The dude is the mere definition of "simp". I feel sorry for him, b/c he's only getting the "spousal sex", whereas some stud out there is banging his "5 out of 5" wife...
Guys I hate to be that guy but I listen That guys (Matt) podcast every day. He was being sarcastic. I mean its great to have discussions of relationships but for you guys to just shit on his marriage without knowing anything about it is just weird. If you got cheated on as "ElBulgaro" might have by talking about she's getting railed by some 5/5 stud, I'm sorry. I like TRM but some of you guys are just kind of sad. I hope you find some light at the end of the tunnel. (Or rope if you're as sad as you seem).
This hits the nail on the head. I was listening to Jocko's podcast when he was giving this advice and instantly thought of Rollo. Thanks for the breakdown. I'm so glad I found the redpill. I can finally stop spinning my wheels and start getting some traction.
The reason men don’t look beyond looks and availability, is that men are not predatory, we are not looking for someone to support us and for someone to love, we are to idealistic for our own good.
I'd rather be wanted for who I am (even if it's just my looks) than just being wanted for what I have. Women don't have to worry about men only wanting them for their money, their status, their education level, or their possessions.
The reason men don't look beyond looks and availability is because the resources we seek are children (thats innate doesn't actually have to be the case but thats the underlying drive). The mating strategies for men and women are the same (genetics and resources) they just manifest in different ways. Men want a young beautiful woman (genetics) + a mother to produce his children (resources). Women want a handsome tall man (genetics) + a man who can provide security for her and her offspring (resources). One could argue that the traits that bad boys have aside from the genetics part is the leadership/status part because that is also a demonstration of security and falls into the resource category.
@@doh917 you do have a good point but i think the error is in the assumption that women seek bad boys because of their leadership/status. Bad boys are more often failures socially and financially, the only trait they have in common is aggression and this implies that women are seeking bad boys for the emotional high that i gives them and not good genetics.
@@red.samurai The concepts of "bad boy" being socially and financially failures is because their traits are not conducive to a more "polite" modern society. Its prehistoric traits in a modern world. But the biological urge doesn't change which is why people are often confused when they see it in modern times. The blue pill conditioning is ultimately (as well as any type of religious structure) is a disciplinary tool for men because the natural state of the world is constant conflict and strife. The 7 deadly sins show this as they are human impulses. They are described as sins because that would be make the world more harmonious but those instincts are still present in human nature. The same basis behind democracy. Ppl just accept democracy as an optimal solution for governance but it is in its true sense an allegory for war with the idea being that for a battle for rule the majority of people would kill the minority of rule therefore to avoid the human costs humans would decide to just accept the voting system as a social contract for rule.
🕛TIME-STAMPS🕧 0:00 Intro - Disclaimer 7:00 Red flags: A difference of judgment between the sexes 19:10 Jocko Willink clip breakdown 25:15 The pitfalls of being a necessitous man 30:00 Men's enormous expectations and ignoring red flags 40:35 Good judgment comes from bad decisions 50:35 The Matt Walsh Show clip breakdown* 57:30 The dating scene - Women are spoiled for choice 1:07:05 Contextualizing the sexual marketplace 1:14:05 Men take on MORE commitment than women 1:19:00 The old days are gone and a men sacrifices 1:26:30 Outro
They will, when they realize all the women who notice them only when they have something going for them. Women who were riding the CC while ignoring them.
It seems insane to me how these trad cons have no clue about the bottom 80% guys. I was one of those, which is why I feel so strongly about these things. It took me a solid 5 years to build myself in terms of looks, money and status to somehow climb into the top 20% and experience the other side. As soon as I hear a guy talking about p*rn addiction and problems I know he has NO CLUE about the male psychology and what’s the root problem here. Those ethots on twitch, onlyfans, Instagram “models”, Snapchat and tiktok thots are FAR more dangerous to these beta guys than p*rn can ever be. Thank you Rollo for showering us with your wisdom, we need guys like you at all cost in this blue pill world
@@oldsalt524 nah 5’10 - height of the champions. My attitude and body language is that of a 6’5 guy. That shit takes a lot of time and experience to build. 8 years of solid training and martial arts, having a mid 6 figures+ income, reputable status and social proof combined with deep understanding of red pill. If I can do it, any motherfu*ker out there can, you just gotta want it bad enough
I disagree, and think it's a little much to harp on trad cons. I think it's easy to do so when your examples include high profile trad cons like Ben Shapiro or Matt Walsh. But, most trad cons are like myself, I believe, where politically they align with Shapiro or Walsh, but in terms of women and intersexual dynamics they align with rollo, Kevin Samuel's, the roommates, fresh and fit, etc. Keep in mind, being traditionally conservative is a political stance. Being red pulled is not. I know plenty of guys who are blue in their politics, but red pilled in their views regarding men and women. And the opposite is true.
