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I'm not mad at it

@@na-qh2bf me too

and it is good

Facts. I need therapy and don't have health insurance. Wonder if I can sign up

Preach sista

My dad molested my brother. But he died from a heartattack while sleeping❤️

@@Slysnail5339 I'm sorry man... 😢 Hope things are better now in your family.

@@Slysnail5339 I'm praying for you, that God will give you strength day by day, your heart is beating right now because you have a purpose in life. So go out into the world and be a Blessing to others!

rainhat Feminism has nothing to do with this issue sooo

In pulp FICTION Marcus gets raped

I really dont think any of them were randomised

@@genetaylor5368 I think that's his point. I too was a bit confused as to how everyone of them read a letter of which they could relate to (in a, let's be real unusual way). I think though 50% of them wrote letters and then Jubilee found compatibles for their letter

Letters to people who could relate to it

Thank you

For the men who are still virgin ...Nothing to be ashamed about. I wish I did stay virgin as I initially planned, before giving it to my first love who in exchange gave me 2 STDs. The excuse of boyfriends that I had after him did not deserve my intimacy either...Since then I decided to remain single because of the delusion of love and what I believed it was.

Yeah and they always talk about it like it's some kind of competition, that's why virgins feel bad because they feel like they lost (at least that's what it feels like for me)

@@katonadani99 Naah man dont feel like that i am 23 years old and i am not ashamed of it i had the chance few times but i still see it as nonsence to waste something i have inly once in a lifetime to someone who does not matter.. Be proud of yourself bcs the first time.is.something special dont waste it on anybody just so you can say U jad sex... Have a good Day/Night and keep on keeping on 👍

@@katonadani99 for me its not the fact that I "lost". Its the fact that everyone makes fun of you when you tell them. Litarally every single person I have met and told, which is basicly everyone I know, has made fun of it.

I am actually an Aromantic Asexual 19 year old male who has never dated anyone and wants to stay a Virgin my whole life.

@@theluckyone831 Thanks man, that made me happy

"I myself can relate"

Me too

It's more easier to tell someone's story than telling a story about yourself

Why do i feel like they are reading my secrets*

@@elongated2761 well said...

Apparently, “Being Human” and “Human Being” are absolutely not the same. Not exactly sure why ...

Best RU-vid comment I have seen

When women are abused, they are hurt twice. Once by the abuser and twice by society for telling them that they shouldn't have wore what they were wearing, that they're lying, that they're ruining a man's life... the list goes on. I think it's the nature of society as opposed to which gender is abused. Not invalidating your point btw, rather adding to it

@@jem231 I agree. Also, women are told to forgive the abuser. Stay with the abuser, that's whay I was told. It is also difficult to get into a DV shelter if you don't have a child. That is unspoken about. People think it's so easy to get into a one. I'm homeless right now. When your "family" is abusive, you are always blamed.

Alrighty then

Can we get an F for cats.

Too true

Oooh, that hits. That's a truth I've never been able to put into words before

F

only *pretty* women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally ...

Damn that really cut deep. Thanks for sharing this. I'll remember this one.

@hamzah anton no

@hamzah anton cause no one will know who they are, they will be anonymous and their image wont be altered

Sold your brain hamzah ?

Brian Waweru wow

Yeah it's no big deal really, everyone finds love at different points in their lives. Myself, I'm 25 and never dated anyone. I could've dated in high school but didn't really care enough to do it. It's kinda the same still for me now. I could go out and strike up a conversation with a woman but I really don't care atm. I'm happy with working for 40 hours a week, coming home and talking/playing games with friends and gymming. I'd be perfectly fine being alone for the rest of my life too. I don't want kids and I love living alone/having my own space I don't have to share with anyone. Whatever happens, happens

Michael Bradley I mean at the age of early 30s is the best age to be married at so u still have many years

Michael Bradley Well yeah you chose to live alone I can respect that, but the guy doesnt have a gf not cus he didnt try but because he cant

@@bogdanstojanovic2540 some people are just meant to be alone. I've tried dating , and I realized many who've dated me are just curious about me, none of them wanted a connection,they just wanna expand the social network. Till now, I still don't understand why do people want to have so many friends and such a large network? For what? The only true friends that are gonna stick by you in the end are less than 5. It's quality over quantity. Sigh, no one nowadays seem like they want to bond or have a connection anymore

@@michaelbradley2550 You chose to not date, the guy chose to date but failed. There's a difference.

