the time I’ve wasted in my life rejecting such sound, reasonable, scientifically based advice.
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I must be in Zen mode @58 permanently 😌 I do not experience the cycles of need and getting it on vs craziness anymore...in fact the thought of giving up the peace of abstinence scares the shit out of me! My new found estrogen has become no drama less stress and a peace that passeth all understanding 🙏 😊
This makes sense to me because it’s based on science and biology, there are so many relationship gurus teaching manipulate tactics that if put into practice never work, because ultimately its against nature.
sugarsnap1000 I think those gurus teach how to be a narcissist in relationships because sadly narcissistic people are charming and get a lot of dates...before destroying them, of course 😩
Oh men....I simply like Dr John..he has understood the real science. Thanks a ton for dis deep pearls of wisdom and making marriages prosper to ultimate point
You share kids, who have your grandkids (your legacy). You have holidays together, and create memories. Someone to nurse you when you are sick , and cheer your successes. Just make sure about the person, their maturity, and kindness. " Measure twice, cut once". " Look before you leap", ....Ben Franklin.
Talking & compromising is only possible if one is lacky to be married to emotionally healthy person or an empath. If one is married to narcissist, sociopath or psycopath you got to do everything their way & even when you do they are never happy. No amount of sex can fix marriage to toxic person!!! Majority of people is clueless about these types of people. They are everywhere(men & women). Needles, to say they are not capable of loving anybody.
Its so scary how frequently and casually these "medical diagnosis needed" terms such as narcissistic and toxic humans are thrown around and often used in place of accountability, accepting personal responsibility, understanding each person is only in control of their own selves and accepting others for who they are rather than demanding everyone change as we see fit and best not try and control us oh hell no!!! Healthy people do not suddenly unsuspectingly innocently end up in one sided, blame free, unhealthy, icky relationships and actual narcissistic personality disorder diagnosed individuals are quite rare!
Thank you for bring up the war and women 'needing' to work. The womens movement wasn't all about women wanting to push their testosterone. So many women have had no choice. Men walk out, just like you said.
I mainly follow greta berishatas work but i love learning about the science behind what makes us masculine or feminine. Keep going with the videos please.
I love this . I am laughing about the truth. It’s actually a reality which I now understood, by listening to you Dr Gray. Thanks for your wisdom. If I could rebirth my previous marriage. Well done.
Thank you John, I thought I had a lot more figured out about relationship dynamics at age 52 but apparently there were key areas that I was seriously lacking in. Also the hormonal aspect has been extremely enlightening. Bless you 🙏💫
John Gray's advice to both men and women deals with the problem from the roots unlike all these wannabe "relationship gurus" who aren't even certified psychologists who give you only a quick temporary fix band-aid advice but the ulcer in the relationship never gets healed and remains because there is no genuine appreciation in the difference behind a man's and a woman's differing response which boils down to natural basic biology.
listen I've been applying his suggestions about nutrition and feeling better, inflammation is going down and have had no PMS. Thank you John for being so generous with your life changing teachings
You explained so well ! Thank you for explaning this. I wish every men know it. I was so tired how they make me feel there was something wrong with me. But actually it is about i can not get validation and produce enough estrogen. I am so tired of doing everything by myself and being my own man.
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I honestly cannot say how much his stuff is right! Totally matches with the things I naturally do to make myself feel better ( what increases good feeling female hormones)
I love you Mr. Gray! PLEEEEASE talk about your new marriage more. I am in the same situation with my wife as you. She is from China and 30 years younger than me. I think your insights would help me and offer a little comic relief. (John married Lin Wang on May 4, 2020. She was his tour guide and translator for years when he was in China.) There must be so much he could share about finding love through these very different cultures, dating habits, and their age difference.