Getting jacked can EASILY pull u out of the 80%. But i have fat homies with game that have kids too. They weren't pulling 10s but they were stacking 2s. All pussy is pink lol.
It really is amazing how many red pill guys rip other now red pill guys for sharing previous experiences from blue pill days. A lot of the content creators can be repetitive but most guys are a bj away from oneitis. Repetition is necessary.
Yeah, I broke up with a girl 2 months ago cause shes just not right for me and I have to fight the urge to try and get her back even tho I know she's a disaster. Hard to change the mindset but imma doing it
51:27 This is the hardest I've laughed at anything you've ever done. I don't know why. Maybe because I've never seen you break the fourth wall like that. Who knows, but good lord...so funny.
Got back into dating after a long hiatus of living life and looking after my dad with dementia. Ended up with a cutie 17 years younger, I'm 57. Totally got caught up in the rush of it. Ignored red flags and was semi simp. It ended before it started because she lost attraction was the main reason and her ex hovering was a secondary reason. I've spent the last month in a deep dive of self improvement going from one end of the spectrum to another. I'm settling in but still am figuring it out to some extent. This video has helped so much. The box of wine and cats comment nailed it about her. Working hard to be 100% red pilled. THANK YOU!!!
This reminds me of when I was at a party and a girl approached me, albeit fairly drunk and wanted to have sex. I refused until I was eventually was drunk enough myself to say yes. Afterwards everyone I knew blamed me and said I took advantage of the girl.
Wow,sounds similar to an experience I had. I was at a party of about 25 people. This little petite,cute white girl walks up to me all bubbly "hey,you look familiar". I was repulsed by how hard she was coming on. I thought quickly and told her "you look like my sister" and she said "I don't look like anybody's sister!" And she stormed off 🤣🤣🤣
Rollo, seriously bro. You just go from good to better and better. If only the Petersons of the world took note. Well done bro. You deserve a Nobel Peace Prize.
When George Bailey asks his wife *"Mary Hatch, why did you ever marry a guy like me?,"* he's not being corny or cute. He is being self-destructive. But a lot of conservatives unironically think it's a great line.
One experience that made me laugh was that a female said to me i was so lucky to be dating her friend and how good looking she is . I replied hell - she is the one who is lucky !! I',m the good looking guy. And then i was told i was the one being bigheaded haha. God help it if a guy points out that he is above the female he is dating !!! haha
Great episode Rollo, about the disclaimer nowadays people get upset really quickly when you criticize someone they like. Im a fan of Dr. Peterson but I do not mind any of your criticism because you are not an dishonest person. Thankls for the great content.
I did get full Red Pill Aware around March. I'm experimenting with game and I think that between the pillars: looks, money, status and game; the most important one is "game". In my case I'm pretty fit and I maximize my looks, but I still have a lot of work to do with my finances ( I'm doing the work ) and from what I'm experiencing; game truly works ( even when I'm still a beginer ). it gives you a big advantage over blue pill men.
Congratulations on being unplugged since March. I agree with your assessment. Game is the most important of all the elements constitute a man’s SMV. I think that this is not emphasized as much in the Sphere as it should. On a 10 point SMV scale I estimate that looks only account for 2 points. Game works and is essential to maximizing SMV.
@@viralt487 I'm not doing cold approaches for now ( I will do that in the future ), but I'm using the techniques everywhere I can, specially being cocky and funny and the push pull ( the most important ones ). The best youtube channel on game I have seen is todd V dating, so I'm incorporating what I see there in my life. I did fail sometimes but I learn from that. I understand the shit test and I don't get intimidated by that.
Their only point of reference for how men behave toward women have been (either mostly or completely) assholes. So of course, they're gonna raise their sons to be everything OPPOSITE of daddy and/or husband.
They can't/won't do that if there is a good father figure around. When it happens, it's either because the dad isn't around or the dad is a weak beta himself.