Don't be! Men, please do realize that a man showing emotions actually displays confidence in a way that women want confidence to be shown. In a way that is attractive to women. Most men mistake confidence with dominance or with being cold and heartless, and untouchable. Then they wonder why they still don't appeal to women, who find that kind of person a cold, heartless ass.

@@sylvanathornton2119 if we show our emotions then we would probably get bullied and made fun of

@@sylvanathornton2119 which women are you talking about? Most women bail immediately when a guy cries.

@@sylvanathornton2119 That's a lie.

that me too

@Monkey Nibba At 18 that's not unusual. You likely don't have anything to worry about.

@@ClellBiggs I'm 22 and never even held a girls hand. Should I just give up and embrace the solitary life?

@@oblivion9520 Nah, that's still not unusual. You'll probably be fine.

@Step Bro Help I'm Stuck! Depending on the person, barely staying alive can prove to be insanely difficult. Terrible things happen to people, they happened to you too I assume. For the you that you are now it may be a great burden to bear. It's okay to have these dark thoughts as a consequence. However, with that being said, I really believe that there is more to you than you are right now. That there is a you that can overcome the situation you are in right now, no matter how hopeless. There is hope for change, even if it's just a small step, if it can alleviate the pain just a little bit that's alright. Keep going. You'll get there. You have it within you. Please don't give up on life, for despite all it's ugly and pain, there is also beauty and things worth suffering for.

I don't want to be too personal but maybe you should seek therapy?

aesthetaeguk yes!!!

Guys:I feel so bad for her Girl:why are they acting like little girls

!!

aesthetaeguk not. abad idea

@Roxus if you are telling the truth then"god bless you"

Coming from the guy who had like 6 wives(sarcasm)

Idk it this quote is famous or smthn. But I'm going to try living by it! Thank you Mr!

“Cheat on your wife while she is dying from cancer and proceed to marry the other women when your wife kills herself because she doesn’t want to be an interference to your life” - Dr. Seuss

@@nicktran7490 You probably don't even like green eggs and ham.

it's really a powerful quote, thanks for sharing

Love you too

No homo tho.

You forgot to say no Homo dude 😂😂 love you too *NO HOMO*

live long and stay strong king

Much love homie

Thank you! I'm so glad to see a man stating this. And I tell you what, the high majority of women will actually think higher of a man who cries when the situation warrants it. That willingness to show humanity displays confidence in a way that is very attractive and relatable to women.

“people cry not because they're weak, but because they've been strong for too long"

@@sylvanathornton2119 not true

Then there is no woman at all

Not just women, society as a whole. I think for a lot of men, they can’t cry.

I wonder how his aunt looked

Naraira98 L

@@rio-fu2ro why

Marauder it was like every boys dream

DopeShits LoL to be honest Yes!

damn. nice one.

Yea maybe your right but it still hurts being a lonely virgin

Watch home alone 2 when kevin tells the rollerblade story to the pigeon lady hun.

Sexist misandrist. Men suffer too. I hope u keep suffering even more!

@@wisesensei9741 but why? Instead try to be a better person and without trying girls will come to you , it's ironic but never chase girls and be direct do not give hidden signals, stay away from platonic chatting and always stablish that you're there to be a potential partner

Once the stereotype is gone, men will just be a bunch of cry babies who when told to man up, will just snap back and say “I am confident in who I am”. By the time all men realize that crying is a strength, it will Become a weakness. Crying is only good until the stereotype is dismantled.

​@@amiablelampamiablelamp2245 How did you miss their point entirely bruh?

@@buddy9684 wdym

Eh, it depends what he's crying about.

@@amiablelampamiablelamp2245 there’s something wrong with you

Me!!

