This stuff may work for A man that had his mama "mother" him. Ideally alot of BLACK or Hispanic man DONT like to cuddle. They call women like this that u describe as "CLINGY " and they HATE it. They actually cheat on women that do these things. These men would call her desperate for attention and to CLINGY and they will rip a woman to pieces and break her heart. They walk all over a woman like this. May be u should atart off with describing THE TYPE of man that wants these things. Bc a man that has been neglected by his mama, abused or mistreated, will NOT want this. Or appreciate this. This actually sounds like this is stuff a woman wants.
If this seems exhausting, you haven't found the right man. You will want to do all of these things if your guy is just completely amazing and worthy of this treatment. Just don't waste time on men who are really not that great. Find GREATNESS.
@@upgrade1015No most men don’t, a woman will give to her detriment and death, and he will take her for granted and literally suck the life out of her , most women are nurtures and don’t mind making their men happy , but a lot of don’t appreciate it and take advantage of that!
There is this man called HG Tudor who is very authoritive on Narcissistic cementation and of course Narcs would love this throw in a good bit of empathy and you will be ensnared.
I do all these things and always have, but if it’s not the right guy, if he is unhealed and is toxic in how he approaches a relationship, it’s not going to be appreciated and you will be taken for granted. This is what I hear “you’re too good to be true” “you’re out of my league” “I don’t deserve you”….so they run out of fear b/c ultimately they feel like it’s safer to leave first than to be left. They fear rejection due to self-worth issues and insecurities. What happens is they only realize what they had when they lose it and it’s gone. When a woman who exhibits these traits is gone and they try to move on with other people, they start to realize what they truly had with this special woman was unique bc no one else is able to give them the kind of love and care they had when they were with this special woman. Then they try to come back, but most of the time it’s too late. I’ve had countless men try to return again and again, trying for many years, but I was done and it was too late. Moral: appreciate a good woman who has these traits and show her how much you love her every day. Don’t ever let her go, bc a woman like this is not desperate. She knows her worth, knows what she deserves, and she is not afraid to walk away if she is being treated poorly, if someone is playing games with her, and is choosing others over her.
I hear you Angel..you are soooo right. Im 9 mnths in relationship with a man who gets ALL of this from me...I feel Im just getting the crumbs from his table..he says " no matter what happens you ll do just fine"...." you re so warm and wonderful, any man would be lucky to have you"...Yada Yada Yada..Im thinking of ending it..stepping away..hes just doesnt make me feel special ....👎
@viviennethorpe1035 When they talk like that, they don't see themselves with us! A guy told me something like that in a sweet romantic letter, but he didn't say I would make HIS perfect wife! Pay attention to what they say & how they say it!! Because otherwise we're just hoping for something that won't happen! Not right then anyway!
Exactly my situation with my recent ex & every other guy! I don't want him anymore because he didn't appreciate me when he had me! Nor when I was sticking around for almost 2 years!!
TRUE!!! This MAN doesn't realize that there are alot of men that HATE this type of woman and will abuse her and hurt her!!! This video is dangerous for women!
1. Giving your full presence 2. Words of affection 3. Cuddling and intimacy 4. Caring about his day 5. Noticing when his mood is off 6. Gentleness 7. Being willing to hit the reset button 8. Being loyal and trustworthy 9. Being natural 10. Willing to take risks 11. Improving yourself 12. Taking care of your self and your health
This should be a list for both humans to do withing one relationship. This is not what makes tbe man chase, this is repect, love and showing that you care about the relationship. Those are basis and then you can build on this.
I noticed that everything you said is what I want in the man I'm with. My guy does everything he shouldn't do. It's like guys want woman to do all the things you said for them but they don't do any of them for us women
Cuddling and intimacy in front of family is probably uncomfortable for her for a lot of personal reasons. You should have asked her instead of judging her. My family loves to shame and judge PDA is extremely difficult for me in front of my family
You DONT want a man to “desperately chase” you. The opposite of ghosting does NOT mean chasing. Someone chasing you, is a red flag. It gets worse. Run. Look for normal ladies, not ghosting, emotional unavailability nor chasing. Look for NORMAL. Why are influencers encouraging women to want being “chased”???