@@bravo3279 Take Sex out of the equation.. it will equal the field... Sex gets used as a bargaining chip.. focus on the friendship.. that's what I'm doing. Of course I'm almost 50 and it gets easier the older you get
@@askyourselfwhatdoyoureally3542 I'll second the easier at 53. But they get uglier. Sometimes its tuff to get excited about hangin with the ladies. But when they call you up with concert tickets and lube, it's not easy to say no..
I'm not even sure 1950's or whatever was some great traditional era as it's idealized to be. From my own family history I know all sorts of stuff my grandparents were up to. Same with great grandparents and great great grandparents. All sorts of secret children out of wedlock and other stuff has been discovered. Parents, aunts and uncles finding out about half brothers they didn't know about and all that. My great great grandfather I know loved working for the railroad because he made good money and had a ho in every town along his routes.
@@coiledsteel8344 Yes I think the argument could be made that some of the societal and culture norms kept some of that suppressed and in check to a degree.
Statistically speaking it wasnt the norm We have mountains of data to back that up Did it happen? Sure But it wasnt common nor idolized Im not saying the 50's were ideal But traditionalism was the norm There were many other issues that caused, however Think about it this way: if the 50's werebt wrought with fundamentality, then what were people rebelling against in the 60's?
Kevin said in his latest show: 'women want to date Will Smith, but bang 2pac', I think he listened to Rollos last show, he should quote Rollo more and give him credit, like Myron does in his arguments/points, not fair
1:12:23 - I think there is a misunderstanding when it comes to the term “talking”. When people in my age group (I’m 23) say they’re “talking” to someone it means they’re dating non-exclusively or not seriously. So they probably are banging. When ppl ask me about a girl I’ve been hooking up with I’ll say, “yeah, she’s a girl I’ve been talking to.”
"There are guys that don't...." I.e. not being Red Pill aware. Honestly, I think that is still the significant majority of men these days. I'm just hoping more younger fellas are discovering the manosphere so they can at least arm themselves with knowledge so they can make better decisions in their lives.
I was hoping the same and I've been seeing it. 17 year-olds are cracking open the RP. I'm glad to see that. I was close to self-deletion and I would have never stepped on the edge of a volcano if I had known these things at that age.
@@gregoryrowlerson8457 top 10% of men who are are at least 5'11 with a redeemable personality more like it... kepi on being a fucking incel forever though... Nobody really cares
It was good advice. It's really really easy to then add all the faults in the points but notice Rollo offered no solutions, just criticisms. He does this a lot and whilst like and listen to rollo, it's like he always has to position himself as top dog.
@@0ccam5Raz0r rollo offers plenty of solutions, but not every video requires an emphasis on solutions if the focus in the video is on root causes, or - as is the case here - is a rebuttal to a popular idea, concept, or deeply held belief. In this video, solutions aren't conducive to the video, because he's merely rebutting the idea men should be blamed for women's choices
Man the way he summed it all up with the Dance analogy at the end, brought all the mountain of information home. Everything said has been said many times before, but this one was awesome.
Thanks so much Rollo! I'm actually having a tough time listening to all these guys. I use to listen to Jocko but I can't now and now listening to Matt I am struggling to take in his info not because I have become entitled or anything it's because what they are saying.... just does not work... It's almost the majority of men and me include have lagged behind in social interaction. Women have just surpassed us if I can say that. They know now how to socialize with us to get what they want out of us even more and we end up like "I don't understand what happened?!" Blah blah. You Rollo with your RP teachings to men will help us catch up to women and even the playing field but time will tell for sure.
I loved her man. I never loved anyone the way I loved her. I loved her all my life. She crushed my heart and my spirit was severely damaged. I’ll never believe in a soul mate again. Lesson learned.
I moved to a new city about 14 months ago . The first week I was here I saw this gorgeous woman and approached her . She wasn't interested and came across as a arrogant cold fish . I got over it pretty quick . She walks by my house everyday . Each day she looks even more miserable and alone as the day before . What a blessing it never worked out . She's about 35 and doesn't look like she's smiled since college . Looking for love in a deeper well these days .