Me too

This is something I really want

Christopher A Tajudeen I could use 2

Yep

Stressed Judge Bøy ||-//

Well they are reading one's close to their own experiences

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Plot twist, I'm gonna hit you with my back hand instead of my forehand.

yeah its seems that way

That's when it's important to take note and make sure you create a culture with any family and friends you may have where those lessons are passed on

yeah

I envy you

Here is a big hug bro🤗

There is nothing to be ashamed about.

There is a dating app for ppl in your age, try to google it, i forgot the name

I’m sorry to hear about that. But it’s ok, you can still be awesome single. Stay strong man, I hope things get better for you

Like other people have said, you aren't missing out on much, in fact, a whole lot of people want to be in your shoes right now. Live life, save money, and have fun. There's more to life than humans and emotions. Focus on yourself king. -A person with no contact with the outside world

Judo Jason Temple I'm very sorry that you had to deal with this

If men are raped, it hurts more than women because most men tend to have sexual contact with the outer part of their body but if they are raped (I'm sorry I can't help but use this language now) a dick goes inside of their buttholes which feels like all your skin is being torn apart or atleast that's how it usually is especially if you're a virgin

@@saums because women are not raped through their butthole? Stop comparing sufferings. Rape is equally traumatizing.

@@saums It's equally as tramautizing, It's equally Emotionally, Spiritually effecting. It also hurts alot

I'm a girl, and I support that all the way God bless

Adie love and companionship is overrated and can seriously hurt you. You just have a different view of it from the outside looking in. Find peace within yourself before looking for love.

Adie you can't give someone else love from within if you don't fill your self up with self love first. Be gentle with your self

Same I'm almost 21 and I'm a virgin and never had a bf before it feels weird but I see Its not so weird

Kiki Gam it's actually very common nothing wrong with it at all

When I met my boyfriend he was 25 and had never dated or kissed anyone, people just have different timelines, doesn't really say anything bad about him, just like it doesn't say anything bad about anyone else who hasn't dated.

But you DID have the high ground.... so....

Ahhhhhh, General Kenobi!

Yea but you still had the duchess of mandalore who wanted you so its was just your monk ways that were stopping you general kenobi.

Biologically it is a big deal.

Sex/dating/being in a relationship/Marriage isnt that important.

fax

Lately the word "king" seems to be popping up. But when someone tells that to me it feels like a participation award and it makes me feel worse

@@user-ps4ky5ki3t yes, its just weird and cringey

Yeah

fr

I feel like even mentioning the word 'manliest' is inappropriate here...

@@blop-a-blop9419 so true

SIMP

That just means they’re building an ineffective shield and they let things get to them

i feel like people constantly underestimate the crap men go through cause they literally don't know. The world makes it seem like it's some great shame for men to be open and have feelings and just not be the stereotype

Seems like that's what society wants us to do

Pourya Bigonah on you’re everywhere

I see your comments literally everywhere.. God....

no you are not. but keep virtue signaling roastie

"stop the societal expectations for men" wtf do you think that means? just remove all true sterotypes that are made to keep men like this from existing??

To be fair they're the ones who created these stereotypes and expectations and now they're the ones suffering.... as a woman I rlly feel like were just the supporting cast in this horribly directed movie lol its hilariously sad

@@foreverconfusedandkindacute yes they are the problem not women but blaming them it's just gonna makes things recycling

@@foreverconfusedandkindacuteatriarchy is set by men but doesn’t exactly apply correctly nor advantageously for al men. Some women may profit off their position in patriarchal societies. Not all men profit off such systems

Thank you😊, My girlfriend broke up with my today and i was looking for some positivity. Ps its great to read all the stories Stay strong bros and sis

@@sstff6771 you too brother, stay strong especially now, wish you the best

@S K Thanks bro, that means a lot I happy that there are people like you, stay how you are. You are a wonderful human being

I’m glad you found someone!

@@sstff6771 sorry to hear that man. Try to stay strong, things can get better

You can be part of the solution by getting rid of that "real' men

@@umbra014 You can be part of the solution by not forcing real men to choose what you say, based on your ignorance.