Ding ding ding. The only men that enjoy "the chase" are predators. Playing hard to get only drives away men who will be respectful and issues an open challenge to the fuck boys you hate so much
Regardless, that does not mean he chooses you. If his goal is to enjoy life without commitments and experience different women, most likely he will follow his own plan despite your characteristics or behavior .
Number 12 is tricky because I can´t take care more than fibromyalgia allows me to do. Sometimes I like to be totally painless and then I drink some alcohol. = Mental health for me and my friends.
I believe these things come naturally if you care about the person you are with. If it's phoney it's a game and you are not really caring about the person.
Listennnnnnnn...as a older woman...no, not happening. Not interested. It either connects or not...nothing is needed. Do not need you to chase me...Please!
This may sound kinda crass or too blunt but things I’ve learned about keeping and attracting a man is 1- fill up his stomach 2- empty his balls 3 fill up his heart with gentle love 4 empty my pride 😊
This is a healthy attitude to take. I, as a man, absolutely despise chasing. And I definitely don't want a woman that's servile to the point of "blind loyalty". I find that sort of relationship dynamic repulsive. I think women should see being good at flirting as a red flag. Flirting is not a fun character trait, it's a skill that you only get better at through practice. And trust me, the only men practicing that skill are fuckboys
@@eleonoraivanova-kd2zbyeah, no. Sex is an important part of a relationship. I feel sexual attraction looooooong before i feel romantic attraction. This attitude is just going to get you more aggressive fuckboys
That's because this is shitty advice. Don't go for men who are good at chasing and flirting. You only get good at those things by practicing them, so do you think a good flirt is more likely to be a good guy or a fuckboy?
The example you provided for #3 of your ex girlfriend not being affectionate on the trip but was affectionate in other moments. Did you ask her why her mood was off like #5? Maybe she has family issues or went through something difficult and instead of asking her about why she was distant, you made it about yourself not getting intimacy. Wouldn’t it work both ways?
I really like the values you represent in creating the possibilities for a loving relationship…. However - I took your quiz and results are anything but free…. Still - your videos refresh the important elements within each of us as individuals and how to be or become a partner for life.
I feel it takes the right person. I feel a woman can do any and all of the things he said in the video but if you are messing around with the wrong guys then none of this will ever work. It only works with Mr. Right. Mr. Wrong will never appreciate these kinds of things.
I don't know how this is possible, but I fell in love with someone I knew 20 years ago. I don't know how to find him and my heart is aching for him. I miss him so much that I'm crying. How do I find him?
LMAO! I've done all these things because it's just who I am, and he still runs. I'm at the point where I'm just going to give up now. He knows where to find me if he's interested, which he probably isn't.
Did all of these things- as this is who I am - without knowing or trying to keep him- he still just ghosted me despite us having SO much in common and the same sense of humour. I think his life must be a lot poorer without me!!
Men need more than just having stuff in common. We have friends for that. If you want more, you need to venture more. Sorry, but a pretty face isn't enough for you to leapfrog out of the "just casual" stage
All things a woman wants. I wonder how many men, percentage wise, work on personal growth, and relationships. I'm guessing less than 30%. Soo many men have the 'take me as I am' attitude. 🚩
Blimey! Spinster alert, I'm bloody exhausted just listening to this list. Listen chaps make me a great cuppa that looks & tastes like treacle. You - name within reason. If I'm your brown eyed girl. I've got your back & front. "Let's make a rendezvous", Basement Jaxx 💞May 14, 2024
Hi Brody, thanks for the video, very interesting. What do you think is a good way to bring up criticism with your guy? I usually refrain from that bc i don’t like it…but what you said about hitting the „reset“ button I noticed really bothered me, bc my ex would keep asking me that. He had a severe lack of self-reflection though, you may call it narcissistic. He wouldn’t recognize his own behavior as problematic even if it war truly abusive, so I kept trying to convey… In other words, if I’m expected to hit a reset button about things that are still bothering me - how is that supposed to work well?