That's not the answer for everyone.. Lots of average looking dudes make six figures and hate their life and want to blow their brains out from time to time due to experiences they have had with women and just society in general
It is interesting to see how it basically everywhere the same. Maybe africa or some arabic states are different. But here in germany it is absolutely the same. As well in japan, parts of france, great britain and generally the western world. But even in china and india there are more than 70 million men who do not have a partner. South korea and russia reject a lot of feminist stuff as well as china. But the western influence in terms of the male and female behaviour is extremly strong. The german woman has a catastrophic birth rate. It is below replacement. But in south korea china, russia and japan it is even worse. So strong is the feminist agenda today.
100 years from now... the history books will have given this period of time a name... a period of "x" something. And I hope that the dangers and lessons learned are so deeply ingrained into the future society that it parallels with religion. As manufactured as religions are- they did and can serve a purpose to the greater society. A person is smart, people are dumb. People need guidance. This fact has been proven over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over...
@S ess Yes this was the beginning. But i talked to people from china. The asian men are not "super manly". And the western influence is very strong despite all the censorship. They have the same problems with dating apps. At least the women there are more blunt when it comes down to money. They will ask you to show them your bank account. Russian women are close to that. I have to know, i am half russian. If you aproach a good looking russian woman and you do not have a private apartement in moscow, she will outright laugh at you. (Because of that a lot of men take huge loans to buy one.) I remember the russian meme, where a girl was shouting at her screen, why all russian men are so poor. She is so beautifull and because of that she deserves better. We had this kind of memes in germany too. It does not matter where you are right now.
@@ege6300 Nobody takes the churche seriously there. Defenetly not the women of the newer generations. While russia from the outside seems conservative the influence of the west is extremly strong. Imagine russia like the USA without the LGBTQ stuff but capitalism *100. Everything is about money. But 2 times stronger than in the USA. No middle class. Only Very poor and very rich people. A lot of men are so poor, they can not sustain a family and so they are no partner or marriage material. The russian women are trying to marry a western guy, get the green card and a lot of them try to instantly divorce you after they get their green card. Furthermore socialism ingrained a lot of the "feminist" talking points in the generation which are around 30 or 40 now. Russia has one of the highest male suicide rates and one of the worst population replacement rates.
@@Navinor Bro first of all thanks for sharing insightfull informations honestly. I really needed this. I always thought Russia is conservative because i see Putin on internet he greeting the churche or he greeting crowded families but the reality is different i guees. Can Putin make Russia conservative again? He looks like doing big moves from a foreigners perspective. Can i found a good wife maybe in rural areas? Maybe Siberia or more east. Where people dont have phones , internet or computers. I want to tell a little bit about my situation. Me as a person who have greek and bulgarian ancestry but borned in Turkey. Its totally similar with the Russia your telling. The government try to look pro islam and conservative but the %80 of young people are atheist agnostic and they admiring very sinfull and lustfull lifes. Dr*gs, group s*xs and stuff. Me im a 20 year old petroliumand naturel gas engineering student, i was thinking about migrating to Russia because Russia has gas anf petrol. and maybe marry a Russian women in the future but im not sure any more. Maybe i should go villages in north? I dont know. Please share your opinions. Oh and we dont have middle class too. Our enflation is %50 and my family is certified poor right now. 3 years ago we were upper middle class.
Responsibility....the true price of success. Always works for me....walking away from the wrong ladies proved that....NOT walking away from many of them totally proved it to be correct.
And someone should pay attention behind the lines what Matt said:"10 years ago when i was still dating" or "I am lucky that i have a wife like her" its as if he thinks he is settled for life and there is nothig else he must do as a man from now on. And perhaps that could be true for him since he is famous but can this be applied to most men nowadays? I believe it cant.
He's moving more and more into rap territory. Will Smith, 2pac, "she's gonna need a babysitter", and Nas used to call himself Nastradamas. I like Rollo. He's my nigga.
lol I went out with a girl not too long ago who on the first date told me she amassed 3k likes in her first 24 hours on Tinder. Got so overwhelming for her she just deleted the damn thing. OLD isn't really a struggle for me. But men, and certainly naive men like Matt, don't understand the level of abundance even average looking women are working with. And no, it wasn't "courtship" or "manning up" that got that girl out on a date with me. It was being direct (we were out on a date within 24 hours from matching) and being deemed the best option -- at least for that night.
@@matthewscott4629 I am not hard pressed. I’ve seen a tinder account of a very attractive female friend of mine. She had gold, to avoid swiping and only interacting with men who super liked her or wrote a message (platinum package). She had 9999+ likes. And men want to fly out to see her from all over Europe.