@@rmountains3519 What is that even supposed to mean? My point was that you shouldn't say "real" men cause all men are real men.

@@umbra014 All men aren't real men. A lot of men are boys in adult bodies. You can go away now.

Bayonetta wrong real men are masculine strong alphas who don’t let any man or woman physically nor mentally beat them

yeaaa he is right... i am 26 and never dated anyone or had sex with anyone...and i dont feel bad about it...being with someone who loves you for real is more satisfying and rewarding...we all are gonna lose virginity at some point...everyone takes their own time...

@@kunalthe100 I am the same as you, 3 months until i turn 26 and i will wait until marriage

A real man cries at his wedding

the longer you stay single the longer they will f*ck your future wife....

@@NathanielGidacan i will marry a woman who has this same idea as me, so i am not interested in girls who don't keep themselves.

I wish the best for you, Mia. I actually relate to the second (I believe so, because there was already one guy before him) secret. I've never dated anyone, I actually tried to get into it, but I feel like it was somewhat forced and rushed at some point. I also don't wanna date just to date, I want to get emotionally attached to that someone first. Tbh, I don't know how can people just randomly date someone without feelings for them I believe getting to know each other first and growing together is a whole new level before dating someone just because you want to, and not about feelings

I hope he texted back )))

Did it work? :)

Atleast you are women and men are seeking out for you As an lonely virgin nothing will happen to ne

@@RaZoR7i7 some women don't get "seeked" at all

“Peoples”

@@ImNotWealthy peoples is a word dumbass

women are encouraged to abuse men...

@@jcliff8415What do you mean?

Men are discouraged from talking about their feelings... by other men.

How is it better?

NFXDESTRA He resolves them in healthy ways rather than internalizing them and lashing out in other ways.

Of course it’s terrible! With friends it’s not a matter of gender on whether I care about their mental health that’s what being a friend is all about.

Women just get the spotlight and I feel lost

As a woman, I aspire to be strong enough to be able to be leaned on by men, especially for my future partner. I want to be strong and independent enough to be relied on so men around me won't have to carry the burden of always protecting me.

I’m a woman and men don’t have mental problems. they have to be strong and cannot be sensitive

@@michaelhuerter1921 man up. Why should a man act like he needs attention? It is very bad

rosé love it seems like toxic masculinity is still stuck in your mindset, stop equating men being "normal" to anything opposite of being affectionate/emotional.

@rosé love men and women are biologically different. Women are way more emotional on average. Now back off

@@user-vy9tk8yb9o please let me state that biological difference doesn't mean one sex is emotionally stable and the other is unstable...it's the norm for men to act tough no matter what.

@@ananya9931 no one was claiming that. Please let me state that way more women are emotionally unstable and way more men are emotionally stable. Women are naturally more emotional and men are naturally tougher. That does not mean they don't have feelings though but let's not pretend they are just like girls

@rosé love sucks that you want nothing to do with me, Im just trying to live like everyone else.

@J-Dog The Beast me neither but I'm thirteen so idk gl I gues

@@Bmboo_ gtfo

J-Dog The Beast you need to learn to attract girls then my guy

@J-Dog The Beast just curious how is it with females in the military cuz i feel like sometimes when guys are talking about something they wouldn't want females to hear they get annoyed

@@KeinAlias877 wowa dude that's rude calm your ass don't lash out on others

I feel you bro 🤝

I also dislike it strongly when people say toxic masculinity does not exist. It DOES and causes immense heartache in some way, shape, or form for the majority of men.

@@BabyBugBug Is there a definition of what non - toxic masculinity is?

@@seeker3357 oh yes. This what you see in this video. Openness about emotions and not being shamed to show them when something is wrong and seek help when you need it.

@@BabyBugBug But i see that as healthy behaviour in general, not something masculine specifically. I'd like to know specific masculine traits that are healthy and seen as "manly".