First time I heard him talk. He has been around for quite a while. About time I got educated. Never did get to the relationships tapes he made when married to Barbara De Angelis. Never read his famous Venus/Mars book. Have to get his sequel and read it cover to cover. He speaks from science and biology. All about the timing of male and female hormones! So insightful. I am dumbfounded. All about the timing of what and when to speak. He has it right. A little more info that could be of help: Know that an Aries wife has to be right. Check out his strategies to work with, not against, that trait. Allow her time to cool down. Keep your cool. A hot brain cannot process even peacemaking overtures. Never wimp out. Know that a Leo man is a king. Sociable. Loves parties. No attitudes. Stay sociable, even, to diffuse discord. Stay prepared with an arsenal of relationship strategies to try out. Moods come and go. What doesn't work could work next time. 😊 Remember Ma and PA Kettle in the 50s movies? The actors worked well together on film. The characters respected each other's talents. Be great if we could be complementary to each other instead of conflicting. John Gray delivers a menu for understanding each other. Rah. Rah.
This presentation was great! Favorite 🤩 part was when you described the stage of a women’s PMS and estrogen. That was me a few days ago 😂 “You never do anything fun with me.” (But he did last week) 🤪
Thank you that was funny and an informative talk. I liked the fact he used real life examples and experiences. How our male and female hormones play a major role in our behaviours to each other and the balance that can be achieved. 🙏🙏🙏
It's true...I love his books and there are big differences between the 2 sexes! And it's the magic of "Knowing" the differences!!!!! You just have to learn how to work with the differences......period! Men are simple in their minds and women are alot more deep and complicated......Reality, folks...face it😊
Dr. JONH GRAY, I ENJOY SO MUCH YOUR TEACHING. YOU BEEN HELPING ME TO UNDERSTAND BETTER MAN, SOME OF YOUR TEACHING, IS NOT EASY TO FOLLOW! HOWEVER, I WILL TRY FOLLOW YOUR ADVICE, IT'S SO MUCH TO LEARN, IM NOT A YOUNG WOMAN, BUT AGE IT'S ONLY NUMBERS, AND I WANT TO LEARN ABOUT HOW TO LEAVE WITH A MAN, THAT I LOVE! IT'S WORDID TO TRY! GOD BLESS YOU, DR JOHN GRAY. ( YOU MAKE ME LAUGH 😃 SO MUCH.)
@@ramatine Exceptions only? Maybe it's you and your own energy that draws to you what you believe, so you end up thinking like you do. Most of the men I know are not like you claim. In my case the exceptions being how you think they are.
I absolutely love listening to Dr. Gray! He just gets it!=) On minute 13 of this video he said he was walking with his wife and a group on the amazon and after walking for 5 hours, they all started saying they were exhausted of walking and that they couldn't do it anymore, when he pulled out this little bag of white power and told them to take a little. My question is what kind of white power was it? Is this bag what I'm thinking it is or is it something i miss from other videos? -Cris
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So true. Been married 12 years and tried to changed to female and was difficult to me to letgo of control of finances as past trauma made me believe that my husband is not good to provide for me. And i did not know how to male him help me. And i want to be finamcialy independed coz man ripped me off. Only fun games was in his mind. And he always said that i complain. And by saying that he shut my mouth for ever. And we divorsed as i did not enjoy to have sex with him. Life was empty and i would love to man but i dont want to teach him that skills or understanding to support me. And i dont know how to go about it myself.
I'm 61 female. I'd really really like to know how or what I can do to naturally increase my estrogen. I've never married or had children and haven't been close to a man for years. What can I practice in my life as a 'solo' to have/feel some estrogen/femininity?
Thank you John for this powerful relationship conversation. But correction the (Sabbath)is Saturday the 7 the day not Sunday the first day and we were created by God as man and woman in the beginning , we didn't evolve from an animal. The truth shall set you free.
He can be true in the biological level but humans are complex being man and woman. Psychology has a big part too, each individual is different, with different specific needs and motivation, triggers and stimulations. Overall we just want to feel understood as an individual especially by someone we love.
I True! I knew of a two couple in their 70' s n 80's had a gd sex life every week throughout their marriage both look young n radiant! The husband is happy, fulfilling and seems contented!
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I believe in me, a noble Qur’an between two spouses, I mentioned two verses from the 14th century ago, the biography of the Prophet, the seal of prophets and messengers, he mentioned everything between the spouses.