@ primavera558 Take a video of his behaviour and show it to a minister an abuse counselor and anpoloce officer and get their comments on it? Video their comments? Show to ur doctor too. Then ask mate do u want to 1. Turn urself in to police as abuser or 2. Get reg counseling with checkups fr these people...n sign him up
I better not make comments right about my person except that i am so ready to get to know him better. I like that idea of setting a reset button. Someone must be doing that to me now. I have already wrote 3 or 4 comments that slipped away from me. I am feeling love ❤sick. Dear Lord, I thank you for all you do for me. I am following your advice now. I am letting go of all my worries and hoping you can help me by sending me healing, knowledge, energy, creativity, tenacity, wisdom, harmony, magic, blessings, intuition, positivity, humor, compassion, shapeshifting, and more times 10.
I'm overweight cause I was injured while I was crossing the street,a man stopped to let me get across, but he was rear end.Both of my legs and my left foot were run over.I have been chatting with a man online who is very good and handsome.Shd I reveal my weight
This is great. As you spoke, o reflected and realize that I am in a good relationship. I'm divorced as he is. We've been together for 11months . Both divorced 8 years. And ❤️ I don't know if we want to get married. I am successful and so is he. I'm good with being at his house and vise versa. We're apart 2 nights out of 7. Kinda funny but it works. No rush. Will see...lol. we are exclusively in a committed relationship. Talk all the time. Every day. See each other 5 days in and out of the weekdays.and weekends. He rest at his house and I let my hair down at mine. It's a good thing. I'm in no rush. We're both 60. Above average incomes.
What if you’re already married to the man? I’m really struggling but I’m trying to keep pushing forward. I used to do all of these things but now I don’t bc he keeps doing one thing that keeps hurting me. He drinks to much at times and we do great other than that but it’s once or twice weekly and won’t change.
All of these things should come naturally if you love your other half you body thoughts naturally find their own way around each other’s bodies don’t need guidances from an outsider no offence intended I know I can do a great job on my own thank you keep up your good work ❤
Hello there,me n my man we have all these in our relationship, however at time he is a bit weird in a sense where i feel him doing things only when it pleases him.!!!we re living at 1000 miles away but whenever he feels having me over the phone i always make a room to that!!but with him it a different story!!!offlate a just turnoff my phone coz i wouldn't take it from him
Be good to do a little something regarding covert passive aggressive narcissists...they are worst at being the best at fooling women. A lot of what you present feeds them big time, until the love bomb phase passes, and when it does, run!
I have a Question! If a man is so profuse in his love for the woman , saying all those love messages to the woman but the woman who is deeply in love with the guy, does not have the capacity to give in to te demands of the guy who has a child who wants something from the woman like for example an expensive gift, and the guy who says he loves the woman, suddenly leaves the woman without waitin g for an explanation , can you say that it is fair? And his love for the woman is only lip service?please I need your advice on this!
You definitely don’t want to do words of affection with every single man! Not every man is receptive to that and not every man is the one you should say it to. Just my two cents anyways!
I listen to some of your discussions that sound interesting or u want to know. Like this one. It helped me a lot know what men chase after in women. In my last relationship all was going right but something changed and he ghosted me. It's been 4 weeks now. It's over! I haven't had much relationship experience so nothing works out with a man. I guess #9 is my problem.....Thank you!
Some of these points are just basic. But keeping up with all these directives sounds like a full time job. I don't think all of us are made for relationships.
Why do we want to be desperately chased. I’ve never been desperate over any man. I am enough just as I am to attract not just any man but the one I want. This makes women look pathetic and needing a “man” to tell them how to act 🤔