@@seeker3357 healthy masculine traits include decisiveness, courage, strength, and determination. Unhealthy traits include emotional distance or absence, adherence to the “tough guy” stereotype, aggression, anger, over competition, and promiscuity. It is mainly the lack of being in touch with emotions and over aggressive behavior meant to “help” the male deal with an inability to process emotions that create the problems we have with masculinity.

As a woman and feminist i'm so proud and relieved to see this kind of video being done we been waiting for this

as a woman. im proud too. proud of this channel and this comment section.

Risingofthephoenixx x Piss off feminist.

A B do you know what feminist means or are you a butthurt 12-year old that has watched too many ”feminist gets destroyed” videos?

@@stefanrosu9735 Feminist basically means blaming men for everything, which is proved time and time again by their actions. No one cares about dictionary definitions when they do NOT reflect the actions they partake in.

I'm sorry that happened to you. I believe you. I hope you're doing ok (and if you aren't ok that's ok too). Help is out there. - from a girl

One of my closest friends was almost sold for drugs. He means the world to me, and I care about him, and I am sorry for you have gone through.

yeah but who cares were men wage gap blah blah

where u from?

My mom almost did to. She literally had the man infront of me (I was 10) and we're making the deal. I think she was gonna sell me for like $1000 and they mad plans on when. I was at school when my social took me away. That man is out somewhere and ik he has other girls but I'm to scared to tell anyone.

That was me, and i thank you for your compassion Gemmi! ❤

i love this line. in awe.

@@rizzamaeong yea I found it in a TV show lol

hi kyle lowry

@@aidan8870 hi

bro i can relate to this so much. people are sometimes just to negative, even when im down, i try to better my condition atleast.

You should keep fighting, it's gonna be worth it in the end, Idk why you'd be single if you really tried though, it's not fair

I've been there and it's really hard. I think what helped me get passed it was understanding that vulnerability is the path to happiness.

Same.

I feel you!

same :( im sorry

Don't do it . It's not worth it . There is someone for you who God will send at the right time and that person will bring you all happiness you deserve 💗💗

There is nothing wrong with who you are. Life challenged you, but you are still here sharing your story. You are so much stronger and beautifull than you think and there is always someone out there waiting with love. I wish you the best, keep going ❤️

If you ever wanna give up, Give God a chance Pray and he will help

I hope you are feeling better, suicide is never the answer to lifes problems when you are feeling down talk to a close friend or someone in your family who you trust. Change you life and work toward a goal. Depression is a right sob I get it from time to time due to my ASD but I know it will pass. Try meditation and yoga and other things that will help you. Best of luck.

I will just post my other comment here and then add a note to you personally. " Because for men in our species popularity with the opposite sex is determined by the number and/or quality of his partners. And the popularity of a woman is determined by her appearance. This is related to the fact that even an ugly guy can get laid a lot and even a hot guy can stay a virgin. And your popularity equals to your social status. We are very competitive animals and the different treatment is just part of how different our sexual strategies biologically. There is no conspiracy against men, lol. This is also the reason why most virgin guys, even those who are "ashamed" about their status, would rather stay virgins than hire a hooker and experience sex. They don't really give a fuck about sex, they care about their subjective social status in their own head and they wouldn't feel that they "won" by buying sex. " I at some became fed up with all this nonsense, about how our emotions work in a primitive way. So I just lost my virginity with a hooker, then slept with other two. After that it became much easier to find a girl to date. I learned that sex isn't such a big deal. But you can't stop putting it on the pedestal until you actually experience it by yourself. It is overrated and not worth suffering over not getting it. If you aren't skilled in sex it is also very possible that it wouldn't feel even as good as masturbation. There are a lot of things in life that are more meaningful and enjoyable, just do them.

I'm 19 and i have never dated lmao , no big deal 💔

22 here on the same boat, it does not matter focus on your dreams man

Aye man we all rocking in the same boat, you’ll find the *one*, one day trust me

21 ..same🙂

Not trying to sound like a douche but most of the times girls well anyone can usually pick up when someone else just wants something. Girls aren’t going to feel attracted to you if all you want is a relationship status w/ them. You need to have actual similar interests, friendships or to have an actual bond w/ this person. Don’t force anything if it happens it does

That's touching thanks for sharing this story with is!