I escaped a blue pill marriage in evangelical church world, no kids and no divorce machine took my money, thankfully. And I have to say, that "making me less to build her up" is *all over the place* in evangelical churches. It gets tied back to "less of me, more of Jesus/God" from what I remember.
You need to get Jordan Peterson on the show. He’s honestly smart enough to conceptually understand this stuff. As a psychologist he should honestly be beyond intrigued by RP thinking. I can’t think of a better teacher than Rollo.
That Matt Walsh part did not turn me into a conservative. I went from liberal to conservative to centrist and now finally, to a political nihilist. Because none of those three are nearly as objective as the nihilist (looking at you Jordan Peterson)
As much as I like the advice coming from channels like this the unfortunate thing is that there really is no one size fits all: -Some girls love a guy who has things going on and doesn't answer a text in 8 minutes, others will legit think you're an evasive bastard who doesn't value her presence and be back on her Tinder profile after a certain amount of time. -Many girls love getting pinned down and basically stranger fucked in an alley with you, others will think it's an awful experience regardless of how well they know you. -Some girls are super hot for the man who listens and uplifts her, others will lose their damn minds and think he listens too much and has too much time to listen to my problems because he doesn't have enough going on in his own life. I basically dated someone undiagnosed bipolar/BPD (all the signs and symptoms there) a few years ago and I am still looking over my shoulder to this day and checking my tires. The short message here is...do what works and get the fuck out of there if it doesn't lol.
@@bigbrooklyn Thank you sir. There's definitely an 'It' thing that 99% of girls won't turn down which spawned the Chad meme. But ultimately when they're serious they find the bad boy convict pretty unlikeable and uninteresting. All about how you present yourself initially to her and if you're too worried about what she'll think.
This is why I am in a STEM field, we seek the truth, no matter how it may affect others! How can anyone make the best choice, if they do not have all the information, to make the best life choice for yourself! Worrying about how others feel, never comes into the process of finding the truth and facts! Society allow Fefails to do what everyone knows is the worst things and choices, for building and making a healthy environment for a family and children! Society allows Fefails to out right Destroy, and still they are never responsible! This is why I walked away, because men have less rights then Fefails!
Matt Walsh, Al Borland called, he wants his look back and Tim agrees. Also, I am not married and also am not involved in the dating scene today Matt, that is a decision, not a privilege only for married people.
Always hitting it on the bullseye, been here. Left a four year relationship because I swept so many red flags under the rug. Now I have a woman that will do anything I say and she wants to please me. Set yourself free men.
Rollo,I want to thank you for giving the Father of RP Tom Leykis a shoutout. Many content creators repeat his words verbatim and never mention him. Kudos to you,don't stop what you're doing.
Rollo once again the godfather. F&f and rollo are not afraid to give men uncomfortable truths as well as women. It’s the 21st century and all these old order way of thinking of modern dating drives me nuts. Trad cons & blue pill alphas are driving me crazy.
Lot of red pill expects people to change years of behavior over night after unplugging but it takes time to change the prior blue pill mindset that’s running in the background. Still have to make mistakes until it’s your new lifestyle
Do your homework gentlemen. I am stuck with a lemon and it’s miserable. Other men and ppl in general tell me I need to change everything about myself to accommodate her and it’s total bs.
You can’t vet women with certainty. She might be ok today but people change. Also women have a high propensity for dissatisfaction. She might think her partner is ok today and tomorrow she grows tired with her husband. This is reflected in 70-80% of women initiating divorce.
A good friend of mine (who is probably more blue pill than red) stunned me many years ago when he stated his belief that women are more vane than men. I am not so stunned by that today.
@@ahmarcamacho8404 No, I really meant “selfish” - a pun on the seminal work by Richard Dawkins “The Selfish Gene” on evolution and memetics. Our Professor Emeritus has pointed us towards the direction of Evo Psych - and for a reason. Even the seemingly most Red Pilled mind is at times unaware of perpetuating the ideas of Gynocentrism (as we see in the examples he gives us). Hail to the Godfather for unplugging us!
I fucking lost it when Rollo looked into the camera at 51:30 after when the podcast host said his wife was hot. Its like fucking clockwork 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 so glad i found this channel.