Lmao 😂 😂 😂 HAHAHAHAHAHHA! Dude.

Keith, I'm cryingg

@@6ig6ird71 Yo even if it is possibly a joke for him. It's not a joke for others. How about you think before you go laughing at that situation.

@thomas bicket what are you talking about?

Saitama: haha

Vulnerability = Strength You libtards are really tards

@@dorime669 yea i agree these guys are sissies getting made fun of all the time and be treated horribly what a bunch of babies

It really isn't though... In fact, it's pretty much the opposite.

Your wrong. These men and any person (man or woman) will go through stuff but that doesn't make you vulnerable. Strength is pushing through toughness, not sulking in it

LMAO FRR

Pourya Bigonah Damn you're always early af

Yup he is. Or she, which ever it is.

if only

the new justin y

It is, but it is seen as a weakness, men can still cry, but do it sparingly and don't tell anyone about it.

Haru Yanto facts, don’t let nobody see u crying

Jonabob Yeah but you cry when someone dies or something like that not because someone calls you ugly

@Richard Casterly If a movie is very strong and I can really relate to it, why can't I cry?

sttonep IKR. Crying over a bad day is not ducking petty either. If you have been a man than im sure you would know it builds up as you keep hiding your emotions than one day it's just too much and you let it all out from when you kept hiding it for even months or years or whatever. Something petty would be your brother wants to play the xbox after you have been on for 8 hours or some sh*t crying over a bad day and especially over a movie is not weak. Infact if you cry over a movie then atleast you have emotion and it's not sad or depressed crying. You don't need to 'man up' for such things. There are petty things though but not those things

Matt TheDestroyer 2 either that, or more men than most people realize actually go through these situations, making it more likely for them to relate to other traumas. Insecurity in men is much more common than many believe.

I think that way is better since they can give advice to each other or show them theyre not alone

Tara Hobbs ehhhh maybe not, did you notice that some of the men sitting in the chairs didn’t get to describe a secret? maybe Jubilee has hand picked their secretes they wanted to release along with the men’s opinions and relation to it?

or they picked themselfes

@@MrsSankta yeah that too

Anthony Brown Im so sorry to hear that... Do you want to talk about it?

Anthony Brown what did she do

predator Hunter 316 Didn’t you read the last part? He doesn’t like talking about it?

You don't want to talk about it brother but please know that you are loved

@Anonymous sorry. All I'm saying is that your not alone

true that. disciplining them and helping them to find responsibilities to adhere to and challenges to train there characters to would also be great.

Peter Sayatshkin disciplining them fairly and in the same way you do a woman

Jesus Christ you still drunk

hey, I can relate and Im really proud that you show your real deepest emotions. Imagine if you wouldn't do it at all and bottle it up the whole freaking time.. Take time to really think about the most important values for u, the purposes, and things that make u happy, things that u want to fight for. Find yourself and never be ashamed to express your real self. Good luck and love

As a woman, I feel sad that most guys feel that. All I can hope is for everyone to speak up to express what they really feel. I think vulnerability sometimes can be a beautiful thing.

yup that's me thanks man! (or woman) I really appreciate you taking the time to write this :)

Leonor M ..thank you❤️i hope as well these very toxic gender stereotypes will leave in the near future..

CesarChicken I understand where you’re coming from :/ I feel like if I tell someone how I feel they will not understand and silently judge..

Adventure Society i hope everything gets better for you

Letting criminal have a pass and in return destroying a good man's life because you were bitter about your past does not help too. Just because you love your mother you don't have to get raped by her boyfriend, what kind of love is this? And yes I am a man raised by a single mother too, my father passed away when I was child. My mother never bought a characterless man in house. This may sound too harsh, but I guess your mother dont have sense of character she always choose wrong, abusive, and characterless men to begin with. Ask your mother about her all relationships you will definately find similarly in choosing a partner.

There are only bad people and good peaple, all men aren't evil and all women aren't angels as society teaches us

Your story is trully saddening and we care for you. I am a guy in my early 40's and I can assure you that this world is filled with kind men and women from any ages and races who care. Pleae try to change your situation. You can do it. Lots of people will be helping you.

Change your situation. That's all you can do. Eventually, it takes it's toll.

Fuckn patriarchy, I am sorry but your grammar LmAo

Fuckn patriarchy, are u mentally sane ? There is nothing wrong with having no sexual desire

you live in a fantasy world where all women are the same and want the same things in life - what women want and what they believe in are just as diverse and different as men @@khalidsamu

Ah but when a woman goes thru a crisis and seems „weak“ the man leaves her yall gonna hear what a monster he is.

A stronger guy internalizes everything and grows from it without having to share it with the whole world....

@C, boy it’s better to talk about your feelings than hurt your self to be a ‘stronger man’. All your doing is becoming closer to what society wants you to be, instead of becoming closer to what you want to be.

@@thedarthknight5161 lol no, todays society every man tries to be a sensitive liberal, i have my own thoughts, im open minded, and im strong asf. Bad things that happen to you are not bad unless you humor them and make them real, look at bad situations as things to grow from, no one wants to hear you bitching about bad things like your the only one.

C, I absolutely agree with that last part which is why I’m such a mess

NERD

After a while it's just about not feeling alone

It isnt about being cool. We all want to feel it because it is in our DNA. We need that affection and being deprived from it can really hurt

I wanted to do it with someone special and that special person has never come around - by special I simply mean someone who could return my feelings. At this point I'm considering just doing it with a one-night stand.

The problem is not being virgin but being unable to have relationships that leads to sex

Diya RI legendary comment

I think they gave em secrets that close to their situations

4th guy: I was raped as well

@Legendary super Saiyan Broly definitely didn't get a nevermind

Their own stuff

Marrow Talk to a trusted person like a family

BEGONETHOT Tbh family never understand the way you want them or even need them to...

@@rwhoosh1122 Family minimized my issues too talking to family did not help. I told them of my depression countless times I actually tried to take my life fairly young in my life at about 14 years old and they still didn't take me seriously. Family can be useless and make me feel worse about my problems. That's what happens when you don't have supportive families.

It's hard man just find those who you trust you know sometimes a stranger on the internet can be good but just dont bottle it up I had someone I knew commit suicide recently and I don't want anyone to end up in that situation if in know them or not i mean it's just harder for us guys to talk about emotions anyway naturally but even if you dont realise it you have people who you can talk to just have to find the right ones

Johnsrocknvinyl77 I hope someone will understand you

dog days fr, jubilee is so important for today

ThatLiamo it’s the SJW’s

Cuz in the diluted eyes of feminist men don't have struggles

Because men revealing things that happened to them and emotions isn't liked by society

@@maximusdossantos5947 @cartohead Or people who are against gays as it was mentioned in the video. Or people who believe that men should not be emotional or show their vulnerable side. Or it could be radical feminists. It could be a spectrum of people.

@@cajunsphinxgaming1759 If men have struggles, it's because of the....surprise, surprise. You know it: the Patriarchy!

Yeah, but usually males do not care about other males feelings because they can barely hold their own and cope with them. It's sad but true.

@antwinettec all my male "friends" ditched me, motherfuckers been studying with them since kindergarten. Men are as bad as women in some cases and this is one of the cases where they're the worst

@av rmx a better judge... " I've been with them since kindergarten I'm 19 years old....

CVG GAMING i’m gay, i get along better with females because i can relate to them better. not every guy is the same

av rmx wow you have no education

Emotions are a part of our nature so you don't need to feel guilty about showing them. And about your Dad maybe it could be that he wanted to be strong for you and that's a noble thing to do.I personaly just lost a friend too, I know it isn't the same thing. I think it's okay to show emotions and allow others to show them too if they want to.Its okay to let it out. I hope this can somehow help you. I wish you Best of Luck in life and never stop trying to improve yourself even if it's hard you can always see beautiful things in life.I believe in you😃(Sorry for my english and for my weirdly written text)

I definitely understand that this year i lost someone too and i definitely felt like i wasn’t being a man but i kept telling myself that we all deal with grief differently

Grief is nothing to be ashamed of it shows you loved them and valued their lives. Showing emotion is not a bad way to express yourself.

In 2019 I lost my grandmother my dad my cousin and my uncle but the death I was affected by the most was my dad male family members kept telling me not to cry and that we're men and we have to be strong but it's been 3 years and now I'm crying like a baby almost ever day I've suppresses so much emotion that I feel like I cannot contain them anymore

No xDD

I think you should word it differently. It takes courage (a manly feature which women also is able to have) to show and talk about feelings. Its part of the human condition and quite essential for a normal life to communicate your inner thoughts. I wouldnt say its the most manly thing for a guy to do, since manliness is somewhat subjective to the individual. Just take a look at women, what do they find manly and you will have widely different views of what a man is and how he should act, depending on where in the world you are.

An opinion if I've ever seen one. Speak for yourself, bud.

how is it a manly thing if women are so good at it? nothing wrong with expressing your feelings, but it's not "manly".

That is completely not true

That's it in a nutshell.

It's objectively easier to be a woman. It's 100x harder to be male.

Dual Citizenship Senator There's nothing objective about it though. Male or female, we all face problems. Some more than others. If you take gender out of the equation, you'll find we're all more similar than we think. We just need to try to understand each other.

choosei male and female brains are completely different. So were more different than related

Both genders? Women are playing life on easy mode, while men are in nightmare difficulty, veteran if youre handsome.

I’m also a trans man. You are man enough. If your family says their there for you and support you, I’m sure they do. Maybe they’re just getting used to it still. And what happened with your friend, it wasn’t your fault. And you are strong for getting past it

people see you as not a man because you arent a man stop trying to be something you arent

TRANS RIGHTS🥰🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🥰

@@NahNo-xy2kq no

I feel like its not that relevant for most men though. It speaks more to the minority.

who cares about that

i think its a huge disrespect towards the gay and straight men to put in transgenders, they cannot ride the same boat about feel not masculine enough, trnas people have the trans card to show why they dont have sex or why their voice is higher or why they act feminine. REAL men dont have that card

sokolowitch where is the trans one?

sarah siajibckx no, you see we have testosterone too. It’s just supplemented. I absolutely hate anyone knowing my birth sex since .... it’s the definition of invalidating my masculinity. I have gender dysphoria which makes me even more insecure in my masculinity. My feet are too small, I’m too short, my voice is still not deep enough ect. My family puts more pressure on me to look the part, to seem manly enough that they will respect my pronouns. It’s not easy, and we have similar struggles. (Id also recommend saying trans men as you didn’t say “the gays” about gay men)

Lil Francy I wish we could remove gender stereotypes

@@rwhoosh1122 why though? Why can't you feminists accept that we're different. You guys should seriously stop trying to force something that's not natural. Men and women are not exactly alike enough to erase gender roles or stereotypes.

Isn't the wage gap more important?

@@Jono1982 Every Problem is important. And Problems related to Women Rights are VERY important, but this doesn't mean that girls only think about their rights. Speaking for myself what i want is equality.

@@dishingoutls8137 gender roles and gender stereotypes are two different things. Gender roles are behaviours learned by a person as being appropriate for their 'group'. Men and women have different qualities in some things, you can see that in many species. But gender stereotypes is something that we as human beings created and that can be (as you probably saw in the video) toxic and alarming. Gender stereotypes have made men scared to show feelings because 'It's not manly enough'. Gender stereotypes have made men scared to dress a certain way or do a job they like because 'it's not manly enough'. That doesn't have to do with feminism not accepting the differences between men and woman. Of course there are differences between men and women, but those are called gender differences, not gender roles or gender stereotypes. Gender stereotypes are just oversimplified images of how a person or group should be and/or act. That's something that changes over time and cultures. Gender differences on the other hand are cognitive, unchangeable and biologic. So yes there are differences between men and women, but it has nothing to do with gender roles or stereotypes.